Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast The Newcomers Podcast
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| E150: David Campbell understands why our immigration policy can't work for Atlantic Canada | 26 Mar 2026 | 01:11:15 | |
In the 150th episode (whew), I am speaking with David Campbell, formerly Chief Economist with the New Brunswick Jobs Board Secretariat and President of Jupia Consultants Inc, an industry research and economic development consulting firm. The big question for me as I was planning this episode was if population growth could be a bottleneck or an economic tool, and what that meant for Canada's productivity and Atlantic Canada. The question I think we ended up answering was if one immigration policy can work for a country with wildly different demographic realities. We also talk about a lot of other interesting things, such as:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
Official Links ✅ Connect with David Campbell on LinkedIn ✅ Check out his Substack; It's the Economy, Stupid ✅ Read his March 2026 Public Policy Forum publication on solving Atlantic Canada's growing labour force challenge One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E149: Mo Altaqatqa on the skill that separates the newcomer entrepreneurs who win from those who don't | 19 Mar 2026 | 00:43:04 | |
In today's episode, I'm speaking to Mo Altaqatqa, Senior Business Development Manager at Futurpreneur. Mo grew up in Jordan, left in 2011, lived in Saudi Arabia, Dubai, and Ukraine before moving to Canada. He's been working with entrepreneurs for over a decade, starting in banking, then running his own fundraising business working with startups, and now supporting young entrepreneurs through Futurpreneur. I kinda already sensed this, but the point Mo makes about how the immigration process itself is preparation for building a business is such a great one. Because mahn, if you get through all the paperwork, the financial planning, the risk, and the uncertainty, I don't see why you can't go ahead and build a business. But there are other things that separates those who launch from those who stall. Mo and I chat about that difference, we also talk about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
Official Links ✅ Connect with Mo Altaqatqa on LinkedIn One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E148: Bontu Galataa on the biggest mistake loads of newcomer entrepreneurs make | 12 Mar 2026 | 00:46:14 | |
In today's episode, I am chatting with Bontu Galataa, an entrepreneurship ecosystem strategist and Founder of Sayyoo Consulting, a social impact business consultancy about the mistakes immigrant entrepreneurs make and more. Bontu has met and still meets newcomer entrepreneurs at every stage of their immigration journey; from folks who just landed and are looking to run with an idea to those who have been on the grind for a few years and are looking to figure out why the business can't seem to grow beyond their little circle of friends. And the common thread is these people mostly skip the research phase. They assume that business works the way back home with some little changes. They don't spend time understanding all the million nuances that could put you in trouble or crater your business. Bontu and I chat about how to solve that, we also talk about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
----------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Bontu Galataa on LinkedIn One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E147: Emmanuel Ahiafor says Ghana is still home. He just doesn't fit there anymore. | 06 Mar 2026 | 00:46:43 | |
In this episode, I'm speaking with Emmanuel Ahiafor, who started travelling solo to Russia in his first year of university, visited over 15 countries, moved to Budapest because of a song, and now lives in New Brunswick with his family. When I asked him if he feels fully Ghanaian when he goes back, his answer was no. Things he once accepted as normal, he now questions. And yet, no place feels like home as much as Ghana for him. He thinks he'll go back eventually. ---------- Emmanuel and I chat about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
---------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Emmanuel Ahiafor on LinkedIn One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E146: Busayo Disu thinks the society has to meet the immigrants halfway | 27 Feb 2026 | 01:08:56 | |
In today's episode, I'm speaking with Busayo Disu, a pharmacist turned intercultural communication advocate who moved from Nigeria to Sherwood Park, Alberta in 2019. Since that time, she's launched the African Society of Strathcona County, written a children's book called Our Story, Our Voice, produced a documentary of the same name, and is organizing community dialogues between policymakers and immigrant families. This was one of those conversations where we got into it, albeit productively and respectfully. So here's the gist. Busayo's position on integration is the environment, its leadership, and its organizations have to create the conditions for integration. Without that, she says, any individual effort by the immigrants just generates unnecessary conflict. While I agree that society plays a part, I also think the immigrant needs to do the work of nudging society along to create those conditions. Healthy conflict is the way the world changes. This was a fun one. ---------- Busayo and I also chat about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
---------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Busayo Disu on LinkedIn ✅ The Avid Readers of Africa website One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E145: Abdullah Sharief thinks Canada's risk aversion could be costly in the long-term | 19 Feb 2026 | 00:47:49 | |
In today's episode, I'm speaking with Abdullah Sharief, Co-Founder and CMO of Panda Hub, North America's leading mobile car detailing platform. Abdullah studied medicine in Turkey, came to Canada in 2018, and has gone on to build arguably Canada's biggest car care platform. Abdullah is a straight-shooter, and I do appreciate folks like him. Launching Panda Hub with his co-founder, Reza Ahmadi, means they've dealt with Canadian VCs firsthand. His assessment? A lot of them are slow, small-minded, and are always looking for safe bets. And if we stay the same way we are, we're going to be left behind eventually. ---------- Abdullah and I also chat about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
---------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Abdullah Sharief on LinkedIn ✅ Check out Panda Hub ✅ Read our profile on Abdullah Sharief One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E144: Maria Kamila González knows the real reason you can't save money | 13 Feb 2026 | 00:53:15 | |
In today's episode, I'm speaking with Maria Kamila González, the co-founder of Finanzo, a non-profit organization in Toronto that believes in making newcomers financially aware and has impacted the lives of 100,000 immigrants in the US and Canada. Maria is a psychologist by training, which means that when she talks about money, she doesn't start with budgeting or spreadsheets. She starts with your childhood, your parents, and the patterns you inherited from them, as well as the patterns your culture or society drilled into you about money. In her words, "How you treat money is how you treat everything else." Worth pausing on that for a bit, people. ---------- Maria and I chat about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
---------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Maria Kamila González on LinkedIn ✅ Check out the Finanzo website One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E143: Mustafa Ansari thinks the public image problem of skilled trades is costing Canada | 06 Feb 2026 | 00:32:41 | |
In today's episode, I'm chatting with Mustafa Ansari, Director of Marketing of Toronto Business Development Centre (TBDC), who's made it a personal mission to get more immigrants into trucking and the skilled trades. Mustafa moved from Pakistan to Canada in 2018. After completing his master's degree at Smith School of Business, Queens University, he couldn't find a job in his preferred industry; economic development. So he bounced around a few temporary and contract jobs, and eventually took a junior social media position at TBDC just to get his foot in the door. They then handed him two industries that had zero creative marketing and no public appeal (trucking and skilled trades) and told him to go figure it out. And Mustafa went on a roll. ---------- Mustafa and I chat about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
---------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Mustafa Ansari on LinkedIn ✅ Read the Starter Guide to Skilled Trades for Newcomers in Ontario One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E142: Diana Palmerín Velasco on resetting the Canadian immigration conversation | 30 Jan 2026 | 00:56:33 | |
In today's episode, I'm talking with Diana Palmerín Velasco of the Canadian Chamber of Commerce about how we go about rebuilding trust in Canada's immigration system. Diana moved to Canada in 2011 with all the credentials you'd think would make settling into the country easy. She had a PhD and five years of UK work experience. It still took her two years to land her first job. And she only got it because someone she knew referred her. That was almost 15 years ago, and not much has changed. We are still underutilising talent. And now we have a public trust crisis on top of it. ---------- Diana and I chat about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
--------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Diana Palmerín Velasco on LinkedIn One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E141: Ruairi Spillane wants you to stop treating job hunting like Bingo | 23 Jan 2026 | 01:25:37 | |
In today's episode, I'm talking to the brilliant and straight-shooting Ruairi Spillane, who runs Moving2Canada and Outpost Recruitment. Ruairi is one of the OGs when it comes to helping newcomers move to Canada, find jobs, and settle in nicely. So he was a must-have on The Newcomers Podcast. As someone who's been recruiting local and global talent for Canada for over a decade, he's seen what works, what doesn't, and he's not afraid to tell you the difference. And he dished out dollops of that tough love on this episode. ---------- Ruairi and I chat about:
---------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
---------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Ruairi Spillane on LinkedIn ✅ Check out the Outpost Recruitment Jobs Board ✅ Join the 170K+ strong newcomer community on Moving2Canada One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E140: Rodrigo Cotrim de Carvalho is trying to understand what's wrong with him | 21 Jan 2026 | 00:55:00 | |
In our first episode of 2026, I'm speaking with Rodrigo Cotrim de Carvalho, a Brazilian food researcher and educator who left Rio de Janeiro for Ottawa, Canada, through the now shuttered Startup Visa program. There's a lot to reflect on here, folks. But I think the one I kept coming back to was the point Rodrigo makes about all that gets lost in translation as you go through the messy process of fitting into your new home. --------------- Rodrigo and I also chat about:
--------------- Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
--------------- Official Links ✅ Connect with Rodrigo Cotrim de Carvalho on LinkedIn ✅ Check out Babette Food Experiences ✅ Listen to Rodrigo's Due Tramonti Podcast One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E139: Deanna Okun-Nachoff knows what's missing from Canada's immigration discourse | 19 Dec 2025 | 01:09:44 | |
In the last episode of 2025, I’m chatting with Deanna Okun-Nachoff, an immigration lawyer and host of the Borderlines Podcast, about where Canada’s immigration system stands six months into the Carney government. Any sense of accountability on the part of the government for where we are today with immigration has been largely absent from the raging public debate. The now-infamous “come to study or work, come to stay” messaging was pushed hard at some point. And it worked. Hundreds of thousands of temporary residents moved to Canada with the intention of earning permanent residency. Now, the government can’t fulfil those promises for some very obvious reasons. Yet, the blame for everything wrong with the process through which these folks came into the country has landed squarely on their shoulders. The big question I hope this episode helps kickstart is: What kind of nation do we want to build? And are the decisions we make going forward grounded in those values? Deanna believes that whatever path Canada chooses, it must be fundamentally grounded in being upfront, truthful, direct, fair, and accountable. ----------- Deanna and I also talk about:
------ Dozie's Notes A few things that struck me as I listened through this week's conversation:
Official Links ✅ Connect with Deanna Okun-Nachoff on LinkedIn ✅ Listen to the Borderlines Podcast One Ask If you found this story helpful, please consider sharing it with one immigrant you know. | |||
| E138: Aashrit Parvangada on why immigrants should stop chasing acceptance | 12 Dec 2025 | 01:17:52 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Aashrit Parvangada, a historical nerd based in Berlin, and one of the best folks to chat with about geopolitics, nationalism, and immigration. I must say this was a sobering conversation, but also an enlightening one for me. Aashrit is not one to hold back on what he thinks about the world and how geopolitics and history shape most of what we’ve seen in recent times. And for someone who’s lived in Dubai, India, Canada, the United States, Germany, and speaks English, Hindi, Japanese, and German, he has the lived experience to back up his takes. Aashrit and I talk about:
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| E137: Rania Younes understands migratory grief better than most | 06 Dec 2025 | 01:46:55 | |
In this episode, I’m chatting with Rania Younes, who grew up as a third-culture kid in Kuwait, attended the American University in Cairo, and built a career in Dubai before ultimately settling in Canada. When Rania’s family moved to Canada, she had to stay behind to complete her university studies. However, watching her parents struggle to settle into the country and find their footing meant that when it was time to return, she hesitated. She came over anyway, years later, because watching her siblings integrate gave her hope that Canada could give her kids something she had never had…a place to call home. Then she lost her baby brother in 2010. And processing that loss made Rania realise that she had been mourning an imagined version of herself for the last ten years. A trajectory of a self she should have been. The social circles and friends she had to leave behind to move to Canada. Rania and I chat about:
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| E136: Dapo Bankole dreamed for 19 years. Canada still broke him | 05 Dec 2025 | 00:57:37 | |
In this episode, I’m chatting with Dapo Bankole, a project manager and founder of Mentorfy. His viral TEDx talk, “The Hidden Struggles and Triumphs of Immigrant Professionals in Canada,” is painfully relevant to loads of immigrants looking to settle in Canada. My primary reason for interviewing Dapo on the podcast was to learn the story behind his TEDx talk. The version that includes the number of times he choked up in tears during rehearsals. The version where he describes a 19-year dream that started before he’d even applied for immigration. The version where he describes the day his family had to decide between gas and food. The one where he gets moody, irate, and flares up at the small things. Dapo and I dig into:
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| E135: Precious Kolawole has learned how to debug the immigrant mentality | 27 Nov 2025 | 00:44:06 | |
In this episode, I’m chatting with Precious Kolawole, who moved from Nigeria to Canada through the Shopify Dev Degree program, and has also seen her TEDx talk “How coding can change your life-and the world” go viral. There’s a trap that awaits most immigrants. It’s subtle, and it sounds like self-awareness: Maybe they won’t pick me because of my accent. Maybe I don’t belong here. Maybe I should expect less. Precious knows this too well. She describes sitting before a performance review at Shopify, telling herself to calm down, preparing for disappointment despite knowing she’d worked harder than anyone. When her supervisors told her she’d earned the highest rating, she screamed on the call. They paused, confused. Why this reaction? Because she’d already decided she wouldn’t get it. “It’s very funny how we think,” she says. “We think too much. We’re immigrants.” But what makes Precious different is how she reorients herself. She traces it back to coding, specifically, to debugging. When you debug code, errors are problems that always have a solution, that’s if you’re willing to keep looking. And that mindset has carried into how she approaches her immigration journey in Canada. Precious and I dig into:
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| E134: Bryan McInnis knows all about the temptations of the expat bubble | 26 Nov 2025 | 00:42:04 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Bryan McInnis, who moved from the United States to Kampala, Uganda with his wife and two daughters. Every immigrant has felt the tension of the pull towards your people as you settle into the new country. The comfort of shared references, familiar jokes, conversations that don’t require any literal or cultural translation. Bryan McInnis was no different. But he and his wife left the United States specifically to give their kids a more robust picture of the world. You can’t do that if you only hang out in the expat bubble. And so 6+ months into life in Kampala, Bryan’s learning about cultural differences that only show up if you dig in. Bryan and I chat about:
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| E133: How do we help immigrants access the hidden job market? Simon Trevarthen has answers | 21 Nov 2025 | 00:52:21 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Simon Trevarthen, who leads the Toronto Region Immigrant Employment Council (TRIEC). A big part of their work is helping helping immigrants see their skills through a different lens while helping employers access talent they desperately need. And so the big question I hoped to answer with this episode is one I have been noodling on for a bit, which is: "How do we help more immigrants see that their skills are exponential, not linear? And that the work you did in your home country can apply across multiple industries here.” Simon and I also chat about:
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| E132: Aman Chawla on how he's made Fredericton home | 21 Nov 2025 | 00:38:52 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Aman Chawla, who moved from India to Fredericton, New Brunswick in 2023. Canada wasn’t Aman’s first choice when he and his wife started considering immigrating. He wanted Ireland. The time-zone difference wasn’t much. Flights back home lasted about 13 hours. But the pandemic meant that didn’t happen. They also considered Australia. That didn’t work out too. So Canada it was. His wife moved over first for an MBA. Aman and their toddler followed along six months after. But this was only possible because a member of parliament stepped in to help with the family reunification. Aman and I chat about:
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| E131: Yauhan Mehta knows immigrants don't need more resume tips | 14 Nov 2025 | 00:34:16 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Yauhan Mehta, a career coach who’s helped 750+ immigrants land jobs they love at global companies. A major part of his success is an interesting approach he takes to career coaching. He won’t start coaching with resume work. Instead, he begins with a soul-searching session to identify what people want. Then, if they have the financial means, they can focus on getting their target role. If they don’t have savings, they get something quickly that’s still somewhat related to their profession or has transferable skills. 1 like that. Because more often than not, immigrants take jobs that are not in sync with who they are or their skillset, and then continue doing that for many years. Yauhan and I also chat about:
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| E130: Selene Ricart doesn't want to be your perfect immigrant | 12 Nov 2025 | 01:00:43 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Selene Ricart, who moved from Argentina to Canada five years ago. There’s this unspoken rule about being the good and perfect immigrant. Don’t say too much. Stay in your box. Be grateful. And if you ever step out of line, if you ever start speaking up about stuff you think could be better, someone will curtly remind you to go back and fix your country. And sadly, it happens to immigrant women more often than not. It happened to Selene on LinkedIn. But after five years in Canada, here’s Selene’s biggest lesson: belonging does take time, but you can’t wait until you belong to use your voice to advocate for good. And I agree. Your voice matters. And if you’re going to make Canada your home, you need to shape what that home becomes. There’s this quote Selene loves that captures this sentiment beautifully: first understanding, then adjustment. As immigrants, we’ve already done the first part. We’ve listened. We’ve observed. We’ve learned how things work here. We’re more empathetic, more adaptable, because we’ve had to be. Now comes the adjustment part. And that requires you speak up and offer perspectives that come from a place of understanding. That’s the advantage you have as someone who’s lived in multiple cultures. Selene and I also chat about:
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| E129: Rim Aoude knows what it's like to be born without status | 07 Nov 2025 | 00:39:33 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking to Rim Aoude, marketer, poet, and all-round amazing human. Rim moved from UAE to Canada as a teenager. And we explore what it means when you’re born without a place to call home. Her granddad left Palestine. Her parents were born in Lebanon as refugees. She was then born in UAE with refugee documents. And her kids, they were born Canadian. The first in three generations to be born with citizenship. “It was a huge deal in our family,” she says. She talks about arriving in Canada at 17. Her dad had gotten sick in UAE, and couldn’t pay her school fees. Which meant she couldn’t certify her high school diploma. She went to Concordia, told them her situation. And they said, “You’re Canadian. You have the right to education.” They enrolled her immediately. That’s when she knew, she could do well here. But being in Canada did something else. It allowed her to become who she actually was. She became more Palestinian in Canada than she ever was in the Gulf, where saying you’re Palestinian wasn’t something you advertised. Rim and I also chat about:
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| E128: Kundan Joshi on how failures reveal your blind spots | 31 Oct 2025 | 00:57:15 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Kundan Joshi, Founder and CEO of TheAppLabb & AI Labb, a leading app innovation firm that boasts of clients like Unilever, Samsung, Dell, Suncor, Petro Canada, RBC, TIFF, among others. However, Kundan fell into entrepreneurship by accident. He needed a summer job after first year as his Dad was struggling to find work. He looked for software engineering jobs but couldn’t find any. But not having a job wasn’t an option as he had to support the family. So Kundan took the best option at the time; sales. And so, door-to-door energy sales. Selling credit cards at the intersection of Yonge and Dundas. Then a mall kiosk selling high-speed internet. He did so well that the owner told him, “You won’t make this much money in a year after you graduate. Why go back to school?” But Kundan went back to school. But he also became a franchisee for Rogers, selling high-speed internet at Weston St, London, Ontario. Kundan and I chat about:
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| E127: Jennifer Aikoroje now understand why her Dad stayed behind | 24 Oct 2025 | 00:40:47 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Jennifer Aikoroje, host of the Inside Your Finance podcast. Jennifer and I explore what happens when you’re too young to grasp the full weight of immigration, when you don’t have the words to explain the churning feelings inside you. But then you grow up. You become an immigrant yourself. And suddenly, your parents’ impossible choices start to make sense. She talks about that moment when her dad left her in Canada and returned to Nigeria for two more years. As a teenager, she felt like he had abandoned her. Now she gets it. Especially after making sure she secured a job before she moved to the United Kingdom. But we don’t only talk about heavy stuff. Jennifer and I also chat about:
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| E126: Imole Ashogbon thinks Canada has treated immigration like a numbers game | 21 Oct 2025 | 00:36:41 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Imole Ashogbon, a fractional HR consultant who helps small and mid-sized businesses, executives, and HR teams when they need senior-level HR leadership, without the cost of a full-time executive. Imole and I explore a nagging question I have about Canada’s much-talked about productivity decline: Are we declining in productivity because we lack talent OR because our broken systems aren’t able to take advantage of all the talent we have seating around in Canada? Imole thinks we’ve created a strange contradiction. We bring in immigrants through Express Entry (a competitive immigration pathway meant to attract young, educated, upwardly mobile individuals.) Then we act like we’re doing them a favor. Like immigration is charity work. It’s not. 45% of recent immigrants have university degrees but work in jobs that don’t require post-secondary education. Which is an absurd waste of talent in my opinion. Imole and I chat about:
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| E125: Jerry Onyegide wants you to stop making these mistakes with your taxes | 17 Oct 2025 | 00:27:14 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Jerry Onyegide, who launched a tax educational platform after answering questions about Canadian taxes on Twitter for years. Jerry never intended to formalize his knowledge. He’d see misinformation about Canadian taxes, correct it with detailed explanations, and move on with his day. People stopped arguing and started asking more questions. Eventually someone told him, “You need to formalize this. We don’t have anyone in the community who explains taxes this way.” And that’s how he launched Tax Whiz. Still, he was surprised by the number of people who reached out for clarity on their taxes. Jerry and I discuss common tax mistakes immigrants make. We also explore:
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| E124: Roy Ratnavel on how to stop being the victim | 10 Oct 2025 | 01:10:28 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Roy Ratnavel, a retired financial services executive and the author of the #1 Canadian national bestselling book Prisoner #1056. Roy’s philosophy for life seems simple but I think it’s a hard one for most of us to adopt: fix yourself before you fix the world. If you’re a good husband, you raise good kids. Good households create good communities. Strong communities build strong societies. Strong societies make stronger countries. And I think Canada needs a lot of this at the moment. Everything is ground up, not top down. The government can’t control what goes on in your head or within the four walls of your home. No regulation can stop that. So it comes down to individuals—not as a selfish notion, but as a recognition that you need to fix your flaws before pointing out others’ shortcomings. Roy spent a decade after arriving in Canada blaming everyone else for his struggles. At 31, he realized he was the problem. He went to war with the man in the mirror, sought therapy for PTSD, and completely changed his approach to life. Roy and I chat about my biggest lessons from reading his book. We also explore:
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| E123: Nisrine Maktabi understands how trauma creates resentment in immigrant homes | 08 Oct 2025 | 00:46:27 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Nisrine Maktabi, a trauma-informed coach and registered psychotherapist with over a decade of experience supporting newcomers, international students, and multicultural professionals in Canada and globally. Nisrine usually works with newcomers and second-generation immigrants, helping them work through something most immigrants don’t recognize as trauma: people-pleasing. Surprised? I was too. She says people-pleasing isn’t about being nice or accommodating. It’s a survival response called “fawning”—your nervous system’s way of keeping you safe by making others happy. For children of immigrants especially, people-pleasing becomes how they survive in families where belonging feels conditional. Conditional on you operating within the rigid rules about behavior, identity, and cultural adherence. Nisrine and I chat about why your nervous system adapts to keep you safe. We also explore:
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| E122: Kristina McPherson on feeling at home in Canada: 'It took 11 years' | 03 Oct 2025 | 00:46:51 | |
In this episode, I’m speaking with Kristina McPherson, who moved from Jamaica to Canada in 2014, and now runs As Told By Canadian Immigrants, where she’s the guide she wishes she had before she moved to Canada. There’s a lot to unpack in this episode, but the part I can’t stop thinking about is when Kristina talks about “post-immigration stress disorder,” a term she coined to describe what many immigrants go through as they try to settle into their new home. I believe it’s also called Ulysses Syndrome. There’s the constant anxiety. There’s the uncertainty that has you feeling unsettled. There’s the mental load of running two parallel tracks—getting through today while worrying if you’ll even be here tomorrow. For Kristina, it was LMIA complications. Provincial nominee programs that wouldn’t work in time. Express Entry launching with 800-point cutoffs. Submitting her PR application two months before her work permit expired, then living on implied status for months. During that time, Christina lived with two pots, two plates, two glasses. Everything she owned fit in a suitcase. Because if immigration forced her to leave, she wanted it to be easy. Kristina and I chat about the emotional toll of living in limbo for years. We also explore:
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| E121: Paul Bakhmut on why he's running for Mayor of Edmonton | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:27:08 | |
In this episode, I'm speaking with Paul Bakhmut, who moved from Ukraine to Edmonton, Canada 15 years ago as an international student and is now running for mayor. Paul is big on first impressions. And he still remembers his first impression of Edmonton: no bus from the airport to the city. You had to drive or find a cab. Even now, the bus only goes to the train station, not downtown. His vision for Edmonton in two years if he wins? A city that looks and feels alive, not one littered with "for lease" signs. A place that feels safe, not just in police statistics but in actual lived experience. But Paul is practical in how he expects to achieve all these goals. He accepts that Edmonton needs to get more competitive with business taxes and become an open, smart, and fun city that attracts businesses and sets a cultural tone that values what newcomers bring. In this conversation, Paul and I chat about how his view of Canada has changed over the past 15 years. We also explore:
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| E120: Keely Cronin says your survival job is valuable Canadian experience | 26 Sep 2025 | 00:51:07 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I’m speaking with Keely Cronin, Co-Founder of WorkSpark, where they support professionals who have migrated to Canada as well as anyone looking to make a mid-career transition. One conversation she has over and over again with the folks she coaches is the gap, or more like valley between your qualifications, experience, skillset, and the infamous first survival job most newcomers have to start with in Canada. Keely’s point of view is even if you’re a deep-sea engineer working at Tim Hortons, you should see that time as valuable Canadian experience. And as roles that immerse you in everyday Canadian culture. Which means you should put them on your resume and frame them as work experience that shows you have soft skills to fit into your potential new job like a glove. In this conversation, Keely and I chat about the soft skills you develop in such jobs. We also explore: * Why she thinks Canada’s immigration narrative doesn’t match reality * Culture and self-promotion * Why moving countries makes you a baby again (but with baggage) * Why it’s a good idea to experience Canada before job hunting ( but them bills don’t wait though) Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * During the immigration process, the focus is usually on what the immigrant brings to Canada. However, once we land, the narrative seems to shift to all Canada is giving you. This weird shift seems to be creating an environment where the public doesn’t recognize the talent or contributions of immigrants to the economy and the country. * Structural barriers need policy solutions, not resilient individuals. We should celebrate resilience. But…individual resilience and networking can only go so far. Issues like inconsistent credential recognition across provinces and unclear processes need government fixes. * Moving to a new country literally resets you to ground zero. You are like a baby experiencing the world again. Except this time around you carry the burden of your previous life’s experiences and expectations. Accept this reality. That’s the first step towards turning this mental burden into a strength. Official Links ✅ Connect with Keely Cronin on LinkedIn ✅ Schedule a free career assessment One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Or join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E119. Mher Mardoyan knows how you can get your dream job | 19 Sep 2025 | 00:27:52 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Mher Mardoyan, a career coach who's been helping newcomers to Canada find jobs with a 90%+ success rate. With the rise and rise of AI in job applications, it's beginning to seem like traditional online job applications are a losing game for newcomers to Canada. Because for every job posting, there are thousands of applicants and only a tiny weeny number get called in for interviews. Mher thinks its about 2%. The way out, Mher believes, is the hidden job market. This is where majority of the hiring happens. And the only way to access these opportunities is through networking and referrals. Because people help people they know and trust, not strangers asking for favors. In this conversation, Mher and I chat about his seven-step coaching process. We also explore: * Why applying for jobs should be your last resort, not your first * The importance of celebrating small wins during your job search * His one tip for standing out in today's competitive job market * Why investing in your career pays off faster than waiting for free help Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * Networking is like banking; you first deposit then you withdraw. That someone accepted your connection request on LinkedIn doesn’t mean you should ask them if they can help you find a job immediately. I personally think it’s cringe. Spend some time investing in the relationship. And in due time, you’ll build up enough social credit that allows you ask for help with your job hunt or a referral. * Tell your story. Mher thinks if your story demonstrates how you save employers time, money or increase profit, you’ll be in demand. Methinks same too. * Job hunting in today’s market is emotionally exhausting. Take breaks. Celebrate small wins. Ask for help. Official Links ✅ Connect with Mher Mardoyan on LinkedIn ✅ Book a career consultation One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Or join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E118: Ben Joffe wants you to move beyond your default cultural lens | 13 Sep 2025 | 00:48:55 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I am speaking with Ben Joffe, a French native who's lived and worked across Japan, Korea, China, Singapore, Malaysia, Hong Kong, United States, Germany, and currently Portugal. Ben also speaks fluent French, English, Japanese, pretty bad Korean and Chinese, and average Portuguese (thanks to high school Spanish classes). Talk about being a global citizen. This lived experience means Ben has developed a great understanding of how much our default cultural programming defines how we see and interact with the world. Having your default cultural programming turned on is not necessarily a bad thing. However, it’s important we recognize that we all have these underlying prompts which influence our language structure, our views on material success, personal relationships, and more. Especially when we move to a new country. In this conversation, Ben and I explore why some cultures lead with “what do you do?” while others consider that question rude. We also chat about: * Local comedy and why it’s a great way to understand cultural nuances and codes * Why he’s more focused on teaching his kid curiosity than nationality * The phone call that changed his understanding of Korean culture * Why he doesn't identify as an immigrant or expat despite living in 7+ countries Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * The same word can mean different things depending on where you are from. A major barrier to cross-cultural understanding isn’t a lack of shared language but the hidden cultural codes behind words. A term like “friendship” or “car” has a completely different meaning in Korea, the U.S, or France. Learn to ask “What do you mean?” whenever possible. * Cultural fluency which then leads to proper integration is an everyday activity. To truly understand a new country or society requires deliberate effort. Learn the language, watch local stand-up comedy, volunteer, engage in local activities. Being a passive observer rarely helps. * Your multicultural identity is additive. A multicultural identity is not about losing a piece of one culture to gain another. Instead, it’s you adding new layers to your identity that end up creating a human that’s more than the sum of their parts. Official Links ✅ Connect with Ben Joffe on LinkedIn ✅ Check out Ben’s vibe coding course ✅ Consider reading The Culture Code by Clotaire Rapaille One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E117: Gabriela Casineanu says 'You're not your job title' | 05 Sep 2025 | 00:45:29 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Gabriela Casineanu, author of Job Fairs: How to Get the Most of Your Participation, and founder of Introverts Academy. A big part of why I wanted to chat with Gabriela is because I believe that when you move, you temporarily become an introvert. She did disagree with my theory. She thinks immigrants or newcomers become quiet or withdrawn because when you face a lot of rejection while job hunting, you become shy or afraid to speak up. There's more. And she breaks it down in great detail. But you have to listen to the episode. In this conversation, Gabriela and I chat about detaching your identity from your profession. We also explore: * Why immigration is an opportunity to ask yourself what you really want to do * Her one-word advice for immigrants struggling to integrate * How to focus on what you can control in the job search process * The importance of bringing your “human side” to the job search, not just your diploma or degree Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * A lot of us move physically but don’t move mentally. In that case, you really haven’t immigrated. Integration starts when you become curious and adopt a beginners mind. That’s how you start learning the rules of your new home. * Proactive connection beats passive application. Sending resumes are great but they can only get you so far. Reach out, book informational interviews, volunteer at conferences. These tactics help you build visibility, trust, and launches you into the hidden job market where there's less competition. * "Reframing" is the ultimate immigrant hack. Learn to reframe your challenges. By changing a negative statement (I hate networking) into a curious question (Who can I ask for information?), you alter your energy state, your actions, and the outcomes. Official Links ✅ Connect with Gabriela Casineanu on LinkedIn ✅ Learn more about Introverts Academy ✅ Get the Job Fairs: How to Get the Most of Your Participation book for FREE to learn more about reframing One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E116: Sweta Regmi says 'It's dangerous to figure it out alone' | 29 Aug 2025 | 00:36:16 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking to Sweta Regmi, who's lived in Canada for over two decades. Two decades is a while, and Sweta says if she were to compress all she's learned over those years into one piece of advice for new immigrants, it would be "ASK FOR HELP." I agree. I learned this the hard way. And maybe someday I'll tell that story. But yes, ask for help. Don't try to figure it out all on your own. But there are caveats here. As Sweta puts it, "Watch out for folks who who project their own limitations onto you, like someone who tells you that making six figures is impossible." I think the key message Sweta is passing on here is find people who have lived the life you want to live. This isn't about finding someone with a PhD or a fancy title, but someone with relatable, lived experience who can offer genuine guidance. In this conversation, Sweta and I chat about the importance of finding mentors who are honest about their struggles. We also explore: * Why she sees her 25-year journey in Canada as beautiful * The origin story behind her business, TeachnDo * Why she resisted celebrating Canadian holidays at first, and what changed her mind * Why you shouldn’t compromise your identity just because you want to fit in Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * Not judging anyone, but those little compromises you make to fit in can often backfire. Integrate all right, but don’t erode your sense of self in the process. You have a heritage that’s beautiful in its own right. * Continuing from above, moving means you can curate the culture you want to uphold or live by. You can choose to discard the negative aspects of your heritage or home culture (like gender biases in Sweta’s case) and replace them with the positive elements from your new culture. The result is a new personalized way of life. Sounds utopian, but it’s doable. * The source of your advice can make or break you. I would go further to say the folks you speak to within the first two weeks in the country can limit or propel you forward. Official Links ✅ Connect with Sweta Regmi on LinkedIn ✅ Check out the free career resources on the TeachnDo website One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E115: Shriya Ghate knows what's great about immigration | 22 Aug 2025 | 00:39:43 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Shriya Ghate, who moved from India to the UK, back to India, and finally to Canada. Shriya and I explore a theme that's often ignored; the starting line is different for immigrants. And for immigrant women, it's often miles behind everyone else. She talks about being seated at a networking event for women, and as she listens to the challenges faced by women who grew up in Canada, she realizes that before she can even think about networking or getting better at small talk, she has to first figure out the basics: * Where to buy food * How to pay for the bus * How to feel safe in a new place But it's not all gloomy. Shriya believes starting over is also a chance to build a new life with some intention. An opportunity to decide who you want to be as a professional and as a person, away from the cultural expectations of your home country. Shriya and I explore the lessons she’s gathered from immigrating twice. We also chat about: * The difference between moving as a student vs. a permanent resident. * The psychological burden of the immigrant job search. * Why Canada felt more like home than the UK. * How to find your place in the world after leaving home * Why small talk can be a hurdle for many immigrants Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * Progress compounds but it comes from showing up, fully prepared or not. The feeling of not being ready, of not knowing what to say, or do, or wear can be paralyzing. But they say courage is action in the face of fear. And it’s one thing you have to embody as an immigrant. Show up and learn by doing. * Cultural norms around social interactions are real. So give yourself some grace. Is small talk hard? That’s okay. Don’t beat yourself up about it. But keep an open mind to learning the new social norms or create ways to navigate them. Official Links ✅ Connect with Shriya Ghate on LinkedIn One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E114: Stefana Sopco knows how exhausting it can be to fit in | 15 Aug 2025 | 00:42:44 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Stefana Sopco, who moved from Romania to the Netherlands seven years ago. Stefana had never thought of leaving Romania. But after her husband moved to the Netherlands for better job opportunities, she reluctantly followed; with €80 in her pocket and a lot of anxiety. Now, this isn't a zero to hero story. What I loved about Stefana is how she absolutely refuses to romanticize the immigrant experience. She reminds me of Anam Zakaria of Qissa. She talks about the depression, the anxiety, and the identity crisis that comes with trying to find belonging and acceptance in a foreign culture. Like Stefana, maybe we all need to stop trying to fit into boxes that weren't made for us. Because life is usually much better once we accept ourselves—strange accent and all. In this conversation, Stefana and I chat about the impact immigration can have on one’s mental health. We also explore: * Why immigrants find it easier to make friends with other immigrants * Accepting herself and its benefits * The permanence of being an in-betweener * The guilt and heartbreak that comes with watching your parents age from afar Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * Every immigrant’s biggest fear is getting the dreaded call that something has happened to their parents. And then depending on when you last travelled back home to see them, you’ll lash yourself with guilt for months or years. * It can be exhausting trying to perform as someone else because you are desperate to fit in. I don’t think there’s anything like being perfectly integrated, except you are a 4yo kid. * You are never going to fully belong to your new country or the old one. I am not sure, but maybe accepting that is the best thing we can do for ourselves. That liminal space is not a problem to solve. It’s an identity that we’ll carry forever. Official Links ✅ Connect with Stefana Sopco on LinkedIn One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E113: Neel Parekh knows what's great about moving to Rwanda | 14 Aug 2025 | 00:30:42 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Neel Parekh, the Founder and CEO of MaidThis® & MaidThis® Franchise, which helps homeowners and short-term rental hosts (Airbnb, VRBO, etc.) with their cleaner needs. I'm usually curious about two kinds of immigrants; second-gen immigrants because I am trying to understand some of the challenges my kids might face, and immigrants who migrate from the Global West to the Global South. Neel ticks both boxes. His parents moved from India to the United States in the early 80s. And then after seven years of backpacking and running his cleaning business remotely, Neel decided to settle down in Rwanda for a bit. Neel and I chat about the differences between the Western “go go go” culture and Rwanda’s pace where nothing feels as urgent. We also explore: * Falling in love with Rwanda * Building community as an immigrant * Growing up in an immigrant household and now understanding his parents better * Why he’s thinking of splitting his time between East Africa and Los Angeles Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * I wish I spent more time trying to learn or at least have an idea of Canada’s communication style before I moved. Neel talks about moving from America’s low-context culture (direct, literal communication) to Rwanda's high-context culture (implied meanings, indirect answers) and the friction it came with. I suspect that a lot of the frustrations we encounter early-on in a new country are usually miscommunication issues. * Maybe it’s time to accept that most people are never going to understand the immigrant experience until they’ve lived through it. I’m saying this because part of why I launched this publication was to also help non-immigrants sorta understand their immigrant neighbours better. But I guess experience is the best teacher in most situations, immigration included. Official Links ✅ Connect with Neel Parekh on Twitter ✅ Chat with Neel about franchising One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E112: Miracle Inameti-Archibong understands what it means to be an immigrant | 13 Aug 2025 | 00:43:44 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Miracle Inameti-Archibong, who moved from Nigeria to the United Kingdom 18 years ago. We don't often talk about the costs of immigration. And by costs here, I don't mean the financial costs (I think we all have a fair idea of that most times and we somehow hope the move means that won't matter in the long run). I'm talking about realizing that your kids will never had what you had growing up; the beautiful chaos of Christmas mornings with cousins everywhere, the ability to drop by without notice at your sister's home; the ability to just exist within family without having to organize, plan, or explain yourself. This conversation with Miracle left me with more questions than answers. In this conversation, Miracle and I chat about the cultural code-switching that never stops. We also explore: * How she found her voice in the corporate world * Parenting in-between cultures * The subtle ways cultural misunderstandings knock your confidence * The difference between existing and thriving Dozie’s Notes A few things that stuck with me as I listened through this week’s conversation: * Overt racism is bad, but it’s not the thing that usually wears immigrants down. It’s the small misunderstandings, the cultural references you miss, the microaggressions, the fact that you have to explain your background over and over again, and the subtle signals that you don't quite belong here. * The biggest cost of immigration, especially for those of us who grew up in collective cultures, is how moving across countries breaks down family connections across generations. * The biggest paradox of being an immigrant is you can succeed by conventional metrics (career, financial stability, opportunities for your kids) while simultaneously losing something irreplaceable (extended family connections, cultural belonging, community rituals). Official Links ✅ Connect with Miracle Inameti-Archibong on LinkedIn ✅ Book Miracle to come speak about all things SEO and digital marketing One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E111: Anam Zakaria & Haroon Khalid are done with glorifying the immigrant struggle | 01 Aug 2025 | 00:53:24 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Anam Zakaria and Haroon Khalid of Qissa, one of the most interesting immigrant storytelling platforms I have come across in recent months. Qissa's flagship project, "Driving Canada," started as casual conversations with Uber drivers as Anam and Haroon navigated doctors appointments, daycare, and all the stuff new parents have to deal with. Almost all the drivers were immigrants. Almost all were overqualified. Almost all had stories about the systemic barriers that shoved them into the gig economy. The shitty thing about all this is you sometimes see people term this struggle as a "rite of passage." We call it resilience. And instead of pushing for policy changes that fix the system, we celebrate the immigrants ability to survive it. With no care for its toll on the individuals, their loved ones, their community, and Canada. In this conversation, Anam, Haroon, and I explore the cost of resilience. We also chat about: * Why most immigrant settlement programs serve yesterday’s immigrants, not today’s * Why we need to fix the system instead of glorifying the struggle * Launching Qissa * The power of stories Official Links ✅ Connect with Anam Zakaria on LinkedIn ✅ Connect with Haroon Khalid on LinkedIn ✅ Read the Driving Canada Report One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bittersweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E110: Windmill Microlending helped 14K+ immigrants get back to work. They want to do more | 25 Jul 2025 | 00:42:01 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Robert Ndoping and Oumar Dicko of Windmill Microlending, Canada. When Robert and Oumar tell you that Windmill has funded over 14,000 skilled immigrants to get re-credentialed in their professions, with an average loan size of $10,183, totaling nearly $146 million in approved loans, and a repayment rate of 95%… You'll probably go, ‘Wow, that's impressive.’ When you hear the story of the ENT surgeon driving Uber in Toronto while kids wait months for surgery, you realize that it isn't just impressive, it's necessary. There are a lot of things Canada does right about immigrant settlement. But there are also a lot of areas in which we could do better. The skilled immigrant credential recognition is one of those areas. And Windmill Microlending is proof that Canada wins when we make sure skilled immigrants can contribute to the economy as fast as possible. Because for every 10,000 clients Windmill empowers, an additional $3.6 billion in lifetime tax revenue is generated for Canada. In this conversation, Oumar, Robert, and I chat about Windmill Microlending’s loan model. We also explore: * Walking the talk when it comes to skilled immigrant settlement * Why the work is personal for both of them * The human impact of their work * Why we need to move the immigrant conversation from “immigrant struggling” to “untapped potential” * Why immigrants don’t need saving Official Links ✅ Connect with Robert Ndoping on LinkedIn ✅ Connect with Oumar Dicko on LinkedIn ✅ Read Windmill’s Impact Report ⤵ One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E109: O'Nell Agossa doesn't mind if you don't understand him | 18 Jul 2025 | 00:43:21 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with O'Nell Agossa, who moved to Canada from Benin as a nine year old. At 13, a lady on a bus told O'Nell to “go back to where you're coming from.” But he's refused to give that experience the power to define who he was or who he has grown up to be. Instead, he thinks that the confusion others feel is not your problem to solve. You don't owe anyone an explanation of who you are. You don't need to fit into their narrow categorizations that make them feel comfortable. You just need to be. In this conversation, O’Nell and I explore curiosity as a way of life and why he’s writing a book about the trait. We also chat about: * Why the immigrant experience is about hope and renewal * Immigrants as bridges between worlds * The weight immigrant parents carry * Why you don't need to ask permission to belong Official Links ✅ Connect with O’Nell Agossa on LinkedIn ✅ Follow along as he prepares to publish his book, Curiosity and I One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E108: Kelly Boyi is embracing ambition and rejecting complacency | 11 Jul 2025 | 00:42:02 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Kelly Boyi, who left Canada for the United States after 12 years of building a life here. First off, this isn't a "Canada bad, America good" story. Kelly spent over a decade in Canada. His entire family lives here. He credits Canada for giving him his first job, first relationship, and first house. But when you're an ambitious individual watching the best minds from UofT and Waterloo migrate south, when you hear that you could get better pay while working with folks building potential rocket ships, you would be forgiven for getting a tad introspective. I also like that Kelly didn't mince words about our flaws as a country. Look, Canada is a fantastic country. But we aren't moving forward if we don't get good at having uncomfortable conversations about the kind of country we want to build for those coming after us. In this conversation, Kelly and I explore why loving Canada isn’t enough to stay anymore. We also chat about: * The grant system’s interesting “apply early” secret * Why Canadian monopolies and bureaucracy are stifling innovation and ambition * The famous Silicon Valley “energy” * Why you can’t afford to be complacent as an immigrant Official Links ✅ Connect with Kelly Boyi on LinkedIn ✅ Speak to Kelly for career coaching and other related services One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E107: Ritika Saraswat thinks intl students need to stop obsessing over the Canadian PR | 02 Jul 2025 | 00:46:06 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I am speaking with Ritika Saraswat, Founder & CEO of Re-Defined, a members-only community for international students by international students. The past 18 months haven't been exactly fair to international students in Canada. They've been blamed, labelled, and threatened. They've had to deal with policy changes, uncertainty, and expiring permits. And while all that sounds depressing, Ritika has a refreshing take on all the chaos: Come to Canada. Learn. Make new friends. Build connections. And if you get the chance to stay and contribute, great. If not, take what you've learned back home. I know this is easier said than done. You probably have nothing to go back to back home. You probably can't even afford to relocate back home. But where there's a will, there sometimes is a way. In this conversation, Ritika and I chat about why international students need to focus on what they control. We also explore: * How to get feedback from your Canadian colleagues or counterparts * Why playing the long game matters more when planning to immigrate * Why you can’t afford feeling like a victim as an immigrant * What she’s learned after seven years in Canada * Why she thinks immigrants have a responsibility to come prepared, do their research, and contribute to their new society Official Links ✅ Connect with Ritika Saraswat on LinkedIn ✅ Join the Re-Defined community One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E106: Aishwarya Khanduja says 'Canada doesn't have the resources for me to thrive' | 27 Jun 2025 | 00:49:55 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking to Aishwarya Khanduja, who moved from India to Canada at age 12, learned English watching Hannah Montana during her first Canadian summer, and has permanently left Canada to build her venture fund in New York. This conversation left me with a bittersweet feel. Canada keeps losing its best and brightest to the south of the border. It sucks because we aren't just losing talent. We are losing the future. And it's a worrying trend that seems to be accelerating by the day. We talk a big game about immigration being a talent pipeline. But it means nothing if the immigrants end up leaving for other countries because their chances of succeeding are higher outside Canada. As Aishwarya puts it, "Canada doesn't have the resources for me to thrive." This is what the Canadian brain drain looks like up close. In this conversation, Aishwarya and I chat about what Canada loses when builders leave. We also explore: * How immigration helps build anti-fragile societies * What you need to qualify for the O-1 visa * Why she’s all for building a life she doesn’t have to escape from * Watching her parents sacrifice everything and start from zero Official Links ✅ Connect with Aishwarya Khanduja on LinkedIn ✅ Follow Aishwarya Khanduja on Twitter ✅ Explore her personal blog ✅ Check out what she’s building with Analogue One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E105: Oluwaseun Ayebiwo built a community before landing in Halifax | 24 Jun 2025 | 00:27:53 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Oluwaseun Ayebiwo, who moved from Lagos, Nigeria to Halifax, Canada with a ready-made community. Most immigrants wait till they get to Canada before they start building a community. Taking this approach means they start with zero social capital, they have no one to turn to when trying to understand the unspoken cultural rules, and they find integrating slow and frustrating. Well, Oluwaseun rolls different. The dude connected with 40+ people who were all moving to Nova Scotia from Lagos at the same time. They planned their trips together, some even flew on the same aircraft, and they've been supporting each other ever since. What started as finding "one person and the other" quickly became a coordinated movement of 40+ people from Lagos, all planning their new lives together. That community has grown to over 700 people over the years. In this conversation, Oluwaseun and I explore his community-first approach to immigration. We also chat about: * How their success attracted and transformed Halifax's existing Nigerian community * Finding people in your new country who share your values and goals * What it means to serve on IRCC's Advisory Council for newcomers * Why Halifax is a geographical hidden gem for Nigerians Official Links ✅ Connect with Oluwaseun Ayebiwo on LinkedIn One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E104: Saïd M'Dahoma refuses to pick one identity | 20 Jun 2025 | 00:31:14 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Saïd M'Dahoma, neuroscientist turned pastry chef. For reasons I can understand, people love to flatten the immigrant experience into simple or monolithic narratives. Be one thing so we can understand you. Saïd's story pushes back against this oversimplification. Growing up in Paris as the son of Comorian parents, he had to be French, full stop. His parents' heritage was something to minimize, not celebrate. Integration meant a silent erasure. Then he immigrated to Canada. “I think I am French. I am Comorian. I am Canadian,” Saïd says. “Sometimes people ask you to choose, like, what are you? Which one are you out of the three? I think I'm all of them at the same time.” Saïd’s story isn't just about Canadian multiculturalism being nice in practice. It's a story of what happens when we allow individuals to accept the various parts of themselves, to be complex, and luxuriate in all the nuances that come with being human. In this conversation, Saïd and I chat about how long it takes to feel like you’ve truly settled into your new country. We also explore: * His journey from a PhD holder in neuroscience to pastry chef * Why food is one of best ways to pass on cultural heritage * The immigrant as a monolith * Why the immigrant experience resists categorization Official Links ✅ Connect with Saïd M’Dahoma on LinkedIn ✅ Learn how to make pastry the French way One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E103: Victoria Patenaude knows why you struggle with accent anxiety | 13 Jun 2025 | 01:04:13 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Victoria Patenaude, a communications coach who helps immigrants find their voice. Literally. For most immigrants, especially the non-native English speakers, they think the reason they struggle to express themselves clearly is due to a limited vocabulary, poor grammar, or a bad accent. Well, Victoria thinks otherwise. And she's not just talking as a coach, she has the lived experience. Victoria grew up constantly code-switching between Polish, Greek, and English cultural contexts. By her twenties, she was what she calls “a very careful person.” That hypervigilance followed her through university and through moves between Quebec and the United States. Even as a successful professional with advanced degrees, she still carried the emotional burden of never feeling quite confident in her communication. Her breakthrough came when she realized confidence isn't something you earn through perfect pronunciation. It's a choice you can make right now, regardless of your skill level. Now she helps other immigrants break free from the same patterns. In this conversation, Victoria and I chat about a teenage years embarrassment that led years of anxiety whenever she tried to speak French. We also explore: * How we pass on our immigration-induced anxiety to our kids * The science behind her method of coaching * Practical tips you can try out for building language confidence * And why we need to stop assuming negative intent when we have cultural misunderstandings Official Links ✅ Connect with Victoria Patenaude on LinkedIn ✅ Work with Victoria on your communication skills ✅ Check out her TEDx talk on Why We’re Connected To The Internet, But Not Each Other One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E102: Alyanna Chua thinks Canada hasn't been fair to temporary residents & intl students | 13 Jun 2025 | 00:55:11 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with the amazing journo, Alyanna Denise Chua, who moved from Philippines to Canada in 2019 to study at University of Toronto. One of my biggest gripes with the dominant immigrant conversation is we often seem to disregard the human in the loop. Policies change overnight (for good reasons they say), and suddenly folks who have followed all the rules find themselves stranded. That is Alyanna's story. She moved to Canada, paid 10X the fees of domestic students to study, excelled academically, gained Canadian work experience, and integrated into the country. She did everything the immigration system told her to do. But by the time she graduated, Canada had moved the goalposts. The same pathway that led to permanent residency now led to... uncertainty. In this conversation, Alyanna and I explore what it felt like to watch the rules change. We also explore: * Missing home while building a new life * Immigrating as a student vs. a PR * Why Canada's rhetoric shifted from “we want you to stay” to “study doesn't guarantee residency” * The unfairness of retroactive rule changes * How Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie inspired her journalism career Official Links ✅ Connect with Alyanna Denise Chua on LinkedIn ✅ Read her piece on The Walrus; Pay Tuition, Follow the Rules, Then Pack Your Bags One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||
| E101: Gabriela Gutierrez believes immigration can be a gift to the world | 06 Jun 2025 | 00:43:07 | |
Please forward this to ONE friend today and tell them to subscribe here. In this episode, I'm speaking with Gabriela Gutierrez, who's lived in seven cities across four countries. Gabriela believes that the gift of immigration is the opportunity to become a better version of yourself for the world. A kinder human. A more resilient human. An individual who's a bridge between cultures. I personally think being an immigrant is a superpower. But Back to Gabriela. This philosophy has guided her as she's journeyed from Honduras to Spain to Canada and now the United States. And it’s why she insists that before you move to a new country, you should “Connect with your purpose. If you're thinking about immigrating, why? What motivates you to be there? How do you see yourself in five years in that new country, in that new city?” In this conversation, Gabriela and I chat about watching her MBA classmates do great things while she was making minimum wage in Canada. We also explore: * Why she’s kept her minimum wage stub 10 years later * How to deal with immigrant imposter syndrome * Why she thinks immigration is a net-positive to the world * Why focusing on what you control is the best thing you can do for yourself while settling into your new country Official Links ✅ Connect with Gabriela Gutierrez on LinkedIn ✅ Sign up for Gabriela’s Personal Growth newsletter One Ask If you found this story helpful, please forward or share it to one immigrant out there. Join us as we explore the bitter-sweet world of the immigrant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thenewcomerspod.com | |||