Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast The Expat Therapist: Navigating Mental Health and Dreams Abroad
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| 069 Why You’re Stuck Abroad (And It’s Not Because You’re Doing It Wrong) | 15 Dec 2025 | 00:25:05 | |
Feeling stuck, lonely, or frustrated in your expat journey? It’s not you—it’s your support system. In this episode, I dive into one of the most overlooked challenges of living abroad: expecting your old friends, family, or familiar networks to meet your new emotional needs. Learn why your nervous system thrives on shared experiences, how co-regulation and feeling understood play a vital role in mental health, and why connecting with like-minded expats or supportive communities is non-negotiable for thriving abroad. I share actionable tips on finding emotional resonance, creating safe spaces, and understanding that wanting new support doesn’t mean abandoning your loved ones back home—it means expanding your village. Whether you’re preparing for your move or already navigating life abroad, this episode will help you reframe your struggles, stop feeling isolated, and finally embrace the kind of community that empowers your growth. 💡 Key Takeaways:
🚀 If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start thriving abroad, this episode is your guide to understanding the emotional ecosystem you need. ✨ Follow me on TikTok and Insta (Comment/DM and tell me what you would like to hear more of!) | |||
| 067 My Bittersweet Birthday 🎃 | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:25:36 | |
This year’s birthday was unlike any other — not because of where I was or what I did, but because I finally let myself be celebrated. For the first time, I didn’t avoid it or minimize it… I allowed myself to really experience it. And in doing so, I noticed something powerful: when you start celebrating and honoring yourself, others learn to celebrate and honor you too. But life lifed, and it had other plans woven into my day. My husband’s grandmother passed away — on my exact birthday. It was a profound reminder of how joy and grief often exist side by side, especially when you’re living abroad and far from home. In this episode, I’m opening up about: If you’ve ever struggled to celebrate yourself… or felt the weight of grief while trying to move forward in a new chapter, this one’s for you. Because healing abroad isn’t just about adapting to your destination country — it’s about learning to hold ALL of who you are, joy and pain included. ✨ Follow me on TikTok and Insta (Comment/DM and tell me what you would like to hear more of!) | |||
| 058 - Aligning Abroad: Energy, Intuition & Raising Global Kids with Illanith | 10 Mar 2025 | 00:51:07 | |
Moving abroad isn’t just a physical journey—it’s an energetic one. In this episode, I sit down with my energy therapist, a fellow expat balancing back and forth from Canada to a variety of other countries, but nowadays, Valencia, to dive deep into the unseen layers of life abroad. We explore how tuning into your energy can guide major life transitions, how to trust yourself when everything feels uncertain, and what it means to raise children across multiple cultures. In the episode, we touch on: If you’ve ever felt like moving abroad has shifted something deeper within you, or if you’re navigating expat life while raising kids, this conversation is for you. 🎧 Tune in now and explore how aligning your energy can transform your journey abroad! If you're looking to work with Illanith on a spiritual journey, I promise you, it will be one of the best things you could ever do for yourself. Find her on her website here or on instagram here! (www.illanith.com and @illanith_benjamin_) ✨ Follow me on TikTok and Insta (Comment/DM and tell me what you would like to hear more of!) | |||
| 057 Holistic Well-Being with Christie | 03 Mar 2025 | 00:46:48 | |
What’s it like to build a life across multiple countries—navigating new cultures, languages, and identities along the way? In this episode, I sit down with Christie, an expat from Brazil now living in Germany, who has spent years moving across the world, from high school in the U.S. to studying and working in various countries. We dive into: You can find Christie on Instagram here! (@healthy_expat) 💡 If you’re looking for inspiration, guidance, and real talk about what it takes to build a fulfilling life abroad—this episode is for you! ✨ Follow me on TikTok and Insta (Comment/DM and tell me what you would like to hear more of!) | |||
| 056 What if Moving Abroad is a Mistake? | 24 Feb 2025 | 00:23:52 | |
You’ve been dreaming about moving abroad, or maybe you're already there! But there’s one nagging thought that won’t leave you alone… What if I regret it? Fear of making/having made the wrong decision keeps so many of us stuck in place, choosing the comfort of the familiar over the unknown. But here’s the truth—regret often comes from not taking the leap, not from trying and learning along the way. In this episode, we’re breaking down: 💡 If fear is holding you back, this episode is your permission slip to move forward with confidence! 🚀 Want extra support navigating the mental side of this journey? The Move Abroad Mindset program gives you the tools to overcome fear, build confidence, and create a move you won’t regret. Apply below! ✨ Apply for the Moving Abroad Mastermind here | |||
| 055 Shifting Your Financial Mindset for Life Abroad | 17 Feb 2025 | 00:39:49 | |
Alright, this episode gets a little woo-woo—but hear me out. I’ve seen people with plenty of money stay stuck because their limiting beliefs kept them trapped in fear. And I’ve seen people (myself included) take the leap abroad with very little in the bank—but with the right mindset—and thrive. So, what’s really stopping you from making your move? Is it the actual money, or is it the story you’ve been telling yourself about money? In this episode, we go beyond budgeting and spreadsheets (although those are helpful too!) and dive deep into: ✨ Where your financial fears come from—family, culture, and society Money is one of the biggest excuses people use to delay their dreams. But what if it’s not really about money at all? What if moving abroad is less about your bank account and more about your beliefs, trust, and alignment? 💬 Loved this episode? Let me know! Leave a review or share your biggest takeaway on IG @theexpattherapist ✨ Apply for the Moving Abroad Mastermind here | |||
| 054 When Your Support System, Doesn't Support Your Move | 10 Feb 2025 | 00:28:44 | |
You’ve decided to move abroad—but instead of support, you’re met with doubt, criticism, and endless “Are you sure?” questions. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re diving deep into why we crave validation from loved ones, how to hold space for their concerns without letting them dictate your decisions, and the key to transforming criticism into wisdom that fuels your journey instead of holding you back. Whether you’re facing resistance from family or struggling with self-doubt, this conversation will help you set boundaries, protect your energy, and move forward on your terms. 💬 Loved this episode? Let me know! Leave a review or share your biggest takeaway on IG @theexpattherapist ✨ Apply for the Moving Abroad Mastermind here | |||
| 053 Healing Abroad – How Moving Can Help Your Personal Growth Journey | 03 Feb 2025 | 00:28:39 | |
In this episode, we explore how moving abroad can be a powerful tool for healing, self-discovery, and personal growth. From breaking free of old patterns to creating a life that aligns with your true self, we’ll discuss: ✨ How a new environment can shift your mindset and emotional well-being If you're craving a fresh start—physically, mentally, or spiritually—this episode will give you the insight and encouragement you need. Tune in and discover how your move abroad could be the key to unlocking the next chapter of your personal evolution. ✨ Apply for the Moving Abroad Mastermind here | |||
| 052 Stay Aligned with Your Authenticity | 27 Jan 2025 | 00:26:10 | |
Moving abroad is an adventure that promises excitement, growth, and new beginnings. But in the process of adjusting to a new culture, making new friends, and starting fresh, it’s easy to feel like you’re losing touch with the core of who you are. In this episode, we’ll dive into how to stay rooted in your identity while embracing the expat experience. You’ll discover practical strategies to hold onto the values, habits, and passions that make you you—while still allowing room for growth and transformation. ✨ Apply for the Moving Abroad Mastermind here | |||
| 051 Overcoming the Fear of the Unknown | 13 Jan 2025 | 00:28:25 | |
The fear of the unknown can either be the best thing that happens to you, or the worst. The positive is, you get to choose which one! In today's episode, I am normalizing the fear of the unknown and giving you actionable steps to overcome it so that you can move forward and continue making your dreams turn into a reality. It would be such a shame to let something so common, stop you in your tracks of accomplishing something so life-changing and potentially being the best thing that couuld ever happen to you! | |||
| 050 New Year Abroad Vision (Boards) | 30 Dec 2024 | 00:26:45 | |
It's almost the New Year! Whether you are already thriving in your move abroad or still in the planning stages of making it happen, this vision board episode will change your life, leaving you with a clear game plan of how to move forward and accomplish everything you need in to make your 2025 dreams come true! | |||
| 049 Silent Struggles of an Expat Holliday | 23 Dec 2024 | 00:25:21 | |
🎉🎉🎁🎄🎅🎎🪔 HAPPY HOLIDAYS! Though, this is usually a joyous season...as an expat or a potential expat, this year might feel a little different. Or reversed! Maybe the holiday seasons are usually crappy for ya but since you decided to move abroad, there's finally a little more excitement! Either way, the holiday seasons bring up a plethora of different feelings and emotions and I want you to feel as validated as possible in knowing, 1. you are not a lone and 2. these are all manageable! With some actionable steps on how to create your own traditions this holiday season, this episode is especially for those already maybe feeling the Holiday Blues 🩵💙. | |||
| 066 Mental Health Guide to Thriving and Surviving | 29 Sep 2025 | 00:28:02 | |
Moving abroad is one of the most exciting and life-changing decisions you can make—but let’s be real, it’s not all sunsets and sightseeing. As both a therapist and an expat, I’ve lived through the messy middle of culture shock, identity shifts, and the emotional toll of starting over in a new country. In this episode, I’m sharing the five things I wish I knew before leaving the states—you’ll walk away with tools and truths to carry with you into your expat journey. If you’re dreaming of moving abroad, already in the thick of it, or just trying to figure out why it feels so much harder than you imagined, this episode is for you. ✨ Follow me on TikTok and Insta (Comment/DM and tell me what you would like to hear more of!) | |||
| 048 Finding Your Magic Holiday Season Abroad | 16 Dec 2024 | 00:23:49 | |
This episode we are talking to all of you expats and potential expats, who are out there navigating the emotional weight of homesickness and holiday worries and encouraging you to turn inward, find spiritual connection, and transform your feelings of longing into opportunities for growth and meaningful connection during this holiday season! | |||
| 047 Creating New Traditions as an Expat | 09 Dec 2024 | 00:26:04 | |
It's the Holiday SEASSSOONNNN.🎁🎄🎅🎎🪔Which comes with so much fun and joy but also missing out on our familiar traditions in our OG homes! So in today's episode we are talking about how to inspire and empower expats to make the holiday season meaningful by blending personal traditions with local customs, creating a unique and fulfilling festive experience. | |||
| 046 How Intuition and Fear Can Help You in Your Expat Journey | 02 Dec 2024 | 00:31:43 | |
In today's episode we are talking about how to learn and trust yourself and your intuition, understanding and using fear to become a motivator in your move abroad, and of course some helpful tips on how to do these things successfully and WHY they are so important to having a successful move abroad/expat journey. | |||
| 045 Why Moving Abroad Tests Your Mental Strength | 25 Nov 2024 | 00:28:46 | |
Maybe you want to move abroad (or already have moved!) for new opportunities, or work, or cultural exposure, or....BEAUTIFUL MEN. Whatever the reason, the illusion only lasts so long. Here is where the mental strength has to come in, you have to find ways to continue to thrive in order to experience your moving abroad journey in all its beauty. That's we discuss along with some practical tips to gain mental strength, no matter where you are in your expat journey ✨ | |||
| 044 Moving Abroad FAQ's | 18 Nov 2024 | 00:33:40 | |
Today's episode is full of FAQ's that the average person has before making a move abroad! | |||
| 043 After the Election: Moving Abroad | 11 Nov 2024 | 00:28:13 | |
I don't know about you, but if I were still living in the states....right about now I might be anticipating a move abroad more than ever. Unfortunately, there's a lot of Americans out there feeling the same...this episode is for you! How to connect with moving for life re-alignment purposes, mental health strategies for dealing with political stress and anxiety, and of course some tips on planning the move in the most effective way possible. | |||
| 042 Burnout from Planning a Move Abroad | 04 Nov 2024 | 00:28:59 | |
1. Recognize that you are burnt out. | |||
| 041 Bouncing Back from Burnout | 31 Oct 2024 | 00:36:00 | |
Experiencing burnout as an expat? Been there, done that. | |||
| 040 Missing the Big Moments | 05 Aug 2024 | 00:24:42 | |
Are you a current expat dealing with missing out of some big moments from home? Or maybe you are anticipating a move abroad and FOMO is one of the reasons holding you back from conquering your international move. Either way, this episode is for you. Find out how to deal emotionally and mentally when life life's and you find yourself missing out on a big moment from home. | |||
| 039 Expats on the Road | 08 Jul 2024 | 00:59:44 | |
Is it just me or are road trip talks usually the best conversations ever? If you find yourself feeling distressed or triggered by any part of this discussion, we strongly encourage you to seek professional help. It's important not to deal with these feelings on your own. You can reach out to a mental health professional, a trusted friend or family member, or contact one any available support services. To work with Ariel: | |||
| 065 Permission to Rest | 15 Sep 2025 | 00:10:47 | |
After two months away, I’m back behind the mic — and this episode is all about permission to be tired. As expats, we carry so much: the stress of navigating a new culture, the loneliness of building life from scratch, the weight of leaving behind family and familiarity. And yet, so often we guilt ourselves for needing rest. In this episode, I share why I stepped away from the podcast, what living in Spain has taught me about slowing down, and how giving myself permission to rest didn’t set me back — it actually brought me clarity and energy. If you’ve been feeling worn down, stretched thin, or guilty for not “doing enough” in your expat life, this conversation is for you. You’ll walk away with the reminder that rest is not weakness — it’s wisdom. Because sometimes the bravest thing we can do as expats isn’t to push harder… it’s to pause. ✨ Follow me on TikTok and Insta (Comment/DM and tell me what you would like to hear more of!) | |||
| 038 Maintaining Distanced Friendships/Relationships | 01 Jul 2024 | 00:20:27 | |
Does the thought of not having your support system when you move abroad give you anxiety? | |||
| 037 Mindset is Key | 10 Jun 2024 | 00:46:14 | |
From Slovenia to Miami, Florida, today's guest speaker shares her insights and journeys from traveling all over the world and landing her dream life in Miami, Florida where she has learned the secret to happiness and success....mindset :) | |||
| 036 What do I need self-esteem for? | 03 Jun 2024 | 00:17:32 | |
My self-esteem journey has been up and down and up and down and now that I am back on the up up up, I am realizing how important it is as an expat! | |||
| 035 From Seattle to LA to Barcelona | 27 May 2024 | 01:03:11 | |
Today's guest shares all about her journey from the West Coast of the US to Barcelona and how she spoke into existence her move from simply following her intuition. | |||
| 034 The 3 P's | 20 May 2024 | 00:17:37 | |
What are the 3 P's and why are they vital for your move abroad or if you just want to learn to cultivate resiliency in your life?! | |||
| 033 Expat Insurance with Amy Pacitti | 13 May 2024 | 00:52:11 | |
This is one of those episodes where we introduce a tedious detail of moving abroad that can help you be even more prepared. Help cut out some of the extra hard work for ya. | |||
| 032 My Manifestations Came to Life and I Freaked Out | 29 Apr 2024 | 00:27:02 | |
So...what happens when you start manifesting things that come to fruition and all of a sudden you feel like you're actually not ready and the uncertainty starts to freak ya out?! | |||
| 031 How to Get Out of A Negative Spiral | 15 Apr 2024 | 00:19:04 | |
Have you ever been stuck in a negative thought spiral? Story of my life the last week. BUT, I want to give you all the methods to get out of yours so you don't stay in it as long as I did. You're welcome. 🤗 | |||
| 030 Want to Make the Universe Laugh? | 01 Apr 2024 | 00:17:08 | |
In today's episode, we talk about trust falls. Yup, you remember back in the day, turning around, closing your eyes, falling back, and trusting with all your might that your friend wouldn't let you hit the ground. Trust falling is basically what you do throughout an entire move abroad - or in just life. And more importantly, when connecting with manifestations and attracting what you want into your life, you've got to trust fall, or you risk the chance of it not coming true! | |||
| 029 If It's Not a Hell Yes, It's a Hell No. | 25 Mar 2024 | 00:56:28 | |
Today's episode we are talking with the queen of mindset change, attracting positive energy, and financial freedom through subconscious reprogramming, Marley Rose Harris!! | |||
| 064 Holding Space for the Heaviness: Immigration, Injustice & the Emotional Toll | 16 Jun 2025 | 00:26:23 | |
As a therapist, expat, and human being, I'm sharing my reflections on the emotional toll of watching loved ones and communities suffer under unjust systems—particularly communities of color, immigrants, and refugees who have long called the U.S. home. You’ll hear:
This episode is a gentle hand on your shoulder and a reminder: it’s okay to feel heavy. You’re not alone in this. 🧠 Therapeutic takeaways + emotional tools included. 🔗 Resources Mentioned:
✨ If this episode spoke to your soul, share it with a friend who needs it and tag me @theexpattherapist. Your story isn’t over just because you crossed a border—it’s just beginning. | |||
| 028 My Energy Journey | 19 Mar 2024 | 00:38:13 | |
Today's episode is a little different. | |||
| 027 My Butterfly Tattoo | 11 Mar 2024 | 00:20:03 | |
Want to know the meaning behind my 10th tattoo? 🦋🦋 | |||
| 026 Yearbook Manifestations to Reality ✨ | 04 Mar 2024 | 00:58:09 | |
Getting my yearbook signed is such a nostalgic memory. | |||
| 025 Can't Fix What You Don't Know Is Broken | 26 Feb 2024 | 00:20:25 | |
As humans, we like factual evidence to help us with our decision-making. This is why following our intuition can be so complicated! Because we just have to trust it. | |||
| 024 If Life's Gonna Life, I'd Rather be by the Ocean | 19 Feb 2024 | 00:43:05 | |
Feminine and Fit has relocated from Atlanta, GA to Panama City! | |||
| 023 I Totally Manifested my Move to Spain | 12 Feb 2024 | 00:18:54 | |
Hear all about my, in retrospect, 3-step manifestation process on my move to Spain. | |||
| 022 Fulbright Scholar to Tenure Teaching | 05 Feb 2024 | 00:42:40 | |
In today's episode, we are speaking with Christiane Schroeter, an expat from Germany now residing in California. | |||
| 021 Expat Mindset Check | 29 Jan 2024 | 00:22:57 | |
Today we are doing an Expat Mindset Check.
Prompts to Create a Growth Mindset:
If you, or someone you know, is anticipating a move abroad - this podcast is just what you/they need! 🛫 | |||
| 020 Led to Thailand by Ifá | 22 Jan 2024 | 00:47:23 | |
Being spiritually led can be quite an obstacle.. Especially if you're going off the sheer push of simply going somewhere that is native to monkeys🐒 and peacocks 🦚 | |||
| Embrace Your 2024 Year Abroad | 15 Jan 2024 | 00:15:14 | |
Welcome back!! Season 2 is going to be better than ever. | |||
| 063 You Made It Abroad..So Why Does It Still Feel So Hard? | 19 May 2025 | 00:22:38 | |
You did the thing. You moved abroad. You chased the dream, made it happen… and now you’re sitting in your beautiful new destination country wondering: Why does this still feel hard? In today’s episode, I talk about the emotional whiplash that often comes after finally getting what you worked so hard for—especially when that "thing" is moving abroad. Whether you’re still dreaming of leaving your OG country, or you’re already settled in your destination country and feeling more homesick or confused than you expected… this episode is for you. We dive into:
I share my personal reflections and offer insight on what it really takes to emotionally integrate a move abroad. Spoiler: it’s not about pretending everything’s perfect. It’s about learning to feel it all and still keep moving forward. Whether you’re dreaming of leaving or already deep into your expat chapter—this one will hit home. 🔗 Resources Mentioned:
✨ If this episode spoke to your soul, share it with a friend who needs it and tag me @theexpattherapist. Your story isn’t over just because you crossed a border—it’s just beginning. | |||
| 018 Turkey Day Special - Navigating Expat Holiday Blues | 23 Nov 2023 | 00:16:26 | |
Did ya miss me?! Well, sorry to break it to you that I am not quite FULLY back on the podcast bandwagon - although I have been putting in the work to make season 2 really awesome - right now I am just popping back in to bring some holiday joy to those expats out there feeling the holiday blues. | |||
| 017 The Expat Blueprint | 09 Oct 2023 | 00:11:11 | |
Today's episode will be Season 1's Season Finale and we are wrapping it up with all the information you need to know about The Expat Blueprint, which is a navigating workshop for those wanderlusters out there who are craving to make a move abroad! If you, or someone you know, is contemplating or in the process of making a move abroad, then this is the episode for you. Tune in to find out how to register for the event that will provide YOU with your passport to living your best life abroad. | |||
| 016 Heartbreaker, Dream Maker, RISK TAKER! | 02 Oct 2023 | 00:16:22 | |
When was the last time YOU took a calculated risk? | |||
| 015 Permanent Residency | 25 Sep 2023 | 00:17:53 | |
The hiatus is over! Host, Ariel Roberts is back home in Spain and has some big news to share with you. Tune in to hear all about it and also how you can use her experience to help you plan your move abroad or find some permanency in your already executed move abroad, she gives her number 1 tip of advice when it comes to documentation and moving abroad in today's episode. Hope you enjoy :) | |||