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Why Swingers Face Judgment: Unpacking Society’s Need to Impose Beliefs18 Sep 202400:45:51

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In this powerful episode, we tackle a pressing issue: how segments of society attempt to impose their moral beliefs on others, particularly around the swinger lifestyle. From outdated adultery laws to neighborhood outcries over private parties, we explore the various ways sexual freedom is policed and judged by those who feel they must control others' choices. We also reflect on how societal repression impacts adult freedoms, and why swinging continues to spark controversy in communities. Whether you're in the lifestyle or just curious, this episode uncovers the root of societal judgment and the fight for personal freedom.

Key topics discussed:

  • How societal beliefs shape perceptions of swinging
  • The legal and moral judgments that impact swingers
  • Why people feel the need to control others' sexual behavior
  • An outrageous story about a neighborhood's reaction to a private "Crock-Pot Party"
  • How swingers deal with public scrutiny and judgment

If you believe in personal freedom and the right to make your own adult choices, this episode is for you!

Crockpot party:

https://kdvr.com/news/local/sex-clubs-more-common-than-people-think-woman-in-the-lifestyle-says/amp

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2651270/amp/Swingers-party-ends-BRAWL-police-officers-wives.html

https://www.denverpost.com/2014/01/03/colorado-swingers-spice-up-sex-life-at-squirrel-creek-lodge/amp

Adultery laws: https://www.newsweek.com/map-shows-16-states-where-its-illegal-cheat-your-wife-1887307

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Casual Sex Sucks - But could it be better?04 Sep 202400:37:30

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In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into the unspoken truths about casual sex in the swinger community. 💬 Discover how the quality of sex can vary, why many encounters leave you wanting more, and how you can enhance your intimate experiences. 🌶️ From exploring emotional connections and sexual techniques to offering five game-changing tips for better casual sex, this episode is packed with insights you won't find anywhere else!

 Join us as we discuss the dynamics of sexual satisfaction, the role of communication, and the impact of emotional intimacy, even in casual encounters. We share surprising research on women's orgasm experiences, tips for navigating new partners, and how to make every experience more satisfying! 💥

📌 #SwingingLifestyle #BetterSexTips #SexualSatisfaction #Orgasms #CasualSex #RelationshipAdvice #SexTalk #SexPositivity #EdandPhoebe

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The Pitfalls of Swinging - It's not all fun and games26 Jun 202400:27:15

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Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the regrets and letdowns to navigating the complexities of consent under the influence of drugs and alcohol, we cover it all with honesty and humor.

Discover why it's crucial to understand the darker aspects of ethical non-monogamy, and learn from our personal experiences to make better choices in your own journey. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights that you won't want to miss.

Key Topics:

- The reality of swinging beyond the glamour
- The impact of drugs and alcohol on consent and experiences
- The challenges of social dynamics in swinging parties
- Strategies for safer and more enjoyable encounters
- Personal stories and lessons learned

Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:15 - The unspoken challenges of swinging
5:45 - Drugs, alcohol, and consent issues
12:30 - Social pressures and personal regrets
18:45 - The importance of moderation and awareness
25:10 - Navigating social dynamics and dating in the lifestyle
32:00 - The impact of environment and party settings
39:20 - Personal stories and lessons learned

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Loud and Proud or Just Plain Rude at a Swinger Party?02 Apr 202100:38:19

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 In this episode we respond to a listener email about loud orgasms and squirting at swinger events. Along with some of our tips, pros and cons we threw in a few stories. We want all our listeners to become more comfortable if you're a little vocal in the orgasm department, or you like it when sex gets wetter.

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The Three 'C's of Swinging05 Mar 202100:23:36

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The 3 C's of Swinging: Connecting/Courting, Communicating, and Courtesy. These 3 social elements play a large part in your swinger game whether you are hosting or attending a party.

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Connecting / Courting
    1. Home
    2. Swinger Party
    3. Hotel - Planned v. Spontaneous
    4. Rules / Preferences
  2. Communicating
  3. Courtesy

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Cunnilingus - Now's Your Chance to be a Smart Mouth19 Feb 202101:05:47

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 Well, ladies, this is your episode. Phoebe challenged me to put my money where my mouth is so here it is…

 The Swinger University guide to Oral Sex for the ladies. Gentleman, get out your pencils and notebooks, it's time to brush up on your licking technique.

 SHOW NOTES:

  1.  Why Have Oral Sex?
  2.  Risks of Oral Sex
  3.  Basics of Cunnilingus
  4.  Vulva Anatomy
  5.  Cunnilingus Communication
  6.  Cunnilingus Positions
  7.  Cunnilingus Techniques

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DTF or FWB - Let's Unpack This!29 Jan 202100:27:18

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In this episode we discuss some of the pros and cons to the two approaches of finding play partners: FWB and DTF. 

  • Friends With Benefits (FWB)
  • Down To Foxy (DTF)
  • The Nirvana of the Lifestyle
  • Pros and Cons of FWB v. DTF

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Stamina Expectations and What Can I Do?01 Jan 202100:22:51

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 In this episode we discuss a few questions sent to us by a listener about stamina expectations in the lifestyle. It can be a tricky situation, but we've got a few tips to keep your "head" in the game…

We address stamina expectations in the lifestyle, how to lengthen your stamina and how to take a break without disrupting the mood.

  1. What are the expectations for stamina while playing?
  2. How do you deal with recuperation time?
  3. What if I literally need to take a break?
  4. How can I lengthen my stamina? 

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Crossing The Line in The Lifestyle11 Dec 202000:31:57

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How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come back together after.

 SHOW NOTES:

 Why Does It Happen?

  •  Uninhibited: chemical, libations, hormones
  •  Miscommunication: verbal, non-verbal, codes
  •  Not on the same page: conservative, enthusiastic
  •  Temptations by another
  •  Unconsidered situation
  •  Innocent reason
  •  Nefarious reason
  •  Unknown reaction

 How Do You Come Back?

  •  Growing Opportunity
  •  Compassion
  •  Communication
  •  Responsibility
  •  Appreciation
  •  Re-establish trust: understanding, step-back, reconnect, communicate, patience, needs, new rules, clarity, priorities

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How To Get A Second Swinger Date13 Nov 202000:31:31

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How do you get a second swinger date with a couple?  We talk about how to reach out to that other couple without sounding desperate or creepy, yet confident!

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Post Game Wrap-Up
  2. Timing
  3. Formula: Texting & IRL
  4. Examples:  IRL, Cruise, Hotel Takeover
  5. Follow Up

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Condoms for your Lifestyle Fun23 Oct 202000:30:34

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Not all condoms are safe for every BODY.  We discuss how condoms are different in regards to: additives, chemicals, latex sensitivities, lubricants, flavors, colors, and sharing!  Condoms in the lifestyle tend to be plentiful, and sometimes free, but are they right for you!

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Types of Condoms
    1. Female
    2. Male
  2. Spermicides
  3. Latex vs. Non-Latex
  4. Sizes
  5. Lubrication
  6. Sharing 
    1. Sustain Natural Ultra-Thin
    2. LOLA Ultra-Thin Lubricated
    3. Durex Real Feel Avanti Bare Polyisoprene Nonlatex
    4. LifeStyles SKYN Original Nonlatex Condom
    5. LifeStyles SKYN Extra Lubricated Nonlatex Condoms
    6. Trojan Natural Lamb skin to Skin Latex-Free Condom
    7. FC2 Internal Condom
    8. GLYDE Ultra Thin Premium
    9. Lovability Condoms
    10. Unique Plus Latex-Free
  7. Top Rated Condoms 

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15 Reasons Swinging is Better than Dating09 Oct 202000:35:45

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Everyone likes to rave about single life, especially after getting out of a long-term relationship. We decided to flip this around and offer 15 reasons why staying together, but swinging is better than a single life.

 

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Unveiling Our Resort Research: Temptations & Desire (Maya, Pearl)25 Sep 202001:00:55

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A review on Swinger Resorts: Temptations, Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl.  This review compares and contrasts the differences between the resorts by: demographic, food, entertainment, cost, resort size and percentage of swinger opportunity.

SHOW NOTES:

  • Temptations
  • Desire - Riviera Maya
  • Desire - Pearl

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The Dirty Side of the Swinging Business12 Jun 202400:29:23

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Do you love your community and want more events?  Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are.  We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging business and how some think it's a zero-sum game.

 We discuss how some swinging businesses hurt swingers and our community because the drive for money takes priority over doing what's best for the community.

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The Allure of Masturbation Revealed!11 Sep 202000:48:59

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Masturbation is normal, natural and integral to our health and well-being.  This episode covers the importance of masturbation, sharing it with your partner and addressing some of the negative perspectives in society.  We also share some interesting stories of masturbation while swinging and historical facts you will find fascinating!

SHOW NOTES

  • Why Do It?
  • Who Does It?
  • Negative Perspectives in Society
  • Interesting Facts
  • Masturbation While Swinging

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Find Your Perfect Night Out Look: Top Women's Club Wear Picks!28 Aug 202000:32:21

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Clothes make the swinger... Swingers love to dress up and dress sexy!  We discuss the why swingers love it,  where to get it, and how to get comfortable wearing nothing but tape or paint!

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Sexy Outfits Are Necessary
  2. Comfort Level
  3. Where to Shop 
    1. https://www.venus.com/default.aspx
    2. https://www.yandy.com/
    3. https://warriorwithindesigns.com/collections/new-arrivals
    4. https://badstarlove.bigcartel.com/
    5. https://www.electriqueboutique.com/
    6. https://www.lingeriediva.com/
    7. http://seductionextreme.com/
    8. https://www.3wishes.com/sexy-costumes/
    9. https://www.hunkemoller.co.uk/
    10. https://www.milanoo.com/
    11. https://www.fashionnova.com/
    12. https://www.aliexpress.com
    13. https://www.wickedweasel.com

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Ladies - More Than Just Your Mouth... Please!07 Aug 202000:58:50

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Learning how to perform fellatio that both people enjoy depends on good communication with your partner, body comfort, education, techniques, an open mind, and enthusiasm!  We have combined years of experience, notes, books, research, blogs and chatroom information here for your listening pleasure.  Just remember…. A blow job is so much more than just putting it in your mouth. 

SHOW NOTES

  1. Blowjob?  Why?
    1. Do What Feels Good To You
  2. Communication 
    1. Set the Mood
    2. Cleanliness
    3. Flavor of Cum = Diet
    4. Manscaping
    5. Gag Reflex
  3. Preparation 
    1. Position
    2. Teasing
    3. Techniques
  4. Getting Started

 

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Discover the Ultimate Tips to Safeguard Your Swinging Secret!24 Jul 202000:28:47

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How to keep the secret you are a swinger from your co-workers, friends and family. Lying is impossible to maintain, you're bound to trip up, and there's a better way. We help you come up with an alibi and share our 5 tips on talking about your adventures in swinging without outing yourself.

SHOW NOTES:

  1. People IN your business
  2. Questions from co-workers/friends/family
  3. Examples for each scenario
  4. Our 5 Tips

TIPS

  1.  Take vanilla photos to share with friends and family.
  2. Schedule some vanilla activities.
  3. Stay close to the truth - fine line.
  4. Get your story straight (Think about your alibi ahead of time.)
  5. Know your connection. (Person/couple you are talking about.)

 

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Kissing is SO Good10 Jul 202000:43:36

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The benefits of kissing…not only is it good for your health, increase connection with your partner, kick things off in the bedroom, it may also help you pick your next swing partner!  We cover fun facts, why people kiss and 5 kissing techniques.

SHOW NOTES

  1. Fun Facts
  2. Health Aspects
  3. Techniques
  4. Reasons We Kiss
  5. Book: The Art of Kissing by William Cane
  6. Interview: NPR with William Cane and Alex Chadwick where William talks about the Liposuction Kiss.  https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=1484903

Bonus! Here are the results of our kissing survey:

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What Is Ethical or Consensual Non-Monogamy?26 Jun 202000:28:28

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Swinging can be defined as non-monogamy, specifically "ethical" or "consensual" non-monogamy.  We define all types of non-monogamy and explore the mental hurdles and judgements in the swinging lifestyle due to this label.  In addition, we will cover four things you can practice to be successful as a swinger couple in the lifestyle.

  1. What is Non-Monogamy?
  2. Forms of Non-Monogamy
  3. Upside/Downside
  4. Mental Hurdles/Judgements
  5. Four Critical Things You Need To Know

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Jealousy vs. Envy12 Jun 202000:44:23

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Swinging can bring up all kinds of feelings and jealousy and envy are definitely two of them.  What is Jealousy?  What is Envy?  You may find yourself experiencing these emotions in the lifestyle and not know how to interpret or resolve them.  Both emotions have positive and negative effects with jealousy having some biological reasons too!  Introspection and open, honest communication is key when swinging with your partner in the lifestyle.

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Jealousy Defined 
    1. Negative Attributes
    2. Positive Attributes
  2. Envy Defined 
    1. Negative Attributes
    2. Positive Attributes
  3. Jealousy in Society
  4. Envy in Society
  5. Jealousy As Biology
  6. Listener Email

 

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Why Your Lube is SO Important for Your Vaginal Health!29 May 202001:06:03

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Lubes, Lubes, Lubes.  Women….which one do you choose?  We review all the base type of lubes for your safe swinging pleasure: water, glycerin, silicone, petroleum, and oil.  You will learn about the ingredients, pH, and how this plays a VERY important role for the female vagina.  Quality ingredients will reduce your STI risk and bacterial vaginosis (BV)!  This review should be shared with everyone, not just with your swinger friends!

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Is Your Lube Expired?
  2. Lube pH Matters!
  3. Osmolality - Oh Yeah.
  4. Vaginal Epithelium Layer
  5. Ingredients 
    1. Water, Glycerin, Silicone, Petroleum, Oil
  6. Types of Lube Pros v. Cons

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The TRUTH About Safe Sex Practices15 May 202000:28:10

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Practicing safe sex may not be something you have done for awhile but if you are starting out in the swinger lifestyle, or are little rusty on your facts, this is definitely the podcast to listen to.  We are covering STIs, HIV, oral sex, and testing.  Swingers tend to be big on testing and we are going to break that down for you too.

Show Notes

Safe Sex In The Swinger Lifestyle

  1. Is Oral Sex Safer?
  2. STI Types & Timelines
  3. HIV Testing & How It Works
  4. How Do You Know If You Are Really Safe?
  5. Resources

Resources

STIs Types, Timelines, and Symptoms:

  • Chlamydia: 1-3 weeks, 50% Men & 70% women = no symptoms.
  • Genital Herpes: 4-7 days, most people don't have any symptoms when first infected.
  • Genital Warts: 2-3 months, most people with the virus don't develop obvious warts.
  • Gonorrhea: 10 days, 10% Men & 50% Women = no symptoms.
  • Pubic Lice & Scabies: 5 days - 5 weeks
  • Syphilis: 2-3 weeks, symptoms not obvious and may come and go.
  • Trichomoniasis: 4 weeks, 50% Men & Women = no symptoms.
  • HIV: 2-6 weeks, some get symptoms, some don’t.

VIP Testing Services

https://viptestingservices.com/services/std-testing-services/

How soon can I take an HIV test?

http://i-base.info/guides/testing/how-soon-can-i-take-a-test

The Aids Institute

 https://www.theaidsinstitute.org/education/aids-101/how-do-hiv-tests-work-0

CDC Fact Sheets

https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/fact_sheets.htm

SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE SURVEILLANCE 2017

https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats17/default.htm

HOW DO HIV TESTS WORK?

 https://www.theaidsinstitute.org/education/aids-101/how-do-hiv-tests-work-0

HOW SOON CAN I TAKE AN HIV TEST?

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Finding the Right Swinger Couple01 May 202000:56:34

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Finding the right fit in the swinging lifestyle can be challenging. Swinging with others involves compatibility, attraction, confidence and preferences.  It is very much like dating but waaaaay more complicated.  You may have found that the swinging lifestyle can get very challenging to coordinate all four interests at the same time and we hope to provide a bit of insight on the "right fit". 

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Compatibility 
    1. Turtle
    2. Base Jumper
    3. True Foursome
  2. Intellect
  3. Confidence
  4. Physical
  5. Attractiveness
  6. Kissing 4 Dummies
  7. Women Are Gatekeepers
  8. Preferences & Stereotypes

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Chat Rooms Suck! - But you might love them...29 May 202400:52:40

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Phoebe and I have a love-hate relationship with chat rooms. Sometimes chat groups suck! Listen in as we break down all the things we hate about swinger community chats and forums, and some of the reasons why we think you might like them. If you're in swinger chat groups, or want to be, you may want to check this episode out.

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Randy in Reno - Communication, Expectations, and Flexibility with Swinger Play Dates10 Apr 202000:22:37

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We share our adventure in Reno with some new friends we met at the 2019 New Years event. We also discuss how important communication , and expectation can be in making any Swinger connection successful. Hope you enjoy… We sure did.

 SHOW NOTES:

  1. Communication 
    1. Keep The Fire Burnin'!
    2. Don't Burn The Forest
    3. Honesty
  2. Expectations 
    1. To Have or Not To Have
    2. Somewhere In Between
  3. Flexibility 
    1. Be Flexible With Intent!

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Swinger Play Date Essentials - "Ho" bag! 27 Mar 202000:29:29

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Are you ready to go when you get the call for fun?  A little pre-planning can make the evening go more smoothly. We discuss what's in our "Ho" bag, some extras, and the bare necessities for all swingers.

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  1.  Ed & Phoebe's Ho Bag
  2. Essentials For Your Ho Bag
  3. Full Ho or Semi-Ho!

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The Hidden Price of Substance Use in Swinging - Mastering Social & Intimate Connections06 Mar 202000:33:19

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Overindulging on your drug of choice can have an impact on your interactions while swinging. We recall some of our experiences, and provide examples of how moderation is an important strategy for navigating social, and sexual interactions at lifestyle events.

If you are looking for a guide on how to use drugs in the lifestyle, this is not your episode.  There are resources on the internet for this information, but we’re not one of them.

Note: We're re-listening to this episode after receiving some constructive criticism from a listener. We intended this episode to be a reflection of our personal experiences with drugs and alcohol in the lifestyle. We acknowledge that drugs and their use are complex and nuanced issues. 

We are NOT scientists or pharmacists. We have personal experiences with drugs: Our use and the use of others amongst our families, and friends. This still doesn't make us experts for all people or experiences. We're just people who have had experiences and passing them on to the community.

We will try to address these criticisms... Stay tuned!

SHOW NOTES:

  1. Ed & Phoebe's story
  2. Effects of drugs and alcohol in the lifestyle
  3. Remember me, not remember me
  4. Pros v. Cons: alcohol, cannabis, cocaine, MDMA, Special K
  5. Resources:
  6. The Center for substance Abuse Treatment - 24 hour hotline 1-800-662-HELP

Sunrise House - American Addiction Centers https://sunrisehouse.com/club-drugs/molly/

DrugRehab.com www.drugrehab.com

The Fresh toast  www.thefreshtoast.com

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New Years Hotel Takeover 2019!21 Feb 202000:49:19

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Join Ed and Phoebe for New Year's 2019 at the largest Northern California Swinger Party.  Swing into 2020 with the lows and highs of each night.  We met some sexy friends then rang their bell and set the tone for 2020!

Show Notes

  1. NYE PreParty Blues
  2. NYE Glam, Clits and Tits 
    1. NYE Blues 2
  3. NY DAY Post Party Panned Out!
  4. Take Away & Lessons Learned 
    1. Planning & Backup Plans
    2. Gracious & Respectful Behavior
    3. "Drama" v. Normal

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Unicorn House Party with a Side of Single Male10 Jan 202000:34:10

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Another elective course reviewing a local house party! This party was hosted by one of the local unicorns, and it was fabulous... Join us to hear all the delectable details.

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  1. Sexy House Party & Buffet!
  2. More Than Just an Appetizer - Oh My!
  3. Mystery Meal
  4. Main Course - Sloppy but Not Seconds!
  5. Dessert Review 
    • House Party Perfection: Scene, Food, People
    • Single Guy A+: What Worked
    • Observation Tips on Couples

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Unicorn Interview with Alexa - She Does What She's Told27 Dec 201900:54:13

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We interview Alexa (because she does what she's told...), a lifestyle Unicorn.  She will be sharing how she got started swinging, provide advice for the lifestyle, sharing her experiences and advice as well as some funny stories!

 

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  1. Frisky Unicorn – How to Get Started 
  2. The Glitter Life of a Unicorn 
    1. Regulars v. One-timers
  3. How to Find a Couple 
    1. Caged v. Free
  4. Rules of the Unicorn Horn
  5. The Dark Side of the Horn 
    1. Safety
  6. Unicorn Advice

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Behind the Scenes of the Most Controversial Resort in Costa Rica13 Dec 201900:46:22

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Ed and Phoebe document their first trip together out of the country and to a clothing optional, swinger resort! Come join the sexy swinger fun with Swinger University at a swinger resort takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica.  

Show Notes

  • Preparation and Packing
  • Travel Day - Oh My!
  • Naked Swinger Resort
  • The Jungle
  • Fabulous Food
  • Playroom and the Toys!
  • Sex at the Pool
  • Included Excursions
  • Pool Games
  • Hot Fun!

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Discover the Thrilling History of Swinging in Northern California!29 Nov 201901:11:59

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An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle, with a combined experience of 50 years, documenting the history of swinging in the Northern California area, the fun, the challenges and the long term rewards. 

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  • History of swinging in the Northern California area over the past 40 years. 
    • Trends
    • Changes
  • How Gino & Ginger got started in the lifestyle.
  • Stories: challenges and rewards.
  • Advice

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Halloween Swinger Hotel Takeover 201915 Nov 201900:37:39

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A review on a fabulous time at the biggest swinger Halloween Party in Northern California. 

Two nights of on-premise play with 800 sexy swingers having fun!  Join us for dancing, swinging, sexy and sensual swinger lifestyle experiences. 

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  • Halloween Swinger Party
  • Two Nights of Fun 
    • Pajama Party
    • Halloween Party
  • Unpredictable Play Dates
  • Sexy Times

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Swinger Dating vs. Hit It and Quit01 Nov 201900:46:10

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Dating couples in the swing lifestyle has advantages and disadvantages.  Some couples prefer to hit and quit.  Depending on your swing style, dating as a couple is more challenging than dating as a single person, because the dynamics are four times as complex.  Getting four people to agree on a date, show up, experience a great vibe all around, and be on the same page…well, it gets complicated!  Whether you put in the time or not, couple dating can be rewarding and so can hit and quit depending on your swinging taste.

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  1. Advantages to Dating
    1. Better Sex
    2. Tips for Success
    3. Time Consuming
    4. First Date - Never at you house
  2. Disadvantages to Dating 
    1. Off Night
    2. No Vibe
  3. Hit and Miss 
    1. One Night Stand
    2. Check List
    3. Hall Pass
  4. Hit and Quit
  5. Gratitude and Thanks

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Why you should go on a Swinger Cruise! - Bliss Cruise17 May 202400:19:44

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If you've never been on a swinger cruise, adults-only cruise, or only been to resorts... you owe it to yourselves to go on a lifestyle cruise! What makes Bliss Cruises one of the best adult vacations you can experience? Tune in and find out!

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Choose from any of the cruises we have listed here to start your own sexy high-seas adventure. Enjoy all the amenities of a vanilla cruise with as much or as little swinger sparkles on top! Do as much or as little as you want, or whoever you can connect with (assuming consent of course! 😉)

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Adam & Belle Spill Their Tea on the Swinger Scene!18 Oct 201901:26:33

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An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle since 2009 sharing how they started swinging, their funny stories about the lifestyle, advice and changes they have seen over time.

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  1. How Adam & Belle got started in the lifestyle.
  2. Play style, boundaries, and how it changed over time.
  3. Funny stories
  4. Advice
  5. Changes seen in the lifestyle over time.
  6. Straight men comfortable with bi experiences.
  7. Trends: drug use, singles, culture, respect, diversity, taboo.

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Swinger Party Communication Skills04 Oct 201900:39:37

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Have you communicated about how you are communicating for an event?  We will cover pre-event communication, pep talk, non-verbal and verbal communication and signals.  We share some of our favorite exit phrases we have heard over time and talk about how important it is to have a post-event conversation.

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  1.  Pre-event Preparation Communication
  2. Pre-event Pep Talk
  3. Non-Verbal Signals
  4. Verbal Phrases
  5. Missed Communication Signals
  6. Non-verbal Communication
  7. Post-event Wrap-up

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Anything But Clothes Swinger Party20 Sep 201900:57:08

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A review of one of the fabulous swinger events in Northern California.  A unique, sexy and sensual swing lifestyle experience that draws new and long-time swingers for dancing, and on-premise play.

  1. Getting Ready:  "The first part about getting ready for any event whether a drink date or party, is to primp, prune and pluck."
  2.  Setting the Scene: The Hotel and Event description
  3.  Fun & Sexy Things: How our night went and some of the fun we had

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 Show Notes

  1. ABC Party: Hotel Event
  2. Handsome and Beautiful: Days in Advance! 
    1. Get to Know Your Neighbors
  3. Staycation: Arrive Early
  4. Setting the Scene: Dance, Boom Boom Room, S&M Area
  5. Security/Safety/Privacy
  6. Sexy Fun People

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What REALLY happens at Swinger Parties?06 Sep 201900:59:13

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In today's course we are going to talk about dipping in to your first swinger event.  We will cover: cost, boundaries, intent, goals, reconnecting, and the afterglow.  Attending your first swing event can be terrifying, exciting and fun.  You will learn more about yourself and each other with each swinger event.  So, cum inside….it's class time!

Show Notes

  1. Cost of Swinger Events: Clubs, House Parties, Hotel
  2. The Cost of Looking Good: Hair, Nails, Waxing, Tanning, Gym Membership
  3. Sitters, Uber and Hotel 
    1. Our First Event: Yay Orgy!
  4. Expectations v. Reality: Going with the Flow
  5. Spontaneous v. Planned
  6. Set Boundaries
  7. Have A Plan
  8. Work the Room!
  9. Language and Rules
  10. Reconnecting
  11. Afterglow

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What Goes Down at a Swinger House Party?23 Aug 201900:47:20

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A sexy review on a swinger house party in Sonoma with a few close friends.  We begin with how we met, stayed in contact and drove 2 hours to share a bed…a couch…and another bed with some of our favorite sexy, swinger friends!  We will describe the environment and re-create the mood to bring you into this fabulous swinger party!

Show Notes

  1. How We Met: Ken, Barbie, Greg and Marsha
  2. House Party Invite
  3. Fun In The Bedroom
  4. Fun On The Couches
  5. Coffee and Morning Sausage!
  6. Beers & Brats!

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Sites, Apps, and Chat Tools for Hooking Up With Swingers09 Aug 201900:57:01

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In this episode we talk about communication tools for connecting with other swingers.  We are going to describe how in-site email works, chat rooms, Kik, MeWe and a handful of swinger dating apps.  These technologies, some of them geared specifically to swingers, offer a great way to get in-touch and stay connected with other people in the swing lifestyle.  However, they do have their share of hiccups, and we share some stories about our adventures with virtual people.

SHOW NOTES

  1. Swinger Site Email: Pros v. Cons
  2. Swinger Site Chat Rooms: Pros v. Cons
  3. Swinger Chat Apps: Kik, MeWe, etc.
  4. Swinger Dating Apps: Bumble, 3-Fun, etc.
  5. Text Messaging
  6. Google Images & PicFind

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Other Uses for Your Tongue - How To Talk To Swingers26 Jul 201900:50:32

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Communication with other swingers is just as fluid as sex, which is why you need to have good communication and follow through in the swinging lifestyle.  How should you handle communications? Do you have a primary communicator? What is too much, or not enough? How do you switch from being a passive communicator to active?

Swinging, just like dating is an approach game, knowing how to approach another couple and close the deal. This episode will help with those awkward swinger moments where you don't know how to turn someone down. Or more importantly how to pick someone up. We cover communication styles and etiquette, letting someone down, and how to close the deal.

SHOW NOTES

  1. Primary Communicator v. Group Communication
  2. Group Fun!
  3. A lot v. A little Communication 
    1. Ghosting
  4. Passive Communication
  5. Active Communication
  6. Acknowledge
  7. Decline
  8. Counter
  9. Follow Through
  10. Closing The Deal!

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Talking Through Swinger Insecurities and Fears12 Jul 201900:52:13

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 Communication is a key ingredient in any relationship. With swingers it's critical, not only for your success in the lifestyle, but also for the success of your relationship. We talk about rules, topics, insecurities and fears in the communication process.

SHOW NOTES

  1. The Ideal Conversation
  2. Rules of Communication
  3. Let's Talk About Sex
  4. Fears & Insecurities


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How to Build Your Dating or Swinger Profile28 Jun 201900:16:05

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Your swinger profile, or your dating profile, will either make or break your chances with prospective play partners. .  We have some tips for putting together a first-class profile that should make a great first impression. So sharpen your pencils, sit back, take some notes... It's class time!

SHOW NOTES

  1. Purpose Of An Online Presence
  2. The Right Swinger Site For You
  3. To Swinger App Or Not 
    1. Detailed Description
    2. Preferences
    3. Photos - Current
    4. Update Often
  4. Profiles, Profiles, Profiles

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Bliss Cruise Review - Spring 201921 Jun 201901:18:09

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Today’s elective course is about the April 2019 Bliss Swinger Cruise. We’ll talk about what to expect, what to bring, and some sexy stories. Grab your sunscreen cause its a hot one. Let’s get sailing...

SHOW NOTES

  1. Bliss Swinger Cruise
  2. What to Bring Other Than Clothes
  3. What to Expect
  4. Meet and Greets
  5. Demonstrations
  6. Pool Parties and Games
  7. Playrooms: Types, Mood, Cleanliness, Provisions
  8. Dining with Others


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We're Back! 29 Apr 202400:21:08

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It's been a while since you've heard from us... We've been producing our Patreon episodes this whole time, but not our regular episodes. https://patreon.com/swingeruniversity

Wonder what happened? Where we've been? What the future holds? Then you definitely want to listen to this episode.


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The Pleasures & Pitfalls of Swinging14 Jun 201900:47:44

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This episode discusses some of the benefits and downsides of the swinging lifestyle to help you figure out your reasons for joining in the fun. 

SHOW NOTES

  1. Pleasures of Swinging: 
    • communication
    • more sex
    • techniques
    • bonding
    • fun
    • sex positions
    • confidence
    • experiences
    • exploration
    • emotional challenges.
  2. Pitfalls of Swinging 
    • flakes
    • over indulgence
    • drugs
    • emotional challenges
    • anonymity
    • disappointment
    • expectations
    • bad sex


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Swinging Defined - Lifestyle Terminology07 Jun 201900:52:18

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We take some time to break down some common swinger lingo and terminology to help you navigate this exciting world of swinging. Of course we throw in a few stories to help spice up this lesson.

While you could go searching across the internet for the definitions to these, we bring them to you in a nice delicious package.

Here are just a few of the terms we cover:

Vanilla Hunting

 Unicorn

Cuckold

Cuckqueen

Bi-curious

Play

Soft Swap

Full Swap

DTF

Kissing Rule

Same Room

Hall Pass

Voyeurism

Barebacking


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How To Admit You Want to Swing To Your Partner31 May 201900:27:44

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In this podcast episode, we will be discussing the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We'll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion has a positive impact on your relationship. Ideally, a good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up are necessary. We'll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation such as using porn, hints, turn-ons/kinks, or even podcasts 😉.

 We emphasize that this conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It's important to be empathetic, reassuring, and to listen to your partner's response, whether it's a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you're not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?

Show Notes

  1. How Do You Have That First Conversation?
  2. I'm Afraid To Say What I Am Thinking
  3. What's Your "In"?
  4. Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
  5. Listening Skills Are Critical
  6. Being Okay With "No"


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