Being a stepmum was never part of her plan but she gave it everything. From parenting at 21 to raising an autistic child, she stepped into a role full of love and responsibility. Yet, even with all her effort, the relationship didn’t survive. Her story reminds us that blended families are full of love, but also full of challenges and sometimes, love isn’t enough to make it last.

Teachers play a big part in our children's lives. In this episode, we explore how all these family dynamics show up in the classroom, often in ways parents don’t realize. Our guest, Christine Vulimu—a teacher of over 30 years, coach, public speaker, and accredited mediator—shares some of the eye-opening stories she’s witnessed and offers thoughtful, compassionate advice for parents doing their best in complex situations. This conversation is a reminder that healing at home can help children thrive everywhere else.

Finances are never a easy topic to discuss, furthermore in a blended family. Let's dive deep and talk about some of the things I've learnt are important to consider when navigating the Blended family dynamic.

Nobody tells you about the guilt involved once you become a stepmom, There's a lot I wish I knew going in. Oddly the guilt manifests in ways that never crossed your mind. Today I dive deep into the lessons I learned and share tips to help you manoeuvre in a blended family.

In this episode, I talk about dealing with your partner's ex in a blended family. My tips, tricks and everything in between. Dealing with the kids biological mother can be sticky. Learning to navigate what kind of relationship you will have moving forward, who will play what role, making big decisions about the children, is even harder. Join me as we uncover my own experience and together, learn from it. At first this was very unfamiliar territory but with time, and many fumbles. I developed my own strategies on how to manoeuvre and keep the peace.

Welcome to the first episode of my new (and long awaited) project, The Stepmum Podcast. It's truly been a long time coming. In this episode, I talk about my experience with Mother's Day as a step mum, the good, the bad, the ugly. But even as I recorded this, I was filled with so much love and gratitude for my blended family, connected by chance but accepted by choice. So join me on this journey, let's walk together 'step' by 'step'.

If you're not keen, you could walk into a blended family that's dead on arrival, today my guest shares their two cents on the topic. Also, we are finally at the Finale of the first season of the podcast, thank you to everyone that walked this journey with me. See you on season 2. Please subscribe and share. It's free:)

Trouble in paradise, reflections, happy memories, and the works. In my last episode of the season, I share my thoughts on the road so far.

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The many truths I've learned about a blended family that have made me reassess my belief system significantly. Tune in as I share advice my younger self would have greatly benefited from everything blended family.

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My Blended Family and social media journey has never been easy, even 15 years later I'd still pick them over and over. They are my choice.

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Disengaging and choosing peace is the biggest lesson I can give. Being the bigger person doesn't always work. I suggest you set your boundaries and live. In this podcast episode, I discuss how I navigate conflict in a blended family.

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Why I Hid Our baby in my blended family still baffles me. My Ours Baby is adored by my blended family. Children know more than you think. My biggest lesson was to keep the communication flowing and trust the process. Enjoy the Episode. Please Subscribe and Share.

Today I answer all your Blended Family questions. These are just my opinions but I hope to help anyone who's going through it. Enjoy the video. Please Subscribe and share.

Discipline is a tough one, especially in a blended family, one thing I've come to learn is there is no love without boundaries. In today's podcast I share my tips and tricks in extending each other grace in a blended family.

Becoming a stepmum doesn’t come with a handbook, but if it did, this would be the starter kit I wish I had when I began my journey.

In this episode, I’m sharing the lessons, tools, and truths I’ve learned along the way, the ones I’d tell every new stepmum right from the start.

From mindset shifts to setting boundaries, from navigating emotions to building healthy relationships, this is a raw and heartfelt guide to help you feel less alone and more equipped.

Whether you’re just stepping into this role or you’ve been on the path for a while, this episode is for you.

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Birthdays. Graduations. Family milestones. In a blended family, these moments can be the sweetest… or the trickiest. 🎂🎓✨ In this episode, I’m spilling the tea on how I navigate & still navigate ceremonies as a stepmum — making sure every child feels seen, loved, and celebrated… without turning the day into a drama series. 🥂💛If you’ve ever wondered how to keep the peace and keep the joy, this one’s for you.If you’ve been in a blended family, what’s the trickiest celebration you’ve had to navigate?Catch the full episode on our Apple Podcast Platforms & Spotify.

Ready to unlock the secrets to a harmonious blended family life? Join us as our expert family lawyer shares invaluable advice for legal clarity and peaceful coexistence. Settle in for an enlightening conversation filled with practical tips and heartwarming anecdotes. From navigating custody to smoothing out inheritance wrinkles, this discussion promises to be both informative and entertaining. Don't miss your chance to discover the keys to a happier, legally secure blended family! ______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

Get ready for a fun and insightful dive into money talk in blended families! In this video, our lively finance coach shares top advice on tackling common financial problems, the realities of going 50/50 in relationships, and strategic planning for your financial future. Discover why having money conversations with your partner is a game-changer and pick up exciting tips to master your family's finances. Tune in for an entertaining and educational chat that promises to boost your financial savvy and bring harmony to your blended family. Watch now for a brighter financial future!______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

In this video, we get real about co-parenting. From the ups and downs to the everyday realities, we cover it all. Tune in to hear personal stories, practical tips, and honest advice on making co-parenting work. Whether you're just starting out or looking for ways to improve, this video is packed with insights to help you navigate co-parenting successfully. Don't miss out on this authentic discussion about what it really takes to co-parent effectively.______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

If you're not keen, you could walk into a blended family that's dead on arrival, today my guest shares their two cents on the topic. Also we are finally at the Finale of the first podcast, thank you to everyone that walked this journey with me.

See you on season 2.

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Enjoyed the video? Please subscribe and share. It's free :)______________________________________________________________________________________“You’re too young to be a stepmum.”“That’s not your child, why do you care so much?”“You knew what you were getting into…”This week on the podcast, we’re peeling back the layers of the stigma that comes with being a stepmum — especially when you marry into a blended family young.The awkward stares. The unsolicited advice. The unspoken expectations.But also… the growth, the unexpected joys, and the quiet strength it takes to show up every day in a role most people don’t fully understand.It’s raw, it’s real, it’s a little spicy — and definitely a conversation we need to be having.🎧 Tune in & watch the full episode. Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify as well. Share your thoughts on the stigma you may have faced stepping into the stepmum role or send this to someone who gets it.BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

SEASON 3 IS HEREEE! 🥳🎙️And we’re diving straight into the deep end 👀💸Episode 1 is all about… MONEY.Yes, the real conversations around finances in blended families. From awkward chats to deal-breaking truths, we’re unpacking why money matters in every stage of the relationship — dating, marriage, co-parenting and everything in between.It’s raw. It’s honest. It’s giving let’s normalize this conversation.Audio version available on Spotify & Apple Podcast. Let’s talk about the money talks nobody warns you about in relationships💬💔👛#TheStepmumPodcast #Season3 #BlendedFamilyRealTalk #MoneyMatters

Being a stepmum was never part of her plan but she gave it everything. From parenting at 21 to raising an autistic child, she stepped into a role full of love and responsibility. Yet, even with all her effort, the relationship didn’t survive. Her story reminds us that blended families are full of love, but also full of challenges and sometimes, love isn’t enough to make it last.Enjoyed the video? Please subscribe and share. It's free :)______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .

Teachers play a big part in our children's lives. In this episode, we explore how all these family dynamics show up in the classroom, often in ways parents don’t realize. Our guest, Christine Vulimu—a teacher of over 30 years, coach, public speaker, and accredited mediator—shares some of the eye-opening stories she’s witnessed and offers thoughtful, compassionate advice for parents doing their best in complex situations. This conversation is a reminder that healing at home can help children thrive everywhere else.Enjoyed the video? Please subscribe and share. It's free :)______________________________________________________________________________________To connect with Christine Vulimu:Phone Number: 0742199224Facebook: Christine VulimuEmail: cvmusimbi@gmail.comWebsite: https://onehandinitiative.org/______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

In this heartfelt episode, we share the inspiring story of a stepdad who stepped in and stepped up to create a loving blended family. With both he and his partner bringing children from previous relationships, they’ve built something beautiful together—a family rooted in love, understanding and patience. His honesty about the ups and downs of blending two families is both heartwarming and inspiring. This is a story of resilience, the power of stepping into a fatherly role, and the deep bonds that grow when love leads the way. Watch as this proud stepdad reflects on the joy of becoming a father figure to more than just his own.______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

This episode dives into the heartfelt journeys of two stepdaughters from different blended families. One found love and belonging, while the other faced a tougher path. Their stories reveal the true realities of being a stepchild—the victories, the struggles and the emotional complexity of blending families. Through their unique experiences, we gain insight into the ups and downs that stepchildren often navigate, showing that every journey is different, but each is equally powerful.________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

This touching episode captures Clare Karatu's heartfelt journey who transitioned from single motherhood to building a blended family with her two daughters. Through her candid experiences, she reflects on the challenges and joys of merging her life with her new family. Her story is one of resilience, love and the delicate balance of nurturing relationships in a blended household. Witness how she navigates this transformative chapter, embracing both the struggles and the beautiful moments that come with blending families.______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/

Experience Wanjiku's heartfelt journey who has lived through the complexities of blended family life. From navigating the ups and downs as a child in a blended family to managing the unique challenges of raising her own children in a new blended family, she offers a deep look into her dual perspective. In this episode she shares her personal stories, the lessons learned and how these experiences have shaped her approach to family and relationships.______________________________________________________________________________________BUSINESS INQUIRIES: info@fashionablestepmum.comINSTAGRAM:   / fashionablestepmum  TWITTER:   / fashionablestep  FACEBOOK:   / fashionables.  .______________________________________________________________________________________PERSONAL BLOG: https://www.fashionablestepmum.com/IMAGE CONSULTANCY WEBSITE: https://imageredefined.co.ke/BLENDED FAMILIES WEBSITE: https://blendedbylove.com/MY PROFILE: http://catherinekariuki.co.ke/