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| #148: If I had a totally unmanageable class, I'd do these 4 things immediately. | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:28:10 | |
This episode, I’m giving you a front seat to one of the most common questions I get from Behaviour Clubbers, and honestly, it’s one we’ve ALL asked at some point: “What do I do with a class that is just... chaotic?” This one’s especially for you if you’re:
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| #147: Why your classroom transitions are chaotic (and how to fix them) | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:20:53 | |
The messy middle of a lesson can make or break your classroom calm. You’ve nailed your entry routines. Your exits are solid. But those in-between moments, like shifting from group work to silent writing, that’s where chaos sneaks in. If transitions have ever left you saying: “I had them… and then I lost them.” This one’s for you. In this episode, I walk you through my three essential “Ps” for smooth transitions, plus five of my favourite practical tools to bring novelty, structure and just the right amount of fun into those mid-lesson wobbles. Whether your students are bouncing off the walls or just dilly-dallying, you’ll walk away from this one with new tricks (and a taco) up your sleeve. What you’ll learn:
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| #138: Brain breaks that secretly boost behaviour (and help us reclaim a bit of teaching joy in the classroom) | 25 Aug 2025 | 00:23:44 | |
Ever feel like your class is one brain snap away from absolute chaos… or just asleep at the wheel? In this episode, I’m giving you a front seat to one of the most powerful — and wildly underused — classroom management tools in your toolbox: brain breaks. But not just for the sake of fun. We’re talking strategic, rapport-building, energy-resetting magic that actually boosts learning, not wastes time. This is Day 4 of the Kickstart (catch up on previous days if you missed them!) and today is all about what we do in the meaty middle of the lesson — when things can either hum along… or totally unravel. I’ll share the sneaky strategies I used (without knowing they were even strategies back then) to build connection, shift energy, and keep my most disengaged students coming back for more. Spoiler alert: it's not about being the "cool teacher" — it’s about being a connected, present, values-led one. Let’s roll the tape. What you’ll learn:
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| #48: Should we be ‘letting things slide’ as teachers? Or should we be holding students accountable for every little challenging behaviour? | 30 Jan 2024 | 00:23:18 | |
Classroom management is nothing if not confusing. One of the things I have been told along the way is that we need to be picking our battles with behaviour. Another thing I have ALSO been told along the way is that we shouldn't be letting things slide. I have also given both of these pieces of advice at different times in my career. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #47: How teachers are set up to fail, what SHOULD be included in teacher training, and what a trauma-informed approach looks like in action. A discussion with Em Gentle, founder of The Grad Guide | 23 Jan 2024 | 00:52:12 | |
Today I am joined on the podcast with Em Gentle, a graduate teacher mentor, fellow edu-podcaster, and founder of the grad guide where she supports new teachers adopt a trauma informed approach to teaching.
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| #46: What it really takes to change behaviour with the hardest to teach (and why it can take so damn long)! | 16 Jan 2024 | 00:26:26 | |
Today on the podcast we will be talking about working with the students who are the hardest to teach, and the hardest to reach.
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| #45: Are you classroom managing like a fist, or a palm? A game-changing metaphor that will shape the way you approach behaviour in the heat of the moment | 09 Jan 2024 | 00:24:15 | |
In today’s episode, I am going to be giving you a visual metaphor to approaching challenging classroom behaviour that can be a game changer. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #44: The one thing you need to do during the holidays to improve your classroom management in 2024. | 19 Dec 2023 | 00:18:29 | |
I spent the first 5 years of my career feeling like I needed to be ‘all over’ every single facet of the lesson to contain and reduce challenging behaviours. This meant working through almost every weekend and break that I had. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #43: 2023: The year I became a mother, a wife, and an author. Reflections, regrets, and lessons learnt. | 12 Dec 2023 | 00:26:50 | |
2023 has been one of the biggest, and most transformational times in my life. Both professionally, and personally. So I just had to lean into the beautiful chaos of it all and MAKE it work. In this episode, I reflect on the year that was and go through how I navigated all of it (and came out the other end in relatively one piece). Thank you for listening in to The Unteachables Podcast this year, it’s been amazing to have you along for the ride! Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #42: Want to do some laid-back learning at the end of the year, and STILL maintain a calm and controlled environment? This is what you need to know. | 05 Dec 2023 | 00:21:27 | |
As the year draws to a close, things start to get increasingly challenging. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #41: What Is the Conscious Competence Ladder, and Why You Need to Know About It for Learning, Behavior, and Your Own Professional Development. | 26 Nov 2023 | 00:18:42 | |
One of the things that used to really grind my gears as a teacher was when I was trying to teach a new skill to students, whether it be an analytical response or a piece of creative writing, and they would say something like the following: Now? I understand that all of us, human beings in general, simply don’t know, what we don’t know!! So what do I do instead? I teach them about the conscious competence ladder (not necessarily using that lingo). Listen in to this week’s podcast as I go over what the Conscious Competence Ladder is, and why it is such a valuable theory to support us in teaching our students, and applying in our own practice. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #40: Want a Calm Lesson? You Need a Calm Start! The 3 Proactive Classroom Management Strategies Every Teacher Should Know! | 21 Nov 2023 | 00:26:33 | |
The first 5 minutes of a lesson can absolutely be make or break for behaviour. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #39: Four Steps to Better Parent-Teacher Relationships: Tackling those Tough Conversations | 14 Nov 2023 | 00:23:56 | |
Ever wondered how you, as an educator, can foster and nurture a positive and productive relationship with the parents of your more challenging students? This episode guides you through the hurdle-filled journey of positively engaging with parents, even when resistance or blame are at play. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #137: Feel like you need to split into 30 trying to support the whole room? This tool changes everything. | 18 Aug 2025 | 00:20:51 | |
The task strategy that will change your classroom (even if you’re running on fumes) Ever feel like the second you set your students off on a task, it’s like you’ve got to split into ten different versions of yourself? In this episode, I’m walking you through one of my favourite practical strategies of all time — the humble task card — and showing you exactly how this simple tool can reduce overwhelm, cut through the chaos, and stop the constant chorus of “Miss, what are we doing again?” This episode is giving you a front-row seat to:
So if you're tired of repeating yourself on loop and want to feel like the calm, credible leader of your room again, this one’s for you. What You’ll Learn:
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| #38: A Candid Conversation About Returning from Maternity Leave, Mum Guilt, and the Pressure to Be 'Good Enough' at Everything. | 07 Nov 2023 | 00:22:46 | |
There are so many things that I wish somebody had told me before having a baby. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #37: What Good Classroom Management Can't Exist Without: A Chat with Marie Gentles on Teacher Capacity, Perception, and Felt Safety. | 31 Oct 2023 | 00:55:16 | |
On today’s episode I have the pleasure of talking to Marie Gentles, you might know her best as the expert in BBC documentaries Don’t Exclude Me and Helping our Teens, and now as the author of the book Gentles Guidance: How to Understand, Inspire and Empower Your Kids which has been recently published in June this year. She has also developed Gentle Guidance, where she delivers her own digital Behaviour Training Programme for schools/services and families. To say that this woman is moving mountains in this space is an understatement. So… when this incredible woman talks about what we need to be doing in the classroom to best support our young people, we all need to be listening, and what a privilege it was to be able to talk about some really important things in the educational space. In this episode:
Where to go to get further support from Marie: Website: www.gentlesguidance.com Course: gentlesguidance.thinkific.com Book: Gentle Guidance - How to Understand, Inspire and Empower you Kids TV Documentaries: BBC iPlayer: Helping our Teens, Don’t Exclude Me. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #36: Are You Confusing The Hell Out of Your Students? Strategies for Clearer Instruction, Better Engagement, and Less Challenging Behaviours | 05 Sep 2023 | 00:19:31 | |
Do you ever give instructions for a task to a class full of students, only to have a bunch of hands go up or confused faces looking back at you? Maybe you have low level behaviours buzzing and a disengaged hum the moment you send them off to do their task? Teachers, the answer to tackling these things could be in your clarity of instruction. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #35: Increasing Felt Safety (and Reducing Challenging Behaviours) Through Consistency and Predictability. A Deep Dive Into the Humble Seating Plan. | 29 Aug 2023 | 00:19:08 | |
In this episode, I delve into the pivotal role of felt safety in classrooms. You'll learn how to craft a climate of felt safety that hushes unpredictability and amplifies familiarity, helping students to stay calm and regulated, ultimately reducing and mitigating disruptive behaviors. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #34: Co-Regulation Explained: The Core of Calm and Effective Classroom Management | 22 Aug 2023 | 00:21:47 | |
This week's "pillar" episode of The Unteachables Podcast explains the concepts at the core of my approach to classroom management; coregulation, regulation and dysregulation. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #33: Teachers, protect your peace this school year with these 5 crucial reminders | 15 Aug 2023 | 00:13:51 | |
Teachers, this episode I speak through the 5 mantras I use in my everyday practice to stay calm, stay connected, and ultimately, protect my peace! Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #32: Teaching Kids with 'Big Baffling Behaviours': The Science of Opposition with Robyn Gobbel. | 08 Aug 2023 | 01:03:18 | |
In this episode I speak to the incredible Robyn Gobbel, and when I say you’ll want to listen to this, you should really trust me on this one. Robyn is a former therapist turned author, podcaster, educator, and community creator, supporting the grown-ups who care for kids with vulnerable nervous systems and big, baffling behaviors. Her work has been with children with histories of complex trauma, through which she takes a relational neuroscience approach to understanding what behaviour REALLY is. She draws from interpersonal neurobiology, attachment theory, the neurosequential model of therapeutics, polyvagal theory (and more). We dive deep into two concepts that will flip the way that you see the big baffling behaviours in your classroom, as well as revealing some really fundamental problems with how we are able to work with our students with trauma: Connection or protection, and the owl, possum, and watch dog pathways of the brain. Oh, and teachers, want some help in working with challenging parents? Robyn helps you with that too. She really is that good. This episode is full of information that every human being needs to bring more compassion to yourself, and to others in the world. If you want to see more of Robyn and her work (which is a big hell yes from me), you can do so by following her over on Instagram @robin.gobbel or heading to the links below: Host- The Baffling Behavior Show podcast Creator- Being With {an immersion course for parenting professionals} Creator- The Club {a virtual community for parents of kids with big, baffling behaviors} Author- Raising Kids with Big Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work (forthcoming September 21, 2023} Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #31: The 'Why' That Drives Our Behaviour (The 'Good', the 'Bad', and the 'Ugly'): The 5 Basic Needs | 01 Aug 2023 | 00:26:04 | |
Today, we're diving deep into a common saying in the behavior management world: "Behavior is communication." But let's be honest, it's so broad that it often leaves us wondering, "What are they really trying to tell us?" Well, in this episode, I've got you covered!
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| #30: We don't teach our subjects! We teach students, and there is one hell of a difference between the two | 18 Jul 2023 | 00:14:33 | |
Once a mentor said something to me that changed the way I viewed teaching: I am an English teacher. I love English. I wanted students to love English as much as I did, to enjoy it, to be inspired by the concepts, to read a book and discuss it as a class and be thinking wow I was just transported into a dystopian land and I can see connections between that and out current society and wow mind blown!!! Once I came to this realization, I stopped getting so precious about my subject, and I started thinking about how English was a ‘way in’, a ‘doorway’ to these children engaging with their education, to feel successful, to learn how to think critically, to problem solve, to be creative and to find enjoyment. In today's (very short and sharp) episode of The Unteachables Podcast, I take you through a bit of a mindset shift, and dig into why this means it's even MORE crucial for teacher training to change with the times. Join me this episode for a mindset shift, and if you want to come and have a chat about it, don't be shy. Send me an email claire@the-unteachables.com or message me on Instagram @the.unteachables Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #29: Dropping the ball on things at work? Don't worry, that's what they were designed for! A reframe around teacher time management. | 11 Jul 2023 | 00:18:40 | |
I am sure I don't need to tell you this, but as a teacher, there is SO MUCH TO FREAKING DO! This is why some of the BIG questions I get asked from teachers, particularly newer teachers, is about things like prioritising, time management, and how we can do allllll the things that are required of us.
However it has taken years and years to learn how to ‘be’ as a teacher/leader in a way that works for me and protects my peace. It has taken a lot of boundary setting, letting go of things that don’t matter, learning how to prioritise and letting go of the idea of perfect. And FYI: It also took working around the clock and then burning out in my 6th year of teaching and never wanting to go back.
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| #136: The entry routine that is magic for low-level disruption! The power of learning maps | 12 Aug 2025 | 00:19:30 | |
Join the Kickstart: https://www.the-unteachables.com/kickstart If your lessons feel like a sprint uphill from the very first bell... kids trickling in, backpacks still on, everyone chatting while you’re already repeating yourself, then friend, you don’t have an entry routine problem. You have an entry routine opportunity. This is part two of the Behaviour Club Kickstart, and today we’re talking entry routines! Specifically, the simple but mighty tool: Learning Maps. Think of Learning Maps like Google Maps for your lesson: they show students exactly where they’re headed, how they’ll get there, and why it matters. And the magic? They’re not just a “best practice” teaching tool, they’re also low-level behaviour kryptonite. I’ll walk you through:
It’s never just about the behaviour, it’s every dang thing we do in our classroom! What you’ll learn in this episode:
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| #28: Are You Setting Your Students Up for Success, or Failure (Without Even Realising It)? | 03 Jul 2023 | 00:17:55 | |
On today's episode I dive into how our beliefs and assumptions about our students have a direct correlation with either their success, OR their failure. These are the Pygmalion and Golem effects. The self-fulfilling prophesy.
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| #27: Addressing Misogyny (and Other Damaging Comments) in the Classroom: Your Step-by-Step Guide" | 27 Jun 2023 | 00:20:02 | |
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| #26: Sorry, Not Sorry: How Apologies Can Be a 'Get Out of Jail Free Card' for Students (and What to Do Instead) | 20 Jun 2023 | 00:24:26 | |
In this episode of The Unteachables Podcast, I talk apologies, and the conundrum of forcing them. It feels like a knee-jerk reaction when a student has done something harmful... "What do you say?" or "Say sorry."
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| #25: Rethinking discipline: Why consequences are only a small piece of the pie | 13 Jun 2023 | 00:21:45 | |
Join me in this week's episode of The Unteachables Podcast as I dive into the power of an actionable approach to restorative practice. Through this ep I will help you to discover how accountability, reflection, and restoration can transform those frustrating behaviour challenges into golden teaching opportunities. So, download for your commute, and get ready to explore **actionable** restorative practice. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #24: A Step-by-Step Guide on How to Set Expectations, and (More Importantly) Make Them an Effective Part of Your Day-to-Day Classroom Management. | 06 Jun 2023 | 00:23:12 | |
In this episode, I take you on a mini pod journey as I unravel my tips for setting expectations with students. Join me as I explore: - The drawbacks of traditional rules and the power of expectations in fostering collaboration and connection. - Why expectations are more effective in gaining student buy-in and creating a productive learning environment. - Practical strategies for effectively setting expectations, including dedicating explicit lessons and encouraging student input. - The importance of modelling accountability and creating a culture of trust and shared responsibility. - How to keep expectations alive throughout the school year and integrate them into daily classroom routines. - Why you, as a teacher, are a living embodiment of the expectations you set for your students. Listen along as I provide you with the tools and inspiration to establish a classroom culture where students feel respected, valued, and motivated to meet expectations. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #23: Mindfulness: 'Airy-fairy' or a crucial classroom management tool? With Laura from The Kindness Curriculum | 23 May 2023 | 01:00:48 | |
This episode is a BIG ONE! Listen in to hear us chat about...
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| #22: Why Your Students Might Be Rewarding (or Punishing) You with Their Behaviour: A Discussion on the Insidious Pedagogy of Poverty. | 16 May 2023 | 00:20:30 | |
"Have you ever experienced the quiet calm that sweeps over the room when you ask your students to copy the work off the board, write down definitions or do a word search? Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #21: When students say... NO! What to do, and how to avoid getting too triggered, with Danica from Little Bloom Consultancy | 09 May 2023 | 01:02:23 | |
On this week’s episode I get to have a chat with the incredible Danica, an educational mentor and consultant and the woman behind Little Bloom Consultancy. Through her work, she helps educators and parents transform how they support children’s behaviour and emotional development. Her work is firmly rooted in the values around teaching and respecting the whole human being, empathy, understanding. We discuss a wide range of things, including her series on ‘what to do when a child says no’ where she value-bombs the podcast by going through 4 practical steps to approaching challenging behaviour. Teachers, you just wait for the mantras that she gives us mid-way, they are absolutely transformative for our mindset and practice in the classroom! Keep your eyes peeled on Danica’s socials @littlebloom.consultancy - soon she’ll be releasing all of the juicy details about a free masterclass where she’ll be sharing some of the ‘what and why’ behind guidance as well as three strategies you’ll be able to implement straight away. She’ll also be releasing information shortly about a mini-course that takes you step-by-step through bringing guidance to life in your space. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #20: How to nail classroom management whilst leaving a legacy of kindness and compassion with every single student. An open house tour of That'll Teach 'Em | 25 Apr 2023 | 00:19:57 | |
Are you ready for an open house tour into That'll Teach 'Em?! I was plonked into a chaotic classroom with 30 ‘unmanageable’ and ‘unteachable’ students And then another, and another, year after year, and I had no option but to learn how to swim. It started with a little doggy paddle, and now I am on a pretty smooth freestyle, but it wasn’t an easy journey. Now, looking back from the other side, I know how desperately teachers need (and freaking deserve) quality support, training and mentorship. This sink or swim culture in teaching needs to freaking end (imagine just handing a surgeon a scalpel and telling them to cut without them seeing how it's done first?! That’s teaching) So I took all of my training, incredible mentorship, every single lesson (good and diabolical) and observation, all of the ‘constructive feedback’, my own research, and my years spent developing teams of teachers. All 13 years of it. Then… I broke it down into an 8 week course that gives you the roadmaps, strategies, knowledge and support to nail classroom management. And I am officially accepting enrolments into The April intake of That’ll Teach ‘Em (but not for long) So… if you’re a teacher (or one in the making) and you’re wanting to learn how to mitigate, address and resolve challenging behaviour in a way that leaves a legacy of kindness with every one of your students, then come and join me! Say goodbye to... ✕ Feeling overwhelmed and defeated by challenging behaviours in your class ✕ Having no idea what to do next… you’ve tried it all and those behaviours aren’t budging ✕ Feeling that anxious gut feeling going into another tough lesson, already watching that clock wanting it to be over ✕ Feeling disempowered, at the end of your tether, and out of control with your students…
✓ Walking into your classroom feeling empowered, skilled and ready to tackle whatever the lesson throws at you ✓ Knowing how to proactively plan and prepare for lessons in ways that mitigates and reduces challenging low-level and all level behaviours ✓ Being excited and re-energised to try new strategies that will not only support students who struggle with behaviour, but foster a calm and productive learning environment for every student ✓ Having the skills to resolve challenging behaviour by bringing kid on the journey, getting buy in, and actually helping them be accountable!
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| #19: The behaviour management trap that is keeping teachers stuck in survival mode | 18 Apr 2023 | 00:16:44 | |
On this week's episode I am going to be talking about the entire narrative around behaviour management that is getting teachers stuck in PURE survival mode. It is a trap! Seeing behaviour management is solely that. Behaviour management. Just about responding to and addressing behaviour. It keeps teachers in a viscous never-ending cycle. Particularly with low level behaviours that can't necessarily be resolved by doing anything about every little frustrating micromoment. Because, my friends, it is so much more than just the behaviour. Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #135: Is your teaching presence undermining your classroom management? | 05 Aug 2025 | 00:22:08 | |
Why Your Presence Might Be Undermining Your Classroom Management (And How to Fix It) Ever felt like you're being too nice... or not taken seriously enough in your classroom? Like you're walking a tightrope between being warm and relatable and being respected as the leader of the room? Whew—yeah. Been there. That’s exactly what today’s episode is all about. We're kicking off the Behaviour Club Kickstart with Day 1: PRESENCE—because how we show up in our classrooms (literally, physically) impacts everything from student engagement to classroom climate. And trust me, the shifts we can make here are subtle but mighty. In this episode, I’m giving you a front seat to one of the biggest lightbulb moments I ever had about classroom management—when I realised I wasn’t being taken seriously by my “easy” class… and it had everything to do with my nonverbal presence. Here’s what we’re covering:
If you want the visuals, templates, and reflection prompts that go with this episode, make sure you’re signed up for the Behaviour Club Kickstart. It's just $1 and includes all five sessions + a super practical kickstart booklet to help you embed the work in your day-to-day. 🎟 Join the Kickstart here: https://www.the-unteachables.com/kickstart What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
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| #18: Miss Honey: beloved teacher role model or a misleading representation of the job of teaching? | 11 Apr 2023 | 00:17:33 | |
Let’s talk about the fiction vs reality of Matilda’s MISS HONEY! She has inspired a generation of teachers. For so many she was actually the reason, the catalyst, the inspiration to get into the job of teaching. She was the saving grace to the kids she taught. She was generous, she was compassionate, she protected her students and their wellbeing from the incredibly punitive and nasty principal Ms Trunchbull, who used behaviour management strategies that were physically and psychologically abusive to the students at Crunchem Hall Primary School. However, her pedagogy wasn’t on point, because it takes a hell of a lot more than just a smile and taking interest to have a class that is engaged, happy and ‘well-behaved’. Challenging classroom behaviour is complex and nuanced, and dealing with it, addressing it, resolving it, reducing it, mitigating it, is also complex and nuanced. In this episode, I discuss the ‘Miss Honey Trap’ that leads teachers to believe that relationships are the only classroom management strategy needed, and go over my non-exhaustive list of things that actually go into classroom management on top of the relationships and your values around caring for each child:
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| #17: Are we just excusing ‘bad behaviour’? What teachers need to know about the ‘why’ behind challenging student behaviour | 04 Apr 2023 | 00:20:18 | |
In this episode, I answer the question, “aren’t we just excusing bad behaviour when we look into why it is happening?” Why bother learning about behaviour? Afterall, whatever the reason behind it, it doesn’t change the fact that it IS happening and we need to address it all the same as teachers right? So why spend time learning about it? Doesn’t learning about the why behind behaviour excuse the behaviour in a way? No, certainly not. In fact, learning more about the why behind the behaviour is incredibly empowering, not just for teachers who are dealing with this behaviour in front of them, but for students as well. Listen in as I explore many reasons why knowing the ‘why’ behind the behavior is so crucial for us as teachers and students who display challenging behaviour, including:
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| #16: Do you feel like you’re constantly repeating yourself? How to minimise the dreaded question “what are we doing?!” | 28 Mar 2023 | 00:22:22 | |
Who relates to finishing explaining a task to students only to have a hand pop up and ask… ”Sir/Miss, what are we doing?!” If you had a dollar for every time you had just explained a task and you get a question that if they were really listening, they wouldn’t need to ask in the first place, or that was irrelevant, or that forced you to explain what you had just explained, how many dollars would you have? If you asked me this in my first year of teaching, I would have had many dollars. But that amount of money I would have has significantly decreased. Of course I’d still have a few bucks in the jar, but it would be far more empty. This episode is about just that. What to do to minimise the questions and have a much smoother ride into tasks, get the students working from the get go, get rid of the task confusion, and just be able to crack on with things I am going to break it up into two types of strategies:
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| #15: What does a good teacher look like anyway?? A powerful discussion around teacher guilt and wellbeing, and your permission slip to just do your best and forget the rest! | 21 Mar 2023 | 01:10:37 | |
DO YOUR BEST, FORGET THE REST! If you’re looking for a permission slip to truly embrace the teacher you are, then look no further than this amazing interview with Ceri Sandford. This passionate woman behind the powerhouse Wine with teacher club and podcast goes deep with me as we discuss some of the challenges of teaching. We discuss some commonly shared feelings amongst teachers such as:
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| #14: A very honest chat about my teaching journey: How burn out, a break, and skipping the country led me to my passion and purpose. | 14 Mar 2023 | 00:27:14 | |
Welcome back to season 2 of The Unteachables Podcast - Woooo freaking hoo! And I am back with a brand new co-host, my 2 month old daughter Ava. Despite me training her up for 9 months, she didn’t contribute much, but I might just let her stick around. This episode I go through my journey in teaching, from the rapid growth of my first few years from beginning teacher to middle leadership. To burning out, quitting, and skipping the country. To the eventual progression to senior leadership. This episode is perfect for anybody who…
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| #13: 2022 all wrapped up. What you need to leave behind this year and move towards in 2023. | 13 Dec 2022 | 00:25:05 | |
Wow, teachers, 2022 has been a BIG year hasn’t it?! But let me ask you something… how do you really feel about it? Are you measuring yourself backwards and really appreciating how far you have come, OR have you gotten yourself in the habit of measuring yourself forwards to goalposts that are always changing? This concept is from the book ‘The Gap and The Gain’ by Dan Sullivan and Dr Benjamin Hardy, and is so useful in helping YOU see how you can transform your idea of success in the classroom in 2023! Here are your FINDING THE GAINS journal prompts (as promised!)
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| #12: The things I would go back and tell my first year teacher self. Tips, encouragement, and home truths. | 06 Dec 2022 | 00:23:07 | |
If you could sit across from your first year teacher self, what would you say? Well this episode is me exploring that very question for myself. If you’re a teacher in the making or a teacher still early in their career, I hope my reflections over this episode help bring a little validation, support and clarity. And if you’re an experienced teacher, this episode will be an exercise in reflection, to see just how far you’ve come, to look back and consider what you would say to your teacher self when you were still bright eyed and bushy tailed, and help you to put yourself back in that mindset of how you might be able to support newer teachers you are or will be working with. Head over now and access the course for the closing down sale! If you enrol now at the price of £99, you will be able to access the current course to begin immediately if you choose, BUT you will also automatically secure a space to start in the April intake and be able to access the new version of the course. Because it is going to be an offer that is naturally higher touch and support through live sessions and lessons, the price WILL be increasing from what it currently is. So if That’ll Teach ‘Em has been on your mind, then it might be a good time to join now! Download my free guide “10 Tiny (but mighty) Tips to Transform Your Teaching
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| #11: A teachers survival guide to navigating those tough last weeks of term. | 29 Nov 2022 | 00:22:04 | |
Who feels like they are crawwwwwwling to the holidays? That end of year push can feel impossibly exhausting. Buttttt as you know, being a teacher is pretty multifaceted, there's a lot of reasons why this time of year feels really tough, after all it's not just us at a computer getting through that last bit of work. It is us, plus 30 other human beings, who are also exhausted and counting down those days. So in this episode I'll be discussing WHY it is so tough, for us, and our students, as well as giving you some of my top classroom survival tips leading up to the break. I’ll be talking about:
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| #10: Cruel to be kind? Striking the balance between addressing behaviours and maintaining relationships | 22 Nov 2022 | 00:25:45 | |
I don’t need to sit here and tell you that building a positive relationship with a student is a pretty important part of the work we do. I am sure you also know that the students who really need that relationship the most to trust you and learn from you, are also sometimes the ones who display the most challenging behaviours! This is why it is SUCH a double edged sword, because you will then NEED to address more of their challenging behaviours. And every time you address a challenging behaviour, it can be like one step forward and three steps back in our efforts to build that relationship! But I say POTENTIALLY because it doesn’t have to be like that, there ARE ways that we can manage behaviours that do strike that very delicate balance, and we NEED to be able to do this to progress with our most vulnerable and challenging students. How?? In this episode, I give you a run down of classroom management that connects and disconnects, and explore the concept of using a students ‘emotional piggy bank’ to be very crafty and conscious of the way we establish and reinforce boundaries and expectations with ALL students!
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| #09: The most common teaching mistakes we make with classroom management, and the very quick and easy fixes that can transform behaviour. | 15 Nov 2022 | 00:24:24 | |
Mistakes, blunders, slips, errors… all of these are NOT dirty words… ESPECIALLY in teaching. In fact, I celebrate mistakes, I encourage mistakes, I welcome the vulnerability of teachers standing there and just doing their thing in the classroom KNOWING that mistakes are a part of the learning process. When it comes to classroom management in particular, there are some very common patterns in the mistakes that we can make that actually FUEL low-level behaviours with our students. The good news? These are all really easy to identify, reflect on, and then FIX! This means that if a teacher is open and willing to own up to their blunders, massive amounts of growth can happen, and happen FAST! In this episode, I go over some of these very common and very simple mistakes you could be making in the classroom, and give you some very real and practical advice on how to quickly and easily develop. For anybody who came to the show notes for those reflective questions - here they are!
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| #134: Bullying in the classroom?! 😖 How to talk to your students about it in a way that gets them listening, empathising, and creating change! | 28 Jul 2025 | 00:19:21 | |
Ever had a student yell "I'M BEING BULLIED!" when their friend won’t let them borrow a pencil? Meanwhile, real, insidious bullying is flying under the radar? HEAD TO THE BLOG HERE FOR ACTIVITIES + MORE 😁 In this episode, I’m giving you a front seat to the three-part framework I use to help students identify what actually counts as bullying, how to respond safely, and how to foster real empathy in your classroom. These are simple but powerful tools that work beautifully during Bullying. No Way! Week—but honestly, they’re useful any day of the school year. We’re talking real strategies, not posters and platitudes. You’ll also hear the story of the time I got my hair done by the girl who used to bully me in high school (yes, really), and what it taught me about what we really need to be doing to address bullying. What You’ll Learn:
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| #08: Low Level Behaviours, Big Level Frustrations! How to start to shift the low level disruptions that are stopping you from getting on with teaching. | 08 Nov 2022 | 00:34:00 | |
When I ask teachers what their biggest classroom behaviour challenges are, MOST of the time I will hear….
Low. Level. Behaviours. *SHUDDER*
For SO many teachers, these behaviours sit in this difficult grey area. They are annoying enough to completely derail a lesson, but not quite severe enough to warrant a big response. They are the behaviours that stop the learning, and make you want to chuck in the towel and run screaming out of the lesson! The calling out, the talking over, the tapping, the funny noises, the disengagement, the coming late and leaving early, the whispers, the chatter, the laugher, the throwing things across the room and talking with friends, the blatant ”no” to your requests. This episode takes you through my own journey of learning how to not just address, but mitigate and reduce these behaviours, and guides you to do the same through a few of my top non-verbal classroom management strategies! Join the masterclass - Unlocking Your Teaching Superpower: Non Verbal Classroom Management! The Masterclass goes LIVE on Sunday November 27th at 9am GMT, with access to the replay for wherever you are in the world! https://theunteachables.myshopify.com/products/2030799 Add both the masterclass AND That’ll Teach ‘Em to you basket to bundle them together and receive 30% off the total price of enrolment!! Download my free guide “10 Tiny (but mighty) Tips to Transform Your Teaching - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62dc1deb87802ab6bcaf6015 Check out my full training program That’ll Teach ‘Em. Enrol for 20% off with the code PODCAST20- https://the-unteachables.com/products/1794465 Or simply come and say hello over on Instagram @the.unteachables https://www.instagram.com/the.unteachables/ Have a question, comment, or just want to say hello? Drop us a text! RESOURCES AND MORE SUPPORT:
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| #07: The cover lesson survival guide: How to calm the chaos and get through the day in one piece. | 01 Nov 2022 | 00:29:40 | |
So many classroom management strategies rely on a foundation of not only relationships and rapport, but solid routines and a whole lot of consistency to be effective. But what if you have absolutely no opportunity to do this because you have either chosen the path of, or are currently in the role of, a casual / supply / substitute teacher (whatever you call it in your patch of the world)! I know how incredibly hard it can be teaching one of these lessons, you don’t even know their names! Let alone having the time to really build any kind of meaningful relationship.. That luxury of developing consistent routines? Nope not that either!! Now sometimes this is totally fine. Sometimes you might walk into a classroom and the students are really cool, calm and collected and are ready to just crack on with whatever cover work has been left with you. But you and me both know that that is rarely the case. This episode is your survival guide! It will step you through how to build your skills, and your confidence walking into a classroom of students who don’t know you from a bar of soap, and get through that day in one piece (even maybe have FUN in the process!)
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| #06: Don’t take it personally? The teaching advice that is much easier said than done. | 25 Oct 2022 | 00:22:15 | |
I am sure you have heard this being said before, ‘don’t take it personally.. it isn’t about you’... This episode will unpack the truth in the ‘don’t take it personally’ advice, but ALSO give you the much needed knowledge and support to protect your peace and manage these really difficult moments in the classroom. In this episode, I talk about:
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