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What actually keeps men stuck? In this honest conversation, Jason sits down with therapist and podcast host Trey Tucker to unpack the invisible battles most men face — anxiety, shame, isolation, and the quiet grief we don’t know how to name.

Trey shares real-life insight on:

• Why most men fear being seen — and how friendship can change everything
• How subtle, formative experiences shape our emotional patterns for decades
• The cost of tying your worth to a job, status, or image
• Anger, avoidance, and using physical movement to regulate emotion
• Low testosterone, fatigue, and why so many men feel checked out
• The truth about hookup culture, dating fatigue, and setting standards that matter
• Taking ownership inside hell moments — not to blame yourself, but to reclaim control

This episode is about reps — not just in the gym, but in how you think, relate, and lead. Whether you're facing a major pivot or trying to break old patterns, what you’ll hear here is practical, grounded, and long overdue.

Connect with Trey: https://www.ruggedcounseling.com/ 

Welcome to The Pivot Path™ Coaching Community

This community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.

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Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.

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About Craig Ballantyne:

Craig Ballantyne is a renowned high-performance coach, author, and entrepreneur. He is the author of "The Perfect Day Formula," "Unstoppable," and "The Dark Side of Discipline." Craig is known for his no-nonsense approach to personal and business growth, emphasizing discipline, strategic planning, and mindset shifts to help individuals and businesses achieve their full potential.

In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with best-selling author and high-performance coach Craig Ballantyne for a candid conversation about navigating the ever-changing landscape of business and life. Craig shares invaluable insights on adapting to algorithm shifts, embracing reinvention, and overcoming the hidden roadblocks that prevent us from achieving our greatest desires.

What You'll Learn:

• The Truth About Algorithm Changes: Why blaming external factors like algorithm shifts is unproductive and what to do instead when your content views plummet.

• The Art of Reinvention: Discover the first steps to reinventing yourself or your business, including the critical importance of understanding what your audience truly wants.

• Unmasking Your Level 10 Problem: Learn to identify the core issue that's holding you back – often a difficult conversation you've been avoiding – and how to tackle it head-on.

• The Trap of Performative Productivity: Understand how "good" activities can prevent you from achieving "great" things, and how to prioritize what truly matters.

• The Power of Systems Over Willpower: Craig reveals why relying solely on willpower is a losing battle and how to establish systems and standards that make good habits effortless.

• Overcoming the "Doom Loop": Practical strategies for breaking free from negative cycles like emotional eating, including identifying triggers and implementing pattern interrupts.

• Structuring Your Day for Success: Craig shares how his daily routine has evolved, demonstrating how to align your schedule with your values and maximize your most productive hours.

• The Game-Changing Impact of Accountability: Why having someone you deeply don't want to disappoint is the ultimate catalyst for consistent action and sustained results.

• The Philosophy of Knowing Good People: Discover why building a strong network of positive connections can make every aspect of your life easier and more fulfilling.

Connect with Craig Ballantyne:

• Website: https://www.craigballantyne.com & Instagram

• Books: The Dark Side of Discipline, The Perfect Day Formula, Unstoppable (Available on Amazon and Audible)

Key Takeaways:

• Don't blame the algorithm; improve your content or find what the algorithm is currently rewarding.

• Reinvention starts with understanding what your audience desires.

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What does it take to build resilience, lead with impact, and scale a mission-driven business? Amber Nelms is a board-certified behavior analyst, entrepreneur, and personal development advocate who's reshaping the way we approach leadership, personal growth, and success.

In this episode, Amber shares how she built Triangle ABA, a leading autism therapy company, while navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship, personal transformation, and leadership development. She breaks down the neuroscience of success, the mindset shifts required for breaking through upper limits, and why putting yourself in the right rooms is key to growth.

Amber also opens up about her personal journey—from rebuilding her life after divorce to scaling her business while staying aligned with her purpose. If you're looking for inspiration on how to push past fear, commit to your goals, and lead with authenticity, this episode is a must-listen.

✔️ How Amber committed to 365 days of content creation—and what it taught her about resilience
✔️ The power of showing up for yourself first before leading others
✔️ The biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make when scaling a mission-driven business
✔️ Why breaking through personal limits is the key to transformation
✔️ How to handle judgment, criticism, and self-doubt when building a personal brand
✔️ The science behind behavior change and how it applies to business and leadership
✔️ How Amber balances running a company, personal development, and content creation
✔️ The importance of community, mentorship, and putting yourself in the right rooms
✔️ How to navigate major life pivots and redefine success on your own terms

Amber Nelms is the founder of Triangle ABA, a leader in applied behavior analysis therapy for children with autism. A board-certified behavior analyst, entrepreneur, and coach, she is passionate about personal development, leadership, and the neuroscience of success. Through her business, speaking engagements, and content, she helps people push past their limits, develop resilience, and scale businesses without losing their heart.

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The concept of the Law of Attraction, as presented in the movie "The Secret" and the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill, suggests that our thoughts and intentions can influence the experiences and outcomes in our lives. It's the idea that we are like a magnet and attract into our lives what we are currently being. It's the way we think, act, and feel or our emotional setpoint. It the difference of seeing things as happening to you (Victim mindset) or happening for you (Take the lesson.) It's the words that we use with ourselves daily and how we tell the story of our lives to ourselves and to others. Although this idea may be seen as unconventional, it can still have a positive impact on one's mental and emotional well-being. Just like a magnet, our thoughts, actions, and emotions can attract or repel certain experiences. When we have positive thoughts and good intentions, we are more open to receiving what the world has to offer. This can lead to a happier, lighter vibration and a greater chance of attracting the things we want in life. However, many of us tend to focus on what we don't want, leading to negative emotions such as doubt, worry, and anxiety. To overcome this hurdle, it's important to focus on the lessons of past experiences and to ask yourself "Why not me?" instead of dwelling on negative outcomes. Keep in mind that the Law of Attraction is not a linear path and there will be ups and downs. It doesn't make you immune to negative experiences but by doing the work you certainly become more resilient. By responding positively to difficult situations and asking how you can do better next time, you can open yourself up to new opportunities and better outcomes. Remember that the universe may have something even better in store for you, even if it's not exactly what you had planned. Allow yourself to be focused more on the moment than a particular outcome that you desire. If you focus too much on the outcome and it doesn't work out the way you wanted it, you may miss the gift that particular moment gave you. To stay connected and sign up for the 21 Day Self-Love Challenge head over to my Stan Store below. There are also tons of freebies to get you started! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

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5 Tips to Overcome the Fear of Rejection Practice mindfulness and breathwork to take control of your nervous system and reduce the fear of rejection. Challenge and change your limiting beliefs about yourself and rejection. Start small by initiating conversations with people you're comfortable with, and gradually building up to more challenging interactions. Take ownership of your emotions and understand that rejection is not a reflection of your self-worth. Learn to detach from the outcome of a situation and focus on the process of what led up to it. We all have a fear of rejection in some area of our life, but we can overcome it by taking control of our nervous system through breathwork and by not being so attached to the outcome of a situation. It's important to remember that rejection is not a reflection of our self-worth, but rather a result of our attachment style and limiting beliefs. To practice overcoming the fear of rejection, try starting small by striking up a conversation with a cashier or someone you find interesting such as a mentor and take those interactions as a win even though it made you feel uncomfortable! As you do this more often, you'll feel empowered and gain confidence. Additionally, it's important to understand that rejection can be an opportunity for healing and growth, and it's not your job to convince someone of who you are. It's also important to remember that when someone leaves a relationship, it's not always a reflection on you, but rather an opportunity for them to heal their own unhealed trauma. How to overcome your limiting beliefs Start by becoming aware of the thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that are holding you back. What are they? Write them down. Once you've identified your limiting beliefs, take a step back and ask yourself if this is even true? What supporting evidence do you have for that? Once you've had the opportunity to digest your self-evaluation you can reframe the limiting belief of "I'm not enough" and reframe it to "I'm capable of amazing things." Be kind...to yourself! Give yourself grace and practice self-compassion. It's time to wire in new beliefs by counteracting the old ones with positive self-talk. Inventory your friend group. Who is in support of your goals, dreams, and desires? Do you feel supported in your friend group or with your family? Do you need to limit time with the people who bring you down? If you would like to learn more about 1:1 Coaching or how you can be a part of the 21 Day Self-Love Challenge just head to the link below and make sure you get all your freebies while you're there! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

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Letting go is a process that can be difficult, but it's necessary for growth and healing. It's important to understand that letting go does not mean forgetting or dismissing the past, but rather accepting and moving forward. 

Understand your pain is a message that is often never confronted. We tend to ignore or suppress the emotions and situations that we believe is causing the pain. However, pain also keeps us safe, think about touching a hot stove with your right hand and you'll have a physical response just from me talking about it. Try seeing your pain a guide in your life that is there to help you navigate difficult situations. It's a warning sign that something isn't right and needs to be confronted, challenged, changed, or overcome.  

It's time to start letting go of what no longer serves you. It's time to acknowledge the pain exists and where it comes from. It's time to accept that you cannot change the past but you no longer have to live there. 

It's time to embrace the present and co-create your future. 

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All we need is love, right? In modern dating things have gotten really interesting. I recently scanned the dating apps and saw A LOT of really familiar faces. I very quickly deleted the apps because that style of connection doesn't resonate with me and never really has. As I've done the inner work and took the deep dive into personal development and relationship dynamics, I quickly had a realization that changed the way I viewed starting relationships or rather it brought me back to my goals, values, and standards for a relationship with me and what that actually looks like. I was a teenager in the late 1900's and we did things like talk on the phone and had to wait a week to see each other with no conversation in between. Can you imagine!!! Not having any connection from the time, you set a date to the time you had the date??? That's unheard of today. Instead, we text 24 / 7 and have whole conversations all the while creating the meaning behind those messages in our heads. You don't even know this person yet. It gives a false sense of intimacy and closeness, but it's built off of your own emotions and meaning. We have lost the art of connection. So many people now will avoid a phone call because it makes them feel a certain way but THAT is connection! They prefer to text, private message, chat, or snap but the emotion that brings up isn't real. That's emotion you are assigning to that experience and that person based on your past experiences. They make you laugh via a meme that they didn't create or put any effort into, yet we will create the story about that person in our heads that they are funny. The meme is funny, they may end up only being slightly funny, or even not funny at all! They just know what makes them laugh and thought it would make you laugh as well. So in a way, you are connecting, and they acknowledge what is funny to you but still there is low to no effort being exerted. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Do you know your goals, values, and standards for a relationship? Have you taken the time to write down what you are looking for? Have you take the time to do the inner work so you can become ALL of those things yourself? A few key takeaways to remember Your attachment style isn't fixed. You can heal your attachment style Professional help, coaching, and other modalities are available to help you heal Take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't The key to healing is Self-Love, learning to trust yourself, and learning to let go of what no longer serves you! Make sure you check out my links below for all my other content! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit Additional Resources: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller The Power of Attachment by Diane Heller It's Not Me It's You By John Kim The Mountain is You by Brianna Wiest The Origins of You by Vienna Pharaon

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5 Steps to Finding Purpose Understand yourself: Take time to reflect on your beliefs, emotions, and past experiences. Journaling and meditation can be helpful tools to gain a deeper understanding of yourself. A great question to start with is, "Who am I?" Hint: You are more than your job or family title. Identify your highest self: Think about the person you want to become and what qualities and characteristics define that person. Make a conscious effort to work towards becoming that person. Identify your values: Determine what is truly important to you and align your actions and relationships with those values. Seek out supportive relationships: Surround yourself with people who support and align with your goals and values. Continuously seek knowledge and inspiration: Reading books, listening to podcasts, and taking courses on personal development can provide valuable insights and tools to help guide your journey towards finding your purpose. If you're interested in learning more about Life and Breath Coaching as well as the 21 Self-Love Challenge, then check out my Stan Store! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

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In today's world there are tons of FITNESS programs out there to choose from, but it can be intimidating if you don't currently work out or have a fitness ROUTINE like running, spin class, or CrossFit but this is your opportunity to reignite your motivation, discipline, and to take your personal POWER back! The NUMBER 1 place you are going to make the biggest difference in your health and wellness is in the KITCHEN. I can tell you as a former chef who oversaw multiple kitchens in hotels, resorts, corporations and sports arenas that what you CONSUME physically, mentally, and emotionally has a direct impact on your overall health. There was period of in my life when I would eat a tube of chocolate chip cookies in one sitting, and I wouldn't think twice about it until I started having different types of health issues that led me to start QUESTIONING what was going on. Am I getting old? Is this my new way of living? How did I get here? Is there anything I can do to CHANGE this? Why do I feel sad, angry, frustrated, and depressed all the time? These thoughts, feelings, and emotions were the CATALYST in my own life that PROPELLED me into a new way of living....for a while. When you try to do too many new things at one time it is easy to become OVERWHELMED. When you become overwhelmed you go right back to the HABITS and EMOTIONS that keep you feeling STUCK because they are the most FAMILIAR. You may find yourself doing really well on a diet plan but two weeks in you have a semi-significant life event that totally derails your progress, and this is when the negative self-talk starts. It happened again, I never finish anything, I can't do this, this is too hard, or the most difficult to overcome, "I give up!" This is why it's important to start slow and build on your new HABITS. As you CREATE and CELEBRATE your small WINS each day you become more confident, capable, and believe that you can ACCOMPLISH whatever your next goal is. You are now developing RESILIENCE and EMOTIONAL FORTITUDE in the face of doing hard things! CONGRATULATIONS! Right now, is a great OPPORTUNITY to take an inventory of your cabinets. With your current KNOWLEDGE and experience what type of foods do you think are problematic for you? If you are unsure, take a week or two and write down everything that you eat in a day to include your portion size. This will help create AWARENESS around what type of food you eat but I also want you to write down what you are FEELING in that moment. I know exactly what I was FEELING and what I was going through when I turned to the tube of cookies but more on FOOD RELATIONSHIPS later in the program. A great way to START back into a fitness routine is by walking! I know it sounds stupid simple because it is. You don't have to buy any equipment except a solid pair of shoes, and you are on your way. Eventually you will start doing research on zero platform shoe and the benefits of spending more time BAREFOOT. That is definitely worth a Google search! For now, let's focus on the basics and WALK it out!

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If you are new to MEDITATION, I want you to know that you don't need any fancy new tools, equipment, or candles but I can tell you as you become more COMFORTABLE you will see the benefit of having a cushion, candle, and some high vibration music or your favorite YouTube meditation. I cannot link a meditation in here because the link keeps changing due to copyright but if you look up 15 Minute Morning Meditation by Joe Dispenza you should be ablet to find it on YouTube. As the link changes I will post it in the Facebook group! What is MEDITATION good for? Here are my top reasons for meditating! Reduce Feelings of Stress - This is probably the primary reason you are willing to try meditation in the first place. You feel stressed! Reduce Feelings of Anxiousness - This is the second reason most people give meditation a try BUT you have to remain CONSISTENT with this practice to receive the maximum benefit. Improve Emotional Health - Whenever you begin a physical, mental, or emotional practice a potential natural byproduct is better emotional health. Increase Self-Awareness- Meditation gives you an opportunity to close the door on your external environment and go inward. A place where don't often feel comfortable going for long because old thoughts, feelings, and emotions pop up! Increase Mindfulness- When the mind drifts allow it to happen. Journal what is coming up for you. Over time those thoughts, feelings, and emotions will lose their impact as you allow yourself to feel the FEELINGS. Move you into your Parasympathetic Nervous System- They call this your rest, digest, and calm. This is a place we want to be able to go to whenever we have big emotions, stress, or feelings of anxiety pop up. This is a good opportunity to move into our breathwork practices. Always Available to you and FREE I want to say CONGRATULATIONS and I am proud of you for making it through the first week of the challenge! Make sure you leave a comment below about your experience so far!

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