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| Episode 130: Do Something! Exploring the Identity(ies)-Focused Mission of Mx. Van Ethan Levy | 05 May 2024 | 00:47:21 | |
CW: transphobia, homophobia, living in the world as someone in the LGBTQPIA2S+ community Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr sit down with Van (they/elle), the founder and organizer of the Do Something: Identity(ies) aka DSI conference, an international virtual conference which “centers and celebrates the most erased realities in the LGBTQPIA2S+ community.” The 2nd DSI conference will take place May 31st, 2024. On top of this conference, Van has also facilitated both an interactive book and a documentary on the same areas of focus! Join us to learn about Van and the DSI conference, the “Exploring my Identity(ies)” interactive book, the Do Something documentary, and more! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more! If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public! | |||
| Episode 129: Beyond Dominance and Submission - Power Exchange vs Authority Transfer with Master Devyn Stone | 28 Apr 2024 | 00:57:25 | |
Episode Summary: In the realms of kink and BDSM, we talk about Power Exchange a lot, but what does that actually mean? Does it realistically cover the transaction happening within your dynamic? This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr are sitting down with our good friend, Master Devyn Stone to talk about their ideas on Power Exchange and how the term Authority Transfer fits their desires and dynamic so much better. What’s the difference? What does Power Exchange mean? What about Authority Transfer? We discuss that and so much more in this exciting episode with Master Devyn Stone. Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more! If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public! | |||
| Episode 120: Monster Lovers | 18 Feb 2024 | 00:53:04 | |
CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: Have you ever found yourself fantasizing about a vampire, a werewolf, or maybe even something more monstrous? Was Beauty and the Beast your favorite movie growing up? Do you look for love in the unlovable? Well, this might be the episode for you! Join us in this episode as Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr talk about the Monster Lovers genre! We discuss what it is, where it shows up in history, our own feelings and experiences, and so much more! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more! If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public!
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| Episode 30 - Three's Company - A Conversation about Ethical Non-Monogamy/Polyamory | 13 Mar 2022 | 00:48:31 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy/Polyamory. Both of us have experiences in Polyam and we did some research to explain terms and polyamory in general. Join us for advice, research, and lessons from polyam! A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
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| Episode 29: A Delicious talk with LatexBourne - MEOW! | 06 Mar 2022 | 00:50:29 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down with LatexBourne(he/him), a rubbery house-cat who is interested in a myriad of kinks including pony play, dronification, hypnosis, bondage, spanking, and tickling. LatexBourne practices monogamy in romance but is polyamorous in kink. He is also an aspiring latex/kink model and has been involved in professional photo shoots! Find LatexBourne
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| Episode 28: BDSM in Media - Love and Leashes (2022) | 27 Feb 2022 | 00:56:18 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss and review the representations of BDSM in Media in this continued series. The representation we chose to review this week is the newly released Korean Rom-Com movie called Love and Leashes. It’s on Netflix and if you’d like to watch the film, I’d suggest doing so before we spoil the entire thing in this episode. Tune in as we pick apart the film and how well it represents kink/BDSM as a whole. A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium, lovelauseng, and moon_goddess. https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 27- The Kinky Tangents - A Gender Experience with Lord Allen Vydra | 20 Feb 2022 | 00:50:14 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down with their partner and friend, Lord Allen Vydra. This chaotic audio experience is filled with laughs, some heavy stuff, and a lot of kink. Join this terrible triad as they attempt to create an entertaining and educational episode for our listeners. CW/TW: Race and culture fetishization, naz*s A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Honorable mentions: Podcasts
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| Episode 26: BSDM in Media - Secretary (2002) | 13 Feb 2022 | 00:51:45 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss and review the representation of kink in the film Secretary (2002) starring James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhal. Join us as we talk about the different aspects and situations which director, Steven Shainberg chose to depict in this Romantic Dramedy centered around a kinky relationship developing between a lawyer and his secretary. CW/TW: Self harm, mental health, alcoholism, possible abusive situations A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 25: BDSM in Media - the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly | 06 Feb 2022 | 00:53:05 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr dive into the world of entertainment (for once) to introduce their new mini-series: BDSM in Media! They discuss how BDSM/kink are shown in media such as tv, books, movies, comics, magazines, etc and how that colors the perception of the general public in regards to BDSM/kink. The mini-series will sometimes pop up as a regular Sunday episode where Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr will consume some kink-related media and examine the accuracies, inaccuracies, and intricacies to expel misconception (as far as our reach goes anyway.) CW/TW: controlling and toxic relationships, dangerous and risky “kink” A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng Thank you to those who asked questions!
https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 24: Let's Switch Things Up! | 30 Jan 2022 | 00:23:03 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr switch things up and talk about switches in BDSM and kink! Both Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are switches and discuss their experiences and the knowledge they’ve gained over the years about switches. A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng Thank you to those who asked questions!
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| Episode 23: The Pleasure of Pain - A Psychological Predicament | 16 Jan 2022 | 00:37:38 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about pain play! Pain is a large part, though not all, of kink. Today we are focusing on this foundational piece of BDSM and kink! Join Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr as they discuss the physical and psychological aspects of pain. A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng Thank you to those who asked questions!
https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 22: Sunday, Bloody Sunday! | 10 Jan 2022 | 00:47:10 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about blood play! Both of us love blood play and practice it fairly regularly. We talk about different types of blood play and the motivations toward it, some safety tips, and even vampirism. A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng Thank you to those who asked questions!
https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 21: Seasons Beatings! | 02 Jan 2022 | 00:40:29 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about Impact play! This type of kink play is near and dear to both of their hearts and they are excited to share with you the beauty and pain that is impact. Learn where you can and can’t hit, how to mark or avoid marks, and just general safety and 101 about impact play! A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium Thank you to those who asked questions!
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| Episode 119: Hope on Rope | 12 Feb 2024 | 01:03:51 | |
Episode Summary: Today we are finally covering a hugely popular and even titular topic within BDSM, rope! We’re bringing in our friend Hope Lythi, a rope educator, bottom, and service top! She shares with us a ton of information from the ins and outs of the rope community to correcting misconceptions about the practice of rope! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more! If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public! | |||
| Episode 20: Kinky Toys and Pervertables for the HoHoHolidays | 26 Dec 2021 | 00:54:54 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about Toys and Pervertables! Right in the middle of the winter holiday season, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr give us lots of ideas for things we can use around the house or from the dollar store to get our kink on! A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium Thank you to those who asked questions!
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| Episode 19: Petplay - For Pet's Sake! | 19 Dec 2021 | 01:02:18 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about Petplay! This topic is near and dear to both of their hearts as Pup Rekkr is (believe it or not) a pup; and Miss Dizzy, his handler. They talk about petspace, roleplay, gear, consent in petplay, and so much more! A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium Thank you to those who asked questions!
https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 18: Follow the Leader | 12 Dec 2021 | 00:30:27 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Leadership within the kink community. What should that look like? How do leaders achieve that? What do you do if you have a concern about the leadership you see? Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium Thank you for those who asked questions!
If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for your username/account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 15: A Little bitty ditty about age play and age regression | 16 Nov 2021 | 00:42:48 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr get together to talk about age regression, age play, and their experiences with it. Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium Thank you for those who asked questions! https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 14: Special Guest Andrew Gurza - Kink and Accessibility | 07 Nov 2021 | 00:59:04 | |
This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr enjoy the virtual company of Andrew Gurza, disability awareness consultant and the Chief Disability Officer of Bumpn, a sex tech company. We discuss disability and how it intersects with kink and sexuality as well as how the kink community can become more accessible. Andrew Gurza shares openly about his life as a “queer cripple” and a sexual wheelchair user. Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr share about their journey through kink and sexuality as Miss Dizzy’s chronic pain disorders progressed over the last 5 years. A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium Thank you for those who asked questions! https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. As promised, here are a few links to the resources mentioned in the episode! Andrew Gurza - producer and host of award winning podcast, Disability after Dark; Chief Disability Officer of Bumpn - pre-sales start December 3rd!! Rachel Rose - @Hedonish on Twitter; Certified Sexuality Coach & Educator and Disability Advocate Ryan O’Connell - @ryanoconn on Instagram; writer, actor, director, comedian, LGBTQ activist, and disability advocate; Lead actor in Special, a dramedy currently streaming on Netflix | |||
| Episode 13: Wait, people with disabilities have sex? And they can be kinky?! | 31 Oct 2021 | 01:04:59 | |
Lucky number 13 on Halloween!! Happy Halloween and Blessed Samhain! This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down and discuss the very personal topic of Disability in Kink. Our episode this week did go a little long, but this conversation is an important one to have and I think that it's crucial for people to share their own experiences. A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium Thank you for your questions, Scurry, Stephy, and Jessica! https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. As promised, here are a few links to the resources mentioned in the episode! Andrew Gurza - podcaster of Disability after Dark Undressing Disability - podcast Enhance the UK - advice and articles about disability and sex | |||
| Episode 12: Coming Out (I said I'm sorry, Mama I never meant to hurt youuuuu. I never meant to make you cry, but tonight I'm comin' out my closet!!) | 24 Oct 2021 | 00:51:37 | |
In this episode, we discuss the coming out, our own coming out stories, and answer questions from our friend, Scurry, who is doing a thesis of sorts on neurodivergence and sexuality for school, so she had some wonderful suggestions for topics and questions for us to answer! A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 11: to TOP things off | 17 Oct 2021 | 00:51:33 | |
In this episode, we discuss the different labels within the D-type category in kink and give some advice on how to protect yourself and your reputation within the community as an D-type. A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 10: Getting to the BOTTOM of it | 10 Oct 2021 | 00:40:49 | |
In this episode, we discuss the different labels within the s-type category in kink and give some advice on how to protect yourself and your reputation within the community as an s-type. A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 9: Fetish, Kink, BDSM, and Power Exchange | 03 Oct 2021 | 00:39:32 | |
In this episode, we discuss the differences and similarities between fetishes, kinks, bdsm, and power exchange. Join Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr as they chat about their own experiences and what they've learned and researched about these topics. A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 118: Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr's Dynamic and Contract | 04 Feb 2024 | 00:46:45 | |
Episode Summary: Have you ever been curious about how dynamics work? Have you ever wondered about our dynamic? This week, we are discussing just that! What exactly is a dynamic? A role? What can a contract look like? How does this work in real life? Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own opinions and experiences with contracts and dynamics! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more! If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public! | |||
| Episode 8 - Community Red Flags | 26 Sep 2021 | 00:29:57 | |
In this episode, we discuss what red flags you should look for when trying to find a kink community. Join Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr as they talk about what their standards are for a community and how to recognize the red flags that groups and communities may show. A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 7: Red Flags and Non Sexual Kink | 19 Sep 2021 | 00:41:21 | |
In this episode we discuss Red flags and nonsexual kink. What are the red flags? Kink isn't sexual? https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 6: Space and Drop | 12 Sep 2021 | 00:34:01 | |
In this episode, we discuss Space and Drop in kink. What is space? What is drop? Why do we experience it? How can you relieve or prevent drop? Who is responsible for drop? Join Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr as they dive into a discussion about space and drop. A Big Thank You to: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 5: Vetting and Negotiation | 06 Sep 2021 | 00:28:01 | |
In this episode, we discuss Vetting and Negotiation in kink. We'll talk about why vetting is so important, how to do it, and what to look for. Then we'll talk about negotiations in full before we actually jump into a live negotiation between Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr. A Big Thank You to: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 4: Safety and Aftercare | 29 Aug 2021 | 00:35:48 | |
In this episode, we discuss Safety and Aftercare in kink. We'll give you safety tips and great examples of aftercare as well as answer some questions from our friends! A Big Thank You to: TheStephyBeast Cujo_the_puppy DivineMsDiana Clarissa vpandemonium MistressAimeeKS Jessica_Artemis Promised https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 3: Kink/BDSM 101 | 22 Aug 2021 | 00:58:01 | |
In this episode, we discuss the basic terms you'll hear when discussing kink/BDSM. We define and give a little bit of a better idea as to what these things mean not only in definition, but in practice. Promised https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. | |||
| Episode 2: The Kink/BDSM community and how to enter it | 15 Aug 2021 | 00:32:04 | |
In this episode we explain what the kink community is and why it's so important. Join us as we discuss everything from what newbies should know to the facets of a healthy community. A Big Thank You to:
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| Episode 1: Introduction to The Kinky Tavern and it's improper proprietors | 09 Aug 2021 | 00:11:03 | |
In this episode we talk about what brought us to kink, a brief story about what our journey as kinksters has brought us to be. | |||
| Episode 0: The Kinky Tavern Teaser | 09 Aug 2021 | 00:01:33 | |
Coming soon: an educational podcast based around BDSM, leather, and the kink community. | |||
| Episode 117: Public Play and Puns | 28 Jan 2024 | 00:48:02 | |
CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: Have you ever thought about playing or having sex in public? This week, we are discussing Public Play! What exactly is public play? How can you be ethical in participating? How do you go about finding people and negotiating it? Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own opinions and experiences with Publica Play! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
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| Episode 116: Disclosing Desires and Identities | 21 Jan 2024 | 00:41:52 | |
CW: mental health, rejection, brief mention of SI Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: Have you ever thought about disclosing your kinky identity and desires to someone(s) close to you? This week, we are discussing exactly that! What are some things you might need to consider? How can you best prepare yourself for the possibility of rejection and/or questions? How do you go about having this conversation? What are some questions that might be asked of you? Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own experiences with disclosing their kinky identities to their loved ones! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
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| Episode 115: Gor Abridged - Reacting to the 1987 Gor film | 15 Jan 2024 | 00:38:54 | |
CW: slavery, sexual violence, fantasy violence Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: This week, we are reacting to and reviewing the 1987 Gor movie! With 3.4/10 stars on IMDB and 4% on Rotten Tomatoes, the film, which is VERY loosely based on the John Norman novel series, is not the most popular in the general population or even with fans of the novels. Rekkr has read some of the books and Mx Dizzy hasn’t, which ended up not really mattering much beyond knowing how different the movie is! As a note, we are not discussing or commenting on the Gorean subculture as a whole or how they think, act, believe, etc. Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they watch and react to Gor, the film, for the first time ever! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Episode 114: Breaking Down B.D.S.M. | 07 Jan 2024 | 00:30:15 | |
Episode Summary: This week, we’re getting back to basics and Breaking Down B.D.S.M as a term! What does BDSM mean? What does it stand for? There’s definitely more to it and much more misinformation out there about it than you might think! Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr to cover the abbreviation and its definitions and nuances in this episode of The Kinky Tavern Podcast! A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
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| Episode 113: The Reddit Rainbow part 1 | 31 Dec 2023 | 00:59:02 | |
Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we’ve never done before on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post and give our perspectives, ideas, and advice based on our experience and knowledge. Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
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| Episode 112: Between Trust and Surrender - Unveiling the Dynamics of Consensual Non-Consent | 24 Dec 2023 | 01:16:02 | |
TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is all about Consensual Non-Consent! Join us as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr share their perspectives and ideas about CNC. From what it is and is not to how to negotiate it; from examples and risks to where the interest even comes from; they cover a lot of the nuance surrounding the topic! And a LOT of nuance there is! This episode is hot and ready for ya, but is not all inclusive (part of a balanced breakfast) Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Episode 111: The Kinky Clinic - Unveiling the Secrets of Medical Play! | 18 Dec 2023 | 00:40:42 | |
Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is all about Medical Play! Join us as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr delve into the captivating world of kink known as medical play. From exploring the psychological depths of role-playing medical scenarios to discovering how everyday medical equipment can be repurposed for pleasure, this episode will open your eyes to an intriguing realm you might not even realize you're interested in. Tune in to explore the diverse facets of medical play, unravel the origins of its allure, and uncover surprising aspects you never knew existed! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
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| Episode 128: Elevated Desires - Cannabis, Kink, and the Art of Sensual Exploration | 21 Apr 2024 | 00:34:18 | |
CW: marijuana and it’s use within kink and sex Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr discuss the intersection of Cannabis and kink. Diving into it’s relationship with consent, the ways in which it can affect the user, and ways that it is commonly used within kink and sex. Find out why high sex is so good, how to approach consent when cannabis is involved, and how to make it sexy! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Sick - No Episode, Sorry!!! | 10 Dec 2023 | 00:00:53 | |
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| Episode 110: Our Southwest Master slave Conference Experience | 03 Dec 2023 | 00:49:39 | |
Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down to talk about their experiences at Southwest Master slave Conference 2023! We discuss the diversity, the accessibility, the general vibe, and so much more! Join us this week to hear about this Colorado con! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): A Big Thank You to our Patrons:
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| Episode 109: Lady Katerina’s Indigenous Perspective of Cigar Service Part Two | 19 Nov 2023 | 00:41:44 | |
Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are back with Lady Katerina, to finish up our conversation on Sacred Tobacco and get to know the Lady herself! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. You’ll learn what the Kinky Bibliophile herself suggests as the best books to start with BDSM and kink. Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Episode 108: Lady Katerina’s Indigenous Perspective of Cigar Service | 16 Nov 2023 | 00:42:21 | |
TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are honored to share space and discussion with Lady Katerina, a dear friend and Indigenous leatherwoman! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. Tune in to learn with us about the indigenous perspective on cigar service, tobacco use in general, and cultural appropriation within the leather community and society at large. And this is just Part One of Two we’ll be releasing from this conversation!! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Episode 107: The Marvelous Moxie Minion on Mentorship in Leather | 05 Nov 2023 | 00:58:26 | |
Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen get the chance to talk with the marelous Moxie Minion, mentor to our very own Lord Allen! Moxie has been a mentee and a mentor, making her doubly qualified to join in on this episode about Mentorship in Leather! Both Lord Allen and Moxie talk about their mentorship experiences and ethics! We discuss the ins and outs of mentorship, how to keep your values and behavior aligned, the pros and cons of being a mentee and also a mentor, and much more! Join us for this discussion turned kiki with Moxie Minion! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Episode 106: Conscious Language with Master Devyn Stone - Part 2 | 29 Oct 2023 | 01:00:07 | |
TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down with one of their favorite educators, Master Devyn Stone!!!! Master Stone is gracing us with speaking on his class on Conscious Language. “They say actions speak louder than words, and the adage isn’t any less true within the kink and BDSM community. Oftentimes, however, the language we draft has an opportunity to act and create impressions before we have a chance to speak. Whether you’re drafting policies, designing signs for your dungeon, or creating invitations to your event, you will want to make everyone feel included. In “Conscious Language,” Devyn Stone fosters discussion with participants on how to consciously craft language and persona in media and presentation in order to evoke the values and principles of individuals, organizations, and event spaces. Please note: there will be examples of language that may be harmful to BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, Neurodivergent, and disabled folx in order to demonstrate to attendees what is and isn’t conscious language.” Join us for TWO WEEKS of Master Devyn Stone on Conscious Language, a skill everyone in the community and outside of it can and should use!! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Episode 105: Conscious Language with Master Devyn Stone Part 1 | 22 Oct 2023 | 00:50:57 | |
TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some possibly triggering language. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down with one of their favorite educators, Master Devyn Stone!!!! Master Stone is gracing us with speaking on his class on Conscious Language. “They say actions speak louder than words, and the adage isn’t any less true within the kink and BDSM community. Oftentimes, however, the language we draft has an opportunity to act and create impressions before we have a chance to speak. Whether you’re drafting policies, designing signs for your dungeon, or creating invitations to your event, you will want to make everyone feel included. In “Conscious Language,” Devyn Stone fosters discussion with participants on how to consciously craft language and persona in media and presentation in order to evoke the values and principles of individuals, organizations, and event spaces. Please note: there will be examples of language that may be harmful to BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, Neurodivergent, and disabled folx in order to demonstrate to attendees what is and isn’t conscious language.” Join us for TWO WEEKS of Master Devyn Stone on Conscious Language, a skill everyone in the community and outside of it can and should use!! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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| Episode 104: Boundaries- Finding, Setting, and Handling Negative Responses | 15 Oct 2023 | 00:52:38 | |
Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are covering boundaries! Boundaries are so important both in the kink realm and in the rest of the world. In this episode, we’ll talk about what a boundary is and is not, what types of boundaries you can consider, and how to find and set your own personal boundaries. We’ll also discuss what kinds of negative responses you might encounter when setting boundaries and one way of how we might handle them in our own lives. Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):
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