Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Spill the Milk Breastfeeding Podcast
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| 💦 I Want to Quit Breastfeeding… But I Don't Want to Quit | Spill the Milk S2E6 | 30 oct. 2026 | 00:27:31 | |
“Sometimes you don't want to quit breastfeeding. You just want breastfeeding to stop being so damn hard.” Have you ever thought about quitting breastfeeding… and then immediately felt guilty because you don't actually WANT to stop? Maybe you're exhausted. Maybe you're overwhelmed. Maybe you're tired of pumping, questioning your supply, or feeling like your entire life revolves around feeding your baby. And maybe you're wondering, “How much longer can I keep doing this?” In this episode of Spill the Milk, we're having one of those conversations moms don't always feel comfortable saying out loud. Because sometimes the answer isn't to push through. Sometimes it's changing the plan. And sometimes it's deciding you're ready to stop. And ALL of those decisions deserve support. 🤍 I'm sharing two recent experiences with moms I helped who needed completely different things. 💦 One mom discovered that combination feeding was actually the answer that allowed her to KEEP breastfeeding. It wasn't what she originally envisioned, but it worked for her. And she told me something that stuck: “There isn't enough combo feeding content.” 💦 Another mom was ready to stop nursing but was feeling tremendous pressure from her family to continue. She didn't need another breastfeeding lecture. She needed somebody to tell her it was okay to stop. We're talking about: 🤍 The difference between wanting to quit breastfeeding and wanting the struggle to stop 🤍 Why combination feeding doesn't mean you've failed at breastfeeding 🤍 The emotional and physical exhaustion of breastfeeding, pumping, and supplementing 🤍 Why changing your feeding goals isn't giving up 🤍 The guilt, pressure, and expectations moms face from family and social media 🤍 Why you can feel relieved about weaning and still grieve breastfeeding 🤍 What real, judgment-free breastfeeding support should look like I've spent more than 20 years helping breastfeeding families, and one thing I know for sure is that there isn't one feeding plan that's right for every mother. I don't want you breastfeeding to prove something to anybody. Your baby needs to be fed. And YOU deserve to be supported. Two moms. Two different decisions. Both deserving of compassion. Let's keep this conversation going! What do YOU actually want from breastfeeding right now? To continue? Change your plan? Combination feed? Stop pumping? Wean? My Patreon Village is where we can have these honest conversations, ask questions, and support each other without judgment. 💦 Join us here: My Go With the Flow Breastfeeding Guide and Journal is here to help you navigate breastfeeding with practical education, realistic expectations, and confidence in YOUR decisions. 📖 Get your copy on Amazon: 🌐 Visit my website: My goal isn't to convince you to breastfeed. That's your decision. My goal is to support your decisions with education and compassion. Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC 🤍 COME JOIN MY PATREON VILLAGE!📖 GO WITH THE FLOW | |||
| 💦 Your Baby Isn't a Newborn Anymore: Breastfeeding Changes at 3–6 Months | 23 oct. 2026 | 00:23:19 | |
Just when you think you've finally figured out breastfeeding… YOUR BABY CHANGES THE RULES! 😂 Your baby used to breastfeed for 20 minutes, and now they're done in five. They used to fall asleep at the breast, and now they're popping off to look at EVERYTHING. They used to nurse every time you offered, and now they're turning away. They were sleeping longer stretches, and suddenly they're waking up at night again. And what happens? Mom starts questioning EVERYTHING. "Nicki, I think my baby is refusing the breast!" "Nicki, are we having a nursing strike?" "Nicki, is my milk supply dropping?" And one of my favorite questions to ask is: "Are they refusing the breast…or are they just not hungry?" Because those are two VERY different things! In this episode of Spill the Milk, we're talking about something I wish more moms understood: Your baby isn't supposed to breastfeed at five months the same way they did at five weeks. Babies grow. They develop. They become more aware of the world around them. And breastfeeding changes right along with them. We're talking about: 💦 Why breastfeeding changes around 3–4 months 💦 Why YOUR BOOBS ARE BORING! 😂 (How are you supposed to compete with a ceiling fan?) 💦 Why shorter, more efficient feeds can be completely normal 💦 Distracted breastfeeding and why your baby suddenly wants to look at EVERYTHING 💦 Breast refusal vs. simply not being hungry 💦 What a true nursing strike can look like 💦 Why your baby may no longer fall asleep after breastfeeding 💦 The four-month sleep regression and why night waking doesn't automatically mean low supply 💦 How your baby's comfort and regulation needs change 💦 Why softer breasts don't automatically mean less milk 💦 When feeding changes are normal—and when I want someone to take a closer look And we're having a bigger conversation about something moms really need to hear. At some point, I need you to start TRUSTING what you've learned about your baby. You've spent months learning their cues, their personality, and what a good feeding looks like. Don't let one new behavior convince you that you've forgotten everything you know. Sometimes breastfeeding isn't falling apart. Sometimes your baby is just growing up. 🤍 And remember, I'm not saying every feeding change should be ignored. Poor milk transfer, concerning diaper output, growth concerns, or persistent breast refusal deserve attention. Different doesn't automatically mean dysfunctional. Come hang out with me on Patreon! My Patreon Village gets early access to episodes, bonus conversations, Q&As, practical resources, behind-the-scenes content, and a community where we can keep talking about what feeding a baby actually looks like in real life. The podcast is where I share the education. Patreon is where we get to hang out a little more. 🤍 💦 Join my Patreon Village: I created my Go With the Flow Breastfeeding Guide and Journal because breastfeeding isn't supposed to look exactly the same from the newborn stage through the first year. Your baby changes. Your breastfeeding relationship changes. And I want you to have a resource to come back to as you navigate those changes. Good information. Practical guidance. More confidence. 📖 Get your copy on Amazon: 🌐 Baby Whisperer Nicki: My goal isn't to convince you to breastfeed. That's your decision. My goal is to support your decisions with education and compassion. Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC 🤍 WANT MORE SPILL THE MILK?📖 GO WITH THE FLOW | |||
| 💦 Breastfeeding Survival Tactics for the First Few Weeks | 09 oct. 2026 | 00:29:58 | |
💦 Breastfeeding Survival Tactics for the First Few Weeks | Spill the Milk Season 2, Episode 4 Those first few weeks of breastfeeding can feel like absolute chaos. You just had a baby. You're recovering. You're exhausted. Your hormones are everywhere. You're trying to figure out this brand-new little human—and meanwhile, everybody has an opinion about what you're supposed to be doing. How often should baby eat? How long should they stay at the breast? Should you wake them? Should you pump? Is your milk “in”? Is the latch good enough? Why do they want to eat AGAIN? Can we please give moms—and babies—a minute? In this episode of Spill the Milk, I'm giving you the breastfeeding survival tactics I wish every new mom knew before she started doubting herself. We're talking about: 💦 Why skin-to-skin shouldn't end after the golden hour I'm also talking about the difference between normal newborn behavior and something that really does deserve assessment. Because “This is normal” should reassure you. It should never silence you when something doesn't feel right. And maybe most importantly: You are not supposed to be perfect at breastfeeding on Day 1. You're learning your baby. Your baby is learning you. You're both going to get better with time and practice. The first few weeks aren't about doing breastfeeding perfectly. They're about learning your baby. 🤍 🎙️ Episode 4 airs Friday, October 9. 🤍 PATREON EARLY ACCESS — OCTOBER 7 Patreon members with early access can listen beginning Wednesday, October 7, before the episode releases publicly on Friday. Patreon members also get bonus conversations, Q&As, practical resources, behind-the-scenes content, and a community where we can keep talking about what feeding a baby actually looks like in real life. The podcast is where I share the education. Patreon is where we get to hang out a little more. 🤍 💦 Join Baby Whisperer Nicki on Patreon: 📖 GO WITH THE FLOW I created my Go With the Flow Breastfeeding Guide and Journal because I don't want you trying to remember everything you've ever been told about breastfeeding while you're exhausted, recovering, and learning your baby. It's a resource you can come back to when you're sitting there at 2 a.m. wondering, “Is this normal?” 📖 Get Go With the Flow: 🌐 Baby Whisperer Nicki: My goal isn't to convince you to breastfeed. That's your decision. My goal is to support your decisions with education and compassion. Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC | |||
| 💦 Who Told You Your Baby Needs a Revision? | 02 oct. 2026 | 00:37:29 | |
Okay, friends… I’m a little spicy in this one. Actually, I’m pretty pissed. 🔥 Tongue-tie revisions have become one of those breastfeeding conversations where I keep asking myself: How did we get here? I’ve been helping breastfeeding families for more than 20 years, and I remember practicing before it seemed like every breastfeeding problem led to somebody looking inside a baby’s mouth for a tie. Now a mom can post online: “My nipples hurt.” And within minutes: “Have you had your baby checked for a tongue-tie?” WHAT?! Nipple pain tells me we need to assess the feeding. It does NOT automatically tell me something in your baby’s mouth needs to be cut. In this episode, we’re talking about the rise in tongue-tie diagnoses and revisions, internet advice, babies being revised before leaving the hospital, repeat procedures, informed consent, potential complications—and something we don’t discuss enough: The baby. How many people need to put their fingers in this baby’s mouth? And because a baby can’t tell us, “Enough,” shouldn’t that make us MORE thoughtful about what we’re doing to their body? I’m also sharing two cases from my own practice that have stayed with me. This episode is NOT anti-frenotomy. Some babies with symptomatic tongue-tie may benefit from one. What I’m against is jumping from: “Breastfeeding isn’t working” → “Your baby needs a revision.” Before we cut anything, I want to know: 💦 Has someone watched an ENTIRE feeding? A visible frenulum is not automatically a feeding problem. Finding a frenulum is not the same thing as finding the cause of the feeding problem. I’m not anti-procedure. I’m pro-assessment, pro-informed consent, and pro-baby. Before we cut anything, ask: What problem are we actually trying to solve? 📖 BEFORE YOU REVISE If a tongue-tie or lip-tie procedure has been recommended for your baby, I created Before You Revise: The Parent’s Checklist Before Saying Yes to a Tongue-Tie or Lip-Tie Procedure to help you understand what should be assessed, what questions to ask, the potential benefits and risks, and when it may be time to slow down and get more information. 📖 Get Before You Revise: 🤍 WANT MORE SPILL THE MILK? Come hang out with me on Patreon for early access, bonus conversations, Q&As, resources, behind-the-scenes content, and our community. The podcast is where I share the education. Patreon is where we get to hang out a little more. 🤍 💦 Patreon: 🌐 https://babywhisperernicki.com 📚 RESOURCES & FURTHER READING American Academy of Pediatrics — 2024 Clinical Report Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine — Position Statement American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry — Frenulum Policy JAMA Otolaryngology — Feeding Evaluation & Frenotomy Rates The New York Times — Inside the Booming Business of Cutting Babies’ Tongues My goal isn’t to convince you to breastfeed. That’s your decision. My goal is to support your decisions with education and compassion. Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC | |||
| 💦 Who Told You Every Breastfeeding Mom Needs to Pump? | 25 sept. 2026 | 00:23:46 | |
Somewhere along the way, the breast pump went from being an incredibly useful tool to something breastfeeding moms started believing they have to use. And I have questions. 😂🔥 Since spending more time talking with moms on social media, I’ve been surprised by how many are nursing their babies and pumping—not because they’re returning to work, separated from their baby, or exclusively pumping, but because they’ve been told they need to pump to “protect their supply.” And every time I hear that, I want to ask: Protect your supply from WHAT? 👀 In this episode of Spill the Milk, we’re talking about the new pumping culture and all the extra work we may be giving breastfeeding moms without ever stopping to ask whether they actually need to do it. We’re getting into: 💦 Why directly breastfeeding your baby can be enough And yes, we need to talk about those freezers packed from top to bottom with breast milk. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being proud of milk you worked hard to collect. But seeing someone else’s freezer stash without knowing the context can quickly turn into another breastfeeding expectation. Suddenly, you’re doing two jobs: You’re feeding your baby AND you’re feeding your freezer. Friends, moms already have enough jobs. I’m not anti-pump. I’m anti-unnecessary work for moms. 🔥 The breast pump is a tool. Sometimes it’s incredibly helpful. Sometimes it’s essential. But it is not a requirement for being a successful breastfeeding mother. So before you add another pumping session, buy another pump, or decide you need another 100 ounces in your freezer, I want you to ask yourself one simple question: WHY am I pumping? Because the plan should match the reason. 🤍 Want more Spill the Milk? Come hang out with me on Patreon! Patreon members can get early access to Spill the Milk episodes, plus bonus conversations, Q&As, practical resources, behind-the-scenes content, and a community where we can keep talking about what feeding a baby actually looks like in real life. The podcast is where I share the education. Patreon is where we get to hang out a little more. 🤍 💦 Join Baby Whisperer Nicki on Patreon: Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC | |||
| Breastfeeding Moms Are Drowning in Information but Starving for Context | 18 sept. 2026 | 00:22:07 | |
Welcome to Season 2 of Spill the Milk. 🥛 And fair warning—you may notice I'm a little spicier this season. After more than 20 years of working with moms and babies, I've become pretty protective of you and your feeding goals. I'm not here to convince you to breastfeed. I'm here to help you understand what's happening, make informed decisions, and fight for the feeding experience you want. And sometimes that means I have a few things to say. 😉 We're starting Season 2 with something I see all the time: moms who are terrified they aren't making enough milk. We have more breastfeeding information available to us than ever before. We can track ounces, minutes, feeds, diapers, sleep, pump output, freezer stashes, weight, and just about everything else. Then we open social media and see another mom pumping eight ounces, a freezer overflowing with breast milk, or a baby following a picture-perfect feeding schedule. But here's the problem: You're seeing the data. You're not seeing the context. In this episode, we're talking about supply anxiety, pump output, unrealistic expectations, conflicting breastfeeding advice, social media comparison, and why one number—or one TikTok—cannot tell you the whole story of a breastfeeding relationship. Sometimes we need to stop staring at one feed, one pump session, or one number and zoom out. How is your baby doing? Your baby is an individual. So are you. Let's look at the whole picture. 🥛 Spill the Milk with Baby Whisperer Nicki | |||
| Stop Saying this to Breastfeeding Moms | 29 juin 2026 | 00:19:43 | |
What if some of the most common breastfeeding advice isn't helping moms at all? In this episode, we're talking about the things we need to stop telling breastfeeding mothers. From "feed 8–12 times a day" and "don't feed your baby to sleep," to "pump to see how much milk you have" and "just push through the pain," we're taking a closer look at where these messages come from, why they can be misleading, and what evidence and normal infant behavior actually tell us. We'll cover topics like:
My goal isn't to shame parents or healthcare providers—it's to replace fear and rigid rules with practical, evidence-based information that helps you better understand your baby and trust your instincts. Whether you're expecting your first baby, currently breastfeeding, or supporting a breastfeeding family, this episode will help you separate breastfeeding facts from breastfeeding myths. Connect with me: If you enjoyed this episode, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with another parent who could use evidence-based breastfeeding support. | |||
| Unfiltered & Raw: The Breastfeeding Advice I’m Calling Bullshit On Moms Aren’t Failing. The Advice Is. | 30 mars 2026 | 00:29:40 | |
Moms Aren’t Failing. The Advice Is. Let’s be honest — a lot of breastfeeding advice out there is just plain wrong. In this unfiltered, no-sugarcoating episode, I’m calling out the most common advice that leaves moms overwhelmed, confused, and questioning their bodies. From “feed every 3 hours” to “your baby should only nurse for 20 minutes” — we’re breaking down what’s actually happening and why this kind of guidance sets moms up to struggle. After 20+ years as an IBCLC, I can tell you this with confidence: This episode is raw, honest, and yes… a little spicy. If you’ve ever felt like breastfeeding “just didn’t work,” this one’s for you. You’re not broken. For all my breastfeeding help visit my website | |||
| Who told you that? Let’s Talk About the Advice Moms Never Question (But Should) | 09 mars 2026 | 00:11:38 | |
New parents receive breastfeeding advice everywhere — from the hospital, family members, social media, and even well-meaning professionals. The problem? Much of that advice is given without anyone actually watching the baby feed. In this episode, Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC, breaks down some of the most common breastfeeding advice parents hear and explains why so many of these rules create more stress than solutions. We talk about:
Breastfeeding isn’t about rigid rules or watching the clock — it’s about understanding your baby, milk transfer, and feeding patterns. If you’ve ever followed advice and thought, “Why does breastfeeding suddenly feel harder?” this episode will help you understand why — and what actually matters instead. Visit my links below for more Website Virtual Events Find everything HERE | |||
| “Pumping Isn’t the First Step (Breastfeeding Is)” | 03 févr. 2026 | 00:09:49 | |
This episode is for pregnant moms who are already worried about pumping and returning to work. Let me be clear right from the start: But this episode is specifically for those of you who plan to breastfeed and know pumping will eventually be part of your journey—most often because you’ll be returning to work. And let’s also clear this up: not everyone needs to pump. In this episode, I break down why pumping works best when breastfeeding has a strong foundation first—and why trying to “prepare for pumping” without understanding breastfeeding often leads to unnecessary stress, disappointment, and confusion. We talk about:
If pumping has been weighing on your mind already, this episode will help you reset, refocus, and prepare in a way that actually supports your body and your goals. The Breast Start – Breastfeeding Class (During Pregnancy) Responsive Pumping Class (After Birth) 🌐 Website: | |||
| Before You Hire a Lactation Consultant, Listen to This | 22 déc. 2025 | 00:22:09 | |
Not all lactation consultants practice the same—and choosing the wrong support can make breastfeeding feel harder than it ever needed to be. In this episode of Spill the Milk, I walk parents through the exact questions to ask when choosing a lactation consultant—before you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or doubting yourself. We talk about credentials, experience, how many babies a consultant has actually seen, what ages they work with, how they teach latch, growth charts, timed feeds, triple feeding plans, tools like nipple shields, tongue-tie referrals, follow-up care, and the red flags that matter. This episode isn’t about finding “perfect” breastfeeding. If you’re pregnant, newly postpartum, pumping, combo feeding, or feeling unsure about the help you’re getting, this episode is for you. You don’t have to figure this out alone.
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| Your Milk Isn’t the Problem — The Advice Is. | 01 déc. 2025 | 00:18:51 | |
Are you feeling like your body is failing because breastfeeding isn’t going “how it’s supposed to”? We’ll talk about:
If you’ve ever been told your milk isn’t enough, your baby eats too often, or you’re creating bad habits by responding to your baby… this one’s for you. You deserve real talk, evidence-based support, and zero shame. Work with me & stay connected: 🌐 Website: www.babywhisperernicki.com | |||
| “Why Am I Not Okay? Postpartum Depression & Anxiety with Linda Perry, PMHNP-BC, CNM” | 24 nov. 2025 | 00:43:09 | |
I’m Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC — an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant with 20 years supporting breastfeeding families — and today we’re tackling something far too many new moms suffer through silently: postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety. Society tells moms to “enjoy every moment.” Meanwhile, inside, they’re overwhelmed, terrified, and ashamed to say they’re not okay. This episode is here to cut through that silence. I’m joined by Linda Perry, MSN, PMHNP-BC, CNM — a dual-certified Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurse Practitioner and Certified Nurse Midwife. Linda started her career delivering babies and later shifted into perinatal psychiatry when she saw firsthand how deeply mental health shapes recovery, bonding, and breastfeeding. Together, we break down:
We also talk honestly about three supplements Linda uses often — L-theanine, Lion’s Mane, and Lavela — what the evidence says, where the gaps are, and why no supplement should replace real mental-health care when a mom is suffering. If you’re listening with a lump in your throat or tears in your eyes because this sounds like you — you are not broken. You deserve support just as much as your baby does. You don’t need to wait until it becomes unbearable to ask for help. 📌 Postpartum Support International (PSI) — 1-800-944-4773 📌 National Maternal Mental Health Hotline (24/7) — 1-833-TLC-MAMA If you’re having thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, go to the nearest emergency department or call emergency services immediately. Your safety matters. 🌐 Website — www.SensiblePsychMeds.com 🎙 Podcast — Spill the Milk Support & Crisis ResourcesConnect with LindaConnect with Nicki (The Babywhisperer) | |||
| Weaning Without Tears: A Gentle Guide to Ending Breastfeeding on Your Terms | 17 nov. 2025 | 00:07:55 | |
Weaning isn’t just the end of breastfeeding — it’s the beginning of a new chapter. In this episode of Spill the Milk, we break down weaning with honesty, compassion, and real-world guidance — whether you’re weaning a baby, a toddler, or somewhere in between. We’ll talk about:
You’ll also hear two real stories: Whether you’re thinking about weaning, already in the thick of it, or simply want to feel less alone… this episode is the supportive hug you deserve. 🔗 Support, community, and weekly breastfeeding content are on my Patreon: Because breastfeeding is love — and weaning is love too. 💛 | |||
| 🎙 “Why Sleep Training Doesn’t Work for Breastfed Babies” | 10 nov. 2025 | 00:10:54 | |
In this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki Davis, BSN, RN, IBCLC, breaks down why traditional sleep training doesn’t fit the biology of breastfed babies. She explains how breast milk digests nearly twice as fast as formula, why feeding on demand protects both your supply and your baby’s growth, and how scheduled feeds can backfire — leading to low supply, slow weight gain, and missed hunger cues. Nicki also shares simple, realistic alternatives to sleep training that protect your milk production and your mental health, including how to handle night feeds, read your baby’s cues, and find balance without sacrificing rest. If you’ve ever been told to “stretch the feeds” or “drop nights,” this episode will help you understand exactly why that advice doesn’t support breastfeeding success. 💛 Join my private community for exclusive support and weekly stories: patreon.com/BabyWhisperer | |||
| Do Babies Really Need Dairy at 12 Months? CMPA, Cow’s Milk, and the Truth Behind the “Got Milk” Myth | 03 nov. 2025 | 00:36:35 | |
n this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki Davis, RN, BSN, IBCLC, sits down with pediatric nurse practitioner Emily to break down one of the most confusing and over-diagnosed issues in infancy — CMPA (cow’s milk protein allergy) — and the pressure parents feel to start cow’s milk at 12 months. They unpack what CMPA actually is, how it’s diagnosed (and who can diagnose it), and what symptoms are real versus what’s actually normal baby behavior. Nicki and Emily also discuss why not every case of blood in baby’s stool equals CMPA, the importance of serial testing, and how over-labeling babies can lead to unnecessary worry and restrictions. Then they shift gears to talk about the big 12-month question: Does your baby actually need cow’s milk? Learn where this recommendation even came from — yes, the “Got Milk” campaign had a lot to do with it — how too much dairy can contribute to anemia, and what healthy alternatives exist for parents who choose not to serve cow’s milk in a cup or bottle. This episode is a reality check for parents who just want the facts without the fluff. To schedule a virtual consultation, find classes, locate me on social media, or find some of my discount codes click here | |||
| New Perk for my Patreon Community | 28 oct. 2025 | 00:01:47 | |
Hi everyone! I’m so excited to share a brand-new perk that’s now available exclusively for my Liquid Gold and Village Circle members. Starting this week, I’ll be posting Consultation Story Reviews every Wednesday — real stories from moms I’ve had the privilege to work with during their breastfeeding journeys. Click here to be taken to my Patreon Page | |||
| Tongue, Cheek & Lip Tie Revisions: Let’s Get Real | 27 oct. 2025 | 00:14:33 | |
Episode: Tongue, Cheek & Lip Tie Revisions: Let’s Get Real In this episode, I break down what’s really going on with tongue-tie, lip-tie and cheek-tie revisions — what the evidence shows, what I’ve seen in 20+ years as an IBCLC, and how you can help the baby-parent dyad thrive without rushing to surgery. We dig deep into latch, milk transfer, supply, timing and the decision-making process. Real feeding support takes time and patience. Cutting a tie is not the “fix” in most cases. Prioritize function first. To find all of my resources including my Patreon community, discount codes, classes, and virtual consultations Click HERE | |||
| 🎙️ Episode 10: Cluster Feeding Chaos — Why Your Baby Wants to Nurse All. The. Time. | 20 oct. 2025 | 00:10:44 | |
In this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki, RN, IBCLC — also known as The Babywhisperer — gets real about one of the most exhausting (and misunderstood) parts of early breastfeeding: cluster feeding. If your baby’s nursing every 45 minutes and you’re questioning your milk supply, this one’s for you. Nicki breaks down what’s actually happening during both day and night cluster feeding, why your baby’s doing it, and how it’s actually a brilliant biological design — not a sign something’s wrong. She tackles the biggest myths that cause moms to doubt themselves, shares practical survival tips, and reminds you that your baby isn’t broken — and neither are you. Because sometimes, your baby isn’t trying to drain you… they’re just building your milk supply for tomorrow. Click here for ways to join me on Patreon, schedule virtual consultations, discount codes, classes, and more | |||
| 🎙️ Breastfeeding and Bottle Feeding: The Give vs. Take of Feeding | 13 oct. 2025 | 00:13:44 | |
n this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki Davis, RN, IBCLC, dives into the give-and-take of feeding — literally! When we’re breastfeeding, our babies take the breast, leading the way and feeding by instinct. But when we give a bottle, the rhythm changes — and that’s where pacing becomes so important. Nicki shares how to recognize your baby’s cues, prevent overfeeding, and understand how breast milk changes as your baby grows. It’s all about finding that sweet balance where feeding feels responsive, connected, and right for both of you. 💕 Click here for more information and several ways to connect | |||
| “Milk with a Mission: Breastfeeding & Cancer Prevention” | 06 oct. 2025 | 00:08:26 | |
In this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki shares how breastfeeding protects more than just your baby — it protects you. 💞 Learn how every month of breastfeeding can lower your risk of breast and ovarian cancer, and why this connection deserves the spotlight during Breast Cancer Awareness Month 🎗️🎀. Through real talk, stats, and stories, Nicki reminds moms that the benefits of breastfeeding go both ways — because when you nourish your baby, you’re also nourishing your health. 💗 For more resources including my Patreon page and virtual consultations click here | |||
| "From Boobs to Broccoli" | 29 sept. 2025 | 00:08:07 | |
In this episode of Spill the Milk, we’re talking all about the exciting transition from exclusive breastfeeding to starting solids—what I like to call “From Boob to Broccoli.” We’ll cover what breastfeeding typically looks like at 6 months, including quick daytime feeds, more frequent night feeds, and how to adjust as your baby grows and becomes more distracted. Then we’ll dive into Baby-Led Weaning—what it is, the benefits for babies and families, and how it can make mealtimes fun and empowering. I’ll also share practical tips for getting started, address common concerns about gagging and choking, and highlight tools like the Solid Starts app to guide you along the way. Whether you’re exclusively breastfeeding, combo feeding, or figuring out your next step, this episode will give you confidence and encouragement as you and your baby move from boob to broccoli—together. Click here to join my Patreon Community and tons of resources | |||
| Pumps, Bottles & Balance: Returning to Work While Breastfeeding | 22 sept. 2025 | 00:15:54 | |
In this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki, a board-certified lactation consultant, dives into the challenges many breastfeeding mothers face when preparing to return to work. From knowing when to start pumping to understanding how much milk your baby truly needs, Nicki breaks down the process into manageable steps. She shares practical strategies for building a manageable stash, practicing bottle feeding, and easing the transition for both mom and baby. You’ll also hear tips on pumping techniques, managing workplace logistics, and reducing the anxiety that often comes with this big milestone. Whether you’re weeks or months away from heading back, this episode will give you the confidence and tools to balance breastfeeding and working. Click here to be taken to my links including the one for The Responsive Pumping Class | |||
| Understanding Baby Weight Gain: Insights from a Lactation Consultant | 15 sept. 2025 | 00:23:03 | |
In this episode, Nicki, a registered nurse and lactation consultant, discusses the critical aspects of weight gain assessments for babies, particularly focusing on discharge weight, the impact of different scales, and the importance of accurate measurements. She emphasizes the significance of understanding weight loss percentages and the common misconceptions surrounding baby weight gain. Nicki provides practical advice for mothers on how to assess their baby's weight accurately and the expectations for weight gain in the early weeks of life.Takeaways
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| The Good Stuff you need to know about breastfeeding | 08 sept. 2025 | 00:24:45 | |
In this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki, a board-certified lactation consultant, shares essential insights for breastfeeding mothers. She emphasizes the mental challenges of breastfeeding, the importance of feeding on demand, and the myths surrounding milk supply and pumping. Nicki also discusses how to recognize when a baby is full and the critical role of latch in successful breastfeeding. The episode aims to equip new mothers with the knowledge they need to navigate their breastfeeding journey confidently. Find my classes and virtual consults here | |||
| Breastfeeding and The "Freezer Stash" Craze | 01 sept. 2025 | 00:16:46 | |
In Season 1 Episode 3, Nicki, a board-certified lactation consultant, discusses the growing trend of creating a freezer stash of breast milk among new mothers. She emphasizes the importance of understanding milk production and regulation, arguing that many mothers are overcomplicating their breastfeeding experience by focusing on pumping and storing milk. Nicki encourages mothers to trust their bodies and enjoy their breastfeeding journey without the added stress of maintaining a freezer stash, which can lead to anxiety and potential health risks such as oversupply and clogged ducts. Find all my helpful links right here (virtual consultations, classes, discount codes) | |||
| The 4 Types of Breastmilk Supply | 25 août 2025 | 00:16:07 | |
Summary In this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicki, a board-certified lactation consultant, discusses the various types of milk supply that breastfeeding mothers may experience. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the differences between low supply, right amount, oversupply, and perceived low supply, and provides practical advice for mothers to navigate these challenges. The conversation highlights the role of education, support, and self-awareness in breastfeeding success, while addressing common misconceptions and the emotional aspects of breastfeeding. Visit my website here www.babywhisperernicki.com Go to my Patreon page here Patreon Find Discounts and social media links click here Linktree | |||
| Trust and the Breastfeeding Relationship | 19 août 2025 | 00:26:50 | |
In this inaugural episode of the podcast, Nicki, known as the Baby Whisperer, shares her extensive experience as a lactation consultant and nurse. She emphasizes the importance of education, support, and trust in the breastfeeding journey. Nicki discusses common misconceptions about breastfeeding, the role of lactation consultants, and the science behind milk production. She aims to empower new moms by validating their experiences and providing them with the knowledge they need to navigate breastfeeding successfully. | |||