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| Ep. 250 Season Finale: How Will You Arise? | 31 Mar 2026 | 00:33:34 | |
This season finale is both a closing and a calling. In this episode, I share that I will be stepping away for a while, and we center our hearts again on what God has been speaking all along: we are called to arise. Not by doing more, striving more, or filling our lives with busyness, but by finally becoming who He has already called us to be. Sometimes, the way forward begins by stopping. We stop the noise, the pressure, and the constant doing, so we can step into simply being, by God's grace. I also answer three important questions from wives: This episode will leave you grounded, refocused, and reminded that your transformation is not earned through effort—but received through surrender. As this season comes to a close, let this be your reminder: Stop to Start. End to Begin. Arise.
Note: See Episode 249 on YouTube called: The Cost and Blessings for Being a Biblical Wife! https://youtu.be/MlVOjC2qEsg
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| Ep. 248 Staying Aligned With God in a Busy Life | 16 Mar 2026 | 00:28:16 | |
In this episode, you'll learn how to stay in agreement with God in every area of your life. We dive into Numbers 25 and explore God's perspective on wholehearted devotion and staying focused on Him. From there, we talk about what it practically looks like to remain aligned with God each day.... even in a life that feels full of tasks, responsibilities, and constant busyness. Join the Wife Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall
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| Ep 247 (PART TWO) Answering 7 Questions from Wives | 17 Feb 2026 | 01:14:54 | |
This is a two-part episode. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven honest questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for real-life challenges in marriage. Questions about: Husband not leading and not good with spending; Not feeling close to your husband after pregnancy; Wanting to leave after adultery; Husband having prior sex experiences before marriage; When is the next retreat; and accepting your husband back after separation; submission questions. Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband
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| Ep. 246 (PART ONE) God First, Not Tasks... and... Praying For Your Enemies | 17 Feb 2026 | 00:30:15 | |
This is a two-part episode designed to strengthen your faith and give practical guidance for your walk with God. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven vulnerable questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for real-life challenges in marriage. Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband
3 Ways How to Become a Submissive Wife https://youtu.be/LsV8XTBFw_g?si=_p0My6iw1b-dZKeT
Join the Free Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall
Spiritual Power of Sleep https://youtu.be/FOIXCvJvz_4?si=pOSLJBAML9V2wG3I
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| Ep. 245 Should I Get a Divorce? Needed Steps in a Hard Marriage | 02 Feb 2026 | 00:41:54 | |
In this episode, we answer a candid sex question from a wife and share a few laughs about arising in both comfort and confidence—embracing femininity and sex appeal without overthinking it. We then turn to the often-misunderstood story of Job's wife, a woman with a poor reputation whose words are frequently judged without grace. Together, we explore what it looks like to extend compassion instead of condemnation, especially when our husband is difficult to understand or walk with. This episode encourages wives to honor God, resist the temptation to give up too quickly, and learn how to endure marriage with faith—even in the hardest seasons.
Videos on having an Ungodly Husband: ➡️Should you submit to an "ungodly" husband?
➡️Submit???… But what if I don't agree?!?
➡️How to Submit to An Ungodly Husband (Part 1)
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| Ep. 244 You Get To Decide | 19 Jan 2026 | 00:33:32 | |
Today, we are stepping out of the shadows where life dictates our emotions and choosing to arise in truth. This episode is about understanding the power God has given us to decide—how we think, how we respond, and how we live. Don't remain in a prison of your own making. Freedom begins with a decision. Choose to think better, live freer, and see life through a renewed mind.
Videos on having an Ungodly Husband: ➡️Should you submit to an "ungodly" husband?
➡️Submit???… But what if I don't agree?!?
➡️How to Submit to An Ungodly Husband (Part 1)
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| Ep 243 Arise to be His WIFE | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:30:40 | |
Today's episode calls us to arise as wise wives, not mothers to our husbands. Our husbands don't need a second mom, and many of us slip into that role without realizing it. We'll talk about how to identify motherly behaviors in marriage, why they hinder change, and practical ways to shift back into a healthy, God-honoring wifely posture. Download the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram
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| Ep 242 Arise... Time to Fast | 03 Jan 2026 | 00:16:24 | |
This is going to be a year that we ARISE! On January 5, we are starting off the year with a 21-day fast. Let's talk about the details!
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| Ep 241 Faith in Reality | Question 16 & 17 | 29 Dec 2025 | 00:44:57 | |
In this episode, we talk about what may be blocking our ability to hear from God clearly. We also answer two powerful questions from wives: • One wife asks how to hold on to hope and faith while separated from her husband. Together, we'll unpack these questions with wisdom, biblical perspective, and encouragement.
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| Ep 240 To Lose is Gain | 15 Dec 2025 | 00:29:27 | |
Let's go to the Bible and talk about losing it all to gain it all. The Lord is our refuge and tower. He wants to be our main point of help and answers. We need Him more than anything.
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| Ep 239 Marriage Went As Unexpected | Question 15 | 08 Dec 2025 | 00:40:52 | |
Have you ever prayed for an answer only to have God respond in a way you didn't expect? Have you ever asked Him for help and felt like the guidance you received wasn't direct, simple, or easy to grasp? In this episode, we're talking about those moments—the unexpected turns in life and marriage—and how to recognize God's blessing even when it doesn't look like what you imagined. If you're feeling discouraged, disappointed, or even tempted to walk away because your husband isn't the godly man you hoped or expected him to be, this episode is for you. Lean in, be encouraged, and discover how God may be working in ways you haven't seen yet. Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram
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| Ep. 238 Spiritually Mismatched Marriage | Question 14 | 24 Nov 2025 | 00:42:49 | |
What happens when you're passionately pursuing Jesus, but your husband isn't walking at the same pace? In this episode, we talk about navigating a spiritually mismatched marriage with grace — encouraging your husband without nagging, trusting God's timing, and building unity even when your paths look different. Find practical wisdom, biblical strength, and renewed hope as you believe God is still writing your family's story. Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram
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| Ep. 237 Question on Oral Sex & Nudity | Q's 12 & 13 | 17 Nov 2025 | 00:32:02 | |
WARNING... Mature audience ONLY! This email came in asking a very detailed question on the topic of oral sex and where it is in the Bible. As you know, this is a God-centered podcast that is not scared of all topics. We stay holy, transparent, humble, and honest with all topics for the focus of marriages that glorify God. Let's Grow! Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram
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| Ep. 236 Work vs Stay Home + Communication | Question 11 | 09 Nov 2025 | 00:18:40 | |
Should a wife get a part-time job to help out, or should a husband get more work? Let's talk about it!
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| Ep. 235 Gods View of Husband as Provider | Question 9 and 10 | 03 Nov 2025 | 01:29:50 | |
Let's discuss this hot topic on what the role of provider looks like in a marriage, based on God's perspective! Take some time to listen all the way out. Don't listen with flesh, listen by the Spirit. Here we GROW! We will open with Scripture encouragement and then dive into the questions! 11:40 - Questions read 57:14 - Sermon from a male perscpective on husband providing
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| Ep. 234 Spiritual Warfare and Porn | Question 8 | 27 Oct 2025 | 01:01:35 | |
In this episode, we are getting powered up to take down every demonic force coming against our marriage! It is time to activate spiritual maturity and truth. We are also addressing how to confront the issue of porn in your marriage, addressing feeling intimidated, where to start if your husband is watching porn, and the spiritual aspects of it all. Buckle up and press play! Here we GROW!
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| Ep. 233 How To Find a New Church | Question 7 | 20 Oct 2025 | 00:30:25 | |
Are you feeling that you need to go to a new church for a new start in your life? Or have you been gone a while and now want to go back to church again? Maybe you have never attended a church before and want to know how to find one? If any of these apply, this episode is for you! We will discuss where to find a new church, how to identify the right one, and what to do before the search even begins! I even share a little about my own personal journey.
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| Ep 232 Getting in The Mood For Sex | Question 6 | 13 Oct 2025 | 00:36:30 | |
In this episode of the Spiced Wife Podcast, we're diving into the talk about getting in the mood for sex, and I'm sure it's not what you think. It's amazing to feel sexy and confident—but what happens when life gets hectic, and that feeling just isn't there? How do you navigate those seasons without letting intimacy become a chore or an obligation in your marriage? Let's talk about practical ways to reconnect with your desire. Tune in—you don't want to miss this.
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| Ep 231 How to Save The Marriage When Husband Wants a Divorce | Question 5 | 06 Oct 2025 | 00:55:29 | |
In this heartfelt episode, I'm responding to a question from a wife who's fighting for her marriage while her husband is ready to walk away. We'll explore what Scripture has to say about this difficult situation, turning to Romans 12 for guidance on love, patience, and perseverance, and 1 Corinthians 7 for wisdom on marriage and separation. If you've ever felt alone in wanting to save your relationship, this episode is for you. There is hope, even in the tension—and God's Word has something to say about it... Also, let's join together in prayer at the close!
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| Ep. 230 When Friends Disrespect Your Marriage | Question 4 | 29 Sep 2025 | 00:50:21 | |
In this episode, I answer a question from a wife who is fed up with her husband's friends' wives being extremely inappropriate towards her husband and disrespectful towards her. Take a listen and share in the comments what you would do in this situation?
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| Ep 229 When Your Husband Does Not Obey God | Question 3 | 22 Sep 2025 | 00:35:23 | |
In this episode, I answer a heartfelt question from a wife whose husband believes in God but chooses not to follow Him. She is feeling weary, frustrated, and in need of encouragement to remain faithful to the Lord. If you've ever felt the same, this episode will lift your spirit and remind you of the strength found in God's truth. You'll learn how to keep pressing forward, what prayers to speak over your husband, and how to stand firm in faith this week.
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| Ep. 228 Married To An Unbeliever... Do I stay? Do I submit? | Question 2 | 15 Sep 2025 | 00:42:29 | |
In this episode, I'm answering question number two from a wife who shares a very difficult situation. She married while living in the world, but five years into her marriage, she gave her life to Christ. Since then, her husband has not only refused to convert, but he mocks her faith and argues with her about not living in sin with him anymore. On top of that, he has been unfaithful multiple times and continues to use drugs. Her question is: Should she stay in the marriage, and if she does, is she still called to submit to his unholy requests?
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| Ep 227 When Marriage Feels Like a Mistake | Choosing Your Spouse Over Family (Question 1) | 08 Sep 2025 | 00:53:29 | |
Have you ever wondered if you made the wrong choice in marriage? Or felt the pain of a spouse who seems to dislike your family or maybe prioritize their parents and family over you? In this episode, we're diving into the real struggles a wife faces when doubt creeps in and when family comes between the marriage covenant. Together, we'll explore God's design for marriage, practical ways to know the voices in your mind, and how to encourage your spouse toward healthy change without nagging or resentment. This is a convictly raw yet truth and hope-filled conversation that will remind you that with God's guidance, your marriage can grow stronger, even in the toughest seasons.
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| Ep 226: Marriage Longevity Comes From the Secret Place | Strengthening Your Faith and Marriage | 01 Sep 2025 | 00:25:54 | |
It's a brand-new season of Spiced Wife! This season, we're diving deep into your real questions about faith, marriage, intimacy, and womanhood—so be sure to send your questions to info@spicedwife.com to have them answered on the show. Before we jump into the Q&A episodes, this show sets the tone by pointing us back to the most important place for every wife and every marriage: the secret place of God. In this episode, Ashlyn shares why the secret place is the source of strength, guidance, and renewal for your life and marriage as well as how to access the secret place. If you want to grow, press forward, and build a godly, lasting relationship, it all begins with time spent with God!
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| Ep. 225 My Battle With Darkness & Keeping Faith | Season Finale.... (Ch. 8) | 24 Mar 2025 | 01:04:44 | |
Today, Ashlyn opens up about her personal struggles with darkness and the unwavering faith that has carried her through. In this final episode of Season 8, we also wrap up our book club discussion on I Surrender All by Priscilla Shirer, with a deep dive into Chapter 8, which affirms our purpose and identity on earth. With raw honesty and empowering truth, Ashlyn offers encouragement to help you finish this season with the strength and clarity needed to fully surrender and stay strong in your journey. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App:
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| Ep. 224 Overcome Feeling Unquailifed.... (Ch 7) | 17 Mar 2025 | 00:30:20 | |
Join us as we dive back into our book club series with Chapter 7 of I Surrender All. In this episode, we explore the challenges of feeling unqualified to boldly embrace our transformation and fulfill the purpose God has set before us. No matter your past, today's discussion will empower you with the courage to step into your calling as a disciple who makes disciples. Tune in for inspiration and a renewed sense of purpose! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App:
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| Ep. 223 Have You Been Honest With Yourself?... (Last Pause) | 10 Mar 2025 | 00:41:02 | |
In this final pause of our book club reading, we're diving deep into the essential role of honesty in the journey of surrender. In today's episode, we'll explore Scripture to uncover the power of self-honesty and discuss practical steps for embracing it in our lives. Join in as we reflect on the importance of being true in the process of spiritual growth and surrender. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App:
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| Ep. 222 Stop Worrying and Stop Condeming Yourself | 03 Mar 2025 | 00:36:36 | |
In this episode, we discuss HOW to stop worrying and stop condemning yourself. Get your Bibles and let's grow! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App:
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| Ep. 221 Embracing Suffering... (Let's Pause) | 24 Feb 2025 | 00:54:11 | |
Let's pause our reading of I Surrender All book club for a moment and learn how to embrace suffering. This is the mentoring that is needed to keep us strong and focused. This is an episode that pulls us up to spiritual maturity and accountability. Grab your Bible, prepare your heart for some loving but hard truths, and let's navigate this journey of growth and freedom together. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App:
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| Ep. 220 Polished Suffering.... (Ch 6) | 17 Feb 2025 | 00:37:15 | |
In this episode, we explore the challenging reality of suffering as a Christian woman and wife. While social media often paints a picture of a smooth, easy life, the truth is that following Jesus means facing hardships. We can't avoid suffering, but we can support each other through it. Join in as we dive into honest conversation, offering encouragement and sisterhood for the journey. Grab your I Surrender All book and your Bible, and let's walk through this together. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App:
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| Ep. 219 When The Thrill Is Gone...(Ch. 5) | 10 Feb 2025 | 00:42:17 | |
Has the thrill of your marriage become a thing of the past? This episode takes a deep dive into the heart of marriage while tying in the powerful lessons from Chapter 5 of I Surrender All. What happens when passion fades, and love shifts from delight to duty? We often recognize this in our marriages, but do we also see it in our relationship with God? Are we simply going through the motions in marriage and faith? Join Ashlyn as we reflect on the profound insights from this chapter, including a transparent look into what to do when marriage has lost it's thrill. Grab your book, your journal, and let's get into it!
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| Ep. 218 All You're Becoming (Ch. 4) | 03 Feb 2025 | 00:29:36 | |
Who are you becoming as you surrender everything to Jesus? In today's episode, we dive into Chapter 4 of I Surrender All and explore what it means to surrender the process of becoming—especially in the midst of daily needs, wants, pressures, and desires. As disciples, our ultimate purpose is to glorify God, yet so many distractions tempt us to seek glory for ourselves. Join Ashlyn as she shares her journey of overcoming self-glory and learning to desire only God's glory. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on trust, transformation, and wholehearted surrender!
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| Ep. 217 Identity Check (Chp. 3) | 27 Jan 2025 | 00:35:37 | |
Chapter 3 of I Surrender All gives us an identity check! If you knew who you were in Christ, you would not let people or situations get to you. If you believed who you were in Christ, you would not feel guilty and ashamed of your old life of mistakes. Let us surrender what we think gives us an identity and trade it in for the identity of Christ!
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| Ep. 216 How to Surrender All to Jesus (Chp. 2) | 20 Jan 2025 | 00:42:37 | |
As we continue the Surrendered Wife series and read the I Surrender All book, we can't help but take a deeper look into what Jesus says surrendering is and ask ourselves how we can do this in a modern world. Get your Bibles, let's dive in!
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| Ep. 215 Everything You Have For Jesus (Chp 1) | 13 Jan 2025 | 00:53:19 | |
What does giving everything you have to be a follower of Jesus look like? Peter left his boat right away when he realized who Jesus actually was. What are we willing to leave behind when we understand who Jesus is? Let's talk about it! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App:
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| Ep. 214 I Surrender All Book Introduction Recap | 06 Jan 2025 | 00:46:58 | |
The book club has begun! We are kicking off the introduction to "I Surrender All," let's recap!
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| Ep. 213 The Trap of the Devil | 30 Dec 2024 | 00:49:43 | |
In closing out 2024, let's discuss how to identify and escape the devil's trap so that our days ahead are met with freedom and truth! God wants us to excel in all we do, for His glory, so we must take a moment to learn what could be working against us.
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| Ep. 212 Are You Representing? | 23 Dec 2024 | 00:39:01 | |
Continuing the Surrendered Wife Series, we are wrapping up our focus on Colossians 3. Today's focus is on verses 17-19. We are also answering a wife's submitted question regarding the difference in spending habits between her and her husband.
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| Ep. 211 What is Ruling Your Heart | 16 Dec 2024 | 00:27:22 | |
Continuing the Surrendered Wife Series, we are taking a very transparent dive into what has control of our hearts and realizing the power we have to make a change. Our discussion today is coming from Col. 3:15-16, NLT.
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| Ep. 210 The Softer Side of Wife | 09 Dec 2024 | 00:39:44 | |
Today Ashlyn opens with some insight on being a bit softer as a wife and then heads into answering two listener questions: 1- Should I submit to my husband's travel requests? 2- I feel so spiritually empty in my marriage, what do I do?
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| Ep. 209 What Are You Wearing to the Marriage? | 02 Dec 2024 | 00:31:12 | |
Continuing the Surrendered Wife series, we delve deeper into walking closely with God by embracing the call to obedience outlined in Scripture—living as true followers of Jesus Christ. In this episode, we focus on Colossians 3:12-14, exploring what it means to be a wife whose identity and actions are rooted in her relationship with Christ. Together, we break down these verses to understand how to embody the virtues of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and love, aligning our lives with God's design.
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| Ep. 208 "I Think I Hate My Marriage" | 25 Nov 2024 | 00:46:07 | |
As we continue with the Surrendered Wife series, we are taking a deep dive into what it feels like to be a wife seeking to please God but married to a husband who is not doing the same thing. Many wives have written into the show with very serious concerns, some even feeling like they may hate their marriage, but they want to surrender it to God. Let's dive in!
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| Ep. 207 We All Just Want to Be Happy | 18 Nov 2024 | 00:45:49 | |
Many women long to feel truly happy in their lives and marriages—a desire that's both natural and beautiful. Do you find yourself yearning for deeper happiness, joy, or fulfillment? If so, this episode is a must-listen! In this installment of the Surrendered Wife series, we explore practical, faith-based insights to unlock breakthrough and freedom in your journey toward a happier life and marriage. Together, we'll uncover the keys to cultivating happiness while embracing surrender to God's plan for your life. Don't miss this transformative talk!
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| Ep. 206 Opposition to Surrendering | 11 Nov 2024 | 00:40:09 | |
Today, we kick off the Surrendered Wife series by discussing the biggest obstacles to our ability to surrender our all to Jesus. We don't just talk about it; we also discuss how to overcome this beast and refuse to lean into condemnation as we grow. Be ready to be challenged in this episode as iron is truly sharpening iron!
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| Ep 205 New Series: Surrendered Wife (You Can Start Over) | 04 Nov 2024 | 00:27:16 | |
IT'S A NEW SEASON LADIES!!! Ashlyn kicks off season 8 of the Spiced Wife Podcast in this episode by introducing us to the Surrendered Wife series. If you have felt heavy in your walk lately or even just blah about life and marriage, this episode is the enlightenment you need to assure you that you can start over! God did not create you to stay down, and He did not call you because you were perfect. He chose you because of Jesus, and if you can grab onto Him, you can start over! It is such good news that we have a Savior who never stops coming after us! Scriptures Mentioned:
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| Ep. 204 God Wants Your Husband to Lead | 03 Oct 2024 | 00:40:50 | |
Ladies, God wants your husband leading. You are graced to help, and you are needed and valued by God in your marriage; but, God wants your husband leading. Let's talk about the reality in when it's hard to do this, as I share my experience in walking it out.
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| Ep. 203 True Freedom | 30 Apr 2024 | 00:41:34 | |
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| Ep. 202 Why Did God Pick A Rib to Make Us?? | 09 Apr 2024 | 00:31:34 | |
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| Ep. 200 You Are ONE | 26 Mar 2024 | 00:22:24 | |
You are ONE with your husband just as we are ONE with Christ… lets go deeper into this and even understand how sex plays a part!
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| Ep. 199 Where Can You Agree with Your Husband? | 19 Mar 2024 | 00:28:51 | |
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