Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast The Queer Family Podcast – LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories
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| Kirsty Loehr: From Reciprocal IVF to Blended Family and Writing Our History | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:38:34 | |
Author and educator Kirsty Loehr joins Jaimie to share her beautifully messy story of queer family building — from reciprocal IVF with her ex-wife to co-parenting their 4-year-old son and now navigating life in a blended family with her new partner and her partner’s two kids. Kirsty talks candidly about the breakup that came just months after welcoming her son, the challenges of 50/50 custody, and learning to blend families while balancing love, chaos, and new beginnings. She also shares the inspiration behind her new book, A Short History of Queer Parenting, a funny, accessible, and essential look at how queer families have always existed — even when history tried to erase us. It’s honest, hopeful, and very, very lesbian. 🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
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🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank! If you’re listening to this show, there’s a good chance you’re building your family the queer way — and might need a little help in the sperm department. 🩵 Use code QUEERFAM25 at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog! 🏳️🌈 Book with GWK's Spring Break Cruise Vacation! Join Jaimie and her family (and other LGBTQIA+ families) on a 3 night cruise in the Bahamas. Be sure to mention that you heard about it here! Click that link ➡️ https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/ 🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
🏳️🌈 Interested in advertising? Email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com 🎧 Loved this episode? Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive! OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations: 🔗 redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content 🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you? Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect! Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube 🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book 🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| No Accidents Here: Alon Rivel on Intentional Gay Parenting | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:53:02 | |
Alon Rivel joins Jaimie for a brutally honest, funny, and heartfelt conversation about what it really takes—emotionally, financially, and spiritually—to build a queer family through surrogacy. From his surrogate’s iconic one-liners (“I’m not keeping it”) to his reflection that queer parents are architects of love, Alon reminds us what intentional parenthood looks like. 🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
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🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank! If you’re listening to this show, there’s a good chance you’re building your family the queer way — and might need a little help in the sperm department. 🩵 Use code QUEERFAM25 at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog! 🏳️🌈 Book with GWK's Spring Break Cruise Vacation! Join Jaimie and her family (and other LGBTQIA+ families) on a 3 night cruise in the Bahamas. Be sure to mention that you heard about it here! Click that link ➡️ https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/ 🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
🏳️🌈 Interested in advertising? Email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com 🎧 Loved this episode? Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive! OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations: 🔗 redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content 🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you? Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect! Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube 🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book 🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| José Rolón (NYC Gay Dad) and Luce Remy (Family Equality): Why LGBTQ+ Family Policy Helps Everyone | 01 Sep 2025 | 01:07:31 | |
In this Season 20 opener, Jaimie sits down in person (for the first time in years!) with two powerhouse voices in the LGBTQIA+ family-building world: José Rolón (aka NYC Gay Dad) and Luce Remey (VP of Public Policy at Family Equality). Together, they dive deep into what it really means to build, protect, and nurture queer families in today’s political climate. From navigating wills, Social Security benefits, and second-parent adoptions, to standing firm against legislative attacks on our rights, José and Luce remind us that our intentionality as queer parents comes with both gratitude and baggage—and that community is what makes it all possible. The conversation also gets personal: José opens up about blending his family with his partner Thomas, raising three kids as a widowed gay dad, and showing up for his daughters through life’s milestones. Luce shares her own journey toward adoption, how her work in policy is informed by personal experience, and why allies (or as she calls them, accomplices) are essential in this fight. This episode is both heartwarming and eye-opening—a powerful reminder that our families are resilient, intentional, and here to stay. 🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈 José Rolón (aka NYC Gay Dad) is a New York City wedding planner, content creator, and outspoken advocate for the LGBTQ+ and Latinx communities. A widowed father of three, José shares openly about grief, resilience, single parenthood, and now, blending his family with his partner. His voice has become a powerful presence in both advocacy spaces and social media, where he normalizes and celebrates queer fatherhood. Luce Remey is the Vice President of Public Policy at Family Equality, where she leads state and federal advocacy to ensure LGBTQ+ families can be created, recognized, and supported. A Washingtonian, lesbian, knitter, and soon-to-be parent, Luce combines lived experience with policy expertise to push for systemic changes that make family-building more equitable. She believes “it shouldn’t take a lawyer to create a family” and works every day to make that vision a reality. 🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank! Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code QUEERFAM25 at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog! 🏳️🌈 Book with GWK's Spring Break Cruise Vacation! Join Jaimie and her family (and other LGBTQIA+ families) on a 3 night cruise in the Bahamas. Be sure to mention that you heard about it here! Click that link ➡️ https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/ 🏳️🌈 Interested in advertising? Email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com 🎧 Loved this episode? Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive! OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations: 🔗 redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content 🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you? Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect! Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube 🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book 🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Introducing "This Is Infertilty" | 08 Jan 2024 | 00:22:17 | |
A Mic for the LGBTQIA+ Community: The Queer Family Podcast. Join Jaimie in this Bonus Episode as she guests on ‘This ‘Is Infertility” with Dan Bulger. Almost three years ago, we published a list of our Top 17 Favorite Fertility Podcasts. Topping that list was a podcast called “If These Ovaries Could Talk,” a show centered around the lesbian experience of fertility and family building. Today’s guest, Jaimie Kelton, created this podcast after going through the journey to build her family and struggling to find relatable content and education for queer identities. As her following has grown, so has her podcast. Jaimie explains how her show has now evolved into “The Queer Family Podcast,” a podcast for diverse identities, and all LGBTQIA+ stories alike. She dives deep into her story, the evolution of the podcast, and the reality of family-building in the LGBTQIA+ community. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈 *Despite being a primary supporter of fertility care, the LGBTQIA+ community is often treated as an afterthought, facing challenges in accessing fair and comprehensive family-building options. *The podcast has built a supportive and vocal community around it, showcasing the need for connection and chosen family within the queer community. *The LGBTQIA+ community faces financial challenges in family-building, with many individuals paying out of pocket for fertility care. Progyny is mentioned as an insurance provider addressing inclusive coverage for the community. 🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈 *“For the most part, the LGBTQIA+ community is an afterthought when it comes to fertility care, which is funny, because we are the main supporter of fertility care, because most of us need help to make our families.” - Jaimie Kelton *"I didn't hear any queer stories at all. So I thought, well, somebody needs to create this. And so, I just ended up creating it" - Jaimie Kelton 🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: *Listen to This Is Infertility 🏳️🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! 🏳️🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube and on Spotify 🏳️🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. 🏳️🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. 🏳️🌈Buy our merch here. 🏳️🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our website Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Queer Family Podcast: Celebrating LGBTQIA+ Families and Fertility Journeys | 08 Jan 2024 | 00:11:20 | |
l BONUS l Jaimie has some exciting news to share y’all! You can now watch video episodes on Spotify! A brief introduction to The Queer Family Podcast and Jaimie’s personal journey of building a family as a gay mom. She talks about her experience with infertility and the lack of representation for LGBTQIA+ families in the fertility space. Jaimie also announces that the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify and encourages listeners to watch the episodes there. She concludes by promoting California Cryobank, the sponsor of the season, and invites listeners to share their own family stories. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈 *Jaimie started the Queer Family podcast to shine a spotlight on and normalize LGBTQIA+ families. *The podcast features interviews with different individuals, couples, and families about their family-building journeys. *Jaimie’s personal journey involved fertility treatments and a long struggle with unexplained infertility. *LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples often get excluded from conversations about fertility benefits and insurance. *Great news – the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify, so you can watch the episodes. *Our season sponsor, California Cryobank, offers a diverse selection of sperm donors for LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples. 🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈 *”This show needed to happen. It is six years old as we speak, and there is not a shortage of folks who want to come on here and tell their beautiful, beautiful stories." - Jaimie *”I tried my best to shed a little light on [the lack of inclusion for LGBTQIA+ folks in fertility benefits], and I hope you do enjoy that episode." - Jaimie *”Go make those babies, y'all. And then come tell me about it. Go make them. Go ahead. Love is love." - Jaimie 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 *Hey there, I'm Jaimie, the host of The Queer Family Podcast, and I'm a proud gay mom of two awesome kids. My wife, Anne, and I went on quite a journey to build our family. That’s why The Queer Family Podcast exists. It’s a show all about sharing and celebrating LGBTQIA+ family stories. 🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: *Listen to This Is Infertility 🏳️🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! 🏳️🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube and on Spotify 🏳️🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. 🏳️🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. 🏳️🌈Buy our merch here. 🏳️🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our website Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Introducing "Lost Spaces" | 01 Jan 2024 | 00:57:10 | |
S14 EP15 BONUS | Join Jaimie in this Holiday Bonus Episode as she guests on 'Lost Spaces' with K Anderson! Jaimie shares her experience growing up in San Francisco surrounded by queer culture but struggling to recognize her own queerness. She discusses the male-dominated gay world she witnessed in the 80s and 90s and the lack of representation of gay women. Jaimie reflects on her journey of self-discovery, including experimenting with women and eventually embracing her identity as a lesbian. She also discusses the challenges of coming out to her parents and the stereotypes surrounding "U-Haul lesbians." Throughout her story, Jaimie emphasizes the importance of embracing one's differences and shedding the need for perfectionism. Dive into this special episode with a personal touch from Jaimie. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
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| Introducing "Who's Your Daddy" | 25 Dec 2023 | 01:13:53 | |
S14 EP14 BONUS | We interrupt our regular content to bring you Holiday Bonus Episodes of podcasts that Jaimie loves and has guested on! Listen to the intro to hear an update and funny story from Jaimie before diving into an episode of “Who’s Your Daddy” with Michael and Matt. Jaimie and the fellas go deep into her personal story of struggling through unexplained infertility and over 3 years (!!) of trying to have a baby through IVF and IUI. She also shares some very exciting news that came to be a pretty big surprise! 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
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| Gender, Sexuality, and God's Will | 18 Dec 2023 | 01:04:10 | |
S14 EP12 | Dr. Lulu, a Nigerian-born pediatrician and advocate, shares her personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a queer person. Growing up in a homophobic and religious society, she struggled with internalized homophobia and rejected her own child when they showed signs of being feminine. However, after her child revealed themselves as transgender, Dr. Lulu had a change of heart and became an advocate for LGBTQIA+ youth. She emphasizes the importance of unlearning societal norms and accepting and affirming our children for who they truly are. Dr. Lulu also discusses her new gender-affirming family coaching practice and the importance of supporting siblings in the transition process. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Dr. Lulu is a pediatrician, advocate, and speaker. She is Nigerian-born and has a passion for supporting LGBTQIA+ youth and their families. Dr. Lulu has recently opened a gender-affirming family coaching practice where she helps parents and families navigate the process of gender affirmation. 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
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| Navigating Transitions and Coming Out Together | 11 Dec 2023 | 00:58:44 | |
S14 EP11 | Moe Ari and Tiffany, hosts of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast, share their journey as a queer couple. They met in college, became friends, and eventually fell in love. Moe Ari later came out as transgender, and they decided to start a family through reciprocal IVF. They faced challenges with their families' acceptance and had difficult conversations about their donor choice. Despite the obstacles, their families have come around and are now obsessed with their daughter, Nova. The couple emphasizes the importance of being your own “love goals” and creating your own authentic journey of partnership. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), The Village Well (code QUEERFAM) Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
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| A Donor Conceived Gay Mom Finds Her "Bio Dad" | 04 Dec 2023 | 00:51:58 | |
S14 EP10 | Freya Lyon, a queer mom and donor-conceived child, shares her journey of finding her "bio dad" and connecting with her donor-conceived siblings. She discusses her experience growing up with queer moms, her own journey of becoming a parent, and the importance of open communication and honesty in donor-conceived families. Freya emphasizes the significance of answering the questions of donor-conceived children and providing them with the option to connect with their donors or half-siblings. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters.🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
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| The Fortunate Dads Adopt | 27 Nov 2023 | 00:59:06 | |
S14 EP9 | Eddie and Aurelio discuss their journey of adopting in the UK and becoming parents to twin toddlers during the pandemic. They emphasize the need for a support network and resources during the adoption process, and how the COVID-19 pandemic added both challenges and opportunities for bonding with their children. They now provide representation and support for other same-sex couples and adoptive parents through their popular social media platforms. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
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🏳️🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! 🏳️🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube 🏳️🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. 🏳️🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. 🏳️🌈Buy our merch here. 🏳️🌈For an article based on this episode and more info about the host visit our website Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| A Beautifully Complicated Transition, with Emme Reynolds | 20 Nov 2023 | 00:58:55 | |
S14 EP8 | Emme Reynolds, a transgender parent to two children in a newly blended family, shares their journey of self-discovery and transition. She discusses the importance of listening to each other's stories and understanding the challenges and complexities of transitioning. Emme emphasizes that transition is not a one-time event but an ongoing process, and highlights the difficulties faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in the current political climate. She also touches on the support she has received from her family and the importance of visibility and representation. Overall, Emme encourages open and honest conversations about gender identity and the experiences of trans individuals. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Emme Reynolds is a transgender parent to two children in a blended family. They are also the host of the podcast "A Second Puberty." 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
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| Finding Strength in Tragedy | 13 Nov 2023 | 00:55:25 | |
S14 EP7 | Liz Glazer, an award-winning stand-up comedian and queer mom, shares her journey to parenthood and the stillbirth of her first daughter, Leo Pearl. She discusses the struggles and grief associated with pregnancy loss, emphasizing that all forms of loss are equally difficult. Liz also talks about her wife's decision to freeze her eggs and their experience using a sperm bank. Despite the tragedy, Liz and her wife decided to try again and successfully welcomed their daughter, Eloise. Liz highlights the importance of being there for someone experiencing grief and offers insights into the unique nature of grieving for a child who never lived. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
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| Bonus Replay: Redefining Parenthood: A Queer Guide to Modern Parenting | 25 Aug 2025 | 01:06:35 | |
🎉 Bonus Episode Alert! 🎉 Season 20 officially drops on September 1st, but while you wait, we’ve got one last bonus for you. This heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation redefines what it means to parent in our queer, messy, beautiful, modern world. Writer, activist, and parent S. Bear Bergman sits down with Jaimie to explore love, family, and LGBTQIA identity against the backdrop of today’s political climate. Bear shares his journey from coming out at 15 to more than 35 years of activism and parenting as a queer, trans parent. Together, they unpack the joys and challenges of inclusive parenting, co-parenting with a known donor, and raising kids with progressive values. Bear also introduces his new book, Special Topics in Being a Parent, which is full of insights for parents navigating inclusive family life. Expect a conversation that’s equal parts heartfelt, hopeful, and humorous — and a reminder that queer families are always rewriting the rules of what parenthood can look like. 🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
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• Grab a copy of Special Topics in Being a Parent 🏳️🌈 Book with GWK's Spring Break Cruise Vacation! Join Jaimie and her family (and other LGBTQIA+ families) on a 3 night cruise in the Bahamas. Be sure to mention that you heard about it here! Click that link ➡️ https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/ 🏳️🌈 Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages here. 🎧 Loved this episode? Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive! OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations: 🔗 redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content 🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you? Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect! Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube 🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book 🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Diving Deep into Donor Conception PT. 2 | 06 Nov 2023 | 00:37:40 | |
| S14 EP6 | Dr. Mark Leondires and Lisa Schuman discuss the importance of disclosure and open communication when parenting donor-conceived children. They emphasize the need to drop seeds of information from an early age, allowing children to gradually understand their unique family story. The guests also highlight the significance of language and terminology when discussing donors. The conversation touches on the challenges of managing expectations and the potential impact of meeting donor siblings or the donor themselves. The guests introduce their new book, "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," which provides guidance and support for individuals and couples navigating the donor conception process. 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
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| Diving Deep into Donor Conception | 30 Oct 2023 | 00:41:15 | |
S14 EP4 | In the first part of this 2-part episode, we're diving deep into that Search for The Superhuman, y'all! Lisa Schuman and Dr. Mark Leondires, co-authors of "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," share insights on choosing the right donor and explore the unique perspectives and experiences LGBTQIA+ individuals bring to this exciting and complex family-building journey. Stay tuned for part 2, which will be released next Monday. OR catch it right now on our Patreon channel, where we'll delve into how the heck you navigate parenting and life as a donor-conceived family. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Lisa Schuman is a therapist with almost 30 years of experience in reproductive medicine. She is the host of the Donor Conception Conversations Podcast and runs the Center for Family Building, a one-stop shop for resources and support for family-building journeys. Lisa is also the co-author of the book "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception." Dr. Mark Leondires is the medical director at Illume Fertility and the founder of Gay Parents to Be. He has personal experience with donor conception, having built his own family through egg donation and surrogacy. Dr. Mark is passionate about helping LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples navigate the family-building process and is dedicated to providing quality care and support. 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈 1. Donor conception involves choosing a donor whose genetics and health history align with your values and priorities. 2. It's important to prioritize health and genetics when selecting a donor, rather than focusing solely on personal preferences or characteristics. 3. Psychological screening and testing can help ensure that donors are honest and mentally healthy. 4. Open and honest communication with children about their donor conception story is crucial for their emotional well-being and understanding of their identity. 5. Queer parents often have a unique perspective on donor conception, as they have already navigated the process of accepting their own identities and building their families. 🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈 - "Remember, you're not getting that person. You're getting their past three to five generations." - Dr. Mark Leondires - "Choosing your donor should be a head decision, but it really starts in your heart." - Lisa Schuman 🏳️🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. 🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. 🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode
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| Surrogacy Shenanigans with "The Gaytriarchs" Dads | 23 Oct 2023 | 00:55:13 | |
| S14 EP4 | Gavin and David, hosts of the podcast "Gaytriarchs," discuss their experiences with surrogacy and parenting as gay men. They share their journeys of finding egg donors and surrogate carriers, and the decisions they made along the way. The hosts also touch on the unique aspects of gay parenting and the need for constant conversations and decision-making, as well as the importance of authenticity and laughter in navigating the challenges and joys of queer parenting. 🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 - Gavin Lodge and David F.M. Vaughn are the co-hosts of the podcast "Gaytriarchs" and are both gay fathers. Gavin has two children and David has two children, all through surrogacy. They have a background in musical theater and share a passion for creating a podcast that brings humor and realness to the gay parenting world. 🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
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🏳️🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here🏳️🌈 Call us and leave a voicemail or text: 646-470-1840 Email: thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com 🏳️🌈Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible🏳️🌈 🏳️🌈Buy our merch here🏳️🌈 🏳️🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato🏳️🌈 Timestamp Summary 0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family Podcast and sponsor mention 0:00:30 Discussion on the unique challenges of gay families 0:02:07 Announcement of the Queer Family Podcast winning two Signal Awards 0:04:00 Shoutout to a listener and their upcoming surrogacy journey 0:05:22 Encouragement for listeners to reach out and connect 0:06:19 Introduction to Gavin and David, hosts of Gaytriarchs 0:06:43 David's 32-second elevator pitch about being a gay dad 0:08:21 Gavin's 32-second elevator pitch about being a gay dad 0:09:31 Playful discussion about who won the elevator pitch competition 0:10:09 Mention of upcoming topic on guns for their podcast episode 0:10:08 Introduction: Gavin and David talk about guns. 0:10:48 David's decision to pursue surrogacy and his sister-in-law's offer. 0:13:46 David's sister-in-law agrees to be their surrogate. 0:15:31 Finding a second surrogate through a Facebook group during COVID. 0:16:54 Gavin's conventional route to surrogacy through an agency. 0:17:19 Gavin's experience of flying to Pasadena for sperm donation. 0:18:28 The issue of lost sperm during the egg donor process. 0:19:25 Agency's mishap with the number of viable eggs from the donor. 0:19:28 Discussing the mishap in the surrogacy process. 0:20:13 Debate on using the term "vagina" versus "vulva". 0:21:13 Gavin's experience with surrogacy and the cost involved. 0:22:16 Gavin's desire to have kids and his partner's concerns. 0:24:08 Parenthood as a lesson in selflessness. 0:25:08 Advice on becoming a parent and maintaining self-identity. 0:26:06 Promo for California Cryobank and sperm donor selection. 0:26:58 Decision-making process on who would be the gestational parent. 0:27:39 Possibility of having twins with each partner's biological connection. 0:28:26 Anecdote of military dads with two surrogates and multiple babies. 0:28:25 Discussion about multiple pregnancies and babies 0:29:24 Gavin shares his experience of driving the baby train 0:30:10 Egg donor went MIA during the process 0:32:00 Different approaches to giving children last names 0:33:31 Overthinking decisions about last names 0:35:31 The search for an egg donor and the challenges involved 0:36:47 Biases and parameters in choosing an egg donor 0:37:15 Reflections on the influence of the egg donor 0:37:15 Reflections on the influence of the egg donor 0:37:15 David's view on his kids' behavior and genetics. 0:37:33 Gavin's experience with selecting an egg donor based on appearance. 0:38:18 Gavin asks David about watching videos of potential donors. 0:38:33 David and Gavin discuss selecting donors who resemble them. 0:39:23 David and Gavin talk about choosing average-looking donors. 0:40:23 David mentions not thinking about the donor anymore. 0:40:49 Jamie expresses surprise that closed donations still exist. 0:41:22 Jamie shares her thoughts on seeing the donor in her daughter. 0:42:31 David fears the donor might disappoint him if they meet. 0:43:53 Gavin and David talk about their children's ages. 0:47:22 Introduction to the podcast and how it started 0:47:43 Discussion about the need for a podcast on gay dads 0:48:16 Creating a diaper bag for gay dads 0:49:05 Fear of taking artistic leap and vulnerability 0:50:23 Challenges of remote recording and growing as a team 0:51:09 Humor and light-heartedness in the podcast 0:51:49 Importance of representation and inclusion in podcasts 0:52:05 Musical theater energy and laughter in the show 0:53:27 Appreciation for paving the way for other podcasts 0:53:59 Closing remarks and thanks to the guestSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Healthy Queer Parenting Amidst Anti-LGBTQ Laws | 16 Oct 2023 | 01:05:47 | |
| S14 EP3 | Nat Vikitsreth is a licensed clinical psychotherapist and child development specialist, and host of the Come Back to Care Podcast. She shares her personal journey, growing up in Bangkok, Thailand, and embracing her identity as a trans woman. Nat's work goes beyond therapy; she offers vital support to the queer community by being the "trans auntie of the village, loving up on other parents, especially queer parents." She discusses the importance of self-awareness and being present with our children. Her message reminds parents (especially Jaimie 😜) to give themselves grace as they navigate the complexities of parenting. "Queer Parents. We got this." - Nat Key Takeaways:
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If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow and Find Nat Vikitsreth: IG: #@comebacktocare Website: https://www.comebacktocare.com/ Podcast: https://www.comebacktocare.com/podcast Newsletter: https://www.comebacktocare.com/newsletter 7-week social justice parenting & inner child re-parenting program (Nov 1 - Dec 13): https://www.comebacktocare.com/learnWatch Video Episodes right now on YouTube Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Buy our merch here. For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our website Chapters: [0:00:00] Introduction and sponsor announcement [0:00:12] Nat's desire to be a trans auntie and work with queer parents [0:01:47] Jamie's introduction and background on previous parenting coaching session [0:03:19] Nat's email expressing hope to affirm, validate, and uplift listeners [0:04:12] Recommendation for the "Gaytriarchs" podcast [0:05:17] Listener message from Dana in Wisconsin [0:06:48] Jamie's gratitude and call for more listener messages [0:08:08] Introduction of Nat and conversation begins [0:08:42] Nat's elevator pitch and focus on love and boundaries [0:10:42] Nat's work as a decolonized therapist and supporting social justice parenting [0:11:28] Discussion of Nat's childhood and realization of being trans [0:12:05] Nat's struggle with understanding and expressing their gender identity [0:12:52] Nat talks about finding a community at their Catholic all boys school [0:14:15] Nat tells their parents they think they are a woman [0:15:06] Nat's parents already knew and accepted their identity [0:16:12] Nat moves to a different province to finish high school [0:17:05] Nat finds a chosen family in the sex worker community [0:18:26] Nat starts transitioning in their first year of college [0:19:14] Nat gets involved with the sex worker community [0:21:06] Nat talks about the emotional connection with clients as a sex worker [0:23:20] Nat and their chosen family do organizing work for safety [0:24:59] Nat's parents seek therapy to understand and accept their transition [0:25:44] Nat discusses their parents' education on their journey. [0:26:23] Nat mentions seeing multiple psychiatrists as a requirement for transitioning. [0:27:13] Nat talks about initially wanting a traditional family but later changing their mind. [0:28:09] Nat expresses a desire to be the "trans auntie" and support queer families. [0:29:21] Nat discusses the influence of patriarchy on their perception of womanhood. [0:30:46] Jamie introduces the topic of parenting in the current anti-trans climate. [0:32:00] Nat shares their journey of moving to the US and working with families. [0:32:51] Nat discusses the challenges of parenting in a hostile world. [0:34:24] Nat emphasizes the importance of being present with children despite challenges. [0:36:19] Nat suggests balancing teaching and preparing with being present with children. [0:38:32] Difficulty of being present with a child's hurt [0:39:23] Using the SIFT acronym to slow down and pause [0:39:56] Mama bear instinct to protect child [0:40:49] Using the SIFT acronym to notice bodily cues [0:42:40] Sensations may be too overwhelming for some parents [0:43:18] Noticing thoughts before going into teaching mode [0:44:27] Checking in with child's feelings and experiences [0:45:39] Pausing before reacting and breaking the pattern [0:46:44] Giving oneself grace and apologizing for losing temper [0:49:20] Sharing alternative actions and modeling emotional resilience [0:51:27] Research on mothers' ability to meet their babies' needs [0:53:16] Babies as young as three months can cope with stress [0:54:08] Different ways to self-soothe and model for children [0:55:15] Importance of teaching emotional skills to navigate difficult emotions [0:56:26] Recognizing the need to slow down and pay attention [0:58:06] Personalizing self-soothing techniques for children [0:59:29] Core regulation and sitting with children in their emotions [1:00:57] Being transparent about one's own capacity for regulation [1:01:51] Giving parents grace and acknowledging their efforts [1:02:50] Queer parents and allies are doing a great job [1:03:48] Introduction to Nat and their podcast [1:04:25] Thank you and closing remarks [1:05:00] Merchandise and conclusion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Will Our BFF Be Our Surrogate? | 09 Oct 2023 | 00:42:40 | |
Mohsin, Matthew, and Dahlia are best friends and hosts of the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions,” where they explore in depth the possibility of Dahlia becoming a surrogate for Mohsin and Matthew. They sat down with Jaimie to discuss the questions they’ve grappled with in the decision-making process, including the impact on their friendship, the legal and emotional aspects of surrogacy in the UK, and how their cultural and religious backgrounds play into all of it. They also delve into the importance of having strong female role models in their children's lives and the potential long-term relationship between Dahlia and the child. We get deep and personal on the intricacies of surrogacy and also delve into the complexities of friendship, family, and personal identity with these candid and fun BFFs. "Surrogacy with a close friend adds new layers and complexities to the process." - Matthew If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow and Find Tiny Huge Decisions Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Buy our merch here. For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our website
Chapters: | 0:00:00 | Introduction to the podcast and sponsors. | | 0:00:30 | Mohsin discusses the challenges of being gay in a religious and cultural family. | | 0:01:40 | Introduction to the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions" and its premise. | | 0:02:47 | Behind the scenes info about Mohsin and Dahlia's friendship and Mohsin and Matthew's relationship. | | 0:04:13 | Ally voicemail from Shephathia asking about a term for children of LGBTQ parents. | | 0:05:43 | Answering Shephathia’s question about the term "queer spawn" for children of LGBTQ parents. | | 0:07:09 | Request for listeners to reach out and share their thoughts and stories. | | 0:08:19 | Introduction of the podcast hosts and their backgrounds. | | 0:09:46 | Summary of the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions" and its exploration of surrogacy. | | 0:10:37 | Discussion about the relevance of Dahlia's work as a medical anthropologist. | | 0:11:05 | Introduction and background of the friendship between Mohsin and Dahlia | | 0:12:27 | Mohsin's coming out story and how Dahlia was the first person he told | | 0:14:06 | Dahlia's reaction to Mohsin's coming out | | 0:16:06 | Mohsin's inner turmoil and struggles with faith, culture, and family | | 0:18:27 | Matthew's coming out experience in a small town in Ireland | | 0:19:03 | Dahlia's observation of Mohsin's transformation after coming out | | 0:19:32 | Mohsin and Matthew's meeting and marriage | | 0:20:08 | Discussions about family building in their relationship | | 0:20:35 | Comparing their backgrounds and the sense of community from big families | | 0:20:35 | Age difference and discussions about having kids | | 0:21:09 | Importance of discussing family building intentions early on | | 0:21:41 | Considerations and challenges of LGBTQ+ family building | | 0:22:39 | Dahlia offers to be a surrogate as a joke | | 0:23:23 | Dahlia's proposal is taken seriously and discussed further | | 0:24:13 | Excitement and research about surrogacy options | | 0:25:34 | Decision to focus on surrogacy before exploring other options | | 0:26:10 | Podcast idea to have dedicated discussions and do research | | 0:27:46 | Structured conversations with experts and disciplined approach | | 0:29:33 | Dahlia's husband supports her decision without involvement in discussions | | 0:30:52 | Surrogacy in the UK and differences from the US | | 0:31:08 | Introduction to surrogacy in the UK | | 0:31:24 | Differences between UK and US surrogacy laws and costs | | 0:32:14 | Legal differences between UK and US surrogacy | | 0:33:19 | Discussion on the process and agreements in UK surrogacy | | 0:34:51 | Challenges of being friends and surrogacy | | 0:36:16 | Importance of sharing real-time experiences and negotiations | | 0:36:56 | Complexities of long-term relationship with the child | | 0:38:11 | Importance of strong female role models in their children's lives | | 0:39:34 | Plan in case the answer is no revealed in episode 7 | | 0:40:32 | Where to find the podcast and social media handles | | 0:41:35 | Thanking sponsor California Cryobank | | 0:41:56 | Matthew: Love is love | | 0:41:58 | Jamie: Enjoyed the episode, listen/watch another | | 0:42:23 | Jamie: Support show on Patreon, bonus content, love and adoration | Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Mia Cooley Is Black, Queer And Proud | 02 Oct 2023 | 00:51:18 | |
Mia Cooley, founder of xHood, joins Jaimie to discuss her journey as a queer parent and the work she is doing to support black and brown parents and intended parents. Mia shares her experience of having her first child with a previous partner and navigating co-parenting, as well as her journey to having a baby with her current partner. She also discusses the importance of representation and community support for queer families and highlights the work of Exhood in providing resources and events for black queer parents. "We provide family building and nurturing support to black and brown parents and intended parents." - Mia Cooley If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Follow and find Mia Cooley Instagram Facebook Thanks to California Cryobank (code QUEERFAM), Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters. Vote for us at the Signal Awards! Family & Child-Raising / LGBTQ+ Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Flipping the Script on Foster Adoption | 25 Sep 2023 | 01:02:18 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP12 | Ed Center is a husband and father who humorously quips that, as two Filipino men, he and his husband defied convention in their journey to parenthood by adopting two wonderful white children. After their eldest child faced a profound mental health challenge during the pandemic, Ed embraced a more inclusive and mindful approach to parenting and learned better ways to support his children. Inspired by his learnings, Ed founded Village Well Parenting, whose mission is to empower and enlighten parents like himself, providing them with the tools and support they need to build strong and resilient families. "Doing the inner work and addressing one's own wounds and triggers is crucial for effective parenting." Ed Center "Queer parents often have a unique perspective and approach to parenting that can be valuable in creating a supportive and inclusive environment for their children." Ed Center If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Follow and find Ed Center
Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Coming Out Later In Life, With Cara Cochran | 18 Sep 2023 | 00:50:52 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP11 | Cara Cochrane, also known as caras_atl on social media, discusses her late-life coming out, forming a blended family, and how the challenges she faced in finding her identity prompted her to become the representation she so lacked during her Southern upbringing. She also speaks about the media's lack of diversity, the intricacies of raising a child in a two-mom family in the American South, and the importance of recognizing and validating all parents within a family unit, regardless of DNA or gender. "Representation matters because it shows kids that there are different types of families and that they are valid and loved." - Cara Cochrane If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Breaking Biases: A Queer Parenthood Journey through Transition, Induced Lactation, and BMI Biases | 11 Sep 2023 | 00:48:20 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP10 | Chelsea and Megan share their journey to parenthood as a trans woman and cis woman couple. They met online, u-hauled it (in true lesbian fashion), and quickly began their queer baby-making process. After trying the “natural” way for quite some time, they decided to switch to fertility treatments. After a long journey filled with insurance drama, unfair BMI biases, and body dysmorphia they finally successfully conceived their son, Jameson through IVF. They discuss their emotional pregnancy, including Chelsea’s process of transcending her yearning to experience pregnancy and childbirth by embarking on the path of inducing lactation. Their resilience and determination in the face of adversity serve as a walking, breathing testament to the intentionality and love that drive queer parents everywhere, proving that love is love, and the kids are truly going to be all right. "We met online prior to Chelsea's transition. She told me on our third date." - Megan “So they said I was going to have to lose about at least 20 pounds to qualify for their loophole process, which was to go to another state to do the egg retrieval.” Megan If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Queer Love, Transition and Family Building | 04 Sep 2023 | 00:49:32 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP9 | Trigger Warning: Miscarriage is mentioned in this episode. Sam and Brook, a married couple from Canada, share their unique journey of love, family, and fertility. They met through a mutual friend and reconnected after the friend's passing. Brook, who is transgender, and Sam, who identifies as AFAB pansexual, navigated their relationship while raising Sam’s three children from previous relationships. They decided to expand their family through RIVF, going through the challenges of fertility treatments and the emotional rollercoaster of a miscarriage. Despite the obstacles, they remain hopeful and determined to have a child together. Their story highlights the complexities and joys of blended families and the resilience of love. "I'm still coming out all the time. And it's hard because there's some sort of level of shame that you have, that the new generation just doesn't have, they're just like, “This is who I am. And this is me, take it or leave it.” But, our generation… there's still some shame behind it, so it's hard." - Brook If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| BONUS REPLAY: A Beautifully Complicated Transition with Emme Reynolds | 18 Aug 2025 | 00:58:55 | |
As we gear up for the launch of Season 20 this September, we're sharing some favorite past episodes that continue to resonate—because queer family-building is never just a one-time story. Originally aired in Season 14, this episode features Emme Reynolds, a transgender parent of two in a newly blended family. Emme brings honesty, vulnerability, and wisdom to the conversation as she shares her personal journey of self-discovery, transition, and parenting. In a world that often misunderstands or oversimplifies gender identity, Emme reminds us that transitioning isn’t a moment—it’s a lifelong process. She opens up about the challenges of navigating transition while parenting, the importance of family support, and the power of visibility in today’s political climate. 🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
Emme encourages us all to listen with empathy, speak with honesty, and keep telling our beautifully complicated stories. 🏳️🌈 Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages here. 🏳️🌈 Book with GWK's Spring Break Cruise Vacation! Join Jaimie and her family (and other LGBTQIA+ families) on a 3 night cruise in the Bahamas. Be sure to mention that you heard about it here! Click that link ➡️ https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/ 🎧 Loved this episode? Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive! OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations: 🔗 redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content 🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you? Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect! Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube 🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book 🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| My Flaming Trans-Lesbian Dad | 28 Aug 2023 | 00:53:42 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP7 | Bethany Grace Howe transitioned at the age of 47, after seeing an image of Kaitlyn Jenner on the cover of a magazine and realizing that she too, was trans. Suddenly and somewhat out of the blue, Bethany's true identity was painfully clear, and hiding it was not an option. Now she and her 13-year-old daughter Nola are here to talk about their experience as a family together. "Bravery is running into a burning building. I ran out of it." Bethany If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Can Trans Men Freeze Their Eggs? | 21 Aug 2023 | 00:48:14 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP7 | To live as his authentic self in his native Transylvania, Stefan would have been forced into bottom surgery and a hysterectomy, rendering him sterile. So like most trans guys in his country, he got his testosterone on the black market and lived on the DL. Now he lives in the US with his wife, and while the country is not nearly as inclusive as he was led to believe, he at least has had the opportunity to begin the family-building process with his wife. After nearly a decade on testosterone, Stefan recently froze his eggs. He wanted to share his story in the hopes of opening up new possibilities for others like him and to challenge commonly held beliefs about the impact of testosterone on fertility. "If you want to change your name to match your gender, you have to sue the government and go through a medical panel. And you have to have bottom surgery and a hysterectomy and remove your ovaries. That is required for you to change your name." Stefan From Transylvania If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Resources mentioned in the episode: Mount Sinai Center of Transgender Health Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| 2 Daddies 2 Many Options | 17 Aug 2023 | 00:56:33 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 E6 BONUS | Michael and Matt have been in the process of creating their 2-dad family for quite some time and they're chronicling that process on their new podcast "Who's Your Daddy." They sat down with Jaimie to explore their path from an initial foster-to-adopt plan to the world of surrogacy with an egg donor, and how they’ve tackled the many difficult decisions that go along with it: Should they work with an agency or pursue an independent route? How far are they willing to travel for their surrogate? How will they navigate the emotional implications if one of them ends up without a biological connection when they both really want one? How will they afford this? And WHO on earth will their surrogate be? So many questions, so many decisions to make, and they’re still very much on this rollercoaster we call queer family building. “We ended up with 4 embryo’s on my end and 1 on Michael’s end. We’re hoping to each have a biological child but you can’t control nature.” Matt Listen to Who’s Your Daddy with Michael and Matt If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| A Healing Trans Pregnancy | 14 Aug 2023 | 00:51:48 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 5 | TW: This episode covers sensitive topics including sexual abuse, self-harm, and addiction. Please proceed with caution and consider your emotional well-being before listening. If you or someone you know is struggling with these issues, please seek help from a trusted professional or support organization. Your mental health matters. Danny tells us how falling pregnant while in the throws of addiction turned out to be the catalyst for an ultimate transformation; becoming a sober and healed parent to 2-year-old Wilder, proving that sometimes life's most unexpected twists lead to the most profound blessings. We also explore Danny's journey towards self-realization as a transmasculine non-binary individual and the reasons behind Danny's mission to redefine masculinity. "I relapsed in my sex addiction, and I ended up with the biggest blessing of my entire life, unexpectedly" Danny Follow Danny on Instagram TikTok YouTube If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The "A" In LGBTQIA | 07 Aug 2023 | 00:51:14 | |
Digging deep into the "A" in LGBTQI"A". Aline Mayard is a single parent who happens to be asexual, aromantic, and nonbinary. They also host the Tribeca Award Winning podcast, "Free From Desire: Asexual In The City Of Love." Aline talks about their difficult path to accepting their Ace and Aro identity, challenges us to rethink what intimacy is, and to question why we're so obsessed with sex as a society. "I don't see myself in a romantic or a sexual relationship, but there are other, what I call, physical relationships." Aline Listen to Free From Desire If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast onPatreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Embracing Her Daughter's Gender | 31 Jul 2023 | 00:46:20 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 3 | Kate Brooks is the author of "Transister, Raising Twins In A Gender-Bending World," an affirming and honest account of her young daughter's transition. Kate gives us a candid, straight, cis-gendered mother's perspective on what it was like for her to go from having what she thought were twin "boys" to ultimately having a son and a daughter who are both happy, healthy, kind - and thankfully, alive. This family's journey is one of discovery, celebration, and love. "He said to me, "Mama, when I was in your tummy, it was a mistake. I was supposed to come out a girl." Kate Brooks "In order to be counted you have to be part of the conversation, or it's like you don't exist." Kate Brooks If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Celebrating What DeSantis Fears | 24 Jul 2023 | 00:43:49 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 2 | Peggy Gillespie is the co-director of Family Diversity Projects, a non-profit that has created 10 different photo/text exhibits celebrating underrepresented folks over the years, the author of Authentic Selves, a mom to a nonbinary kiddo, and a self-described queer hippie from the 60s. When we tell you that this changemaker has been pushing boundaries and making a difference her whole life, we're not kidding. "A child should wear what they feel comfortable in." Peggy Gillespie Buy Authentic Selves, Celebrating Trans and Nonbinary People and Their Families Email Peggy at familydiversityprojects@gmail.com Visit familydiversityprojects.org If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Unexpected Journey to Pregnancy | 17 Jul 2023 | 00:55:01 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 1 | Lamalani and Laracarina 100% knew they didn’t want kids- until Lamalani came home one day and changed her mind. What followed was a wild fertility journey during Covid that included a tumor surgery, a difficult donor search, RIVF, IVF, a pregnancy that lasted way too long, a difficult birth, and a random and altruistic decision to pay it forward and do it all again as a surrogate for their gay male friends. "The donor search is such a bizarre experience." Laracarina If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Thanks to Our Shelves (code QUEERFAM) and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| What Does Pride Mean To You? | 10 Jul 2023 | 00:22:55 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 13 | What does Pride mean to you? Because we are all unique individuals, Pride means something different to each of us, so for this special PRIDE EXTRAVAGANZA Grand Finale, we've gathered a little medley of responses to this question from all of our Extravaganza guests. These answers will give you all the feels, y'all. Let them serve as a reminder that LOVE is LOVE, YOU are loved, and PRIDE is EVERY DAY. Happy Pride to all. “I think of Pride like rays of sunshine. Pride is being a light, not only for yourself but also for other people who may be in the dark. It’s being a voice for others, and standing up in your truth to make it easier for somebody after you to do the same.” Alec Mazelin If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! A special thanks to all of our sponsors for The Pride Extravaganza! Mosie Baby (code: family), Fairfax Surrogacy, Cryobank America, Mombian, Family Equality, The Center for Family Building, The Gender Cool Project, The National LGBTQ Task Force, and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Spreading Love and Light with The Vaughn-Trainors | 06 Jul 2023 | 01:07:09 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 12 | Eric and Tony Vaughn-Trainor’s (aka @mrvaughntrainor) path to becoming a family of four was marked by a challenging adoption journey and failed connections, leading them to switch to surrogacy. Through sharing their struggles on social media, they eventually found a surrogate who helped bring their twin daughters into the world, despite facing further hardships during the pregnancy and a long NICU stay. Their inspiring story showcases the resilience and dedication of LGBTQ individuals in building and parenting our families and is a testament to the intentionality and determination that goes into every journey. “We wanted to be a mirror for anybody out there who aspires to have the family of their dreams, the life of their dreams… because we didn’t have a mirror. You can have it. You just might have to jump through some hurdles to get there.” Eric Vaughn-Trainor If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! A special thanks to all of our sponsors for The Pride Extravaganza! Mosie Baby (code: family), Fairfax Surrogacy, Cryobank America, Mombian, Family Equality, The Center for Family Building, The Gender Cool Project, The National LGBTQ Task Force, and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow The Vaughn-Trainors
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| Bonus: Cruising Podcast Swap — Les Pierres, Love, and Queer Family in the Deep South | 11 Aug 2025 | 01:08:37 | |
While we gear up for Season 20 (September 1st!), I’m sharing something special — an episode swap with the fabulous podcast Cruising. They’re featuring one of my episodes on their feed, and I’m thrilled to bring one of theirs to you. This one’s a beautiful slice of queer history, love, and resilience. Juanita Pierre and Leslie Martinez opened New Orleans' first Black-owned lesbian bar, Les Pierres, on the corner of Pauger St and N. Rampart St. No one can quite remember the exact date Les Pierres opened, but based on some other stories and dates, we can guess it would have been around 1980. By 1990, they had closed, but their legacy remains. In this episode, Juanita--alongside family and friends--shares memories of the bar, her love story with Leslie, and what it was like raising children as a same-sex couple in the Deep South in the 70s and 80s. This episode features interviews with Teryl Lynn Foxx, Juanita Pierre, Mike Pierre, and Emelda Sterling. Subscribe to Cruising on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever else you listen. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Claire Gets Pregnant | 03 Jul 2023 | 00:53:41 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 11 | Claire Wasserman (aka @clairegetspaid) sat down with Jaimie while in the midst of her queer family-building journey and spoke candidly about coming out after a straight marriage, finding true love, discovering her feminist side, and embarking on the roller coaster of queer baby-making with her wife. They delve into the details of her recent sperm donor search, the inseminations, the costs involved, and the fears that arise with this unpredictable path to parenthood. As an educator and author, Claire is passionate about helping women earn more and live better, and she leverages her platform and global community, Ladies Get Paid, to achieve that goal. Additionally, she shares her personal journey in real-time with her followers, from getting straight divorced to getting gay married, and to now embarking on the exciting journey of becoming a queer mama. Claire is living her truth, being visible, and making a difference. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “This is friggin’ expensive. You can’t just get knocked up. You have to buy sperm, you have to pay for the insemination. The costs involved are not cool.” Claire Wasserman Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to Mosie Baby (code: family) and our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow Claire Wasserman Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| When Serendipity Meets Surrogacy with The McHusbands | 29 Jun 2023 | 00:57:45 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 10 | Erik and Adam (aka the @mchusbands) shifted their family-building plan from adoption to surrogacy when their sister-in-law offered to carry for them. In another turn of good fortune, their best friend selflessly agreed to be their egg donor, and their twin baby girls were created. Realizing the lack of representation for gay dads like themselves in the realm of family building, Erik and Adam embarked on a mission to document their journey on social media. Little did they know that their decision to share their story would significantly impact countless others seeking guidance and support. Fast forward seven years and Erik and Adam remain dedicated to their visibility, proudly showcasing the extraordinary joys and challenges of being a two-dad family, defying stereotypes, and shattering misconceptions along the way. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “It was all kept in the family. We had our best friend as our egg donor and our sister-in-law was our surrogate ” Adam McEwen Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to Mosie Baby (code: family) and our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow The McHusbands Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Jewish, Queer and Fabulous with The Sharon Moms | 26 Jun 2023 | 01:00:53 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 9 |Brit and Sydney Sharon (aka @thesharonmoms) share their inspiring journey as Jewish queer moms who built their family through IUI and reciprocal IVF. They also reveal a surprising discovery about Sydney's dad being a sperm donor in his youth, leading them to connect with six donor siblings. The couple discusses the profound impact of their Jewish faith and the joy they experienced in establishing relationships with their newfound biological siblings. Through their story, they serve as a shining example of the beauty and strength of queer families when faced with minimal complications. Using their platform, Brit and Sydney aim to increase visibility, challenge misconceptions about biological connections in families, redefine womanhood, and redefine traditional roles and rituals within marriage. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! "We definitely need to be safe, and now that we have kids we take it even further. We need to make sure that we're all safe. We're not just a same sex couple, we're a same sex Jewish couple, and the antisemitism that's been on the rise these last couple of years is scary." Sydney Sharon Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to Mosie Baby (code: family) and our Patreon supporters! Promo code PRIDE2023 gets you level 2 subscription for free or a discounted level 3. Good for 90 days at California Cryobank! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow The Sharon Moms Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Real Dads of New York: The Stereotype Busters | 22 Jun 2023 | 01:00:59 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 8 |Richard and Carlos, (aka @therealdadsofnewyork) are proud black, Jamaican dads who built their family through adoption and foster-to-adopt. Through their active presence on social media, they have become a beacon of visibility, addressing the lack of representation they experienced growing up. Their powerful presence allows them to educate others and challenge stereotypes, demonstrating the incredible beauty and strength that a family like theirs possesses. Through their inspiring journey, Richard and Carlos are making a lasting impact and reshaping perceptions of what a family can be. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “We’re busting the myths, we’re busting the stereotypes and we’re showing this is what this is, and this is only one version of what this is, and there is beauty in all the versions.” Richard Seigler-Carter Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to Mosie Baby (code: family) and our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow The Real Dads of New York Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Broadway Husbands Do Surrogacy | 19 Jun 2023 | 00:54:56 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 7 | Bret and Stephen (aka @broadwayhusbands) met in 2006 and began documenting their lives together on social media shortly after getting married. When they decided to go down the surrogacy path to make their family, they remained visible on their platforms as a way to inform others about the challenges and joys along the way. Taking it step by step, they saved up and paid for each stage of the process individually, making a notoriously expensive route manageable. After 4 years, a lost surrogate, a miscarriage, and a friend divinely stepping in to carry their child, they finally became dads. They continue to share their journey and showcase their adorable son, using their visibility to educate and inspire others in similar situations. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! "We kept trying and we just weren't getting pregnant." Stephen Hana Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to Mosie Baby (code: family), The Ten News and our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow The Broadway Husbands
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| Love, Visibility, & Activism with Whitney and Megan | 15 Jun 2023 | 00:55:17 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 6 | Whitney and Megan (aka @whatwegandidnext) met on MySpace and started blogging about their lives together in 2009. What began as an effort to create a personal scrapbook of memories soon became a mission to provide the visibility they felt was lacking in mainstream media for LGBTQIA+ relationships. Fast forward 15 years, and Whitney and Megan are now happily married content creators embarking on their path to becoming two mommies. Not only do they use their lives to challenge the status quo on what love and relationships look like, but they are also now utilizing their platforms to raise awareness and drive change regarding the inequality faced by same-sex couples in accessing fertility care in the UK. Through their activism, they're shedding light on the challenges and barriers that LGBTQIA+ individuals encounter when starting a family. Their goal is to create a more inclusive and equitable landscape for all couples, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. These two badasses are working hard to foster positive change in the LGBTQIA+ community. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “If we saw this kind of love growing up we would have come to the realization of who we are as people so much earlier than we actually did. It took me 30 years to come out to my mother.” Alec Tomlin-Mazelin Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to Mosie Baby (code: family) our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow Whitney and Megan Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Out And Proud With The Mazelin’s | 12 Jun 2023 | 00:56:07 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 5 | Brian and Alec Mazelin (aka @meetthemazelins) share their journey as a couple, starting with their online meeting during the pandemic and quick connection, leading Alec to leave Jamaica and move to Florida, where Brian and his son lived. They publicly came out to their families through a heartfelt engagement post on social media, receiving overwhelming support from countless individuals. Motivated by this love, they embraced the importance of representation and remained visible, documenting their lives together and inspiring those struggling to embrace their true selves. Amidst growing anti-LGBTQ rhetoric across both Florida and Jamaica, these two serve as a beacon of hope to many. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “If we saw this kind of love growing up we would have come to the realization of who we are as people so much earlier than we actually did. It took me 30 years to come out to my mother.” Alec Tomlin-Mazelin Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters and our sponsor Fairfax Surrogacy! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow The Mazelin’s Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| From Surrogate to Advocate, with Kayde Mason | 08 Jun 2023 | 00:40:06 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 4 | Meet Kayde Mason, a mother of three, whose experiences as an egg donor and gestational surrogate led her to become a passionate surrogacy professional and advocate. Kayde shares her inspiring story, highlighting her transformative journey from being a surrogate for her gay friends to becoming an advocate and educator for surrogacy, with a specific focus on its importance within the LGBTQIA+ community. As a surrogacy professional, Kayde leverages her personal experiences and expertise to empower others who are considering or involved in surrogacy. She utilizes her social media platform as a powerful tool to advocate for surrogacy, breaking down misconceptions and promoting understanding, particularly in relation to the LGBTQIA+ community. Kayde's dedication to education helps to dispel myths and prejudices surrounding surrogacy, while also highlighting its potential to create loving families, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “What’s important for kids is to have people who love you. It doesn’t matter if that’s 1 mom, 2 dads, 2 moms… it’s about that intention. It’s about being there for your kids.” Kayde Mason “This is not my baby. This is for them. There was never a confusion in my body.” Kayde Mason Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow Kayde Mason Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Becoming NYC Gay Dad, with José Rolón | 05 Jun 2023 | 00:48:03 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 3 | Today we’re diving into the remarkable story of José Rolón, aka NYC Gay Dad. To expand their family, José and his husband, Tim, opted for surrogacy with egg donation. After a tragic event during their second pregnancy threatened to derail their dreams, José showed immense strength and resilience, and with a little help from his chosen family, he ultimately became a proud single gay dad to three fabulous children. Through the power of social media, José has chosen to share his family's experiences with the world. We explore how he uses these platforms to showcase the love, joy, and everyday moments that make queer families truly extraordinary. Join us as we witness José's unwavering determination to challenge stereotypes and demonstrate the incredible awesomeness of queer families. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “Who am I to raise three kids on my own?” José Rolón, NYC Gay Dad Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow NYC Gay Dad Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Road To Family Equality, with Stacey Stevenson | 01 Jun 2023 | 00:51:40 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 2 | We’re kicking off Pride 2023 with Stacey Stevenson, the remarkable CEO of Family Equality! Stacey's journey is a testament to resilience and determination, including navigating through a difficult coming out process that led to dropping out of high school, battling diversity and bias as they built their family through adoption, and the difficult decision they made to leave Texas due to safety concerns, a poignant reminder of the lengths we go to protect our loved ones. But that's not all—Stacey's advocacy work has been truly impactful. We'll delve into the initiatives they've undertaken to address the challenges faced by queer families, shining a light on the realities we encounter. This inspiring episode is a reminder of the strength and love within the LGBTQ+ community and a perfect way to kick off Pride Month and set the stage for our Pride Extravaganza! #LGBTQ+Advocate #CreatingChange #PrideMonth If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “We have not seen the level of attacks on our families like this since the ’70s. We’ve literally gone back in time.” Stacey Stevenson, CEO of Family Equality Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow Family Equality Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| BONUS REPLAY: Flipping the Script on Foster Adoption | 04 Aug 2025 | 01:02:18 | |
🎉 BONUS REPLAY: Flipping the Script on Foster Adoption As we gear up for the launch of Season 20 this September (!!!), I’m revisiting some of my favorite episodes from past seasons. These stories continue to resonate, inspire, and remind us why queer family visibility matters—every single day. Originally aired in Season 13, this heartfelt and eye-opening episode features Ed Center, a husband, father, and educator who shares his family's journey through foster adoption with humor, grace, and deep honesty. Ed and his husband—both Filipino men—broke stereotypes by adopting two white children, and their story takes a powerful turn during the pandemic, when their eldest child faced a serious mental health challenge. This moment pushed Ed to reevaluate his parenting approach, leading him toward more inclusive, conscious caregiving practices. Out of that journey came a mission: Ed founded Village Well Parenting, an initiative dedicated to equipping other parents—especially those in queer, adoptive, and multicultural families—with tools to raise strong, supported, emotionally resilient kids. In this episode, we explore:
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Ed Center was a kid with big feelings and challenging behaviors. He drove his parents and teachers bonkers. Now he helps grown-ups understand and support these kids. Ed founded The Village Well, an organization that helps parents and educators find more calm, joy, and connection. Ed is Triple P™ certified parenting coach and educator who specializes in working with families of color. His goal is to help people to tap into cultural wisdom while interrupting intergenerational pain. Ed is a queer brown dad who has worked in education for 30 years. He and his husband built their family through foster adoption. The child of a Filipino American mom and White American dad, Ed grew up in Hawai’i, and feels at home there, in the Philippines, in San Francisco, and wherever he smells good barbecue. 🏳️🌈 Book with GWK's Spring Break Cruise Vacation! Join Jaimie and her family (and other LGBTQIA+ families) on a 3 night cruise in the Bahamas. Be sure to mention that you heard about it here! Click that link ➡️ https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/ 🏳️🌈 Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages here 🎧 Loved this episode? Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive! OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations: 🔗 redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content 🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you? Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect! Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube 🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book 🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Mombian Mom And Her Spouse | 29 May 2023 | 00:52:46 | |
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza!| S12 Ep 1 | Dana (AKA Mombian) and her wife Helen join us to discuss their road to motherhood via RIVF, why Dana created her Award Winning LGBTQ parenting blog, Mombian, and what it's like as empty nesters when the kid leaves home. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! “I thought we’d never have kids or be married, but I was happy with her and that would have to be enough. But instead, I am so grateful to the straight people of our nation who went along with letting us marry and being more open. It’s been a wonderful change in our lifetimes. I’m just astounded really, in retrospect” Helen thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow Mombian Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Bonus Mom | 22 May 2023 | 00:46:07 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 16 | Blu Nyle is an artist, author, healer, newlywed, and bonus mom in a new traditional family that was created by queer BFFs and former TQFP guests, Brandi J. Andrews and Lawrence Carol. Blu talks about learning how to "family,” approaching co-parenting from a place of healing and finding the many blessings that come from stepping in as a bonus mom. Jaimie's amazing interns Nicole Jeter and Addie Griffin join Jaimie to introduce the interview and help Jaimie make some BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS that are coming up on the show. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! “As queer folks in America, we’re set up for a lot of challenges, and I have to be able to help my wife process, help my son process, help baby daddy process, and most importantly keep myself sane. So that mental health, that mental wealth, is so important.” Blu thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Buy Blu’s book: Trauma Thriver: Mess to the Message Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Incognito Gaybe-Making in Thailand | 15 May 2023 | 00:46:33 | |
The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 15 | Kathryn (Kit) shares how she and her wife Nicole created their family against all odds in South East Asia. Flights from Thailand to Cambodia, hotel stays, and keeping their queer identities incognito are all a part of their international baby-making journey. Guest co-host, Chan, founder of Lesbian Moms Club, helps Jaimie introduce the episode. Chan tells us why she started the platform and announces something VERY exciting for queer families. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “We knew from the sperm bank that the clinic in Cambodia existed, but we didn’t know if they would treat a lesbian couple when we got there” Kit thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Edit Audio. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters! We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Stonewall LGBTQ Support in the UK Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||