Is passion long-gone from your bedroom? Are you pining for the days of flirtatious fun and playful date nights, wondering when did sex start to feel like a chore?

Join us with Sex and Intimacy Coach, Dr Stacy Friedman who specializes in educating and empowering individuals through fun, open, and judgment-free conversations about love, sex, romance, and adult pleasure products, in order to normalize sexuality and spark confidence, playfulness, and curiosity at any stage of life.

GUEST: Dr Stacy Friedman

BIO:

Dr Stacy Friedman got into the field of Clinical Sexology because of her passion for helping people better connect and experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves or with their partner(s).  

She holds a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality in addition to a Masters in Clinical Sexology and am a Certified Sex Coach and is a member of WASC (World Association of Sex Coaching), including ACS (The American College of Sexologists) which shows that she has earned top credentials in her field. Stacy also has a BA in Psychology and has been a Registered Diagnostic Medical Sonographer and Vascular Sonographer since 1994. This experience allows her to have a vast medical background and be knowledgeable about medical conditions and disease processes that can affect how the body functions physically, emotionally and sexually.

She has had the experience of reaching many men and women to educate them in a fun, positive approach to love, romance and all aspects of sexuality through her workshops and expertise with regard to adult toys and novelties since 2006.  Her education, her own sexual journey and life experience enables her to help you move forward in a positive direction to face the challenges that may lie ahead and to achieve your goals. 

Coaching is designed to help women, men, of any sexual orientation or gender, address their concerns about sexuality, sexual function, and sexual expression. 

Are you an adventurous couple looking to push your boundaries and explore your naughty side? Did you ever consider spending a week on The Bliss with thousands of other sexy, open-minded peeps, even though you're not a swinger?

Join us live from The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, chatting with a vanilla couple (non-swingers) as they share their personal experience as first-timers on The Bliss Cruise. They get down and dirty with details of their sexual sexscapes which left them smiling, connected and closer as a couple, even though she ended up with a sex injury and in a wheel chair.

Join us in this special 500th episode where we have one of our favorite guests discussing her book which is so relevant to our mantra, 'Great Sex Matters… and we all deserve it'.

If you have ever wondered why great sex matters, then you are on the right track to understanding yourself, your body and the reasons why you need pleasure and intimacy.

Join us with Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise Author of "Why Good Sex Matters" as we discuss many topics from her book, like: How pleasure is a necessity, What drives intimacy, When our health is affected by our sex life, How shame and sexual repression hurt us, Why stress is the ultimate desire killer and so much more.

GUEST: Dr Nan Wise

BIO:

Dr. Nan Wise is a licensed psychotherapist, cognitive neuroscientist, certified sex therapist, board certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist with three decades of experience. Driven by an intense desire to understand how the brain operates to create moods and behaviors, she returned to academia in 2009 to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience at Rutgers-Newark where she completed her dissertation project, "Genital stimulation, imagery, and orgasm in women: an fMRI analysis" in August of 2014. Her research has attempted to address gaps in the scientific literature regarding the neural basis of human sexuality, and as a result, has garnered international attention.

Dr. Nan's interest in the biology of emotional well-being is both personal and professional. She was born into a family predisposed to anxiety and suffered her first panic attack at age 21 while working at a psychiatric hospital. Although she initially grappled with feelings of shame and embarrassment, she discovered that her willingness to be authentic about her own struggles proved to be a major breakthrough. By accepting her anxiety and embracing her personal quest to find ways to loosen and soften around it, she became a lifelong student and teacher of what she needed (and continues to need) to practice and learn.

Check out her new book on Sex: Why Good Sex Matters

Do you struggle with saying no, being taken advantage of, or feeling overwhelmed in your relationships? Whether you're a seasoned boundary-setter or just starting to explore this concept, you may need some wisdom that will inspire and equip you to build the meaningful connections you deserve. Join Sexologist, Dr Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, together with Author and Coach, Heather Claus from couriouser.life, as they dive deep into the world of boundaries. You will discover how to revolutionize the way you relate to yourself and others. With Heather's expertise and practical advice, you will understand better how setting clear boundaries can lead to more fulfilling relationships, improved self-esteem, and enhanced personal growth.

Are you trying to figure out how to talk about sex, sexuality and your swinging lifestyle with your family and friends... but you don't know where to begin? Do you wish it was easier to initiate conversations about private matters without feeling shame and embarrassment? Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel as we chat with two Aussie couples who are in The Lifestyle but at two different stages of their relationships. One has open conversations with their family about pleasured based sexuality, and the other is still learning to open up. They both share their personal journeys into the lifestyle and how it makes their relationship stronger.

Do you get anxious about sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner? Perhaps you're worried about being judged or even rejected because of them? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach, chatting with some open-minded guests who are on their first visit to Hedo together. Even though both have been to Hedo separately, their new experiences together help them get closer and learn more about each other, especially when they talk about their fantasies and how they want to bring them to fruition.

Have you ever thought about how to manage reproductive health within the context of non-monogamy by using self-awareness, mindfulness and balance to encourage fertility awareness in diverse relationship structures. Join Cannabis Expert, Ashley Manta from CanaSexual, as she chats with Vagina Consultant, Vienna Farlow who is a Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner. This conversation offers a refreshing perspective on fostering a deeper connection to one's body and relationships, challenging traditional narratives. Plus, they delve into the fascinating world of breeding kinks and fetishes!

Do you get turned-on by reading erotica? What about when the erotic stories are true tales of real sexual adventures experienced by a swinger couple? Join us with the authors of 3 erotic novels recounting real-life swinger stories. With a focus on the friendships and personal connections created in the swinging lifestyle, they write with passion and intensity to produce steamy hot erotica for anyone who is interested in the underground world of consensual non-monogamy.

Are you constantly too tired for sex? Or simply can't find the time? Has work and family monopolized all your time and energy, leaving your couple teetering on the edge of disaster? Do you ever wonder how other couples manage to keep it sexy? Join us, with Sexologist, Dr Megan Fleming, author of the book, Invisible Divorce: Finding Your Way Back to Connection, as we chat about how important it is to make time every day to work on your relationship, and spice-up your sex life if you want to continue to nourish your strong, loving couple.

Are you intimidated by the possibility of meeting thousands of sexy peeps on The Bliss Cruise? Are you wondering how to make meaningful connections that can lead to sexy-fun and friendship… and more? Join us on board The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel as we engage The Bliss Ambassadors, Lilly and Mike, who are there to ensure you have one hell of a sexy vacation. In charge of helping you break the ice, find new friends, connect and play, Lilly and Mike's onboard workshops will empower you to confidently pursue your desires and fulfill them, making this the most thrilling Lifestyle Adventure ever!

How can the harmonious combination of cannabis and joyful movement amplify body confidence and foster self-love, creating a space for individuals to embrace their unique beauty and dance to their own rhythm? Join Sex and Relationship Coach, Ashley Manta, from CannaSexual®, with the incredible Bevin, creator of Fat Kid Dance Party, as they explore the joyful synergy between cannabis and body confidence. Discover how this power duo can ignite your passion for movement, banishing insecurities and embracing the pure joy of being in your body. Get ready to groove, laugh, and feel the liberation of self-love as we dive into the magic of cannabis-assisted movement, empowering you to unleash your inner dance diva and celebrate the beauty of your unique self. It's a journey of self-discovery, self-expression, and pure body positivity.

Did you know that our most powerful sex organ is the brain, and it takes all of our senses to fully engage our sexual desires? Erotic stimulation comes in all forms, and can begin with sexy entertainment like erotic performances, role play and sexy costumes. Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Negril Beach, chatting with two stage performers, Starry Tiberio and Keri Gold, who frequent the resort, bringing their beauty and erotic energy onto the stage and into their performances to the delight of all who witnesses their exotic talents. On this episode we dive deep into the struggle with body image, especially with women, discussing how we can feel empowered by our own sexiness. Experiencing the openness of Hedo can bring about a change in how we feel about our bodies. Encouraged by the theme nights, costumes and role play can help us get over the insecurities that sometimes get in the way of our own sexual energy.

Do you ever wonder how social media influencers deal with the constant negative feedback from the haters and the nay-sayers and how it might affect their mental health? Join our guest host, Dr Stephanie Sigler, from Evolve your Intimacy, as she gets personal with Eric B Zink, an accomplished social media influencer dealing with the topics of lifestyle, addiction, and mental health, as he shares his first-hand experience with the intense pressures and challenges that come along with being at the top of the social media game including the rise and impact of cancel culture, and dealing with online criticism and how it affects your mental health They open-up a discussion about the swinging lifestyle and the role social media plays in this alternative realm of relationships, the norms, the stigmas and the impact of social media on personal connections in general.

Are you looking to take "50 Shades" to the next level? Perhaps you are curious about kinky play and need additional information to get started.

 Join us with Sex Educator and Kink Expert, Gigi Engle, author of the book, "Kink Curious" as she provides extensive information about the world of kink from kink identity to safe words, aftercare and everything else in between. How far do you want to go?

GUEST: Gigi Engle

BIO:

Gigi Engle is a feminist author, certified sex coach, sexologist and sex educator.

As a sexpert with Lifestyle Condoms, she promotes and teaches about pleasure-based sex education and safer sex practices.

Gigi serves as a Pleasure Professional with O.School, where she teaches a number of classes centered around pleasure sexual health and confidence.

Her work regularly appears in many publications including Brides, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour and Women's Health.

Gigi formerly was the sex and dating writer for Thrillist Media Group and the senior sex and lifestyle writer for Elite Daily. Gigi's articles have been shared over 50 million times.

She also writes an advice column: Ask Gigi and is an original member of The Women of Sex Tech.

BOOKS:

All The Fucking Mistakes: a Guide to Sex, Love and Life

Kink Curious: A Guide to Exploring Your Kinks, Dispelling Shame and Staying Safe

 

Are you an astrology buff? Have you ever considered your birth chart to be the key to unlocking your sensual superpowers? Join our guest host, Ashley Manta from CannaSexual®, and Professional Astrologer & Ayahuasca Shaman, Danny Santos, as they team up for an exhilarating discussion about the cosmic and earthly realms of relationships, sexuality, astrology, and cannabis. With Ashley's expertise in empowerment and intimacy and Danny's profound insights in astrology and plant medicine, they navigate the celestial dance of desire and the soothing effects of cannabis on connection. Discover how stars and herbs align to enrich our relationships, deepen sensuality, and enhance our understanding of love's infinite dimensions. It's an exploration that transcends earthly boundaries and elevates your connection with the universe and the ones you love.

Are you too busy for a social life, never mind a sex life? Is your daily grind creeping into your private time? Perhaps sex is becoming less of a priority in your busy schedule. After a while, we get used to having less sex – not that we like it – but we accept it. Until… one day we realize that it's been months since our last sexual encounter. If you want to turn this around then join us with Sex Therapist, Dr Katie Schubert, as she reveals the key ingredient to staying sexy in your relationship. We take a hard look at how to rebuild sexual intimacy and why you should want to get the "sexy" back into your sex life by reigniting desire within your couple. It's all critical to our sense of well-being.

Do you ever wonder why you or your partner wakes up with morning wood every day… and what it means when you don't? Are you looking for answers to your questions about healthy erections? Join us with Erection Expert, Dr Elliot Justin, Founder and CEO of Firm Tech Inc, which is his latest venture promoting sexual wellness by focusing on keeping men firm and fit for a lifetime. Dr Elliot has developed a specialized cock ring that acts as a pressure monitor to measure the firmness and duration of erections during sex and throughout the night while sleeping. We dive deep into the science behind erectile fitness and how it relates to cardiac health and overall fitness.

Are you aware of the pleasure gap between men and women? Wondering why men have orgasms almost every time they have sex and yet women don't? Ladies!! If you are not experiencing mind-blowing, body-rippling, can't-help-screaming-out-loud orgasms, then you need to listen to this episode… and take notes. Join us with Dr Laurie Mintz, Author of "Becoming Clitorate", as we discuss why Orgasm Equality matters – and how we get it.

Are you suffering from symptoms of menopause? Wondering if cannabis can help with some relief? Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual as she chats with Sex Therapist, Dr. Shannon Chavez all about the fascinating world of menopause and cannabis. Discover how cannabis can offer relief from the unique challenges that menopause brings, from hot flashes to sexual health. Dr. Chavez combines her expertise in sexuality and cannabis to shed light on the potential benefits, risks, and best practices cannabis, offering valuable insights for those navigating the transformative journey of menopause.

Have you ever wondered why some relationships feel shallow and lacking in depth, while others bring us a profound sense of belonging and understanding? Do you want to learn how to cultivate deeper connections and experience greater joy in your relationships? If your answer is yes, then you're in the right place! Join Dr Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy with Intimacy Expert, Beth Darling, as they get into the different types of intimacy! Intimacy goes far beyond the realm of romance, and it touches every aspect of our lives. Whether it's our relationship with ourselves, our friends, or even our coworkers, understanding the different ways we connect and build meaningful bonds opens up endless possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment. If this resonates with you, stay tuned as we dive into the 5 kinds of intimacy, uncovering the secrets to creating deeply fulfilling connections that will transform your life.

Are you looking for ways to have better sex, longer sessions at more frequency intervals? If you're huffing and puffing during sex, with sweat dripping off your forehead, you may already know that you need to improve your cardio game. But, that's always easier said than done. Join us with Fitness Experts, April and Scott, from Naughty Gym as we talk about the best ways to get "fit to fuck" even if you've never jogged a mile in your life. If you want your body to continue to be an amazing source of pleasure, you have to provide the care and feeding required to maintain and nourish your body. It's that simple! You may be surprised to find out how small changes can go a long way to improving your sex life when you're motivated by pleasure.

Are you curious about what happens behind the scenes of a lifestyle vacation through the eyes of the organizers and host couples? Perhaps you want to know how they contribute to the wellbeing of their group and help make your trip the most erotic sexy vacation ever. Join us with host couple, Jessica and Justin, from My Frisky Business as we review the background details of their most recent Topless Travel event at Hedonism II in Jamaica. We cover everything from the role of the host couple, to playroom etiquette and the dos and don'ts for first timers through their personal experiences and sexy-fun stories. You'll begin to understand why traveling with a group has its advantages, even if they have been to the resort before.

Are you curious about the future of sex and the role of SexTech in our lives today and the decades to come? Can you imagine a world where people will have real relationships with robots including companionship and sex? Join us with Bobbi Bidochka, co-chair of Love & Sex with Robots, as we discuss her upcoming Academic Conference, Reimagine Sexuality. In our round-table discussion we review some of the topics that her expert presenters will be covering in the conference and share our opinions on why those topics are vital to our growth and understanding about human sexuality, and how SexTech and AI will revolutionize our sexual experiences and change our perceptions about sex and sexuality forever.

Are you curious about how cannabis can be used to enhance our understanding of ourselves and the world around us, revealing some of its profound benefits for embodiment, presence, and attunement. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual and Relationship Coach, Dr Charlie Glickman, as they delve into the world of cannabis embark on a transformative journey, exploring the ancient wisdom and modern science behind this remarkable plant's ability to heighten our sensory perception, connect us with the present moment, and deepen our self-awareness like never before. Through intimate conversations with experts and personal testimonials, we unravel the secrets of how cannabis unlocks the gates of mindfulness and allows individuals to explore their bodies in ways they never thought possible. From this we venture into a topic often shrouded in taboo: the surprising benefits of cannabis for anal play. Brace yourself for an open and honest discussion, shedding light on how cannabis can play a role in elevating prostate stimulation (and so many other things!) Join Beducated.com, the #1 online platform for sexual health and happiness, and save 40% off the annual membership with coupon code: SEXYLIFESTYLE Click this link NOW: https://beducate.me/pd2329-sexylifestyle

Are you looking for new ways to explore and share your fantasies with your partner? Perhaps you find it hard because you feel shy or ashamed of how much you want to try new sexual adventures with your partner and with other people too? Do you have difficulty opening-up the conversation and talking about your wants and needs for better sex?

Join us with a sexy-fun couple at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we talk about their experiences with opening-up and pushing their boundaries to discover new and exciting ways to incorporate her bisexuality and his desire to keep her satisfied and fulfilled. We get deep into orgasms, orgies and anal play and why they love going to Hedonism II Resort so much.

 

When you choose Topless Travel, you're choosing days filled with sun-soaked fun and nights pulsating with raw, vibrant energy. You're choosing to explore hidden gems in wonderful locations, to lose yourself in the excitement of life, and to indulge in delights that are as diverse as they are erotic.

 Indulge in Exclusive Perks

From the moment you embark on your journey with us, you'll be treated to express check-in, welcoming you to the start of a fantastic adventure. Dive into our welcoming cocktail receptions, where you'll get a taste of the thrill that's in store. In your welcome bag, you'll discover a treasure trove of goodies, from personalized name necklaces to unique keepsakes.

Join Us for Fun and Games

With Topless Travel, there's never a dull moment. Expect special pool games that will get your heart racing, and happy hours that will have you raising your glasses and toasting to the good life. Want more? How about daily prizes, giveaways, and raffles that add an extra sprinkle of excitement to your vacation?

Travel with Your Tribe

Traveling with Topless Travel offers you more than a getaway; it's a golden ticket to a vibrant community of like-minded pleasure-seekers. Revel in the joy of meeting new friends and dive into captivating conversations by the poolside, dance the night away with newfound companions, or share a sunset with fellow travelers who share your lust for adventure. With Topless Travel, every journey is a celebration of life, love, and the connections we make along the way.

Explore Beyond the Ordinary

Craving for more adventure? We've got you covered. With access to a wide range of excursions, you have the opportunity to experience the local culture, sights, and sounds of our incredible destinations.

Experience Exceptional Service

Throughout your journey, our on-site Topless Travel agents will be at your service, ensuring your experience is as seamless as it is exciting. We're here to make your adventure as enjoyable and carefree as possible.

So, are you ready to take the plunge into a world of adventure, fun, and sensual excitement? Start your Topless Travel journey today!

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Are you curious about ethical porn and what they do differently during the shooting process in order to get the different perspective of pornographic scenes that they are aiming for? Perhaps you are looking for a more female centric porn style for your own sexual entertainment. Join us with Sexology Girl, Avril Louise Clarke, the Intimacy Coordinator for Erika Lust Films, as we get a behind the scenes look into the filming of ethical porn, from how to stay hard and premature ejaculation, to condom rules, squirting and prepping for anal sex. We cover it all!

Have you ever wondered what makes people want to open-up their marriage? Perhaps you are having discussions about how you too can get on the band wagon of having consensual sex with other compatible singles and couples. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Holy Richmond, as we get into our favorite topics, open relationships, consensual non-monogamy and polyamory. We talk about why people are opening-up more today than ever before. And, Dr Holy reveals some of her best tips and tricks to help couples open-up their relationships successfully and ensure their primary relationship stays solid while their connection grows with extracurricular sexual experiences they fantasize about.

Are you and your partner interested in joining The Sexy Lifestyle community, but you don't know where to begin or how to integrate yourselves? Perhaps you've been invited to a travel event, and you are looking for more information about what you can expect. Join us with Party Organizers, Shannon and Frank, from Pussycat Parties, as they share their advice on how 'sexy travel newbies' can feel comfortable exploring their own sexuality within a group of open-minded folks, whether or not they want to share their partners, be exhibitionists or simply watch the sexy fun as voyeurs. We cover the most common dos and don'ts that help couples enjoy their first experience at a lifestyle resort with guidelines that will translate into sexy fun and lasting friendships.

Do you feel shame and embarrassment around masturbation? Are you having difficulties talking about masturbation with your partner or even your friends? Well, you're not alone. Most of us are taught to experience sexual pleasure in "stealth mode" – as quickly and silently as possible. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual as she talks with Sex and Relationship Writer, Ryn Pfeuffer, discussing how cannabis can be a powerful ally in shedding shame and feeling more present and embodied, especially for those who feel self-conscious about their bodies and their pleasure. By the end of the episode you'll understand the legacy of feminist icon, Dr. Betty Dodson, how to incorporate cannabis into your masturbation practices, and feel more comfortable using allies like toys and lube to enhance your experience.

Are you still intrigued by the kinkiness of Fifty Shades of Grey? Perhaps you are looking for more credible information about the kink and BDSM lifestyle? Join us with Film Producer, Todd "Max" Carey, as we dive deep into his newest documentary, "Touch Kink" which provides a glimpse into the real world of the Dominatrix, the Sub, the Slave, and the Newbie. This film provides an honest reflection of a community that is widely misunderstood, judged and shamed for their practices, and presents a candid point of view for those who are genuinely intrigued to open up discussions about kink, and ask questions like: "Would we? Could we? Should we?"

Are you questioning the security of your long-term, sexual relationship? Is it currently lacking luster and excitement, causing you to worry that your partnership is in peril? If only we could learn how to have open dialogue about maintaining deep and meaningful connections with our lovers. Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Dr Stacy Friedman, as we broach the subject of how to maintain our sexual relationships to ensure stability and viability over time, to overcome the waning "honeymoon phase" where the sexual chemistry is at its peak, and ramp up the "couple phase" to include more connected sex, as we bond and learn to honor and cherish each other, as we move towards true love.

Do you consider yourself open-minded enough to mingle with a swinger group… without judgment? Perhaps you're curious about The Lifestyle and want to watch vicariously from afar? Join us from The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, chatting with two of the on-board entertainment groups, KINGS OF QUEEN, a popular Queen cover band, and SAVANNAH JACK, who performed on the Bliss Cruise to a standing-room-only, sexy, open-minded crowd… and crushed it! After their work was done, they got to experience the Bliss Cruise at its most decadent best… for the rest of the week, and they had lots to say about it.

Do you struggle with sexual communication? Are you interested in exploring your sexual desires safely with your partner but are unsure where to begin? Join Dr. Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she interviews Jack Polo, creator of Triple X Playground, the "Best Adult Sex Game Ever!" ™. TXP has created a naughty adult playground where "You Set the Environment, We Take It There" ™. This holistic tool is designed to help couples with those unfulfilled moments waiting to be unleashed, by providing the most exciting fantasies to reach the highest levels of climax while bridging the gap of communication, building trust, and creating stronger bonds in any adult relationship free of judgment and awkwardness.

Are you curious but squeamish when it comes to anal play? Perhaps you're afraid that it might hurt, or that you might hurt your partner. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual, together with award winning author and sex educator, Tristan Taormino, the 'Anal Queen' herself, as they discuss how cannabis can be an incredible ally when it comes to reducing discomfort that might arise during anal play. Its analgesic properties can help calm the nerves, making the whole experience more enjoyable and stress-free. You will find out how communication and consent are key when exploring any new territory, especially when it comes to anal play, and how cannabis can help you embark on a journey of pleasure, intimacy, and exploration like never before.

Is consensual non-monogamy a lifestyle that you find perplexing? Are you confused about the terminology and the nuances of various styles of sexual expression that include other people and other couples? Join us with Dr Edward Fernandes, aka Dr Ziggy, researcher and expert on Ethical Non-Monogamy, as we tackle the history and evolution of swinging, open relationships and polyamory. The differences and similarities of the various alternative sexual lifestyles are as intriguing as the reasons why people have consensual extra-marital sex and relationships, according to the research.

Are you looking for a wider understanding of the consequences of opening-up your relationship? What are the pros and cons of adding consensual non-monogamy into your couple?

Join us with Intimacy Expert and Relationship Coach, Jim Fleckenstein, Author of 'Love That Works: 38 Awesome Hacks for Amazing Relationships", as we chat about how to decide if non-monogamy is right for you and if yes, how to approach your partner and deal with the reactions and opinions of friends and family about your choice.

Guest: Jim Fleckenstein

BIO:

James R. Fleckenstein is a sexuality and relationships researcher, educator, author and coach with over twenty years of experience helping people improve their intimate relationships. Jim's expertise has been recognized by invitations to present at 13 major sexuality/relationship therapy and research professional conferences since 2002. He's also reached hundreds at over 20 lay conferences. He specializes in non-monogamy.

His relationship research has been published in peer-reviewed journals and included as academic book chapters. Jim's most recent publication appeared in The Archives of Sexual Behavior. He's been interviewed by the Chicago Tribune and the Guardian, been a featured guest on radio and podcasts, and quoted in web publications like Best Life and The Zoe Report. His book, Love That Works: 38 Awesome Hacks for Amazing Relationships, debuted in December, 2019. The companion workbook, Navigating the Heart: Daily Steps for Courageous Relationship Growth, came out in 2022.

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Links:

Main page https://www.affirmativeintimacy.com

Book page: https://www.getltw.com

Nonmonogamy resource page: https://www.affirmativeintimacy.com/nonmonogamy

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/affirmativeintimacy

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jim-fleckenstein-6936681/

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Have you ever considered having a nip 'n tuck procedure to enhance your body or restore it to its former shape? Perhaps you're done with your baby-making years and you want your old body back. Do your sagging boobs and pouchy tummy make you feel less sexy in bed? Join us with Dr Karl Schwartz, from Clinique K, talking about the Mommy-Make-over and other cosmetic procedures designed to restore and enhance the body as an important step in the journey towards self-confidence and psychological well-being and a better, more substantial sex life --- creating the kind of beauty on the outside that serves as a pillar for developing inner beauty and sexual empowerment.

Are you curious about how couples get into the swinging lifestyle? As much as we have shared various personal stories on our show explaining parts of our sexual exploration journey, we always welcome new questions with different points of view that might bring to light new aspects of how we navigate the swinging lifestyle together. Join us with Podcast Host, Sumati Sparks, a highly compassionate and spiritual Relationship Coach specializing in creating successful open relationships, as we answer all her questions about our swinging sex lives on her podcast. We openly talk about how we discovered the Swinging Lifestyle and how we pushed our sexual boundaries to be the sexiest versions of ourselves. We reveal our private stories about masturbation, orgasms, squirting, fantasies, and our favorite sex toys. This is one of those episodes where you need to listen to the end.

Are you interested in going back to school… on a cruise ship? How about taking sex-ed classes on the Bliss Cruise? If knowledge brings power, then learning more about intimacy must bring more sexual pleasure, and a stronger, more secure relationship. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Stephanie, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as we find out all about her most recent voyage with Topless Travel on The Bliss Cruise doing her workshops and play-shops to another sold-out audience of open-minded people ready to explore their sexuality. There's no better place for couples to learn together and practice their new skills while on vacation with other sexy couples on the high seas.

Do you ever wonder how cannabis impacts sexual creativity --- can it translate into better sex? Join our guest host, Ashley Manta from CannaSexual together with her DaddyDom as they share their favorite ways to use cannabis to enhance sexual creativity. They dive deep into all the ways it can help with improving role play and dirty talk, and inspire new ways to revamp bedroom and other erotic spaces, explore tantric and energetic play from a distance, and even create music or art, with a sexy twist!

Are you impressed by people who look fitter and healthier than their biological age? Perhaps you believe, as we do, that sixty is the new fifty? Join us with April and Scott from NaughtyGym.com as they reveal their secret to the fountain of youth --and it has as much to do with attitude as it does to hard work and discipline. We compare our mantra of happy, healthy and horny to their three pillars: look your best, feel your best and play your best. We find out all about their upcoming Naughty Gym week at Hedonism II, January 6-13, 2024, where they share their sexy-fun ways to stay 'fit to fuck' as we age. Go to www.naughtygym.com to book your trip right now. We'll see you there!

Are you seeking a magical, mystical unicorn for your couple play? As the world's rarest natural phenomenon, swingers everywhere celebrate unicorns as sexy companions for making threesomes and other fantasies come true. Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel as we chat with, not one, but three Sexy Unicorns, Amber, Megan and Kairee, as they share their journeys and personal stories about the sexy fun adventures they've experienced over the years. And find out how Amber lost her voice in the dungeon last night, leaving her with a sexy rasp and a brand new sexy story.

Do you sometimes feel uncomfortable in your relationship or in the bedroom. Does fear, shame or embarrassment ever get in the way of your pleasure? Do you retreat emotionally or lash out when those feelings show up? Join us with Sex Coach and Intimacy Speaker, Dr Jenn Gunsaullus, from DrJennsDen.com, as we dive deep into the hot topic of emotional agility, which uses mindfulness and communication skills to help work through the discomfort, instead of retreating, ignoring or making jokes about the situation. Dealing with these emotions in a mature and healthy manner helps build stronger and sexier relationships.

Have you ever been curious about how cannabis can improve your intimacy and your sexual health and wellness? Join Cannasexual's Founder, Ashley Manta together with Dr Shannon Chavez, as they share their sex and cannabis origin stories and the specific sexual health benefits that drew them to this powerful plant. Ashley discusses how she overcame pain with penetration and Dr Shannon talks about her life with endometriosis and how cannabis has become a vital ally in her sexual wellness.

Do you ever fantasize about being in the middle of an orgy with sexy couples all around you, swapping and playing together? Perhaps, like Carol, you'd like to find yourself as the "queen bee", at the bottom of the pile while everyone is 'doing you'? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica with Topless Travel, as we chat with one of their host couples, Orgy Girl and her husband, all about how much fun it is to be caught up in the erotic environment of a multi-couple orgy, and find out all the best ways to organize an orgy successfully, with full consent, respect and great communication?

Are you dealing with the effects of sexual trauma and body shaming? Do you feel stuck and afraid to venture too far into the realm of sexuality, trying not to trigger those unwanted memories? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, as we chat with a couple of first-timers who have been able to overcome some of their obstacles, building confidence and self-esteem as their week progressed, allowing them to experience a sexual awakening of sorts. By pushing boundaries and supporting each other, they are able to journey into a wider realm of sexual openness. Everyone loves a transformation story. This one is so heart-warming; you will feel their joy as they recount their amazing week of self-discovery.

Do you get annoyed when you talk to people who think they know everything, especially when it comes to the topic of sex? They figure they've been having sex for decades, and they're pretty good at it by now… what else is there to know?

Well, if you have an open mind and want to be more informed about sex and sexuality, then join us with Sue McGarvie, from Nookie College for Naughty Knowledge, as we talk about the top 10 things you didn't know you didn't know about sex.

GUEST:  Sue McGarvie

Bio:

Sue McGarvie is a clinical sex therapist, media personality, and unapologetic champion of pleasure with over 30 years of experience helping people connect and thrive. She's the host of the top-25 Turned On with Sue and John podcast, and she previously hosted the syndicated Sex with Sue radio show, heard in markets across North America.

She's also Head Mistress of Nookie College—"the community college of naughty knowledge"—and founder of The Ducklings, a lifestyle-light community now in its 15th year. Called "North America's funniest therapist," Sue has written four books on sex, with her latest, The Suburban Hedonist, out this fall.

When she's not talking about sex, Sue owns 25 red dresses, runs with scissors, and somehow still manages to keep her 80's band hair perfectly frizzed in hot weather.

 

 

Did you know that being a "people-pleaser" can affect your performance in bed? If you, or your partner are people-pleasers, you may be missing out on a mutually great sex life. Join us with Sex Educator and Sex & Relationship Writer, Ella Dorval Hall as we dive deep into the effects of being a people-pleaser – especially in the bedroom. We also find out more about the relationship between libido, desire, and arousal and we get a better understanding of how to deal with guilt and shame around sex.

Are you looking for a new fun and sexy way to spice up your sex life? If you are adventurous, we've got a great activity to share with you, where you get to slip 'n slide together. Join us with Tania Semper, the owner and founder of Nuru Play, which is a gel used for intimate body massage, as we share our erotic experience with her slippery product, and she shares how the ancient Japanese techniques of Nuru body massage can help couples connect physically and viscerally with a full body contact massage.

Have you ever considered taking cannabis products before your sexual encounters to heighten your senses and boost your confidence in the bedroom? Join us with Author and Sex Educator, Ashley Manta from CannaSexual®, as we chat specifically about the types of conversations you need to have with your partner before and after your sexual experience with cannabis so that you can create an incredibly sensory experience together and ultimately enjoy more great sex.