Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast The Break Up Break Down
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| When she got pregnant, engaged, and broken up with in a matter of months.... - S6E15 | 22 Oct 2024 | 00:28:45 | |
First comes love, then comes baby, then comes marriage...maybe? This week's interviewee says all three almost all happened within a few months. However, when tragedy strikes this budding family, things change for the worst. How did this all come to an end in less than one years time? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for YWCA in Nashville: https://www.ywcanashville.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (05:26): How they met - (11:08): The red flags - (14:18): When their relationship went to the next level - (19:35): The miscarriage/the breakup - (23:08): Reflecting/advice - (32:05)): Teaser - CW: Miscarriage Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: How religious trauma shows up in relationships w/ Suzanne Goodwin | 17 Oct 2024 | 00:21:36 | |
Suzanne Goodwin, from Parkside Psychotherapy joins me on the podcast this week to talk about how your religious upbringing impacts how you view your romantic relationships - Suzanne's practice's contact info: Parksidepsychotherapy.com / 404-914-0279 - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When her ex-husband started dating her friend.... - S6E11 | 17 Sep 2024 | 00:33:04 | |
She and her ex husband split up before their wedding photos even got released...and now two years later she says they're friends...and he's dating someone she's close with! How did our interviewee from S3E7 end up there and how did she end up in another relationship worthy of a BUBD episode? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for The Spring in Tampa, FL: https://www.safehaventc.org/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (08:02): Recap on S3E7 - (14:42): How they met - (16:19): The red flags - (18:05): When the truth came out - (25:19): How she is approaching life as a single mom - (27:13): Reflecting on her relationships that ended - (34:27): Advice - (36:22); Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When he cancelled the wedding right after her bachelorette party.... - S4E16 | 24 Oct 2023 | 00:35:14 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Jessie's Place in Birmingham, AL: https://jimmiehalemission.com/donate/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:08): How they met - (08:16): The cracks in the relationship - (12:29): When he broke things off - (17:22): How people reacted - (19:01): The aftermath - (24:00): When he tried to get her back - (26:32): Her healing process - (29:24): How her dating life is now - (33:09): Advice - (34:56): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: How is a narcissist created? (S4E15 reaction) w/ Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW | 19 Oct 2023 | 00:18:48 | |
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - More from Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW: https://www.jessicaannepressler.com/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When he introduced her to the woman he'd leave her for.... - S4E15 | 17 Oct 2023 | 00:44:48 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Choices in Columbus, OH: https://lssnetworkofhope.org/donate/?dr=LSS%20CHOICES%20for%20Victims%20of%20Domestic%20Violence - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (02:49): How they met - (06:14): When they moved in together - (08:14): When he introduces her to the woman he'd leave her for - (11:45): When things started to go wrong - (17:29): When they had their child - (20:02): When she saw signs of an affair - (26:52): The aftermath after he left her - (29:29): Where everyone is at now - (37:15): Reflecting/what she learned - (44:29): Teaser - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Why would they cheat if they don't want to break up?!?! | 12 Oct 2023 | 00:22:18 | |
Check out more from Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she found his wedding website.... - S4E14 | 10 Oct 2023 | 00:32:24 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Hope Inc in Clarksburg, WV: https://hopeincwv.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:21): How they met - (10:01): When she found out about the engagement - (14:58): What happened when she confronted him - (19:41): Is the wedding still on? - (24:36): Reflecting on the relationships - (27:39): Advice/what she's learned - (32:10): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: A conversation on domestic violence w/ LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas (Replay) | 05 Oct 2023 | 00:19:59 | |
[SCROLL FOR CW]: - We're diving deeper into the conversation surrounding domestic violence and verbal abuse on today's break down. - LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas came on to react to this week's main episode and help us understand why victims choose to stay in abusive relationships and how we can help our friends and family escape a dangerous situation! - Connect with Amethyst ! - Website: https://www.inclusivetherapyclub.com/ -. IG: https://www.instagram.com/inclusivetherapyclub/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Timestamps: - (00:00-01:32): Episode intro/general reactions - (01:32-03:36): Defining verbal abuse - (03:36-04:34): The need for control in abusive relationships - (04:34-06:29): Defining what abuse looks like in conflict - (06:29-08:12): Reasons people choose to stay in abusive relationships - (08:12-15:12): How to encourage someone to leave an abusive relationship - (15:12-17:12): Common things people need to heal from after an abusive relationship - (17:12-19:60): Closing out/where to follow Inclusive Therapy Club - CW: Domestic violence: physical abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she didn't know she was in an abusive relationship.... - Replay | 03 Oct 2023 | 00:25:38 | |
[SCROLL FOR CW] - This episode originally aired in October 2022 - Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 OR Text START to 88788 - Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/ Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00-04:09): Episode Intro - (04:53): How they got together - (06:20): When the red flags started to show - (07:37): When things started to take a turn for the worst - (10:16): Why she decided to stay when things got violent - (11:49): When the relationship finally came to an end - (13:09): Why she wanted to stay in this relationship - (14:18): The aftermath of the relationship - (17:36): When she finally identified that this was abuse - (20:25): Advice she would give to people in her situation - (25:02): Thursday Episode - [CW: Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence/Intimate Partner Violence, Miscarriage, Mental Health] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When the break up mysteries hadn't been solved yet.... - S5Finale | 28 Sep 2023 | 00:23:58 | |
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (01:05): Submission #1 - (03:32): Submission #2 - (05:29): Submission #3 - (07:24): Submission #4 - (12:49): Submission #5 - (14:23): Submission #6 - (15:57): Submission #7 - (17:10): Submission #8 - (20:01): Submission #9 - (22:58): Submission #10 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Attachment styles + conflict in healthy relationships w/ ExCoworker Justin | 28 Sep 2023 | 00:26:12 | |
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When the divorce came out of nowhere.... - S4E13 | 26 Sep 2023 | 00:40:34 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Favor House of NW Florida: https://www.favorhouse.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:51): How they met/the early relationship - (09:11): Their engagement/early marriage - (12:37): When the cracks in their relationship started to show - (17:25): The start of the divorce - (25:44): Why the divorce was so shocking - (29:33): Her ex's new relationship - (35:00): Reflecting on the relationship/advice - (40:18): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Your relationship's impact on your kids w/ Marissa Mundy, LPC | 12 Sep 2024 | 00:22:42 | |
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Restorative Atlanta: https://www.restorativeatlanta.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: What you should know about self-defense w/ Safe4Life | 21 Sep 2023 | 00:32:01 | |
SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Check out more from Safe4Life: https://safe4life.ca/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - [CW: kidnapping, sexual assault, intimate partner violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she said her ex kidnapped her.... - S4E12 | 19 Sep 2023 | 01:02:14 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for Women in Transition in Philly: https://helpwomen.org/donate - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:47): How they met - (11:32): When she started to learn about his past - (19:56): When she started to see his true colors - (28:10): When she started to ask questions - (32:555): When she broke up with him - (38:10): The suspicious "closure" dinner - (44:28): Figuring out how to escape her ex - (51:10): The aftermath/the court cases - (57:47): Reflecting/what she learned - (01:01:00): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, kidnapping, suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: The Struggles being LGBTQ+ in the Christian Community w/ The Christian Closet | 14 Sep 2023 | 00:31:18 | |
BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Thank you to Candice from The Christian Closet for coming on!: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4E11 | 12 Sep 2023 | 00:38:25 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55 - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:52): How they met - (06:58): The first break up - (09:01): When they got back together - (12:53): The second break up - (16:37): Their secret engagement - (21:24): The end of their relationship - (27:07): Why her friends were concerned about their relationship - (31:46): Reflecting on the relationship - (34:05): Advice - (37:57): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: When does keeping secrets go too far in relationships....(replay) | 07 Sep 2023 | 00:17:25 | |
[CHECK CW] - Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are back together to break down this week's main episode! We talk about some of the most SHOCKING parts of this week's main episode and hash out some of the main points from the story. We discuss pretending to be something you're not in relationships, keeping secrets, cheating, and gender roles in relationships. You know...casual, light topics of conversation!!! - Support the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Tasheka Young (our former coworker) / Learn more: https://www.actionnewsjax.com/news/local/memorial-services-announced-tasheka-tysheeks-young/3HUFHCA6VNBTDBHWBPHBLGDZ7I/ CashApp: $OliviaSYoung - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: (00:00-00:59): Intro - (01:00-02:11): Tasheka Young - (02:22-04:38): Breaking down the episode's main points - (04:38-07:24): When your partner lies to you/keeps secrets - (07:24-10:51): Navigating traditional gender roles in relationships - (10:51-12:05): How much did the interviewee know about his involvement with drugs? - (12:05-15:24): What do you do if your friends/family don't approve of your partner? - (15:24-17:24): Trust issues/getting blindsided in a relationship/teasing next week's episodes. - CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she was driving the getaway car.... - S2E1 (replay) | 05 Sep 2023 | 00:34:50 | |
[This episode originally aired during Season 2) - This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Timestamps: (00:00) - (01:01): Intro - (01:01) - (04:28): Discussing the season/submission - (04:28) - (05:17): How they met/the "love" story - (05:17) - (07:06): Red Flags - (07:06) - (12:43): When things took a turn for the worst - (12:43) - (15:30): Forming the plan - (15:30) - (19:12): Executing the plan - (19:12) - (23:18): How her ex fought back - (23:18) - (27:20): The unexpected aftermath - (27:20) - (33:55): Reflecting on the situation/advice/moving on Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: How your partner's self-esteem impacts your relationship w/ ExCoworker Justin | 31 Aug 2023 | 00:15:00 | |
Come to the Break Up Break Down Brunch in ATL: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007 - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Check out this episode on self-esteem: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/PION6516502231.mp3?updated=1690554641 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she found his mistress' house online.... - S4E10 | 29 Aug 2023 | 00:46:00 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Safe Horizon in Manhattan: https://www.safehorizon.org/mysafehorizon/ - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator / Use promo code HOTGOSS10 for 10% off! (This promo code expires 08/30) - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:02): How they met/the early relationship - (07:25): The first signs of infidelity - (15:16): How he handles the first confrontation - (23:39): The aftermath of the second bout of infidelity - (27:45): Reflecting on the mistress' part in it - (30:18): Reflecting on her ex's part in it - (35:17): Reflecting on why she was in this relationship - (39:24): How TikTok impacted her break up - (44:11): Advice she'd give after this experience - (45:34): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: How your high school relationship impacts your future w/ Amy from New Perspectives | 24 Aug 2023 | 00:22:35 | |
SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/ - This week's main episode also touched on SA. Hear Amy and I's conversation on codependency and SA here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5KjJ9fJRkAwYE0Z4PMn0af?si=ILYLEbUyQRWN60z407amBQ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she felt like she couldn't ditch high school sweetheart.... - S4E9 | 22 Aug 2023 | 00:36:58 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for The Salvation Army DV Center in NWFL: https://salvationarmyflorida.org/domestic-violence-program/ - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - USE CODE BREAKDOWN9 FOR 10% UNTIL AUGUST 23RD! - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:51): How they met - (05:31): The cracks in their relationship - (08:29): When the relationship really started to fall apart [CW: sexual assault] - (11:52): The final straw - (14:11): Reflecting on her SA - (16:46): Reflecting on reasons why she stayed in the relationship - (19:23): How his family played into the break up - (23:37): How she moved on from the relationship - (27:56): Healing from her SA - (33:02): Advice - (36:33): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Sexual Assault] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she divorced him over his farts.... - S6E10 | 10 Sep 2024 | 00:40:38 | |
'Better out, than in' might be a better suited to talking about your husband when he can't control his flatulence around you. What seemed like a harmless joke at first quickly turned into a marriage-ending factor for these two. Why could a simple bodily function contribute to the end of relationship? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for SafeHaven in Arlington, TX: https://www.safehaventc.org/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (08:37): How they met - (13:15): The first signs something was off - (17:39): One of the worst incidents - (22:26): The last straw - (24:10): Is it a fetish? - (27:08): The divorce - (34:47): Reflecting on her relationships - (39:29): Advice - (44:18); Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Talking about Trauma Bonds w/ Tatiana Melendez, LCSW | 17 Aug 2023 | 00:28:06 | |
BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Thank you to Tatiana Melendez for coming on!: https://ttmcounseling.com/about/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she left her fiancé for her coworker.... - S4E8 | 15 Aug 2023 | 00:57:32 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for The Dwelling Place in Minneapolis: https://www.tdpmn.org/donate - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator / Use code HOTGOSS8 for 10% off (only on Aug 15th!) - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (05:29): How they met - (07:26): The trauma bond - (09:13): When she knew things were off in the relationship - (15:33): How she met her current BF - (18:46): The start of the final breakup w/ her Fiancé - (27:51): The falling out between her and her ex fiancé - (34:13): Reflecting on the relationship/the trauma bond - (47:37): Advice - (57:06): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, eating disorders, suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Technology's impact on infidelity w/ Kennedy | 10 Aug 2023 | 00:19:16 | |
Come to the Break Up Break Down Brunch in ATL: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007 - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she found out she got cheated on in front of 35k people.... - S4E7 | 08 Aug 2023 | 00:37:09 | |
This week we're raising awareness for East LA Women's Center: https://www.elawc.org/how_you_can_help - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator / Use promo code S4E7 for 10% off! (This promo code expires 08/09) - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (06:20): How they met/the early relationship - (13:38): When she first noticed something was off - (15:25): When she saw the post.... - (21:38): The messy aftermath - (25:50): How this affected her emotionally - (30:57): Dating culture in FRANCE! Oui Oui! - (35:50): Reflecting on the relationship/advice - (36:47): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: The relationship between codependency and victims of SA | 03 Aug 2023 | 00:23:26 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Sexual Assault (rape), intimate partner violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she didn't know it was sexual assault.... - S4E6 | 01 Aug 2023 | 00:50:44 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - National Sexual Assault Hotline: https://www.rainn.org/resources - This week we're raising awareness for One Safe Place in Redding, CA: https://ospshasta.org/donate/ - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (08:54): How they met - (11:34): The SA incident - (21:08): How the relationship was after the SA - (26:21): When the romantic relationship ended - (28:45): How she tried to work through the infidelity - (35:27): Coming to terms with the SA - (38:41): Reflecting on the relationship/advice - (50:29): Teaser - [CW: Sexual Assault (Rape), Self-Harm, Suicidal Ideation, Intimate Partner Violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Discovering your partner was cheating in the worst ways w/ Ex-Coworker Justin | 27 Jul 2023 | 00:36:18 | |
You should come to the Break Up Break Down Brunch!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she used an Apple Watch to track his infidelity.... - S4E5 | 25 Jul 2023 | 00:36:12 | |
This week we're raising awareness for La Casa de Las Madres in SF: https://www.lacasa.org/donate - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - TikTok from this week's episode: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT88dALk6/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (05:03): How they met - (08:05): When her gut told her something was off - (11:00): How the infidelity affected the relationship - (12:12): When more details about the infidelity came out - (17:28): How she tried to work through the infidelity - (22:47): When she knew it was time to end the marriage - (30:00): Reflecting on the relationship/advice - (35:56): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Defining healthy boundaries w/ Kennedy | 20 Jul 2023 | 00:22:17 | |
SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When the ex-GF called her up.... - S4E4 | 18 Jul 2023 | 00:27:09 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for New Beginnings in Seattle: https://connect.clickandpledge.com/w/Form/eb4fcb02-785e-43c9-a3d9-ab2daca2f700 - YOUR INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:50): How they met - (07:58): When the ex GF Called her - (11:03): How she confronted him - (15:17): How "the incident" affected her relationship - (16:51): The second "incident" - (19:58): What ultimately ended the relationship - (21:39): Dealing with the heartbreak - (23:30): Advice/reflecting on the relationship - (26:48): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Suicide/Suicidal Ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus Episode: Understanding popular reasons people cheat | 29 Aug 2024 | 00:15:47 | |
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Building self-esteem & self-worth for healthy relationships | 13 Jul 2023 | 00:26:34 | |
Come to the Break Up Break Down Brunch in ATL: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007 - Amy Head, LCSW, joins the podcast to talk self-esteem, self-worth, and how to build yours from the inside out to have healthy relationships! - Learn more about Amy's practice: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When her BF cheated on her, his other GF, and his wife.... - S4E3 | 11 Jul 2023 | 00:37:11 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for SafeHouse in Denver: https://safehouse-denver.org/get-involved/donate/donate-form.html - BUY YOUR TICKET TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:33): How they met - (06:59): When the infidelity was discovered - (10:11): The divorce party - (14:44): Her new relationship - (17:20): Reflecting on the relationship - (24:10): How the relationship affected her future marriage - (28:38): Rebuilding self-esteem discussion - (34:57): Advice - (36:54): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Suicide/Suicidal Ideation, Eating Disorders, Religious Trauma] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Things keeping you in your relationship that might not be healthy (w/ Lexi) | 06 Jul 2023 | 00:24:03 | |
SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - [MAIN EPISODE CONTENT WARNINGS: Child molestation, pedophilia, sexual assault/rape, loss of a family member (graphic)] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When a detective called about her husband.... - S4E2 | 04 Jul 2023 | 00:41:35 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for First Step in Detroit, MI: https://www.firststep-mi.org/donatenow/ - BUY YOUR TICKET TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:45): How they met - (05:51): His father's death - (09:25): How his father's death affected the relationship - (13:39): The signs that something was wrong - (25:51): When she started to realize she wanted out - (27:58): The phone call from the detective.... - (33:43): Reflecting on the relationship/advice - (41:20): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Child molestation, pedophilia, sexual assault/rape, loss of a family member (graphic)] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: Why is my partner trying to control me? w/ Amy Head, LCSW | 29 Jun 2023 | 00:27:43 | |
You should come to the Break Up Break Down Brunch in ATL: https://forms.gle/KEWSJcxShbLzCWRk6 (sign up to be the first to get the link here) - Amy Head, LCSW joins the podcast to talk all about controlling partners in relationships. What does control abuse look like in relationships? How do I identify when I'm not sure if it's a problem or just controlling tendencies? What tools can I use to leave relationships that show signs and evidence of control issues? - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When her BFF and husband were naked in the yard.... - S4E1 | 27 Jun 2023 | 00:37:47 | |
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This week we're raising awareness for Safe Alliance in Charlotte, NC: https://www.safealliance.org/donations/ - Interested in coming to the Break Up Break Down Brunch?: https://forms.gle/dqhvvAEJmKWt4nS3A - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (05:20): When she first noticed things were unhealthy.... - (09:27): The situation with her BFF and her husband - (14:18): When she decided to divorce him - (19:44): The miraculous birth of her daughter - (26:09): Life after the traumatic birth - (29:47): Reflecting on her friendship with her ex-BFF - (34:11): Reflecting on her marriage - (35:46): Advice - (37:30): Teaser - [CW: Miscarriage, Suicide, Intimate Partner Violence, Loss of a Child] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: The "Daddy Issues" Deep Dive w/ Kati Morton, LMFT | 20 Jun 2023 | 00:27:00 | |
(psssttt Season 4 starts JUNE 27th!) Marriage and Family therapist Kati Morton joins the podcast to redefine "daddy issues". What are they and how do you know if you have them...and spoiler alert....it doesn't always have to do with your relationship with your father! - Check out Kati's Attachment Workshop: https://katimorton.com/the-shop/p/attachment-workshop - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When the breakups went unsolved....again.... - Season 3 Finale | 13 Jun 2023 | 00:27:43 | |
Interested in coming to the Break Up Break Down Brunch?: https://forms.gle/dqhvvAEJmKWt4nS3A - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (02:38 ): Submission #1 - (06:10): Submission #2 - (08:58): Submission #3 - (11:58): Submission #4 - (15:24): Submission #5 - (17:51): Submission #6 - (19:05): Submission #7 - (20:53): Submission #8 - (22:17): Submission #9 - (24:56): Submission #10 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: The Season 3 Break Down (+ S3E20 Reaction) | 25 May 2023 | 00:26:15 | |
S3 has finally come to a close....I'm wrapping up this season by talking about S3E20 and every episode that came before it! I'll talk about my favorite moments and lessons from the season and also a little tea along the way.... - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she was the "other woman" for 7 years.... - S3E20 | 23 May 2023 | 00:37:52 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Marjaree Mason Center in Fresno, Ca: https://mmcenter.org/partner-with-us/donate - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:44): How they met/Establishing the relationship - (15:52): Why they both kept the affair going - (16:20): How it ended - (17:42): When his ex-wife called her with major information - (20:18): When he tried to reignite the relationship - (24:28): Reflecting on how it affected her/advice - (37:40): Teaser - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When he transitioned after their divorce.... - S6E9 | 27 Aug 2024 | 00:27:32 | |
The only thing lonelier than singleness is feeling alone in your marriage. When this week's interviewee said she felt her husband pulling away, she thought it was just because they were growing apart. It wasn't until after the divorce that she found out the distance between them ran much deeper than personality differences. We'll hear about the shocking call between the ex-wife and the new GF, when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for The Nest in Lexington, KY: https://www.thenestlexington.org/who-we-are - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (06:16): How they met - (11:08): The first signs something was off - (15:44): The end of their marriage, aftermath - (18:01): The shocking call from her ex's new GF - (19:31): Reflecting - (26:08): Advice/healing from the divorce - (31:08): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: What we've learned from going to therapy for "daddy issues" w/ Bestie Kennedy | 18 May 2023 | 00:25:11 | |
We'll definitely have a therapist on to talk about this subject at some point, but for now, here's an in-depth look on two personal experiences. "Daddy issues", parental wounds, attachment issues, abandonment issues...whatever you feel comfortable calling them...can be absolutely devastating when trying to get into a healthy relationship. BFF Kennedy joins Abby on the podcast to talk about each other's emotional wounds from childhood and what they've learned from their own healing experiences. - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| When she found out about the affair after he died.... - S3E19 | 16 May 2023 | 00:45:42 | |
This week we're raising awareness for Palomar in Oklahoma City, OK: https://palomarokc.org/donate/ - Check out Besitos Beauty: https://besitosbeauty.com/ - Interested in coming to the Break Up Break Down Brunch?: https://forms.gle/dqhvvAEJmKWt4nS3A - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:35 ): The beginning of the relationship - (04:23): When the other relationship came to light - (10:54): What kept her in the relationship - (15:18): How her husband passed away - (20:15): How she discovered the affair - (25:08): How she decided to pull life support - (30:43): The aftermath of his passing/discovering the affair - (35:18): How she turned her pain into "power" - (41:48): Advice she has for people rebuilding their self-esteem - (45:29): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Break Down Bonus: What lengths would you go to avoid your ex? w/ ExCoworker Justin | 11 May 2023 | 00:24:23 | |
Was he drawing a boundary...or going to extremes to avoid his ex hook up? ExCoworker Justin joins the pod to recap and rehash this week's main episode! We'll talk about post-relationship triggers, avoiding your exes at any cost, and niche dating deal breakers.... - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||