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| “Why did you buy more bones?” | 29 Aug 2024 | 00:39:15 | |
Sisters Brittany Walsh and Nicole O’Neil have always been close. But when Nicole started experiencing mysterious health problems, her turn toward alternative treatments divided them. As Nicole spent more and more money on dubious cure-alls, Brittany was faced with a question: What do you do when you’re afraid the person closest to you might be losing themselves? If you liked this episode, share it with a friend. And to get even more Uncomfortable, subscribe to our newsletter! | |||
| Hanif Abdurraqib on what it means to “make it” | 22 Aug 2024 | 00:36:22 | |
For our season premiere, we’re sharing a conversation with one of our favorite writers, Hanif Abdurraqib. He joins Reema for a wide-ranging conversation about the moral judgments we’re quick to make about people’s financial circumstances, notions of success and legacy, and what it means to be “good” versus “bad” in an unequal world. Hanif also reveals one of the most challenging financial moments of his life and the reasons behind his commitment to giving away so much of his income. Hanif is an award-winning poet, cultural critic and author from Columbus, Ohio. He’s written six books, several of which are bestsellers, including his most recent, “There’s Always This Year.” His work spans sports, pop culture and politics, often focusing on issues of race and class, while also delving into themes of grief, beauty and love. He’s been the recipient of a MacArthur Foundation “genius grant” and a finalist for the National Book Award, among other accolades. If you liked this episode, share it with a friend. And to get even more Uncomfortable, subscribe to our newsletter! | |||
| “How do I stop overspending?” | 21 Mar 2024 | 00:31:34 | |
A while back, we asked you to share your money struggles, and we heard from many of you! In today’s episode, we booked a session with financial therapist Megan McCoy to answer your burning financial questions — everything from navigating financial differences among friends and talking to an avoidant partner about money plans, to making big career decisions and learning how to curb spending. As promised, here are some of the research studies and articles discussed in this episode:
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| The fight for fair pay in Big Tech | 02 Jul 2020 | 00:22:53 | |
One woman’s fight against Silicon Valley’s racial pay gap. Plus, why it’s so hard for Black workers in tech to get ahead
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| How to pay for college | 18 Jun 2020 | 00:29:15 | |
Years ago, one woman put college on hold because she couldn’t afford it. Now she faces a hard choice to keep history from repeating itself. Plus: What will college even look like this fall? | |||
| It’s expensive to get arrested | 05 Jun 2020 | 00:27:16 | |
A teenager protesting police brutality lands in jail, and we try to understand the tricky business of bail. | |||
| Barred from benefits (from The Uncertain Hour) | 28 May 2020 | 00:36:37 | |
Millions of Americans who are out of work don’t receive unemployment benefits. That’s by design. An episode from “The Uncertain Hour’s” pop-up season “A History of Now.” If you liked this epsiode, you can hear more at uncertainhour.org. | |||
| School’s out (forever?) | 21 May 2020 | 00:23:08 | |
When you’re 17 or 18, you’re often making choices that can dictate the course of your whole life. Making those decisions during a pandemic is even harder. Today we follow three high school friends trying to figure out what comes after graduation when a global pandemic is clouding everything. By the way, today is the last day of Marketplace’s spring fundraising drive. We know not everyone can afford to give, but if you love the show and you are in a position to donate, we would really appreciate it. You can give and find more information at marketplace.org/giveTIU. | |||
| Our parents’ debts (from Terrible, Thanks for Asking) | 15 May 2020 | 00:46:34 | |
This week, we’re showcasing a story from our colleagues at “Terrible, Thanks For Asking”: When a supporting pillar is knocked out of a family, the consequences can be costly. | |||
| From prison to pandemic | 07 May 2020 | 00:20:54 | |
Kevin Harrington was exonerated last month after spending 17 years in prison for a murder conviction. He and his family are overjoyed, but the coronavirus pandemic means freedom looks a little different right now. By the way, Marketplace is in the middle of a really important fundraising drive right now. We know not everyone can afford to give, but if you love the show and you are in a position to donate, we would really appreciate it. You can give and find more information at marketplace.org/giveTIU. | |||
| Confessions of a shopaholic | 30 Apr 2020 | 00:20:51 | |
A woman grapples with her shopping addiction in quarantine. By the way, we were just nominated for a Webby! Please take a second and vote for us at wbby.co/pod09. | |||
| A $35,000 COVID bill | 23 Apr 2020 | 00:20:33 | |
Danni Askini fought cancer for 18 months before getting COVID-19. Their focus was on surviving, not the cost of care. That didn’t make the bill any easier to take. | |||
| What it’s like getting an abortion in Texas right now | 16 Apr 2020 | 00:15:29 | |
The clock is ticking for one college student after she finds out she’s pregnant in the middle of a pandemic, in a state that’s trying to restrict abortion. | |||
| So, who’s gonna pay for this? | 14 Mar 2024 | 00:31:49 | |
Nicole and Rachel were deeply in love when they had their first serious fight about money. It seemed easily resolvable, but the disagreement dragged on for months and brought a lot more to the surface than they expected. This episode originally aired in 2022 and includes a short update at the end about how Rachel and Nicole are doing today. If you liked this episode, share it with a friend. And to get even more Uncomfortable, subscribe to our newsletter! | |||
| Zoom therapy in a pandemic | 09 Apr 2020 | 00:19:37 | |
How do I keep from fighting with my partner about money? What do I say to a friend who’s just lost a job? This week, a little financial therapy session over zoom to help us all cope with our COVID-19 anxiety. | |||
| Love in the time of coronavirus | 03 Apr 2020 | 00:23:17 | |
There are a lot of couples stuck at home right now. Some of them are out of work or dealing with canceled plans. Today, we’ll hear from two couples trying to figure out what their future will look like. | |||
| Hard choices | 27 Mar 2020 | 00:19:06 | |
As states across the country close all non-essential businesses, people are rethinking what it means to do the right thing. Today we hear listeners’ stories of pay cuts, layoffs and telling employers they’re putting people at risk. | |||
| COVID-19 comforts | 20 Mar 2020 | 00:15:38 | |
The coronavirus is changing how we think about money and community. We set out to see how people are coping and put together this audio care package. And we want to check in on you, too — let us know what you’re going through and how you’re getting through it at uncomfortable@marketplace.org. | |||
| What’s a friendship worth? | 12 Mar 2020 | 00:21:16 | |
Would you spot a friend money if they needed it? How about if they asked every month? This week: the limits of friendship. | |||
| WeWork too much | 05 Mar 2020 | 00:25:48 | |
When WeWork acquired her company, she got executive training, fancy corporate retreats and a dope Patagonia jacket. It was almost enough to make her forget everything she lost. This week: Why we’re so obsessed with our jobs, although they’ll never love us back. | |||
| My boyfriend wants to pay my rent | 27 Feb 2020 | 00:26:37 | |
Sam Sanders, host of NPR’s “It’s Been A Minute” and Marketplace product specialist Sarah Menendez are here give advice on salary sharing, expensive olive oil, and bridesmaid duties in the latest installment of “The Group Chat.” Got anything you want to run by the group? Tell us at uncomfortable@marketplace.org, and don’t forget to sign up for our newsletter at Marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| In sickness and in fraud | 21 Feb 2020 | 00:23:32 | |
When a shady business partner leaves a newly married couple on the hook for over $300,000, it tests the limits of “for better or worse.” For even more “This Is Uncomfortable,” sign up for our new weekly newsletter at marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| Total financial control | 13 Feb 2020 | 00:27:20 | |
After getting married, Angie’s husband started to scrutinize every purchase. The situation soon got so much worse. We look at what happens when money becomes a form of control. | |||
| What’s your sign? | 06 Feb 2020 | 00:26:03 | |
Reema (a skeptical Libra) talks with astrologer Chani Nicholas about the booming business of astrology and together they answer listener questions about overspending and toxic bosses. | |||
| You used to be so pretty | 07 Mar 2024 | 00:40:26 | |
Growing up, Haein Shim was taught that if she wanted to succeed, she needed to change her appearance. Shim was raised in South Korea, where a competitive job market and booming beauty industry combined to make careful beauty maintenance all but mandatory for gainful employment. By the time she was a young adult, she was spending hours a day and hundreds of dollars a month on makeup and clothes, until one day her friend asked, “Why do we spend so much money on our appearance?” That question upended Shim’s family, career and sense of self. It led her to join a movement called Escape the Corset, calling for an end to strict beauty standards. In this episode, we also speak to NPR’s Elise Hu, who spent years reporting on the rise of the K-beauty and how it has impacted Korea’s economy and gender politics. Her book on the subject, “Flawless: Lessons in Looks and Culture From the K-Beauty Capital,” examines how women like Haein Shim are changing the face of beauty in Korea. | |||
| Divorce Story | 30 Jan 2020 | 00:23:45 | |
Money gets complicated when a marriage falls apart. First we’ll hear from a divorce lawyer who ends up representing herself. Then from a couple trying to plan for the day they hate each other. | |||
| “This Is Uncomfortable” is back next week | 23 Jan 2020 | 00:02:36 | |
We’re back Jan. 30 with new stories about life and how money messes with it. You know, the light stuff, like divorce, workaholism and financial fraud. Here’s a sneak peek. | |||
| I have class anxiety (rerun) | 16 Jan 2020 | 00:20:57 | |
A listener struggles to navigate all the unspoken rules of middle-class life. This is our last rerun before we return with new episodes later this month. To stay on top of when we’re coming back, subscribe to our emails at marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| Instrument of sabotage (rerun) | 02 Jan 2020 | 00:24:29 | |
In the cutthroat world of professional classical music, Eric Abramovitz was headed toward a shining career. Until something — or someone — got in the way. We’re rerunning a few of our favorite episodes over the holiday season, and we’ll be back with new episodes in 2020. To stay on top of when we’re coming back, subscribe to our emails at marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| When money makes it weird (rerun) | 26 Dec 2019 | 00:31:02 | |
Reema tries to settle a debt she’s been avoiding. And what happens when one person in a relationship has way more money? We’re rerunning a few of our favorite episodes over the holiday season, and we’ll be back with new episodes in 2020. To stay on top of when we’re coming back, subscribe to our emails at marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| Bonus: Money horror stories II | 12 Dec 2019 | 00:21:13 | |
Earlier this year, Hayden started getting these surprise gifts in the mail. Once he realized who sent them to him, he wondered just how far the gift giver would go. Plus, two more stories of spending regret. To be the first to know when we’re back with new episodes, subscribe to our newsletter at marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| Home/work (rerun) | 28 Nov 2019 | 00:21:32 | |
Just in time for Thanksgiving, “This Is Uncomfortable” revisits the “jobs” we take on in our families — starting with Reema’s. Plus, one couple comes up with a creative way to stop fighting over a dreaded household chore. This is the first of a few favorite episodes we’re rerunning over the holiday season, and we’ll be back with new episodes in 2020. To stay on top of when we’re coming back, subscribe to our emails at marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| When your life depends on it | 21 Nov 2019 | 00:23:50 | |
After a rare cancer diagnosis, one family’s battle with insurance and pharmaceutical companies, and the endless bureaucracy, teaches them about the price tag the medical system can put on a person’s life. By the way, this is our last episode of the year. We’re taking a break for the holidays, replaying a few of our favorite episodes and working on some new stories. Make sure you’re the first to know about new episodes by subscribing to our newsletter at marketplace.org/comfort. | |||
| Love thy neighbor, and pay off their debts, too | 14 Nov 2019 | 00:24:36 | |
An aspiring dancer finds a way to become debt-free. All she has to do is take on someone else’s. | |||
| Don’t buy your boss a gift | 07 Nov 2019 | 00:24:18 | |
“Nancy” host Tobin Low and journalist Julia Furlan join us this week to give advice on office gifts, financial independence and more in the latest installment of “The Group Chat.” Got anything you want to run by the group? Tell us at uncomfortable@marketplace.org | |||
| Are rich people bad? From “Classy” | 29 Feb 2024 | 00:46:12 | |
This week, we’re sharing an episode from another podcast we think you’ll love. “Classy” is a new show from Pineapple Street Studios and Audacy exploring the ways that class infiltrates our day-to-day lives. Host Jonathan Menjivar has some hang-ups about class. In this episode, he takes us from a nightclub outside Los Angeles to the halls of a fancy Manhattan prep school, and asks sociologist Rachel Sherman, “Are rich people bad?” | |||
| Money horror stories | 31 Oct 2019 | 00:21:06 | |
This Halloween, we have listeners’ frightening stories of impulse buys, spooky scams and a very Hungry Heart. | |||
| Sperm, baby, sperm | 24 Oct 2019 | 00:24:55 | |
Two couples won a chance at pregnancy, but money has complicated their journeys to build a family. | |||
| Instrument of sabotage | 17 Oct 2019 | 00:24:07 | |
In the cutthroat world of professional classical music, Eric Abramovitz was headed toward a shining career. Until something — or someone — got in the way. | |||
| TIU Live: I hate my boss | 10 Oct 2019 | 00:19:50 | |
We’re presenting a new segment this week called “The Group Chat.” It’s when we bring in friends of the pod to address your money and job problems. Joining us for this first installment are NPR’s Julia Furlan and Keisha “TK” Dutes of Glitch and “Hear to Slay.” We recorded this episode live onstage at Werk It, the women’s podcasting festival from WYNC Studios, earlier this month at the Ace Hotel in Los Angeles. | |||
| F you, pay me | 03 Oct 2019 | 00:21:10 | |
Caitlin Boston asked for a raise. Her boss gave her a hard no. Then she made it her mission to figure out what she was worth… and to get paid. Plus: we teach you how to get paid too. | |||
| Money advice with “Call Your Girlfriend” | 26 Sep 2019 | 00:21:03 | |
Reema was on one of our favorite podcasts, “Call Your Girlfriend,” a few weeks ago to answer listeners’ tricky money questions about divorce, student debt and (shudder) investing. | |||
| Can’t buy me love | 19 Sep 2019 | 00:23:12 | |
After hooking up with her roommate, one woman can’t seem to avoid him — or his spending habits, and a couple tries showing their love for each other … in a way neither of them actually loves. | |||
| Everyday liars | 12 Sep 2019 | 00:13:57 | |
You tell your mom you’re broke. You pretend to have student loans. You wear knock-off couture. People tell lies about money all the time. We asked about your “white lies” — and you didn’t disappoint. | |||
| Cashing in on your kids | 05 Sep 2019 | 00:17:10 | |
Something to think about when you’re watching the new “Keeping Up with the Kardashians” this weekend: For every piece of this family’s massive empire, matriarch Kris Jenner takes a 10% cut. And when business and family mix, you can’t help but wonder how the lines get blurred. Does being your child’s manager get in the way of being a good mom? This week, BuzzFeed’s Zan Romanoff walks us through the history and stigma of the “momager,” and we hear from a real-life stage mom about her day-to-day. | |||
| Trapped in your personal brand | 29 Aug 2019 | 00:21:01 | |
Aparna Nancherla has made a career in comedy, where she often delves into her own struggles with mental health. We look at what happens when your job is tied to the most painful parts of your life. Plus, The New York Times’ Amanda Hess on treating your work like a commodity. | |||
| Money talks, love listens | 22 Feb 2024 | 00:27:25 | |
Four years later, host Reema Khrais checks in with one of our favorite couples, Mandy and Zach. In our first season, they told us about the challenges they ran into early in their relationship around gift giving. Now, life’s latest milestones are forcing them to figure out how to become more fluent in each other’s languages — the ones they use to talk about life, love, and of course, money. | |||
| The lies we tell our friends | 22 Aug 2019 | 00:24:43 | |
Most of us tell little white lies at some point or another to make things less weird about money. But what happens when disaster strikes, and your money situation becomes impossible to hide? | |||
| What dad left behind | 15 Aug 2019 | 00:26:25 | |
When money, death and grief mix there’s no playbook for what to do. And for years, one young man has been stuck. This episode deals with depression and suicide. If you or someone you know needs to talk, call 1-800-273-8255 or text “TALK” to 741741. | |||
| I have class anxiety | 08 Aug 2019 | 00:19:53 | |
A listener struggles to navigate all the unspoken rules of middle-class life. | |||