Tales From The Lane – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Do you ever feel torn between your performing life, your teaching life, and your family life? Our guest this week on Tales from The Lane, Heather Miller Lardin, was feeling exactly that way until she figured out how to balance it all--making space for what was most important: 

• Being at the top of her game as a performer
• Being an incredibly generous mentor and guide for her beloved students
• Being present for her family (and having the energy they deserve from her)

You'll hear how she crafted a bespoke teaching program that gives her students the absolute gold standard of historical performance pedagogy, and has carved out the rest of her schedule with the utmost intentionality to make time for the other parts of her life that are important to her as well. 

This episode is full of gems and words of wisdom and experience. You won't want to miss it! 

And if you're curious about how the Creatives Leadership Academy can help you to design your life and career with more intentionality so that you can take things up a notch, earn more income, do the gold-standard of whatever it is you love to do, AND have time for the rest of your life, Book a call with me today so we can discuss it! ---> CHAT WITH KATE

Heather Miller Lardin is principal double bassist of the Handel + Haydn Society, director of the Temple University Early Music Ensemble, and co-director of the Philadelphia-based period instrument ensemble Night Music.

This season she also appeared with Tempesta di Mare, Bach Choir of Bethlehem, Charlotte Bach Festival, Staunton Music Festival, and Brandywine Baroque. In addition to serving on the faculties of Amherst Early Music and the Viola da Gamba Society of America Conclave, Heather has presented historical bass workshops and master classes at Yale University, James Madison University, and Peabody Conservatory. 

Intensely curious about all things historical bass, Heather designs online and in-person workshops engaging like-minded bassists worldwide. Her Baroque Double Bass course is available on discoverdoublebass.com. A graduate of the Curtis Institute of Music, Heather holds a DMA in Historical Performance Practice from Cornell University.

She makes her home in the Western suburbs of Philadelphia, where she started playing bass in 6th-grade orchestra. When not teaching, tuning, or chauffeuring teenagers, she might be enjoying a cozy mystery and a good cup of coffee with her two Maine Coon cats.

Follow her on IG @heathermillerlardin

And be sure to say hi over at @kkayaian 

Enrollment is open for Kate’s 9-month group coaching mastermind, the Creatives Leadership Academy (CLA). Book a no-obligation call to see if CLA is the right fit for you.

In this episode of Tales From The Lane, Kate dives into the powerful role that mentorship can play in your career, especially as a high-performing creative. Drawing from a variety of sources, including Judy Robinett’s How to Be a Power Connector, and Tara Mohr’s Playing Big, Kate discusses the difference between vertical and horizontal networking and why having mentors from different levels of expertise is crucial. She shares practical advice on finding the right mentor, building organic relationships, and how to take full advantage of mentorship to reach your career goals. Plus, she encourages paying it forward by mentoring others. If you've ever wondered how to build meaningful professional connections or elevate your career, this episode is packed with actionable insights!

• Understand the difference between vertical and horizontal networking.

• Learn how to identify and approach potential mentors.

• Practical ways to get involved with mentors.

• How to build your network with an eye toward mentorship and pay it forward by mentoring others.

• The importance of having both a mentor and becoming a mentor to younger colleagues.

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In this episode of Tales From The Lane, host Kate Kayaian tackles the frequently asked question: "How long does it take to shift a career?" Drawing parallels between career transitions and sailing, Kate shares personal anecdotes and practical insights to illustrate the unpredictable yet navigable nature of career changes. With a touch of humor and a lot of wisdom, she delves into the elements that influence the timeline of career shifts, emphasizing the importance of preparation, mindset, and adaptability.

Curious about how long it will take to see your career transition come to fruition? Join Kate Kayaian as she navigates the winds of career change, offering invaluable advice and metaphorical sailing lessons. In this episode, you'll learn about the factors that can speed up or slow down your career shift and discover actionable strategies to steer your professional journey in the right direction. Whether you're contemplating a major career overhaul or a subtle pivot, this episode is packed with insights to help you sail smoothly through your transition.

• Find out what a sailboat has to do with your career shift.
• Discover the most important foundation to have in place before embarking on your career shift.
• Learn how to manage mindset monsters like fear and imposter syndrome during a career transition.
• Explore the significance of a "Yes, If" attitude, and when you need to use it. 
• Understand why accepting things out of your control is crucial for your professional growth.

If this episode resonated with you and you would like to work with Kate to help navigate your career transition, book a free 30-minute discovery call via the link below, or visit KateKayaian.com.

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In this episode of Tales From The Lane, we delve into the pervasive issue of burnout among high achievers, especially in creative fields. Host Kate Kayaian, a former cellist turned writer and coach, shares her personal journey from burnout to balance, offering insights and strategies to help listeners achieve peak performance without sacrificing their well-being.

Join Kate as she unpacks the detrimental effects of burnout and explores practical approaches to integrate rest, joy, and a holistic approach to life and work. Discover how you can maintain excellence without falling prey to the pressures of perfectionism and overwork.

You'll hear about:

• Kate’s personal experience with burnout and its impact on her career and well-being.

• Understanding the signs and symptoms of burnout and how they manifest in high achievers.

• Practical strategies to prevent and recover from burnout, including the SWAGG framework.

• Insightful anecdotes and expert advice on achieving balance and sustainable success in creative pursuits.

• The antidote to burnout and the key to enhancing creativity (it's the same thing!)

• Practical tips on implementing the SWAGG framework to maintain high performance without burnout.

If this episode resonated with you and you want a coach to help navigate your career transition, book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate via the link below, or visit KateKayaian.com.

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Perfectionism can be both a driving force and a paralyzing obstacle for high-achieving creatives. In this episode, we explore how perfectionism manifests in the lives of ambitious individuals across various industries, hindering their progress and fulfillment. Through personal anecdotes and coaching insights, we uncover strategies to overcome perfectionism and foster creative growth.

Key Moments:

• Identifying the root of your perfectionism.

• Balancing your high standards with the ability to finish a project.

• Revisiting the essential motivations behind creative endeavors.

• Kate's favorite exercise to get through a moment of perfection paralysis.

• How to imperfection as a catalyst for growth and development.

If this episode resonated with you and you want a coach to help navigate your career transition, book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate via the link below, or visit KateKayaian.com.

Book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate

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Hello, friend, and welcome back to another episode of the Tales From The Lane Podcast. I’m your host, Kate Kayaian– a former cellist, and now a writer and coach for high-performing creatives–This is the show where we talk about how to create a life and career that you love– ones that bring both creative fulfillment and financial reward–ones that make you feel like you are Thriving, instead of merely Surviving. 

Today, we have as our guest, oboist, coach, podcaster, and author of the upcoming book, Artists For Joy. Dr. Merideth Hite-Estevez.

You'll hear about: 

• Some of the books that have most profoundly influenced Dr. Merideth's life and career, and why.
• Her creative process and how she approaches starting a new project or piece of work
• One piece of advice Dr. Merideth would give her younger self, just starting out in her career. 
• The 4 questions everyone must ask themselves when they complete a project. 

About Dr. Merideth: 

Dr. Merideth Hite Estevez is a creative catalyst, inviting all to the joy of creative expression through her writing, coaching, and performing. As an oboist, Merideth has performed with top orchestras in the US and abroad, including the Met Opera and PhillyPops, and is currently the English hornist/Second Oboe of the Chamber Orchestra of NY. She has served on faculties of numerous universities and schools of music, most recently as Associate Professor of Oboe at the University of Delaware. Her education has taken her all over the world—Cincinnati Conservatory of Music, Yale School of Music, Fulbright Scholar to Germany, and The Juilliard School, where she received her doctorate in oboe.

She has been a featured speaker at Google, Longy School of Music, ShePodcasts LIVE, Hope*writers, Music Institute of Chicago, and more. As a coach, she has helped thousands of artists overcome creative block through her popular online creative recovery clusters and has served as an executive coach for all types of arts leaders, from major museum directors to deans of conservatories and art schools.

Dr. Estevez’s award-winning podcast, Artists for Joy, was in the top 250 podcasts in the US in the Self-Help category in January 2023 and is currently top 1.5% of podcasts worldwide. Her first book, “The Artist’s Joy: A Guide to Getting Unstuck, Embracing Imperfection, and Loving Your Creative Life,” debuts in Spring 2024 from Broadleaf Books.

Originally from South Carolina, Merideth now resides in Metro Detroit, Michigan, with her husband, Rev. Edwin Estevez, daughter Eva, and son Eli.

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In this episode of Tales From The Lane, we delve into the perennial struggle many face as they approach the summer months: the challenge of planning and executing a fulfilling and productive summer. Whether you're an artist, educator, or parent, navigating the myriad of end-of-year events, travel plans, and personal goals can feel overwhelming. But fear not, because we're here to guide you through crafting your most successful summer yet.

Discover the three essential components to a thriving summer, and how implementing these strategies can transform your aspirations into tangible achievements, whether it's completing a passion project, taking on a new challenge, or simply enjoying a well-deserved break.

Learn how to:

• Choose the right systems for your daily routines to set yourself up for success. 

• Measure and track progress along the way. 

• Embrace accountability as a catalyst for consistent action and tangible results, and the best places to find it.

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If this episode resonated with you and you want a coach to help navigate your career transition, book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate via the link below, or visit KateKayaian.com.

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Hello, friend, and welcome back to another episode of the Tales From The Lane Podcast. I’m your host, Kate Kayaian– a former cellist, and now a writer and coach for high-performing creatives. This is the show where we talk about how to create a life and career that you love–one that brings both creative fulfillment and financial reward–one that makes you feel like you are thriving, instead of merely surviving. We’re using business frameworks to help us reach our artistic potential, and we cover everything from mindset obstacles like imposter syndrome and resistance to action-based tactics like scheduling, goal-setting, negotiating, and project creation. Mostly though, this is a place where, as a creative, you can gain the confidence to craft your career in the most fulfilling and aligned way.

Stay with us through the end of today’s episode as we dive deep into navigating significant career and life pivots. We’ll explore what it takes to shift your path toward what truly resonates with you, offering actionable advice and personal anecdotes to guide you. Whether you’re contemplating a subtle pivot or a dramatic change, you’ll find insights and tips to help make your transition smoother and more intentional. So, grab a coffee, pop in those AirPods, and let’s dive in.

Here’s what we’ll be covering in today’s episode:

• The Four methods of navigating change

• The method Kate used in her own life

• Financial Preparations: Practical steps to secure your financial stability during a transition.

• Leveraging Your Current Position: Using existing resources and opportunities to prepare for your new path.

• Emotional Preparations: Managing the highs and lows that often come with making a major life change.

• Support Systems: Identifying the key people who will help you through your transition. 

If this episode resonated with you and you want a coach to help navigate your career transition, book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate via the link below, or visit KateKayaian.com.

Download your free 10 Habits for Successful Artists Guide 

Book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate

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In this episode of Tales From The Lane, host Kate Kayaian explores the unsettling but common feeling of realizing your career has taken a wrong turn. Drawing from personal experiences and client stories, Kate delves into the emotional and practical aspects of identifying when you're on the wrong path and how to course-correct toward a more fulfilling career. Using business frameworks and creative strategies, she offers guidance on how to realign your career with your true passions and goals.

Have you ever felt like your career is not where it should be? Maybe you’ve been working hard, but the passion and fulfillment are missing. In Episode 23, Kate Kayaian shares her own journey of career transformation and provides actionable insights to help you recognize when you’re off course and take decisive steps to course-correct. Whether you're a musician, artist, or creative professional, this episode will inspire you to take control of your career path and align it with your true calling.

• Discover the pivotal moment that made Kate realize she needed to change her career direction.
• Learn about "The Path of Not Here" and how it can guide you to the right path.
• Hear a compelling case study of a client who successfully transitioned from corporate life to a creative career.
• Get practical steps for identifying and pursuing a career that aligns with your passions.
• Explore different methods for making a career change, from bold moves to subtle pivots.

If this episode resonated with you and you want a coach to help navigate your career transition, book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate via the link below, or visit KateKayaian.com.

Download your free 10 Habits for Successful Artists Guide 

Book a free 30-minute discovery call with Kate

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 Welcome back to another episode of the Tales From The Lane Podcast with your host, Kate Kayaian. Join Kate as she discusses the chasm that can often exist between knowing what needs to be done, and doing it–especially when it comes to taking action on something that is important to us. 

In this encouraging episode, Kate reflects on one of her favorite teaching examples. Filled with thought-provoking questions, this episode will fill you with the drive to stop wasting precious time and go after your true desires. 

Key Takeaways:

• How you can quickly identify your goals and assess your need.
• the  $100 question
• Why we choose not to make the necessary changes.  
• Accessing the drive. 
• What is your “$100 Bill”?

Check out the OG Blog Post from 2017 here! 

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