Have you ever wonder if what you say really makes a difference?  

In today's episode, Mark Nelson, Executive Director of Exchange Ministries, joins Melinda and shares an awe-inspiring testimony of God's powerful intervention in his life.  

Mark's testimony is fuls of Holy Spirit inspired moments that leave you wanting to know more. 

Listine in to discover:

*how words spoken over Mark made a life changing difference for him

*ways that we can speak life over our loved ones

Connect with Mark: 

Exchange Ministries

Next Week: Tune in as we Mark shares Part 2 of his transformation story. 

Thank you for listening to The Bridge Between Us! Remember, God has entrusted this journey to you, as you engage with Him He will equip you for each next step.

Please share this episode with others. 

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Welcome to The Bridge Between Us Podcast, where we navigate the challenges and opportunities of walking alongside LGBTQ-identified loved ones from a Biblical perspective. Hosted by Melinda Patrick, today’s solo episode is all about being your own advocate as you build a support team for your personal journey.

In Today’s Episode, You’ll Hear About:

• The importance of a support system and how Jesus’ story of raising Lazarus teaches us that no one walks the journey alone.
• The need for Godly counsel and guidance in your healing process.
• Signs to look for that indicate you might need professional help, including counselors or therapists, to aid you through grief or trauma.
• How to interview a counselor to ensure they align with your Biblical convictions and are a good fit for your needs.
• Practical questions you should ask potential counselors to be your own advocate.
• The role of trusting in God’s process and finding freedom not just for your loved one, but for yourself too.

Key Scriptures Discussed:

• John 11:44 – The story of Lazarus: Jesus doesn’t expect us to walk alone.
• Galatians 6:2 – Carry one another's burdens and fulfill the law of Christ.
• Romans 8:28-29 – God works all things for our good and transforms us into the image of His Son.
• Proverbs 11:14, 20:5, 24:6 – The wisdom and safety found in seeking godly counsel.

Key Takeaways:

• Building a support team of friends, prayer warriors, counselors, and more is essential to emotional and spiritual healing.
• A biblical counselor can provide guidance and a fresh perspective when you're stuck in grief or difficult circumstances.
• As a self-advocate, you have the right to interview and find the right counselor who aligns with your values.
• Healing and freedom aren’t just for your loved one—they’re for YOU too. Your journey is just as much about your own transformation.

Red Flags: Signs You May Need Help

Melinda shares some red flags to watch for to determine if you might be struggling with grief or trauma:

1. Difficulty remembering the last time you laughed or enjoyed time with loved ones.
2. Struggling to engage in activities you once loved.
3. Feeling emotionally drained by everyday tasks.
4. Avoiding people or conversations.
5. Trouble celebrating others’ successes.
6. Feeling overwhelmed by bitterness, guilt, or sadness.

Questions to Ask Your Counselor:

• How does your Christian faith influence your approach to therapy?
• What’s your view on marriage and gender?
• What do you believe about homosexuality, and how does that affect your counseling approach?
• Do you see the Bible as the final authority in your practice?

These questions will help you determine if a counselor aligns with your faith and values before diving deeper into the therapeutic process.

Resources Mentioned:

• Restored Hope Network
• Helpful previous TBBU episodes:  Eps 89, Eps 41

Want to Connect?
Melinda loves to hear from listeners! If you’re navigating your own journey, need encouragement, or want to share your story, feel free to email Melinda at melinda@melindapatrick.org.

Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who might need it.

Until next time, remember:
God has entrusted this journey to you. As you engage with Him, He will equip you for each next step.

*Disclaimer:
The opinions and advice shared on this podcast are intended for informational purposes and are not a substitute for professional counseling. Always seek appropriate guidance and support for your personal needs.

It will never happen to our child, our family, or in our school.  Words from almost every parent across America.

Until it does.

January Littlejohn and her husband thought the same thing until one day, everything changed.

Listen in to Melinda Patrick’s conversation with January Littlejohn and learn how to be a voice for your child and family - in the church and at home. 

Connect with January Littlejohn: 

 https://donoharmmedicine.org/share-your-concern/

Dr. Miriam Grossman notice to schools: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IECbkuP4QZ20ZOdfrF3DtILlMGqO2Leq/edit

Resources mentioned:

Christian Resources on Gender Ideology

Books and articles:
The Church Transgender Response Guide – https://childparentrights.org/church-transgender-
response-guide/

For the Body by Timothy Tennent

When Harry Became Sally – by Ryan Anderson

Lost in Trans Nation – by Dr. Miriam Grossman

Perfected with Love– by Walk Heyer –

https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/mary-hasson-parents-pastors-transgender-
gender-ideology-person-and-identity/

Organizations:

The Person and Identity Project- https://personandidentity.com/
Focus on the Family – https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/transgender-resources/
Identity Project – https://identityproject.tv/
Family Research Council – https://www.frc.org/sexuality
Eden’s Redemption – https://edensredemption.org/
Sex Change Regret- https://sexchangeregret.com/

Help 4 Families by Living Stone Ministries – https://livingstonesministries.org/help4families/

Documentaries:
Dysphoria – https://www.fearlessfeatures.org/dysphoria
In His Image – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3YKpnrzmqc
Tranzformed- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ebodf8rWpv4
Mary Hasson speech- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S96KBTBiYuA
Videos – https://identityproject.tv/watch/how-can-i-respond-to-a-child-or-friend-with-gender-
confusion

Resources to inoculate young children:
Articles:
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/kids-navigate-transgender-ideology/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/tips-talking-kids-transgender/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/talking-to-your-children-about-transgender-
issues/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/8-things-parents-gender-transition/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/different-pronouns-explaining-lgbt-pronoun-
usage-to-our-kids/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/reinforce-your-childs-sexual-identity/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/what-is-gender-identity/

Children’s Books:

God Made Boys and Girls- Helping Children Understand the Gift of Gender

No More Secrets

I’m Glad God Made Me a Girl

Elephants Are Not Birds

God Made Me in His Image: Helping Children Appreciate Their Bodies – by Justin and Lindsey
Holcomb

He is He – by Bethan Bomberger

She Is She – by Bethany and Ryan Bomberger

In the Image of God: A Story of Identity and Value

Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity
and Femininity

As a parent, you want to do everything possible to set your child up for success.  

In this episode, Ashley Little shares how God used her parents, brother, and others in her healing journey.

A reminder for us all: every person's healing is different. God's ultimate goal in recovery is to draw us into a personal relationship with Him.  Don't become so fixated on the healing that you miss out on the grandest adventure:  an intimate relationship with the God of all creation.  

Listen in and discover ways to:

*pray for your child

*take practical steps in the healing journey

*handle triggers

*be a safe place for your loved one

Please share this podcast with a friend, your pastor, youth pastor, and ministry leader.  

If you want to subscribe to The Bridge Between Us Newsletter, click here.

Watch Ashley's documentary 'The Greater Love' here. 

Other mentions in the podcast:

The Amazing Love Event

Sy Rodgers

Psalm 84: 10 - Better is one day in your courts than a thousand elsewhere; I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in the tents of the wicked.

Ephesians 6:12 - For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world's darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

Even though they were armed and equipped, Scripture tells us the children of Ephraim ‘turned back in the day of battle’.

Psalm 78 also tells us why: They did not keep the covenant of God, refused to walk in His laws, and forgot His works and wonders that He had shown them.

Listen to learn one tip you can begin applying to your life today to ensure you don’t turn back on the day of battle.

Please share with a friend.  We are stronger together!

Are you weary in hope?  Is the flame of your faith down to an ember?  

Listen in today as The Bridge Between Us host Melinda Patrick and Founder of His Wonderful Works, Dee Barnes, talk about how Truth, spoken to Dee from an unlikely source, set her free and :

*why testimonies are so important

*the differing views on Christian doctrine, identity, and homosexuality

You will be encouraged and discover how to better love and pray for your LGBTQ-identified loved one. 

Links to ministries mentioned in Eps 2:

His Wonderful Works, Inc.

Restored Hope Network

Joe Dallas

Changed Movement

Portland Fellowship and the 4 Lanes download

Laura Perry

Subscribe here for The Bridge Between Us Newsletter.

Each week I will give one tip to equip us to walk this journey with boldness, strength, and compassion. 

Today’s tip comes from Episode 1 – Holding On To Truth In A Shifting Culture

Daniel 11:32 states: Those who do wickedly against the covenant shall he corrupt with flattery; but the people who know their God shall be strong, and carry out great exploits. NKJV

ESV  - but the people who know their God shall stand firm and take action

Listen in to learn one tip you can begin to apply in your life today.

Walking in the tension of grace and Truth can be one of the most difficult feats of a Christian parent with an LGBTQ identified child.  

It's only possible with the Holy Spirit as our guide. 

In Episode 1 of The Bridge Between Us, as you listen in you will learn:

*the biblical definition of love

*how to walk in Truth

*the importance of holding firm to truth in a shifting culture 

Download the prayer for your journey, here. 

Please share this podcast and head over to Apple podcast to rate and review. 

It will never happen to our child, our family, or in our school.  Words from almost every parent across America.  

Until it does.

January Littlejohn and her husband thought the same thing until one day, everything changed. 

Listen in to Melinda Patrick's conversation with January Littlejohn and learn what questions you need to be asking, signs you need to be looking for in your school system, and what you can do to help your child.  

Connect with January Littlejohn: 

 https://donoharmmedicine.org/share-your-concern/

Dr. Miriam Grossman notice to schools: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IECbkuP4QZ20ZOdfrF3DtILlMGqO2Leq/edit

Resources mentioned:

Christian Resources on Gender Ideology

Books and articles:
The Church Transgender Response Guide - https://childparentrights.org/church-transgender-
response-guide/

For the Body by Timothy Tennent 

When Harry Became Sally - by Ryan Anderson

Lost in Trans Nation – by Dr. Miriam Grossman 

Perfected with Love- by Walk Heyer -

https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/mary-hasson-parents-pastors-transgender-
gender-ideology-person-and-identity/

Organizations:

The Person and Identity Project- https://personandidentity.com/
Focus on the Family – https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/transgender-resources/
Identity Project - https://identityproject.tv/
Family Research Council - https://www.frc.org/sexuality
Eden’s Redemption - https://edensredemption.org/
Sex Change Regret- https://sexchangeregret.com/

Help 4 Families by Living Stone Ministries - https://livingstonesministries.org/help4families/

Documentaries:
Dysphoria - https://www.fearlessfeatures.org/dysphoria
In His Image - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3YKpnrzmqc
Tranzformed- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ebodf8rWpv4
Mary Hasson speech- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S96KBTBiYuA
Videos – https://identityproject.tv/watch/how-can-i-respond-to-a-child-or-friend-with-gender-
confusion

Resources to inoculate young children:
Articles:
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/kids-navigate-transgender-ideology/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/tips-talking-kids-transgender/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/talking-to-your-children-about-transgender-
issues/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/8-things-parents-gender-transition/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/different-pronouns-explaining-lgbt-pronoun-
usage-to-our-kids/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/reinforce-your-childs-sexual-identity/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/what-is-gender-identity/

Children’s Books:

God Made Boys and Girls- Helping Children Understand the Gift of Gender

No More Secrets 

I’m Glad God Made Me a Girl 

Elephants Are Not Birds 

God Made Me in His Image: Helping Children Appreciate Their Bodies – by Justin and Lindsey
Holcomb 

He is He – by Bethan Bomberger 

She Is She – by Bethany and Ryan Bomberger

In the Image of God: A Story of Identity and Value

Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity
and Femininity

We have this room in our home that I affectionately call the gathering room. It rests above our garage and for many years it was a great connecting place with family and friends. In fact that is the original intent of the room. A gathering place for family and friends. A place where we could hang out, play games, watch a movie and relax. A place where we could enjoy laughter and long late-night talks with our children and one day grandchildren.

And, that is how the room was for a many years.

But overtime, the room became a place to stash and hide things away in a hurry when company came. Which eventually turned into a place where I would store items I didn’t know what to do with  -  always with the mind set: One day I will take the time to get this sorted back out and cleaned up.

But …the time didn’t come and I have continued living my life while steadily stashing away items in the bonus room like a squirrel packs his nest for winter.

Our hearts can be the same way.  

In this episode, I share with you 3 things I learned on this decluttering journey that will also help us declutter our hearts and set us up for relational wins in 2025. 

I also share two ways to maintain a clean room and a clean heart along with 3 questions you can ask yourself as you declutter:

1. How well has this attitude, thought, or behavior worked for me?
2. Does this bring me joy in life?
3. Do I want my children to have to deal with this?

If you are decluttering a room or your heart this year, let me know.  I would love to cheer you on and prayer for you.  Send me an email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

Also, please share this episode with someone else who may need to be encouraged.

Let's start 2025 off with decluttered hearts!

Hey friend. Have you been estranged from your child and don't know what to do? Perhaps this Christmas is a little more than you can take.

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick and guest Gretchen Stockman talk about things parents can do to get through the painful season - especially when you have been estranged from your child.  

Gretchen Stockman is a licensed marriage and family therapist but more important than that - she is a mother who is all too familiar with the pain of being estranged from her children. 

Our prayer for you today is that you will be helped and equipped to 'light a candle and give the enemy a big kick!'

Listeners will discover:

*The healing that comes from dragging our pain into the light

*The power of having a Kingdom mindset.

*Ways to minister to a friend who has been estranged from their child

*What to do this Christmas season to give the Enemy a big kick!

A few of favorite quotes from the episode:

We can get hyperfocused on the loss and not be able to attend to all of the blessings, all of the other people that are in our life. - Gretchen Stockman

I can hurt really bad and I can feel all the feelings but I can still have a wonderful life and a fulfilling and meaningful existence. - Gretchen Stockman

We are fighting the good fight of faith...we are interceding for our children. They need us to be stable, solid, and committed. - Gretchen Stockman

Our children may run from our presence but they can't run from our prayers. - Melinda Patrick

Being fully present being able to love, is one of the best, most richest parts of life. - Gretchen Stockman

Connect with Gretchen Stockman:

livrite@livrite.com 

https://livrite.com/bewholecoaching/

Other mentions:

Restored Hope Network

Shoulder to Shoulder support group - contact Gretchen Stockman (livrite@livrite.com)

Dr. Joshua Coleman's book - Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How To Heal the Conflict

Karen Wheaton

Order Melinda Patrick's new book The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart here.

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Hey friend, do you want to make a difference in your child's life but aren't sure what will bring the most return on investment?  

Perhaps you are feeling powerless and not sure what to do. 

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick and guest Catherine Segars  unpack 4 types of prayers you can be praying and how to start taking back ground from the enemy.

Listeners will discover:

• the 4 types of prayers you can be praying and which one will cause you to put on your battle boots and go to war
• the difference between the logos word and the rhema word
• how God has blessed Catherine on this journey as a mom

Connect with Catherine Segars:

Did you miss our previous episodes on prayer?

Taking Territory Back: How To Release the Power of God In Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ+ Loved One, Part Two with Lindsey Kiser - Eps 38

Co-laboring With Jesus Christ as Intercessors For the LGBTQ Community, Prodigals, and the Next Generation - Eps 23

The Loudest Roar: Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ with Judy Dunagan - Eps 9

Books mentioned:

Intercessory Prayer: How God Can Use Your Prayers To Move Heaven and Earth by Dutch Sheets

Authority In Prayer: Praying With Power and Purpose by Dutch Sheets

Watchman Prayer: Protecting Your Family, Home, and Community From the Enemy's Schemes by Dutch Sheets

Order The Daring Rescue here.

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Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one. 😊

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Today, I have a very special guest joining me on The Bridge Between Us podcast - my husband, Ron Patrick.  

Listen in as we discuss 3 steps you can take to better connect with your LGBTQ-identified child's heart. 

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick discusses how to converse without letting your emotions take over. 

Download your Parent Guide To Difficult Conversations (*If you do not see the guide in your inbox, please check your spam.  If you still don't see it, please email: melinda@melindapatrick.org)

Order The Daring Rescue: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-daring-rescue/

To share your thoughts:

Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one. 😊

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Hey friend, are you feeling anxious about the holidays? Do you find yourself wondering how to handle difficult moments in family functions? 

I imagine you want to show up well for your family and friends at the Thanksgiving table or gatherings during Christmas.  You wouldn't be here if you didn't. 

But, let's be honest. It can oftentimes be difficult when there is division and pain in our lives.

We aren't powerless, though.

We may not can control others but we can control ourselves. 

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, coach, author and podcast host, Alicia Michelle, joins Melinda Patrick. 

Drawing from Alicia Michelle's personal and professional experience, they unpack 3 steps you can take that will set you up for success in relationships over the days ahead. 

Listeners will discover:

*the importance of acknowledging where you are emotionally

*how to lean into God's clarity for situations

*you have the power to choose where you want to emotionally dwell

It's not too late to gain emotional confidence!

Call to ACTION:

Make a list for this season using Phillipians 4:8 as a template.  

Connect with Alicia Michelle:

Order Alicia Michelle's new book: Emotional Confidence here.

Connect with Melinda Patrick:

Email: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Order Melinda Patrick's book The Daring Rescue here:

Click HERE for more information or to register for the FREE holiday webinar with Ashley and Melinda. 

To share your thoughts:

Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one. 😊

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You can also book Melinda for your next speaking engagement.  For more information, the speaking tab is at the top of the page at www.melindapatrick.org.

Thank you for listening in today, be sure to join us next time for
another episode of The Bridge Between Us with Melinda Patrick.

God hasn't called us to walk through life alone. In today’s episode, Melinda takes us through what it looks like to set yourself up for success when facing a daunting challenge, and how the team around you plays a crucial role in getting you to the finish line.

Listen in to hear the four key people you need on your team and why.

As Melinda challenges listeners, it’s important to recognize and appreciate those who walk with you on your journey. A simple note, call, or text to show gratitude can make a huge difference. The support system you build along the way doesn’t just help you reach the finish line—it transforms you as you walk together.

Next Week: Tune in as we explore the important role of counselors in our lives. Melinda will share insights on finding the right counselor and how professional support complements the support of loved ones.

Thank you for listening to The Bridge Between Us! Remember, you’re never alone on your journey—keep building your team, and keep walking forward. God has entrusted this journey to you, and He will equip you for each next step.

If you’ve enjoyed today’s episode, please consider leaving a review or sharing it with a friend who might benefit from hearing about the power of a strong support system.

It doesn’t take much right now to lose peace and eventually begin reacting to fear or anxiousness.

One commercial or news report on the radio or tv, an acquaintance’s social media post that doesn’t align with your beliefs, or a family member obnoxiously belittling your values can set us off. Or the Enemy placing a thought in our minds causing us to turn our focus from Jesus to the world can have us sinking in the storm and not walking on the water.   

I can easily find my peace slipping away and fear sneaking in with every glance toward the world.  Anybody else? (hand raised)

This isn’t what God has for His children, though.

Like Peter, we are called to be water-walkers. Our lives should look different not only on good days but also when surrounded by a storm.

The world is watching so here are 5 ways we can set ourselves up for success over the coming days and weeks to be a light to the world around us.

Connect with Melinda or for more information about the FREE webinar:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

Fathers not only impact their children, but they also impact the generations to come. 

Today, Daniel Mingo, ministry leader of Abba's Delight, joins host Melinda Patrick.  

Daniel shares a small portion of his testimony and then opens his heart to us as a father.  

In this episode, you will discover:

*one of the best ways to engage your child

*what to do when parent guilt hits

To connect with Daniel Mingo:

Abba's Delight Ministry

To connect with Melinda Patrick:

melinda@melindapatrick.org

Purchase Melinda Patrick's newest book - The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart

Do you ever feel like you have completely blown it? As a parent, I have felt that many times. I'm so thankful we serve a God who is greater than our biggest mistakes. 

In today's episode of The Bridge Between Us Podcast, Melinda continues her conversation with author, ministry leader, and podcast host Garry Ingraham. 

Garry has words of wisdom and practical application for fathers. In this episode, you will:

*learn what it means to 'shepherd your child's heart'

*be given practical ways to connect with your child

Connect with Garry Ingraham:

Garry is the podcast host for Love & Truth Network and the author of Am I Gay? He and his wife, Melissa, founded Love & Truth Network, a national, non-profit ministry focused on equipping Christian leaders to develop safe and transformational environments with the purpose of restoring sexual wholeness and Biblical identity.

Love & Truth Network

Mentions:

ReStory Ministries

Living Waters - Andrew Comisky

Listen here to Melinda’s interview on Love & Truth Network

Previous episodes speaking of fathers:

Bible verses:

James 5:16

Malachi 4:6

Proverbs 20:5

1 John 1:7

To share your thoughts or to send a question:

Send Melinda an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Please leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one. 😊

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Subscribe to our newsletter here.

Purchase Melinda’s new book – The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child’s Heart

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Hey friend, do you feel hopeless and overwhelmed? Are there days you think your loved one may be too far gone, and this is how life will always be?

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us podcast, author and ministry leader Garry Ingraham joins our host, Melinda Patrick.  Your heart will be encouraged and your burden lightened as Garry shares how the Holy Spirit pursued him and won his affection.   

Garry is the podcast host for Love & Truth Network and the author of Am I Gay? He and his wife, Melissa, founded Love & Truth Network, a national, non-profit ministry focused on equipping Christian leaders to develop safe and transformational environments with the purpose of restoring sexual wholeness and Biblical identity.

Listeners will discover:

*ways the enemy can get a foothold in our children's lives

*the power and pursuit of the Holy Spirit in the lives of those we pray for

*the importance of shepherding our children's hearts

Connect with Garry Ingraham:

Love & Truth Network

Mentions:

Listen here to Melinda's interview on Love & Truth Network

Restored Hope Network

Bible verses:

Proverbs 20:17

James 1:8

1 Corinthians 6:18

To share your thoughts or to send a question:

Send Melinda an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Please leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one. 😊

Make sure to ‘Follow’ the Bridge Between Us Podcast on Itunes so you don’t miss an episode.

Subscribe to our newsletter now. https://mailchi.mp/1e8513b0df62/the-daring-rescue

Purchase Melinda's new book - The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart

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In episode 67 of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick's returning guest, Dr. Linda Seiler, discusses what is happening in the culture and why we are seeing an uprise in transgender disorder.

Listeners will discover:

• The 3 categories of transgender
• ROGD - Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria and its roots
• practical application and resources for families and the Church 

Dr. Linda Seiler is the author of Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds to LGBTQ, the executive director of ReStory Ministries, an ordained Assemblies of God minister, and a National Chi Alpha missionary. 

Did you miss these prior episodes that were mentioned?

Eps 66 - Part One with Dr. Linda Seiler

Books mentioned:

Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds To The LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler.

Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters by Abigail Shier

Desist, Detrans & Detox: Getting Your Child Out of the Gender Cult by Maria Keffler

ReStory Ministries Quick Guide

Connect with Dr. Linda Seiler:

Linda Seiler

ReStory Ministries

Register for the ReStoried24 Conference

Speakers at ReStoried24 who have previously been a guest on The Bridge Between Us:

Andrew Rodriguez - Eps 45 and Eps 33

Joe Dallas - Eps 17

Dr. Linda Seiler - Eps 66 

Order Melinda Patrick's new book:  The Daring Rescue - Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart

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In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick's guest, Dr. Linda Seiler, shares a portion of her testimony. Melinda and Linda discuss the healing journey God took Linda on as He set her free from a transgender identity and the role the Body of Christ had in her freedom. 

Listeners will discover:

• The power of confession and repentance when it comes to setting the LGBTQ free
• root issues that may result in SSA or Transgender desires
• how to walk with others in the healing process

Dr. Linda Seiler is the author of Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds to LGBTQ, the executive director of ReStory Ministries, an ordained Assemblies of God minister, and a National Chi Alpha missionary. 

Did you miss these prior episodes that were mentioned?

Eps 64 with Kathy Grace Duncan - Part One

Eps 65 with Kathy Grace Duncan - Part Two

Books mentioned:

Purchase Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds To The LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler.

Order The Daring Rescue by Melinda Patrick.

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Connect with Dr. Linda Seiler:

Linda Seiler

ReStory Ministries

 Bible verses mentioned:

James 5:16

To share your thoughts:

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Leave an honest review on iTunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one. 😊

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In episode 62, I shared ways we can be like the LGBTQ community, and I touched on what we can do to be more like Jesus.  (I’ll link the episode in the show notes if you haven’t listened in yet.)

I briefly talked about Pride, broken identity, disordered desires, and spiritual disappointment.

Today, we will examine pride and unpack it a little more. We are also going to look at steps we can take to replace pride with humility and look more like Jesus.

Previous episodes mentioned:

Episode 62 – Four Ways Christians Can Be Like the LGBTQ Community And What To Do To Be More Like Jesus 

Episode 37 with Lindsey Kiser Part One– Piercing The Night: Stretigic Intercession To Set The LGBTQ Captives Free

Episode 38 with Lindsey Kiser Part Two: Taking Territory Back – How To Release The Power Of God In Your Prayer For Your LGBTQ Loved One

Scripture verses mentioned:

2 Chronicle 7:14

Psalm 25:8-9

Isaiah 66:2

James 4:6

Psalm 18:27

Proverbs 11:2

John 6:68

Links to books:

Humility: True Greatness by C. J. Mahaney

TransFormation: A Former Transgender Responds To LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler

Piercing the Darkness: Strategic Intercession To Set The LGBTQ Captives Free by Kathryn Lindsey Kiser

The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ Identified Child’s Heart by Melinda Patrick

Upcoming conferences: 

ReStoried24 Conference (In-person ONLY)

October 4-5 in Indianapolis, Indiana

*These show notes contain affiliate links. If you purchase a book through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.

Connect with Kathy Grace Duncan:

Portland Fellowship

Changed Movement:  Kathy Grace Duncan’s story

The Daring Rescue book by Melinda Patrick

Sept. 20-21 – Rising Stronger Summit – at Park Place Chruch in Snellville, GA

Oct. 2 – Grace Assembly – Greenwood, IN

Oct. 4-5 – ReStoried24 Conference – Greenwood, IN

Have you ever played the game 2 Truths and 1 Lie?  The game's object is for you to share 2 truths and one lie about yourself and the people around you must determine which statement is the lie. 

You can learn a lot about someone in this game. And today, as you listen in, you will learn a lot about:

*how perceptions play a big part in our belief system 

*the goodness of God

*the role your response can play in helping someone walk our their freedom 

Connect with Kathy Grace Duncan:

Portland Fellowship

Changed Movement:  Kathy Grace Duncan's story

The Daring Rescue book by Melinda Patrick

Sept. 20-21 - Rising Stronger Summit - at Park Place Chruch in Snellville, GA

Oct. 2 - Grace Assembly - Greenwood, IN

Oct. 4-5 - ReStoried24 Conference - Greenwood, IN

Quite often on this journey with an LGBTQ-identified child or loved one, we focus mainly on the ways we are different. I will never forget the day the Lord opened my eyes to the ways I was similar to the LGBTQ community. It was a painful day but a freeing and healing day.

Listen in to hear 4 ways Christians and can be like the LGBTQ community and what to do to look more like Jesus. 

Mentions: 

Eps. 8 - Spiritual Disappointment

Queen Bee Coffee, McDonough, GA (in the Conflux Building)- Book Signing - Thursday, Sept. 12 - 6:00pm - 8:00pm (please park on the street or use the nearby public parking)

Rising Stronger Summit - Sept. 20-21 - Park Place Church - Snellville, GA

Grace Assembly - October 2 (night service) - Greenwood, Indiana

ReStoried24 - October 4-5 - Greenwood, Indiana

The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart is now on Amazon

Connect with Melinda: melinda@melindapatrick.org

* These shownotes contain affiliate links. If you purchase through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.

For many parents, when their child shares with them they experience same-sex attraction or gender disphoria, one thing they will also hear is: "I have prayed and prayed and asked God to take it away but He hasn't."

As parents, many of us have done the same thing: we have prayed and prayed and God doesn't appear to be answering.

In today's episode, Nate Oyloe - ministry leader of Agape First Ministries, joins Melinda Patrick.  Nate shares a portion of his own healing journey, but he also share how parents can respond when their child doesn't feel as though God is answering their prayers. 

In this powerful episode, listeners will hear:

*how to respond to your child's disspointment in God seemingly not answering his/her prayer

*one thing that can disempower parents

*God's desing for healing within the family

Connect with Nate Oyloe: Agape First Ministries

Other mentions:

Restored Hope Network

Living Waters

Other TBBU episodes mentioned:

Dean Greer - Part One

Dean Greer - Part Two

Please share this episode with others. 

If you haven't left a review for The Bridge Between Us Podcast, please take 1-3 minutes to do so.  This helps other parents to know if this is the right podcast for them. 

Listen to Ashley's testimony here: Eps. 3 How To Come Alongside Your LGBTQ Loved One To Bring Healing and Freedom

Eps 2 with Dee Barnes: LGBTQ + Christian Identity - How Truth From An Unlikely Source Set Dee Free

Wilna van Beek - Eps 23: Co-laboring With Jesus Christ as Intercessors for the LGBTQ Community 

Wilna van Beek: How She Walked Away From Homosexuality and Discovered True Joy in Jesus Christ - Eps 13 - Part 1

When Pride Met Humility - Eps 14 - Part 2

Read Colossians 2:6-10

Read through Psalm 18.

Take note of who GOD is. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter who we are.  What matters is who God is!

This month can be heartbreaking and anxiety-provoking for many parents.  Over the next 30 days, we will share stories different than what the world offers.  Stories of hope, truth, and equipping. 

Resources listed: 

Restored Hope Network

Transformation Ministries Alliance

Joe Dallas: Christians In Cancel Culture (Youtube)

Andrew Rodriguez: Psycho Bible Youtube

Books:

Transformation: A Former Transgender Responds To LGBTQ by Linda A Seiler, PhD

Piercing The Night: Strategic Intercession to Set the LGBTQ+ Captives Free by Kathryn Lindsey Kiser

The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart by Melinda Hardy Patrick

*I earn a small commission from these sponsored links if you purchase a book. 

Connect with Wayne Blakely:  

Website: www.knowhislove.org

Email: 2knowhislove@gmail.com

Current sizzle reel for documentary: https://vimeo.com/videomission/malta

**Password: knowhislove2023

Documentary: Gender Transformation: The Untold Realities

Prior TBBU episodes mentioned:

Eps 45 with Andrew Rodriguez: https://melindapatrick.org/2023/12/06/andrew-rodriguez-feelings-community-and-how-parents-can-join-jesus-in-the-healing-process-eps-45/

Eps 43 with Jessica Rose: https://melindapatrick.org/2023/11/20/jessica-rose-from-transgender-to-transformed-ways-we-can-build-a-bridge-to-our-children-and-be-prepared-to-walk-out-the-healing-journey-with-them-eps-43/

Eps 33 with Andrew Rodriguez: https://melindapatrick.org/2023/07/22/andrew-rodriguez-we-are-talking-boundaries-defining-compassion-and-unpacking-why-it-is-impossible-to-show-compassion-if-we-arent-also-sharing-truth-eps-33/

Meet our guest, Wayne Blakely:

Email:  2knowhislove@gmail.com

Website: https://knowhislove.org/

Youtube Channel: Know His Love Ministries

Upcoming Conferences:

Restored Hope Network - HOPE 2024 Conference - June 21-22, 2024

Transformational Ministries Alliance EPIC Conference - May 30-June 1, 2024

For Christian parents whose children have embraced an LGBTQ+ identity, the world is full of confusion, manipulation, and emotional pain. Watching your child go through gender confusion and irreversible medical procedures is heart-wrenching. Navigating this world feels isolating and often spiritually and emotionally draining. There’s a need for truth, empathy, and a support system that isn’t afraid to stand firm in God’s design for humanity.

In this episode, Brandon Showalter, a passionate advocate for truth and a journalist for the Christian Post, is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between Us Podcast. With years of experience and a personal commitment to truth, Brandon offers both emotional support and practical advice. 

Listen is to discover: 

1. The Deception of Language
   One of the most insidious aspects of gender ideology is the manipulation of language. Brandon highlights how changing the meaning of basic words, like “gender” and “sex,” sows confusion and disrupts the ability to speak truthfully about the human body and identity.
2. Spiritual Warfare and the Church’s Role
   In this battle against gender ideologies, Brandon discusses how the church must not only engage in policy change but also engage spiritually. The importance of persistent prayer and maintaining vigilance is underscored. The need for the church to stand firm against this deception is crucial in reclaiming the truth of God's design for humanity.
3. The Role of the Church in the Battle
   As society grapples with this issue, the church is called to be a place of healing and truth. The need to accept and minister to those who are struggling with gender identity is vital, but it requires both compassion and the courage to speak the truth.
4. Parents on the Frontlines
   Parents are urged to be proactive in protecting their children from harmful ideologies and pseudoscience. Despite the cultural push for tolerance, Brandon explains that compassion and kindness should not require compromising truth.

We are in the midst of a spiritual battle, but as believers, we are equipped with the truth of God’s word and the power of prayer. Let’s stay vigilant, stand firm, and continue to share the love of Christ with a world in desperate need of His transformative hope.

Connect with Brand Showalter: 

Exposing The Gender Lie: How To Protect Children and Teens From the Trangender Industry's False Ideology

The Christian Post

We all have them  -- the unwanted and ill-timed thoughts that want to control your day or interrupt your much-needed sleep.  You know, the ones where you are sound asleep and then rudely awakened by worry, fear, doubt, or grief.  

In today's episode, author Billie Jauss joins host Melinda Patrick. Billie leads us through 5 simple steps to minimize distracting thoughts and achieve more peace.  

Meet our guest, Billie Jauss:

https://www.billiejauss.com/

Other related episodes:

Eps. 9 with Judy Dunagan - The Loudest Roar: Living In the Unshakeable Victory of Christ

Eps 22 with Dr. Sharon Elliott - Didn't See THAT Coming: When How They're Living Is Not How You Raised Them

Eps 38 with Lindsey Kiser - Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power Of God In Your Prayers

Episodes with Andrew Rodriguez:

Eps 45 

Eps 33

Upcoming Conferences:

Transformational Ministries Alliance EPIC Conference 2024 - May 30-June 1, 

Restored Hope Network HOPE 2024 Conference- June 21-22

For Book Launch Information: 

Email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

So much of this journey is out of our control. But, what if there were a few things we could be doing? 

Join Melinda and her guest, Dean Greer, as they discuss two important things you can do to help your child and ways you can be ready when they say "Yes" to Jesus. 

Lori Margo is joining in the conversation today with Melinda.  Lori is no stranger to difficult seasons and wondering where God is. It is through one particular heartbreaking time in Lori's life that she came to understand the importance of tracking God in her life and the life of her family. Today, Lori equips others to track God and watch peace rule where panic once controlled. 

Listen in today to learn: 

*the importance of tracking God

*where to uncover the deep gifts of God

*and how to document your faith and watch God surprise you

Scriptures mentioned:

Habakkuk Chapters 1-3

Philippians 4:4-9

Matthew 11:28-30

Psalm 77

Connect with Lori Margo:

Tracking God quiz

https://lorimargo.com/

The holidays have a way of magnifying our pain and the brokenness in our families.

Listen in to hear the reason for the season and why we should celebrate more than ever.

Share this podcast with someone else who needs hope this Christmas season.

Light a candle.

For more encouragement, listen to these past episodes –

Eps 41 - How To Overcome Grief When It Is Impacting Your Life And Your Relationship With Your LGBTQ-identified Child

Eps 38 - Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power of God In Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ -identified Loved One, Part Two with Lindsey Kiser

Eps 36 - Wisdom and Advice For Parents Rearing an LGBTQ-identified Child in the Home

Eps 12 – How To Survive The Holidays When You Really Just Want To Skip Them

Eps 11 – How To Live A Life That Points Others To Jesus

Eps 9 – Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ with Judy Dunagan

Eps 8 – The Truth About Spiritual Disappointment and How It May Not Be A Bad Thing

One last reminder:  This is the last podcast episode for 2023.  The Bridge Between Us will be back on January 3. 

My prayer for you today comes from Romans 15:13 – May the God of Hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

God has entrusted this journey and our loved ones to us. He is asking us to engage with Him on this journey.  As we do, He promises to equip us every step of the way.

Until January 3rd – I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!  Talk to you in 2024, friends!

We have heard the saying, 'Just pray it away'.  This can lead to shame, disappointment, and isolation. God uses the Body of Christ to bring healing.  We heal in community.  If so, how can we best be a healing community for our loved ones? 

In today's episode, Christian counselor Andrew Rodriguez shares ways God uses families and community to bring healing. 

PsychoBible - Andrew Rodriguez's YouTube Channel

Andrew's video mentioned in The Bridge Between Us: 

Andy Stanley, Unconditional Conference, and Pope Francis: Christianity's Sexuality Crisis Evaluation

Other mentioned TBBU podcast episodes:

Eps. 7 with Deborah Barr

Eps. 33 with Andrew Rodriguez

Did you know that even in the midst of your heartbreak God has a promised land for you?  That's right!  The abundant life mentioned in John 10:10 isn't just for when we get to heaven.  We can live in our promised land now!  

Listen in as my guest, Jenn Hand, shares ways to conquer our fear and take bold steps of faith.  Towards the end of the episode, Jenn will also share a few tips to help you have a trauma-less Christmas. 

Connect with Jenn Hand: https://jenniferhand.org/

Links from Jenn Hand

We pray and cry out to God to set our children and the LGBTQ Community free but are we prepared for how it will look?  Are we ready to receive with open arms those finding freedom?

In our episode today, Jessica Rose, a former trans-man - now Child of God and Daughter of the King shares with Melinda portions of her healing journey.  Listen in to learn:

*Questions to ask your child if they come to you sharing their gender dysphoria or same-sex attraction

*Ways parents and the Church can be a part of the healing process

*what to expect in the transformation process

If Jessica Rose's story has brought you hope and encouragement, will you please share it with 5 other people?  Where the world is shouting loud that transformation isn't possible, we need to share more boldly that with God, all things are possible! 

Mentions in the episode:

Jessica's TikTok video on her coming out to her church

Ken William's Book and resources: The Journey Out

Restored Hope Network Hope 2024 Conference

If you are looking for community during the Christmas season, I will be hosting a Zoom meeting 3 times in December.  Please email: melinda@melindapatrick.org for more information.