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It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women are represented in horror is a gateway of understanding how women are treated by society in general. Through the strength of the Final Girl, the three women have become empowered to leave bad situations, speak up for themselves and others, and say goodbye to politeness if it means they get to stay safe. A sampling of the movies, with spoilers, that will be discussed are Men, Barbarian, Bodies Bodies Bodies, and Halloween. Trigger warnings for body horror, sexual assault, and domestic violence.


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Natalie is joined by her dear friend and witch mentor, Cate (Practically a Witch). Cate and Natalie will discuss the privilege to find yourself aging and entering your crone stage of life. There will also be some personal stories about how sacred they found the relationships they held with older women while they grew up. Other topics will include beauty standards, creeps getting older, and the power women hold because of all the things they’ve been through.

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Amanda and her husband are survivors of child marriage. She joins Natalie to tell her story of how she ended up forced into marriage at the age of 17 illegally. Topics of this episode will include child marriage laws, teen pregnancy, using religion as a tool of oppression, and how to ensure the laws we live under are actually protecting children.

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Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) makes a stunning return to the podcast to review Practical Magic 2. Natalie and Julia will dig deep to discuss themes that were found in the movie, even if they were only lightly touched upon. They will also talk about all the hopes they had for the movie and what they would have done if they were paid to write the sequel for Natalie’s favorite movie.

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Hey, Team Tolerator! Here are all the ways you can be apart of our community on Patreon and a little preview of the content you will find there for this month!

Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

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Natalie rewatched all of Desperate Housewives, got super irritated with Tom Scavo, and immediately knew she needed Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast to come do an episode on this iconic show. Natalie and Margaret will rank each husband on Desperate Housewives on their problematic tendencies. There will also be discussion on how important it is to see middle aged women be represented on tv, the secrets we keep in suburbia, and what Desperate Housewives taught us about love, life, and marriage.

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Podcast: Smash Hit 
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Kat Steinberg (She Media) is helping us define the trust economy and how it fits into our current media landscape. Kat and Natalie will discuss what it feels like when you’re living during a time where you can’t trust the media surrounding you. There will be discussion of women who have been targeted by negative media campaigns with a concentration on Chappel Roan, Sabrina Carpenter, Taylor Swift, and headlines from the past that affected Britney Spears and Amanda Bynes. Discussion will also include how the media portrays women and the negative connotations about womanhood we have had ingrained in us through our media.

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SHE Media Instagram
SHE Knows Instagram
SHE Media website

Ellen Moore returns to the podcast to talk about her advocacy for herself when it comes to getting the disability aid she needs to survive. Ellen gives Natalie an update on her health and the process she went through in order to apply for disability aid. There will be discussion on stigmas people with disability face, how hustle culture affects our ability to rest, and how people can help Ellen as she goes through the process to try and appeal the decision that she cannot receive aid.

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Team Tolerator, the podcast is officially coming back! I know the feed has been quiet and here is your explaination as to why. We will be returning with regularly scheduled episodes next week!

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Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. They talk about the emotional labor women take on within relationships, how toxic masculinity contributes to gender norms in relationships, and urge listeners to remember that everyone should feel cared for and seen during a romantic partnership.

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To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Freaky Friday starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis!

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Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!

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Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister misogyny lurking behind the pretty facade. Shanaz and Natalie will talk about a lack of body diversity, low pay, women being in competition with one another, women being a commodity for men, and other ways misogyny presents itself within DCC.

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Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?


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Author Rae Wilde joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic relationships, horror stories, our current trying times, and more!

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Website: https://www.raewilde.com/
Instagram: @_rae_wilde
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TATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape has changed as women’s expectations for relationships and dating have evolved as they do things like de-centering men and honing in on their own independence and power. What will it take for men to catch up to being able to appreciate women who are confident in themselves and their standards? You’ll have to watch Julia’s romantic comedy lifestyle to figure it out!

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Patreon

Team Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing new content! New episodes will resume on our free feeds in September. See you over on Patreon!

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Ami Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of Theodore and Samantha and how misogyny plays a role in their relationship. They will also tackle topics like our reality living with AI, how misogyny presents itself in tech, how we’ve changed how we build connections to one another, and our definitions on what makes the love we feel for others real. So watch a movie and then connect with us about all the ways we connected to an unlikely love story.

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See available workshops on Break Out Sesh

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See available workshops
Sign up for Script Club
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Lynn Harris is the owner and founder of Gold Comedy, the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and other “others" build their comedy careers, join a powerful community, and make funny stuff that gets seen on all kinds of stages and screens. Lynn and Natalie will discuss the ways misogyny has affected comedy, why it is important to have diverse voices in the comedy space, how comedy improves empathy for others, and personal anecdotes from their lives as funny women.

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Check Out the Build and Pitch Any Idea with Ryan Cunninghamhttp://myrootabl.com/r/6NSafUPN?rootabl=nataliek124 
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Kristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is the perfect choice for discussing all the complexities around the discourse of season 4. Natalie and Kristiana will have a very nuanced conversation about Taylor Frankie Paul and her cancelled season of The Bachelorette. There will also be discussion on why no one wants Dadtok to be a thing as well as why Natalie has such a hard time buying into the show and how she’s constantly worried about what’s being portrayed as “women empowerment”.

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Kristiana’s article on SLOMWhttps://www.instagram.com/kristianawithak/?hl=en
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Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. 

We have a WHOPPER of a Misogyny Roundup this month!Topics include:

• Christina Koch and her trip to the moon
• Chappell Roan existing and men being mad
• 62 million reasons to be a misandrist
• The Supreme Court's refusal to ban conversion therapy
• Summer House and Scamanda
• Everyone should see The Drama
• Protecting ourselves from men centered people
• Advice on how to make men more uncomfortable

The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our free Patreon tier!

We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our YouTube Channel 

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Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media. Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of lines given to male characters versus the female characters in the show. So she started tallying and collecting data. Jess will go over the ways Geena used her standing in Hollywood to meet with executives to bring light to how little women were being represented in media when it came to their male counterparts. There will also be a discussion on what quality female representation looks like in film, how the institute eventually expanded to collecting data that would represent other marginalized voices’ time on screens, and other women who have pioneered paths forward when it comes to getting women’s stories told. 

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The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment. Natalie and Dr. Valerie will discuss all the negative effects living in a misogynistic culture has on the body, mind, and heart. There will be talk about how these negative side effects manifest within our everyday lives and the toll they take on our health. There will also be discussion on Dr. Valerie’s work in creating ways for women to heal from the trauma caused by Patriarchy.


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Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the Tits Out Tour, they knew they had finally personally reached the best time and also Kesha seems to be having her best time as well. Topics of discussion will include Kesha’s reputation in the music industry, her legal battle with Dr. Luke, the healing she has done, and why Kesha is someone to be admired for her strength against adversity and how she inspires hope that you can fight the system, feel beaten by it, but still find your way to peace and happiness.

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Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. 

Our bonus episode for this month included the topics:

• Kristi Noem
• Timothy Chalamet
• The women of the Olympics
• Chelsea Devantez and her film, Basic
• Getting over disappointment
• Love is Blind Ohio
• Secret Lives of Mormon Wives S4

The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our free Patreon tier!

Tara Jabbari (Who Was She Podcast) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick flick. Tara will use the films as a way to discuss how masculinity is presented in the films, the strong storylines rooted in the immigrant experience, and how women quietly held power behind the scenes. There will also be some moments where we can all just get a little hot over how good everyone looked in this trilogy.

And as a bonus feature, Tara has shared her pitch deck with all the visuals and movie clips that are referenced in the episode! You can find the deck at this link. 

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Who Was She Podcast
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Nicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast Bubble Bath Stories are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of the conversation will be why Natalie isn’t team any of those men, the dating tropes that each woman fell into during their story arc, the importance of having a group of strong women by your side, and why Carrie should have definitely accepted that check from Mr. Big.

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Kat Sass is a drag artist, makeup artist, costume designer, teacher, tv and film personality, event host, and their creativity knows no bounds. All of those topics will be discussed with a special focus on how misogyny affects your life as a drag artist and as a creative in general.

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Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.

Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!

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We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin (For Why Games) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The two friends will relive their favorite moments from the show and talk about the show as a form of queer representation in the media. They will also discuss how the show had them reflecting on their own experiences with love, audiences reactions to the show, and the discourse that happens all over the internet because of the show.

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Megan Metzger is a comedian from Chicago who has recently gone through a divorce. She joins Natalie on the show to walk through the misogyny she experienced within her marriage and what the future holds for her. The problem with that future? Megan has found it really hard to be attracted to men or want to spend time with them after her divorce. Dating, relationships, women’s experiences with casual sex, and more will be discussed as we try to find the solution for how to have a physical attraction to men when you don’t actually like men all that much.

*For this episode, there was an audio issue on my end and my track ended up muffled. My philosophy is that in real time conversation is always the priority but I do apologize for the audio quality.

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Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is being a teenage girl. Within the conversation surrounding Sailor Moon, they will also talk about the hierarchy of girlhood and how they experienced girlhood as young women and ways they’re reclaiming it today. They’ll also discuss other treasured franchises that were celebrating young women while they were growing up.

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Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.

Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!

How to Support TATMITB:
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Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to dive deep into her feelings about Glinda now that she has seen Wicked: For Good. Natalie and Julia will discuss the deep amount of empathy Elphaba holds for Glinda, even when Glinda is still siding with Oz and taking the privileges that come along with that choice. They will also discuss Glinda’s path to understanding it isn’t enough to entertain the thought that there are oppressive systems surrounding you, eventually you do have to do some actions to bring about change. There will also be discussion surrounding how the media serves as a reflection of our society as well as some troubling thoughts on our society’s diminishing media literacy.  Was Julia sold on Glinda being changed for good? Listen to the episode to find out.


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Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

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Sarah Intelligator is a family law attorney and author of the book Live, Laugh, Find True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship, By a Divorce Attorney. She joins Natalie to talk about all the things she’s observed from couples who have solicited her help when they make the decision to file for a divorce. These observations have led Sarah to have some clear cut do’s and don’t’s on how to really be intentional on finding the right partner. In this episode, she gives some solid advice on how to pay attention to the important details when you’re dating to make sure you’re a good match.

How to Support TATMITB:

Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

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Sara Caplan is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman show, “What is a Woman: A One Woman(?) Show” to Gen Con 2025 and Natalie was lucky enough to be in the audience. Natalie and Sara will talk about transphobia, the philosophy behind gender roles, and their experiences confronting people who are so rooted in their identity because of the gender roles they have committed to.

How to Support TATMITB:

Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

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Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for all TATMITB content!

This mini-episode will be your guide to our new tiers and how you can ingrain yourself in a community of people who are as tired of tolerating misogyny as you are! Be prepared for this year to be filled with more bonus content than ever before and to be a place I celebrate all the things I've learned about myself as not only a podcaster, but as a writer as well!

BIG SPOILER ALERT: One of the last announcements for this episodes is that anyone who is a paid member of our Patreon community will be getting a handcrafted friendship bracelet from yours truly! You didn't think I had ran out of beads, did you?

To join in on the fun and to read our first newsletter, come join us on Patreon and make sure to say hi in our free chat once you're done signing up!

Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another. 

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All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Chris Derosa (Fixing Famous People) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The Real Housewives has given a platform for women to talk about their life stories. The two friends also touch on how The Real Housewives may promote this idea that we always have to keep up with everyone around us and stunt for Instagram, but they also offer an example of people who are confident enough to not need to race their peers to the top. Also, are The Real Housewives conflict resolution icons? We know for a fact that they are women living loudly and boldly!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Join now so you have access to the live recording of the first ever Misogynist of the Year Award!

All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.

Find Chris:
Instagram: thechrisderosa and fixingfamouspeople
Podcast: Fixing Famous People

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie Love, Actually starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, and a great ensemble cast of fan favorites. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, were any of these relationships healthy?


You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist or joining us live on Tuesdays!


While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.

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Find Kristen:
Podcast: The Daily Fail
Website: kristenmeinzer.com
Twitter: @kristenmeinzer I
Instagram: @k10meinzer

Happy Holidays! We are officially on our holiday break and we will be back with new episodes in January 2026!

Miss us already?

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Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast is here to talk all things Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen! Natalie and Margaret will dig into the nostalgic lore behind the career of the Olsen Twins. They’ll chat about how Mary-Kate and Ashley are icons when it comes to building an empire while also keeping up your boundaries and how they were able to maintain control of their content. They will also get into how girlhood in the 90s was presented through the Olsen Twin movies and TV shows and the joys that came from having movies advertised specifically for middle school aged girls. 

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Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

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All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.

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Podcast: Smash Hit 
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Amy Peters (Behind the Carnival Barkers) joins Natalie to discuss how misogyny gets misrepresented as simple “office politics” and holds us back in our careers. Amy will be talking about her experiences of misogyny while working in tv and audio editing. Natalie will also bring in some stories from her time teaching and in other office jobs she’s had throughout the years. 

Support the Show:

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content!

We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.

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Behind the Carnival Barkers Podcast

Emma Laurent is on the podcast to discuss her work in protecting reproductive freedom in the state of Wyoming. Emma will give frank accounts of what it is like trying to talk to legislators about the importance of reproductive healthcare and the state of women’s health care in general. She will also give some helpful tips on how to get involved in your communities and local politics.

Support the Show:

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https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.

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Happy Halloween! IFor your spooky enjoyment, we will be reposting an episode of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. Enjoy our review of Addams Family starring Anjelica Houston and Christina Ricci.

You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist

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Tara Jabbari (Who Was She Podcast) is going to do Natalie a solid this episode and explain the information she studied about parasocial relationships during her graduate thesis. Parasocial relationships are a niche interest for Natalie because she loves being a fan girl for her favorite creators, musicians, and actresses but often feels personally attacked by all this talk on toxic parasocial relationships. Natalie and Tara will talk over the true definition of a parasocial relationships, the cons that come along with having a one-sided relationship with someone in the public eye, and how Natalie has actually turned those parasocial relationships to actual memories and connections with the people she admires. Of course there will be special mention of Natalie’s other niche interests: Taylor Swift, the cast and crew of Dropout Tv, and Kesha.

Support the Show:

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

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Who Was She Podcast
Media Maker Spotlight Podcast
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