Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Swinger University™ - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Show
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| Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?) | 05 Nov 2025 | 00:35:54 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe dig into the data, share surprising stories, and challenge everything you thought you knew about who belongs in these spaces. By the end, you might see this conversation—and the community—completely differently. --- WHAT YOU'LL LEARN • Why 1/3 of Americans are exploring something other than traditional monogamy—and why this changes everything about the "dirty vanilla" debate • The spectrum of play styles and why there's actually NO official definition of what makes someone a "real" swinger • A real story from a couple in Costa Rica who called themselves "swinger adjacent"—and why their approach is brilliant • How preferences literally shift from event to event, week to week—and why labels fail to capture what's actually happening • The single most important skill that actually works when you're trying to figure out what someone is REALLY looking for at an event • Why swingers have figured out something that the rest of us are still struggling with: how to create genuinely judgment-free, welcoming spaces --- KEY MOMENTS (WITH TIMESTAMPS) • [00:01:04] The stat that reframes everything: One-third of Americans want something other than complete monogamy—and why this changes the debate entirely • [00:03:51] Breaking down Gen Z, millennials, and Gen X data on non-monogamy—and why 31% of singles have actually explored this • [00:06:13] The question that flips the script: Maybe it's not "Why are vanillas here?" but "Why are we gatekeeping who belongs?" • [00:08:01] The "Swinger Adjacent" couple from Costa Rica and their unforgettable exact words about the lifestyle community • [00:06:38] Why "soft swap" and "full swap" are way more complicated than they sound—the spectrum within the spectrum • [00:27:00] How to actually ask the questions that matter—the simple framework that changes everything Want More?
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| You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters) | 16 Oct 2025 | 01:05:51 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question. Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-times-a-week standard is BS, how desire actually works in long-term relationships, and the one thing that matters more than counting sessions—quality and connection. Ed and Phoebe challenge everything you thought you knew about sex in relationships, from the myth of spontaneous desire to why 80% of women can't orgasm the way we've been told they should. Drawing on research from Dr. Karen Gurney's "Mind the Gap" and insights from the swinging lifestyle, we reveal practical strategies to build sexual currency without adding pressure, understand responsive desire, and create the conditions where passion can thrive. What You'll Learn:
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| How a Random Podcast Changed Our Marriage Forever! - Our First Swinger Experience | 02 Apr 2025 | 00:35:12 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳 Want More?
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| Fantasy vs. Reality in the Swinger Lifestyle | 04 Feb 2022 | 00:28:16 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Your swinger fantasy most often will not match reality. There is an exciting plethora of orgasms and orgies you can have while swinging with different types of people in many situations. SHOW NOTES:
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| New Year Hotel Takeover 2021 | 21 Jan 2022 | 00:49:58 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com 2021 got better half way through the year band the last few months have allowed us a few opportunities to relax in the company of like minded people. New Years Eve this year was one of those opportunities. We spent two nights with friends old and new to ring in the new year as well as say goodbye to the last. SHOW NOTES:
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| Halloween Swinger Hotel Takeover 2021 | 21 Jan 2022 | 00:48:31 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Explore with us more swinger dynamics, the NO condom incident, a gallant introduction, the fabulous 4 a.m. 4-some, and the effects of inappropriate touching during Halloween's House Party and 2-night Hotel Takeover. Plus, how to have an electrifying swinger orgy with a tens unit! SHOW NOTES:
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| Swinger Connections and Games in the Pocket | 24 Dec 2021 | 00:41:56 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Network, network, network. Every opportunity to connect with other swingers is critical to finding the parties not posted on swinger sites. Networking is fun and connects you with couples and their list of invitees. Over the years our connections to couples in the lifestyle have opened up all kinds of doors for us. These lifestyle friendships provided us invitations to parties, connections to other couples, and a richer experience. This connection also relieves the anxiety that can come with meeting new people, or attending parties that you've never been to before. Knowing at least one person can really free your mind of worry about "not knowing" anyone there. We had met this couple at an after party at a hotel takeover. This initial interaction got us invited back for more fun at their house, and a new group of people. This party expanded our circle of friends even more. Each new group brings more opportunity, and better connections. SHOW NOTES:
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| Good Communication Gone Wrong! | 10 Dec 2021 | 00:28:58 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Sometimes while swinging, your direct communication goes sideways! We get nude with two couples and reveal the TRUTH about what happened and some tips about how you can avoid this experience yourselves. SHOW NOTES:
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| Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 7 And Wrap Up | 22 Nov 2021 | 00:45:55 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com It is with heavy hear that we wrap up this fantastic week. Our last day at Coco Cay turned out to not be such a perfect day, but we made the best of it. Show Notes:
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| Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 6 Fetish Night! | 20 Nov 2021 | 00:23:35 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Its almost the last day of the Bliss Cruise… So sad to go, but vacations can't last forever. Enough of that what about the fun? Show Notes:
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| Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 4 and 5 Glow Night! | 19 Nov 2021 | 00:30:18 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Another day in paradise. Its all about getting your glow on and taking in the sights of St Thomas. We spend some down time and Up time with our friends in another tropical getaway location.
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| Bliss Cruise November 2021 – Day 3 All That Sparkles | 18 Nov 2021 | 00:22:26 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Day 3 of the our Bliss Cruise November 2021 Daily series. We're finally hitting our stride on this cruise. We've met more sexy people and had some new experiences. Show Notes:
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| Bliss Cruise November 2021 - Day 2 Mardi Trois | 16 Nov 2021 | 00:25:15 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Another fabulous day at sea. In today's episode we talk about Mardi Trois and all the fabulous people that came out to play. Show Notes:
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| Unlocking the Swinger Lifestyle: No Experience Required! | 19 Mar 2025 | 00:41:04 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed doors, this video will give you the confidence to take the first step into the swinger lifestyle. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive in! Want More?
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| BlissCruise November 2021 – Day 1 Sunday Funday | 15 Nov 2021 | 00:26:35 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com This is our second episode in our onboard episodes where we discuss the adventures on our first day back on the Bliss Cruise! Show Notes:
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| BlissCruise November 2021 - Pre-Cruise! | 13 Nov 2021 | 00:13:25 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com This is our pre-cruise episode, kicking the tires with our mobile setup. Recording in our hotel room in Miami... So far so good. We'll be heading out on the Oasis of the seas tomorrow and we can't wait. We've all been cooped up for a year and we're rearing to go. Give us a listen, and stay tuned for all the fun, facts, and friends as we head out on our second lifestyle cruise. Want More?
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| Swinger Pool Party - Glitter + Clitoris = Glitoris | 12 Nov 2021 | 00:32:57 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Glitter + Clitoris = Glitoris! The BEST pool party in 2021! In this episode we talk about our 2nd house party after vaccination and our 1st party in the bay area. This party was off the hook! SHOW NOTES:
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| Swinging While on Vacation - Rocky Mountain Adventure | 22 Oct 2021 | 00:22:30 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Swinging during a vanilla vacation can be challenging. We lay out your best options for swinger hook-ups in Colorado. Pre-planning, follow up and a back up plan are key! SHOW NOTES:
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| How to Throw a Swinger House Party | 08 Oct 2021 | 00:47:36 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Thinking of having a swinger party? This podcast covers how and why to have a swinger house party, neighbors, security, safety, supplies, food, drinks, cleanup, setting the mood, and having a good time! SHOW NOTES:
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| Life of a Unicorn | 17 Sep 2021 | 00:39:19 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are you a single female and are thinking about swinging? This podcast covers what it's like to be a Unicorn in the swinging lifestyle. We address bi-sexuality, dating, safety, perceptions and more in this episode of the, "Life of a Unicorn." SHOW NOTES:
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| Hotel Glow Party 2021 - Good and Bad Apples | 10 Sep 2021 | 00:31:21 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Swingers aren't any different then any other social group of humans. There's always people that stand out, some good, some bad. This episode we talk through some highlights and lowlights of our experiences at our first event after vaccinations! Join us for our tell-all of the Allure's Glow Party! SHOW NOTES:
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| Body Image and Acceptance | 13 Aug 2021 | 00:23:24 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com We all go through periods of time where we feel like we don't look our best, or that we won't be accepted for how we look. Society doesn't help with our body image issues. Both men and women struggle with their appearance and self image. These feeling can affect your sex life, and your swinging fun. In this episode we share some stories and examples of these struggles as well as tip on how to get of our heads and get on with the fun.
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| BV and the "Whiff" Test - Bacterial Vaginosis in the Lifestyle | 23 Jul 2021 | 00:37:13 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com BV or Bacterial Vaginosis. It's a highly transmittable vaginal infection that you don't want to get while swinging. This episode covers: how to perform the "whiff" test, BV risks, why it occurs, contributing factors, things that help and how to get rid of it.
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Bacterial Vaginosis: https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/bacterial-vaginosis Bacterial Vaginosis: https://www.cdc.gov/std/tg2015/bv.htm 5 Fall Foods That Support Vaginal Health: https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/5-fall-foods-that-support-vaginal-health Probiotics For Women's pH Balance: https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/probiotics-for-women-s-ph-balance How To Maintain A Healthy Vaginal pH: https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/vaginal-ph-balance#maintaining-vaginal-health Probiotics for Vaginal Health: https://www.todaysdietitian.com/newarchives/0519p30.shtml Effect of a Yoghurt Drink Containing Lactobacillus Strains on Bacterial Vaginosis in women: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29065710/ Want More?
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| Dating Red Flags | 09 Jul 2021 | 00:29:09 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode we talk about "those" couples you want to avoid having sex with for the first time ...or ever again. We reveal some "red flags" that may pop up while getting to know them or even after you had sex with them.
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| Is Swinging at Risk? The Political Fight for Non-Monogamy Rights | 05 Mar 2025 | 01:09:12 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals and families. Want More?
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| Sexy Dating Profile Photos | 18 Jun 2021 | 00:44:42 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Looking to boost your profile on any dating site? Take better pictures for your spouse? Get more Instagram followers? We have some tips for you! SHOW NOTES:
References: https://www.brit.co/how-to-pose-for-photos/ https://expertphotography.com/boudoir-poses/ https://www.shootproof.com/blog/boudoir-photo-poses/ - Some great poses Boudoir Photography: Flow Posing
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| Interview with Sexologist Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb | 14 May 2021 | 00:50:40 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Interview with Certified Sex Therapist and Sexuality Coach, Rhoda Lipscomb! We talk about the unspoken Issue of erections challenges in men and orgasming with your swing partner.
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| Scam Dating Sites | 30 Apr 2021 | 00:39:40 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Follow us down the rabbit hole as we expose scam dating sites. Whether you're single or a swinger this episode may just save you a lot of suffering and time on the phone with your credit card company. Listen in as we walk through some great techniques for checking to see if the dating site you're about to sign up with may in fact be a scam. Show Notes:
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| Loud and Proud or Just Plain Rude at a Swinger Party? | 02 Apr 2021 | 00:37:09 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode we respond to a listener email about loud orgasms and squirting at swinger events. Along with some of our tips, pros and cons we threw in a few stories. We want all our listeners to become more comfortable if you're a little vocal in the orgasm department, or you like it when sex gets wetter. Want More?
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| The Three 'C's of Swinging | 05 Mar 2021 | 00:23:06 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com The 3 C's of Swinging: Connecting/Courting, Communicating, and Courtesy. These 3 social elements play a large part in your swinger game whether you are hosting or attending a party. SHOW NOTES:
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| Cunnilingus - Now's Your Chance to be a Smart Mouth | 19 Feb 2021 | 01:01:51 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Well, ladies, this is your episode. Phoebe challenged me to put my money where my mouth is so here it is… The Swinger University guide to Oral Sex for the ladies. Gentleman, get out your pencils and notebooks, it's time to brush up on your licking technique. SHOW NOTES:
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| DTF or FWB - Let's Unpack This! | 29 Jan 2021 | 00:26:07 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode we discuss some of the pros and cons to the two approaches of finding play partners: FWB and DTF.
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| Stamina Expectations and What Can I Do? | 01 Jan 2021 | 00:22:22 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode we discuss a few questions sent to us by a listener about stamina expectations in the lifestyle. It can be a tricky situation, but we've got a few tips to keep your "head" in the game… We address stamina expectations in the lifestyle, how to lengthen your stamina and how to take a break without disrupting the mood.
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| Crossing The Line in The Lifestyle | 11 Dec 2020 | 00:30:46 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come back together after. SHOW NOTES: Why Does It Happen?
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| How To Get A Second Swinger Date | 13 Nov 2020 | 00:30:21 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com How do you get a second swinger date with a couple? We talk about how to reach out to that other couple without sounding desperate or creepy, yet confident! SHOW NOTES:
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| ED, Performance Anxiety & Swinging – The Secrets No One Talks About | 19 Feb 2025 | 00:48:48 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com You're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle. We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the pressure to perform, and how new situations, alcohol, and sensory overload can contribute. More importantly, we share real solutions—from mindset shifts and relaxation techniques to pharmaceutical options and lifestyle changes—to help you stay confident and present in the moment. Whether you're new to swinging or a seasoned pro, this episode is packed with practical tips to overcome ED and enhance your playtime experience. 🔹 Why does performance anxiety happen? Want More?
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| Condoms for your Lifestyle Fun | 23 Oct 2020 | 00:29:23 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Not all condoms are safe for every BODY. We discuss how condoms are different in regards to: additives, chemicals, latex sensitivities, lubricants, flavors, colors, and sharing! Condoms in the lifestyle tend to be plentiful, and sometimes free, but are they right for you! SHOW NOTES:
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| 15 Reasons Swinging is Better than Dating | 09 Oct 2020 | 00:34:34 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Everyone likes to rave about single life, especially after getting out of a long-term relationship. We decided to flip this around and offer 15 reasons why staying together, but swinging is better than a single life.
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| Unveiling Our Resort Research: Temptations & Desire (Maya, Pearl) | 25 Sep 2020 | 00:56:59 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com A review on Swinger Resorts: Temptations, Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl. This review compares and contrasts the differences between the resorts by: demographic, food, entertainment, cost, resort size and percentage of swinger opportunity. SHOW NOTES:
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| The Allure of Masturbation Revealed! | 11 Sep 2020 | 00:45:04 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Masturbation is normal, natural and integral to our health and well-being. This episode covers the importance of masturbation, sharing it with your partner and addressing some of the negative perspectives in society. We also share some interesting stories of masturbation while swinging and historical facts you will find fascinating! SHOW NOTES
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| Find Your Perfect Night Out Look: Top Women's Club Wear Picks! | 28 Aug 2020 | 00:31:10 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Clothes make the swinger... Swingers love to dress up and dress sexy! We discuss the why swingers love it, where to get it, and how to get comfortable wearing nothing but tape or paint! SHOW NOTES:
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| Ladies - More Than Just Your Mouth... Please! | 07 Aug 2020 | 00:54:55 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Learning how to perform fellatio that both people enjoy depends on good communication with your partner, body comfort, education, techniques, an open mind, and enthusiasm! We have combined years of experience, notes, books, research, blogs and chatroom information here for your listening pleasure. Just remember…. A blow job is so much more than just putting it in your mouth. SHOW NOTES
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| Discover the Ultimate Tips to Safeguard Your Swinging Secret! | 24 Jul 2020 | 00:27:36 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com How to keep the secret you are a swinger from your co-workers, friends and family. Lying is impossible to maintain, you're bound to trip up, and there's a better way. We help you come up with an alibi and share our 5 tips on talking about your adventures in swinging without outing yourself. SHOW NOTES:
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| Kissing is SO Good | 10 Jul 2020 | 00:39:41 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com The benefits of kissing…not only is it good for your health, increase connection with your partner, kick things off in the bedroom, it may also help you pick your next swing partner! We cover fun facts, why people kiss and 5 kissing techniques. SHOW NOTES
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| What Is Ethical or Consensual Non-Monogamy? | 26 Jun 2020 | 00:27:17 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Swinging can be defined as non-monogamy, specifically "ethical" or "consensual" non-monogamy. We define all types of non-monogamy and explore the mental hurdles and judgements in the swinging lifestyle due to this label. In addition, we will cover four things you can practice to be successful as a swinger couple in the lifestyle.
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| Jealousy vs. Envy | 12 Jun 2020 | 00:40:28 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Swinging can bring up all kinds of feelings and jealousy and envy are definitely two of them. What is Jealousy? What is Envy? You may find yourself experiencing these emotions in the lifestyle and not know how to interpret or resolve them. Both emotions have positive and negative effects with jealousy having some biological reasons too! Introspection and open, honest communication is key when swinging with your partner in the lifestyle. SHOW NOTES:
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| America’s Sex Ed Problem: Alex Liu Tells All in "A Sexplanation" | 05 Feb 2025 | 01:12:15 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and pleasure can reshape our understanding of intimacy. Episode Links: A Sexplanation Trailer: https://tr.ee/y1QeX_KNhM A Sexplanation Film: https://tr.ee/muGR_SxEep Alex's Links: https://linktr.ee/asexplanation Hera Productions: https://www.herraproductions.com/about A Sexplanation Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Sexplanation Want More?
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| Why Your Lube is SO Important for Your Vaginal Health! | 29 May 2020 | 01:02:07 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Lubes, Lubes, Lubes. Women….which one do you choose? We review all the base type of lubes for your safe swinging pleasure: water, glycerin, silicone, petroleum, and oil. You will learn about the ingredients, pH, and how this plays a VERY important role for the female vagina. Quality ingredients will reduce your STI risk and bacterial vaginosis (BV)! This review should be shared with everyone, not just with your swinger friends! SHOW NOTES:
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| The TRUTH About Safe Sex Practices | 15 May 2020 | 00:27:00 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Practicing safe sex may not be something you have done for awhile but if you are starting out in the swinger lifestyle, or are little rusty on your facts, this is definitely the podcast to listen to. We are covering STIs, HIV, oral sex, and testing. Swingers tend to be big on testing and we are going to break that down for you too. Show Notes Safe Sex In The Swinger Lifestyle
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VIP Testing Services https://viptestingservices.com/services/std-testing-services/ How soon can I take an HIV test? http://i-base.info/guides/testing/how-soon-can-i-take-a-test The Aids Institute https://www.theaidsinstitute.org/education/aids-101/how-do-hiv-tests-work-0 CDC Fact Sheets https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/fact_sheets.htm SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE SURVEILLANCE 2017 https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats17/default.htm HOW DO HIV TESTS WORK? https://www.theaidsinstitute.org/e Want More?
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| Finding the Right Swinger Couple | 01 May 2020 | 00:52:39 | |
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Finding the right fit in the swinging lifestyle can be challenging. Swinging with others involves compatibility, attraction, confidence and preferences. It is very much like dating but waaaaay more complicated. You may have found that the swinging lifestyle can get very challenging to coordinate all four interests at the same time and we hope to provide a bit of insight on the "right fit". SHOW NOTES:
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