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	Family Law Myths: Don't Fall for These 5 During Separation	19 Nov 2025	00:43:35
Listen to this episode if… You're in the middle of a separation and unsure what advice to follow Friends, family, or Facebook have told you "what to do" You've heard you can't leave the house without losing everything You feel pressured not to bring up domestic violence You're confused about disclosure, super splitting, or property rights 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. This discussion is based in Australia. ALSO TRIGGER WARNING Discussions of Family Violence Have you been told that if you leave the house, you lose everything? Or that you shouldn't mention domestic violence in family court? These are just a few examples of the harmful myths in Australia we hear all too often in separation and divorce. In this episode, Laura & Lyn expose some of the worst legal advice circulating in family law and explain why it can derail your case, delay your outcome, or damage your safety and rights. They break down five of the most common (and dangerous) misconceptions, share what the law really says, and help you feel more confident about asking the right questions of your lawyer and making informed decisions. ⏱️ Episode Timeline: Episode 221 Family Law Myths Don't Fall for These 5 During Separation 00:00 – Introduction: Debunking Common Family Law Myths Why bad legal advice is everywhere—and how it can derail your case. 01:42 – The Real Impact of Misinformation in Separation and Divorce What happens when you follow outdated or incorrect legal advice. 05:37 – Myth #1: "If You Leave the House, You Lose Your Property Rights" Why leaving the family home doesn't mean forfeiting your share. 12:48 – Myth #2: "You Must Have Every Document Before You Can Settle" The truth about financial disclosure and realistic expectations. 19:40 – Myth #3: "Don't Mention Domestic Violence in Court" How this dangerous myth puts safety and outcomes at risk. 24:19 – Understanding Family Violence and Property Entitlements How abuse can affect how assets are divided. 25:19 – Should You Mention Domestic Violence in Family Court? Legal perspectives on disclosure and protection. 25:50 – Spousal Maintenance: Know When and How to Ask Why it's often overlooked—and how to advocate for yourself. 26:43 – Myth Busting: Are Addbacks Still Used in Property Settlements? Clarifying a misunderstood financial concept in family law. 28:57 – Myth #5: "Superannuation Must Be Split 50/50" Exploring how super splitting really works under Australian law. 32:16 – How to Educate Yourself and Work Better with Your Lawyer Tips for being informed, assertive, and legally empowered. 35:32 – Final Thoughts and How to Enrol in the Divorce Course Practical next steps and how to get more support. 41:53 – Listener Reviews and Community Shoutouts Sharing your feedback and how to get involved. Resources Central Practice Directions https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/pd/fam-cpd Free Disclosure Checklist https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist Episode Links Superannuation and Equalising super https://youtu.be/2BQEHmIwjio?si=kWg9F8c8rh4X8HqB 🚨 Support Services: 1800 RESPECT (Family Violence Support – Australia) Lifeline: 13 11 14 (Crisis Support – Australia) 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. 📲 Don't forget to follow, rate & review the podcast if you found this episode helpful. Share it with someone who might need it too!
	Child Inclusive Mediation: Risks, Realities, and Red Flags	12 Nov 2025	00:38:13
Listen to this episode if... You've been offered child inclusive mediation and don't know what to expect You're worried about how separation is affecting your child You're in a high-conflict co-parenting situation or dealing with coercive control You've been told that involving your child in mediation will "help" You want to make informed, child-centered decisions in your family law journey 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. This discussion is based in Australia. In this powerful episode, Mum and I dive into a topic that's being promoted more and more in family law: Child Inclusive Mediation. On the surface, it sounds like a child-focused solution. But is it really in the best interest of your child? We break down what child inclusive mediation actually involves, why it's not always as neutral or helpful as it's made out to be, and the serious emotional and legal implications it can have especially in high-conflict separations or situations involving coercive control. From personal reflections to legal insights, we share why we're concerned about this process and what you need to consider before agreeing to include your child in any mediation setting. What You'll Learn What child inclusive mediation really means in practice The difference between therapeutic support vs. pressure on children to speak up When this process might backfire emotionally or legally Why family reports may be a safer and more protective alternative Red flags and questions to ask before you say yes ⏱️ Episode Timeline: Is Child Inclusive Mediation Helpful or Harmful? 00:00 – Introduction: What Is Child Inclusive Mediation? An overview of this growing mediation trend in family law and why it's controversial. 01:29 – How the Mediation Process Works in Parenting Disputes Understanding how mediation fits into separation and custody discussions. 03:44 – Defining Child Inclusive Mediation in Australian Family Law Breaking down what actually happens when children are included in mediation. 05:52 – The Risks and Red Flags of Child Inclusive Mediation Emotional pressure, manipulation, and when this process may do more harm than good. 08:00 – Confidentiality Issues and the Emotional Toll on Children What children are told, how their information is used, and the psychological impact. 13:42 – The Problem with Over-Interviewing Children in Family Law Why repeated interviews can traumatize kids and undermine the process. 20:00 – Real Concerns About Child Inclusive Mediation in Practice Legal and ethical questions raised by lawyers, parents, and professionals. 21:07 – How Child Inclusive Mediation Affects Older Children Teen-specific concerns, autonomy, and the danger of putting kids in the middle. 23:42 – Family Reports vs. Child Inclusive Mediation A safer alternative? What to expect from a court-ordered family report. 24:41 – DIY Divorce Blueprint: Free Resource Mentioned How to get practical tools to guide you through separation and co-parenting. 28:27 – Key Questions to Ask Before Agreeing to Child Inclusive Mediation What to consider if this process has been suggested to you. 32:49 – Final Thoughts: Protecting Your Child's Voice and Mental Health Wrapping up with a parent-first, child-protective perspective. Resources Central Practice Directions https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/pd/fam-cpd Free Disclosure Checklist https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist 🚨 Support Services: 1800 RESPECT (Family Violence Support – Australia) Lifeline: 13 11 14 (Crisis Support – Australia) 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. 📲 Don't forget to follow, rate & review the podcast if you found this episode helpful. Share it with someone who might need it too!
	Custody & the Primary Carer: How to Protect Yourself & Your Kids In FAMILY LAW	09 Sep 2025	00:44:20
🎧 Listen to This Episode If… 👩‍👧 You're in a custody dispute and want to show the court you're the primary carer ⚖️ You're unsure what "primary carer" really means under family law 📚 You need to know what kind of evidence proves you've been the day-to-day parent 😟 You're worried your ex is twisting the truth about who cares for the kids 📝 You want practical tips on documenting your role as the main caregiver 🏛️ You're preparing for mediation or family court and want to feel more confident 💡 You want to understand how judges assess who the primary carer is ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses family and domestic violence, coercive control, and financial abuse. 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek independent advice for your specific situation. primary carer. What does it actually mean? How do courts define it? Why does it matter so much in custody battles and interim hearings? And most importantly, how can you prove you've been the primary carer if your ex tries to rewrite history? We unpack the recent changes in family law in Australia, the shift away from the old 50/50 presumption, and why the courts now focus on the best interests of the children over parental entitlement. Along the way, we share practical examples, strategies for gathering evidence, and insights into how controlling or manipulative ex-partners sometimes exploit this concept. Whether you're negotiating custody in mediation, preparing for court, or simply trying to understand your rights, this episode is for you. ⏱️ Episode Timeline – What We Discuss 00:00 – What does "primary carer" mean in divorce and custody cases? 02:08 – How do courts define the role of a primary carer in family law? 03:46 – What changes in family law affect interim parenting orders? 06:50 – How do judges decide the "best interests of the children"? 16:07 – How can you prove you are the primary carer in custody disputes? 23:13 – What practical steps help parents show primary carer status? 23:37 – When should you seek legal or psychological support in custody battles? 23:48 – How do you handle high-conflict separations in family court? 24:07 – What role do parenting plans play in custody and court proceedings? 25:38 – How does family violence impact child custody decisions? 28:01 – Do grandparents and babysitters count in proving primary carer status? 30:29 – What is the "first right of refusal" in custody arrangements? 34:39 – What evidence do you need to prove you're the main carer for your children? 41:59 – Final thoughts and encouragement for parents in custody cases 📌 Links & Resources Mentioned Cowlings Case : https://www.austlii.edu.au/au/journals/FedJSchol/2002/2.pdf The Purple Book https://domesticviolence.com.au/resources/the-purple-book/ Family Law Changes episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/4nPB5tKDwMC95G9IrFXGSq?si=SeyXIoDDRN-MJy4Q513WAQ Family Law Act Australia Definition of Family Violence https://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s4ab.html Family Law Act Section 61DAB https://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s61dab.html Safeguarding against unfair accusations in Family Court Custody Battles https://open.spotify.com/episode/2vgyr4S8LWECnqspEfrdij?si=-oZRAP06S7yTNGVxHyV4GQ Enrol now: The Divorce Course https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol 🆘 Support Services 💜 1800 RESPECT – Domestic and Family Violence Support 📞 Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7 Crisis Support) ⚖️ Legal Aid – Visit your state's Legal Aid website 👧 Kids Helpline – 1800 55 1800
	Legal and Emotional Wellness in Divorce: 9 Expert Tips to Guide You	23 Oct 2023	00:37:04
Feeling lost and overwhelmed in the divorce or de facto separation process? In this episode, we've got you covered with nine invaluable tips that you can put into action today. Gain the clarity and breathing space you need to confront your divorce head-on with essential family law legal tips and crucial mental health strategies. Learn how to set achievable goals, decode intimidating legal letters, select the perfect lawyer, and prioritise your mental well-being. Discover the power of taking control of your situation, making well-informed choices, and finding moments of self-care amid the chaos. Whether you're facing a divorce or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen for insights that can make a significant difference during this life-changing journey. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. Legal and Emotional Wellness in Divorce: 9 Expert Tips to Guide You Don't miss out on the answers to these questions: How to stop feeling overwhelmed during divorce? Why is reading legal letters so stressful in divorce? What are red herrings in divorce paperwork and negotiations? Ways to recognize and avoid red herrings during divorce. Managing financial stress and legal matters during a divorce. Finding the right lawyer for your divorce – Does personality matter? Is an aggressive lawyer worth the cost in a divorce? Importance of self-care in reducing stress during a divorce. Proactive steps for better mental health during divorce. Why are health check-ups crucial during a divorce? How to set achievable goals during a divorce? What strategies can help make reading legal letters less intimidating? Why is choosing the right lawyer essential for a smooth divorce process? How to create a divorce plan A and plan B for better decision-making? What does it mean to get your 'head out of the sand' during divorce? Why is finding a lawyer who shares your ethics important? How can one maintain composure and a level head during a divorce battle? Why prioritise mental health when going through a divorce? Importance of weekly self-care routines during divorce. Tune in now to transform your daunting divorce journey into a manageable one! Episodes mentioned: "Do I really need to respond to that?! When co-parenting communication becomes tricky during divorce proceedings." Useful Resources: Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
	How to avoid going to family court: during your property, children's matters or divorce settlement	17 Oct 2023	00:35:10
The last thing anyone really wants in their divorce is the thought of going to court. The cost, the worry and the work involved is enough to put anyone off. So in this episode we are going to guide you through the ways you can stay out of court for your propery settlement, or childrens arrangements and custody issues. Explore possible ways you can get your negotiations and agreements sorted without taking a step into a court room or leaving it all up to a judge. If you are feeling overwhelmed by even thinking about starting the process this is a good start for you. If you are headed to court and want to stop it, this episode is also for you. If you just want to know what your options are before you take that next step this episode is for you. It's time to take control of your new future. It's time to educate, empower and equip yourself so you are in the driving seat of your divorce process. How to avoid going to family court: property, children's matters during your divorce Questions you wont want to miss out on What are the options for avoiding court when it comes to property settlement? What are the two primary methods for property settlement without going to court? How do financial agreements work for property settlement? What is the significance of consent orders in property settlement? What is arbitration and its role in property matters? How can parents avoid going to court for parenting arrangements? What is a parenting plan, and how does it differ from consent orders? Can informal parenting agreements work effectively without legal documentation? How can you avoid going to court when dealing with the divorce process? What's the difference between a divorce application and other family law matters? When is it advisable to lock in a parenting plan or consent orders? Are there cases where financial motivations impact parenting arrangements? How do you enforce parenting arrangements when outlined in a consent order? What is an overview of the divorce process for de facto couples? What's the difference between a parenting plan and consent orders in terms of enforceability? How do you draft consent orders that the court recognizes? What is the role of mediation in avoiding court for parenting arrangements? Can you avoid going to court for divorce if you don't have children? What is the significance of the 12-month separation requirement for divorce in Australia? How long does it typically take to get your official divorce documents after the court hearing? Can you avoid going to court if you have a parenting plan and are happy with the arrangements? Why might someone want to shorten the time it takes for their divorce to become final? What are the legal grounds for divorce in Australia? Is there official paperwork for de facto couples who want to separate? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	BONUS EPISODE: NEW UPDATES IN THE FAMILY COURT FOR THE DIVORCE SETTLEMENT PROCESS AND NEW UPDATES IN OUR BLUEPRINT	17 Oct 2023	00:18:07
Learn about the new updates to the course based on the changes happening in the FCFCOA Family Court of Australia. We dive deep into a game-changing resource for anyone facing the challenges of divorce. We introduce you to the "DIY Divorce Blueprint," a comprehensive course designed to empower, educate, and equip you with the legal know-how and tools needed to navigate your divorce journey confidently. Discover the course's unique features, real success stories, and the benefits of taking control of your divorce process. From creating property orders to settling parenting agreements and attending mediation, this course provides a roadmap to a better life post-divorce. Join us as we explore the course modules, insights from current members, and the incredible value it offers. Don't miss the opportunity to take control of your divorce journey with the "DIY Divorce Blueprint." Enrol now and empower yourself to navigate divorce confidently while saving money and your sanity. BONUS EPISODE: NEW UPDATES IN THE FAMILY COURT FOR THE DIVORCE PROCESS AND NEW UPDATES IN OUR DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Balancing the Unbalanced: Navigating Divorce When the Scales Seem Tilted: 9 Scenarios	10 Oct 2023	00:27:58
Are you currently navigating a challenging divorce situation, dealing with an ex-partner who seems like a special case? Worried it might be game over before you've even had a chance to get what is fair? Well in this episode we will walk you through 9 scenarios that are commonly worried about during divorce. Asset Concealment and Non-Disclosure: What to do when your ex is hiding assets. High-Conflict Exes: Strategies for managing highly contentious situations. Claims of Total Ownership: How to handle an ex who insists they're entitled to everything. Short De Facto Relationships: Navigating divorces in shorter-term relationships. Complex Trusts and Business Entities: Deciphering the complexities when assets are tangled in trusts and businesses. Honey Traps and Coercive Control: Escaping manipulative, controlling situations. Narcissistic Exes: Strategies for dealing with classic narcissistic behaviour in divorce proceedings. Ex's that you are worried will outsmart you in the end Wealthy and Powerful Exes: Understanding your rights when your ex holds the financial power. Listen to this episode to alleviate some of that worry as you get educated on the power of the family court and the power within yourself. Uncover the secrets, tips, and strategies for each of these scenarios. We promise you'll leave feeling a lot better about your situation. Discover what steps to take next. Hit that play button and empower yourself to thrive amidst the challenges of divorce. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. You Don't Want to Miss Out On What do you do if your ex's family has money, and you can't afford a lawyer? What are dollar-for-dollar orders in the context of legal fees? How can you deal with a situation where your ex is financially controlling you? What happens if your ex has put all assets into trusts and legal entities? Is a short de facto relationship entitled to a property settlement? What should you do if your ex insists that you're not entitled to anything? How do you handle a high-conflict or narcissistic ex in legal proceedings? What are some common reasons people give for avoiding divorce proceedings? What happens when one party wants to move on with their life, but the other party is dragging their feet? How can you handle situations where one party is trying to delay or stall the divorce process? Is it a good idea to use delay tactics in divorce proceedings? How can you protect yourself from financial harm when going through a divorce? What can you do if you're concerned about your ex-spouse selling or transferring assets during the divorce? How do you navigate divorce when one party is emotionally volatile and prone to arguments? What should you do if your ex-spouse is refusing to cooperate with the divorce process? Are there consequences for arguing during divorce proceedings? How can you ensure that your divorce proceedings have an adjudicator and move forward efficiently? What if your ex-spouse is hiding assets, being sneaky, or telling lies during the divorce? Can you find out if someone is hiding assets without them disclosing it? How do you deal with someone who is sneaky and manipulative during divorce proceedings? What if they won't cooperate or disclose financial information? How can you address the issue if your ex is a narcissist? Is it a bad idea to get lawyers involved if you're afraid of negative consequences? What if one party claims that you're not entitled to anything or that it was only a short de facto relationship? Balancing the Unbalanced: Navigating Divorce When the Scales Seem Tilted Podcast Mentioned in this Episode Financial Fairness During Divorce: A How to Guide for Spousal Maintenance & Child Support DIVORCE ON A BUDGET: How to negotiate, mediate and go to court on a shoestring DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support The Narcissist Playbook in Divorce Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Divorce Budgeting 101: Understanding Legal Fees & Six Simple Saving Strategies	03 Oct 2023	00:40:53
We're pulling back the curtain on the financial costs of divorce or de facto separation, helping you understand the complexities that often baffle many. Whilst it might be a topic no one wants to hear about, it could very well be the one topic you'd wish you were across when you get your legal bill at the end of your divorce proceedings. Join us as we demystify the fearsome realm of legal fees. We will address your common fears associated with hiring a lawyer, offering insights into trust accounts and the importance of transparency. Ever heard of drafting charges, reading fees, or the staggering costs of court proceedings? We break that all down for you also. By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with 6 simple hacks that will help you keep your legal costs down. Arm yourself with knowledge, making confident decisions as you navigate this pivotal moment in your life. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Divorce Budgeting 101: Understanding Legal Fees & Six Simple Saving Strategies You Don't Want to Miss Out On What factors contribute to the varying costs associated with legal services in family law? How can you proactively inquire about the fees during your initial consultation with a lawyer? Can you elaborate on the concept of trust accounts and their significance in legal transactions? In what ways can you effectively dispute legal fees that seem unreasonable or unexpected? What are the practical steps for you to manage legal costs, especially concerning documentation and administrative expenses? When faced with unexpected charges, how can you address discrepancies in your legal bills? What strategies can you employ to question specific charges and gain a clear understanding of your legal fees? How can you dispute fees if you believe you are being overcharged, ensuring a fair resolution? Amidst legal complexities, how can you navigate the intricacies of legal fees, especially when scale costs are involved? How can you assess the value of legal services based on hourly rates and scale costs, ensuring transparency and fairness? How can you leverage online resources to compare scale costs and the charges quoted by your legal representatives? In transitioning to a paperless office, what benefits can you expect in terms of reduced costs, especially related to photocopying expenses? What strategies can you implement to minimise photocopying costs, ensuring efficient use of resources during legal proceedings? Resource Mentioned in this episode FCFCOA Website Costs Information Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Your Top 7 Property Settlement Concerns During Divorce: How to Address Them	25 Sep 2023	00:43:05
Have you got concerns about starting or current property settlement in your divorce? Are you concerned about the cost of consulting a lawyer? Worried that pursuing property settlement might disrupt your peace? Anxious about your ex having a savvy legal team? Concerned about how others might perceive you during this process? We discuss all these apprehensions and more, offering practical tips and guidance to help you navigate property settlement with confidence. Our goal is to ensure you get a fair outcome without the stress of these worries looming over you or you just giving up on it altogether. Tune in to gain valuable knowledge and empower yourself during this challenging time. Don't let these concerns hold you back from achieving a just property settlement. Listen now to find the solutions you need to address your worries and secure what's rightfully yours. In this episode, we delve into the top seven worries people commonly have about divorce property settlement. Join us as we explore these concerns and provide valuable insights on how to address them. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Your Top 7 Property Settlement Concerns During Divorce: How to Address Them You Don't Want to Miss Out On "What do you say to people who claim that their ex is too smart or has hired an expensive lawyer, making the fight for a fair settlement too difficult?" "How do you address concerns that the ex-spouse is manipulative, sneaky, or dishonest, making the divorce process not worth the effort?" "What advice do you have for individuals who think it's not worth pursuing consent orders for property when they believe they have very little to divide?" "How can you assure someone who wants to prioritize peace for the sake of the children that pursuing a property settlement won't lead to unnecessary conflict?" "What should someone consider when they're afraid of the potential cost of divorce and would rather spend that money elsewhere?" "How do you respond to individuals who have seen others go through amicable divorces and feel embarrassed or ashamed to confront a more challenging situation?" "Can you provide guidance on handling a divorce situation when you feel overwhelmed by the comparisons with other people's experiences?" "What steps can someone take to protect their legal rights in a divorce, especially when dealing with a manipulative or controlling ex-spouse?" "How important is privacy when going through a divorce, and how can one balance personal privacy with seeking support and advice?" "Are there specific strategies for maintaining effective communication with an ex-spouse during a divorce, even if it's expected to be high-conflict?" "What considerations should someone keep in mind when deciding whether or not to pursue a divorce?" "How can individuals ensure they make informed decisions and navigate the divorce process effectively?" "Can you explain the importance of seeking professional guidance and support when going through a divorce?" "What are the potential risks of comparing one's divorce situation to others, and how can one avoid feeling pressured to conform to someone else's experience?" What do you say to someone who feels overwhelmed and ashamed because they believe their ex is smarter or more cunning in the divorce process?" "How can you encourage individuals to seek legal help when they fear that their ex-spouse will make the divorce difficult?" "What advice would you give to someone who thinks their case isn't worth pursuing because they believe there are minimal assets to divide?" "How important is it to maintain one's privacy during a divorce, especially when dealing with a manipulative or controlling ex-spouse?" "Can you explain why it's essential for people not to be embarrassed or ashamed if their divorce experience isn't as amicable as others?" "What steps can someone take to regain a sense of control and power when they've been guilted or shamed into giving up in their divorce?" "How can individuals ensure they make informed decisions and navigate the divorce process effectively, even when they're feeling overwhelmed?" "What's the significance of taking action in a divorce rather than procrastinating and avoiding it?" "Can you elaborate on why comparing one's divorce situation to others can be misleading and unhelpful?" "What are some strategies for maintaining peace and effective communication with an ex-spouse during a potentially high-conflict divorce?" "How do you address the concern that it's not worth pursuing a divorce due to a busy life, especially when dealing with kids and work responsibilities?" Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Three ways to choose and use your family lawyer (that you probably haven't heard of for your divorce.)	19 Sep 2023	00:40:32
Are you on the verge of selecting a family lawyer for your divorce, property settlement, or child custody concerns? Worried about the looming spectre of a colossal legal bill? Tune in as we unravel the answers to the most frequently asked questions about the art of choosing and collaborating with a divorce attorney or family lawyer. Discover under-the-radar, yet incredibly effective, strategies for engaging with a lawyer that can potentially save you thousands in legal fees. Unlock the secrets of what to inquire when seeking the perfect lawyer and delve into the myriad of approaches you can adopt with your legal counsel, tailored precisely to suit your unique needs and circumstances. Empower yourself with a deep understanding of how lawyers operate and what to anticipate. Step into that legal office or pick up that phone with unwavering confidence. This episode might just be the game-changer you need to make informed decisions early on, securing a brighter outcome for your divorce, your finances, and your legal expenses. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Three ways to choose and use your family lawyer (that you probably haven't heard of.) You Don't Want to Miss Out On How do you choose a lawyer for your divorce or separation? What are the different ways to use a lawyer in divorce proceedings? What is the "first class approach" to using a lawyer in divorce, and what are its drawbacks? How can being educated about family law and the legal process help you in your divorce journey? What are some common misconceptions people have about lawyers and divorce? How can taking a step-in, step-out approach with your lawyer benefit you in divorce proceedings? What role does mediation play in divorce, and why is it important to be aware of this process? How can understanding the stages and steps of divorce proceedings reduce stress and uncertainty? What are the potential pitfalls of not sharing important information with your lawyer during divorce? How can being proactive and informed about your divorce process lead to a smoother and less stressful experience? How can you use a lawyer in a divorce case without spending a fortune? What are the different ways to involve a lawyer in your divorce process? How can having a lawyer for a "legal look" benefit you in a divorce case? What is the significance of understanding the legal process in a divorce case? Why is it important to have a lawyer review any documents before you sign them in a divorce? How can understanding the Family Law Act help you navigate your divorce more effectively? What is Section 102 NA of the Family Law Act, and how can it help victims of domestic violence in divorce cases? Why is it crucial to be smart about using lawyers in divorce, especially in terms of costs Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Can't afford a lawyer? Seven top tips to follow for children's or property settlement in the family law court Choosing a Family Lawyer & the Red Flags not to ignore If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Deadlocks in Divorce: Strategies for Non-Disclosure, Valuation Fights, and Stonewalling	12 Sep 2023	00:42:37
Are you facing the challenges of dividing up the property in your divorce and are stuck in a deadlock? Join us as we answer key questions and provide practical tips for handling deadlocks in divorce property settlements. Whether you're handling your divorce independently or with legal representation, these insights will empower you to drive the process forward effectively. We delve into the pressing topic of handling deadlocks in divorce negotiations, offering valuable guidance to help you navigate these complex situations. Discover practical strategies for dealing with non disclosure, asset valuation and stonewalling tactics sometimes used by other parties. We explore options for breaking through these deadlocks, ensuring a fair distribution of assets. Learn how to manage your emotions during this process and understand the emotional value of items in play. We'll also share techniques for fostering an equitable mindset in asset division. Gain a better understanding of how to approach divorce negotiations with a business-like attitude. While we can't replace personalised legal advice (which you should always get from your own legal representative before taking any actions in your case,) we aim to equip you with the knowledge and confidence to tackle asset division challenges head-on. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Deadlocks in Divorce: Strategies for Non-Disclosure, Valuation Fights, and Stonewalling You Don't Want to Miss Out On What are some practical tips for dealing with deadlock situations in divorce? How can you stop the 'What ifs?' from running in your head? What can you do if your ex doesn't do disclosure? What happens if your ex won't let you see their bank statements etc. How do you turn your anxiety about asset division into a 'So what?' attitude? What if you've given a deadline for asset valuation, and it passes without a response? How can you ensure you follow through with your stated actions if the other party doesn't cooperate? What strategies can you employ to deal with deadlocks in divorce negotiations? What can you do if you're handling the divorce process on your own without legal representation? How can you make sure you're effectively driving the divorce process forward? Is it essential to treat divorce negotiations like a business transaction? How can we value items like cars, jewellery, and other assets? Valuation can be expensive. What if someone can't afford it? How do you un-deadlock a situation when you can't even afford to pay for valuation? How do you determine if you're being difficult about a certain item due to past emotions? What is the emotional value of an item, and how does that play into the decision-making process? How can you ensure equitable distribution of assets? What strategies can be used to divide assets fairly? Are there alternative methods for estimating the value of items? How can online resources like Facebook Marketplace or Redbook help in estimating values? How important is attitude adjustment in resolving valuation disputes? What steps can individuals take to adjust their attitude towards asset division? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Delay Tactics in Divorce: How to counter then & How it can affect your Property, Children's & Domestic Violence Matters DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support Untangling the Value: How to Navigate Valuations in Divorce & De Facto Separation property Settlements How to divorce a statue: 7 tips to divorce an avoidant ex even if they stonewall you or disappear. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Decoding the Family Court's Perspective on 'Best Interests of the Children' in Custody Cases.	05 Sep 2023	00:38:08
Are you navigating post-divorce parenting arrangements, or the complexities of family court custody issues in Australia? Learn from this insightful episode from a seasoned family law accredited specialist expert with over 35 years in family law. Where you'll explore the critical topic: "Best Interests of the Children." Whilst we don't claim to be child psychologists, we will shed light on what this concept means in the eyes of the Family Court, providing valuable educational guidance for a concerned parent just like you. Discover how the family court evaluates factors like relationships with both parents, the views of children (considering age and maturity), financial and emotional contributions post-separation, and practical changes in routines. Are you navigating post-divorce parenting arrangements, or the complexities of family court custody issues? In this episode we will address "What will happen to my children? How does the court decide? What's truly best for them?" While we can't replace personalised legal advice, we offer clarity and educational confidence in understanding your children's potential paths during divorce or separation in the eyes of the Family Court in Australia. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Decoding the Family Court's Perspective on 'Best Interests of the Children' in Custody Cases. You Don't Want to Miss Out On 1. What are the primary considerations when determining the best interests of the children in family court? 2. How does the court balance the child's right to have a meaningful relationship with both parents and the need to protect them from harm? 3. What role do family report writers play in child custody matters, and how do their recommendations influence court decisions? 4. At what age can a child's views be considered by the court, and how does the court assess their maturity in expressing those views? 5. What impact does a history of domestic violence have on child custody decisions? 6. How does the court evaluate each parent's involvement in decision-making and spending time with the child? 7. What happens if one parent hasn't paid child support since separation, and how does this affect custody decisions? 8. How does the court consider the practical effects and potential disruptions on children when making custody arrangements? 9. How does a child's individual needs and vulnerabilities, such as neurodiversity or disabilities, influence custody decisions? 10. What are some common mistakes parents make when initially separating and how does it affect their custody cases? 11. Is nesting (where parents alternate living in the family home) a practical solution for maintaining stability during separation, and what are the potential challenges? 12. What happens if you need to leave the family home during separation, and how does it affect your rights concerning property? 13. What factors determine the practical difficulty of a child spending time with both parents, especially in cases of fly-in, fly-out work arrangements? 14. How do distance and work commitments of parents affect custody arrangements? 15. Should parents worry that if one ex makes significantly more money than the other, the children might be ordered to live with them? 16. What are the primary considerations that the Family Court takes into account when determining the best interests of the children in custody arrangements? 17. What does it mean for a parent to provide for the children's intellectual, emotional, and social needs? 18. How does a parent's mental health or diagnosed mental health issues factor into custody decisions? 19. What role does the maturity, sex, lifestyle, and background of each parent play in custody arrangements? 20. How does the court ensure that a child's cultural heritage is supported after a separation? 21. How does the court assess a parent's attitude towards their responsibilities of parenthood? 22. How does family violence, both between parents and towards children, impact custody decisions? 23. What role do domestic violence orders play in custody cases? 24. How does the court aim to avoid ongoing litigation and its impact on children? How does the court consider children's ages and development stages in custody decisions? 25. What is meant by "equal shared parental responsibility," and how does it relate to custody arrangements? 26. What changes are expected in family law regarding the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below FAMILY REPORTS https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastseven If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Key Legal Considerations to Remember as Your World Turns Upside Down During Divorce	29 Aug 2023	00:44:39
Discover how every word and action can impact your case, and learn strategic approaches to navigate manipulation from an ex-partner. From securing sentimental items to making legally sound decisions, we equip you with some essential tools to navigate your divorce journey effectively. Delve into the often overlooked but vitally important legal dimensions of divorce or de facto separation. Whether you're amidst the process or foresee it on the horizon, our expert insights are a compass through the emotional and legal storm. Tune in now to gain expert guidance from a family law specialist on safeguarding your interests and ensuring a smoother ride through the family court to your new future. Your journey through divorce doesn't have to be tumultuous – let's navigate it together. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. You Don't Want to Miss Out On What legal considerations should people keep in mind while going through a divorce? How can being reactive during a divorce be detrimental, and what's a better approach? What should you do with valuable and sentimental items during a divorce? Why should promises made during the emotional turmoil of a breakup be approached cautiously? How can social media and electronic communication impact a divorce case legally? What strategies can help prevent actions being used against you in a court of law? How does the court view possessions and belongings in a divorce, and why does it matter? Why is it important to create a clear plan for children and pets during a divorce? What happens if you make promises during a divorce that aren't legally binding? How can you safeguard your belongings and pets during a divorce? What could be the consequences of reacting strongly during a breakup? Why is it important to consider the legal aspect of divorce, even amid emotional turmoil? What are some practical steps to ensure a smoother transition during a divorce? What does "start as you mean to go on" mean in the context of handling child custody arrangements? How does the court view the history of parenting responsibilities after separation when making custody decisions? Why is it crucial to establish a strong presence in your children's lives early on after separation? What is the significance of maintaining the status quo in a legal context, especially regarding children? How has the law changed in terms of shared parental responsibility and equal time arrangements? What steps can you take to ensure that you're financially prepared for the challenges of divorce and separation? Why is it important not to rely on your ex-spouse for financial support during the divorce process? How can you safeguard your financial interests while navigating property settlement negotiations? What precautions should you take when communicating with an avoidant ex-partner during divorce? How can written communication be misinterpreted or manipulated in high-conflict divorce cases? Why is it essential to be careful with your words and actions when dealing with a manipulative and controlling ex-spouse during divorce? How can seemingly innocuous actions, like accepting help with childcare, be used against you in a high-conflict divorce situation? What role do school/ day care pick-up registries and other school records play in divorce court cases? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Taking control of your finances & red flags of financial abuse with guest Pedro Marin The Narcissist Playbook in Divorce Consent Orders: it's not rocket science. Explore the what, when, why, how of property and parenting consent orders after divorce so you know what's what. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Affording a Family Lawyer Without Going Broke: Divorce Cost-Saving Tips	02 Sep 2025	00:39:45
Listen to This Episode If You… 💸 Can't afford a lawyer full-time but still need legal support 📑 Are drowning in legal letters or excessive disclosure requests from your ex 👶 Want to protect your kids while keeping costs manageable ⚖️ Are considering mediation but don't know when it's safe to go without a lawyer 🧾 Want to learn how to organise your documents to save money 😟 Are worried your ex is using legal abuse or post-separation tactics to wear you down ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses family and domestic violence, coercive control, and financial abuse. 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek independent advice for your specific situation. Affording a Lawyer Without Going Broke: Divorce Cost-Saving Tips Are you stuck in the "missing middle"... earning too much for legal aid, but nowhere near enough to pay endless legal bills? You're not alone. For many separating couples, the cost of family law can feel like a second punishment, especially when an ex uses the system as a weapon of financial abuse or coercive control. In this practical and empowering episode, Laura and Lyn (a seasoned family lawyer) break down the real costs of divorce, why legal bills skyrocket, and the smart strategies you can use to keep costs under control. From disclosure to parenting arrangements, mediation to negotiation, you'll discover what you can safely do yourself—and where it's worth paying for expert legal help. If you're overwhelmed by fees or worried your ex is driving up costs on purpose, this episode gives you the tools, insights, and confidence to navigate the system without draining your financial future. ⏱️ Episode Timeline – What We Discuss 00:00 – What you need to know before listening: Introduction and trigger warning 01:02 – What is the "Missing Middle" in Family Law and Divorce? (Legal aid limits and financial strain explained) 03:14 – How much do Family Law and Divorce lawyers cost in Australia? (Understanding legal fees) 07:56 – How do high-conflict exes use Family Law and Divorce to create legal abuse and drive up costs? 13:36 – What Family Law and Divorce strategies actually help keep legal costs down? 21:49 – Best Family Law co-parenting apps to cut conflict and reduce divorce lawyer bills 23:10 – What is the DIY Divorce Blueprint and how can it save you money in Family Law? 23:54 – Can you negotiate a Family Law divorce settlement without a lawyer? 24:35 – Family Law mediation tips: When mediation works in divorce and when it's unsafe 28:12 – What are Family Law pre-court procedures in divorce? (Self-representation tips) 30:28 – How to organise your Family Law divorce case and manage legal costs like a pro 34:57 – Real Family Law success stories: How preparation cut divorce costs in half 36:32 – Final thoughts: Encouragement for staying strong during Family Law and Divorce 📌 Links & Resources Mentioned Related episode: Is Your Ex Bombarding You With Legal Letters? https://open.spotify.com/episode/4xP8mJmnjAgoEeTJaqOMKb?si=mBgqHpaaRuGkzVsNdZ4VJw Parenting communication tools: Our Family Wizard, Our Children Case & Article: ABC News – Exorbitant Costs of Family Court Matters https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-08-27/financial-toll-of-sydney-registry-family-court-matters/105622908 Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it part 1 https://open.spotify.com/episode/0frpHUd43xAsuifACUqIzL?si=4PFFP2lmSzKlrCbUfWQgNA Dealing with Legal Abuse https://open.spotify.com/episode/1V23F0O5yhQt9NFLPOu6uJ?si=gml77SrURsK1LGpA5MhzHw Protecting yourself from a narc ex in family court https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JyfH5fCoqrUoxeDj6jCtu?si=8ZmxK28ySQa5_SUY5ywkPg https://www.ourchildren.com.au/ https://www.ourfamilywizard.com.au/ Age Appropriate Parenting Plans https://open.spotify.com/episode/6MxzxwItfa1K8p9Rrnu3ON?si=Nss69o81SVK7GCpjEGcmPQ Legal Fees & Saving Strategies https://open.spotify.com/episode/4sIiqb89evbERnRlWfGR9v?si=9PZDyWazS7uPOjG9aLmWJQ Enrol now: The Divorce Course https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol 🆘 Support Services 💜 1800 RESPECT – Domestic and Family Violence Support 📞 Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7 Crisis Support) ⚖️ Legal Aid – Visit your state's Legal Aid website 👧 Kids Helpline – 1800 55 1800
	Why your narcissistic ex might want a parenting coordinator and what you can do about it.	22 Aug 2023	00:31:59
Are you facing the challenges of co-parenting after a divorce or separation? The idea of parenting coordinators might sound appealing, promising to ease communication and decision-making between you and your ex. But, before you sign up, it's essential to understand the potential pitfalls. Join us in this podcast episode as we delve into the concept of parenting coordinators and explore the concerns surrounding them. From issues of control and decision-making to the impact on children's upbringing, we dissect this increasingly discussed topic. We'll also offer alternative strategies for resolving co-parenting conflicts and emphasise the importance of active parental involvement. Whether you're navigating the complexities of co-parenting or just curious about the potential downsides of parenting coordinators, this episode offers valuable insights and advice. Remember, knowledge is your best tool for making informed decisions. *Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.* You Don't Want to Miss Out On What is a parenting coordinator? What are the risks of a parenting coordinator with a narcissistic/ manipulative and controlling ex Are parenting coordinators a good idea for co-parenting? Can parenting coordinators make decisions about child-raising? Can parenting coordinators help in high-conflict situations? How do parenting coordinators impact the financial aspect? Are there risks of bias with parenting coordinators? How does the involvement of parenting coordinators affect children? Why is the concept of parenting coordinators seen as a potential issue? What concerns are raised about parenting coordinators? What caution is advised regarding parenting coordinators? How is the idea of parenting coordinators viewed? What analogy is used to explain the perspective on parenting coordinators? What is considered crucial in the business of co parenting after a separation? What potential effects could parenting coordinators have on children? How is the idea of parents learning to manage co-parenting challenges perceived? How is co-parenting compared to a business partnership? What concerns are expressed about the lack of regulation in the field of parenting coordinators? What alternative options are proposed for resolving co-parenting conflicts? What could be the consequences if parents rely solely on parenting coordinators? What advice is given to parents considering parenting coordinators? What is the purpose of the pop parenting courses? What should people going through post separation abuse watch out for when parenting coordinators are recommended? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Who keeps the Inheritance, Injury Payouts & Redundancies in Divorce? Your General Guide to Lump Sums in Property Settlement.	15 Aug 2023	00:41:55
Are you grappling with how lump sums, like inheritances, personal injury payouts, and redundancy payments, are treated during your divorce, de facto separation property settlement in Australia? Have you received an inheritance from a beloved family member and don't know if it might have to be shared with your ex-spouse? Not to worry, because in this episode, we're exploring the many different possibilities and outcomes when it comes to lump sums of money in property settlements. We're here to address your concerns, draw insights from real-life cases, and provide general guidance even if you're not going to family court. It's a lot to unravel, we know, but understanding how the courts perceive these situations and what rulings have been made in the pasts can help you effectively navigate these issues during your mediation or settlement discussions with your ex-spouse. Listen now to gain valuable strategies for protecting your financial interests during property settlements involving lump sums. Learn how different scenarios impact the division of assets and ensure you're making informed decisions. So, whether you're facing an impending separation, in the midst of a divorce, or simply curious about how lump sums fit into property settlements, tune in and empower yourself with valuable knowledge. Your freedom & financial future awaits – let's tackle these challenges together! *Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.* Who keeps the Inheritance, Injury Payouts & Redundancies in Divorce? Your General Guide to Lump Sums in Property Settlement. You Don't Want to Miss Out On How do you deal with lump sums in property settlement? Is it really fair if you get an inheritance from a passed-on parent or family member and then half of it ends up having to go to your ex in a property settlement? What about personal injury claims? How are they treated in property settlements? What happens if someone hasn't claimed their personal injury settlement yet, but they can? How are redundancy payments handled during property settlements? Can redundancy payments and other lump sums be counted as property if they're just sitting in a bank? How does the court consider redundancy payments and other windfalls used to improve the family home? What are the strategies for protecting your financial interests in property settlements involving lump sums? How can different scenarios impact the division of assets? How can individuals ensure they are making informed decisions regarding lump sums during divorce proceedings? Are redundancy payments, long service leave, and bonuses all included in the same category, or are bonuses different? How does the court treat long service leave, especially if it's used for purposes like going on a holiday or buying a house? What about bonuses? How are they treated in property settlements? What happens if someone uses their long service leave to buy a house or goes straight into another job? How are bonuses considered, especially if they are based on performance or company performance? If an ex-spouse receives a bonus before property settlement, does that bonus become part of the property pool? How does the court handle personal injury claims or inheritances received before marriage or before entering a de facto relationship? Can you prevent certain assets, like inheritance, from being divided during property settlement through specific wording in a will? Is there a way to ensure fairness when an ex-partner is trying to avoid touching certain assets like inheritance, personal injury claims, etc.? Can the knowledge and information discussed in this session be used during mediation or negotiations with legal letters? What are some common attitudes people have towards not touching specific assets during property settlement, and how does that impact the overall outcome? Is it possible for someone to "technically not touch" an asset like inheritance, but still have it affect the property pool distribution? How can one disclose assets like potential personal injury claims or inheritances during the property settlement process? Is it possible to set up wills to prevent specific assets from being divided during property settlement? What factors contribute to a fair property settlement according to the Family Law Act? How can someone deal with the emotional side of property settlement, especially when it involves assets like inheritance or personal injury claims? Why is honesty important during property settlement negotiations? How can mediation or involving a court help in reaching a property settlement agreement when negotiations reach an impasse? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Untangling your finances: your property settlement for divorce or separation explained. Your Future Needs and how it affects your divorce and property settlement Part 3: Sorting your property settlement in divorce Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Part 2 Non financial & financial contributions during and after marriage. Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Financial Contributions before cohabitation and how it affects your property statement If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Financial Fairness During Divorce: A How to Guide for Spousal Maintenance & Child Support	31 Jul 2023	00:41:27
Are you getting divorced or separating but are facing the stark reality that you will have no money to live on? Does your ex hold all the assets and cash? Are you worried about whether you can leave them at all for financial reasons alone? Or are you relying on them to pay for everything til property settlement is sorted and you are worried that this could stop at any moment because you've found yourself in a financially controlling situation? Don't worry we've got you. In this episode listen to a family lawyer explore and explain what spousal maintenance is and how it can help someone who is transitioning from a married or defacto couple to a new single life. Learn about the process you might have to take to get yourself financially stable during the divorce process and after. Find some comfort in the fact that many people follow this process and it isn't as hard as it sounds. Look at the links below to find the forms discussed in this episode and also make sure you listen to the other two episodes mentioned about what to do if you can't afford a lawyer and a deeper dive into how to know if you are eligible for spousal maintenance. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. You Don't Want to Miss Out On What is spousal maintenance? Can de facto separated couples apply for spousal maintenance? When can you get spousal maintenance? Can you get spousal maintenance if you're separated under one roof? Is spousal maintenance a forever thing or just temporary? Can you have an agreement outside of the court for spousal maintenance? What does the court consider when making an agreement for spousal maintenance? How long does the spousal maintenance process usually take? How do you apply for spousal maintenance? Can you apply for spousal maintenance while still married? What happens if you get remarried or enter a new de facto relationship while receiving spousal maintenance? What are the potential consequences of not seeking legal advice? Could you provide a detailed explanation of the financial statement and initiating application? In cases where spousal maintenance is not urgent, is it still advisable to pursue mediation and negotiation? Where can one find a free mediator to assist with the spousal maintenance process? Can you outline a plan of action for addressing the financial statement and initiating application? Is there a possibility that receiving Centrelink or child support payments may affect the amount of spousal maintenance granted? How does one navigate the intimidating prospect of taking the matter to court if necessary? What is the preferred method for filing court documents, and is it possible to do so in person? In your experience, how often do spousal maintenance cases proceed to trial? Considering the financial struggles faced by both parties, how does one balance the need for support and a fair property settlement? How can individuals overcome their reluctance to address financial matters and secure a more favorable divorce outcome? For those unable to afford legal representation, where can they seek assistance for completing required documentation? What crucial steps should individuals take to manage their finances effectively during divorce proceedings, especially when facing financial hardships? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Forms mentioned in this episode Financial Statement Kit (do it yourself kit) \| Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia Initiating Application Form DIY Kit FORM 1A Genuine Steps Certificate Where to file your documents Preparing an affidavit Info Sheet Service Information Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Spousal Maintenance Are you Eligible? Can't Afford A Lawyer Episode Financial Fairness During Divorce: A How to Guide for Spousal Maintenance & Child Support If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Creative Ways to Keep your House in Divorce: out of the box thinking for your property settlement.	25 Jul 2023	00:32:18
Are you tackling the pressing concern of keeping your cherished home amidst divorce or defacto negotiations for property settlement? In this episode discover eight innovative ideas that might just help you secure that house you love. From delay agreements and deferred property settlements to strategic superannuation splits, we explore creative approaches to safeguard your dream home that you or your lawyer might not have thought of. When it comes to figuring out who gets what in the divorce there isn't a cookie cutter approach. So in this episode we try to help those struggling with this to think outside the box. But remember, each situation is unique, so it's essential to consult with a lawyer to assess what works best for you. So don't wait any longer, dive into this episode, and uncover the possibilities that lie ahead for your future and your home. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below I really really want to keep the house Delay Tactics in Divorce Creative Ways to Keep your House in Divorce: out of the box thinking for your property settlement. You Don't Want to Miss Out On What is a delay agreement when it comes to keeping the house? How can you negotiate with your ex to buy them out in the future? Are there any risks involved in delaying property settlement? What if the house's value goes up and you need to borrow more to buy out your ex? How can you safeguard yourself if you plan to delay reaching a property settlement? What are the potential risks of not putting the agreement in writing? How can you use superannuation as an asset to buy the house? Is it possible to split your super with your ex-spouse to reduce the amount needed to buy the house? How can exploring your budget help you afford the house? What options can you consider to cut expenses and manage child support payments? How can you use family members to help you keep the house? Is it possible to stay in the house until your children finish school or reach a certain age? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Master Your Divorce Negotiations: The Iron Fist Within the Velvet Glove Technique	18 Jul 2023	00:41:34
If you are trying to get your ex to come to an agreement with property or parenting arrangements so you can move on with your life this episode is for you (if you have a lawyer or not.) We explore seven tips to approach your divorce negotiations with an iron fist, but in a velvet glove. We talk through the strategies you can put in place today to help your property settlement or custody arrangements not drag on. There is an art to negotiating, but an extra special art to negotiating with someone who you've shared a large part of your life with. Listen to the episode today and make sure you are on the right path. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Cost and Calderbank Offers Separated Under One Roof Master Your Divorce Negotiations: The Iron Fist Within the Velvet Glove You Don't Want to Miss Out On How to get your mindset right to negotiate with someone you've shared your whole life with. Is it problematic to avoid negotiations and delay facing the realities of divorce? What factors can change during divorce proceedings, such as values, job loss, and time limits? How can a friend's support and assistance in booking a lawyer make a significant difference? What should be the approach when dealing with high-conflict negotiations during divorce? Why is it important to selectively respond to irrelevant and petty issues during negotiations? How can giving in strategically and knowing your desired outcome benefit negotiations? What is the significance of the individual's role in negotiations, rather than solely relying on the lawyer? Why is it important to make sure your lawyer doesn't inflame the situation. How can the concept of an "iron fist in a velvet glove" be applied to divorce negotiations? What strategies can help expedite the divorce negotiation process? What is the importance of generating options during divorce negotiations? Why is it important to be cautious about having an overly aggressive lawyer during divorce negotiations? What should be the primary focus of lawyers during divorce proceedings? Why is sending a reasonable letter from a lawyer considered more effective than a sarcastic one? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	What Is Mediation & Am I Ready For It? Navigating mediation during your divorce or de facto separation.	11 Jul 2023	00:47:41
If you haven't heard the word mediation yet you will soon. If you are going through a divorce or de facto separation it is most likely your first step before court. Luckily it can also be your last step and as it can help you avoid family court altogether. The success of your mediation will come down to a few things, timing and mindset being two important ones. Listen to this episode to learn about the basics of divorce or de facto separation mediation for property settlement or children's matters. Learn how it works and listen to an experienced family law specialist who is also a qualified mediator. Find out the best things you can do to ensure it is a success. For even more episodes on different topics based around family law mediation scroll below and click on the links under "episodes mentioned". Say goodbye to being scared and overwhelmed, listen to this episode today so you know what the process could be and you can finally find an end to your divorce mess. Please note this is general education only and not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Sign up here for our next free online webinar Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course EPISODES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ABOUT MEDIATION Mediation with a Narcissist Disclosure the what why when how Pre-Action Procedures What happens after mediation When Amicable Goes Wrong: Amicable in Wolfs Clothing WHAT IS MEDIATION AND AM I READY FOR IT? You Don't Want to Miss Out On "Are there any other names for mediation?" "Can mediation occur even if you aren't in the family court system at all?" "How likely is it for anybody going through a de facto separation or a divorce to face mediation?" "Why is it called mediation?" Does timing matter for mediation? "Can you say no to mediation if it's outside of the court?" "What's the repercussions of saying no to mediation?" "Do you have to sit in the room with them during mediation?" "Can you have another mediation session if needed?" "What are the problems with having multiple mediation sessions?" "Is there a family relationships centre?" How much does it cost to do a mediation? What types of mediation can you have? "Is there anything an amicable separation needs to do differently?" "Why thinking about your ex's needs can help you in the mediation" "What about avoidance and mediation?" "How many times does a mediator usually try to get your ex to come along?" "How do you make offers in mediation so your ex will accept it?" "What needs to be done in mediation?" "What about manipulative and controlling people in mediation?" "Can you really mediate with a narcissist?" "What about high conflict and mediation? How does it work?" "What can be done to ease your anxiety during mediation?" If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general education only not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Debunking Divorce Myths and Your Essential First Steps	04 Jul 2023	00:40:12
If you've recently separated from your partner or are contemplating divorce or leaving, you may have a barrage of questions swirling in your mind. We're here to address those concerns head-on and provide clarity on some common misconceptions. Throughout the episode, we debunk prevalent divorce myths that may cloud your judgement and hinder your decision-making process. We aim to empower you with accurate information and provide easy, actionable steps to take during the initial stages of your divorce journey. Whether you're just starting to contemplate separation or have already taken the first steps, this episode will equip you with the knowledge and insights necessary to make informed decisions and set yourself up for a smoother divorce process. Tune in to "The Divorce Course Podcast" and gain valuable insights that will help you navigate the complexities of divorce with confidence. Please note this is general education only not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Sign up here for our next free online webinar Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Debunking Divorce Myths and Essential First Steps You Don't Want to Miss Out On What are the most commonly asked questions about divorce or de facto separation? How can I navigate the process of separating while still living under the same roof? What are the different types of splits in a divorce or separation? Does it matter if my ex cheated on me when it comes to legal matters? How does the Family Court in Australia view infidelity in custody cases? If I move out of the house, do I lose my rights to the property? What options do I have if I can't afford to move out and pay rent? Can I stay separated but still live under the same roof? What should I do if I can't afford to pay the mortgage and rent simultaneously? How does the court expect mortgage payments to be handled when one person moves out? Can a divorce be settled without going to court? What are the risks of not formalising a property settlement through the court? Can someone come back later and request a property settlement after an informal agreement? How long does a person have to bring an application for property settlement after separation? Is it possible to get a divorce without involving lawyers or going to court? Why is it important to consult with a lawyer even if you don't want to go to court? Can seeing a lawyer automatically lead to going to court? How can a lawyer help in finalising the divorce or separation process? What are the options for obtaining a consent order without involving a lawyer? Is it advisable to consult with a lawyer to ensure the process is legally sound? Should they apply for child support straight away, even if they're living in the same house? Can you apply for child support if you have 50/50 custody of the kids? How should short-term arrangements for the children be made during separation? What should you do with your belongings and furniture when leaving the house? How can you protect your precious items and ensure you can get them later? Is it a good idea to document the contents of the house before leaving? Should you take your passports and birth certificates when leaving? Is there a checklist available for things to consider before leaving? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Help! My ex is spending all the money and I'm worried there won't be enough left for me at property settlement. Safeguarding your property pool during your divorce.	27 Jun 2023	01:06:31
Are you going through a divorce and are worried about your ex spending/hiding all the money before the property settlement is sorted? In this episode we look into various scenarios of how your ex may be spending big to deplete the property pool and what can be done about it. Learn about the concept of "wastage" in the family law world and how the family court can view it. Discover what the family court has done in the past if wastage has been determined. If you are worried, this episode will give you some practical tips on how you can protect yourself or calm yourself. Listen now to and be proactive in your divorce or de facto separation. Don't let your property pool become a property puddle before financial settlement occurs. We also touch on disclosure and a previous full court ruling on someone who wasn't playing fair. Please note this is general education only not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. This podcast is based in Australian Law. Sign up here for our next free online webinar Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned you Should Listen to DIY Disclosure Episode Your Finances and the red flags to look for with Pedro Marin The Post Separation Abuse Wheel Part 2 Cases mentioned in this episode http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/cases/cth/FamCA/1981/70.html http://classic.austlii.edu.au/au/cases/cth/FamCA/1981/70.html?query= http://classic.austlii.edu.au/au/cases/cth/FamCA/1994/144.html?query= Help! My ex is spending all the money and I'm worried there won't be enough left for me at property settlement.Safeguarding your property pool during the divorce You Don't Want to Miss Out On Is wastage a common behaviour among exes going through a midlife crisis? What are some common examples of wastage during a midlife crisis? What are the rules around wastage in family court? How does wastage affect the division of property in divorce cases? What actions can be taken to stop wastage during the divorce process? Is wastage considered a negative contribution to the asset pool? Is there any legislation regarding wastage in the Family Law Act? How can wastage be proven in court? Is spending on luxury vacations considered wastage? Can running down a business be considered wastage? How can the value of assets be determined before and after wastage? What can be done if there aren't enough assets left to compensate for the wastage? How important is it to know the property pool from the beginning of the divorce process? Is mediation a good time to be asking? Is it too late to ask certain questions at mediation? When should you ask important questions before mediation? What should you do when you notice certain behaviour from your ex? Is it better to stop waste or try to get it added back later? How can you prevent your ex from wasting assets? How can you handle non-disclosure issues in court? What can you do if your ex refuses to disclose financial information? Is it a bad idea to retaliate and waste assets in response to your ex's behaviour? What can happen if you engage in dishonest or dodgy behaviour during the process? How long has the Family Law Act been in effect? Are there any new surprises in family law cases? How can you conduct searches and gather information about assets? Should you take action even if you have an amicable relationship with your ex? What should you be looking out for if you have a manipulative or controlling ex? What should you be looking out for if your ex is a narcissist? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Is wastage a common behaviour among exes going through a midlife crisis? What are some common examples of wastage during a midlife crisis? What are the rules around wastage in family court? How does wastage affect the division of property in divorce cases? What actions can be taken to stop wastage during the divorce process? Is wastage considered a negative contribution to the asset pool? Is there any legislation regarding wastage in the Family Law Act? How can wastage be proven in court? Is spending on luxury vacations considered wastage? Can running down a business be considered wastage? How can the value of assets be determined before and after wastage? What can be done if there aren't enough assets left to compensate for the wastage? How important is it to know the property pool from the beginning of the divorce process? Is mediation a good time to be asking? Is it too late to ask certain questions at mediation? When should you ask important questions before mediation? What should you do when you notice certain behaviour from your ex? Is it better to stop waste or try to get it added back later? How can you prevent your ex from wasting assets? How can you handle non-disclosure issues in court? What can you do if your ex refuses to disclose financial information? Is it a bad idea to retaliate and waste assets in response to your ex's behaviour? What can happen if you engage in dishonest or dodgy behaviour during the process? How long has the Family Law Act been in effect? Are there any new surprises in family law cases? How can you conduct searches and gather information about assets? Should you take action even if you have an amicable relationship with your ex? What should you be looking out for if you have a manipulative or controlling ex? What should you be looking out for if your ex is a narcissist? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Top Ten Practical Tips to Delight Your Divorce Lawyer and Slash Legal Expenses	20 Jun 2023	00:34:28
Are you going through a divorce or de facto separation and are considering hiring a lawyer or are already working with one? Listen to this podcast episode designed to help you. Explore the top ten things you should consider doing to make communication more effective and to help make the process easier for your lawyer (which in turn can save you money) These practical easy to implement tips will empower you, strengthen your client-lawyer relationship, and improve your chances of a favourable outcome. Tune in now for valuable insights. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Top Ten Practical Tips to Delight Your Divorce Lawyer and Slash Legal Expenses You Don't Want to Miss Out On Why does it matter to tell the truth when dealing with a lawyer? How does telling the truth help the lawyer and the client? Do lawyers terminate the relationship with clients who tell lies? What are the benefits of being truthful in a case? Do lawyers get in trouble if their client tells lies in court? Why should emails be preferred over phone calls when communicating with a lawyer? How does having a separate email address for legal matters help in communication? What can happen if important emails are missed in a general email account? How can CC and reference numbers help in tracking communication with a lawyer? Why is it important to use specific subject lines in emails? How does using specific subject lines and reference numbers help lawyers in filing and organisation? How were communication and filing done in the past compared to the present? What are the advantages of using emails over phone calls for communication? Why is it important to respond quickly in phone calls and emails to save costs? What should be done when the other party sends a letter to be reviewed? How can writing responses in a word document and sending it to the lawyer be helpful? Why do some people fail to answer all the questions in email responses? What is the preferred method of responding to letters from the other party? Reasons why taking a chronology or a timeline to a lawyer is helpful for your lawyer? What information should be included in the chronology or timeline? Why is being on time important when meeting with a lawyer? Is it difficult for lawyers to be punctual? Why is it important not to bring USB sticks to the lawyer and instead provide documents via email or other means? What are the risks associated with using USB sticks to provide documents? Should documents be printed out or emailed before meeting with a lawyer? Why is it important to give your lawyer permission to text you? Can you provide tips for dealing with a manipulative or controlling ex during the legal process? What actions can be taken to handle a manipulative or controlling ex through the lawyer? Are there any additional tips for dealing with a high-conflict ex during the legal process? How can one navigate the legal process if their ex is avoidant? How can communication be made less threatening for an avoidant ex? What steps can be taken to alleviate anxiety associated with receiving communication from the lawyer during an amicable divorce? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 2	13 Jun 2023	00:40:21
Discover the hidden tactics abusers use to maintain economic control over their former partners after separation in Part 2 of our "Post-Separation Economic Power and Control" episode. Learn about the components of the post-separation economic power and control wheel that sheds light on these often overlooked aspects of abuse and find out what you can do about it. By exploring real-life examples, we will unveil the manipulative behaviours that can occur with the banking system, emptying joint accounts and leaving victims burdened with debt, and other tactics abusers employ to maintain power over their victims' financial stability. But fear not! This episode isn't just about exposing these tactics—it also arms you with practical advice and strategies to protect yourself. By listening to this episode, you'll gain invaluable knowledge to navigate the challenging terrain of post-separation abuse and empower yourself with the tools to overcome these obstacles. If you're ready to take charge of your financial future and break free from the cycle of abuse, don't miss out on this episode. Tune in now and equip yourself with the insights you need to reclaim your economic power and control. It is important to always seek independent legal advice Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Please note that this episode contains depictions of domestic violence that some people may find disturbing. If you are experiencing Domestic Violence please call 1800 Respect or if you are in danger please call 000. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course DOCUMENT WE DISCUSS IN THIS EPISODE Post Separation Abuse Wheel Developed by Jenn Glinskii, University of Glasgow (2021) Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Dirty Money Deeds Coercive Control After Separation Post Separation Abuse Episode Bombarded with Legal Letters? You Don't Want to Miss Out On * What are some examples of abuse in the banking system? How can individuals protect themselves from financial abuse in a separation? Is it advisable for someone experiencing post-separation abuse to change banks? Why is it recommended for individuals to take some money for themselves during a separation? How does financial control contribute to the cycle of abuse? What are the consequences of being financially dependent on an abusive ex-partner? How can withholding money and assets affect the process of property settlement? How do abusers manipulate financial resources to maintain control over their victims? How does the court system play a role in enabling post-separation economic abuse? What actions can individuals take to break free from financial abuse and regain control over their finances? What role does legal advice play in dealing with post-separation economic power and control? How can observing abusive behaviours objectively help individuals cope with post-separation abuse? Are there any consequences or legal actions for coercive control and financial abuse? What strategy can someone overwhelmed by the paperwork and proceedings of a divorce case adopt to make it more manageable? How important is it to document instances of post-separation abuse early on in the process, even if they may not seem significant at the time? What are some examples of coercion and threats that can be used by one party during a divorce? How can someone protect themselves from financial control and manipulation, such as threats to stop paying child support or living expenses if they seek legal assistance? Are there any emergency arrangements or support options available for individuals facing immediate financial difficulties during a divorce? What is the likelihood of a parent losing custody of their children during a divorce, especially if they have been a good enough parent and haven't been violent towards the children? Can you share an example or story that demonstrates how the court prioritises the best interests of the children and understands the challenges faced by parents? How can stalking and harassment be addressed in cases of post-separation abuse, and what role can evidence, such as photos or videos, play in documenting such behaviour? What practical measures can someone take to protect themselves and their children when facing intimidation, harassment, and joint property damage from their ex-partner? How does coercive control manifest itself in post-separation abuse, and why is it often done through subtle, minor actions? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Divorce and Wastage: Protecting Your Property When Your Ex is spending it all	26 Aug 2025	00:49:23
🎧 Listen to this episode if you… 💸 Suspect your ex has been wasting money during or after separation ⚖️ Want to understand what the new Family Law Act changes (June 2025) mean for add-backs 📑 Need to know how to prove wastage in court or mediation 🏡 Worry your savings could be treated unfairly if your ex has spent theirs 🧾 Want practical tips on disclosure, evidence, and how to talk to your lawyer ⚠️ Disclaimer: This is general education only and not legal advice. Please seek advice from your own lawyer about your specific circumstances. Divorce property settlements just got a major shake-up in Australia. On June 10, 2025, the Family Law Act changed—and the Full Court confirmed the new approach in Shinohara & Shinohara [2025] FedCFamC1A 126. So what does that mean for you? In today's episode, we break down wastage and add-backs—what they are, how they used to work, and what the courts now say. We explore: The difference between wastage during the relationship vs after separation How gambling, drugs, alcohol, or reckless spending are treated The risks when your ex is stalling, hiding money, or draining joint accounts How to prove wastage with disclosure, documents, and chronologies What to say to your lawyer or mediator so it doesn't get missed If you've been scrimping and saving while your ex has been spending big, this episode will help you understand how the law now protects you—and how to raise it at mediation or in court. ⚠️ Disclaimer: This is general education only and not legal advice. Please seek advice from your own lawyer about your specific circumstances. ⏱️ Episode Timeline – What We Discuss: 00:00 – What are wastage and add-backs in divorce property settlements? 01:28 – How do courts define wastage and add-backs in family law? 03:36 – What are the new legal changes (June 2025) and how do they affect divorce property division? 07:12 – How does wastage during and after marriage impact property settlements? 16:25 – How can you prove wastage in court after separation? 27:13 – What kind of proof and financial chronology does the court expect? 27:34 – Why keeping a clear chronology helps in divorce proceedings 28:30 – How do you raise financial wastage issues in mediation? 29:37 – What mediation strategies and legal cases should you know about? 30:50 – How is wastage treated in property settlement negotiations? 38:34 – Why is the separation date and superannuation balance so important? 43:40 – How do you handle wastage claims with a high-conflict or avoidant ex? 48:47 – What are the key takeaways for protecting yourself under the new family law changes? 📌 Links & Resources Mentioned Case Update: Shinohara & Shinohara [2025] FedCFamC1A 126 (23 July 2025) https://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/cases/cth/FedCFamC1A/2025/126.html Our Free Webinar: thedivorcecourse.com.au Related episodes: DIY Disclosure in Divorce https://open.spotify.com/episode/49yOIB1GLDmXgeZCXkfyJS?si=eGN8WdTBQQql5-9WzT-NsA Legal Gatekeeping & What Your Lawyer Might Not Tell You https://open.spotify.com/episode/086JRHdfn0TGR2vyhhLD2z?si=49tG9RYPQtWFIJDOryviOw 💡 Final Thoughts The law around wastage and add-backs has changed dramatically. If your ex has been wasting money, don't give up—there are still ways to make sure the court takes it into account. The key is evidence, preparation, and raising it early. 👉 If this episode was helpful, please share it with a friend, rate the podcast, and leave a review—it helps others find the support they need. 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This is a general discussion and not legal advice. Please see a qualified lawyer for advice specific to your situation. 🆘 Emergency & Support Contacts: 💜 Women's Shelter: 1800 811 811 📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis): 13 11 14 👨‍👧 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 👧 Kids Helpline: 1800 551 800 🚨 DV Hotline: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732)
	The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 1	06 Jun 2023	00:42:26
If you are experiencing Post Separation abuse please listen to this episode. In light of recent events around the world, explore the crushing issue of post-separation abuse, with insights from our family law accredited specialist who offers valuable expertise and tips on what you can do about it if it is happening to you. Go beyond the surface to reveal the hidden aspects of abuse that often occurs after your relationship ends, especially in terms of economic power and control. Listen to the episode educate yourself and be prepared and proactive to deal with the tactics employed by abusers, such as manipulating institutions, concealing assets, and intentionally becoming unemployed, all aimed at maintaining economic control over their former partners. We also shed light on how abusers exploit court processes, burdening their ex-partners with excessive legal fees and withholding vital documents and what you can do about it, if this is happening to you. Tune in to gain valuable knowledge and empower yourself in navigating your divorce or de facto separation. This is Part 1 of a 2 part special to offer support and guidance to those going through post separation abuse. Trigger warning: This content contains information about domestic violence and post separation abuse. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course DOCUMENT WE DISCUSS IN THIS EPISODE Post Separation Abuse Wheel Developed by Jenn Glinskii, University of Glasgow (2021) Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Dirty Money Deeds Coercive Control After Separation Post Separation Abuse Episode Bombarded with Legal Letters? The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it (Part 1) You Don't Want to Miss Out On How does abusing the court system affect individuals? What impact can constant filing and negative accusations have on a person's self-perception? How can abusive words and false allegations affect someone's core being? What strategies can individuals employ to protect their mental health during court battles? Why is it important to recognize that the words spoken by an ex-partner may not be true? How does post-separation abuse involve using children? What are some examples of using children as a means of economic abuse? How can post-separation abuse affect a person's capacity to parent effectively? What can individuals do to mitigate the negative impact on children during post-separation abuse? How does the court process contribute to the comeuppance for abusers? What role does mental strength play in surviving post-separation abuse? How can individuals seek support and help when dealing with abuse? What are some common tactics used by abusers to manipulate and control their ex-partners? How does economic abuse impact individuals' financial stability? What steps can individuals take to live within their means and manage their finances during abuse? How can showing love and spending quality time with children counteract the effects of abuse? What are some long-term consequences of post-separation abuse on children? How does the abusive behavior of one parent impact the children's perception of the other parent? What are the challenges faced by individuals even after the court process is over? How can individuals support their children who may experience the same abusive patterns in their own relationships? What has been the progress of the new law on coercive control in Australia? What hiccups or challenges have occurred in the process of passing the new law? Who are the key individuals or groups involved in the decision-making process? What actions can be taken to address the concerns and influence the decision-makers? How does the presumption of equal shared care in family law impact cases of abuse? Why is it important to seek help from helplines or the police if triggered or in a dangerous situation? What are some examples of economic power and control in post-separation abuse? How do abusers manipulate institutions and use loopholes in legislation to protect their assets? What are some tactics abusers use to avoid paying spousal support or child support? How do abusers manipulate court processes to continue the abuse? Is the court system in Australia taking measures to address post-separation abuse? How can someone protect their mental health in the face of constant court battles and false accusations? What steps can individuals take to strengthen their core understanding of themselves and protect their inner self? Why is it important to seek support from a psychologist during the process of dealing with post-separation abuse? How can individuals avoid buying into the false narratives and manipulation tactics of their abusers? What hiccups have there been in the passage of the new laws on the presumption of 50/50 shared care? Why didn't the Liberal Party vote for the new law? What is the presumption of equal shared care and why is it considered damaging to children? Who is Anthony Albanese and what is his stance on this issue? What are some examples of economic control and how does it affect mothers? Why do people shame mothers for wanting child support and how can that be debunked? How can women challenge inaccurate child support calculations? What is the review process and how can it be used to address child support issues? What options are available if the review process doesn't resolve the problem? What is the role of the Administrative Appeals Tribunal in child support cases? How can women deal with coercive control tactics related to child support? What are the consequences of withholding personal documents and blocking access to joint accounts? How does economic abuse extend to harassment and intimidation in the banking place? How can women navigate the child support court system? How can women cope with the bombardment of legal letters and communications? What are some strategies to maintain hope and continue fighting for change? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 Australia DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Untangling the Value: How to Navigate Valuations in Divorce & De Facto Separation Property Settlements	29 May 2023	00:36:00
Demystify the valuation process and educate and empower yourself into a confident player in your divorce settlement process! By the end of this episode, you'll gain valuable insights, avoid common pitfalls, and make informed decisions when it comes to property & asset valuations in divorce and property settlement. In this episode, you'll embark on a journey of understanding as we explain property & asset valuations in divorce settlements. Get ready to learn the crucial aspects that will help you navigate this complex process with confidence. Explore the role of valuers and delve into why their expertise is essential in divorce settlements. You'll gain insights into how to choose the right valuer and overcome challenges when your ex-partner disagrees or a mutual decision can't be reached. Discover the ins and outs of the valuation process as we explore what needs to be valued, the methodologies used, and the importance of accurate documentation. We'll address specific scenarios, including high-conflict divorces and amicable separations, and shed light on the role of forensic accountants in complex cases. Prepare to tackle practical challenges head-on, such as kerbside valuations, access to the property, and the crucial task of documenting your house's condition. We're here to equip you with the knowledge and strategies to navigate valuations effectively. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Business and Divorce Selling the House Financial Contributions Untangling the Value: How to Navigate Valuations in Divorce & De Facto Separation Property Settlements You Don't Want to Miss Out On What is a valuer? How do you decide which valuer to use? How much does a valuer cost? Why do you need to use a valuer for your divorce settlement? What to do if your ex wont agree to a valuer? What happens if you can't choose a valuer? How to get your ex agree on a valuer? What do you need to consider getting valued for your divorce proceedings? How do valuations happen? Do valuers come to your house? What is the process valuers take during the property settlement? How much is your furniture really worth? What do you need to provide a valuer? What does the valuer send you after they have finished? What if you don't agree with the valuer's appraisal What kind of values will a valuer come up with? How do you avoid using a valuer? What happens if you can't agree on how to split the property? House valuations and what you should know for divorce and property settlement Can you have a property settlement before you've sold the house. Property Settlement and Percentages Do you need to get your super valued during divorce? Do you need to find out how much your ex has in superannuation for divorce? Military Superannuation and valuations for divorce and property settlement Defined Benefit Superannuation and your divorce Does it matter when the valuations are done? What date of valuation will the family court look at for property settlement? How old can the valuation be for property settlement mediation or family court? Do you need to share the money you have saved after separation? What happens with shares and their values? What value amount is looked at at the time of trial or mediation? Business and Divorce What is a forensic accountant? How much does a forensic accountant cost? Should I get a forensic accountant for my divorce and property settlement? High Conflict Divorces and Valuation The pitfalls for high conflict divorces and valuations Manipulative and controlling divorces and valuations How do I be careful whilst getting valuations for divorce with a manipulative and controlling ex. The game playing that might happen during valuations for your divorce and property settlement. What do you do if you are worried the valuer might miss something to look at in your ex's possession? Amicable divorces and valuations How not to use valuers if you are in an amicable divorce. How to deal with your avoidant ex and using a valuer to assess your house, or property. When do you need a kerbside valuation for your property? What can you do if your ex won't let the valuer into the house to see the property and value it. Why you should always video your house before you leave so you don't have to rely on your ex doing the right thing. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	I really really want to keep the house: general legal tips on how to achieve this goal whilst going through property settlement, divorce and de facto separation.	23 May 2023	00:39:16
Are you facing a divorce but desperately want to hold onto the family home that holds cherished memories for you and your kids? If so, this episode is a must-listen. We dive deep into the topic, providing valuable insights and practical general legal tips on how to achieve your goal of keeping the house. Let us guide you through crucial considerations to help you determine if keeping the house is a viable option. Learn about property settlement strategies and how to navigate the process of buying out your ex-spouse. Discover important calculations to factor in when making the decision, and learn about the impact of leaving the house during the divorce proceedings. Can you still retain your rights to the house if you choose to move out? We shed light on this common concern. Learn steps you can take to continue living in the house while working towards becoming the sole owner, ensuring a smooth transition for you and your kids. Find out the implications of your ex's name being on the mortgage and how it affects their access to the property. If you're determined to preserve your home amidst the changes that divorce brings, this episode offers invaluable guidance. Tune in to gain clarity and empower yourself during this challenging chapter of your life. We got you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Moving Out Selling the House Financial Contributions I really really want to keep the house: general legal tips on how to achieve this goal whilst going through property settlement, divorce and de facto separation. You Don't Want to Miss Out On How to figure out if you can keep the house? How does someone get the mortgage into your own name if they want to keep the house after divorce. Examples of property settlement spits Can you put your Mum or a Family Member on the house so you can keep the house? What happens if you both want to keep the house? What might the family court do if both people want to keep the house? What if you both want to stay on the mortgage after property settlement? What if your ex offers to stay on the mortgage until the children are older so I can afford to stay in the house. What is the court obligation in regards to property settlement The emotional decision about the family home Moving forward with your life and keeping the house Pitfalls to watch out for when trying to keep the house in property settlement. Why it's important to look forward 5 years before making property settlement decisions. Calculations to consider when deciding if you want to keep the house. Emotional considerations for if you want to keep the house What is a CAVEAT? Consequences of leaving the house during the divorce process. What happens with a caveat on a house? Can your ex come over to the house if they still have their name on it? Can you change the locks on the house if you are the one who is going to stay in it during the divorce? What is sole occupancy? Is it unreasonable for both parties to stay living under one roof? Can you change the locks? What other options do you have if you can't afford to keep the house? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Consent Orders: it's not rocket science. Explore the what, when, why, how of property and parenting consent orders after divorce so you know what's what.	16 May 2023	00:35:33
Wondering if you need consent orders when going through a divorce? We answer the what, why, when and how in the world of consent orders and answer all your burning questions you wish you could ask a lawyer. Discover the benefits of consent orders, the difference between consent orders and court orders, and whether they're cheaper than financial agreements. We'll also share insights on protecting yourself financially and resolving parenting matters. Learn how to avoid stamp duty, when to initiate consent orders, and why legal advice is crucial. Don't miss this valuable information! Explore what they are, why you need them and when you should do them. Also how hard is it and what are the steps you need to take? Learn about the different approaches you might need to take depending on your ex's personality traits and also be aware of the dirty tricks to watch out for before you sign anything. Educate and empower yourself so you can get the best outcome for your de facto separation or divorce property settlement or parenting arrangements. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Untangling your finances podcast episode How to stop your kids from being used as chess pieces episode Consent Orders: it's not rocket science. Explore the what, when, why, how of property and parenting consent orders after divorce so you know what's what. You Don't Want to Miss Out On Do you need consent orders when going through divorce? What do consent orders do? What is the difference between consent orders and court orders? Are consent orders cheaper than a financial agreement? Is it better to go to court or get consent orders? What is the benefit of doing consent orders? Why can consent orders protect you financially moving forward? Why do consent orders help you with parenting matters? Do you need consent orders for kids? Can you use a parenting plan instead of consent orders for divorce? The family courts view on children and stable arrangements/ Consent orders and stamp duty How to avoid paying stamp duty during divorce or de facto separation? When is the best time to do consent orders for property settlement? How expensive is a consent order? What is the consent order application form like? What to do before you sign consent orders? Legal advice for consent orders and why it's important to see someone before you sign anything. How to avoid high costs with a lawyer What is a legal precedent? Why is wording so important in a consent order? Court Portal and filing ComCourts Can you do partial consent orders? Agreements during divorce negotiations What to do with partial agreements during divorce negotiations Consent orders and amicable separations Do you need consent orders is you are amicable Can you both go to the same lawyer? Why shouldn't you sign a consent order unless they sign it too. Dirty tricks used during consent orders being made What to look for in high conflict relationships with consent orders? What is an application for consent orders? How hard is it to fill in the application for consent orders form? How to get an avoidant person to sign consent orders? What is the dangers of just signing consent orders without giving it good thought. What to say to yourself if you are just wanting to sign anything to make it all stop? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.
	Can you really mediate with a narcissist? Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviours.	09 May 2023	00:41:15
Can you meditate with a narcissist or someone with narcissistic traits in your divorce? Although you might see it as a waste of time, there is actually some good that can come out of it even if you don't settle. Our experienced accredited mediator and also experienced family law specialist will guide you through how you can make your mediation for family law matters (like property or parenting) work for you. Learn some strategies and steps you can take if you are dealing with someone who has narcissistic traits. Don't waste your precious chance to settle or find out more about your ex's plans. Listen to this episode today and get your agenda and strategies sorted. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic After Mediation Episode FDR Mediation or Conciliation Conferences Episode Convincing the Unconvincable Episode Can you really mediate with a narcissist? Mediation and Negotiation Tips when divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviours You Don't Want to Miss Out On What might surprise you at a mediation with a narcissist Why you think you know what your ex is thinking is a mistake for mediation Why it's a bad idea to assume your ex thinks like you leading up to mediation. When you understand what they care about you can have success in mediation What is the shuttle process? Why the shuttle process helps in mediation with a narcissist How you can ask the mediator to help you with the narcissistic attacks during the mediation. How to let your mediator know about their behaviour The three things a narcissist will care most about in their agreement with you. Does it matter if the mediator knows they are narcissists? How you can use the mediation to help tailor your affidavit for trial The cat and mouse game sometimes used in mediation by a narcissist How to avoid the game playing in mediation with a narcissist Which issue do you deal with first in mediation with a narcissist? Can you make suggestions to the mediator? How to agree on the agenda for the day How to make sure your narcissistic ex doesn't run the agenda for the day. Why you should avoid using the word narcissist when going through family court unless they are officially diagnosed. What should you do to show to the mediator or the judge that your ex has narcissistic behaviours? How to "rebrand" your offer in negotiation so that your narcissistic ex will agree to it. Do's and Don'ts of mediation with a narcissist Why you need to be mentally fit to get the most out of the mediation. What is the current mediation success rate? Is the family court full of narcissists? Why taking proof and documentation to a mediation is a good idea. What the mediator will do to help you in a mediation with a narcissist Is a shuttle process a good idea with a narcissist? How to be aware of old patterns and how to stay out of them during negotiations with your ex. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Delay Tactics in Divorce: How to counter them & How it can affect your Property, Children's & Domestic Violence matters.	02 May 2023	00:41:10
Are you getting frustrated because your ex is delaying everything? Or has nothing happened for ages to sort out your property and children's issues after you separated from your ex? Are you worried because it might be a delay tactic for some reason? You might be right. Delays can be strategic for parenting matters, domestic violence matters and property matters. In this episode take a look at the pitfalls of falling for delay tactics and letting things drag. Discover ways you can overcome these delays in the three different stages of divorce or de facto separation process. Learn from an accredited family law specialist about delay tactics that happen from right at the beginning whilst still living under the same roof, to the strategies used whilst in mediation and negotiation all the way up to delay tactics during court. No matter what personality type you have in divorce you may be faced with delay tactics. This can be frustrating when you are trying to move things forward. Listen to this episode so you can get on with your life even when your ex doesn't seem to want to. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Costs & Calderbank Offers How to Divorce a Statue Delay Tactics in Divorce: How to counter them & How it can affect your Property, Children's & Domestic Violence matters. You Don't Want to Miss Out On What are delay tactics When do delay tactics cause problems Tactically how do delays help your ex during divorce? Section 117c of the family law act and why you need to know about it? The family law act and updates coming How to cope with living under one roof and they are delaying Can a judge send someone to jail in the federal circuit and family court of australia? Some of the worst delay tactics a family law expert has seen What happens if your ex starts dragging the chain How to deal with centrelink during delays How to protect your state of mind during the delay tactics What happens if your ex won't disclose? What happens if your ex wants to delay so they can spend the cash before you start proceedings? What is the waiting period to get divorced? What is the property settlement deadline for de facto separation What is the property settlement deadline for divorced couples? What is a no fault divorce in Australia What incentives does your ex have to stall everything after separation? Do delay tactics help in parenting matters? What kind of delay tactics do you watch out for in parenting and children's matters Do delay tactics cause problems in domestic violence matters? What happens if your ex pretends they don't get your letters? What happens if your ex says let's deal with this all after christmas? What can you do if you are trying to get the matter moving along and your ex doesn't want to? What about if they delay mediation? What happens if they delay disclosure in mediation? What is the central practice direction and the obligation to respond to your letters? Why putting in a time and date that you expect a response helps with delays. Tips on writing letters to people who are delaying doing something to move your divorce forward. What is a default judgement and how you can get it if your ex just won't lift a finger. Can you be financially compensated if your ex is delaying everything What are the cost implications of delay tactics? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	DIVORCE ON A BUDGET: How to negotiate, mediate and go to court on a shoestring	25 Apr 2023	00:52:07
Can you do your divorce, property settlement and parenting matters on a budget? How do you keep your costs down on this journey? How much should you try to do yourself? What should you save your dollars on and what should you spend your dollars on? In this episode we walk you through the whole process from separation to final trial including before you even think about court and explore what you can do on the cheap and what you can do yourself? Can you do a lot of the property and parenting agreements yourself. We walk you through each step of the divorce or de facto separation journey and look at what you can save your dollars on and what you shouldn't skimp on. We also discuss the pro's and con's of self representation in court. Also learn why mediation could be the best way to save your dollars and how to do it. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Documentation Episode How to stop your children from being used as chess pieces When amicable goes wrong episode Mediation Episode Pre Action Procedures FDR Mediation Episode Response to initiating application What to expect in a trial Documents mentioned in this Podcast Episode CENTRAL PRACTICE DIRECTIONS DIVORCE ON A BUDGET: How to negotiate, mediate and go to court on a shoestring You Don't Want to Miss Out On How to keep your costs down when going through divorce Can you do your divorce on a budget? Do you need a lawyer for divorce, childrens matters or property settlement? The risks of doing your divorce settlements without a lawyer How can you do a low cost mediation How are you charged for mediation How to keep your costs down by doing your own disclosure How is disclosure done? How much do lawyers charge for doing negotiations before court? How much do you have to spend on mediation? Can you do mediation without a lawyer? What is the most expensive part of a divorce How can you ensure that you keep your legal fees down whilst getting the best outcome for your divorce property settlement. How seeing a psychologist can help you save money in your own divorce proceedings. How to get a mental health care plan during your divorce? Does a more expensive mediator give you a better outcome? Do fees equal expertise when it comes to mediators? How to choose a good mediation that will be worth the money that you pay. Is mediation a waste of time with a narcissist? Is mediation a waste of time with a manipulative or controlling ex? Best tips for keeping your mediation costs low. What mediation success rate is in general in Australia? When mediation happens too soon and why it might not work? The questions to ask yourself before deciding how much money to spend on mediators What to tell the judge if you can't afford a lawyer What to tell the judge if you can't afford mediation Can you do your own negotiations? Can you do the first court even on your own Can you be a self represented litigant for family court? What happens in the first court even and how much would it cost if you got a lawyer? How to get through a court event with your emotions intact. Type of people who might need a lawyer during court events. Things to say if you are self representing in the family court and you are overwhelmed? If you are trying to save money in the family court the pitfalls to watch out for if self representing? How to save yourself thousands during family court proceedings? What are submissions and when you might need to do them if you can't afford to pay a mediator etc Can you do your court documents yourself? Can you negotiate a divorce settlement without a lawyer? What is the best way to keep your costs down in the family court? How to avoid the old "death by documents" legal bill Can you do a trial on your own The importance of Section 102na of the Family Law Act and family violence Are there strategies your ex's lawyers may use on you and to be aware of if you are a self represented litigant ? Can you get legal aid to help you in the family court What does a duty lawyer do in Family Court? What is the best way to save money in your divorce? What is the easiest way to rack up your legal bill in a divorce. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	A simple way to protect your children from being used as chess pieces in your divorce or de facto separation	18 Apr 2023	00:35:55
Learn simple ways that you can protect your children from becoming chess pieces in the family court or divorce proceedings. Sometimes ex's change their idea of how much time they want to spend with the kids. These reasons could be genuine but sometimes it can be motivated by money. With these simple steps you can help protect your current arrangements for the children. Just in case in the future your divorce or de facto separation proceedings get nasty. Sometimes this includes wanting extra time with the kids so they get a bigger share of the property pool or finding out about child support and wanting to have more nights with the kids to reduce the child support amount. Explore this topic and learn about what happens if this gets to the family court and the best ways to protect you and your children before it comes to this. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Do I really need to respond to that? episode The 12 Agreements Parenting Plan Guide episode When amicable goes wrong episode A simple way to protect your children from being used as chess pieces in your divorce or de facto separation You Don't Want to Miss Out On Is a parenting plan legally binding? What's the difference between consent orders and a parenting plan? How to protect your kids from becoming pawns in divorce proceedings. The court's view of parenting plans What people change their minds about time spent with the kids. When people decide to change time spent with the kids because of child support When your ex wants to punish you by changing parenting arrangements with the kids. When your ex can get a new partner and then want new time. The presumption of equal shared care The family court and new rules coming. Assumptions of Fathers in the Family Court Assumptions of Mothers in the Family Court How to write a simple parenting plan How to word a simple parenting plan How to decide where the children spend time and when What happens if your ex all of a sudden wants to become parent of the year. How does a judge look at parenting plans What does a parent plan do for you in the legal system What to watch out for if your ex is using the kids as a pawn in the family court How to protect yourself from accusations of alienation Is parental alienation real? How to protect yourself from child support changes What other things you can do to protect yourself from potential fight in the family court What you should do if you don't have a documented plan What if your ex says you are a bad parent What to look out for in actual divorce documents if you have a manipulative and controlling ex. How to protect the kids from post separation abuse If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Disclosure: the what, why, when & how of disclosure for divorce or de facto separation.	10 Apr 2023	00:49:42
No matter where you are up to in the divorce or de facto separation journey, disclosure will be part of the process. Explore what it is, when you will need it, what it is used for and what happens if you or your ex don't do it. This episode discusses disclosure for property settlement and childrens matters in court, mediation and in negotiations. Explore what to do if you are feeling under pressure to provide too much disclosure and what to do if your ex isn't providing enough. Learn about the process involved in looking at disclosure and what you can do yourself to keep your legal fees down. Learn about how to protect yourself if you are worried about your safety and disclosure. This episode comes with a handy downloadable guide click here to get it now —> GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic DIY Disclosure Episode Dirty Money Deeds Episode Pre Action Procedures Episode Disclosure: the what, why, when & how of disclosure for divorce or de facto separation. You Don't Want to Miss Out On What is disclosure? When do you need disclosure? How to avoid racking up legal bills with disclosure? Types of disclosure documents How to present disclosure? How do lawyers go through disclosure? How to keep disclosure relevant What happens if your ex doesn't disclose? What happens if you don't disclose? What will happen if disclosure isn't done before mediation? What happens if they are asking for too much disclosure? How do you provide disclosure? Does your ex get to look at your disclosure? How do you ensure privacy with your disclosure? Can you redact some parts of your disclosure? What is the process of sharing disclosure? Do you keep having to provide disclosure? How do you keep your legal bill down with disclosure? How can be disclosure be used in the Family Court? What if you see lots of cash withdrawals in their bank disclosure? What to do if you find out something in their disclosure that matters? What you might say to their lawyer if you find something in disclosure? Can you do property settlement without disclosure? Will the family court allow you to do a settlement without disclosure? What happens if you know they don't have anything to disclose? Should you sign anything without seeing their disclosure? Do mediators or judges look at disclosure? How to present disclosure findings to the judge or mediator? What if you are overwhelmed and don't want to do disclosure? Things to look for in your ex's disclosure? Can you refuse to do disclosure? What if your lawyer is asking you to provide too much disclosure? High conflict and disclosure Manipulative and controlling and disclosure Narcissists and disclosure Avoidant and disclosure Tax returns and Tax returns assessments and disclosure Superannuation and disclosure If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Surprising issues that are irrelevant in divorce & separation proceedings. So you can focus all your efforts on the things that your mediator, divorce lawyer or judge will actually care about.	04 Apr 2023	00:45:42
How do you know what is important in your case? Sometimes events in your divorce journey may really upset you and you think they are important but in the end it doesn't matter according to the family law act. You need to know what things are not important so you can focus on the stuff that is. This helps you make sure your affidavits and documents for mediation are focusing on the important factors. In this episode a family law accredited specialist is going to cover things you might not realise don't actually matter in the court's eyes. Plus a famliy lawyers insight into a few things that REALLY DO matter to Judges and Mediators. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. If this information is distressing for you or if you need support in regard to sexual assault, domestic or family violence you can call 1800 RESPECT 1800 737 732 for 24/7 phone and online services. If you, a child, or another person is in immediate danger, call 000. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic DIY Disclosure Episode Divorcing a Narcissist Episode Surprising Issues that are irrelevant in divorce & separation proceedings. So you can focus all your efforts on the things your mediator, divorce lawyer or judge will actually care about. You Don't Want to Miss Out On: Does cheating matter in the family court? Does it matter if they've got a new boyfriend or new girlfriend during the divorce process? Does it matter if the other person constantly gets the kids looked after by a babysitter? What is no fault divorce? What is the clause called "first right of refusal." Different routines at each house does it matter in family court? The court expectations about parenting styles and what doesn't matter? Does the court care if you both can't agree on ipad time, tv, bed times. What does the court think about the other parent being 10 mins late for pick up and drop off etc. The lazy as an argument for property settlement and what the court thinks about it. What happens if your ex hasn't done anything to support the household or family? Does it matter if you did all the renovations on your joint owned house. Does it matter if your ex earns more than you in property settlement and divorce? If your ex brought more money into the marriage do they get more money after separation and divorce? Does it matter if the family business loses money and it wasn't your fault? What happens if you had no idea what was going on in the family business? Does it matter if the family business goes downhill after separation and isn't worth anything? What is a negative contribution and how does it work in divorce and property settlement? What about coercive control and power imbalances in property settlement. What happens if you don't follow the judges directions? What happens if you don't file documents in time for court or mediation? The Family Law Act Section 79 for marriages Section 60 for Child and Section 90 for Defacto If your ex doesn't give you disclosure what happens? What is the judge's view on non-disclosure? What does the judge think of people lying in family court? What happens with a lying person in the witness box? The domestic violence pendulum during divorce negotiations What happens when you get hyper triggered during negotiations? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	ChatGPT and Divorce: 4 AI Traps That Could Hurt Your Case	13 Aug 2025	00:42:16
Listen to This Episode If You: 🗣️ Have used ChatGPT or AI tools to write legal documents 📱 Are wondering if your chat history could be used in court 🧾 Need help drafting or planning divorce paperwork 🤯 Feel overwhelmed and are tempted to "just ask ChatGPT" ⚖️ Want to avoid serious legal mistakes caused by bad AI info 🧠 Are using AI to organize your thoughts, but unsure where the line is More and more people are turning to AI tools like ChatGPT during their separation or divorce — but is it helping… or hurting your case? In this episode, we explore the four major risks of using AI in your divorce process and show you how to use it safely (if at all). From the scary reality that your chats can be subpoenaed, to the truth about AI "hallucinations" in affidavits, we break it all down so you don't get caught off guard. We also share ways you can use AI smartly — for planning, organizing thoughts, or building checklists — but why you still need legal and emotional support from real people. 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This is general information only and not legal advice. Always consult a lawyer for your personal situation. ⏱️ Episode Timeline – What We Cover: [00:00] – Can You Use AI in Divorce? An Introduction to ChatGPT and Legal Tech [00:48] – Important Legal Disclaimer: Why AI tools can't replace professional legal advice [01:29] – What Are AI Tools Like ChatGPT? Overview of how people use AI in divorce [02:41] – Should You Use AI to Draft Consent Orders? Key risks and considerations [05:47] – Can ChatGPT Write My Affidavit? The dangers of AI-generated court documents [08:14] – Why ChatGPT Isn't a Lawyer: Understanding the limitations of AI in family law [12:23] – Is AI Just Telling You What You Want to Hear? How emotional bias can show up [15:35] – Can AI Be Used as Evidence in Court? Legal risks of relying on chat transcripts [20:53] – Upcoming Webinar Announcement: Learn more about using tech in legal separation [23:26] – Are Judges Ready for AI in Family Law? How courts are adapting to tech tools [24:07] – What Evidence Will the Court Accept? Tips on using tech tools wisely [24:25] – How Legal Communication Has Evolved: From letters to chat logs [25:25] – Key AI Risks to Watch for in Divorce Cases: What the law doesn't forgive [27:01] – How to Use AI Safely: Smart ways to organise your thoughts and prep for court [29:23] – Real Cautionary Tales: What can go wrong when AI replaces your legal team [33:31] – Final Tips and Takeaways: When AI is helpful—and when it's risky 🎙️ Related Episodes Putting Coercive Control into writing for Affidavits etc https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Ci0M4DqznBf1L1kcZM3vY?si=Bxeequf0R3G2LNjMWGwiSw Divorce Survival: when you feel like giving up https://open.spotify.com/episode/77KUxaiDS3dKQJl9ly5QtA?si=LMmJ7f0sRXqW5sFWJCb7Tg 12 agreements creating your own parenting plan https://open.spotify.com/episode/6j325rOj96QvV8spPnYsX5?si=J2zhKMgqRrGgKjsh1UbicA 📌 Links & Resources Mentioned: 📞 1800 RESPECT – National Family Violence Support 📞 Lifeline: 13 11 14 – 24/7 Emotional Support 🆘 Emergency & Support Contacts: 💜 Women's Shelter: 1800 811 811 📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis): 13 11 14 👨‍👧 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 👧 Kids Helpline: 1800 551 800 🚨 DV Hotline: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This is a general discussion and not legal advice. Please see a qualified lawyer for advice specific to your situation.
	Do I really need to respond to that?! When co parenting communication becomes tricky during divorce proceedings.	28 Mar 2023	00:34:13
Do you really have to respond to every false accusation or demanding message from a co parent during your divorce proceedings? This episode with a Family Law Specialist we cover the legal implications if you choose to respond and the ways in which you go about it. We share some easy guidelines to help you to decide for yourself. In this episode you also will learn the best co parenting communication hack of all time. Do you have to engage in every slinging match? If you have a narcissistic type ex, coparenting stops the grey rock method from working so how do you keep the drama in the box without being afraid of it coming back at you later in a legal context such as the family court? How do you cope with post separation abuse when it comes to coparenting communciation? We answer these questions and more. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. If this information is distressing for you or if you need support in regard to sexual assault, domestic or family violence you can call 1800 RESPECT 1800 737 732 for 24/7 phone and online services. If you, a child, or another person is in immediate danger, call 000. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Post Separation Abuse Episode Divorcing a narcissist in the family court Do I need to respond to that? When co parenting communication becomes tricky during divorce proceedings. You Don't Want to Miss Out On When to respond to false accusations Why you should respond or not How to respond Should you ignore their messages of false accusations? How to bulk respond to co-parenting accusations ? Do you need to address it if you drop your kids later to school? Do you need to address it if you keep your kids home from school How to avoid the little traps set up by the manipulative coparent How to avoid the fights with the high conflict co parent How to bundle your responses to the coparent. Co Parenting hack of the year if you are dealing with a manipulative or high conflict parent. How to create an or else situation with an avoidant coparent The things you need to consider when deciding how to respond to a co parent who is trying to have a fight or manipulate you. What is a guillotine order in family court? What happens if you don't respond to a false accusation? What's the best way to shut down an argument? What if your ex keeps asking the same questions or wants to continue the argument? What to do if you think your ex is evidence gathering? What to do if you think your ex is just writing accusations to get your attention? Your mental health and coparenting with a manipulative and controlling ex. Narcissist and coparenting, Does having final orders change the approach you have to have with communication with a co parent or accusations by a co parent. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Untangling your finances: your property settlement for divorce or separation explained.	21 Mar 2023	00:38:02
Untangling your finances. Your property settlement explained. If you are looking to get separated or divorced but you have to untangle your finances and you are thinking "yikes. that is a big knot to untangle", then this is the episode for you. We will talk you through the overview of what happens and how to get your finances, mortgage, house, car, cash, furniture and super untangled. A perfect episode for you to know where you're headed, how it works and how to make it happen. Also discover how to approach this phase based on the different divorce personality types you might be experiencing. This is based on Australian Law and is a general guide only. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Divorce Limbo Episode Financial Contributions Episode Selling the house in divorce Episode You Don't Want to Miss Out On Why do you need to sort your property according to the family law act? What happens if you stay in divorce limbo? What are the consequences of never sorting out your property? What happens in property settlement to the house? How to work out who gets to keep the house How to work out if you can afford to keep the house What if you can't afford the mortgage? What does the court do if one wants to sell the house and the other wants to keep it? What happens to the money from the sale of the house? How do they work out what part of the assets you get to keep? How to figure out a payout amount for the house. How to figure out who gets the cash? What happens to the cars? How do you decide who gets which? How do you get the car in your name? Do you have to sell the car? How to get a car valued. How to transfer the car into your name after a property settlement agreement has been filed. How to avoid stamp duty for transferring the car name during property settlement. Who gets the furniture in property settlement? How does the court sort out furniture fights? How is superannuation sorted out in divorce? What superannuation cannot be split up? Would a court agree to giving one person all the cash and one person all the super? Self Managed Super Funds, what happens with these? What happens with Trusts in divorce and property settlement? Business valuations during divorce What happens if you are registered as part of a business that is involved in your property settlement. Tax implications for divorce property settlement. The process a lawyer takes when deciding what property goes to who after deciding on the percentage. Manipulative and controlling ex partners and untangling your finances Amicable break up and property settlement tips. Avoidant divorce and property settlement. What to do if someone is dragging out the property settlement. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	The importance of record keeping during divorce & separation: the what, why, when and how to help yourself in mediation, family court or even just in negotiation.	14 Mar 2023	00:42:32
Learn the types of things you should document and how. Explore ways that you can easily document things and the legal pitfalls to avoid. Learn how good documenting can protect you from a manipulative controlling or high conflict ex if they ever take you to family court in the future. Explore why it is so important to document property and parenting issues and events moving forward. Why you should do it whether you are amicable or not with your ex. Why documenting things will help for parenting negotiations or a potential future custody battle in the family court. This episode also has a quick general guide of what you should document when you leave. Along with this handy checklist below. Click here for our free before you leave checklist Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Documents mentioned Financial Statement (form) \| Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Financial Contributions Episode What to do before you leave podcast episode The importance of record keeping during divorce: the what, why, when and how to help you in mediation, family court or even just in negotiations You Don't Want to Miss Out On Why record keeping is important When should you start record keeping Why you should record keep during separation Why is documenting important in parenting negotiations? Why you should keep records during the divorce process. Why record keeping in property settlement process is important. What's the difference between a diary entry and a memory in court proceedings How to prove your word against your ex in court Why documenting is important to help with proving domestic violence and coercive control. How to keep track of who has the kids and when. What type of proof works in family court and why Why documenting the separation date is so important in de facto marriage. What is disclosure and why it is important. School records: the coming and going of early pick up and late drop offs. How to protect yourself from losing personal items after separation through documentation. When it comes to property what types of things you should document. What are post separation contributions? Why quantifying and proving post separation contributions might help you get it back in property settlement. What is a financial statement for the family court? Why setting yourself up a budget The difference between an online diary or online calendar vs a handwritten book or a handwritten note. Times when documentation saves someone's case during divorce, custody or property proceedings in the family court. Documents and how it can help your case How documentation can help you if you have a manipulative and controlling ex. High conflict and documentation Documentation if you have an amicable breakup Documentation and avoidant ex's Parenting plans and documentation If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Four things you might not realise are coercive control and the questions to ask yourself to see if it might be happening to you.	07 Mar 2023	00:36:37
Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses coercive control and domestic violence. You may have heard that DV is not just physical abuse. Just because they don't hit you doesn't mean you are not experiencing domestic or family violence. In this episode we will talk about four things that you might not realise are DV that are flying under your radar. We discuss coercive control and where you should go for support if you are experiencing this. We also explore the questions you need to ask yourself to find out if you might be experiencing some types of non physical forms of domestic violence or coercive control. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. If this information is distressing for you or if you need support in regard to sexual assault, domestic or family violence you can call 1800 RESPECT 1800 737 732 for 24/7 phone and online services. If you, a child, or another person is in immediate danger, call 000. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Books mentioned Reinventing Your Life: The Breakthrough Program to End Negative Behavior...and Feel Great Again Aaron T. Beck , Jeffrey E. Young , Janet S. Klosko Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Family Domestic Violence and How it impacts your case Family Violence Coercive Control in divorce and after separation Coercive Control: how to help yourself or a friend Stalking and Coercive Control You Don't Want to Miss Out On What are examples of non-physical forms of domestic violence? What types of silent treatment are considered a part of coercive control? What is the cycle of abuse? Why some unspoken rules with your partner could be domestic violence. What's wrong with hiding things from your family and friends that you were embarrassed about in your relationship. Control of money and what might be domestic violence. Tracking your expenses and giving you rules on how to spend it. Are there different rules for your partner with the joint money? Money rules, what isn't ok. Who owns the money in a marriage? Questions to ask yourself to see if you are being financially controlled. Are you budgeting or is it financial control? Financial control what it might look like in your relationship? The difference between privacy and financial control. If they earn the money do you get a say in how it is spent? Love bombing and what happens after Narcissists and love bombing. Are they checking in on you all the time for love or for control? What happens when you go from a toxic coercive control relationship to a healthy relationship? Why seeing a psychologist can help you not fall back into the same pattern. When the ex re partners When you repartner too early. Moving yourself away from the same patterns Why patterns of these behaviours make you lose your identity. How coercive control is a pattern How the courts are becoming more aware of it What you can do if this is happening to you Do you need to tell your lawyer if you suspect you have been under a coercive control relationship How confiding in a friend can help. What type of friend you should consider telling about coercive control or domestic violence in your relationship? Defamation and how to be sure you don't get in trouble with this. Why you should start safely writing the abuse down so you can remind yourself later. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	5 Ways To Avoid An Expensive Divorce or Separation. Exploring the ways legal fees become unnecessarily higher and how to stop it.	28 Feb 2023	00:38:15
Is your main divorce or de facto separation fear having a very expensive legal bill? Are you currently going through separation negotiations, mediation, property settlement or a child custody battle? In this episode we discuss the five most common and easy ways to rack up your legal bill and how to avoid it. If you don't want an expensive divorce or separation, listen to these five things your lawyer or you might be doing and learn how to stop it. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Cases mentioned Strahan and Strahan Case Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Choosing a Lawyer and Red Flags not to ignore Costs and Calderbank Offers Episode You Don't Want to Miss Out On The case of strahan and strahan and why its a cautionary tale Lawyer "Ping Pong" letters and how to avoid them Why getting the facts matter Why proof will save you $$$ in your legal bills How to negotiate and keep your legal costs down Why negotiating your property settlement isn't the same as negotiating for a house or used car with a sales agent. What you need to take if you are self representing yourself at mediation How does hunting for documents cost you high legal fees Bank statements and disclosure in negotiations What type of disclosure do you need for mediation The new family law rules for disclosure Why you should have a reason for each document your lawyer starts hunting What happens with disclosure in your court case Questions to ask yourself for each disclosure you ask for How disclosure correlates to legal costs Why the court is still using paper instead of online documents Why you need to have a copy of your documents in hard copy sometimes Post separation abuse, disclosure & your privacy Domestic violence and disclosure and privacy The central practice direction on disclosure Subpoenas and the process Who is allowed to issue subpoenas and how many Documents and disclosure and legal costs What is the step in step out approach What happens if you don't like your lawyer? What happens if you need a second opinion from another lawyer? Can you change lawyers? Issues with changing lawyers The difference between an accredited family law specialist and a general lawyer Choosing a lawyer and how it can affect your legal fee costs Can you use a general lawyer for your family law case? Statistics of court self represented litigants Statistics of cost of family court matters If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	4 Roadblocks that may be stopping you from getting the best outcome in your property or custody case & what you can do about it	21 Feb 2023	00:37:59
Which roadblock are you facing for getting the best outcome in your separation, divorce property settlement or custody case? This episode is perfect for anyone at any point of the divorce or separation process. Our Family Law Specialist has identified some behaviours she has seen in previous clients that get in the way of sorting things out for good. We identify and discuss what these roadblocks are, how you know if this is what you are facing, how it might affect your case legally and what you can do about it. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic What to do before you leave Moving out How to divorce a statue You Don't Want to Miss Out On What happens if you just want peace at any price during settling your divorce? How can you identify if you have a rushing issue? What happens if you just want it done and agree to anything? How to double check to see if you are going to live with what you have negotiated at mediation Why it is important to get advice to see if the agreement is good for you. Why it is important to take time to think about your agreement before signing. Signing consent orders Questions to ask yourself (then see a lawyer) before signing consent orders Are you an impulse buyer and how it could affect your divorce How to make a considered decision in your divorce What decisions you might make in divorce negotiations if you are exhausted Why it is important to follow your timeline not theirs (unless it is court related) Why putting yourself in someone else shoes might help you make a decision Strategies to help make sure you don't just give in What happens in negotiations if you are super attached to your family home during property settlement Things to remind yourself before you give in What happens if you are the high conflict person during divorce proceedings What happens in negotiations if you have been subject to domestic violence What happens with the domestic violence affect pendulum kicks in during divorce negotiations How does having a high conflict attitude affect your family court case? What goes through a lawyer's mind as they write a letter to you and what you need to keep in mind when reading it. Why it's so important to take the emotion out of it. What happens if you have escaped coercive control and your reactions get scrutinised by the family court Why it is important to educate yourself on the legal process if you are getting divorced Why it's important to work on yourself to ensure you make the best decisions for property settlement How to stop yourself being avoidant in the divorce process How to stop yourself procrastinating during your property or children's matters Why it is important to find a good lawyer Questions you should ask yourself if you keep procrastinating doing the work for court or negotiations or mediation What to do if you are feeling sad about leaving your family home. Does being avoidant affect your family law case? What happens if you don't open or read legal letters? Can being avoidant mean your ex might get orders by default If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	10 things that could happen legally and emotionally after mediation (in the family court or privatley)	14 Feb 2023	00:32:36
Are you about to go to mediation or have you just completed a mediation and are wondering what happens after, if you agree. In this Family Law episode we discuss 10 things that happen emotionally and legally after you settle at mediation. Our Family Law specialist expert explores what to expect if you have walked out of a mediation with a verbal agreement, a written agreement or signed consent orders. We then look at what you do with your agreement or orders. This is a great episode for those about to start the separation process or who are going to mediation so you know what might happen next and what you should aim for and do after. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic Mediation Episode FDR Mediation Episode Pre-Action Procedures Episode Resources that might help you Attorney General Website list of FDRP Fact sheet on disclosure FCFCOA You Don't Want to Miss Out On What is settlers remorse and how to stop it What happens after mediation if you've finally agreed to everything. What is litigation neurosis and how can if affect you after your case is settled Questions to ask yourself if you wake up and want to change your mind Can you undo an agreement after mediation What happens if you walk away with a verbal agreement after mediation What is a heads of agreement? What happens if you both sign a heads of agreement? What isn't confidential in a heads agreement What happens with a signed consent order What is a consent order What stamp duty can you avoid using your court order or filed consent orders What you should do once you end up with consent orders filed or sealed court orders What happens to you after mediation Does mediation work is it worth it What's the difference between mediation and divorce Section 9 of the Family Law Act and what it means for transferring your car or house over to your ex or to you. What happens if you don't follow your orders? What happens if your ex doesn't follow the orders? Is it finally over once you have consent orders signed and filed? Is it finally over if you walk away with an agreement after mediation? What options do you have if you need to change the orders? Financial agreement or property consent order? Do online financial agreements stand up in court? Why it's important to get individual legal advice on your situation How does the court approve a consent order? Why it is important to get your orders checked before signing. Things that might not get approved through the family court with consent orders Do judges personalities play into court outcomes? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	The steps to take before going to Family Court - FCFCOA Pre-Action Procedures overview	07 Feb 2023	00:34:35
Do you think your divorce proceedings are on its way to court or mediation? The FCFCOA is taking control of the family court timelines with pre-action procedures that must occur before you go to court (unless it is urgent). We discuss the pre-action procedures including mediation that you need to do before you even think about filing in court and the certain letters that need to be shared. We discuss what these procedures are and what happens if you don't do them. We touch on sharing your proposed orders, inviting your ex to mediation and doing your disclosure and if you need a lawyer to do it? Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Join the Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic DIY DISCLOSURE EPISODE Divorcing a Statue Episode Resources that might help you FCFCOA Pre-action procedures fact sheet Attorney General Website list of FDRP Fact sheet on disclosure FCFCOA You Don't Want to Miss Out On What are pre-action procedures for the FCFCOA What do you need to do to make these procedures happen How to invite your ex to mediation How to share your proposed orders with your ex Notice of intent to file How to share what you want to happen with the children How to share what you want to happen with the property What the timelines are for responding to your letters What situations don't require pre action procedures What types of people you need for mediation What is the process that happens when you book in mediation What is disclosure What types of things should you disclose? What disclosure is described in the Family Law Act How to avoid wasting money in this phase Doing your own disclosure What you should do if they don't give you disclosure What should you do if they don't have disclosure at mediation? Guessing a valuation What is a redacted disclosure document Should you hide names in your disclosure Privacy and disclosure What is a notice of intent to file What to write in a letter when doing a notice of intent to file Pre-Action Procedures Central Practice Direction What happens after sending the notice of intent to file letter What are the next steps after the pre action procedures? How long to wait between each step? What is a genuine steps certificate? Post Separation Abuse and how the pre action procedures will help stop it What happens if you don't follow the pre action procedures What happens if you have not complied Do you need a lawyer to help you with the pre action procedures required by the FCFCOA? Do you need a lawyer for your meditation? What does it cost to go to mediation in the pre action procedure stage? What do you do if the other side is threatening to take you to court and they haven't done the pre action procedures. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Family & Domestic Violence and how it impacts on your case in The Family Court	01 Feb 2023	00:40:39
How does family violence affect your family court outcome? Lyn, a family law specialist explains five tips on how to present the family violence to the family court in a way that the court will take note. We also explore what kind of orders the family court might make in an attempt to keep your children safe if there has been family violence in the past. We also discuss the myths that are still floating around about domestic violence, coercive control and the family court. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Podcast Episodes that are related to this topic COERCIVE CONTROL PODCAST EPISODE Domestic-violence-and-family-violence-part-2 Resources that might help you Examples of Coercive Control Consent Tea Video FCFCOA Notice of child abuse, family violence or risks containing examples of how the family violence may affect your children. You Don't Want to Miss Out On The FCFCOA's current general approach towards domestic violence How does the Family Court manage the risk of a violent parent The balancing act the court has to do between a child's right to see both parents and a child's safety. How does the family court protect your children from psychological and physical harm when family violence has occurred. Unacceptable Risk, Risk or No Risk and how the court may determine this. 5 general tips on how to present the effect the family violence has had on you and your children in family court. How the family court looks for signs of rehabilitation Can a family court order someone to get counselling Have people in the past lied and used family violence or dv as a tool to get custody of the children Five tips on how to present your case to the family court How to lay out the facts in an affidavit Why it's important to focus on the kids and the impact on them during the family court process. What are examples of how the domestic violence that happened to you impacted on the children? Why is it important to show the family court any family violence that has occurred after separation. Why it is important to focus on the facts while dealing with the Family Court and explaining what occurred. Things to be mindful of when referring to your diary or journal during family court proceedings. The pendulum of effects of domestic violence and how to be aware of it when you are going through your divorce process. What kind of orders does a court make to ensure children are safe if family violence has occured. Contact centres and how they work and why they are used. What happens if family violence occurs again. When would your case be reopened in the family court after you've had final orders. If there is family violence does the court make the children no contact with that parent? Myths floating around about DV and Family Court. Coercive control and examples of how it affects your children. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	What you need to know about your child's school and your divorce proceedings or custody battle.	25 Jan 2023	00:43:44
Going through the divorce process? Learning the ropes of co-parenting? Dealing with a custody battle? This episode explores what role the school can and cannot play in your journey. We discuss what will be looked at in the family court moving forward if you end up in court. We discuss how you can best support your child and their school experience whilst you go through your divorce. We discuss practical legal tips to help support you through this confusing time. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar CHILD SUPPORT episode on school uniforms and school books and fees etc. You Don't Want to Miss Out On What to do if you or your ex wants to change your child's school What happens with decision making at school before you get final orders or a parenting plan. What powers do the schools have when it comes to your child and custody issues? Can a school stop a parent from collecting them from school? What happens if you and your ex are arguing over school enrollments? What is a Child Impact Statement and how is it used in the Family Court Moving schools during divorce and what you should consider School Fees and Divorce State School to Private School and Child Support issues What happens with Child Support if your ex changes your child to a private school and you didn't want them to? Does the Family Court choose a school if you and your ex cannot? Should you consider putting a school name in your orders or parenting plan? What can you do if your ex is threatening to change your child's school? What if you and your co parent don't agree if our child should repeat a year Co Parenting and schooling decisions. Extra Curricular Activities Extra curricular activities and co parenting decisions Our five top tips to dealing with school issues whilst going through your divorce proceedings. Can student counsellors get their notes subpoenaed for court? Tips for dealing with school events if domestic violence is involved. School report cards and school notes and coparenting and your court orders. Our Children Platform and how you can use it during your divorce process Why it's important to keep the school up to date with the general information. Sharing school information with a co parent during divorce proceedings. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Divorce Survival: 5 Strategies to Keep Going When You Feel Like Giving Up	05 Aug 2025	00:36:55
Listen to this Episode If You: 💔 Feel like the divorce process is dragging on and you're running on empty ⚖️ Need legal strategies to slow things down without giving up entirely 🛡️ Want practical ways to protect your emotional energy 👶 Are trying to stay strong for your children while navigating court or mediation 💬 Need a pep talk (with a legal twist) to help you keep going If you've ever thought, "I just can't do this anymore" during your separation or divorce, this episode is for you. Laura and Lyn share a heartfelt mix of practical legal steps and emotional strategies to help you through the moments when giving up feels like the easiest option. From taking baby steps and giving yourself permission to pause, to understanding how far you've already come, this is part pep talk, part legal guide — designed to help you push forward with clarity and confidence. They also cover how to handle deadlines from aggressive lawyers, the value of aligning your actions with your values, and why you're probably doing far better than you think (even if it doesn't feel like it right now). 📌 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses family violence and post-separation abuse. ⏱️ Episode Timeline – What We Discuss: [0:00] – Feeling like giving up? Here's why your future (and your kids) need you to keep going [2:00] – Five strategies to help you keep moving forward in divorce [4:00] – Strategy #1: [7:00] – Strategy #2: [9:00] – Legal ways to request more time in your case [11:00] – Recognising pressure tactics designed to make you quit [12:00] – Strategy #3: [14:00] – Why timelines help you see progress and keep motivated [15:00] – Strategy #4: [18:00] – Remembering why you're doing this — for your kids and your future [19:00] – Strategy #5: [27:00] – Handling post-separation abuse without giving up [30:00] – Setting boundaries to protect yourself from relentless contact [33:00] – Recap of the five key strategies [34:00] – Download your free "Don't Give Up" worksheet [36:00] – Final encouragement to keep going — it will end 🔑 Key Takeaways: Small, consistent actions are better than trying to fix everything at once Pausing isn't quitting — it's a strategy for survival Remind yourself of your past wins to boost confidence Stay aligned with your values and instincts to avoid regret Progress is happening, even when you can't see it 🎙 Related Episodes: When everything is spinning out of control in your divorce https://open.spotify.com/episode/4f4ArIZ83EX2faBqvf4jZs?si=WQJlsOw5RAWIOGQ1PYEMCA BATNA in Divorce https://open.spotify.com/episode/32goMT4kUIbZlS4NBSAvQu?si=NGX19wQ0RCCFMzvBiSXLTA When your mediation goes wrong what to do next? https://open.spotify.com/episode/32goMT4kUIbZlS4NBSAvQu?si=NGX19wQ0RCCFMzvBiSXLTA 10 essential boundaries for divorce https://open.spotify.com/episode/0ecDTxw4rTc3zXBkcjuYpA?si=Ym0pV1ThQxWwDFH3SldYkg 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This is a general discussion and not legal advice. Please see a qualified lawyer for advice specific to your situation.
	Divorce & Disability: How the Family Court considers children with a disability and how it considers property and custody matters.	11 Jan 2023	00:33:59
Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar You Don't Want to Miss Out On How to choose a family lawyer if you have a child with a disability How to present your case in court How disability is viewed in the family court of australia. How Autism is considered in the family court of australia Property Settlement and how it is affected by parent who has to care for a child with disability How the Family Court currently deals with NDIS in property and children's matters Child support and supporting children with disabilities What happens when parents disagree with a diagnosis of a disability? You best steps to take before mediation How to prove a disability in the family court How to show the court the impact and needs of a disability Feuding parents of a child with a disability Co Parenting a child with disability Adult children with a disability and maintenance in the family court Custody arrangements for a child with a disability If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Child Support: answering the questions you are too afraid to ask.	19 Dec 2022	00:33:04
Have you had a question about child support that you are too embarrassed to ask? Our Family Law Specialist will be going through listener questions and going into a deep dive on child support collection and payments. Some questions will be touching on what you are allowed to use the money for through to some surprising little known facts about child support you might be glad to learn. We even discuss how child support may affect the outcome of your property or custody case in the Family Court of Australia. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Other podcast episodes mentioned in this episode Child Support in Australia podcast episode How to survive financially after separation podcast episode DIY disclosure for property and child support Child Support Website for Australia Call Child Support Australia : 131 272 You Don't Want to Miss Out On What can you spend your child support money on? What are the rules for child support and how you can spend the money? Do you need to show receipts on where you spent the child support money? Can your ex who is paying child support refuse to pay for anything else? Do you have to pay for the things at the other parents house if they are paying child support? Child Support is based on a formula: what is it and how does it work? Does child support change based on the child's age? Is sport included in child support? Extra stuff: how is it sorted out in child support? What to do if your ex is financially motivated to get more time with the kids to avoid paying child support only? What happens in the court if your ex is trying to get more time with the children just so they can get a bigger part of the property pool in the family court? Does Child Support provide back payments? How does child support relate to the Family Court and the Family Court decisions when it comes to property and child custody issues? Does the Family Court of Australia care if your ex isn't paying child support? How far back can you get back pay in child support? Can you get child support and spousal maintenance? Why using child support to collect the money is the best way to avoid more fighting if you are in a high conflict relationship. Domestic violence and child support What can you do if you are worried that asking for child support may cause more domestic violence for you? Are you allowed to tell people how much child support your ex is paying? What to do if you think the child support you are being paid isn't enough or you don't think it is fair? If you are separated under one roof can the other person apply for child support? Why we should have a national child support appreciation day Child Support and negotiations If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.
	Co parenting and Family Court with a Narcissist	14 Dec 2022	00:47:37
Are you dealing with an ex with narcissistic behaviours and having to navigate the world of coparenting? Are you about to go into the family court system or are already in it with a narcissist? This divorce course podcast episode is for you. Mia from Grey Rock Consulting is going to discuss and help you navigate co parenting whilst dealing with the narcissistic behaviours. Lyn helps us explore the legal implications of fights, reactive behaviour and not thinking about the best interest of the children. She will guide you on to how best to show the family court what you are dealing with. Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free before you leave checklist Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Other podcast episodes mentioned in this episode Grey Rock Method Episode CoParenting with a difficult ex - Lorrie Brooks Go here to learn more about Mia and Grey Rock Consulting https://www.greyrockconsulting.com.au/ You Don't Want to Miss Out On Why an ironclad court order is the best defence against a narcissistic co parent Why wishy washy court orders wont work in this situation. The court's opinion on parents that can't co parent How to avoid conflict with a narcissistic co parent What happens if your court orders don't specify what to do in a certain parenting situation? How to consider the best interests of the children when making the decision. Tips on how to deal with having a ex who counter parents Accepting what you can and can't control. Why can't you speak ill of your co-parent to the other child. What to do when you want to talk badly about your co parent. Adult matters and why you shouldn't burden the kids with it. Why leading by example for your children is so important. Why explaining and defending yourself isn't a good idea. Is it important to defend yourself against accusations from a narcissistic ex in coparenting communications? What the Judge might think of your communication if it is full of fighting, accusations and drama How sometimes massaging a narcissist ego may be helpful What to do if they write something that isn't true about you in the communications. Do you need to defend yourself from all their accusations? Why it isn't a good idea to use the label of a narcissist during family court case How to describe the conduct to a judge in the family court trial. How to objectively document issues that occur with the coparent. Getting a psychologist for your children to help deal with the uncertainty of divorce. What does the Australian Institute of Studies show about kids in the middle of conflicting parents. Tips for making sure you do the right thing legally when getting your child a psychologist. If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.

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