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The Gay Monogamy Coach.

Alan Cox

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Fréquence : 1 épisode/8j. Total Éps: 106

The Gay Monogamy Coach podcast is hosted by the life coach, CBT practitioner, workshop facilitator and author Alan Cox.

He supports gay men in understanding the emotional, psychological, and practical aspects of transitioning from casual dating to a committed, monogamous relationship, while fostering clarity, confidence, and alignment with authentic relationship goals.

Each episode will investigate an area that surrounds monogamy and is reinforced by practical life coaching techniques.

Alan can be contacted via:

gaymonogamycoach@gmail.com

Website:

www.lifecoachingempoweringgaymen.com

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Emotional Resilience — Bouncing back from a string of bad dates.

Saison 4 · Épisode 7

dimanche 26 avril 2026 • Durée 11:42

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“Emotional resilience: Bouncing back from a string of bad dates."

There’s a particular expression men get after a run of bad dates — not despair, not anger, but that quiet, resigned exhale your script describes so perfectly: “the kind a man makes when he opens the fridge and realises he’s out of milk again.” It’s the look of a grown man who’s emotionally intelligent, self‑aware, and frankly tired of hearing about someone’s ex, gym routine, or star sign for the third date in a row.

In this episode of The Gay Monogamy Coach, Alan Cox explores emotional resilience in dating — not the glossy, motivational kind, but the grounded, grown‑man kind that helps you bounce back without turning disappointment into self‑blame.

Through vivid, often hilarious client stories — Jonathan’s “biblical run of bad dates,” Peter’s sixth sense for emotional unavailability, Michael treating every bad date like “a referendum on my entire personality” — Alan reveals how even the most stable men can start to wonder whether they’re the common denominator.

This episode introduces two powerful CBT tools: The Emotional Autopsy, which separates facts from the harsh stories men tell themselves, and The Resilience Reset, a structured pause that restores emotional equilibrium.

As Oliver, 48, puts it: “A bad date doesn’t mean I’m failing. It just means I’m filtering.”

If you’re a gay man in midlife who’s tired, discouraged, or quietly irritated by the dating process, this episode offers clarity, humour, and a grounded path back to confidence.

🎧 Music: “Going Somewhere Good” by Rest and Settle 📞 Discovery Calls: +44 20 4509 9804 📧 empoweringgaymen@gmail.com 🌈 patreon.com/empoweringgaymen

Hashtags: #GayDating #GayMenOver40 #GayMenOver50 #GayMenOver60 #EmotionalResilience #DatingFatigue #GayMonogamyCoach #CBTTools #MidlifeDating #LGBTQPodcast #GayCoaching

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Core Beliefs — Healing the “I’m unlovable” narrative.

Saison 4 · Épisode 8

dimanche 26 avril 2026 • Durée 14:05

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Even the most accomplished gay men can carry an invisible story — one that quietly whispers, “I’m unlovable.”
In this episode of The Gay Monogamy Coach, Alan Cox unpacks how that belief shapes who we choose, what we tolerate, and how we show up in love. Through real client stories and CBT‑based insight, he explores how to rewrite the emotional software that keeps men chasing unavailability and performing for affection.

You’ll hear how men in their forties, fifties, and sixties have transformed their dating lives by healing the deeper wound — moving from earning love to receiving it. This is the shift from usefulness to worthiness, from auditioning to belonging.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, undervalued, or stuck in the same dating patterns, this episode will help you understand why — and how to change it.
Because you’re not unlovable. You’re just unpracticed at being loved.

🎧 Listen now and start your transformation.
📞 Book your free 20‑minute discovery call: calendly.com/empoweringgaymen/new-meeting (calendly.com in Bing)
💌 Email: empoweringgaymen@gmail.com
💪 Join our Patreon community: patreon.com/empoweringgaymen (patreon.com in Bing)

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Holiday refresh.

Saison 3 · Épisode 4

samedi 20 décembre 2025 • Durée 11:18

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Tired of Holiday Tension? Reconnect with Your Partner.

Are the holidays straining your relationship? "Holiday Refresh" addresses the unique pressures faced by gay professional men during the festive season. Learn how to set boundaries, communicate openly, and prioritize self-care. Alan Cox provides actionable strategies to transform stress into connection. Listen now and reclaim your joy!

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Couples at Christmas: Reclaiming joy and connection in your relationship.

Saison 3 · Épisode 3

vendredi 19 décembre 2025 • Durée 13:14

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Couples at Christmas: Reclaiming joy and connection in your relationship.

Is the holiday season feeling more like a pressure cooker than a Hallmark movie? Join Alan Cox, The Monogamy Coach (ICF-accredited life coach, CBT practitioner, and author), as he tackles the realities of navigating relationships during the most stressful time of year.

In this episode, Alan dives deep into the common stressors that can derail your connection, from tricky family dynamics and tight budgets to mismatched expectations. Drawing on his experience working with couples like Ben and Tom, he unveils practical, actionable strategies to not just survive the holidays, but truly thrive.

Discover how to recognize stress patterns, use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques to break negative cycles, and proactively nurture intimacy and joy in your relationship. Learn the power of dedicated "couple time," clear communication, and expressing heartfelt appreciation.

Ready to reclaim the magic of the season and create a holiday experience that strengthens your relationship instead of tearing it apart? Tune in for invaluable insights and practical exercises you can implement today!

If you're ready to create a thriving, long-term relationship filled with love and joy, Alan invites you to book a complimentary discovery call. Email empoweringgaymen@gmail.com and mention "Podcast Discovery Call" to schedule your session.

Plus, don't miss the weekly Zoom workshops on Tuesdays at 7pm GMT!

Connect with Alan Cox:

Email: empoweringgaymen@gmail.com
Weekly Zoom workshops: Tuesdays at 7pm GMT

(Music: ‘The merriest time of year’ by Shimmer)

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Family tables & real talk: Staying true to you this holiday season.

Saison 3 · Épisode 2

jeudi 18 décembre 2025 • Durée 14:52

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Tired of holiday dinners feeling like a test of your identity? 😩 Join Alan Cox, accredited gay life coach and author of The Gay Monogamy Coach, as he dives into navigating tricky family dynamics without losing yourself. Learn practical CBT techniques to shift negative thoughts, set boundaries, and reclaim your voice at the table.

This episode is for gay men ready to move past short-term dating and create lasting, meaningful relationships. Discover how to define success on your own terms and leave the holidays feeling empowered, not drained. 💪

Ready for a change? Email empoweringgaymen@gmail.com with "Podcast Discovery Call" to book a free call and design a coaching plan that helps you create lasting change. Available on all good hosting sites.

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Conquering holiday loneliness.

Saison 3 · Épisode 1

mercredi 17 décembre 2025 • Durée 07:35

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Conquering holiday loneliness: A gay men's guide to thriving.

Holidays stressing you out? Especially as a gay man? Feeling like everyone else has it figured out, and you're just... on the sidelines? Alan Cox totally gets it. In this episode of The Gay Monogamy Coach, he dives deep into the stuff that makes the holidays particularly tricky for us. He's not just throwing out generic advice – he's talking about our unique challenges. Using a powerful combo of CBT and coaching, Alan helps you kick those negative thoughts to the curb, build your confidence, and create real, genuine connections. Discover how to flip the script and turn feelings of isolation into opportunities for self-care, amazing friendships, and maybe even a little holiday magic. Seriously, listen now and start creating a holiday story you actually want to be a part of – you've so got this!

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5. The Comparison Trap: Social media and relationship expectations.

Saison 2 · Épisode 5

mercredi 2 juillet 2025 • Durée 17:40

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Episode 5: The Comparison Trap – Social media and relationship expectations.
In this powerful episode, Alan Cox, ICF-accredited life coach and CBT practitioner, explores how social media silently sabotages gay relationships by feeding unrealistic comparisons. If you’ve ever found yourself measuring your love life against glossy Instagram couples, this episode is for you.

You’ll discover:

Why comparison is a toxic cognitive distortion.
How to stop letting curated posts dictate your relationship satisfaction;
Proven CBT techniques to break free from the “comparison trap.”
Digital detox strategies that strengthen real connection.
What healthy, fulfilling relationship goals actually look like.

Whether you’re single, dating, or already partnered, this episode will help you shift from performing for social media to truly living your relationship.

Are you ready to build a love life that’s authentic, not just aesthetic?

Book a free discovery call with Alan: empoweringgaymen@gmail.com
Weekly Zoom workshops every Tuesday @ 7pm GMT

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4. Redefining masculinity in gay relationships.

Saison 2 · Épisode 4

mercredi 2 juillet 2025 • Durée 13:53

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Episode 4: Redefining Masculinity in Gay Relationships.
Hosted by Alan Cox – The Gay Monogamy Coach.

Are you tired of the cycle of hookups and emotionally unavailable men? Do you crave deep connection but find yourself pulling away just when things get serious?

In this powerful episode, gay life coach and CBT practitioner Alan Cox breaks down how toxic masculinity sabotages emotional intimacy in gay relationships—and what you can do about it. Drawing from both personal experience and years of coaching successful, intelligent gay men, Alan exposes the unconscious scripts that keep us guarded, distant, and ultimately unfulfilled.

Key Topics Covered:

Why so many gay men fear commitment, even when they deeply desire it.
How toxic masculinity teaches us that vulnerability equals weakness—and why that’s a lie.
Real client stories (like Martin, David, and James) who broke free from emotional walls.
The “Vulnerability Gradient”: a step-by-step method to open up safely and authentically.
Weekly Emotional Check-ins: a practice that strengthens connection and trust.
Practical tools like “Feel, Think, Want” and Emotional Mirroring to express your needs clearly.
How emotional openness makes you more attractive to the right kind of partner (The Intimacy Paradox).
The liberating truth: your authenticity is your superpower.

Your Challenge: Have one truly vulnerable conversation this week. It could change everything.

For Listeners Ready to Transform:
If this episode hit home, it’s time to take the next step. Alan works with gay men who are ready to overcome fear, embrace intimacy, and finally build the relationship they deserve. His 1:1 coaching programme dives deep into emotional healing, attachment dynamics, and personalized relationship strategies that create lasting change.

📞 Book a free discovery call by emailing: empoweringgaymen@gmail.com Mention the podcast and explore how Alan can help you move from fear to freedom in love.

3. "The Fear of Commitment: What's really underneath."

Saison 2 · Épisode 3

mercredi 2 juillet 2025 • Durée 22:29

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"The Fear of Commitment: What's Really Underneath"

If you've ever found yourself lying awake at 2 AM, your heart racing because the amazing guy you've been seeing just used the word "future" in a sentence about the two of you... this episode is for you.

Maybe you've been here before: You meet someone incredible. The connection is electric. The sex is mind-blowing. You actually enjoy spending time together clothed. For the first time in years, you can imagine what "settling down" might look like. But then something shifts.

That familiar panic creeps in. Your mind starts flooding with "what ifs." What if he gets bored? What if I lose myself? What if I'm not cut out for this? What if, what if, what if... And before you know it, you're picking fights, creating distance, or worse – you're on the apps again, convincing yourself that maybe you're just "not the relationship type."

Sound familiar?

Here's what I want you to know: You're not broken. You're not commitment-phobic. You're not destined to be alone. What you're experiencing is your nervous system trying to protect you from perceived danger – and with the right understanding and tools, you can learn to feel safe in love.

I'm Alan Cox, your host and an ICF-accredited gay life coach who specializes in helping successful gay men like you move beyond the endless cycle of casual hookups and build the meaningful, committed relationships you actually want. I've walked this exact path myself, and I've guided hundreds of men from fear to freedom in love.

Today, we're going deep. We're not just talking about commitment fears – we're exploring what's really underneath them. I'll share the specific attachment patterns that keep gay men stuck, the cognitive distortions that fuel your anxiety, and most importantly, the practical tools that will help you move through these fears instead of being controlled by them.

You'll discover why your brain treats commitment like a threat, how your early experiences shaped your relationship blueprint, and the step-by-step process to rewire your nervous system for love and connection.

2. "Breaking the Hookup Addiction: Understanding your patterns."

Saison 2 · Épisode 2

jeudi 26 juin 2025 • Durée 14:46

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In this episode, the gay ICF-accredited Life Coach, CBT Practitioner and author Alan Cox, explores some of the reasons that are preventing gay men from achieving the committed relationship that they would like and how the hook up culture affects them.

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