In this powerful episode, Michael sits down with Alan Fadling, author of An Unhurried Life: Following Jesus’ Rhythms of Work and Rest. Alan reveals how a hurried life not only drains our energy but fuels the compulsions and false comforts that drive addiction. Together, Michael and Alan unpack how hurry acts as self-avoidance—and how slowing down to the pace of Jesus leads to healing, clarity, and deeper intimacy with God. If you're burned out, stuck in unwanted behaviors, or overwhelmed by life’s demands, this conversation points to a better way: a life rooted in grace, rest, and authentic spiritual formation.

 

To explore Alan's work further, visit his website: https://www.unhurriedliving.com/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

 

The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues behind porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal—and the path to lasting freedom.

 

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Life as we know it is shattered when sexual betrayal is exposed in our primary relationship. The pain is profound—for both the betrayed and the one struggling with unwanted sexual behavior. Nothing remains the same, and the aftermath brings intense emotional and spiritual turmoil that calls for compassionate, trauma-informed care.   Kristin continues the conversation with Molly LaCroix on how our “internal family” may respond to the chaos and grief following betrayal. If you're unfamiliar with the concept of the Internal Family System (IFS), be sure to listen to the previous episode with Molly LaCroix, LMFT, where she gently introduces this powerful framework and how it helps us understand and befriend the parts of ourselves that are hurting.

 

To explore Molly’s work further—including her books and free resources—visit her website:  https://mollylacroix.com/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

 

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Have you ever wondered what it takes to truly be free from problematic sexual behavior? Have you been trying to stop for years, only to go back to it again and again, feeling more shame and discouragement and wondering why you can’t stop? In this podcast, Michael shares the “5 Keys to Freedom” answering these questions and providing you with a proven method to achieve lasting freedom.

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What is the biggest thing that helped in the journey to recovering sexual purity, and what were some of the challenges along the way? What's the best way for a pastor to handle a staff member confessing unwanted sexual behavior? Hear the answers to these questions and many more where Michael interviews Living Truth staff member Brian Mulder. Brian was a worship pastor who struggled with unwanted sexual behavior most of his life. He shares his story with much courage and vulnerability in this incredible two part podcast series! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

What is the biggest thing that helped in the journey to recovering sexual purity, and what were some of the challenges along the way? What's the best way for a pastor to handle a staff member confessing unwanted sexual behavior? Hear the answers to these questions and many more where Michael interviews Living Truth staff member Brian Mulder. Brian was a worship pastor who struggled with unwanted sexual behavior most of his life. He shares his story with much courage and vulnerability in this incredible two part podcast series! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

Kirsten was super close to her dad growing up. When she was in college his sex addiction was exposed and her whole world blew up. Kirsten got the help she needed after the trauma of her dad’s betrayal had a head on collision with the stress and pain of years of over-functioning and neglecting her true needs. Often in addictive family systems there are children who take on parental and adult roles and this was certainly the case for  Kirsten’s.  Listen to the first part of her story full of vulnerability and courage!

Kirsten was super close to her dad growing up. When she was in college his sex addiction was exposed and her whole world blew up. Kirsten got the help she needed after the trauma of her dad’s betrayal had a head on collision with the stress and pain of years of over-functioning and neglecting her true needs. Often in addictive family systems there are children who take on parental and adult roles and this was certainly the case for  Kirsten’s.  Listen to the first part of her story full of vulnerability and courage! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

It all started with a dimestore romance novel given to her at the tender age of 13. Intrigued and curious, yet filled with shame at her desire to read more “Anna” unpacks her struggle with erotica (porn in written form). When her youth group’s sex talk for the girls portrayed sexual struggle as just a guys’ issues Anna’s belief that she was dirty, shameful, and better keep her mouth shut about this battle was cemented. But there’s hope….Anna sheds light on some of the deep spiritual work she has done to break the chains! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

Michael interviews New York Times best-selling author, John Eldredge, in this "1 year anniversary" podcast episode! John shares vital information on why this is such a brutal time to be a human being, as well as life giving tools on how to maintain mental health and connect with God in this technology crazed culture we live in. We thought it so pertinent to share this episode with you again, remixed, as this info is needed now more than ever (although we didn't know we were heading into a pandemic when this was recorded). Thank you, our listeners, for making the dream of a successful podcast. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

How does a parent’s unwanted sexual behavior impact their kids? Often the traumatic impact of betrayal on the kids is underrated and very few resources exist to support them. Taylor was only 16 when she first discovered her dad’s use of online dating sites. It horrified her and she began acting out sexually. Nearly 10 years later she was thrust into a major crisis due to dad’s acting out and mom’s betrayal trauma. A few months later Taylor walked into the very first Daughters in the Battle meeting- the safest place for teen and young adult daughters to get the support they desperately need after the impact of sexual betrayal on their family. You’ll learn so much from hearing Taylor honestly share her experience and the relief she found from not having to cope all alone. For more information about Daughters in the Battle which meets over zoom the first Tuesday of every month, subscribe to our email list at living-truth.org

How does a parent’s unwanted sexual behavior impact their kids? Often the traumatic impact of betrayal on the kids is underrated and very few resources exist to support them. Taylor was only 16 when she first discovered her dad’s use of online dating sites. It horrified her and she began acting out sexually. Nearly 10 years later she was thrust into a major crisis due to dad’s acting out and mom’s betrayal trauma. A few months later Taylor walked into the very first Daughters in the Battle meeting- the safest place for teen and young adult daughters to get the support they desperately need after the impact of sexual betrayal on their family. You’ll learn so much from hearing Taylor honestly share her experience and the relief she found from not having to cope all alone.   For more information about Daughters in the Battle which meets over zoom the first Tuesday of every month, subscribe to our email list at living-truth.org

 

Dr Lehman begins with a deeply moving story of one man with a sexual addiction who did NOT want Jesus to be with him as he entered a strip Club. Jesus’ response is just stunning.  Learn more about Dr. Lehman’s pain processing pathway including why trauma isn’t just rooted in false beliefs about what has happened to us, but our feelings of isolation and inadequacy to process what has occurred. Visit Immanuelapproach.com for more information! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

 

The Immanuel approach is a lifestyle of interactive connection with Jesus developed by board certified Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Lehman. This can be used as a safe and effective inner healing prayer experience facilitated by any lay person with training in basic Immanuel Approach principles. The practice of Jesus’ presence through the Immanuel Approach can help us self regulate when we’re upset and turn the relational circuits of the brain on to build emotional capacity. Kristin has had profound experiences with this inner healing tool personally and has been using it with betrayed partners with incredible results. If you want a deeper connection with God and increased capacity you’ll want to hear Kristin and Dr. Lehman’s dialogue in this episode! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

The long term complex stress associated with recovering from sexual betrayal or unwanted sexual behavior makes it very difficult to stay present. When the war is on between our God given threat and attachment instincts, our body, mind and spirit are often in chaotic upheaval. The part of our brain responsible for impulse control and logic goes offline. We lose our truest selves and it can sometimes feel like we are losing our sanity as a tornado of intrusive thoughts invade our minds. This is TRAUMA. Join Kristin as she shares strategies to help you return to your body in the present moment. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Has anyone ever said to you, "You should be ashamed of yourself!"  If so, did it help you identify and change an unwanted behavior?  Or did it just make you feel guilty and defeated?  Jay Stringer, author of the incredible book, Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, shares with us a new approach to the conversation around sexual brokenness.  Traditionally most approaches to unwanted sexual behavior are about suppressing desire or removing the shame associated with your choices.  But neither of these truly lead to freedom.  Jay offers a third approach, based on years of research, which shows that unwanted sexual behaviors are not random. These behaviors were both shaped and predicted by the parts of our story that remain unaddressed. The implication is that if you want to find freedom, you need to identify the unique reasons that bring you to it in the first place. Instead of trying to escape shame, let's look right at it and let it teach us. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

Exciting upgrades to our recovery programs for men and women are upon us!  Listen in as Michael & Kristin unveil how their years of experience in the trenches has led to the development of The Living Truth Together Community!  Men in the Battle® & Women in the Battle® are expanding in depth and impact with our creation of 6 months of custom curriculum, more options for recovery small groups, and more congruent messaging for couples working these programs at the same time!  Take your recovery to the next level with us! Sign ups begin January 2nd for existing members  and January 5th for new members. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

Jen & Brenda are both beautiful, smart, successful professionals whose worlds turned upside down when they discovered sexual betrayal in their marriages. Not one area of their lives was untouched by this crisis.  They both helped Kristin start Women in the Battle in 2016 and continue serving because of how strongly they believe in The Power of the Group to transform women’s lives after sexual betrayal.  Most women who come to Women in the Battle (including Jen and Brenda) are initially VERY resistant to the idea of going to a group.   But well run betrayal trauma groups are such a powerful force of healing for women -leading them from utter devastation to post traumatic transformation. Listen in as Jen & Brenda discuss with Kristin why they keep showing up and serving to give back to newer women long after their own personal crisis has passed!

Sexual betrayal causes ongoing complex trauma. How can we effectively walk alongside betrayed partners? Donna Dixon has developed trauma informed training and certification for peer led partner betrayal groups (she trains all of our Women in the Battle leaders!) In this episode, Donna and Kristin reflect on the incredible healing power of simply bearing witness to another’s pain... to just be with them in it. Donna's tender heart and wise insight sheds light on the effects of betrayal trauma on partners. She challenges us to grow in our view of suffering as a normal part of the human experience in a broken and fallen world and compassionately normalizes the crisis of faith that so many traumatized people experience. This episode can offer profound hope for the broken…that their faith in the goodness and power of God can actually be deconstructed and reconstructed. The result of this rebuilding can be an utter masterpiece! So many partners emerge from their betrayal trauma recovery work with  hearts of greater compassion, removal of judgement, and tender authenticity that reflect Jesus like never before!

What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of our listeners will benefit from listening to this 3 part series! 

What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of our listeners will benefit from listening to this 3 part series! 

What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of our listeners will benefit from listening to this 3 part series! 

Kristin interviews counselor, coach, & author Leslie Vernick. In this episode Leslie unpacks the difference between a disappointing marriage, a difficult marriage & a destructive marriage. She explains why Christian women tend to be more vulnerable to emotionally destructive relationships and what they can do to overcome these unhealthy patterns. With biblical truth & grace, Leslie offers insight into the difference between true biblical headship and spiritual oppression and  she dismantles the oft cited scriptures that get misused to keep women trapped in destructive patterns in their marriage. You can learn more about Leslie and her resources at https://leslievernick.com.

Sexuality is woven into the fabric of our humanity and one of the enemy’s prime targets.    How do we overcome our past sexual trauma?  Learn incredible truths about sexual fantasies and listen to practical tips on developing healthy sexuality too!  In this episode, Kristin discusses these topics and more with Shannon Ethridge, an award-winning author of 22 books including the best-selling Every Woman’s Battle series. She is a certified life coaching and loves to help people make PEACE with their sexual past and cultivate RICH and REWARDING romantic relationships.  Learn more about her  at www.shannonethridge.com.

Have you ever found yourself getting defensive and retreating in the face of conflict, especially in marriage? In this episode, Michael interviews Dr. Jacob Porter of Daring Ventures about an incredible process that could change your life if you use it. Jake was a pastor for 13 years before issues surfaced in his own life leading him to become a professional counselor and creating many life changing tools such as the one discussed in this podcast. After listening, you will likely want to dive even deeper into this subject by watching Jake’s in depth webinar which can be found at http://daringventuresathome.com/makingsaves. Jake also offers a 50% off coupon code for this webinar toward the end of this podcast. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

The long term complex stress associated with recovering from sexual betrayal or unwanted sexual behavior makes it very difficult to stay present. When the war is on between our God given threat and attachment instincts, our body, mind and spirit are often in chaotic upheaval. The part of our brain responsible for impulse control and logic goes offline. We lose our truest selves and it can sometimes feel like we are losing our sanity as a tornado of intrusive thoughts invade our minds. This is TRAUMA. Join Kristin as she shares strategies to help you return to your body in the present moment. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Julie St Onge is a Professional Life Coach specializing in betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and wholistic health.  She also leads Women in the Battle in New Hampshire. Julie spent 20 years as a nurse, working primarily in Labor and Delivery.  Her her professional experience with coaching women through the physical pain of birth laid a foundation for how she walks women through the excruciating emotional pain of betrayal. Having personally walked the road of betrayal trauma recovery through a Women in the Battle group, Julie knows the power of recovery community to reduce our shame and bring us back to life! In this episode  Julie leads us through "top down" and "bottom up" strategies to calm the brain and body that have gone into overdrive due to severe stress. You’ll walk away with some helpful tools and a perspective shift in how you treat yourself as you walk through difficulty!

Kristin talks with Sally Groff who runs a large Christian counseling practice in Indianapolis and has years of experience doing therapy with children.  Sally shares how pornography impacted her own life as a child. She also gives invaluable insight into how a parent can respond when they find out their child has been viewing pornography. With grace and a focus on the heart, Sally offers wise counsel on how to connect with our kids and help them develop internal longing to pursue what they truly need. Her insights will inspire and encourage you in your own journey toward wholeness as well!  Learn more about Sally’s counseling practice at https://groffandassociates.com/. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

In March, 2020, Michael & Kristin spoke at The Marriage Mastery Summit; an online Summit geared toward helping people develop a deeper and more meaningful marriage. We believe you will benefit from listening as Anne Nelson from Fully Thriving interviews us about the damaging affect of porn and infidelity on marriage, and the path to healing, redemption and restored intimacy. The summit was held at https://themarriagemasterysummit.fullythriving.com/summit-welcome. You can find more information about Anne Nelson and the resources she offers at FullyThriving.com.

Michael interviews author and ministry leader Nate Larkin about his book Samson and the Pirate Monks, his ministry with Samson Society, and his personal story. Listen as they unpack so many fundamental truths about human sexuality and sexual addiction as well as the truth about what it really takes to become free. You can learn more about Nate's ministry at SamsonSociety.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

Kari’s pursuit of online sexual encounters & pornography began in 2015. When she realized the level of  self destruction she was headed for, Kari got help. Here, she vulnerably shares her struggles with sexual integrity as a Christian woman . As Kari discovered, “acting out sexually is one common symptom of unresolved pain and insecurity”. Listen in as Kristin & Kari explore insights into the keys to freedom and healing in this episode! If you are a woman struggling in this area, please contact Kristin at KristinC@Living-Truth.org for additional help and resources. Men, please contact Michael at MichaelC@Living-Truth.org.

In this episode, Kristin interviews Carol Juergensen Sheets (aka Carol the Coach). Carol is the only Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in the Indianapolis area.  She also has the heart and understanding to help betrayed partners through the trauma model. Carol has seen first hand which couples survive and even thrive after sexual betrayal. And empathy is a key element! In this podcast Carol shares why is it so difficult for spouses with problematic sexual behavior to demonstrate empathy and why partners are often afraid to trust that empathy.   She sheds light on how long it takes to see actual trust being rebuilt for a better marriage than ever before! Carol is the author of Help Her Heal, and the host of three Podcasts; Sex Help With Carol the Coach, Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery and Betrayal Recovery Radio. For more information or to contact Carol, visit her website: Carolthecoach.com

In the midst of the global medical crisis caused by Coronavirus COVID-19, everything in our lives has been disrupted, including our originally planned Podcast schedule. We believe you will find this conversation with Michael & Kristin Cary helpful and relatable, with some ideas on how to cope during this stressful time, especially for those who are in recovery. You can get more info on our ministry and the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org including links to Men in the Battle® and Women in the Battle®. Many God grant you grace & peace along with protection during the unprecedented time.

The two most important covenants Corri made, to marriage and to full-time ministry, were pulled out from under her in 2014 when she discovered ongoing addiction in her marriage, sought help from her leadership, and was fired. While Corri’s heart and marriage have been resurrected, the journey of belonging again after spiritual trauma is ongoing. The marginalization she experienced at the hands of the body of Christ, due to common misunderstandings about sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, continue for others in ministry and church communities. Corri and Kristin unpack their personal and professional experiences with grace and truth regarding this pandemic affecting the church and they give tangible advice for how to love someone reeling from the devastation of betrayal. 

Michael interviews New York Times Bestselling author John Eldredge about his new book Get Your Life Back. John is the President of Ransomed Heart (RansomedHeart.com) and is the author of numerous books such as Wild at Heart, Waking the Dead, Walking with God and Love and War. The discussion includes why we need to slow down and some practices that help us connect with God and others better. John also speaks on some of his childhood experiences with his mother and how he came to decide to write this book. I am sure this podcast will benefit everyone who is reading this!

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Unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal always deeply impact a couple's sexual relationship. Kristin interviews Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith, a married therapist/coach duo whose experience through their personal recovery journey only enhances their professional ability to walk couples through the process of healing with empathy & hard won wisdom. In this two part series we unpack the essential elements of healthy sexuality. We discuss creating a healthy process and parameters for sex after betrayal, and we'll unpack how to handle triggers that arise when a couple begins to reintegrate their sexual relationship after laying a foundation of honesty, safety, and trust. The Raabsmiths have a free gift for all of our listeners! Go here to access your gift: https://www.renewingus.com/livingtruthpod. If you're interested in working with Matthew & Joanna one on one or want to experience healing through their couples' groups or retreats visit  www.raabsmithteam.com. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal always deeply impact a couple's sexual relationship. Kristin interviews Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith, a married therapist/coach duo whose experience through their personal recovery journey only enhances their professional ability to walk couples through the process of healing with empathy & hard won wisdom. In this two part series we unpack the essential elements of healthy sexuality. We discuss creating a healthy process and parameters for sex after betrayal, and we'll unpack how to handle triggers that arise when a couple begins to reintegrate their sexual relationship after laying a foundation of honesty, safety, and trust. The Raabsmiths have a free gift for all of our listeners! Go here to access your gift: https://www.renewingus.com/livingtruthpod. If you're interested in working with Matthew & Joanna one on one or want to experience healing through their couples' groups or retreats visit  www.raabsmithteam.com. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Michael & Kristin reveal the attitudes and behaviors of emotional regression that create cycles of disconnection in marriage. Taking personal responsibility to continue the process of growing in individual maturity & healing our trauma is key. Michael & Kristin share their recent marriage breakthroughs, offering hope for you to pursue joy, connection, and union with God together so that your marriage can grow and thrive. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal. EFT Therapist search (Emotionally Focused Therapy is an evidence based marriage counseling model Michael & Kristin mention): https://members.iceeft.com/therapist-search/find-an-eft-therapist.php IFS Therapist search (Internal Family Systems is an individual therapy modality Michael & Kristin mention): https://ifs-institute.com/practitioners/all

Marriage can provide an opportunity for our greatest healing. In this episode, Michael & Kristin offer a peak into their marriage and hearts, offering hope that the hard work of marriage is worth it. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal.  EFT Therapist search (Emotionally Focused Therapy is an evidence based marriage counseling model Michael & Kristin mention): https://members.iceeft.com/therapist-search/find-an-eft-therapist.php IFS Therapist search (Internal Family Systems is an individual therapy modality Michael & Kristin mention): https://ifs-institute.com/practitioners/all

When a person misuses their spiritual authority or Scripture to manipulate or control us, the results are devastating. Rather than inspiring a loving and freedom-generating connection with God, these relationships can cause us tremendous confusion, shame, and fear. ICF certified coach Jill Monaco shares her personal and professional experience about learning to recognize spiritual abuse and how to deal with it. Jill shares her passion for helping people listen to the voice of God, discovering the freedom to be who He created us to be. Learn more about the resources Jill offers at www.JillMonaco.com. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations about the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.

After sexual secrets are exposed in a family, the “most wonderful time of the year” can feel like a nightmare.  But there is hope. In this episode, Kristin interviews Coach Andrea Rogers who shares from her early betrayal trauma and holiday experiences. Hearing how Andrea honored her limits and advocated for herself and her kids through the crisis in her family will inspire you.  Through financial crisis, overwhelming grief, and a shattered heart, Andrea experienced God’s provision and has emerged with a beautiful resilience.  Learn more about Andrea at fullyalivecoachingllc.com. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations about porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal. 

Shawna knew there were missing pieces of the puzzle as she and her husband Kevin sought healing for their marriage after sexual betrayal. Humility and willingness through a long quest for understanding ultimately led them to receive Kevin's Autism diagnosis. Finally, Shawna saw the emotional deprivation she had experienced throughout their marriage through the more accurate lens of his neurodivergence. The accurate diagnosis of co occurring conditions can open a door to receive the right help. Shawna and Kevin's perseverance offers hope for couples that are willing to do the hard work to rebuild their marriage after betrayal. Learn more about Shawna and her book, Determined for More at https://www.livingstonescoaching.com/. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

We are born with innate qualities that reflect the image of God. As an adaptive response to adversity, we develop protective parts that block true connection with God, ourselves, and others. These protective parts can show up through perfectionism, blame, judgment, and other constrained attitudes and actions. Though we may not like them, these parts of us need our loving awareness and attunement.

 

In this episode, Kristin sits down with Molly LaCroix, LMFT, to explore how to recognize and gently befriend your internal family through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS). This is a grace-filled invitation to begin healing the inner chaos with compassion and curiosity. This conversation continues in the next episode: The Chaos Inside – How Betrayal and Unwanted Sexual Behavior Impact Your Internal Family System with Molly LaCroix.

 

Learn more about Molly's work, including her books and free resources by visiting her website: https://mollylacroix.com/   📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

 

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Shawna knew there were missing pieces of the puzzle as she and her husband Kevin sought healing for their marriage after sexual betrayal. Humility and willingness through a long quest for understanding ultimately led them to receive Kevin's Autism diagnosis. Finally, Shawna saw the emotional deprivation she had experienced throughout their marriage through the more accurate lens of his neurodivergence. The accurate diagnosis of co occurring conditions can open a door to receive the right help. Shawna and Kevin's perseverance offers hope for couples that are willing to do the hard work to rebuild their marriage after betrayal. Learn more about Shawna and her book, Determined for More at https://www.livingstonescoaching.com/. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

When sexual secrets disrupt a marriage there is often a debate: To Tell or Not To Tell. How much does the betrayed spouse need to know in order to heal and rebuild the relationship? Kristin interviews CSATS and Partner Betrayal Specialists Dan Drake & Dr. Janice Caudill about the benefits & best practices of Full Disclosure in this episode! The Living Truth Podcast: conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal.

Unwanted sexual behavior impacts the whole family. Even when kids don't know the nature of the problems their parents are wrestling with, they intuitively feel the impact in their bodies. The ripple effects of betrayal and infidelity on kids are deep and complex but there is hope for recovery for the entire family. In this 2 part series, Kristin interviews Melissa Macomer about her experience growing up with a cheating parent. They discuss ways parents can help their kids heal and share insights into the complex impact of parental infidelity on our relationships. You can learn more about Melissa's research, read an excerpt from her memoir, and find more information about the support groups she runs for young adults on her website: melissamacomber.com. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations about the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.

Unwanted sexual behavior impacts the whole family. Even when kids don't know the nature of the problems their parents are wrestling with, they intuitively feel the impact in their bodies. The ripple effects of betrayal and infidelity on kids are deep and complex but there is hope for recovery for the entire family. In this 2 part series, Kristin interviews Melissa Macomer about her experience growing up with a cheating parent. They discuss ways parents can help their kids heal and share insights into the complex impact of parental infidelity on our relationships. You can learn more about Melissa's research, read an excerpt from her memoir, and find more information about the support groups she runs for young adults on her website: melissamacomber.com. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations about the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.

The struggle with problematic sexual behavior is rooted in our young, emotionally undeveloped parts and their drive to run from discomfort. In order to heal and be set free, we must go deep with our inner child to address the hurts and perceptions we developed when we were young. Kristin interviews Eddie Capparucci, a licensed professional counselor specializing in problematic sexual behaviors. This two part episode addresses problematic sexual behavior in men and women, as well as the impact on the partner. Learn more about Eddie Capparucci: https://abundantlifecounselingga.com/. For more information on Eddie's new book: Going Deeper for Women: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction. Previous podcast where Michael interviews Eddie Capparucci on his book Going Deeper - The Inner Child Model for Treating Problematic Sexual Behavior: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-e2tuv-13c4968. The Living Truth Podcast: conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal.

The struggle with problematic sexual behavior is rooted in our young, emotionally undeveloped parts and their drive to run from discomfort. In order to heal and be set free, we must go deep with our inner child to address the hurts and perceptions we developed when we were young. Kristin interviews Eddie Capparucci, a licensed professional counselor specializing in problematic sexual behaviors. This two part episode addresses problematic sexual behavior in men and women, as well as the impact on the partner. Learn more about Eddie Capparucci: https://abundantlifecounselingga.com/. For more information on Eddie's new book: Going Deeper for Women: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction. Previous podcast where Michael interviews Eddie Capparucci on his book Going Deeper - The Inner Child Model for Treating Problematic Sexual Behavior: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-e2tuv-13c4968. The Living Truth Podcast: conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal.

Leaning into a recovery group like Men in the Battle unlocks the insight, support, and healing we need to establish freedom from unwanted sexual behavior.  True brotherhood, deep inner work, and shame reducing vulnerability are pillars of the Men in the Battle community. Desiring freedom from unwanted sexual behavior may be the starting point that gets men into recovery groups but the healing and restoration available to us goes far deeper than that! Even men who are reluctant to join a community discover that the uncommon brotherhood of MIB an essential part of their path to freedom! New member sign ups open in August! Visit www.living-truth.org and select “Men in the Battle” to sign up for more information. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing and freedom from porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.