Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast The Queer Quest Podcast | Exploring Queer Healing and Transformation
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| Is Life Really Harder When You’re Queer? A Story of Healing & Rewriting the Narrative | 15 Jun 2025 | 00:19:51 | |
In this episode, queer transformation coach Christiano Green shares an intimate story about coming out and the long-lasting impact of a single sentence: “Life will be harder for you now.” For almost 20 years, Christiano carried that belief—until he discovered that queerness doesn’t have to equal pain. It just means our path is different… not worse. Listen as Christiano explores:
This is a must-listen for any queer person navigating identity, healing, or self-worth. 🎙️ Connect with the Queer Quest community and step into your own comeback story. Search Tags: queer podcast, LGBTQIA+ healing, coming out journey, internalised beliefs queer, life is harder queer, queer self-love, queer growth, queer empowerment 2025, trauma-informed queer podcast, queer life coach | |||
| Let Go of Stress and Feel Welcome Here! | 13 Jun 2025 | 00:06:50 | |
Welcome home, beloved soul. Take a breath and let yourself land in this sacred space. Let the noise of the outside world dissolve for a moment with this calming meditation as a form of stress relief. Inhale deeply and slowly exhale again to promote healing and mindfulness.🏳️🌈 This powerful Pride Month guided meditation is a spiritual homecoming for queer souls everywhere. Designed for LGBTQIA+ listeners, this meditation will ground you in your body, connect you to your ancestors, and awaken the radiant pride within. Whether you’re healing shame, reclaiming your voice, or simply remembering your light — this is your sacred space to come home to yourself.Created for Queer Quest PRO and the global queer community, this meditation is perfect for daily pride rituals, emotional release, and reconnecting to your queer magic.🎧 Press play. Breathe deep. Feel seen.✨ You are worthy. You are radiant. You are divine. | |||
| 🌈 Sacred & Queer: 18 Spiritual Practices to Start, Deepen, or Advance Your Journey | 30 Apr 2025 | 00:21:01 | |
In this soul-stirring solo episode, Queer Quest founder and transformation coach Christiano Green shares the 18 most powerful queer-affirming spiritual practices he's discovered through years of healing, reclaiming, and evolving as a queer person. From beginner rituals like intentional journaling and altar building to mystical advanced practices like queer tantra, shamanic journeying, and plant medicine in queer-held spaces — these are spiritual tools for us, by us. ✨ This episode is for you if:
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This is where queerness meets sacredness. 🌈 You are not too much. You are divine. #QueerSpirituality #LGBTQHealing #SpiritualAwakening #QueerCoach #QueerPodcast #SpiritualPractices #QueerAstrology #SacredSexuality #QueerQuest | |||
| Discover Queer Self-Acceptance: A Guided Meditation | 20 Feb 2024 | 00:13:02 | |
Embark on a 13-minute guided meditation journey designed to foster self-acceptance and inner peace within the queer community. This session is crafted to help you embrace every aspect of yourself, reinforcing the powerful truth that your self-validation is the only approval you need. In a world where external validation can often overshadow our own voice, this meditation serves as a gentle reminder of your inherent worth and beauty. Through calming narratives and soothing background music, we invite you to delve into a space of self-discovery and unconditional acceptance. This meditation is your sanctuary—a place to recognize and celebrate your true self, free from judgment and societal expectations. It's an opportunity to reflect on your journey, acknowledge your struggles, and honor your resilience. Key Highlights: Guided practices to cultivate self-compassion and acceptance. Affirmations to reinforce the significance of self-validation. A supportive environment to explore and embrace your queer identity. Strategies to silence external noise and focus on your inner voice. This meditation is more than a practice; it's an affirmation of your unique path and the importance of self-acceptance in the journey towards self-love. As a member of the queer community, your experiences are valid, your feelings are important, and your identity is a cause for celebration. Let this guided meditation be a step towards seeing yourself in the light of acceptance and love. Remember, the journey to self-acceptance is ongoing, and every step forward is a victory. You are worthy, you are enough, and you have everything within you to live authentically and fully. #QueerSelfAcceptance #GuidedMeditation #SelfValidation #LGBTQ+Empowerment #InnerPeace #SelfLoveJourney | |||
| 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 & 𝐇𝐨𝐩𝐞: 𝐑𝐢𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐃𝐞𝐥𝐮𝐜𝐢𝐚'𝐬 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐆𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐭𝐨 𝐒𝐨𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲 & 𝐒𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 | 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 | 15 Feb 2024 | 01:03:22 | |
In an episode that promises to touch the heart and heal the soul, 'The Queer Quest Podcast' welcomes Richard Delucia, a beacon of resilience and spiritual guidance within our community. 🌈✨ Dive deep into Richard's riveting narrative, spanning immense grief, a valiant struggle with addiction, and a journey towards sobriety now marking over 120 triumphant days. Host Christiano Green uncovers the layers of Richard's life, revealing the raw and real battles that many face in silence. From the darkness of alcohol addiction and the challenges of rehab and relapse, to the dawning light of recovery and spiritual renewal, Richard's story is one of profound transformation. 🔮 As a gifted medium and a Reiki master, Richard not only shares his personal odyssey but also extends his healing energy to our listeners through an exclusive card reading, offering insights and guidance for anyone tuning in. This episode is a testament to the power of resilience, the importance of seeking help, and the transformative potential of embracing one's gifts. Join us for a journey of healing, hope, and the promise of a brighter tomorrow with Richard Delucia. 🎧 Tune in to "Healing & Hope: Richard Delucia's Journey from Grief to Sobriety & Spiritual Awakening" and find inspiration in the strength it takes to rebuild, recover, and reconnect with the universe's profound energies. Your path to spiritual insight and personal growth starts here. | |||
| Embrace Your Queer Excellence: A Guided Meditation Journey | 13 Feb 2024 | 00:12:24 | |
Welcome to a transformative 12-minute guided meditation designed to empower the queer community to embrace their excellence. In this peaceful journey, we invite you to believe in yourself, love yourself unconditionally, and shine with such brilliance that you inspire excellence in others. This meditation is more than just a practice; it's a celebration of your unique identity and the incredible power it holds. As we navigate through soothing soundscapes and gentle guidance, allow yourself to connect deeply with your inner strength and resilience. This meditation is tailored to uplift and support queer individuals in recognizing their worth and potential. Whether you're seeking a moment of peace, a boost of confidence, or a reminder of your inherent greatness, this session is for you. Key Highlights: A safe and inclusive space to explore self-love and acceptance. Techniques to cultivate belief in oneself and one's capabilities. Affirmations designed to reinforce self-worth and queer excellence. Inspirational guidance to encourage shining brightly as a beacon of excellence. We understand the unique challenges faced by the queer community and the importance of fostering an environment of support and empowerment. This meditation is a step towards embracing your true self and unlocking the door to personal and communal excellence. Remember, your presence is a gift to the world, and your light is needed more than ever. Let this meditation be a source of strength and a reminder that you are capable of extraordinary things. Together, let's embark on a journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and unwavering pride in who we are. Join us in this 12-minute guided meditation for queer excellence, and let's illuminate the world with our brilliance. Remember, you are not alone; you are part of a vibrant, supportive community that celebrates diversity and encourages excellence in every form. #QueerExcellence #GuidedMeditation #SelfLove #Empowerment #LGBTQPride #BelieveInYourself #ShineBright | |||
| 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 & 𝐑𝐢𝐬𝐞: 𝐊𝐚𝐭𝐲 𝐒𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐨𝐧 𝐃𝐞𝐟𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 | 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 | 08 Feb 2024 | 00:45:03 | |
𝐊𝐚𝐭𝐲 𝐒𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐔𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐢𝐥𝐬: 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧'𝐬 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲𝐬 & 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐬 | 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐄𝐱𝐜𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 In this eye-opening episode of 'The Queer Quest Podcast,' host Christiano Green sits down with the inspiring Katy Smith, a trailblazer in the realm of gay women's transformation and empowerment coaching. Dive into Katy's personal voyage of self-discovery, from embracing her identity in a world that often feels unaccepting, to becoming the empowering figure she is today. 🌟 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬: 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐧 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲: Katy shares the pivotal moments that led her to coaching, transforming her struggles into strengths. 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐀𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞: Hear about Katy's own path to coming out and the challenges she faced in acknowledging her true self amidst societal expectations. 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐧 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬: Explore the recurring themes of fear of rejection and the societal pressure to conform, particularly the expectation to have children, and how Katy guides women through these complex terrains. 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐞𝐬: Gain insights into the empowerment techniques Katy employs to help gay women reclaim their power and authenticity. 🔥 𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐬: Katy also gives us a sneak peek into her transformative masterclass designed for gay women looking to embark on a journey of self-empowerment and liberation. It's an essential resource for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of themselves and navigate the world with confidence and pride. 💡 Whether you're looking for guidance, inspiration, or just a story that resonates with your own, this episode is a beacon of hope and empowerment. Check out Katy's masterclass here: www.katy-smith-coaching.com/masterclass and join a community of women stepping into their power. 𝐓𝐮𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 '𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐏𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭' 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬, 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐭 𝐚 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞. 🎧🏳️🌈 | |||
| My Queer Journey | 01 Feb 2024 | 00:20:55 | |
In this heart-to-heart episode of 'The Queer Quest Podcast,' your host, Christiano Green, peels back the curtain on their own technicolor journey. 🎭 From the whispers of truth in a coastal town's silence to the roar of discovery in the queer party scene, Christiano navigates the waves of self-repression to the shores of self-celebration. 🌊 It's a tale that spans decades—a dance through time where every step, misstep, and leap was a note in the symphony of self-identity. Christiano bares his soul, sharing the transformation from a world of black and white into the embrace of gender fluidity. 🌈 This episode isn't just a story; it's an odyssey of healing, a map for growth, and a mirror reflecting the complexities of queerness we all hold inside. So, join us for a voyage that promises to be as revelatory as it is resonant. Because Christiano's story isn't just his—it's a piece of us all. I invite you to share with me your queer journey in the comments below. | |||
| The Launch Episode | 25 Jan 2024 | 00:16:11 | |
Buckle up, beautiful people! Welcome to 'The Queer Quest Podcast,' where we've traded in our old 'TOTAL BOSS' blazers for rainbow capes. I'm your host, Christiano Green, and in this dazzling debut, we're dishing out the deets on our fabulous metamorphosis. 🦋 In this inaugural extravaganza, we're not just spilling the tea; we're brewing a whole new flavor. I'll walk you through the vibrant corridors of Queer Quest, our sanctuary for self-discovery, and detail how this podcast is about to become your new best friend. We've packed away 'The TOTAL BOSS Podcast' like last season's wardrobe, and honey, we're here to slay with style. From our roots to the sequins of our future, we're embracing the entire spectrum. Get the lowdown on what makes 'The Queer Quest Podcast' a glittering beacon for all things queer, quirky, and quintessentially us. Expect giggles, revelations, and that 'aha!' moment in every episode. So, fluff those feathers and press play. Trust me, darling, this is the "Episode One" you won’t want to miss—where every listen is a step towards living out and proud. 🌈✨ Let the quest begin! | |||
| 84 - Cultivating The Essence Of Joy In Your Life As Gay Men | 01 Dec 2023 | 00:20:22 | |
𝐂𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐉𝐨𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞: 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐀 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐨 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐧 In this episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, Christiano Green, a shadow healer and life coach for gay men, discusses the importance of cultivating joy in life and the unique challenges that gay men face. He also shares his 21-Day Gay Men's Guide To Love & Happiness online course as a resource for helping gay men achieve greater joy and fulfillment. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐈𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐉𝐨𝐲 Joy is a vital part of the human experience. It is what makes life worth living. When we are joyful, we are more likely to be healthy, productive, and resilient. We are also more likely to have strong relationships and make a positive impact on the world. 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐌𝐞𝐧 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐉𝐨𝐲 Gay men face a number of unique challenges that can make it difficult to cultivate joy. These challenges include: Homophobia and discrimination: Gay men may experience homophobia and discrimination from family, friends, colleagues, and even strangers. This can lead to feelings of shame, isolation, and fear. Internalized homophobia: Gay men may also internalize negative messages about being gay. This can lead to low self-esteem and self-acceptance, which can make it difficult to experience joy. Relationship challenges: Gay men may face unique challenges in their relationships. This can include difficulty finding partners, dealing with rejection, and facing discrimination from family and friends. 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐉𝐨𝐲 Despite the challenges, there are many things that gay men can do to cultivate joy in their lives. Here are a few tips: Connect with other gay men: Building a strong support system of other gay men can help to reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness. Challenge negative thoughts: When you have negative thoughts about yourself or being gay, challenge them. Ask yourself if there is evidence to support these thoughts. Practice self-care: Make time for activities that you enjoy and that make you feel good. This could include exercise, spending time in nature, or reading a good book. Seek professional help: If you are struggling to overcome the challenges of being gay, consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝟐𝟏-𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐌𝐞𝐧'𝐬 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐓𝐨 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 Christiano Green's 21-Day Gay Men's Guide To Love & Happiness online course is a powerful resource for helping gay men achieve greater joy and fulfillment. In the course, Christiano will teach you:How to overcome the challenges of being gayHow to cultivate self-love and acceptanceHow to build strong relationshipsHow to find and attract a loving partnerIf you are a gay man who is struggling to find joy in life, I encourage you to check out Christiano Green's 21-Day Gay Men's Guide To Love & Happiness online course. www.theglobalpridecollective.com 𝐀𝐝𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐜𝐞𝐬 The Human Rights Campaign: https://www.hrc.org/ The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ GLAAD: https://www.glaad.org/ I hope this episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast has been helpful. If you have any questions, please feel free to leave a comment below. | |||
| 83 - Gay Dating & The Zodiac Signs | 23 Nov 2023 | 00:18:33 | |
Join your charismatic host, Christiano Green, on this celestial journey through the realms of gay dating, sizzling chemistry, and the cosmic compatibility that sparks unforgettable connections. Welcome to 'The TOTAL BOSS Podcast,' where we delve into the nuances of love and passion within the vibrant queer community. In this episode, Christiano is your guide through the mysterious world of gay men dating, exploring the uncharted territories of what makes or breaks a connection. From the sizzling chemistry that sets your heart ablaze to the intricacies of hooking up with intention, Christiano leaves no stone unturned in the quest for romantic fulfillment. But that's not all - brace yourself for a cosmic twist as Christiano unravels the secrets of zodiac compatibility. Discover which celestial signs align in perfect harmony, creating a celestial symphony of love. Whether you're an adventurous Aries seeking a fiery match or a sensitive Pisces searching for a soulful connection, this episode breaks down the barriers of the zodiac, giving you the cosmic keys to unlock the potential of your relationships. As a renowned shadow healer and life coach for gay men, Christiano infuses this episode with practical advice, laughter, and a sprinkle of magic to ensure you leave feeling empowered in your quest for love. Whether you're navigating the dating scene, decoding chemistry, or exploring the stars for compatibility, 'The TOTAL BOSS Podcast' has you covered. Tune in for an episode that's not just informative but entertaining, as Christiano Green takes you on a cosmic rollercoaster where love, dating, and self-discovery collide. Subscribe now for a dose of wisdom, laughter, and a touch of celestial guidance – because in the world of love, you're the TOTAL BOSS. | |||
| 82 - 10 Inner Saboteurs Every Gay Men Needs To Know About | 16 Nov 2023 | 00:41:00 | |
Welcome to another empowering episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, where success meets authenticity. I'm your host, Christiano Green, and today we're diving deep into the realms of self-discovery and conquering those pesky inner saboteurs that might be holding you back from becoming the total boss you were meant to be. In this episode, we're breaking down the 10 inner saboteurs that often lurk in the shadows of success, especially in the world of sales and marketing. From Comparison Charlie to Approval-Seeking Andy, we'll explore how these saboteurs can impact your professional journey and personal growth. Join me as we bring these saboteurs to life with real-world examples, making it relatable and providing insights that can supercharge your success. Are you a Perfectionist Pete, constantly chasing an unattainable ideal? Or perhaps a Fearful Freddie, hesitating to take that bold step in your career? But fear not, because, as always, we've got your back. We'll delve into empowering strategies for each saboteur, giving you actionable insights to overcome these challenges and unleash the total boss within you. From reframing your thoughts to embracing imperfections, we're covering it all. These strategies are not just for your career but for your overall well-being. After all, being a total boss isn't just about the corner office; it's about living authentically and thriving in every aspect of your life. And hey, don't forget to hit that subscribe button if you haven't already. We've got a powerhouse of episodes lined up to fuel your journey to total bossdom. Share this episode with your fellow total bosses, because success is so much sweeter when shared. So, buckle up, Total Bosses! It's time to conquer those inner saboteurs and step into the success you were born for. You're not just a boss; you're a total boss. Let's dive in! | |||
| 81 - The Gay Men’s Spirituality & Religion Discussion With Danniel Oickle | 08 Nov 2023 | 01:04:19 | |
In this week's episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast Christiano brings on former christian baptist, award winning fiber artist, and outspoken eccentric Danniel Oickle. A few weeks ago Christiano posted a question on Facebook relating to gay men's views on spirituality and religion. It had hundreds of responses and one of those responses was from Danniel. Christiano and Danniel have a deep discussion about gay men and religion, and we get a deep dive into Danniel's background and experience in the baptist church and how this religious trauma has affected his life as an open and happy gay man. Check out the episode and feel free to comment along or ask us questions in the comments below. | |||
| Coming Out, Healing & Dating as a Queer Human: My Journey from Repression to Radiance | 23 Apr 2025 | 00:31:05 | |
Before the freedom, before the glow-up, before the healing—there was fear. In this intimate solo episode, I take you behind the curtain of my own coming out journey. The anxiety. The repression. The deep ache of not being seen. And the courage it took to say, “I’m not hiding anymore.” If you're queer, single, and searching for more than just a swipe-right love story—this episode is for you. ✨ We talk:
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| 80 - The I Am Deserving Of Love Master Class | 02 Nov 2023 | 01:20:40 | |
This week on The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, Christiano Green shares a powerful masterclass he ran earlier in 2023 which was called the Gay Men's "I Am Deserving Of Finding Love" Masterclass. During the training, we covered some valuable insights and strategies on how to attract a healthy, loving, and passionate relationship, including: The 5 Foundations every gay man must know. How to embody your masculine or feminine core energy. Powerful communication methods to improve your connection. The top 10 biggest mistakes gay men make. We invite you to join the 21-Day Gay Men's Guide To Love & Happiness Online Course, where you'll get comprehensive training, personalized guidance, and an exclusive community of like-minded men who are all on a journey to finding love & happiness in their lives. Click Below to Join the 21-Day Gay Men's Guide To Love & Happiness Online Course and transform your life today! https://www.theglobalpridecollective.com/thegaymensguidetoloveandhappiness We look forward to supporting you on your journey. | |||
| 79 - The Cunning Man With Paul Bryant | 26 Oct 2023 | 00:56:45 | |
In this episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, Christiano brings on Paul Bryant who is A Cunning Man. We dive into Pauls life growing up gay in the south of England in an area that has a rick culture in paganism and healing. We discuss the path to healing our own traumas as gay men and how we both used that to now help others. You can check Paul out at www.thecunninggrove.co.uk and another cool fact is that Paul runs an online Celtic Witchcraft Magic Shop so go check it out. Any questions or shares are always welcome and you can do that in the comments below or DM my privately across all social media platforms. | |||
| 78 - Different Kinds Of Relationships | 19 Oct 2023 | 00:18:36 | |
In this episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, your host, Christiano Green, discusses the different kinds of intimate relationships that gay men you can get themselves in. Christiano received many questions and shares from listeners and followers on social media about their relationship concerns so today we discuss 16 different kinds of intimate relationships that gay men can be in and some of the things to take note of if you're looking for a relationship. If you're a gay man and struggling with your relationship or finding a relationship, please reach out for help. There are many resources available to you, both online and in your community. You don't have to go through this alone. You can also download 'The Gay Men's Guide To Beating Depression & Anxiety' Free eBook Below: https://www.theglobalpridecollective.com/gaymensguidetobeatingdepressionandanxiety | |||
| 77 - My Mental Health Journey | 12 Oct 2023 | 00:20:10 | |
In this episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, your host, Christiano Green, opens up about his own mental health journey and the unique challenges faced by gay men. He shares his personal story of overcoming depression, loneliness, substance abuse, and anxiety, and offers advice and inspiration to others who may be struggling. Christiano also discusses the alarming mental health statistics in the gay community, and what we can all do to create a more supportive and inclusive environment. This is a must-listen episode for anyone who wants to learn more about mental health, or who is looking for hope and inspiration. If you're struggling with your mental health, please reach out for help. There are many resources available to you, both online and in your community. You don't have to go through this alone. Download 'The Gay Men's Guide To Beating Depression & Anxiety' Free eBook Below: https://www.theglobalpridecollective.com/gaymensguidetobeatingdepressionandanxiety | |||
| 76 - Emotional Needs With Julie Schytte | 05 Oct 2023 | 00:51:56 | |
In this week's episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, Christiano has on fellow mindset coach and mental trainer Julie Schytte. They have a deep discussion into the 6 Core Emotional Needs that everyone has and how we have 2 main emotional needs that are of highest importance to us. We discuss how we aim to meet our needs individually and also in relationships. Let us know in the comments below or reach out to us directly if you have any shares or questions. Julie Schytte Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/julie.schytte | |||
| 75 - 10 Signs To Know You’re Obsessed With A Guy & How To Get Over Him | 28 Sep 2023 | 00:20:23 | |
In this weeks episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast Christiano shares 10 signs to know you’re obsessed and how to get over the guy. If you’ve struggle with these in the past or even the present then this is the episode for you. You can check out the 7-Day Love Reboot below: For Gay Men: https://www.theglobalpridecollective.com/the7daylovereboot For Women: https://www.theglobalpridecollective.com/lovereboot Check it out and if you have shares or questions then leave them below or reach out to me directly. Until next week, always remember, you’ve got this, & I’ve got you! | |||
| 74 - Getting Over Your Obsessions With Guys | 22 Sep 2023 | 00:12:18 | |
In this week’s episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast Christiano jumps in and shares a topic that is relevant to so many of us. That topic is obsessions with guys and how to get over those obsessions. If you have ever had sleepless nights, rereading every text, going over every details, asking yourself every unanswered question wondering if a guy likes you then this episode is for you. You can check out the 7-Day Love Reboot below: For Gay Men: https://www.theglobalpridecollective.com/the7daylovereboot For Women: https://www.theglobalpridecollective.com/lovereboot If you have any questions or what to share your story then comment below or reach out to me directly. Until next week, always remember, you’ve got this, & I’ve got you! | |||
| 73 - The Evolutions Of My Coaching Journey | 14 Sep 2023 | 00:19:29 | |
In this week’s episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, Christiano shared his coaching journey from when he was a young guy working in corporate, to when he started his own coaching business, to where it has evolved into now, and where he will take it in the future. Check out the episode and feel free to share your questions and comments below 👇 www.theglobalpridecollective.com | |||
| 72 - The Relaunch Episode With A Sprinkle Of Self-Care Secrets | 07 Sep 2023 | 00:24:06 | |
In this episode Christiano jumps in and talks about why The TOTAL BOSS Podcast was on hiatus for the past 6 months, why he is excited that it is back on track and what will be happening with it in the future. Christiano talks about his brand new program The 21-Day Gay Men's Guide To Love & Happiness Online Program (www.theglobalpridecollective.com) which he has spent a lot of time creating for his clients. Christiano also goes and shares 5 self-care secrets that will help you on your journey to your next level in life. Check it out and leave your questions and comments below. | |||
| 71 - What Your Dating Profile 'About Me' Says About You | 02 Mar 2023 | 00:19:38 | |
In this week's episode Christiano goes into detail about what your 'About Me' section of your online dating profile says about you and also what people think about others who post these common things in their profiles. If you have not been getting much traction with getting dates and you aren't sure why then this is the episode for you. Come check it out so you can take your dating profile to the next level. | |||
| The Queer Comeback: Returning to Yourself When You Feel Lost | 17 Apr 2025 | 00:23:54 | |
This one’s for every queer soul who's ever disappeared into survival mode. In this solo episode, Christiano Green—Queer Transformation Coach and founder of Queer Quest—shares what it really means to make a queer comeback. 🎧 Inside this episode:
💥 Ready to rise again? 🔥 Want support on your journey? Explore Queer Quest PRO: 🎯 Queer healing, LGBTQ+ self-love, queer dating, queer coach, queer podcast, spiritual comeback, queer emotional wellness, single queer journey, queer burnout | |||
| 70 - The Reasons Why You May Struggle To Move From Short Term To Long Term Relationships | 23 Feb 2023 | 00:16:35 | |
In this episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, host Christiano Green sits down to explore the main reasons why some gay men struggle to move from short-term relationships to long-term commitments. We delve into the unique challenges that gay men face when it comes to finding and maintaining lasting relationships. From the pervasive influence of hookup culture to the pressures of conforming to traditional notions of masculinity, we explore the many societal and cultural factors that can make it difficult for gay men to find lasting love. We also discuss the internal struggles that gay men may face, including fear of vulnerability, past traumas, and difficulties with communication. By addressing these issues head-on, we seek to provide practical advice and guidance for those seeking to overcome these obstacles and build healthy, fulfilling relationships. Join us as we explore this important and timely topic, and discover how gay men can move beyond short-term flings to find the lasting love they deserve. | |||
| 69 - How To Become A Pro At Flirting & Know When They Are Flirting With You | 16 Feb 2023 | 00:13:41 | |
In this episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, Christiano Green, a relationship coach for gay men, shares his insights and tips on how to become a pro at flirting and how to recognize when someone is flirting with you. Flirting can be a fun and important part of dating and building relationships, but it can also be confusing and intimidating. Christiano breaks down the different types of flirting and offers practical advice for becoming more comfortable with flirting in a way that feels authentic to you. He also discusses the signs that someone is flirting with you, how to distinguish between friendly behavior and romantic/sexual interest, and the importance of communication and consent in flirting. Whether you're new to the dating scene or just looking to improve your flirting skills, this episode has something for everyone. Tune in to The TOTAL BOSS Podcast and learn how to become a pro at flirting and know when they are flirting with you. | |||
| 68 - How To Know If He Is Actually Into YOU! | 09 Feb 2023 | 00:15:20 | |
Are you tired of being single and lonely, but struggling to figure out if the guy you're seeing is truly into you? It's time to put an end to the confusion and uncertainty. In this episode, our expert host Christiano Green will share their insights and advice on how to recognize the signs that a man is actually into you. From understanding body language and communication styles, to learning how to read between the lines, you'll walk away with the tools and confidence you need to know if he's worth pursuing. This episode is a must-listen for all gay men who are single and looking for love, and who want to avoid the frustration and heartache that come with dating the wrong person. Join us for an engaging and informative discussion on "How To Know If He Is Actually Into YOU!" | |||
| 67 - How To Stop Obsessing Over Finding A Boyfriend & Actually Find A Boyfriend | 02 Feb 2023 | 00:20:29 | |
Are you tired of swiping left on dating apps, only to be met with disappointment? Do you find yourself constantly thinking about finding a boyfriend, yet struggling to make meaningful connections? If so, you're not alone! In this week's episode of The TOTAL BOSS Podcast, we're diving into the world of gay dating and exploring how to stop obsessing over finding a boyfriend and actually find one. Christiano Green, a renowned relationship coach for the gay community, shares practical tips and strategies for shifting your mindset and putting yourself in a position to meet the right person. From the importance of self-care to the power of vulnerability, you'll learn how to attract love into your life and build a lasting relationship. So, whether you're new to the dating scene or have been searching for love for a while, this episode is a must-listen! Join us as we explore how to overcome the challenges of gay dating and find the love you deserve. Download now and get ready to take your love life to the next level. | |||
| 66 - How To Use Gay Online Dating & Hookup Apps Without Losing Your Mind | 26 Jan 2023 | 00:12:49 | |
In this week's episode Christiano jumps in and talk about how to use gay online dating & hookup apps without losing your mind. It can be easy in 2023 to go online dating as a gay man and get caught up in the toxicity or have it pull you off the apps all together. Here are some key tips on how you can approach it so it doesn't take over your life but can be turned into something fun and excting. Feel free to share your experiences and ask any questions to me via social media. | |||
| 65 - Tips To Move From First Dates To Second Dates & Beyond | 19 Jan 2023 | 00:14:30 | |
In this week's episode Christiano shares some of the best tips and advice that will help you get from first date to second, third, fourth, and fifth dates and beyond. Christiano gets asked a lot about dating advice and if you are on the dating scene as a gay man right now then this is something for you to check out. Let me know if you have any questions or would like to share your story. | |||
| 64 - Things Gay Men Should Not Do In A Healthy Relationship | 12 Jan 2023 | 00:14:29 | |
In this week's episode Christiano talks about 25 things gay men should not do if they are wanting to be in a healthy relationship. Relationships are tough. You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure that out. While there are no hard and fast rules to making a relationship work, there are some things that men in romantic relationships with other men should do their best to avoid. Yes, some of these things are helpful tips for people of all genders in any relationship, but you’ll notice that a number of the things discussed are specific to gay men. If you have anything else you feel is important to share or have any questions then feel free to reach out to me below or on social media. | |||
| 63 - What Do You Have In Store For 2023? | 05 Jan 2023 | 00:20:51 | |
A new year has just begun and when a new year starts it gives us a chance to reflect on the year before and dream/plan for the year ahead. This week on the podcast Christiano jumps into a great model to plan and set goals for 2023 so that you can reflect on where you are at and then strive for what you want out of the year ahead and how we can best achieve all of that. Take a listen and get ready to set yourself up for your best year yet. Feel free to share your goals or ask any questions, you know where to find me. | |||
| 62 - 2022 In Review, What A Year! | 29 Dec 2022 | 00:22:37 | |
In this week's episode, Christiano reflects on what an amazing year 2022 has been. I asked a question on my page this week about highlights for 2022 and so many people said it was the worst year ever. Now, for some people it very well might have been that way. For some others, I am guessing they may say that every single year. The year is what you make it and if you take the opportunities and the lessons there is always something great to look out for. I had my fair share of ups and downs, highs and lows but for me I see the blessing in all of it. Come join me and take your own reflection as I am sure you can find some great things from 2022 that made it a great year. | |||
| 61 - Cheating In The Gay Community | 22 Dec 2022 | 00:18:53 | |
In this week's episode Christiano covers the topic that triggers a lot of people in the gay community and that is the topic of cheating. In a recent study 58% of gay men have said they have been cheated on and 52% of gay men have said they have cheated on a partner with 45% of those saying their partner still has no idea about it. I posted a question on my page last week relating to cheating and the responses were quite interesting and intense. Today I cover the different kinds of cheating, how people handle it, the most common types of cheating, and why it is best to communicate with your partner so you can both get what you really want. If you have any stories or questions then you can reach me on social media. | |||
| How the Fck Do I Make Queer Friends? | 10 Apr 2025 | 00:41:21 | |
Why is it so damn hard to make queer friends? Especially when you're single, lonely, or craving deeper connection? In this honest and heartfelt solo episode of The Queer Quest Podcast, Christiano Green (Queer Transformation Coach + Founder of Queer Quest) explores why so many LGBTQIA+ folks struggle to make meaningful queer friendships — and how to change that. You’ll discover: ✨ Want to meet likeminded queer people and grow your chosen family? #QueerFriendship #LGBTQPodcast #QueerDating #ChosenFamily #HowToMakeFriends #SingleQueerLife #QueerHealing #QueerQuest #LGBTQCommunity | |||
| 60 - Tips To Improve Your Online Dating Profile & Get More Dates | 15 Dec 2022 | 00:19:21 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano jumps in and shares some tips to improve your online dating profile so you can attract the right kind of men and get more dates. We discuss both the photos and the contents of what you write about so you can maximise showing off your authentic self. If you are a single gay man and looking to find love and you are online dating right now then you should really check this episode out. If there is any questions or shares then you know where to find me on social media. | |||
| 59 - Why Is Helping Gay Men Find Love Important | 09 Dec 2022 | 00:56:54 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano shares an interview he had on another podcast. The interview was about why I feel it is important to help gay men find love and improve relationships. I discuss some of the things that have caused gay men to struggle in finding love and talk about my own journey over the past few years. Feel free to listen and ask questions so I can help you on your journey. | |||
| 58 - 10 Reasons Why Dating For Gay Men Is Hard | 01 Dec 2022 | 00:16:20 | |
In this week's episode Christiano talks about how dating is difficult in general, but gay dating is even harder. Being gay adds another level of complexity to the dating process, and because we’re all men, we make this process of looking for a mate all the more difficult. Our walls are high, our hearts are guarded, and we’re still all figuring out exactly what we’re looking for because for many of us, we didn’t see what we’re trying to create growing up. As someone who spent most of his life longing for love and now helping other gay men find lasting love, I’ve tried to really analyze what it is that makes dating as gay men more complex, and this is what my personal history has concluded. Feel free to reach out and share your experiences or ask questions as always happy to help. | |||
| 57 - Healthy Ways To Avoid Ghosting | 24 Nov 2022 | 00:17:12 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano discusses some of the healthy ways to avoid ghosting. 60% of gay men admit to being ghosted and that means that there is a portion of us that is both being ghosted and doing the ghosting. We often think that it is protecting someone elses feelings but in reality we are only protecting ourselves. If you want to learn some healthier ways you can avoid ghosting and being ghosted then take a listen to this episode. If you have any questions or shares then feel free to reach out to me to keep the conversation going. | |||
| 56 - Do You Have A Porn Addiction? | 17 Nov 2022 | 00:17:02 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano jumps into a touch topic that needs to be discussed. It is related to porn and gay men and how it can be a much bigger problem in our life than we tend to admit. Over 90% of gay men use porn consistently and that is not to say that everyone who uses porn is an addict. It is more of a podcast to bring awareness to the problems that porn can have on our life and relationships. If you feel you might have a probem with porn then reach out and share your experience. If you have questions then come catch me on Instagram or Facebook. | |||
| 55 - What Does LGBTQIA+ Actually Mean? | 10 Nov 2022 | 00:13:41 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano breaks down all the letters that are in the LGBTQIA+ community. Christiano shares a bit of the history behind how it all started and more importantly how it has evolved and will continue to evolve. Take a listen and if you have any questions or comments then feel free to let me know, | |||
| 54 - Emotional Regulation | 04 Nov 2022 | 01:09:44 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano shares an interview with a fellow coach on emotional regulation. Regulating our emotions is something difficult for many gay men. Through our process of growing up gay we have learnt to bottle things up instead of actually processing the emotions. This is a much needed conversation so we can all learn to better regulate our emotions and have a more fulfilling life. If you have any shares or questions then feel free to reach out. | |||
| 53 - Mindset Tips For Dating In The Gay World | 21 Oct 2022 | 00:17:09 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano jumps in and shares both some mindset tips and practical tips that gay men can use when jumping into the world of dating within the gay world. Take a listen and feel free to ask any questions if you need some extra help. | |||
| 52 - My 5 Year Journey To Love | 13 Oct 2022 | 00:22:37 | |
In this week's episode Christiano shares a story from the last 5 years of his life where he went from someone who was lonely, anxious, and partying every weekend in hopes of finding love to someone who went on a deep journey of self discovery in order to not only find long lasting love himself but be able to show gay men how to do it also in a fraction of the time. There are some great stories here that relate to many gay mens journey and it is well worth the listen. You can find more about me, more about the success I've been able to create, and how you can bring that into your life. Let me know if you have any questions or shares and feel free to reach out to me on social media. | |||
| 51 - Signs & Symptoms Of Trauma Bonding | 06 Oct 2022 | 00:25:59 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano talks all about trauma bonding between a victim and an abuser. You have been in a toxic relationship in the past and maybe you've been in multiple ones. Or you might have been brought up with parents who either were abusive. Understanding what trauma bonding is and how it works is a great way to be able to learn more about yourself and others. It is also a great way to learn how to heal from abuse. If you have any questions or want to share your story then feel free to reach out to me privately. | |||
| The 5 Levels of Queer Self-Discipline: From Survival to Soul-Led Sovereignty | 03 Apr 2025 | 00:33:08 | |
What if self-discipline wasn’t about punishment… but about deep self-honouring? Whether you’re a single queer person trying to love yourself more fully, or you're navigating the world of dating, healing, and becoming — this episode will show you how self-discipline can become your most sacred act of devotion. 💫 We cover:
This isn’t self-help fluff — this is real queer empowerment rooted in healing, spirituality, and becoming your most unapologetic self. 🎧 Press play, share it with your queer bestie, and tag @QueerQuest in your takeaways. ✨ Want to go deeper on your own queer quest? Join us at https://courses.queerquest.vip/pro/ #QueerHealing #QueerPodcast #QueerSpirituality #SelfLove #QueerDating #QueerTransformation #SelfDiscipline #QueerCoach | |||
| 50 - 15 Life Lessons For Gay Men | 29 Sep 2022 | 00:21:41 | |
WE HAVE MADE IT TO EPISODE 50 WOOHOO As this is a special milestone for Christiano, he wanted to share something that all gay men (no matter where they are in their journey) can get value from. Christiano is sharing 15 life lessons that are specific to gay men and these are from all his own experience but from the experience he has taken from working with 100's of gay men over the years. Take a listen and share your favourite lesson, and ask any questions you have. HERE IS TO THE NEXT 50 EPISODES | |||
| 49 - Self Care As A Couple | 22 Sep 2022 | 00:19:23 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano jumps in and talks about how you can incorporate self care into your relationship and all the benefits it can have. Apart from all the benefits you can have as an individual, there are many ways it can improve the health of your relationship with your partner and increase your intimacy. Take a listen and feel free to share your comments or questions below or keep the conversation going with Christiano on Facebook or Instagram. | |||
| 48 - How Gay Relationships Differ To Straight | 16 Sep 2022 | 00:22:41 | |
In this weeks episode Christiano discusses how gay relationships differ to straight relationships. It is no secret that there are some major and minor differences between gay and straight relationships and there are also some similarities. Christiano breaks down all the major topics such as money, work, living together, household chores, sex, kids, parenting, family, fun, stimuli, social life, travel, appearance, politics, religion, and handling conflict. Take a listen and feel free to share your comments or questions below or reach out on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, or TikTok. | |||