Three OG Coaches Talking Shop – Détails, épisodes et analyse

10. Healthy Client Love + Attachment 

Lianne leads a rich and nuanced conversation about love and attachment. We go beyond popular ideas of an attachment style to talk about ‘agape’ - a Greek word for the love of fellow humans – to go beyond loving personality or behaviour and to love a person’s soul.  

When we think about the purpose of attachment – to grow us up into our human potential – how do we sit in this idea as coaches? What does love mean for us as coaches?  Do we have a role to make our client’s feel loved? And if not, what does our role involve. 

We talk about the ways our own unhealthy attachments get involved with our client relationships and what we can do to take care of ourselves and our clients. 

 
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Got a question for the OG’s? 

If you have a question about your coaching practice, we’d love to help. You are warmly invited to submit a question to us for an upcoming Q&A episode. You might want us to weigh in on a topic about the industry generally or something specific to do with your client work or running your coaching business. Please send all the details to: asktheogcoaches@gmail.com 

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If you enjoy these conversations, please do offer a review on Apple podcasts and subscribe wherever you listen in. We appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these conversations with you. 

Find us: 

·      Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta 

·      Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta 

·      Sas Petherick: Website | Insta 

Sas introduces the concept of parallel process – when our work with clients activates our growth. 

Often, this isn’t pretty or easy—it’s the moments when we notice patterns we are engaging in as part of our work. Sometimes, clients' particular challenges or approaches can feel really uncomfortable - it might be something we share with our clients.

Coaching is relational, so parallel process is of course, inevitable. We will get entangled with clients - its part of the work. And our clients will project on to us all the time! Transference and counter-transference is part of the work.

Often, our experience is not helpful to share with our clients. When we are going through something that has not yet been processed, its probably inappropriate to bring into sessions.

So, how do we hold ourselves steady in these moments? What are the ethics and good practices that support us and our clients?

📺 Watch on YouTube and share your thoughts in the comments!
 

Got a question for the OG’s?

If you have a question about your coaching practice, we’d love to help. You are warmly invited to submit a question to us for an upcoming Q&A episode. You might want us to weigh in on a topic about the industry generally or something specific to do with your client work or running your coaching business. Please send all the details to: asktheogcoaches@gmail.com

Rate, Review and Subscribe!

If you enjoy these conversations, please do offer a review on Apple podcasts and subscribe wherever you listen in. We appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these conversations with you.

Find us:

·      Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta

·      Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta

·      Sas Petherick: Website | Insta

Bridgette introduces a rich conversation about both the helpfulness and the more problematic aspects of mindset-dominant coaching approaches.

We talk about what the effectiveness of this kind of coaching might really be down to and what to do if you want to broaden the scope of your practice.

If you’ve ever wondered if thought work, mindset, affirmations or cognitive behavioural approaches are all they are purported to be, this episode is worth listening to.

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Got a question for the OG’s?

If you have a question about your coaching practice, we’d love to help. You are warmly invited to submit a question to us for an upcoming Q&A episode. You might want us to weigh in on a topic about the industry generally or something specific to do with your client work or running your coaching business. Please send all the details to: asktheogcoaches@gmail.com

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If you enjoy these conversations, please do offer a review on Apple podcasts and subscribe wherever you listen in. We appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these conversations with you.

Find us:

·      Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta

·      Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta

·      Sas Petherick: Website | Insta

In this episode, Lianne leads a conversation about the future of coaching.

Does coaching have a future? And if so what might it look like? We discuss alternatives to the creepier aspects of the industry and the hopeful ideas for the maturation and evolution of the industry. 

Its a juicy one!

Got a question for the OG’s?
If you have a question about your coaching practice, we’d love to help. You are warmly invited to submit a question to us fro an upcoming Q&A episode. You might want us to weigh in on a topic about the industry generally or something specific to do with your client work or running your coaching business. Please send all the details to: asktheogcoaches@gmail.com

 📺 Watch on YouTube and share your thoughts in the comments!

Rate, Review + Subscribe!
If you enjoy these episodes, please do offer a review on Apple podcasts and subscribe wherever you listen in. We appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these conversations with you.

Find us:
Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta
Sas Petherick: Website | Insta
Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta

In this episode, Sas shares the concept of Tūrangawaewae - tūranga (standing place) and waewae (feet) is our place to stand. 

Tūrangawaewae are the external and internal places where we feel especially empowered and connected. They are our foundation, our place in the world, where we feel at home. As coaches, this includes our unique experiences and histories, our training and coaching philosophy, all filtered through our specific personalities!

We chat about how to find your place to stand – a practice of discernment and listening to your heart.

Don’t miss - Free Workshop with Bridgette!
Bridgette has a free workshop coming up in her Coaching Salon: The Gift of Disillusionment. If you have been disappointed and let down by a coach training, teacher, or the industry, this is ideal for gaining insight and perspective and returning to your own discernment. 

Got a question for the OG’s?
If you have a question about your coaching practice, we’d love to help. You are warmly invited to submit a question to us fro an upcoming Q&A episode. You might want us to weigh in on a topic about the industry generally or something specific to do with your client work or running your coaching business. Please send all the details to: asktheogcoaches@gmail.com

📺 Watch on YouTube and share your thoughts in the comments!

Rate, Review + Subscribe!
If you enjoy these episodes, please do offer a review on Apple podcasts and subscribe wherever you listen in. We appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these conversations with you.

Find us:

·      Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta

·      Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta

·      Sas Petherick: Website | Insta

In this episode, Bridgette starts off our conversation about visibility and the discomfort this can bring. 

We chat about why this is so uncomfortable for so many of us, how to decide the ways you want to market your coaching work that feel good to you, how to navigate self-doubt, how to support your business and yourself to get your work out there! 

Got a question for the OG’s?

If you have a question about your coaching practice, we’d love to help. You are warmly invited to submit a question to us fro an upcoming Q&A episode. You might want us to weigh in on a topic about the industry generally or something specific to do with your client work or running your coaching business. Please send all the details to: asktheogcoaches@gmail.com

📺 Watch on YouTube and share your thoughts in the comments!

If you enjoy these episodes, please do offer a review on Apple podcasts and subscribe wherever you listen in.

We appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these conversations with you.

Find us:

• Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta
• Sas Petherick: Website | Insta
• Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta

Lianne sparks a conversation about how to create a coaching practice that feels like an eco-system rather than an ego-system.

This evocative metaphor takes the conversation on a journey to discover what is ‘downstream’ of each of us. We talk about who inspires us, who mentors us, and what we are learning. 

It was joyous to discover we all have teachers and mentors (sometimes quite far!) outside of the coaching world. 

References:

Lianne’s Inspirations:

• Marion Woodman
• Carol Gilligan
• Isabella Rossellini
• Ilse Crawford
• Steal like an Artist

Sas’ Inspirations:

• Hilma af Klimt
• Theosophy
• Nora Bateson
• UFO Rabbit Hole Podcast

Bridgette’s Inspirations:

• Pema Chodron
• Parker Plamer
• Michael Singer
• Smartless podcast
• Handsome podcast
• Fortune Feimster
• Toko-Pa Turner Belonging
• David Whyte
• Martin Shaw

Got a question for the OG’s?

If you have a question about your coaching practice, we’d love to help. You are warmly invited to submit a question to us for an upcoming Q&A episode. You might want us to weigh in on a topic about the industry generally or something specific to do with your client work or running your coaching business. Please send all the details to:  asktheogcoaches@gmail.com

📺 Watch on YouTube and share your thoughts in the comments

Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes of "Three OG Coaches Talking Shop." 

We appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these conversations with you!

Find us:

• Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta
• Sas Petherick: Website | Insta
• Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta

Personal coaching, group work, retreats, teaching, business consulting, big programmes, intimate circles, getting a day job: between us, we’ve made our money in all the ways! 

In this episode we talk about how we each make money, how we offer our coaching work, how this has evolved and changed over the years, and how our coaching work gets to be a unique expression of each of us.

We hope this helps you consider how your coaching work can be a unique expression of you.

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We appreciate you listening and look forward to continuing these conversations with you!

Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes of Three OG Coaches Talking Shop 

📺 Watch on YouTube and share your thoughts in the comments.

Find us:

Lianne Raymond: Website | Insta

Sas Petherick: Website | Insta

Bridgette Boudreau: Website | Insta

As our first episode went out, the New York Times published an article titled: 'They Spent Their Life Savings on Life Coaching: some people who wanted to improve their lives and careers through coaching found themselves trapped in what they described as a pyramid scheme'.

In this episode, we respond to the article and discuss the origins of the pyramid scheme in the coaching industry.

We also talk about how to market and sell coaching services with thoughtful integrity. It's a juicy one!

NYT Article
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In our first episode, we discuss 'Coachfluencers' where coaches and social media meet. We talk about how we each define 'coachfluencing' and how we navigate the choppy waters of social media.