In this episode therapy services manager Stephen Mulley talks about the ASGSF, how to apply, the support it can offer and who is eligible.  

Please note: This episode was recorded prior to the government's proposed changes to the Adoption and Special Guardianship Support Fund (ASGSF). Since recording, serious changes have been proposed that will drastically impact the children and families we support.

The proposed changes would:
- Cut funding from £5,000 to £3,000 per child, reducing access to vital therapy
- Remove match funding, a crucial lifeline for families with children facing complex trauma
- Eliminate separate funding for specialist assessments, further limiting support

These proposals threaten the stability and wellbeing of vulnerable children who have already faced immense hardship. Without this support, more families risk reaching crisis point.

These children need more support, not less.

Here’s how you can take action:
Join the protest march on May 3rd in London: Facebook Event
Sign the petition urging the government to rethink the changes: Change.org Petition

Donate to our Crisis Fund: Donate to Family Futures

The Crisis Fund helps families impacted by reduced funding continue to access the specialist therapy they rely on.

To find out more about Family Futures and what we do, head over to our website www.familyfutures.co.uk. 

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford 

Download our free webinar here . NPP introduction – an evidence based therapy for healing trauma.

Jay Vaughan MBE and co founder of Family Futures,shares how and why the Family Futures therapy model, Neuro Physiological Psychotherapy (NPP) was developed. She explains the way a holistic therapy works so well for children and young people who have experienced trauma by working with the brain and body together.

To find out more about Family Futures and how we helpchildren, families and professionals, head over to our website ⁠www.familyfutures.co.uk

We'd love to hear from you, email your comments or questions to contact@familyfutures.co.uk

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford 

Welcome to a special episode of pondering pods, in this episode we hear from Alan Burnell OBE, adopted person and co-founder of Family Futures.

Alan talk’s about his experience of contact as an adopted person, in a professional setting and how contact and the approach to supporting contact has changed over the last 40 years.

Our conference, Contact in Context, is a virtual event taking place on the 20th October 2023. Alan will be co-hosting workshop three with adoptive parent, Alison, the workshop will explore how you can support your child when they make contact with birth family members online.

Tickets are still available with a range of payment options, for the full programme for the day and to book your place you can visit our website.

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Family Futures has 25 years’ experience supporting families with contact. Our virtual conference on the 20th October 2023 is for parents and professionals. Listen to lived experience and gain practical tools and advice to build your confidence in supporting children through contact and life story work.

Who should attend?

• Professionals who want to develop their skills and knowledge

• Parents and prospective adopters who want to understand and prepare for contact or adoption

• SGO and Kinship carers who need support in managing contact

What can you expect from the day?

• Hear from the experts, those with lived experience.

• We have a range of speakers, care experienced and adopted young people, birth parents, adopters, kinship carers and Family Futures therapeutic experts.

• Gain practical advice and frameworks on how contact can be managed, supported and improved, so that the needs of the child remain at the centre of the process.

• Explore the importance of contact from a developmental perspective

• Navigate fears around contact and complex relationships

• Network with other professionals and families

For the full programme, and tickets head over to our website - ⁠Contact in Context Conference 2023 | Family Futures⁠

Don't forget if you're busy on the day or part of the day, all ticket holders can watch on demand for the 90 days following the conference.

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Welcome to the Family Futures Podcast series, selfcare session. Selfcare you can do anywhere.

This session gives you time to be still and listen, guided by Georgie Kovoor. (Music Therapist)

Like and subscribe for podcast updates, and if you’d like to know more about family futures, you can visit our website ⁠⁠www.familyfutures.co.uk⁠

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Welcome to the Family Futures Podcast series, selfcare sessions. Selfcare you can do anywhere.

This session is a somatic experience body tracking session with Jay Vaughan MBE, CEO & Registered Manager.

(Dramatherapist, Theraplay Practitioner & Supervisor, Somatic Experience Practitioner & Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapist)

Like and subscribe for podcast updates, and if you’d like to know more about family futures, you can visit our website ⁠www.familyfutures.co.uk

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Welcome to the Family Futures Podcast series, selfcare sessions. Selfcare you can do anywhere.

This session is a somatic experience body tracking session with Jay Vaughan MBE, CEO & Registered Manager.

(Dramatherapist, Theraplay Practitioner & Supervisor, Somatic Experience Practitioner & Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapist)

Like and subscribe for podcast updates, and if you’d like to know more about family futures, you can visit our website www.familyfutures.co.uk

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Welcome to the Family Futures Podcast series, self care sessions. Self care you can do anywhere.

This is a body based session, focusing on spin mobility with Stephen Mulley Therapy Services Manager.

(Senior Clinical Specialist Dance Movement Psychotherapist)

Like and subscribe for podcast updates, and if you’d like to know more about family futures, you can visit our website ⁠⁠www.familyfutures.co.uk⁠

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Welcome to the Family Futures Podcast series, selfcare sessions. Selfcare you can do anywhere.

This session is a self-compassion meditation with Pippa, Assessment and Therapy Services Coordinator.  

Like and subscribe for podcast updates, and if you’d like to know more about family futures, you can visit our website www.familyfutures.co.uk  

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

⁠Sign up to our FREE webinar on the 28th of November,NPP introduction, an evidence based therapy for healing trauma (12:00-13:00)

Pondering Pods, aims to provide insightful and engaging discussions on topics relating to child development, attachment, and trauma - offering greater understanding for professionals and parents. 

In this episode our podcast producer, Charlotte Mumford, sits down with Senior Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist, Karlien Smith-Claassens,  to talk about NPP and what it means in theory and in context.

Neuro Physiological Psychotherapy (NPP) is a therapeutic model and approach developed by Family Futures that focuses on healing the neurological, physiological and psychological harm to a child’s development caused by neglect and abusive parenting in infancy. This podcast episode outlines the science behind this approach and why it is so effective in helping children heal.

If you have a Pondering Pod topic you'd like to know more about you can email us: contact@familyfutures.co.uk.

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

In this episode of real life stories, we check back in with Matt and Jason. We first interviewed Matt and Jason a little over a year ago, just 5 days before their 5 year old son was placed with them. They are interviewed by their Family Futures social worker Geoff Hudson who assessed them as prospective adopters and has supported them through their first year of placement as adoptive parents. 

• 1.47 The Family Futures assessment, do you feel it prepared you?
• 4.45 Using P.A.C.E. 
• 8.30 Did you get what you had hoped to get from Family Futures?
• 10.00 What has the support been like since placement?  
• 12.06 Post adoption support, BUSS and sensory systems  
• 22:50 Theraplay, life story work regression & regulating 
• 29.17 NPP, coming into Family Futures and feeling safe
• 36.15 being two Dads
• 37.23 Therapeutic work coming to an end  
• 41.21 Other avenues of support & therapeutic parenting 
• 46:17 Advice for LGBTQ+ people considering adoption

If you're interested in adoption, you can find out more about us on our website, or email us PermanencyServiceAdmin@familyfutures.co.uk Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

In this episode we hear from Daniel, an adult adoptee aged 36, who is a previous service user at Family Futures. Daniel discusses his early experiences of trauma and abuse, his life in care and as an adoptee, and how his adoptive parents and the long-term therapeutic support he received have helped him heal over time. Daniel shares words of encouragement here for others struggling with the impact of difficult childhood experiences. We hope you will share this episode with others who will find his words helpful and inspiring in their lives.

Daniel is interviewed by fellow adoptee Alan Burnell OBE, co-founder of Family Futures. 

Content warning: Some of the topics and experiences shared by Daniel may be upsetting for some listeners. If you are affected by what you have heard in this episode and would like to speak to someone for support, you can contact the Family Futures helpline on 020 7354 4161 or Adoption UK's helpline: 0300 666 0006 / helpline@adoptionuk.org.uk

Please note that the views expressed in this podcast series are the views of our guest speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of Family Futures.

#FamilyFuturesPodcast aims to amplify, educate and inform. Subscribe on Spotify or other podcast platforms to listen to our series, Real Life Stories, which amplifies voices in adoption and fostering.

Family Futures is a not for profit, voluntary adoption agency in London, rated Ofsted Outstanding, and a leading provider of therapeutic support for families. Find out more about Family Futures at www.familyfutures.co.uk

Episode produced by Rosemary Watson

To find out more about Family Futures and what we do, head over to our website www.familyfutures.co.uk. 

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford 

Hana, aged 23, speaks to Alan Burnell about the reality of her life growing up as an adoptee and how she felt finding out when she was older about the trauma and abuse she experienced in her early years. Hana shares her thoughts on contact with her birth family and the impact that early life trauma has had on her. She reflects on the post adoption support she thinks is essential to help adoptees thrive both in childhood and throughout their lives.

Alan Burnell OBE is co-founder of Family Futures and an adoptee.

If you are affected by what you have heard in this episode and would like to speak to someone for support, you can contact the Family Futures helpline on 020 7354 4161 or Adoption UK's helpline: 0300 666 0006 / helpline@adoptionuk.org.uk

Please note that the views expressed in this podcast series are the views of our guest speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of Family Futures.

#FamilyFuturesPodcast aims to amplify, educate and inform. Subscribe on Spotify to listen to our series, Real Life Stories, which amplifies voices in adoption and fostering. 

Family Futures is a not for profit, independent adoption agency in London, rated Ofsted Outstanding, and a leading provider of therapeutic support for families. Find out more about Family Futures at www.familyfutures.co.uk

Episode produced by Rosemary Watson

One couple’s adoption journey. Just days before bringing their adopted son home, Matt & Jason sit down with their assessing social worker to reflect on their journey so far.

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

An introduction to Real Life Stories - An original series by Family Futures, amplifying voices in adoption and fostering. Please note that the views expressed in this podcast series are the views of our guest speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of Family Futures.

The Family Futures Podcast is created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

To find out more about Family Futures and what we do, head over to our website www.familyfutures.co.uk. 

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford 

If you want to know more about adopting, you can sign up to our information evening on the 22nd February 2024 or email us to speak to a member of our team -contact@familyfutures.co.uk

Adoption Information Evening with Family Futures Tickets, Thu 22 Feb 2024 at 18:30 | Eventbrite

To find out more about Family Futures and what we do, head over to our website www.familyfutures.co.uk. 

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford 

Understanding trauma and adversity | Resources | YoungMinds  

To find out more about Family Futures and what we do, head over to our website www.familyfutures.co.uk. 

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford 

Jan shares her experience of adoption with Sue Hughes, assessment services & permanency director. Jan was the first child Family Futures placed through iAdopt. She was matched with her adoptive mum at six years old after a previous adoption breakdown. Sue has been part of the team supporting Jan and her mum for the last 14 years.

Jan talks about her mixed feelings of loss and confusion, moving from birth family, to foster family, to adopted family, and how integral patience and support was from her mum, and for her mum.

Adoption UK’s helpline is specifically for adoptees, adopters, kinship carers and their support network. You can call them Monday to Friday, 10am to 2.30pm on 0300 666 0006. SHOUT also offers text support 7 days a week, 24/7 for anyone is who is struggling to cope. Just text SHOUT to 85258.    

#TheFFPod aims to amplify, educate and inform. Subscribe on Spotify to listen to our series, Real Life Stories, which amplifies voices in adoption and fostering. 

Family Futures is a not for profit, independent adoption and fostering agency in London, rated Ofsted Outstanding, and a leading provider of therapeutic support for families. Find out more about Family Futures at ⁠www.familyfutures.co.uk⁠

Please note that the views expressed in this podcast series are the views of our guest speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of Family Futures. Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Did you know that through Easyfundraising you can donate to Family Futures while shopping, at no extra cost? All you need to do is sign up and remember to use easyfundraising whenever you shop online or via the Easyfundraising app. Over 7,000 retailers are included and it’s completely free for you to support us in this way every time you shop! At Family Futures we are really lucky to have an amazingly committed and supportive community. We’re 100% not for profit in our provision of services for children and families; which means every penny of our surplus income is reinvested into covering our costs and providing a safe space to support children, young people and families to access therapy. Thank you for supporting the children and families we work with!

Find out how to sign up and donate here.

This very special episode of The Family Futures Podcast was recorded live at our 25th anniversary conference, Contact in Context. You will hear a few bleeps censoring names and locations. This is to protect the speakers and their families.   

The discussion is facilitated by Sue Hughes, Assessment Services & Permanency Director at Family Futures. Our expert by experience guests: Alison (adoptive parent), Daniel (Adoptee), Helen (adoptive parent), Julia (adoptee), Matt (adoptive parent) and Michelle (special guardian), reflect on their experience of contact with birth family members, respond to questions from our virtual audience and reflect on the morning's talks. 

If you missed the live event, you can purchase the workshops and talks as downloads and buy a copy of our good practice guide, a framework for contact.   

A Note on Language: With language constantly evolving, we now say ‘keeping in touch’ to better reflect the nuance of maintaining family links. Please note this video was recorded when the term ‘contact’ was more widely used and the speakers refer to 'contact' throughout the recording.

Visit www.familyfutures.co.uk/training for more information.  

*Trigger warning* this podcast contains a reference to suicidal ideation. Some of the content in this podcast may be upsetting for listeners. If you are affected by any of the topics or content discussed, please talk to someone for support.  Adoption UK’s helpline is specifically for adoptees, adopters, kinship carers and their support network. You can call them Monday to Friday, 10am to 2.30pm on 0300 666 0006. SHOUT also offers text support 7 days a week, 24/7 for anyone is who is struggling to cope. Just text SHOUT to 85258.  

In this episode Jay Vaughan MBE, discusses our upcoming conference, Contact in Context.

Why contact and why now? What can you expect to take away from the conference? Who will you be hearing from, and who should attend.

The Family Future Conference, Contact in Context is a virtual event, taking place on the 20th of October 2023. Tickets are still available via our website and we offer a discount for group bookings of 5 or more, as well as concessions on request.

For the full programme, and tickets head over to our website - Contact in Context Conference 2023 | Family Futures

Thank you for listening to this episode of the Family Futures podcast, if you enjoyed listening today subscribe and leave us a review

To find out more about Family Futures and what we do, head over to our website www.familyfutures.co.uk.

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Adrian Perks, adoptive parent and child and adolescent psychotherapist at Family Futures, discusses the importance of parent support, particularly for adoptive parents. He explains his training in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and NVR (Non-Violent Resistance), emphasizing that NVR is not about restraint but therapeutic parenting techniques.

Adrian highlights the need for early support for adoptive families and the benefits of self-care. He also mentions the practical aspects of NVR training, including de-escalation techniques and mindfulness exercises.

To register your interest in our NVR training visit our website www.familyfutures.co.uk

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

Newly matched adopters Buzz and Jenni shared their experience at our recent information evening. They talk about their decision-making process and preparation before choosing an agency to assess them (spoiler alert,it’s us) and why they chose Family Futures. We also get to hear about their experience of navigating the family finding and matching process.

If you’d like to find out more about adopting with FamilyFutures, or to learn more about adoption with a VAA (voluntary adoption agency) you can sign up to our next information evening here.

In this episode Sam discusses his recent transition from mainstream school to homeschooling and how this has helped him develop his social skills. Sam who is now 16 first came to Family Futures with his mum and dad aged 7. We are also joined by Sam's mum who shares valuable insights for both professionals and potential adoptive parents, emphasising the importance of considering older children and the unique rewards and challenges of adoption.

If you want to find out more about adoption or how to support Family Futures' work with care experienced children and young people, visit www.familyfutures.co.uk

This podcast was created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

In this episode of Pondering Pods expert consultant in special education, Paul Stanley, explains the steps involved in securing an Education, Health, and Care Plan (EHCP).  We discuss the importance of thorough assessments, and what parents can do if their child or young persons needs aren't being met. EHCPs play a vital role in supporting children and young people with special educational needs. We also discuss the challenges families face, from navigating appeals to the need for independent assessments. If you’re currently going through the EHCP process or thinking about applying for your child or young person, this episode will provide insights to help you advocate for the support your child or young person deserves. 

To find out more about our specialist assessments or our Family Futures therapy model, NPP, visit our websitewww.familyfutures.co.uk/ourapproach/assessment

EHCP signposting:

• IPSEA (Independent Provider of Special Education Advice):IPSEA Website 

• SENDIASS & Virtual School: Find your local services (example:Islington SENDIASS,Islington Virtual School) 

• SOS!SEN (Special Educational Needs Advice):SOS!SEN Website 

• SEND code of practice:explained 

Produced by Charlotte Mumford

In this episode of Self Care Sessions, you'll be guided through a special place visualisation—a simple yet powerful exercise to help you find calm and relaxation whenever you need it.

This technique, typically used in EMDR therapy, helps create a mental sanctuary where you feel safe and at peace.

Whether you're a young person managing stress or a parent/carer supporting others, this practice can be a valuable tool for self-care.

Take a deep breath, find a quiet space, and join us in this guided relaxation.

If you're interested in EMDR we offer sessions for adults and adolescents through The Family Futures Wellbeing Hub, email us for a free consultation wellbeinghub@familyfutures.co.uk

Follow and subscribe for more self-care sessions.

Created and produced by Charlotte Mumford

ASGSF funding cuts – sign the petition and join the march 

Sign the petition to reverse ASGSF funding cuts here: Petition · Action Against ASGSF Changes (Adoption and Special Guardianship Support Fund) – United Kingdom · Change.org. 

The Adoption and Special Guardianship Support Fund provides vital therapy for traumatised children and has been drastically cut this month, leaving many vulnerable children and their families struggling and in crisis. 

Clare, a parent whose daughters come to Family Futures for therapy, has set up a protest march and petition against the funding cuts to highlight the impact this is having on vulnerable children across England. Please share and help spread the word. 

The protest march will take place on 3rd May at 1pm. 

⁠You can find more information and news at www.familyfutures.co.uk⁠

Find out more about the 3rd May peaceful march here 

Write to your MP 

Listen to the ASGSF discussion on BBC 5 Live Nicky Campbell show, 17 April 2025 10-11am 

In this special Q&A episode, recorded at one of our adoption information evenings, approved adopters Alex and James share their story - from assessment and matching to parenting a child with additional needs.

Interviewed by their assessing social worker Phil Kane, and joined by fellow Family Futures social worker and parent through adoption Caz, they reflect on the impact of therapeutic support, the realities of family finding, and the role of a support network – including what a network meeting really involves.

We host these events regularly for anyone exploring adoption, details of our next information evening can be found on our website.

Sign up here

Learn more at ⁠www.familyfutures.co.uk

00:00 – Intro & What to ExpectAn overview of this Q&A session from a Family Futures Information Evening with adopters Alex and James, hosted by Phil Kane, with insights from social worker Caz.

01:03 – Family Finding TimelineAlex shares how they were approved in January, found their son quickly, but waited several months before introductions began.

01:47 – Choosing Family Futures & the Assessment ExperienceWhy Alex and James chose Family Futures over their local authority and what stood out in the therapeutic, creative assessment process.

07:14 – Support Through Family FindingFrom connecting with fellow adopters to managing frustrations and emotional highs and lows during matching.

10:00 – Expectations vs. Reality in Family FindingAlex reflects on viewing 125–150 profiles, the types of children available, and how they shifted from expecting to adopt a 2-year-old to adopting a 7-year-old.

13:02 – Feeling Supported & Staying GroundedThe importance of honest conversations, managing hopes, and having realistic expectations during family finding.

14:17 – Meeting the Birth FamilyAlex recounts the powerful, emotional, and ultimately rewarding experience of meeting their son's birth family — and why it mattered for their son’s identity.

19:00 – Therapeutic Support After PlacementComparing support from Family Futures with that of local authorities, and why therapeutic parenting has been a transformative experience.

23:35 – Reflections from Caz (Social Worker & Adoptive Parent)Caz shares her perspective on the contrast in support between agencies and the value of therapeutic care.

24:06 – Building Trust & The Role of Social WorkersWhy the relationships with social workers and therapists mattered deeply to Alex and James, and how they came to trust the Family Futures team.

27:30 – Volunteering Before AdoptionAlex describes their experience finding local volunteering opportunities and why it turned out to be unexpectedly rewarding.

30:15 – How Support Networks Can ShiftWhy the people you expect to lean on might change — and how adoption-related connections became their strongest source of support.

An evidenced based therapy model, NPP.

In this episode, Dr. Elaine McCullough, Clinical Psychologist explores the thinking behind the Neuro Physiological Psychotherapy (NPP) model and the published research that supports it. Dr. McCullough unpacks the physical and emotional effects of developmental trauma, the role of co-regulation in healing, and how the NPP model helps children build safety, connection, and long-term resilience. Dr. McCullough also shares key findings from research into the model’s effectiveness, including outcomes for children with prenatal alcohol exposure (PAE) and neurodevelopmental needs.

Explore the research at www.familyfutures.co.uk/research-findings

Timestamp Topic Guide

0:00 – Introduction to the episode and Dr. Elaine McCullough
2:12 – What is the NPP model? Overview of how it works
4:49 – The nervous system and Polyvagal Theory explained
7:37 – Cues of safety, sensory work, and parent-child co-regulation
10:38 – Why you can’t start with talking therapy
13:51 – How safety builds new neural pathways and emotional memory
16:50 – How staff use the model across all therapeutic disciplines
18:46 – What “neurosequential but not linear” means in practice
19:44 – Why the research began: early outcomes and evidence
22:47 – What “the full model” includes
24:57 – Key findings: behavioural and educational outcomes
28:53 – The statistics: relationships, medication, school access
32:21 – What stands out from the research?
34:33 – Why don’t we invest earlier? A call for cost-benefit analysis
37:02 – Prenatal alcohol exposure: new findings from the most recent research
41:39 – The NPP model and FASD: what the data shows
44:23 – Neurodiversity, ADHD, and overlapping presentations
48:52 – What’s next: pathways, plasticity, and brain repair
54:19 – Physical damage from trauma and signs of neurological recovery

In this episode, Jay Vaughan MBE, CEO of Family Futures, and trainer explores why NPP works, the powerful research outcomes behind it, and how professionals across disciplines can apply this neuro-sequential approach in their own practice.

If you’re a social worker, therapist, teacher, professional supporting children and families or parent this episode is for you.

Book your place today.

You can find the the Family Futures research findings here.

The 2023 research referenced in the discussion [Family‑based psychological interventions for domestically adoptive families: a systematic review]

The POTATO group (parents of traumatised adopted teens organisation) research.

Timestamp topic guide

00:35 – Jay’s role at Family Futures
Jay shares her background, passion for therapy, and ongoing work with children and families.

02:02 – The Family Futures journey
Reflection on 28 years of practice and over 30 years working with children from the care system.

02:32 – What is NPP?
Jay explains Neuro-Physiological Psychotherapy (NPP) – working with brain and body, neuro-sequential thinking, and supporting regulation, relationships, and reflective thinking.

03:36 – The evidence base
Overview of research since 2016, including the 2019 published study, positive outcomes, and comparison studies highlighting the risks of no intervention.

06:04 – Disseminating the model
Why Family Futures wants to share NPP beyond Family Futures and how it can be applied more widely.

07:16 – NPP as a framework, not just a therapy
Exploring how professionals from a wide range of disciplines can use NPP thinking in their work.

10:18 – Application across contexts
How different professionals (teachers, OTs, social workers, psychotherapists) can apply NPP strategies in practice.

11:30 – Training and assessments
Level 1 outcomes: becoming NPP-informed and able to contribute to multidisciplinary assessments.

11:53 – Collaboration opportunities
Family Futures’ plans to support lone providers and organisations with shared assessments and frameworks.

15:31 – Level 2 training
A deeper dive into complex cases, child-on-parent violence, parenting assessments, and live supervision.

16:35 – What makes NPP unique?
Discussion of multimodal, integrated approaches and why NPP is different from other interventions.

18:57 – Demand and recognition
How NPP is being recognised (including in EHCPs), and the importance of clearer communication about the model.

22:20 – The neuro-sequential approach
Why regulation is foundational for learning and functioning – and how trauma complicates this process.

23:22 – The wider societal cost
The impact of unsupported trauma on society, including links to education, prison, and mental health.

26:00 – A framework that works
Celebrating that NPP is not guesswork, but a model proven by research and outcomes.

In this episode  Angela Palacios (Senior Educational Psychotherapist and Neurodiversity-Affirming Practitioner) talks about how educational psychotherapy, executive function coaching, and support for emotionally based school avoidance can help children and families. She explains and explores neuro-affirming practice shifts the focus from “fixing” individuals to creating supportive environments, and how strengths-based approaches can empower neurodiverse children and young people.

To find out more about The Wellbeing Hub visit our website familyfutures.co.uk/wellbeing-hub

Timestamped Guide

00:01 – Introduction
Charlotte introduces Angela Palacios and the three areas of support offered through the Wellbeing Hub.

00:40 – Angela’s Story
Angela shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with ADHD at 43 and how her experience informs her practice.

03:43 – What is Executive Function Coaching?
Exploring executive functions, daily tasks, and how coaching sessions support children, young people, and adults.

06:40 – Practical Examples of Executive Function Coaching
Breaking routines into steps, building strategies, and managing the stress of everyday tasks.

09:20 – Understanding Emotionally Based School Avoidance (EBSA)
Why children refuse school, the role of anxiety, and how to identify underlying causes.

11:39 – Educational Psychotherapy in Practice
How sessions explore learning-linked anxiety, and the difference between therapy and tutoring.

14:10 – The Emotional Roots of School Stress
How shame, avoidance, and learning struggles intersect in the classroom.

16:28 – The Wider Impact of Learning Difficulties
How one subject challenge can affect a child’s whole school day, friendships, and self-esteem.

19:24 – Family and Home Pressures
The role of parental expectations, lack of emotional support, and performance pressure.

22:51 – High-Achieving but Struggling
When children achieve academically but hide high levels of stress and anxiety.

23:51 – The Performance of Schooling
Sets, grades, and the impact of categorisation on self-esteem and identity.

27:23 – Home vs School: Why Context Matters
Why children may thrive at home but struggle in school, and the importance of listening to parents.

28:13 – What Does “Neuro-Affirming” Mean?
Angela explains neuro-affirming practice and how it shifts focus away from fixing the individual.

33:03 – Strengths-Based Approaches in Coaching
Using creativity, strengths, and consistency to build habits and improve executive function.

34:22 – Building Lasting Habits
Why consistency and parental support are key in making strategies stick.

This episode is for any listeners thinking about adoption. iAdopt team leader, Phil answers your most frequently asked questions. You can find a time stamped guide to the episode below.

If you’d like to find out more about adopting with iAdopt, get in touch via our website to arrange a call with a member of our team. 

www.familyfutures.co.uk/adoption

00:49 – Meet Phil Kane
Phil shares his background and 20+ years of experience in children’s social care.

01:48 – First Steps in the Adoption Process
How to get in touch, what happens on an initial call, and the purpose of an initial consultation.

06:07 – Voluntary Adoption Agency (VAA) vs Regional Adoption Agency (RAA)
Key differences, how family finding works, and why someone might choose a VAA.

12:32 – Why Choose Family Futures?
Our personal, therapeutic, and creative approach to adoption assessment.

15:13 – Assessment Process Explained
Stage One & Stage Two, therapeutic tools used, and how adopters are supported.

20:42 – Children’s Needs
What prospective adopters should expect and how to prepare.

24:57 – Contact with Birth Family
What contact can look like, why it matters for children’s identity, and how it is managed safely.

27:54 – What Children Need Most
Predictability, routine, love, and being listened to - plus Phil’s professional reflections.

30:11 – Advice for Prospective Adopters
Practical tips: start conversations, do your research, voluntary work, keep a log, and explore different agencies.

33:52 – Outro
How to get in touch with Family Futures for more information.

What is EMDR? Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a powerful therapeutic tool designed to help the brain process traumatic memories. Unlike traditional talking therapy, it uses bilateral stimulation (typically this is guided eye movements) to reduce the emotional charge of distressing experiences, allowing the mind to heal.

In this episode, we explore what an EMDR session looks like, how quickly you might see results and who could benefit most from this approach.

Listen to the special place visualisation here.

We currently offer EMDR through our Wellbeing Hub. If you’re curious about how EMDR could support you or a family member, our team is here to help.

Call us on 0202 7354 4161 or email us wellbeinghub@familyfutures.co.uk

www.familyfutures.co.uk/wellbeing-hub

We believe in providing therapeutic support from the start. When a child first moves in with their adoptive family support is key to their future stability and wellbeing. Thanks to a generous donor, we are now able to offer guaranteed support to all our iAdopt families in their first year while longer term funding is set up.

In this episode Family Futures co founder, CEO and therapist Jay Vaughan, alongside, iAdopt team leader and social worker Phil Kane, discuss the importance of early support and what that looks like at Family Futures.

If you’d like to know more about becoming a parent through our iAdopt service or you have any questions about adoption, you can contact us via email, phone or our website to arrange a one to one call with a member of our team.

www.familyfutures.co.uk

iAdopt@familyfutures.co.uk

020 7354 4161