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| 340: Exploring Ayahuasca: Bridging Western Psychology and Indigenous Medicine for Trauma and Addiction Recovery with Dr. Jeff McNairy | 30 Jun 2025 | 00:46:17 | |
Join us on a transformative journey as we sit down with Dr. Jeff McNairy, the Chief Medical Officer at Rythmia, who shares his compelling shift from traditional mental health practices to the world of alternative therapies. Inspired by Gerard Powell's remarkable healing journey, Dr. McNairy unveils the promising potential of integrating Western psychology with indigenous medicine. We explore how ayahuasca, a powerful plant medicine, offers a new perspective on addiction and trauma recovery, providing hope for those who have found conventional treatments lacking in addressing the root causes of their struggles. Our conversation delves into the complex relationship between trauma, subconscious memories, and healing methods. Dr. McNairy and I discuss the resurgence of interest in regressive trauma work through modern therapeutic approaches like EMDR and hypnotherapy, and the role psychedelics like ayahuasca play in accessing deep-seated emotions. Highlighting the importance of intentionality, setting, and aftercare, we consider how these therapies can foster personal growth and healthier relationships, particularly for recent trauma victims, including veterans. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP75 Survival Skills For Sobriety: Create Your Recovery Plan Today | 30 Jun 2025 | 00:18:50 | |
What if I told you that up to 90% of people with alcohol use disorder relapse within the first four years? Before you let that statistic discourage you, here's the game-changer: having a solid relapse prevention plan can dramatically shift those odds in your favor. In this powerful episode, Duane and Eric dive deep into one of recovery's most crucial yet overlooked tools – the relapse prevention plan. They're not talking about planning to fail; they're talking about planning to succeed when life throws its inevitable curveballs. You'll discover why your healthiest moments are actually the perfect time to prepare for your most vulnerable ones. Think of it as creating a "survival kit for your sobriety" – a personalized roadmap that helps you identify warning signs before they become danger zones and navigate triggering situations with confidence rather than chaos. The hosts share practical strategies for building your support network, recognizing your unique triggers (hint: they're not always what you think), and developing immediate response plans that actually work when cravings hit. They'll also tackle the shame that keeps so many people from reaching out for help and show you how to transform potential relapses from failures into powerful growth opportunities. Whether you're thriving in recovery right now or struggling to get back on track, this episode offers hope, practical tools, and the reminder that recovery is a journey of progress, not perfection. Plus, they've created a downloadable worksheet to help you build your own personalized plan – because having a plan isn't pessimistic, it's empowering.
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| 337: Redefining Freedom: Compassionate Rehabilitation in Women's Prisons with Olivia Sproat | 09 Jun 2025 | 00:48:09 | |
Years ago, Olivia Sproat stood at a crossroads. As a provisional psychologist and former counselor, she was drawn to a unique women's rehabilitation prison in Australia—a place where the focus on compassion and respect seemed to offer a glimmer of hope. Today, she joins us to share her journey into this transformative field, where a pioneering program has slashed recidivism rates to an astonishing 6%, compared to the usual 40%. Through her eyes, we explore how addressing the specific barriers faced by women, especially mothers battling addiction, can carve out meaningful paths to recovery. The notion of prison life is often clouded by preconceived ideas about punishment and confinement. However, Olivia paints an entirely different picture of Wandoo prison, where emotional safety and community are at the forefront. She reveals how conflict resolution, emotional regulation, and mentorship transform lives within its walls. The therapeutic community here is more than just a concept; it's a living, breathing system that encourages trust and vulnerability, allowing women to connect deeply with their peers and themselves. Olivia's insights challenge traditional punitive models, advocating for a system rooted in kindness and support. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 28: Perfectly Imperfect: Overcoming Perfectionism in Recovery | 18 Jul 2024 | 00:17:51 | |
In this episode of The Addicted Mind podcast, Eric and Duane dive deep into the often-overlooked topic of perfectionism and its profound impact on recovery journeys. They explore different dimensions of perfectionism, from self-imposed standards to societal expectations, revealing how these can lead to self-criticism and hinder progress. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, they offer practical strategies for overcoming perfectionism, such as mindfulness, self-compassion, and seeking professional support. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has felt the weight of unattainable standards and seeks a path to greater peace and acceptance in their recovery. Download: OVERCOMING PERFECTIONISM WORKSHEET Join Our Deep Dive, where we discuss this episode in depth. Register Here: https://theaddictedmind.com/deepdive Click Here to Join the TAM + Community Waitlist. Get the support you need. Key Topics:
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| 291: REPLAY: Figuring It Out – The Power Of Psychological Assessments with Dr. Tracy Zemansky | 15 Jul 2024 | 00:31:13 | |
We have a fantastic guest today. Dr. Tracy Zemansky is here to speak about the fascinating topic of psychological assessment, and how it can help you or your client on a journey of healing. What is a psychological assessment? It’s not what we typically see in the movies. It is a way of evaluating a particular part of an individual and trying to understand it more. To get as much information as possible psychological tests, interviews, questionnaires, behavioral observations, and sometimes collateral interviews, which are interviews with people who know the individual well, are used. Tracy explains how this process is like being a detective looking into someone’s personality. Searching with the client, and possibly their therapist, at any concerns that may be getting in the way of their goals. We give the example of a client who is stuck and may not be able to gain long-term sobriety, or they may not be able to form the long-term relationships they want. Going through the process of psychological assessment may help to find more details that can be helpful. The tests Tracy uses differ significantly from client to client. A psychological assessment for a client who is working on their relationship difficulties would look very different from a client who is, for instance, struggling with alcohol addiction. Each assessment is created for the individual client. These tests can be anything from true or false or multiple choice questions which are scored by mathematical algorithms, to Rorschach-style inkblot tests to observe how the client reacts to the unknown, and it is also scored in a particular way. How the client interacts in the room during the test is helpful as well. The results of these tests, the behavior of the client during testing, and what they and their therapist say are all used to getting a broad and revealing picture for the assessment. Psychological testing cannot predict the future and cannot tell us what caused our pasts. But testing can help us make links which can be useful in therapy. Setting concrete goals and asking questions that can be answered is essential. Going through a psychological assessment and getting this level of detail can help you set out a roadmap to pursue the life you want in recovery. It can speed up the therapeutic process by pointing out the roadblocks that have been in your way. Resources: Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: http://www.drtracyzemansky.com/ Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.
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| TAM+ EP 27 Celebrating the Little Things: How Micro Wins Drive Your Recovery Journey | 11 Jul 2024 | 00:18:25 | |
In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the importance of celebrating micro wins in the journey of recovery. They discuss how small victories, often overlooked, play a crucial role in maintaining motivation and building resilience. By focusing on these tiny achievements, you can create a positive mindset that fuels your progress toward larger goals. Whether it's putting on your shoes for a walk or writing a single sentence in your journal, these micro wins can significantly boost your emotional well-being and keep you moving forward. Tune in to learn practical tips and hear inspiring insights on how to make the most of your daily successes. Download: MICRO WINS WORKSHEET Join Our Deep Dive, where we discuss this episode in depth. Register Here: https://theaddictedmind.com/deepdive Click Here to Join the TAM + Community Waitlist. Get the support you need. Key Topics
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| 290: Embracing Resilience: Lauren Sisler’s Journey Through Family Tragedy and Healing | 08 Jul 2024 | 00:40:19 | |
What happens when the people you trust the most hide a secret so devastating it changes the course of your life? Emmy Award-winning ESPN sideline reporter and former college gymnast Lauren Sisler joins us to share her heart-wrenching journey from unimaginable tragedy to resilience and hope. Losing both her parents to a concealed opioid addiction during her freshman year in college, Lauren's story is a powerful testament to the strength of the human spirit. Lauren opens up about the mental and emotional strategies she employed to cope with her parents' death. From initial denial to ultimate acceptance, she poignantly describes the protective barriers we create for loved ones and the stigmas that often accompany addiction. Her insights provide a valuable perspective on recognizing addiction as an illness rather than a character flaw, and the pivotal role personal stories play in breaking societal barriers. Lauren also takes us back to her teenage years, where her commitment to gymnastics helped her navigate life's challenges. She reflects on the complexities of loving someone struggling with addiction, and how her love for her parents evolved even after their passing. This episode is an exploration of overcoming shame, finding joy amidst pain, and the importance of hope and healing. Don't miss Lauren's inspiring tale, and be sure to check out her new book, "Shatterproof," for even more insights and encouragement. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP26 From Wounded to Whole: Nurturing Your Inner Child for Lasting Recovery | 04 Jul 2024 | 00:18:42 | |
In this episode of The Addicted Mind, Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the powerful concept of the inner child. They explore how past traumas influence our present reactions and behaviors. Understanding and healing your inner child can lead to profound personal growth and recovery. Learn about the history of the inner child concept, its impact on addiction and recovery, and practical steps to start your healing journey. Join us as we provide compassionate insights and actionable advice to help you nurture your vulnerable inner child and create a healthier, more balanced life. Download: THE INNER CHILD WORKSHEET Join Our Deep Dive, where we discuss this episode in depth. Register Here: https://theaddictedmind.com/deepdive Click Here to Join the TAM + Community Waitlist. Get the support you need. Key Topics
Resources: Addicted Mind Episode with Eddie Capparucci, LPC, C-CSAS, CPCS https://theaddictedmind.com/how-the-inner-child-impacts-your-sexual-addiction-with-eddie-capparucci/ Books: Healing The Shame That Binds You - John Bradshaw https://amzn.to/4bmlezH Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction - Eddie Capparucci, LPC, C-CSAS, CPCS https://amzn.to/45LAQLX
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| 289: How Nutrition Can Transform Your Recovery Journey with Dr. Brooke Scheller | 01 Jul 2024 | 00:40:55 | |
Have you ever wondered how nutrition could be the missing link in your journey to sobriety? Join Duane as he sits down with Dr. Brooke Scheller, a trailblazer in clinical nutrition and the founder of Functional Sobriety. Brooke shares her compelling journey to sobriety and how she's transforming alcohol recovery through nutritional and functional medicine. She explains how alcohol can wreak havoc on our bodies, affecting everything from the endocrine system to gut health, and how simple dietary changes can effectively reduce cravings and improve overall wellness. This episode highlights the often-overlooked but critical connection between diet and the ability to maintain sobriety. They also dive deep into the physiological aspects of cravings, focusing on the interplay between blood sugar levels, mood, and gut health. Brooke demystifies how blood sugar fluctuations can lead to increased cravings for alcohol and sugar, often mistaken for a lack of willpower. By understanding these physiological signals and making informed dietary choices, individuals can significantly enhance their recovery journey. From increasing protein intake to utilizing functional medicine testing, this episode offers a comprehensive guide for anyone looking to support their sobriety through better nutrition. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 25: Happiness Unlocked: Exploring the Four Archetypes of Happiness in Recovery | 27 Jun 2024 | 00:18:39 | |
In this enlightening episode of "The Addicted Mind," hosts Duane Osterlind and Eric Osterlind dive into the fascinating world of the four archetypes of happiness based on the work of Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar. These archetypes offer a roadmap for understanding happiness and its pivotal role in addiction recovery. The discussion spans the spectrum from the "Rat Racer," who postpones present joy for future gains, to the "Hedonist," who seeks immediate gratification without pondering future consequences. The hosts also examine the "Nihilist," who doubts the very possibility of happiness, and ultimately, the "Happy Camper," who balances immediate pleasure with long-term goals—the ideal state for sustainable recovery. This episode not only decodes these archetypes but also provides insights into how adopting the Happy Camper mindset can enhance one's recovery journey and overall life satisfaction. Download: THE FOUR ARCHETYPES OF HAPPINESS WORKSHEET Join Our Deep Dive, where we discuss this episode in depth. Register Here: https://theaddictedmind.com/deepdive Click Here to Join TAM + Community Waitlist. Get the support you need. Key Topics
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| 288: Humor, Recovery, and the World of Playwriting with Gregg Ostrin | 24 Jun 2024 | 00:28:32 | |
Gregg Ostrin, the brilliant playwright behind "The Spy Who Went Into Rehab," shares his incredible journey of recovery, maintaining sobriety since 1987, and how his personal experiences inspired his writing. Duane sits down with Gregg to discuss his fascinating career transition from acting to writing, his impressive work in film and television marketing, and his triumphant return to playwriting. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they explore the concept of his latest play that reimagines a James Bond-like character grappling with addiction and anger management issues, shedding light on the cultural implications of addiction through the lens of a spy character. They also tackle the challenges of producing original plays in smaller theaters, especially in Los Angeles, where revivals of well-known works often take center stage. Gregg shares valuable insights on attracting audiences to new plays and the impact of critical reviews. They reflect on how his play resonates with both the recovery community and those outside it, using familiar spy movie tropes to craft a narrative that connects with all generations. Join Duane and Gregg for this engaging episode that blends comedy, cultural commentary, and the profound journey of recovery. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ 24: Transform Your Story: The Hero’s Journey in Addiction Recovery | 20 Jun 2024 | 00:13:37 | |
In this episode of "The Addicted Mind," Duane and Eric Osterlind explore the concept of the hero's journey and how it applies to addiction recovery. Drawing from Joseph Campbell's work on mythology, they discuss the three phases of the hero's journey—departure, initiation, and return—and how these stages can provide a roadmap for personal transformation. By seeing recovery through the lens of a hero's journey, individuals can gain a new perspective and find hope in their path to sobriety. Join us as we delve into the powerful parallels between classic stories like "Lord of the Rings" and the journey to overcoming addiction. Worksheet: “Hero's Journey Addiction Recovery Worksheet” Join our TAM + Community wait list -> HERE Our weekly Deep Dive -> HERE Key Topics - The hero's journey framework by Joseph Campbell. - Applying the hero’s journey to addiction recovery. - The three phases: Departure, Initiation, and Return. - The significance of storytelling in personal transformation. - Creating a new narrative to support recovery. Timestamps 1. [00:01:04] - Introduction to the hero’s journey and its relevance to recovery. 2. [00:02:00] - History and significance of Joseph Campbell’s work. 3. [00:04:26] - The departure phase: Recognizing the need for change. 4. [00:06:31] - The initiation phase: Facing challenges and finding support. 5. [00:08:50] - The return phase: Embracing a new identity and sharing gifts. 6. [00:10:09] - Applying the hero's journey repeatedly in life. 7. [00:11:22] - Community support and upcoming deep dive session. Follow and Review: We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| 287: The Role of Community in Sex Addiction Recovery with Roland Cochrun | 17 Jun 2024 | 00:49:13 | |
Can high achievers truly recover from hidden addictions without sacrificing their success? Join Duane for a compelling conversation with Roland Cochrun, founder of the Successful Addict, as he reveals his journey and the unique challenges faced by high achievers dealing with sex and porn addiction. Discover how a relentless pursuit of success and people-pleasing tendencies can mask a deeper loneliness and lead to destructive behaviors. Roland shares how the Successful Addict Program offers a supportive environment through daily accountability, weekly calls, and biannual retreats, integrating business success strategies with effective recovery methods. We are excited to offer this collaboration with The Addicted Mind as a resource to high-achievers with sex and porn addiction who are looking for a group of like-minded men to recover with. Join Here: successfuladdict.com/addictedmind Be aware of the pivotal moments when high achievers realize that their initial success yields diminishing returns, leading to an unexpected emptiness despite societal expectations. Roland and Duane discuss the insidious nature of sex and porn addiction among high achievers and the difficulties they face in admitting to such issues. Learn how high achievers, often addicted to their self-concepts and the validation derived from success, can begin to address these underlying behaviors to achieve genuine recovery and self-awareness. Unpacking the daunting task of unwinding deeply ingrained belief systems, Roland shares personal stories of resistance to therapy and the importance of finding a community of like-minded individuals. Discover the transformative power of group support and the significance of reintegrating a sensitive side to heal and improve personal relationships. This episode offers valuable advice for those struggling with addiction and underscores how finding the right tribe can turn recovery into a life-changing journey. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP72 From Shame to Science: Rewriting Your Addiction Story | 05 Jun 2025 | 00:15:15 | |
Picture yourself staring in the mirror at 3 AM, promising yourself that tomorrow will be different, while that familiar voice whispers "you're weak" and "what's wrong with you?" If this sounds familiar, you need to hear this episode. Host Duane Osterlind delivers a solo episode that completely destroys the most dangerous myth about addiction - that it's a moral failing or character flaw. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has personally walked through addiction, Duane brings both professional expertise and lived experience to this life-changing conversation. This isn't another "just try harder" message. Instead, Duane shares groundbreaking brain science that proves addiction is a chronic brain disorder, not a weakness. You'll discover how your brain's reward system gets hijacked, why willpower alone isn't enough, and why shame actually makes recovery harder. Drawing from leading researchers like Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Nora Volkow, and Dr. Anna Lembke, Duane explains the three stages of addiction and how genetics, environment, and brain chemistry all play crucial roles. More importantly, he provides practical steps to move from shame to self-compassion. If you've ever felt broken, weak, or alone in your struggle with addiction, this episode will give you a new understanding of what you're really dealing with - and hope for genuine healing. You'll learn why connection is the opposite of addiction and how curiosity can replace judgment in your recovery journey. This episode includes a free worksheet called "Reframing Your Addiction Story" to help you put these insights into practice immediately. Key Topics
Timestamps [00:01:00] - The 3 AM mirror moment: Breaking the shame cycle [00:03:00] - What addiction really is: Brain disorder vs. moral failing [00:05:00] - How your brain gets hijacked: The dopamine flood explained [00:06:00] - Historical perspective: From moral failing to medical condition [00:08:00] - The damage of shame: Why stigma makes addiction worse [00:10:00] - Practical healing steps: Self-compassion and education [00:12:00] - Recovery is possible: Brains heal and neural pathways rewire If you live in California, Idaho, Virginia, or Florida and are looking for counseling or therapy, please visit Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center. NovusMindfulLife.com We want to hear from you. Please leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| TAM+ 23 Healing Through Connection: Understanding Attachment in Recovery | 13 Jun 2024 | 00:18:54 | |
In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, Duane and Eric Osterlind delve into the concept of attachment and its critical role in recovery from addiction. They discuss the different types of attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive, and fearful—and how these styles impact our ability to form healthy relationships. By understanding your attachment style, you can improve your relationships and strengthen your recovery journey. Tune in to learn how early childhood attachments shape your adult life and get practical tips to build better connections. Join us for a deeper dive into this powerful topic and find out how you can take actionable steps towards healing. Download: ATTACHMENT & RECOVERY worksheet Join Our Deep Dive, where we discuss this episode in depth. Register here: theaddictedmind.com/deepdive Key Topics - The importance of understanding attachment in addiction recovery. - Different attachment styles: secure, anxious, dismissive, and fearful. - How early childhood experiences shape adult relationships. - Practical tips for improving relationship skills in recovery. - The connection between attachment styles and forming a supportive community. Timestamps 1. [00:02:01] - Introduction to the importance of attachment in recovery. 2. [00:05:00] - Historical background of attachment theory by John Bowlby. 3. [00:07:00] - Explanation of secure attachment. 4. [00:08:05] - Anxious or preoccupied attachment style. 5. [00:09:40] - Dismissive attachment and its impact on relationships. 6. [00:11:00] - Fearful avoidant or disorganized attachment. 7. [00:13:00] - Stan Tatkin’s perspective on attachment styles. Follow and Review: We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| 286: Exploring Alternative Treatments for Alcohol Dependence with Andy Mills | 10 Jun 2024 | 00:59:23 | |
Can medications like naltrexone revolutionize the treatment of alcohol dependence? Join today’s discuss as Duane speaks with acclaimed journalist and podcast producer Andy Mills, who brings a wealth of experience from shows like The Daily and Radiolab. Andy delves into his new independent podcast, Reflector, highlighting a compelling episode titled "The Sea Change." He shares the gripping story of his friend Katie, who successfully managed her alcohol issues using the Sinclair Method during the COVID-19 pandemic, sparking a critical conversation on why such effective treatments aren't more widely adopted. Andy discusses the fundamental role of community and external support in overcoming addiction, underscoring the message that no one heals alone. Drawing from his experiences reporting on the opioid crisis and the unintended consequences of the COVID-19 lockdowns, Andy paints a vivid picture of the evolving landscape of addiction awareness. Through Katie's unique journey – seeking treatment without hitting rock bottom and finding success with the Sinclair Method – Andy illustrates the transformative power of personal stories in understanding addiction and exploring new treatment methods. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM + EP22: Unlocking the Impact of Childhood Trauma: The ACEs Study | 06 Jun 2024 | 00:19:34 | |
In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the groundbreaking ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) study. This research revealed how childhood trauma significantly impacts mental, physical, and emotional health in adulthood. By exploring the origins, findings, and implications of the study, they discuss how early experiences of abuse, neglect, and household dysfunction shape our lives. The episode also provides practical steps for recognizing and addressing these traumas, offering hope and tools for those struggling with addiction and mental health issues. Join us to understand the profound connection between childhood experiences and adult well-being. Key Topics - Introduction to the ACEs study and its significance. - Types of adverse childhood experiences (abuse, neglect, household dysfunction). - The impact of ACEs on adult mental and physical health. - Recognizing hidden forms of trauma and their long-term effects. - Practical steps for healing from childhood trauma. Timestamps 1. [00:01:00] – Introduction and significance of the ACEs study. 2. [00:02:28] – History and inception of the ACEs study by Dr. Vincent Felitti. 3. [00:04:21] – Types of adverse childhood experiences. 4. [00:06:25] – Impact of ACEs on adult health and well-being. 5. [00:09:38] – Recognizing hidden forms of trauma. 6. [00:13:23] – Steps to address and heal from childhood trauma. 7. [00:17:11] – Summary and resources for further help. Follow and Review: We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| TAM+ 21 Stability Routine for Early Recovery: Transforming Chaos into a Safe Daily Routine | 31 May 2024 | 00:15:49 | |
In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane Osterlind and Eric Osterlind explore the transformative power of routines in recovery. They discuss how establishing a daily routine can bring stability to the chaotic early and mid-stages of recovery, and how it can even benefit long-term wellness. By setting a routine, individuals can reduce anxiety, improve sleep cycles, and create a positive structure that supports their goals. The hosts also debunk common myths about routines and provide practical tips to overcome roadblocks. Whether you’re just starting your recovery journey or looking to strengthen your long-term stability, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Download the eBook “Stability Routine for Early Recovery: Transforming Chaos into a Safe Daily Routine” Key Topics
Key Moments 1. [00:01:00] - Introduction to the topic of routines in recovery 2. [00:02:00] - Definition and benefits of a routine 3. [00:03:29] - The importance of a morning routine 4. [00:05:30] - Debunking myths about routines 5. [00:08:56] - Flexibility and simplicity in routines 6. [00:11:00] - Overcoming roadblocks in setting routines 7. [00:13:47] - The importance of accountability Link: https://addicted-mind.ck.page/5c1c8cf147 Follow and Review: We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| 285: The Road to Recovery and the Art of Self-Forgiveness with Dr. Samantha Harte | 27 May 2024 | 00:48:59 | |
Fifteen years sober and radiating resilience, Dr. Samantha Harte joins Duane to recount her transformative journey through the depths of addiction to the shores of recovery. With raw honesty, she opens up about the emotional wreckage in her wake, and the intense pressures that drove her to seek healing. Her story, illuminated further in her book "Breaking the Circuit," serves as a beacon of hope and a guide for those seeking to rewire their lives for joy in the aftermath of trauma. Samantha bravely shares the complexities of mending a marriage scarred by infidelity and the personal demons of dependency. Duane’s reflections on solitude and the path to self-soothing weave through the conversation, highlighting the vigorous inner work required to heal the wounds of self-abandonment. Samantha's voice underscores the potent necessity of forgiveness, not only towards others but starting within – as we navigate the delicate process of rebuilding trust and fostering genuine self-compassion. This episode isn't just an exploration of the recovery landscape – it's a deep acknowledgment of the human struggle against guilt, shame, and the inner critic that so often hinders our progress. Additionally, Samantha’s perspectives on motherhood and the evolving journey of sobriety, especially among Gen Z, offer a fresh take on the traditional 12-step program, inviting listeners to harness their pain for a higher purpose. Join us as we chart the challenging yet rewarding expedition from the throes of addiction to the light of self-discovery and authentic living. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ Episode 20: From Denial to Acceptance: The Emotional Journey of Addiction Recovery | 23 May 2024 | 00:16:32 | |
In this episode of The Addicted Mind, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind explore the profound connection between grief and addiction recovery. Using Elizabeth Kübler-Ross' five stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—they discuss how these stages apply to the emotional process of giving up an addiction. Many people don't realize that overcoming addiction involves grieving the loss of the substance that has been a significant part of their lives. By understanding and embracing these stages, individuals can move more effectively through their recovery journey. Tune in to learn how recognizing and processing grief can lead to a deeper sense of acceptance and a more fulfilling life in recovery. Download here “NAVIGATING GRIEF AND LOSS IN RECOVERY” Join us and register for our Q&A Deep Dive session here. Key Topics
Key Moments 1. [00:01:00] Introduction to the topic of grief in recovery 2. [00:02:00] Discussion on the grief of giving up an addiction 3. [00:04:00] Explanation of the five stages of grief 4. [00:06:30] Deep dive into the anger stage and its impact 5. [00:09:00] Exploring the depression stage and identity loss 6. [00:11:30] Moving towards acceptance and its significance in recovery 7. [00:14:10] Announcement of the worksheet and deeper dive session Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple ‘+’ in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| 284: Beyond the Game: Dominique Easley's Journey from NFL Stardom to Personal Enlightenment | 20 May 2024 | 00:48:54 | |
When the cheering crowds and the stadium lights fade, what remains for a former NFL superstar? Dominique Easley’s meteoric rise to football fame was rivaled only by the depth of his personal struggles. From Staten Island to the heights of Super Bowl victory, Dominique's narrative is a stark reminder of the thin line between professional success and personal turmoil. On this episode, Duane speaks with Dominique who shares his powerful journey through addiction, mental health battles, and a profound spiritual awakening. This episode offers an unflinching look at the burdens of public perception, as Dominique candidly discusses the significance of embracing vulnerability and the transformative impact of spirituality on his life. His conversion to Islam during his NFL career marked the beginning of an intensive internal quest that challenged him to confront intergenerational trauma and seek healing. Dominique's willingness to share his story opens up a much-needed dialogue on mental health awareness, especially within the black community – emphasizing empathy and honest communication as pathways to understanding and resilience. Dominique also delves into the complexities of navigating racism in America, reflecting on his transition from the diversity of New York to the overt bigotry he encountered in the South. His experiences, shared with raw authenticity, not only chart a path of personal growth but also offer valuable insights for listeners grappling with similar issues, underscoring the importance of treating others with thoughtful consideration and respect. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 19: From Chaos to Clarity: Creating Your Circle Plan for Lasting Sobriety | 16 May 2024 | 00:19:12 | |
In this episode of “The Addictive Mind Plus,” hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the transformative power of the Three Circle Plan, a vital tool for those battling both substance and behavioral addictions. They discuss the importance of defining sobriety, identifying risky behaviors, and incorporating positive activities into daily life. By creating a clear and personalized plan, listeners can navigate their recovery journey with greater clarity and confidence. The episode also highlights the launch of a new course designed to help individuals create their own Three Circle Plan, providing step-by-step guidance and support. Get the Course -> Circles of Sobriety: Mastering Your Recovery With the Complete Circle Plan Key Topics
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| 283: Embracing Personal Truths Amidst the Struggles of LGBTQ Sex Addiction with Brandon Simpson | 13 May 2024 | 00:37:12 | |
How does one confront the silent battles of sex addiction within the LGBTQ community? Brandon Simpson, an associate marriage and family therapist from Novus Mindful Life Institute, joins this conversation to unravel this complex issue, sharing not just professional insights but personal experiences as a gay man. Together, Duane and Brandon shed light on the intersection of intimacy and identity, especially the uphill struggle against a heteronormative bias in therapy that too often overlooks the nuances in gay relationships. Get a glimpse of the shadows where shame and sexuality intertwine, offering a beacon of understanding for those navigating these often-misunderstood waters. The weight of homophobia on the shoulders of gay men can be crushing, driving many towards sex as a coping mechanism and, potentially, into the throes of addiction. This candid discussion with Brandon uncovers the layers of this reality, diving into the internalized homophobia and the consequent shame that propels an individual into the depths of secrecy. They also tackle the daunting world of dating apps like Grindr, dissecting their role in the complex search for meaningful connections amidst a culture saturated with sexual expectations – a conversation that's as revealing as it is necessary for anyone yearning to grasp the full picture. This episode is not just an examination of the challenges faced by the gay community, but it also celebrates the courage it takes to set boundaries and the transformation that comes with self-discovery. By sharing stories of resilience and change, this episode underscores the importance of supportive networks and the quest for alignment with personal values. It's a conversation that doesn't just affirm the experiences of individuals within the LGBTQ spectrum but also champions the journey towards a more authentic and fulfilling life. Join today’s discussion to affirm the beauty of personal truth – in a world still learning to embrace the full spectrum of human connection. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 18 From Values to Action: Unlocking Meaning in Every Moment | 09 May 2024 | 00:16:40 | |
In this engaging episode of "The Addictive Mind Plus," hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind explore the transformative concept of meaning-making. Following up on their previous discussion about values, this episode dives deeper into how understanding and aligning with our deepest values can energize our life's journey. The hosts discuss practical strategies from dialectical behavior therapy and insights from Thomas Marra to illustrate how individuals can reshape their lives around what truly matters. Whether you're battling addictions, anxiety, or just seeking deeper fulfillment, this episode offers valuable insights into overcoming life's psychological hurdles through intentional living. Download: THE CREATING MEANING MAKING WORKSHEET Key Topics
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| 336: Dion DiMucci: A Journey of Recovery, Spiritual Awakening, and the Power of Mentorship | 02 Jun 2025 | 00:52:58 | |
Legendary musician Dion DiMucci joins us to share his extraordinary journey of recovery and growth, shedding light on the transformative power of spirituality and mentorship. Known for timeless hits like "Runaround Sue" and "The Wanderer," Dion candidly discusses his battle with addiction and his path to over 57 years of sobriety. He reveals how faith and a 12-step recovery program changed his life, offering profound insights from his co-authored book, "Dion the Rock and Roll Philosopher." Dion's stories are more than just tales of survival; they are lessons in finding purpose and inner peace through a connection with a higher power. Mentorship takes center stage as we explore its profound impact on personal growth and emotional resilience. Sharing personal anecdotes and wisdom from his mentor, Dion emphasizes the irreplaceable value of genuine human connections over the pursuit of external validations like wealth and power. This episode serves as a reminder of the importance of surrounding oneself with people who can offer perspective and guidance during life's challenges, highlighting that true fulfillment often thrives in the warmth of meaningful relationships and shared wisdom. In this episode, you will hear:
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| 282: Jesse Carrajat's Path to Wellness: From Marine to Fitness Mentor | 06 May 2024 | 00:44:18 | |
Struggles with alcohol and depression are narratives many may find familiar, but not everyone's story is a journey through the eye of the storm to a place of hope and healing. USMC veteran Jesse Carrajat, our esteemed guest, brings to light his transformation from a high-flying corporate executive to a beacon of wellness through his ventures, Altum Fitness and the Live Deep podcast. His candid conversation unveils the hidden battles against addiction and mental health challenges that he, like many, has faced, and the pivotal moments of clarity that steered him towards sobriety and a profound dedication to helping others. Amidst the sweat and tears of rebuilding a life marred by trauma, Jesse's tale is one of reclamation, of a spirit once dulled by the weight of responsibility and the grip of substance dependency. He shares the intricacies of navigating life's roles – be it as a husband, father, or business leader – while locked in a duel with personal demons. His commitment to turning the tide, leaving behind a lucrative career to foster a community-focused approach to recovery, resonates as a testament to the power of faith and the unwavering resolve to pursue well-being. As we unpack the science behind Jesse's fitness protocols and his philosophy on life, we reveal the transformative power of combining physical health with emotional support. Hear how Jesse's passion for fitness and his commitment to building a strong, supportive community are key to his recovery strategy, offering a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction and mental health challenges. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 17 Harmonizing Life: The Art of Caring About What Truly Matters | 02 May 2024 | 00:15:18 | |
Join hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind in this enlightening episode of "The Addicted Mind Plus," where they explore the vital role of values in achieving a harmonious and fulfilling life. Understanding and defining your values is likened to setting a rudder on your life's boat, guiding you through the storms of stress, guilt, and dissatisfaction that come from living out of alignment with your true self. The conversation dives deep into how values serve as a North Star, aiding those in recovery or anyone seeking stability to make intentional, value-driven choices rather than reactive ones. This episode is essential for anyone feeling stuck or purposeless, offering practical advice on defining and realigning with what's truly important. Download the worksheet: Building a Life & Recovery Guided by Your Values Worksheet Key Topics - The importance of knowing and aligning with your personal values - How values act as a guiding light in life, preventing feelings of meaninglessness - The dynamic nature of values and the need to reassess them over time - Common pitfalls when values are unclear or unexamined - Practical steps for identifying and living according to your values Key Moments - [00:01:00] Introduction to the importance of values in life - [00:02:00] Discussion on how misaligned values can lead to life dissatisfaction - [00:04:00] The benefits of living a value-driven life in recovery - [00:06:00] How emotional reactions can derail us from our value system - [00:09:00] Strategies for defining and aligning with personal values - [00:11:00] The impact of values on decision-making in various life areas - [00:14:00] Conclusion and resources for further exploration of values Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple ‘+’ in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| 281: Finding Balance and Resilience: The Martial Art of Recovery with Eric Fisher | 29 Apr 2024 | 00:39:03 | |
When life presented an unexpected challenge that shook the foundations of Eric’s world, it was the principles of martial arts that enabled him to regain stability. Duane is delighted to introduce Eric Fisher, a certified counselor and martial artist based in Calgary, AB Canada. In the episode, they delve into how the discipline of martial arts can serve as a formidable ally in combating addiction and as a valuable resource for promoting mental wellness. Eric recounted his transformative journey, illustrating how the balance, discipline, and self-respect he cultivated through martial arts formed the cornerstone of his approach to counseling. Strap on your mental gi as we unpack the metaphorical power of martial arts in grappling with recovery. Eric walks us through the concept of 'thundering uncertainty,' viewing addiction as a formidable opponent and utilizing 'five swords' – affirmations to defend against the battle of addiction. Eric also discusses his application of martial arts in his therapeutic work, where the dojo becomes a training ground not just for physical agility but for emotional resilience. The parallels between sparring and facing the challenges of recovery reveal a narrative of growth that extends well beyond the mats. For those looking to harness self-mastery and mental wellness, this episode is a testament to the profound impact that the warrior's path can have on the road to healing. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 16: Survival Skills for Sobriety: Creating a Relapse Prevention Plan | 25 Apr 2024 | 00:18:50 | |
In this vital episode of "The Addicted Mind Plus," Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the critical topic of relapse prevention and planning. They stress the importance of being proactive rather than reactive when it comes to maintaining sobriety. The duo discusses how a well-thought-out relapse plan can significantly reduce the overwhelming feelings of anxiety and defeat that often accompany recovery. They also emphasize that making a plan during moments of clarity and health is essential. By incorporating practical strategies, such as identifying triggers and outlining coping mechanisms, listeners are equipped with tools to navigate challenging situations effectively. This episode is not only a guide but also an encouragement for anyone struggling with addiction to take control and prepare for the future. Download The Relapse Prevention Planning Worksheet Key Topics
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| 280: Conquering Dependency and Cultivating Vulnerability: Cesar Wurm’s Journey Beyond the Bottle | 22 Apr 2024 | 00:40:04 | |
Discover the transformative journey of overcoming addiction with Cesar Wurm, author of "The Powers of Addiction: Finding Freedom in Acceptance and Recovery." This latest episode delves into Cesar's raw and personal struggle with alcoholism, a battle intensified by the loss of his mother and the pressure of emotional stoicism in his family. The story unfolds as he recounts a relapse marked by deception at a go-karting event, highlighting the depths of his secret life. Yet, it's through embracing acceptance that Cesar charts a course toward healing, underlining the profound impact that sharing such deeply personal experiences can have on both the speaker and the listener. Cesar's narrative isn't just about the clutches of addiction; it's also a testament to the power of support and the hard-won victories along the road to recovery. He talks openly about the skepticism he initially held towards groups like Alcoholics Anonymous and the daunting nature of lifelong sobriety. However, it was a heartfelt conversation with his wife that ignited a crucial turning point, one that would lead him to accept his reality and begin the journey of honest healing. Tune in as he sheds more light on self-pity's dangers, honesty's healing potential, and the transformative effect of acceptance. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 15: Beyond Quick Fixes: The Deeper Transformation of Second-Order Change | 18 Apr 2024 | 00:18:42 | |
Are you making changes but feeling stuck in your recovery journey? It could be because you're focusing on first-order changes. These are the surface-level adjustments we make – quitting a substance, changing routines – but they don't address the root of the problem. That's where second-order change comes in. This is about digging deeper into your anxieties, past traumas, and the underlying beliefs that drive addictive behaviors. It's a transformation, not just a tweak. Think of it like this: first-order change is running on a treadmill – you're moving, but not getting anywhere. Second-order change is taking the exit ramp and finding a new path. Second-order change is the key to lasting recovery. So how do you get there? This episode breaks it down and helps you figure out where you might need extra support along the way. Download: FIRST-ORDER CHANGE VS. SECOND-ORDER CHANGE Key Topics
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| 279: The Ripple Effect of Healing in Community-Based Addiction Treatment with Dr. Mark Lasko | 15 Apr 2024 | 00:38:01 | |
When healing takes center stage, hope is never far behind. Dr. Mark Lasko joins Duane as they step into the conversation space with a heart full of empathy and a wealth of knowledge on the intricate dance of addiction treatment and recovery. Mark’s journey, touched by the struggles of addiction within his own family, has fueled a passion that's evident as we navigate the subject of client-focused care. Mark's insights, derived from his hands-on experience in the criminal justice system, bring to light the deep-seated connection between addiction, family dynamics, and societal impact. He candidly shares how nurturing one person's path to wellness can send waves of healing throughout entire communities – reshaping not only individual lives but the societal fabric as a whole. In our conversation, we explore the Samaritan Recovery Community's mission, where personal connection and community engagement are the cornerstones of healing. Mark and Duane discuss the importance of creating environments that foster long-term recovery, emphasizing the role of alumni networks and monthly client gatherings. These touchpoints form the heart of a compassionate community-based approach, demonstrating that the path to sobriety is about so much more than abstaining – but about finding one's place in the world and forming meaningful relationships. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP 14: Unlocking Resilience: The Transformative Power of Self-Talk | 11 Apr 2024 | 00:17:52 | |
Join hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind as they explore the profound impact of internal dialogue on recovery and mental wellness in this insightful episode of the Addicted Mind Plus. Discover how the words we tell ourselves can either hinder or help our journey toward healing. Learn practical tips on reshaping self-talk to foster resilience, overcome addiction, and enhance overall well-being. Whether you're looking to break free from negative thought patterns or simply seeking a mental boost, this episode offers valuable insights into the power of language in shaping our lives. Tune in to empower your path to wellness, one word at a time. Key Topics:
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| TAM+ EP13 The Johari Window: How Self-Understanding Transforms Recovery and Relationships | 04 Apr 2024 | 00:15:24 | |
In this exciting episode of Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the fascinating world of the Johari Window, a powerful tool for enhancing self-awareness and understanding in relationships. They explore how this simple yet profound model can illuminate the various aspects of ourselves—what we know, what we don't know, and what others see in us. From discussing how to navigate personal blind spots to the significance of revealing hidden strengths, this episode is packed with insights on improving communication, recovery, and personal growth. Whether you're on a quest for self-discovery or aiming to deepen your connections with others, this episode offers valuable strategies to expand your open area, embracing both the visible and hidden parts of your identity. Download: The Johari Window Worksheet Key Topics:
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| 278: Revolutionizing Love and Connection in the Digital Era with Topaz Adizes | 01 Apr 2024 | 00:46:02 | |
Join us as Emmy award-winning writer and director Topaz Adizes unveils the art of creating deep, human connections through conversation. In this discussion, Duane sits down with Topaz who shares his journey with the documentary series {The And} – revealing how authentic dialogues between various pairs, from family members to romantic partners, can transform our understanding of communication. By spotlighting the powerful effect of listening and the role of the listener, we're invited to explore how true connection can serve as an antidote to addiction, providing methods to cultivate meaningful relationships even in the face of past trauma. Listen in as we further discuss the changing landscape of human connections in our tech-driven era, contemplating whether the emotional experiences of love and connection have shifted with the rise of digital communication. From documenting intimate conversations with couples to the implications of technology on relationships without physical proximity, this episode offers insights into using technology to strengthen bonds. Plus, we examine the importance of process over solutions in couples therapy, highlighting the significance of couples engaging directly with each other to foster a neurobiological need for connection. Tune in for an enlightening conversation with Topaz that could change how you approach communication and connection in your life. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP71 When Life Gets Overwhelming: The Only 4 Choices That Actually Matter | 29 May 2025 | 00:15:05 | |
Have you ever felt completely stuck when facing a difficult situation? Like you're drowning in endless possibilities and can't find your way forward? You're not alone. Most of us get trapped in decision paralysis, overthinking every angle until we're more anxious than when we started. In this powerful episode, Duane and Eric Osterlind break down a life-changing framework that can transform how you handle any problematic situation. Based on Marshall Linehan's Dialectical Behavior Therapy work, they reveal that no matter how complex your challenge feels, you actually only have four choices available to you. Download The Worksheet Whether you're struggling with addiction recovery, facing a major life transition, or simply feeling overwhelmed by daily stressors, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to move forward. The hosts share practical examples of how to apply each choice, including how to reframe withdrawal symptoms as signs of healing and how to use acceptance as a tool for reducing suffering rather than avoiding it. You'll discover why "staying miserable" is sometimes the right choice and how recognizing this can actually empower you. More importantly, you'll learn how to break free from the endless cycle of "what-ifs" and take meaningful action in your life. This isn't just theory – it's a practical roadmap that puts you back in the driver's seat of your own life. By the end of this episode, you'll have a simple but powerful tool that can help you navigate any challenge with greater confidence and less overwhelm. Supporting Resources: If you live in California, Idaho, Vermont, or Florida and are looking for counseling or therapy, please visit Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center. NovusMindfulLife.com We want to hear from you. Please leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| TAM+ EP12: Stuck at a Crossroads? The Only Four Choices You Really Have | 28 Mar 2024 | 00:15:44 | |
Welcome to an eye-opening episode that could change how you face life's big moments. Today, we're exploring the idea that when you hit a tough spot, you actually only have four choices. Sounds simple, right? But it's a game-changer. Imagine feeling stuck, like you're at a crossroads with no clear direction. It happens to all of us. We overthink, get overwhelmed, and just feel more and more stuck. But what if you could see your options clearly and make a choice that really fits? We dive into solving the problem, changing how you see the problem, accepting what's happening, or, yes, even choosing to stay stuck for a bit. These options can lighten the load of decision-making, giving you a clear path forward. It's not just about the tough times; it's about knowing you have the power to choose your next step. So, ready to see what those four choices are and how they can help you? Let's get into it! Download the worksheet: THE FOUR CHOICES CHEAT SHEET: NAVIGATING LIFE'S CHALLENGES Key Topics: - The concept of having only four choices in problematic situations - Strategies for effective decision-making and problem-solving - The importance of changing perception and acceptance - The role of self-compassion in choosing to stay miserable - Practical tools and frameworks for applying these concepts in real life List of Key Moments: - [00:01:25] Introduction to the four choices concept - [00:03:24] Discussion on decision paralysis and overcoming challenges - [00:04:18] Deep dive into solving the problem - [00:07:09] Changing our perception of the problem - [00:09:06] The difficult choice of acceptance - [00:11:09] Exploring the choice to stay miserable - [00:13:57] Summarization and resources for listeners Download the worksheet: THE FOUR CHOICES CHEAT SHEET: NAVIGATING LIFE'S CHALLENGES Additional TAM+ episodes that support this episode. Episode 6 : Unstuck Your Thoughts: 7 Cognitive Distortions Sabotaging Your Recovery Episode 9: Embrace the Now: How Radically Accepting Reality Can Transform Your Life Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| 277: Healing from Addiction by Embracing the Inner Child with Lacy Bentley & Heather Cronemiller | 25 Mar 2024 | 00:43:47 | |
Struggling with love and sex addiction can feel like an isolating battle, but this recent conversation with Lacy Bentley and Heather Cronemiller casts a ray of hope on this often-shadowed topic. Lacy, a relationship and recovery coach, and Heather, a seasoned therapist, join Duane to shed light on their personal journeys and their book, "Going Deeper for Women: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction." Their stories are a testament to the power of understanding the inner child in forging a path to recovery. By intertwining their professional insights with the raw reality of their experiences, they offer listeners an intimate look at overcoming addictive behaviors in relationships. Attachment wounds can create a labyrinth of confusion in our adult lives, often surfacing unexpectedly in the therapeutic setting as erotic transference. Lacy and Heather guide us through understanding attachment styles – secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized – and their influence on our relationships. This discussion navigates the delicate terrain of arousal, the misinterpretation of kindness, and the critical role of a therapist's boundaries. It's an exploration of the human craving for connection juxtaposed with the fear of intimacy, offering a compass for those seeking to understand the complicated dance of closeness and retreat. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP11: Beyond Recovery: Cultivating Curiosity for Emotional Wellness | 21 Mar 2024 | 00:16:27 | |
In this episode of "The Addicted Mind Plus," hosts Duane and Eric Osterlund dive into the power of a curious mindset in recovery and emotional stability. They explore how curiosity can shift our nervous system from fight-or-flight to rest-and-digest, leading to less stress and more emotional resilience. The discussion covers the simple yet profound ways asking questions about ourselves and the world can open up new possibilities and foster a fulfilling life. By embracing curiosity, we can improve memory, creativity, and even our ability to age well, while developing the grit necessary for recovery. Whether you're struggling with recovery or seeking a more satisfying life, this episode offers actionable insights and encouragement to start asking more questions and embracing the unknown. Get The Online Course: The Curiosity Blueprint for Addiction Recovery: How to Harness Your Curiosity and Achieve Emotional Stability in 5 Easy Steps https://addictedmind.mysamcart.com/checkout/the-curiosity-blueprint?coupon=tam11 Key Topics: - The role of curiosity in shifting the nervous system toward wellness - How curiosity can lead to less stress and more emotional resilience - The relationship between a curious mindset, grit, and successful recovery - Overcoming myths and challenges in cultivating curiosity - Practical steps to foster curiosity for improved mental health and recovery Key Moments: - [00:00] Introduction to the episode's focus on curiosity in recovery - [02:04] Explanation of curiosity and its impact on the nervous system - [04:24] The benefits of curiosity for emotional and mental wellness - [07:37] The association between curiosity, grit, and recovery success - [09:43] Overcoming challenges and embracing emotional vulnerability through curiosity - [11:55] Debunking myths about curiosity and its importance - [14:30] Closing thoughts and resources for further exploration Get The Online Course: The Curiosity Blueprint for Addiction Recovery: How to Harness Your Curiosity and Achieve Emotional Stability in 5 Easy Steps Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple ‘+’ in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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| 276: Rebroadcast– If You Love Me: A Mother’s Journey Through Her Daughter’s Opioid Addiction with Maureen Cavanagh | 18 Mar 2024 | 00:26:13 | |
Our guest on this episode of the Addicted Mind podcast is Maureen Cavanagh, author and founder of Magnolia New Beginnings. Maureen’s family had a long history of addiction, but since she was not personally prone to addiction, she thought that she knew the formula to help keep her kids away from addiction as well. However, her world was suddenly shaken when one of her daughters came to her to admit that she had been experimenting with heroin. Even living in an upper middle-class neighborhood, opioids were not difficult for her daughter to find, and once she tried heroin for the first time, the road to sobriety and recovery proved to be steep. Just when Maureen thought her daughter had a handle on her addiction, it would rear its ugly head again and she would see just how much of a hold it had on her precious child, who was now an adult. Maureen did what she believed any good parent would do: she dropped everything and rushed to her daughter’s aid, providing her with whatever she needed and paying for her to get into a treatment center again. She found out that her daughter had a “friend” who was providing her with the drugs, protecting her from her family when they came looking for her, and reviving her if and when she overdosed. Even with this barrier between them, Maureen knows of 13 times when her daughter was admitted to the hospital after an overdose and at least 40 separate stints at treatment centers before something finally clicked. Maureen realized that she was on her own journey during this time which was intended to be separate from her daughter’s journey. The more Maureen tried to hold on and help her daughter get out of whatever situation she was in at the time, the farther away her daughter seemed to drift. However, when Maureen was able to let go and provide her daughter with some space, not jumping to her rescue but rather empowering her daughter to rescue herself, that was the moment when her daughter started getting better. Somewhere after treatment center #40, the rehab took, and for the past 2 years her daughter has been sober with the help of her family, her therapist, her recovery coach, and her community. Maureen went against her instinct to keep family business private when she was approached by a publishing agent about sharing her story, and the hundreds of people who have messaged her since the book came out are proof that the world needed to hear the honest truth about what it is like to be the parent of an addict. In addition to her book, Maureen provides resources and support groups through her non-profit, Magnolia New Beginnings, which is impacting tens of thousands of people. Connect with Maureen: http://www.magnolianewbeginnings.org/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/MagnoliaAddictionSupport/ https://www.facebook.com/MagnoliaNewBeginnings https://www.amazon.com/If-You-Love-Daughters-Addiction/dp/1250297346 Connect with The Addicted Mind: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheAddictedMindPodcast/ Supporting Resources:
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| TAM+ EP10: Stop Feeling Stuck: The Power of Goals and Habit Formation | 14 Mar 2024 | 00:19:06 | |
Today's episode dives into the essential topics of goal setting and habit formation, especially focusing on how they can help break the cycle of addiction, anxiety, and depression. Duane Osterlind and Eric Osterlind guide us through understanding the critical role of setting realistic goals and forming positive habits to steer our lives in the direction we desire. They highlight the importance of reflection in goal setting, using SMART goals as a tool for clarity and action. Moreover, they discuss the difference between goals and habits and how they interplay to create lasting change. By sharing personal experiences and practical advice, the hosts emphasize the power of small steps and the learning opportunities in setbacks. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone looking to transform their life and achieve their dreams. Free Download: Stop Feeling Stuck: The Power of Goals and Habit Formation Worksheet Key Topics:
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| 275: Healing Through Writing and Recovery with Kelly Wallace | 11 Mar 2024 | 00:35:26 | |
The echoes of a troubled past can often linger long into our future, but for Kelly Wallace, they became the stepping stones toward a life of resilience and healing. As she recounts the harrowing experiences of childhood sexual abuse and the complex aftermath of addiction, we are reminded of the power of human spirit. Kelly's story unfolds, revealing the injustices she faced, not only from her abuser but also from the very systems designed to protect her. Yet, this is not just a story of despair; it is a narrative woven with the threads of recovery and the written word, highlighting the indomitable will to overcome. Navigating through the tempest of emotions and coping mechanisms, Kelly's journey took her from the silence of Oregon to a new life on the opposite coast, where humor became her disguise. Her struggles with alcohol, eating disorders, and smoking are shared with raw honesty, showcasing the multi-faceted nature of dealing with trauma. A family intervention and the embrace of sobriety since 2001 mark the milestones of her path to empowerment. Kelly's commitment to journaling and the arts emerge as beacons of hope, illustrating the profound effects of creative outlets in the process of healing. Hear her story today. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP9: Embrace the Now: How Radically Accepting Reality Can Transform Your Life | 07 Mar 2024 | 00:19:37 | |
In this eye-opening episode of TAM+, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the transformative concept of radical acceptance. They explore how embracing reality as it is—without avoidance or escape—can break the vicious cycle of addiction, anxiety, and depression. The discussion begins with an introduction to the concept's roots in Buddhist teachings and its development into a key component of Dialectical Behavior Therapy by Marsha Linehan. The hosts share personal anecdotes and practical advice, highlighting the difference between acceptance and approval, and offer strategies for practicing radical acceptance in daily life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience, proving that acceptance is not about giving up but about empowering oneself to effect meaningful change. Free Download: The Power of Radical Acceptance Worksheet Key Topics:
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| 274: Ketamine's Role in Carving New Pathways to Hope with Derek DuChesne and Dr. Zaid Fadul | 05 Mar 2024 | 00:46:21 | |
Struggling with mental health can feel like a solitary battle, but there's profound strength in shared experiences. In this episode, Duane speaks with Derek DuChesne and Dr. Zaid Fadul of Better U, a company that provides safe, affordable, clinically-guided at-home ketamine treatments for anxiety and depression. Walk through Derek's raw and poignant narrative, from grappling with identity loss and suicidal thoughts to finding a renewed sense of purpose – highlighting that even from the depths of despair, a path to resurgence awaits with the right support and resources. As we navigate the therapeutic landscape, we uncover the profound impact that ketamine therapy has on reframing mental health battles. This conversation also traverses the landscapes of neuroplasticity, emphasizing how combining ketamine therapy with consistent exercise can carve new paths in our brain, leading to healthier mental patterns and ultimately personal transformation. Mental wellness isn't a destination, but a journey of integrating wellness practices into our daily lives. Discover how ketamine therapy can be a catalyst for adopting these healthier routines, and how Better U can provide the support that goes beyond mere words – reminding us all that the spark of life, no matter how dim, can always be rekindled. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP8: Calming the Chaos Within: Finding Peace Through Meditation | 29 Feb 2024 | 00:18:00 | |
In this episode of "The Addicted Mind," hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the transformative world of mindfulness meditation and its incredible ability to combat rumination. If you've ever found yourself stuck in a loop of repetitive thoughts, replaying past events, or worrying about future conversations, this episode is your first step towards breaking free. Duane & Eric explain how rumination can drain our energy, leaving us feeling depressed, anxious, and stuck. But there's hope! By harnessing the power of meditation, we can train our brains to focus on the present, build resilience, and ultimately lead a more fulfilling life. Whether you're a meditation newbie or looking to deepen your practice, this episode offers practical steps backed by scientific research to kickstart your journey to mental clarity and emotional freedom. Join us as we explore the basics of meditation, debunk common myths, and uncover the science behind why and how this ancient practice works. Ready to transform your mind? Let's dive in. Follow Eric on his Meditation journey. Download: “The Meditation Journey: A Cure For Rumination” (note: use coupon code tam8 at checkout to get it for free for the next 7 days) (ends 3/8/24 at 1:00 am PST) Key Topics:
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| 273: Recovery on Stage: The Life-Changing Story of Lenny Bruce, Bill W. and Dr. Bob | 26 Feb 2024 | 00:29:52 | |
In this episode of "The Addicted Mind" podcast, we dive into the inspiring world of Ronnie Marmo, a talented actor, director, and writer with a 25-year journey through addiction, recovery, and the arts. Ronnie opens up about his personal battle with addiction, finding solace and salvation through Alcoholics Anonymous at a young age, and how this experience has profoundly influenced his career in the entertainment industry. He shares behind-the-scenes insights into his work on plays like "I'm Not a Comedian...I'm Lenny Bruce" and "Bill W. and Dr. Bob," which explore themes of addiction and recovery. Ronnie's story is a testament to the power of hope, resilience, and the transformative impact of the arts on both the creator and the audience. This episode is a heartwarming reminder that it's never too late to turn your life around and make a positive impact on the world. Key Topics - The impact of Alcoholics Anonymous on Ronnie's life and career. - Behind the scenes of "I'm Not a Comedian...I'm Lenny Bruce" and "Bill W. and Dr. Bob." - The role of art and theater in promoting healing and understanding. - How Ronnie uses his experiences to inspire and connect with others facing addiction. Time Stamps: - [00:00] Introduction to Ronnie Marmo and the episode. - [02:00] Ronnie's early encounter with addiction and recovery. - [08:00] The significance of plays in Ronnie's life and their message. - [15:00] The interplay between Ronnie's recovery journey and his artistic endeavors. - [22:00] Insights into the creation and impact of "Bill W. and Dr. Bob." - [30:00] Ronnie's advice to those struggling with addiction. - [37:00] Conclusion and where to find Ronnie's work. Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple ‘+’ in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: A Night of Recovery” Live From the Moravian Center Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.
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| 335: Taming Dopamine: Understanding Its Influence and Overcoming Addictive Behaviors | 26 May 2025 | 00:45:26 | |
Mike Long, the brilliant physicist-turned-writer and co-author of "The Molecule of More," joins us for a riveting conversation on the Addicted Mind Podcast. Together, we dissect the fascinating world of dopamine and its powerful influence over our behavior and experiences. We take a closer look at how this neurotransmitter's relentless push for future rewards often clouds our present joys, impacting everyday actions from gambling to excessive use of social media. Mike's unique perspective bridges natural patterns with human habits, offering profound insights into the mind's complex workings. In our discussion, we unravel the dual nature of dopamine, painting a vivid picture of its role as both motivator and alert system. Through engaging analogies, like the excitement of Christmas morning, we explore how dopamine shapes our desires and decision-making, propelling us toward imagined futures. Yet, the episode doesn't shy away from recognizing the challenges posed by dopamine's influence, especially in the context of modern technology and its overstimulation. By diving into the science behind neurotransmitters, we underscore the importance of balance in navigating this chemical-driven landscape. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP7 The Shame Compass: Navigating Out of Addiction and into Recovery | 22 Feb 2024 | 00:13:38 | |
In this eye-opening episode, Duane and Eric dive into the often painful topic of shame and how it can trap us in cycles of addiction, anxiety, and self-criticism. They introduce the concept of the shame compass, a tool developed by Donald Nathanson in 1992, which helps us understand the four main ways we deal with shame: withdrawal, attacking self, avoidance, and attacking others. By recognizing these patterns, we can start to navigate our way out of shame and build resilience. The hosts emphasize that no one heals through shame, but by understanding and addressing it, we can break free from negative cycles and live the life we truly want. This episode is not just about the struggles with shame but also offers hope and practical advice for anyone looking to make a positive change in their life. Download: “The Shame Compass: Navigating Out of Addiction and into Recovery” (note: use coupon code tam7 at checkout to get it for free) Key Topics:
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| 272: Redefining Addiction Recovery with Ian McLoone | 19 Feb 2024 | 00:44:29 | |
Discover a more empathetic approach to addiction care with Ian McLoone, a therapist whose personal battle with substance use offers a unique and insightful perspective. Throughout this discussion, Ian brings forth the importance of understanding the complex humanity behind addiction, advocating for personalized treatment plans that go beyond the traditional one-size-fits-all mentality. Ian shares the promise of harm reduction strategies for those not ready to take on full rehabilitation, and the role that therapists like Ian play in guiding individuals towards a healthier, substance-independent existence. By focusing on the individual's journey and the need for connection, this episode promises to reshape your views on the healing process and the resilience of those fighting addiction. Ian also unpacks the sober-curious movement, addressing the alarming statistic that a mere fraction of those with substance use disorders seek help, and he sheds light on how therapists can offer realistic support. The power and potential of support groups in nurturing recovery cannot be understated, given the innate human need for community and connection. Listen in to hear a heartfelt exchange that underscores the transformative potential of empathy in the realm of addiction treatment. In this episode, you will hear:
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| TAM+ EP6 Unstuck Your Thoughts: 7 Cognitive Distortions Sabotaging Your Recovery | 15 Feb 2024 | 00:16:19 | |
Today's episode of Addicted Mind Plus is a game-changer for anyone feeling stuck in their journey toward sobriety. Hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive deep into the world of cognitive distortions - those tricky thought patterns that keep us from achieving our fullest potential and lock us in cycles of addiction. They shine a light on the top seven distortions, from all-or-nothing thinking to personalization and blame, and offer practical tips for challenging and changing these thoughts. Whether you're battling addiction, supporting someone who is, or just looking to understand your mind a little better, this episode is packed with insights and tools to help you reset your thinking and embrace a more positive, empowered life. Remember, changing how you think can truly change your life. Download the “Unstuck your thoughts: 7 Cognitive Distortions Sabotaging Your Recovery Worksheet” ~ Click Here Key Topics: - The impact of cognitive distortions on addiction - Overcoming all-or-nothing thinking - The power of challenging negative thoughts - Recognizing and reframing mental filters - The importance of acknowledging positive steps in recovery Key Moments Timestamps: - [00:01:00] Introduction to cognitive distortions - [00:03:48] Discussing "all or nothing" thinking - [00:05:58] Exploring mental filters and their impact - [00:07:40] Addressing the habit of discounting the positive - [00:09:23] How jumping to conclusions affects us - [00:11:24] The problem with labeling ourselves - [00:13:48] The importance of challenging cognitive distortions Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple ‘+’ in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind
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