Have you ever found yourself stuck in a conversation with a complicated coworker, wondering, “How do I actually communicate with this person to get things moving forward?” In today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive right into the core question: How can you effectively communicate with complicated people—especially when, let’s be honest, we’re all complicated in our own unique ways? Hi, I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and I’m excited to guide you through practical strategies for navigating communication challenges at work. In today’s episode, I reference Ryan Leak’s insightful book, How to Work with Complicated People, which inspired much of the approach I share. We kick things off with an all-too-familiar workplace scenario: a colleague agrees to a deadline with smiles and nods, only to send a passive aggressive note a few days later that derails the project. Your instinct may be to fire back or just give up, but I explain why that reaction rarely solves the underlying problem—because the real issue is how complicated humans communicate with each other. Here’s what we covered: Why communicating with complicated people is a universal challenge The importance of translating your message for different audiences How workplace communication direction changes your approach (up, across, and down) Strategies for communicating up: focusing on outcomes and impact with leadership How to handle peer-to-peer conflict through respect, questions, and common ground Four keys for giving clear, motivating direction to your team The difference between tactical fixes and building a true communication system The foundational skill of knowing your audience and message, and why it’s essential for every workplace conversation Whether you’re reporting to a boss, negotiating with coworkers, or leading a team, you’ll leave this episode with actionable techniques to stop the cycle of miscommunication and start showing up—every single time—with clarity and confidence. Remember, the goal isn’t perfection—it’s consistent progress. Before I sign off, don’t forget to grab your free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out our Formula for Public Speaking course. Thanks for listening and always remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why taking action beats raw talent every single time, or how you can leverage new technology like AI without losing the heart and soul of your message? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re getting to the root of what it means to communicate with clarity, build your confidence as a storyteller, and stand out in our fast-changing world. I’m Tim Newman, your host, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and today I’m joined by the incredible Jim Edwards. Jim’s a true legend in the world of online business and communication, with almost three decades of experience helping entrepreneurs, coaches, speakers, and professionals get their messages heard. Not only is he a bestselling author of over three dozen books, but he’s also helped countless people find their voice and capitalize on their knowledge. Listeners will also hear actionable advice on: Finding and sharing your own stories (even if you think you don’t have any) Developing patience and delayed gratification for long-term success Building confidence as a speaker through preparation and practice Using writing as a tool for clarifying your thoughts and improving your communication Harnessing AI as a creative accelerant, not a replacement for your ideas Understanding the new role of creators and curators in a world awash with content How to recognize and communicate your true value as a coach, speaker, or business owner Whether you’re trying to write your first book, become a more compelling speaker, or navigate the digital landscape with authenticity, this episode offers real, practical steps and mindset shifts that will help you take your message and your confidence to the next level. I’m so grateful to Jim Edwards for joining me and sharing his wisdom (and contagious enthusiasm). If you’re looking for even more confidence-building resources, don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more tools to help you unleash your voice! Connect with Jim: Website: https://jimedwards.com     LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thejimedwardsmethod/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejimedwards    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JimEdwardsFan X: https://x.com/RealJimEdwards YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jimEdwards TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thejimedwards Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Are your words truly building the influence you want, or is there a hidden gap between what you say and how you act that's silently killing your credibility? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the powerful truth that your real message isn’t just what comes out of your mouth—it’s what people see in your behavior, especially when no one’s watching. I open with a personal story about a tough leadership lesson: the painful disconnect between preaching innovation and risk-taking, and then acting in a way that totally undermined those values. Admitting that I was the one who once made this mistake sets the tone for radical authenticity and accountability—qualities I argue are essential if you want genuine influence. Drawing on insights from John Maxwell's Everyone Communicates, Few Connect, I explain why your PowerPoint slides and pitch-perfect scripts are just window dressing. The heart of true connection and lasting influence is living out what you communicate. I tackle the myth that communication is all about how you craft your message and show why, instead, behavior is your primary message. Your team and clients have real-time “credibility audits” running in their heads, always weighing your actions far more than your words. Here’s what I cover in this episode: The invisible gap between values and behavior that sabotages your influence A personal leadership mistake that taught me hard lessons about credibility Why your behavior communicates more than your words, especially under scrutiny How accountability—not perfection—accelerates trust and strengthens connections The step-by-step formula for owning and fixing mistakes with clients and teams A fresh take on vulnerability: how sharing learned wisdom (not present weakness) wins hearts and minds How to shift from a transactional to a partnership dynamic in any relationship The power of doing a quick “alignment audit” before key meetings to instantly increase impact Whether you’re a leader, communicator, or entrepreneur, this episode arms you with actionable tools to make your influence grow—by living your message with confidence, accountability, and authentic vulnerability. And remember, we’re always chasing progress, not perfection! As a quick update, next week’s schedule features a special guest and a holiday replay, so stay tuned. Don’t forget to grab your free eBook and check out my new book for even deeper strategies on turning your connections into true career growth. Thanks for joining me—your voice really can change your world. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome to "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that helps you unlock the power of effective public speaking. In today’s episode, we are thrilled to sit down with the dynamic duo, David Pullan and Sarah Jane McKechnie, to discuss the DNA of Engagement and explore the powerful role of storytelling in both personal and professional contexts. David and Sarah Jane bring a wealth of experience from the world of acting, having spent 30 years performing with the Royal Shakespeare Company and Paramount Pictures. Their transition into the business world led them to establish "StorySpotters," a venture dedicated to enhancing communication through effective storytelling. Their latest endeavor, "The DNA of Engagement," offers insightful techniques to improve engagement and leadership through storytelling. Overview of the Discussion: Tim, David, and Sarah Jane emphasize the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and giving back. They introduce the concept of "same paging" and discuss how it ensures cohesive understanding within teams. They elaborate on the practical application of storytelling in business, the PREP structure, and the principle of "show, don’t tell." The conversation touches on the rapid pace of modern life and how it impacts deep conversations and storytelling. They emphasize ethical storytelling and discuss the scientific, artistic, and craft elements of storytelling. The episode highlights the neuroscience behind storytelling and practical techniques like the "Dream, Nightmare, Action" (DNA) framework. Sarah Jane shares insights on making stories more engaging through context, detail, and dialogue. David and Sarah Jane also discuss their experiences of transitioning from acting to business coaching and helping clients communicate effectively. Key Takeaways: Authenticity and Vulnerability:Authenticity and vulnerability are critical when it comes to teaching, storytelling, and making genuine connections. Being open and seeking feedback helps in connecting with the audience on a deeper level. Same Paging for Cohesion:The concept of "same paging" involves turning facts into cohesive stories, ensuring that everyone within a team has a unified understanding. This technique is pivotal for achieving alignment and effective communication. PREP Structure for Effective Stories:David Pullan introduces the PREP structure (Point, Reason, Example, Takeaway), which is essential for crafting compelling stories that leave a lasting impression. For example, illustrating an individual's problem-solving skills through a personal anecdote can make their abilities more relatable and memorable. Ethical Storytelling:Ethical storytelling is imperative. The responsible use of storytelling should aim at doing good rather than manipulating the audience. Stories should reflect values and behaviors in a genuine manner to build trust and integrity. Engagement Through Details and Context:Sarah Jane emphasizes the importance of bringing listeners into the world of the story. Specific details, context (time and place), and dialogue make stories more vivid and engaging, helping listeners to form mental images and connect emotionally. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast dedicated to helping you master the art of effective communication. I'm Tim Newman, your host, and today we are opening up about a struggle we all deal with—imposter syndrome. In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome back Sara Lohse, a storyteller, marketer, and brand architect who helps mission-driven brands through Favorite Daughter Media. Sara is also the co-host of the "Branded" podcast and the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders." Sara's experiences and insights make her the perfect guest to explore today’s topics, and I’m incredibly grateful to have her as our first repeat guest on the show. Our conversation traverses several foundational elements of developing confidence in communication and self-promotion. We start by recounting how Sara and I met at a pivotal point in my professional development, emphasizing the importance of seizing transformative opportunities. We then delve into the art of self-promotion, exploring the emotional barriers and practical strategies that can help overcome these challenges. We redefine what it means to be an expert, highlighting how endless curiosity and continuous learning can turn you into one. Drawing from personal experiences, we also cover the significance of adapting to new media, like transitioning from audio podcasts to video content, and the associated struggles and triumphs. Another key focus is the imposter syndrome—how it can deeply affect our professional journey and how to combat it effectively. 5 Key Takeaways: The Art of Self-Promotion:Promoting oneself can often feel daunting due to emotional hurdles and self-doubt. The key lies in building trust, maintaining a strong work ethic, and continuously preparing for opportunities. It’s about putting in the incremental effort to present your best self. Redefining Expertise:Expertise isn't just about having all the answers but about maintaining an endless curiosity and being committed to continuous learning. Tim's meticulous research and preparation are highlighted as the true markers of expertise. Adapting to New Mediums:Transitioning to different forms of media, be it stage, podcast, or video, can be challenging but rewarding. Tim's journey from an audio-only podcast to creating daily minute-long videos exemplifies the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone to grow and improve your skills. Imposter Syndrome and Self-Worth:Both Tim and Sara grapple with imposter syndrome despite their achievements. Recognizing these feelings and surrounding oneself with a supportive network are essential steps towards managing self-doubt. Sara’s journey from feeling undervalued to running her own successful business is inspirational for anyone facing similar challenges. Continuous Improvement and Authenticity:Practice makes perfect, especially when it comes to speaking and content creation. Both Sara and Tim stress the importance of continuous improvement and transparency about one’s struggles. Sharing your journey and showing your growth not only humanizes the experience but also builds authenticity and trust with your audience. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Get ready to unlock the secrets of captivating public speaking with our special guest, Conor Cunneen, famously known as the Irishman Speaks. From his early days as a nervous speaker to becoming an award-winning humorist and keynote speaker, Connor shares his incredible journey and the transformative power of humor in communication. You'll hear firsthand how storytelling and a positive attitude can elevate your personal brand and make you stand out, whether in job interviews or daily interactions. Plus, Connor's unforgettable award-winning humorous speech on customer service, featuring the contrast of San Quentin Prison, will leave you in stitches while teaching valuable lessons.But that's not all—discover how humor and attitude can revolutionize your business interactions. Connor explains the concept of using mental triggers, such as calling police cars "mobile discotheques," to create memorable messages that stick. We emphasize the importance of personal connections in business, showcasing how a good sense of humor can set a salesperson apart and lead to stronger relationships and more successful outcomes. Learn to harness the power of humor to make your communications engaging and unforgettable, ensuring that your key messages are remembered.Finally, we'll dive into practical strategies to create a positive work culture using Connor's innovative acronyms like CHAPS and LAUGH. Micro goals like giving compliments and using positive language can significantly boost motivation and team morale. The E4 brand promise—energize, educate, entertain, and be easy to work with—provides a robust framework for professional interactions. And as we explore the art of incorporating humor into presentations, you'll gain invaluable tips to keep your audience engaged and entertained. This episode is packed with laughter, insightful advice, and actionable strategies to enhance your public speaking skills and foster a positive workplace environment. Tune in for an unforgettable experience! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome to another episode of "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that brings you practical advice and inspiring conversations to help you become a better and more confident communicator. I’m your host, Tim Newman, and today we have an exceptional guest with us, Chris Fenning. Chris is an accomplished engineer, rocket scientist, and an award-winning author known for his expertise in clear communication. Whether you're looking to enhance your public speaking skills, improve your day-to-day workplace interactions, or write more effective emails, this episode is packed with actionable tips and insights. Our guest for today, Chris Fenning, has navigated through multiple industries and countries, bringing a wealth of experience in both technical fields and communication. From being a rocket scientist to an expert in communication, Chris has authored several award-winning books, including "The First Minute," which focuses on the importance of being clear and concise in communication. His practical frameworks and experiences provide a unique perspective on overcoming fears and mastering the art of effective communication. In this episode, we dive deep into various aspects of communication—both verbal and written. Chris shares his personal journey of overcoming public speaking anxiety and the transformation he underwent to become a confident communicator. We discuss the role of scheduling theory and project management in planning events and the significance of clear communication in this context. Chris introduces valuable frameworks like Context, Intent, and Key Message, as well as Goal, Problem, Solution (GPS), to help you frame your messages effectively. We also touch on the psychological reasons behind excessive information sharing and how to overcome them. Lastly, we emphasize the critical role of active listening and provide tips for writing impactful emails. Key Takeaways Framing Your Communication:Chris emphasizes the importance of framing in communication. The Context, Intent, and Key Message framework is a powerful tool to ensure your message is clear and relevant to the audience. For instance, in job interviews, compressing complex information into a succinct answer can make a significant impact. Overcoming Public Speaking Anxiety:Chris shares his personal fears of public speaking and creating videos. By setting a challenge for himself to create 101-minute videos, he practiced consistently and eventually overcame his fears. Repetition and practice in small steps are key to becoming a confident speaker. Effective Written Communication:Understanding how people read large bodies of text is crucial. Chris mentions that people often read in an "f" shape, focusing on the first line and skimming downward. To make emails more effective, use informative subject lines, repeat the topic and purpose, and label questions clearly. Balancing Team Dynamics and Communication:Effective communication is not just about individual performance but also about how well team members coordinate and cooperate. Tim shares insights from his experience in the sports industry, emphasizing the interconnectedness of different departments and the need for effective interdepartmental communication. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome back to another episode of "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast dedicated to helping you conquer public speaking anxieties and find your voice. In today's episode, our host Tim Newman sits down with Scott Allan, confidence coach, author, and mindset strategist who has transformed his own life by embracing failures and translating them into opportunities for growth. We'll discuss overcoming imposter syndrome, the philosophy of "failing big," and actionable strategies to keep procrastination at bay, equipping you with the tools to take ownership of your career and personal development. Scott Allan is a celebrated author whose works have been published in 16 languages, helping thousands of readers overcome self-doubt and cultivate a mindset geared toward success. With over 10,000 hours invested in confidence development and mindset mastery training, Scott brings a wealth of experience and practical wisdom to our discussion. He also runs websites like scottallenbooks.com and scottallenpublishing.com, where you can find his latest publications and resources aimed at personal growth. In this episode, Tim and Scott cover a wide range of topics central to personal and professional development. They begin with a deep dive into imposter syndrome, exploring how it affects young professionals and the importance of recognizing that everyone is hired for a reason. Scott candidly shares his own struggles and triumphs, recounting his experiences with career challenges, massive failures, and the incredible value of learning from mistakes.  Key Takeaways: 1. Embrace Imposter Syndrome: Imposter syndrome often stems from a deeply ingrained fear of failure and feeling unqualified. It's important to remember that if you were chosen for a job or an opportunity, there’s a reason behind it. Acknowledge your capabilities and embrace the chance to share your input. 2. Fail Big and Learn: Failure should be viewed not as a setback, but an essential part of the learning process. Scott’s narrative about the million-dollar mistake and his own costly work error underscored the importance of facing failures head-on, learning from them, and moving forward with greater awareness and preparedness. 3. Intentional Action Over Habit Building: Overcoming procrastination is rooted in taking small, intentional actions daily rather than focusing on building habits. By making decisive moves and celebrating small wins, you gradually build confidence and trust in your capabilities. 4. Shift Your Mindset: Adopting a positive mindset can significantly alter the way you approach challenges and opportunities. Scott’s transformation from a negative to a positive outlook, reinforced by reading, listening to motivational content, and turning his apartment into a vision board, propelled him toward achieving his goals abroad. 5. Be Authentic and Vulnerable: Authenticity and honesty in communication, especially in public speaking, can alleviate pressures to impress and control outcomes. Scott emphasizes that people rarely think about your performance as much as you do, and being genuine can help in navigating fears of rejection and judgment. Be sure to visit scottallenbooks.com and scottallenpublishing.com for more insights and resources. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Unlock the secrets to captivating your audience and transforming your presentations in our latest episode of Speaking with Confidence. Visual storytelling guru Emily Schneider joins us to share her journey from creating a Sweet 16 invitation to becoming a leading expert in presentation design and marketing. Learn how she turns complex information into visually compelling stories, and discover her powerful "less is more" strategy. Get ready to simplify your slides, choose impactful colors and fonts, and maintain your audience's focus with Emily's insider tips.Discover how to make your presentations unforgettable by focusing on visual consistency and strategic design. Emily explains why maintaining a simple, consistent look across your slides can dramatically enhance information retention. She shares practical exercises that guide you in cutting down unnecessary content, ensuring your visuals support rather than distract from your message. By emphasizing key messages and using visuals effectively, you will leave a lasting impression on your audience.From mastering animations to the strategic use of colors, Emily covers all the essentials for elevating your presentation game. Plus, explore the role of AI tools like ChatGPT in content creation while keeping your unique voice. Emily's insights on understanding your audience and designing with clear intent will empower you to make your presentations more engaging. Don’t miss her downloadable guide with top tips, available on our website, and join our community for more resources to boost your public speaking confidence.1. Good Slide Design is Essential: Effective slide design keeps the audience engaged and aids memory retention. Bad design stands out negatively, while good design is subtle, enhancing the presenter's delivery and the overall message. 2. Consistency and Visuals Matter: Our brains retain significantly more information through visual design (65%) compared to purely content-based information (10-20%). Emily shares tips for maintaining visual consistency such as using uniform fonts, bullet treatments, logo placement, and color schemes. 3. *Less is More" with Animations: Overwhelming presentations with excessive animations can be distracting. Emily and Tim both advocate for strategic use of animations to highlight specific points and suggest simple transitions to maintain engagement without overpowering the content. 4. Simplicity and Color Usage: Simplifying slides by minimizing text and using visuals can create a stronger connection with the audience. Effective use of color, with 2 to 3 varied shades, enhances readability and interest, while caution is advised against overwhelming use of colors. 5. Importance of Storytelling: Presentations should focus on telling a compelling story rather than conveying a plethora of facts. People are more likely to remember stories, and simplicity helps maintain this narrative, making it easier for the audience to connect and retain the information. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that empowers you to become a better public speaker by unlocking the potential of effective communication. In today's episode, our host Tim Newman sits down with the incredible Sara Lohse. Sara, the owner of Favorite Daughter Media and the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders," joins us to dive deep into the art and science of storytelling. Together, they explore the importance of sharing personal stories, the power of authenticity, and how embracing vulnerability can create meaningful human connections. Sara Lohse is an acclaimed storyteller, thought leader, and the visionary behind Favorite Daughter Media. She is also the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders." Sara joins us to share her insights on the value of personal storytelling and how it can transform both personal and professional communication. Her expertise in marketing and her candid experiences make her the perfect guide for anyone looking to improve their storytelling skills. In this episode, Tim Newman and Sara Lohse have an in-depth conversation about the multifaceted nature of storytelling. They discuss the significance of sharing personal stories and the impact it can have on both the storyteller and the audience. Sara highlights key elements from her book and offers practical tips on crafting compelling narratives. The conversation also touches on overcoming impostor syndrome, the role of authenticity in leadership, and the balance between striving for success and maintaining personal happiness. Sara shares her own experiences, including dealing with ADHD and the challenges of staying true to oneself in a professional setting. Tim and Sara emphasize the importance of relatability in storytelling and the necessity for businesses to innovate and adapt. Key Takeaways: 1. The Power of Personal Stories: Sara stresses that personal stories hold immense power in connecting with others. These stories don’t need to be grand or headline-worthy; even everyday experiences can hold valuable lessons and resonate deeply with audiences. 2. Authenticity and Vulnerability: Both Tim and Sara emphasize the significance of being authentic and embracing vulnerability. Whether in personal or professional settings, sharing failures and mistakes rather than just highlight reels can help build genuine connections. 3. Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: The discussion addresses the common issue of impostor syndrome and the cultural reluctance to celebrate personal achievements. Sara advises that it's crucial to acknowledge and own one's accomplishments to foster a healthier self-image. 4. Crafting Compelling Stories: Practical storytelling tips from Sara include having a compelling and unexpected ending, crafting stories to fit different environments, and using a hook at the beginning to capture the audience’s attention. She also discusses how knowing the ending upfront helps her given her ADHD. 5. Value of Support Systems: The episode underscores the importance of having family, friends, and colleagues as support systems. Tim and Sara talk about the need for kindness towards oneself, having a network of cheerleaders, and prioritizing happiness and relationships alongside professional success. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that's here to help you unlock the power of effective public speaking. Today, we have the incredible Roberta Ndlela as our guest. With 15 years of corporate business experience in South Africa, Roberta shares her journey and the invaluable lessons she has learned about communication, leadership, and embracing imperfection. In this episode, we'll dive into the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and the importance of considering others' perspectives. We'll also explore the shift from one-way communication to a more inclusive approach in marketing, leadership, and personal relationships. Roberta's insights from hosting over 200 podcast episodes shed light on the power of storytelling, authenticity, and the need for human connection. Tim and Roberta discuss the crucial role of soft skills, the impact of technology on communication, and the challenges of bridging the gap between young professionals and corporate formality. Roberta also opens up about navigating cultural differences and language barriers in the workplace and the significance of understanding others' perspectives to resolve conflicts. Join us as we uncover actionable advice for effective communication, share humorous anecdotes, and emphasize the Platinum Rule—communicating with people the way they prefer. Whether you're looking to improve your public speaking skills, enhance your leadership, or build better relationships, this episode is packed with insights you won't want to miss. Tune in and start your journey toward speaking with confidence! Key Takeaways:1. Ask and Listen: Always ask questions and listen to the individual's needs before offering help or solutions. This principle is vital in personal relationships, business communication, and customer service. 2. Embrace Imperfection: Making mistakes is part of the communication journey. Authenticity and sincerity can often leave a more lasting impact than flawlessness in public speaking. 3. Importance of Soft Skills: Soft skills such as empathy, listening, and adaptability are crucial in managing a diversified workforce and enhancing team dynamics in various professional settings. 4. Platinum Rule in Communication: Communicate with others as they wish to be communicated with, rather than adopting a one-size-fits-all approach. This tailored communication fosters better relationships and understanding. 5. Bridging Generational Gaps: Leaders should be open to innovative ideas from young professionals and consider having young mentors. This mutual exchange can mitigate the challenges posed by the intersection of casual and formal communication styles in the workplace. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Unlock the secrets of becoming a confident public speaker with insights from Drew Jackson, a seasoned coach who has transformed communication strategies for companies like Chick-fil-A and Habitat for Humanity. Drew shares his expertise on iterative improvement and the role of AI in refining your communication skills. Together, we explore how AI can serve as a powerful editorial tool to enhance tone, clarity, and purpose while also offering practical tips to boost your interactions with peers, employers, and family members.Ever wondered how to navigate different communication styles for better connections? Discover the DISC framework, a powerful tool for understanding and adapting to various behavior patterns. Learn the art of treating people how they want to be treated to build stronger relationships, both personally and professionally. Drew’s invaluable advice on handling conflict constructively and communicating value and respect within teams will change the way you approach both everyday interactions and challenging conversations.Prepare yourself for effective presentations with methods drawn from high school choir practice, where meticulous preparation meets real-world application. From breaking down content into manageable blocks to rehearsing in environments that mimic the actual performance setting, Drew’s strategies for refining delivery and building confidence are game-changers. Embrace lifelong learning and adapt your presentations to truly connect with your audience. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to master the art of communication—subscribe to our podcast and join our community for more transformative tips and updates.Key Takeaways: 1. The Power of Honor and Humility: Showing honor and respect toward both authority figures and peers can significantly impact career advancement and organizational effectiveness. Humility helps individuals hold ideas lightly and influence decisions positively. 2. Importance of Conflict Management: Addressing conflicts directly and evaluating whether an issue needs confrontation, getting over it, or considering a job change is crucial for a healthy work environment. Conflict resolution should prioritize organizational goals over personal egos. 3. Adaptability in Communication: Understanding and adapting to different communication styles using frameworks like DISC can improve relationships and team effectiveness. Tailoring communication to meet individual's needs fosters better interactions. 4. Public Speaking Preparation: Effective public speaking requires extensive preparation, practice, and feedback. Techniques such as recording oneself, having a "walk-up song," and practicing in realistic settings add to building confidence in presentations. 5. Learning with AI and Lifelong Mindset: AI can serve as a powerful tool for improving communication skills as long as it's used effectively and thoughtfully. Maintaining a mindset of lifelong learning and continually seeking to understand others enhances personal and professional growth.Buy Drew's Book Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever faced the terror of a silent room, all eyes on you, as you fumbled through a speech? Join me,  as we navigate the rollercoaster of public speaking with the exceptional Peter George. From conquering speech impediments to handling the unexpected, like the zipper debacle in England, we uncover the resilience required to turn public speaking into an art form. Peter, with his wealth of experience and heartwarming triumph over his own challenges, provides an arsenal of strategies to not only survive but also thrive at the podium.This episode is about more than just talking; it's about engaging, rehearsing, and connecting. I'll let you in on the secrets of rehearsing that aligns with the discipline of elite athletes, ensuring your next speech is more than just words—it's an experience. Peter and I also tackle the nuances of authentic connections in a digital age, offering insight into making every interaction count. Forget slides and formalities; we're here to show you how to captivate through stories and genuine presence, turning potential yawns into applause.It's not just what you say but how you say it that leaves a mark. We'll explore the power of body language, the symphony of gestures, and the grace of 'full frontal nudity'—metaphorically speaking, of course! Learn how to present yourself with confidence and openness, making every gesture count and every listener feel heard. From the physical to the emotional, this episode with Peter George is your toolkit for transforming every speaking opportunity into a memorable performance. Now, zip up and step into the spotlight; we're about to make public speaking your forte.Visit Peter's website - petergeorgepublicspeaking.com Buy Peter's book - The Captivating Public Speaker Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text What if there was a proven way to help kids with dyslexia leap multiple grade levels in reading and writing—using strategies most schools never teach? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into this question and reveal practical answers with the help of a truly inspiring guest. Today, we’re diving headfirst into the realities of dyslexia—a condition that affects as many as 15 to 20% of learners, yet is still too often met with “let’s wait and see” in schools and by professionals. I have a personal connection to this topic, both as an educator and as someone with ADHD who faced my own hurdles in the traditional education system. Joining me for this conversation is Russel Van Brocklen, known as the “dyslexia professor.” Russel Van Brocklen didn’t just study dyslexia—he lived it, spending his early years reading and writing at a first-grade level, even into college, before finally learning to read fluently in law school. He’s devoted decades to translating structured literacy research into practical, bite-sized strategies families can use at home. His story, and the successes he’s helped engineer for countless kids, provide a roadmap out of what can feel like an endless educational maze. We explored Russel’s personal journey—from academic struggle and institutional roadblocks to academic success and expert status. We talk about the specific-to-general approach that flips how most of us were taught, and why it’s the leverage point for learners with dyslexia, ADHD, and other neurodiverse backgrounds. Russel shares real-life case studies, like Casey, a highly motivated fifth-grader who jumped eight grade levels in reading in just six months by leveraging her passion for Theodore Roosevelt. Here’s what you’ll take away from this conversation: The unique brain-based challenges and strengths of learners with dyslexia and ADHD Why most accommodations don’t go far enough—and what actually works How to use a student’s “speciality” or passion as the engine for dramatic growth in reading and writing The “specific to general” teaching method and why it works where traditional methods fail Simple, research-backed home strategies that parents can use tonight The critical role of writing in organizing thoughts and boosting reading levels Why early intervention is key—and how to advocate for your child in a system that may be resistant to change How the right support can transform not just academic skills, but confidence and mental health Free and affordable resources for families (like dyslexiaclasses.com) and how to access expert help You’ll also hear about Russel Van Brocklen’s experience working within state governments, pushing for policy change, and training both teachers and parents to make a measurable impact—sometimes in as little as just three hours of training! By the end of this episode, you’ll have concrete steps for helping the neurodiverse students in your life succeed, and a new understanding of just how much potential every struggling reader really has. If you’ve ever felt like the system is stacked against kids who learn differently, this conversation will give you hope, strategies, and a path forward. To dig deeper, get your free guide, or connect directly with Russel Van Brocklen, Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Ever stood on a stage, palms sweating, heart racing, facing a sea of expectant faces? That's where Tyler Foley, seasoned actor and public speaking sage, comes in.  His journey is as captivating as his command of the crowd – from triumphing over a health scare to teaching the masses to take the stage with poise and passion.We're not just talking tips and tricks here; we delve into the psyche of speaking, debunking myths like the "imagine them naked" fable and rethinking what it really means to engage an audience. Tyler and I dissect the nuances of introversion and extroversion, how personal energy dictates your delivery, and the indelible mark of authenticity. Whether you're a self-proclaimed introvert or the life of the party, this episode will equip you with a fresh perspective on public expression.In our final act, Tyler takes us through the power of vulnerability, of speaking 'naked' before an audience. It's about stripping away the facade and connecting with your core values – that's the message in "The Power to Speak Naked," a testament to Tyler's commitment to cultivating genuine interactions. And remember, finding one's rhythm isn’t just for musicians; it's for anyone ready to resonate with the beat of their own message. So tune in, be inspired, and let Tyler Foley set the stage for you to conquer your public speaking fears.Visit Tyler's website - SeanTylerFoley.com Buy Tyler's book - The Power to Speak Naked Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Ready to conquer your fear of public speaking and communicate with confidence? Our esteemed guest, Neil Thompson from Teach the Geek, guides us through the transformative journey from a nervous engineer to a commanding presenter. Neil's evolution serves as a beacon for all the introverts and technical minds out there, offering a treasure trove of unorthodox yet effective tips to manage those presentation jitters. From the power of wiggling your toes to structured logic and deep breathing, we unpack the essentials that will have you articulating ideas with unparalleled clarity. Reflecting on his communication escapades, he shares how a series of less-than-stellar presentations led him to Toastmasters, where the real magic of practice played out. We dissect how the ability to think on your feet and tackle impromptu questions isn't just a career booster—it's a game-changer for personal interactions too. Embrace those pre-talk nerves; they're not just butterflies, they're your commitment to the audience taking flight. We'll equip you with the strategies that turn anxiety from a foe into an ally on your path to public speaking mastery.Wrap your message in a narrative that resonates, a lesson especially poignant for STEM professionals aiming to captivate diverse audiences. Through the podcast, we explore how to avoid the career-forward yet audience-aloof pitfalls of many technical presentations. Instead, we focus on authenticity and engagement, adapting to the educational and cultural shifts in communication. The resources from "Teach the Geek to Speak" – including a course, book, and workbook – are also spotlighted, offering insights into refining your presentation prowess. Get inspired by the journey of guests like Christine Vartanian and transform your public speaking skills into your most compelling asset.Teach The Geek to SpeakNeil's LinkedIn Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Navigating the high-stakes world of collegiate sports and effective communication is no small feat—just ask Jessica Huntley, a trailblazer in intercollegiate athletics leadership and a master of maintaining authenticity in a challenging field. Join us, as Jessica shares personal stories from trembling novices to confident speakers and dissect the art of powerful messaging. Whether you're rallying a team or captivating a boardroom, this episode is a playbook on how to engage your audience and deliver your message with genuine conviction.The journey from intern to influencer in sports administration is a game of strategy and endurance. Learn from Jessica's experiences, from the pivotal role of mentorship to navigating the complexities of NCAA regulations and the novel landscape of Name, Image, and Likeness deals. We explore how the right words can open doors and build bridges in the athletic community and the importance of relationship-building in fostering real dialogue. For anyone looking to climb the ranks of sports leadership or simply improve their interpersonal skills, this episode is a slam dunk.Finally, step up to the podium with us as we share tried-and-true strategies for overcoming the jitters of public speaking. Feel the triumph of delivering a captivating speech and discover how tapping into your authenticity can electrify your presence. Whether you're an aspiring orator or a seasoned professional, we unpack the formula for public speaking success. This episode is not just a conversation—it's an invitation to empower your voice and leave a lasting impression on your audience.Jessica's LinkedInAtlantic East Conference Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Ever wondered what it takes to captivate an audience, whether it's in a lecture hall or on a sports field? Join me, Tim Newman, as I sit down with Dr. Matt Blaska, an associate professor and chairperson at Indiana State University with a flair for public speaking. Together, we navigate the path from anxious speaker to confident communicator, dissecting the nuances of assertive communication and the power of a commanding presence. Matt's tales of triumphs and tribulations are not only relatable but also packed with actionable insights that promise to elevate your own public speaking game.Matt's journey through an internship at Lehigh University Athletics sheds light on the critical aspects of email correspondence and relationship building—skills that are transferable to any professional domain. Whether you're mentoring up-and-comers or engaging with seasoned donors, the lessons learned in the trenches of athletic programs are universally applicable.The episode culminates with a rich discussion about the significance of thorough preparation and the art of adaptability, be it for major conferences or leadership transitions. We'll also touch on the upcoming launch of the Speaking with Confidence community's Formula for Public Speaking, set to revolutionize how we approach this essential skill. So, if you're ready to embrace your missteps, communicate more effectively, and find your authentic voice, this conversation is an essential listen. Your voice has the power to initiate change—let's harness it together.Matt's InstagramMatt's TwitterMatt's LinkedIn Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered what it takes to command the room during a high-stakes business meeting? Jennifer Bridwell, a trailblazer in the banking world, joins us to reveal how she navigates the intricate dance of communication in the face of demanding leadership roles. With Jennifer's stories of transformation through public speaking, this episode is a treasure trove for anyone looking to bolster their own communication skills, whether in the boardroom or at the dinner table.In the constantly evolving world of banking, Jennifer and I dissect the changing roles of women and the power of a well-crafted message. The art of persuasion and clarity in conveying complex banking concepts becomes our playground as we share anecdotes and strategies that will sharpen your ability to engage any audience. We then pivot to the heart of leadership, discussing how empowerment and mentorship can foster not only professional growth but also personal fulfillment.Wrapping up, we explore the balance of giving back to the community while juggling a demanding career and family life, a challenge many of us grapple with. And for a bit of levity, I recount an unexpected Family Feud escapade, proving that public speaking skills can come in handy in the most unexpected moments. This episode is more than just a conversation; it's a call to action to use your voice to make an impact and navigate your own journey toward excellence.Jennifer's LinkedInJennifer's Email - jbridwell@georgiabanking.com Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text They say the mark of a true leader not only lies in their vision but in their ability to convey that vision with unwavering conviction. This is the very essence we unravel in our latest episode, where the art of public speaking becomes a beacon for personal and professional triumph. Join me, Tim Newman, alongside the insightful Dr. Chris Hobbs, as we share anecdotes and strategies from our journeys in mastering the spoken word. From the meticulous preparations of Steve Jobs to the seamless adaptability required in diverse professional landscapes, this session is a treasure trove for anyone eager to command the room and leave a lasting impact.How does a leader foster a culture that reveres transparency and forgiveness? We tackle this with a candid look at the communication strategies that not only inspire but cultivate growth within a team. Dr. Hobbs, with his rich background, offers a unique perspective on the intersection of communication skills and leadership, especially when guiding teams spread across different locations. This episode isn't just about speaking with confidence; it's about the transformative power of being other-centered and the courageous mentorship that propels emerging professionals into realms of unexpected greatness.As our conversation progresses, we pay homage to the indomitable spirit of Coach Mike Show, whose legacy of persistence resonates through the lives he touched. Our discussion transcends the mechanics of public speaking to embrace the holistic development of leaders. Whether it's embracing the evolution of personal priorities or meticulously preparing to captivate an audience, this episode is a testament to the profound influence of effective communication in leadership and life. So, if you're ready to refine your oratorical skills and lead with an impact, let this episode be the catalyst for your journey to speaking with confidence.Please join our growing community Speaking With Confidence and get updates on The Formula for Public Speaking launching June 1st!Dr. Chris HobbsLinkedInTwitterSubstackBlogPodcast Apple Spotify Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome to "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that's here to help you unlock the power of effective public speaking. I'm your host, Tim Newman, and I'm excited to take you on a journey to becoming a better public speaker. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why so many presentations lose the audience within the first thirty seconds? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the critical question: How do you earn an audience’s attention right from the start and keep it? I’m Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor who’s now dedicated to helping others become powerful communicators. This week, we’re diving deep into one of the most fundamental but overlooked aspects of public speaking: the opening. Specifically, I reveal why the majority of speakers fail almost immediately by focusing on themselves, their credentials, or their agenda, instead of the needs and interests of their listeners. In today’s episode, I’m walking you step-by-step through a transformative approach to strong openings. I break down the psychology behind audience attention, explaining that your listeners aren’t evaluating you at first; they’re evaluating whether what you’re saying is worth their time. Your goal in those first crucial seconds is not to impress, but to serve, to name a problem your audience is facing, and to offer a quick glimpse of a solution. I outline my favorite tool for this: the pattern interrupt hook. Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode: Why focusing on yourself at the start of a talk is a guaranteed way to be ignored. How to use a pattern interrupt hook to break through audience filters and make them want to listen. The specific three-part opening formula: problem statement, immediate consequence, and solution promise. How to structure those opening thirty seconds to create curiosity and relevance. Examples of both weak and strong openings in meetings, networking, and public speaking. Tips on making the formula your own, reading the room, and communicating authentic urgency. The vital mindset shift from seeking validation to serving the audience’s needs. Remember: credibility in communication comes not from listing your achievements, but from immediately solving the audience’s problem. By the end of this show, you’ll know how to grab attention with purpose, set the right tone, and provide value from the very first words. If you want to grab your audience and guarantee your message lands, this episode will give you the tools and confidence to start every conversation strong. Don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com to download your free eBook and learn about upcoming courses. As always, your voice has the power to change—let’s make sure people are listening. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why so many presentations and conversations end up sounding boring, or why teaching communication skills seems stuck in outdated paradigms? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive into exactly that—and explore what it takes not only to end boring communication, but to build genuine connection in every interaction. This week, I'm excited to introduce my guest, Ivan Wanis-Ruiz. Ivan is on a mission to rid the world of boring, whether it's in public speaking, storytelling, or everyday conversations. He's a professional speaker, educator, emcee, and yes—salsa dancer—with a knack for bringing energy and engagement to any room. Ivan brings unique insights from his experience in dance, improv, and hosting live events, showing us how these seemingly unrelated disciplines offer strategies and inspiration for great communication. We kicked off the episode swapping stories about Ivan’s journey from a bored newcomer taking dance classes to becoming a full-on salsa teacher, and how dance became his live laboratory for educational techniques. We explored the key elements of truly effective communication training—getting people actively involved, letting students speak in every session, and making exercises practical and applicable. Ivan described the importance of aligning teaching approach with the skills being taught, urging educators to break free from the “lecture then speak once at the end” model. Here’s what we covered in this episode: How Ivan’s dance teaching doubled as a testing ground for interactive communication techniques The impact of engaging introductions and ditching the boring bio in speaking and events Why emotion in storytelling doesn’t have to mean trauma—how humor and uncertainty are just as powerful Overcoming awkward networking through strategic self-disclosure and volunteering Strategies for introverts to connect without burnout Why communication skills are now the real competitive advantage in a world of abundant knowledge Sugata Mitra’s revolutionary approach to education and learning through challenges and collaboration How to create engaging workshops with open-ended tasks, timed constraints, and group deliverables Why storytelling works best when it’s focused on problems, uncertainty, and emotional ups and downs How to leverage AI for brainstorming and developing memorable personal pitches using literary devices like tricolon and anaphora If you’re ready to break old habits, boost your confidence, and make sure you’re truly engaging your audience—whether it’s on stage, at work, or in any conversation—this episode is packed with practical advice, stories, and straight talk you can use right now. Thanks for listening. Don't forget to check out the free ebook and course at speakwithconfidencepodcast.com, and let us know how these strategies help you show up with confidence wherever you speak. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text How do truly powerful speakers command authority without relying on sheer volume or aggressive body language? That’s the question we’re answering on today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence. In this episode, I dive deep into the art and science of authentic authority in communication. As someone who’s coached hundreds of professionals—and as a recovering college professor myself—I’ve seen firsthand that the most influential communicators aren’t the ones who try to dominate the room; they’re the ones who remain poised and structured, even under pressure. There’s no guest on this episode; it’s just me, Tim Newman, guiding you through the exact three-step formula I teach my clients to help them show up with quiet confidence rather than performative bravado. We unpack the misconception that authority is about sounding loud or forceful, and replace it with a new paradigm built on control, clarity, and composure. Here’s what we explored together: Why real authority can’t be faked and why it collapses under tough questions if it’s only an act. The first pillar: Structure. Most speakers fail before they begin because they don’t have a clear framework. You’ll learn how the “scaffolding principle” and the rule of three—simplifying your main points—help you build clarity, respect, and influence. The second pillar: Strategic pause. I share why silence is the most powerful tool for authoritative delivery. You’ll discover how replacing commas and periods in your mental script with intentional pauses instantly commands a room, eliminates filler words, and projects composure. Stories from my coaching experiences, including how a client turned a tense Q&A into a moment of control and how Steve Jobs used silence to demonstrate real thinking. The third pillar: The unavoidable verdict. We go beyond just informing audiences to inspiring action, guiding them to a single, compelling conclusion by engineering every aspect of your communication for clarity and impact. A step-by-step example of structuring a pitch and how to use the three pillars to build a winning case. Common pitfalls—like rambling or flooding people with data—and how to avoid them by focusing on simplification, strategic silence, and clarity of purpose. Practical takeaways for you to start practicing right away: from structuring your next team update, to slowing your speech with pauses, or defining your key verdict before preparing a presentation. By the end of the episode, you’ll know how to stop chasing authority and start embodying it—naturally and consistently. If you’re ready to transform the way you communicate, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and consider registering for the Foreman for Public Speaking. Remember, your voice has the power to change. Progress, not perfection—let’s step confidently into every conversation that counts! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Ever wondered why so many high-achieving leaders and communicators struggle to recognize their own value? In our 100th episode of Speaking with Confidence, we tackle this powerful question and much more with a very special guest who’s played a major role in my own podcasting journey—Alex Sanfilippo. I kicked off this milestone episode reflecting on the journey so far and the importance of crafting your communication skills. From day one, Speaking with Confidence has been about helping you show up as your most authentic, impactful self—whether it's in storytelling, leadership, podcasting, or daily conversations. To celebrate our 100th episode, I invited Alex Sanfilippo, founder of PodMatch.com and the host of Podcasting Made Simple, to join me. If you’re not familiar, PodMatch is a brilliant platform that automatically matches podcast hosts and guests, a true game changer for podcasters looking to deliver more value and connect with new audiences. We dove deep into topics that every communicator and leader will relate to—especially if you’ve ever doubted the impact you make. Alex Sanfilippo shared honestly about his own struggle with imposter syndrome, the challenge of recognizing the ripple effects of our work, and why surrounding yourself with the right people is so critical—not only for accountability but for remembering your successes and celebrating your growth. We reminisced about some of Alex’s earliest lessons as a 10-year-old entrepreneur selling golf balls, and how those negotiations with adults laid the foundation for his confidence and communication today. Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode: Why so many high achievers underestimate their own value and impact How imposter syndrome shows up (even for seasoned leaders and creators) The importance of community—having people who’ll tell you when you’re doing great and when you need to grow How laughter, play, and fun can transform not just your mood, but your effectiveness as a communicator Lessons from childhood entrepreneurship that still apply to adult leadership and negotiations How to reflect on your day and extract lessons that drive growth The difference between representing yourself as a brand and representing a company—and why authenticity matters more than ever A powerful story about vulnerability on stage, and how genuine emotion connects more deeply than perfection ever could Tips for managing nerves before speaking, including “mindset hacks” to recast anxiety as excitement Why storytelling, not just well-organized points, is at the heart of powerful communication How to use your walk-up song or other rituals to channel energy and confidence before you speak Whether you’re a podcaster, leader, or someone simply looking to speak up with more confidence, this 100th episode is packed with honest insights, practical strategies, a few laughs, and plenty of encouragement about the unique value only you can offer. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey to 100 episodes. Tune in to hear my conversation with Alex Sanfilippo—I promise you’ll walk away ready to communicate (and live!) with more confidence. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered if your phone habits are actually rewiring your brain—and what you can do to reclaim truly meaningful conversations? In today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the reality of digital overwhelm, exploring how our constant connectivity shapes not only our attention spans, but also our ability to build real, lasting connections. I’m Tim Newman, your host and a “recovering college professor” turned communication coach. If you caught my earlier conversation with Craig Mattson about digital overwhelm (and if not, be sure to listen!), today I’m taking our discussion one step further. This episode is packed with practical tips to help you break out of the screen-time spiral and nurture richer, more present communication—at work, at home, and everywhere it matters. I unpack just how our devices—and the behaviors they encourage—impact our brains, our relationships, and our emotional well-being. Did you know that our attention span has dropped to less than a goldfish’s, or that checking your phone mid-conversation can physically hurt your relationships? I detail the science behind these findings, walking you through what’s really happening in your brain when you’re glued to your screen. Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover in this episode: How excessive screen time quite literally changes the physical structure of your brain, especially the areas that keep your empathy and emotional processing sharp The eye-opening comparison between our attention span today and that of a goldfish (spoiler: the fish is winning) Why multitasking is just rapid attention switching, and how every notification derails your focus for as much as 25 minutes How checking your phone—even for a split second—during meetings or conversations triggers feelings of rejection and erodes trust The surprising emotional gap in text-based communication vs. phone calls or in-person chats, including why arguments take longer to resolve over text and why emojis don’t always help The neuroscience behind why social media may be numbing our real-world empathy, and how dopamine-driven interactions make it harder to form deep, lasting bonds Simple, science-backed strategies to repair your attention span—like the 90/20 rule, tech-free meal times, and delaying morning phone use—and the powerful results you can expect to see The truth about “multitasking” in virtual meetings and the dramatic drop in information retention when devices are present Why creating analog space and reducing digital distractions leads not only to better memory and increased empathy, but more rewarding, memorable conversations Throughout the episode, I share practical experiments, easy habits, and real-world stories—along with the latest research—to help you make progress, not seek perfection. You’ll discover small changes that restore focus and connection, proving you don’t have to renounce technology to build your confidence as a communicator. Start with just one device-free meal a day and see just how much deeper your conversations can go. Don’t forget to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and details on my public speaking course. Your voice matters—and with a bit of intentionality, you can ensure it’s heard, felt, and Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how introverts can thrive on stage and conquer self-doubt, even when anxiety and imposter syndrome are in the way? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into the journeys, frameworks, and behind-the-scenes realities of overcoming hesitation so you can step up and speak out—no matter how nervous you may feel. Today, I’m excited to welcome my friend Michael Pope: an international keynote speaker, leadership coach, and author of Doers Win the Day. Known as the Hesitation Breaker, Michael Pope brings over two decades of IT and leadership experience, having transformed software developers into adept people developers. His expertise centers on productivity, overcoming hesitation, and equipping high achievers and introverted professionals with the tools they need to succeed. We explore the unique challenges introverts face when the spotlight is on. Michael Pope opens up about his process for “recharging on demand” after high-energy engagements and the importance of being present and available to audience members after events—even if it feels uncomfortable at first. We also discuss practical networking strategies, like attending events with a purpose-driven list of connections, and why you must add value to others before asking anything in return. A major highlight of our conversation is imposter syndrome and the excuses that creep in. We talk candidly about those moments of hesitation—like almost inviting a dream guest on the show but never quite hitting send.  We unpack Michael Pope’s signature DOER framework (Discipline, Opportunity, Eliminate Excuses, Responsibility) and how it applies not just to speaking, but to every area of personal and professional growth. He gives real-life examples of stretching outside your comfort zone, preparing for high-stakes talks (and recovering when things go wrong), and the importance of coaching and mentorship—no matter how seasoned you become. Here’s what we cover in this episode: Why sharing personal stories (especially about family) builds trust and relatability Strategies for introverts to thrive on stage and in back-to-back networking environments The necessity of approaching events and networking with a clear, value-driven purpose The DOER framework and how to use it to push through hesitation, excuses, and fear Real talk on imposter syndrome and actionable ways to move past it How joining Toastmasters and investing in coaching can fast track your progress Surprising lessons from sharing the stage with legends like Les Brown and learning from mentors like Roddy Galbraith The process of preparing for a major keynote event—from understanding the client’s goals to practicing with intention When technology fails: staying cool, calm, and professional under pressure The power of recording yourself and constructive self-feedback for brand-new speakers Why celebrating small wins every day fuels growth and momentum for the long haul If you want to find your authentic voice, build rock-solid speaking habits, and finally stop holding yourself back, you’ll want to listen to every minute of this episode. Tune in, take notes, and remember: your voice has the power to change the world—but only if you’re brave enough to use it. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Are you building a network that looks impressive on paper, but feels hollow in practice? Are you craving genuine professional relationships that help you grow, not just fill your contact list? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the paradox facing modern professionals: staying "connected" but still feeling isolated. If you’ve ever wondered why your networking efforts haven’t translated into real momentum or meaningful relationships, this episode is for you. I dive deep into the concept of what I call the Connector Climber—a mindset and system that blends authentic relationship-building with purposeful career growth. Drawing from years as a college professor and coach, I share hard-earned insights and a practical framework designed to help you move beyond the two most common personality traps: the Connector (the selfless but stagnant giver) and the Climber (the ambitious but isolated achiever). I reveal how recognizing which type you tend toward is the first step to transforming how you build your network. In this episode, I unpack the reasons why simply "knowing everyone" isn’t enough, and why climbing the career ladder solo leaves you stranded. You’ll hear personal stories, including my own aha moment in academia and a powerful example from a client who broke out of the connector rut to lead strategic projects. Here’s what I covered: Why most professionals fall into the Connector or Climber category, and why both approaches are incomplete The essential mindset shift: moving from being useful to being collaborative, and the role vulnerability plays in building lasting relationships How to define your personal “mountain”—the specific goal that catalyzes intentional connections The three non-negotiable rules for becoming a Connector Climber: knowing your mountain, auditing your circle for growth-minded influences, and creating value instead of trading favors Practical, real-world examples of what value creation looks like, and how to frame networking conversations as mutual exchanges rather than asks A step-by-step challenge to help you reconnect with someone in your network with clarity and intention The differences between transactional and transformational relationships, and how to build a team—not just a contact list—that supports your professional climb Resources for further growth, including my book Connections That Count and free guides for public speakers By the end of the episode, you’ll be equipped with a system that transforms your approach to networking—from checking boxes to sowing the seeds of true collaboration and mutual momentum. If you’re ready to build connections that actually count, this episode is your roadmap to becoming a confident Connector Climber. Thanks for listening and being part of the Speaking with Confidence community! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how seasoned performers capture and hold the attention of even the most distracted or reluctant audiences? On today’s episode of Speaking With Confidence, we answer that question and dig deep into what it really takes to build confidence, adapt on the fly, and show up authentically in every speaking situation—whether it’s a children’s birthday party, a raucous holiday park, or a high-stakes corporate keynote. I’m Tim Newman, your host and recovering college professor turned communication coach, and I’m thrilled to share this episode with you because it offers a fresh perspective on stage presence, storytelling, and handling those inevitable moments when things don’t go as planned. Joining me today is Tom Elliott, corporate event host, comedy magician, and storytelling coach, who brings a remarkable blend of entertainment expertise to the world of professional communication. Tom has performed across the UK for audiences that often weren’t there to see him, which has made him a master at winning over even the toughest crowds. His journey from performing magic and ventriloquism at children’s parties, to holiday parks and eventually the corporate world, is not only fascinating but full of practical lessons for anyone looking to build their influence through communication. You’ll also hear us dig into: Tom’s origins in magic, ventriloquism, and the lessons learned from children’s parties and holiday park gigs Why corporate and holiday park audiences are worlds apart—and how to adjust your approach for each How to manage failing moments on stage and use them to grow (including both of our worst stories) The power of practicing in public, trying new material, and being willing to fail to get better What it really takes to grab attention in the first 30 seconds of any talk, meeting, or show How to dial up your natural personality traits by 10% for stage presence and audience connection The difference between internalizing your core message versus memorizing a rigid script, and how this helps you adapt with confidence Why personal stories work, even for people who are nervous to use them Building confidence through repeated action and practical strategies for anyone starting out (including organizing your own gigs!) Tom also shares a free resource for anyone wanting to create a more engaging keynote, along with actionable tips you can put into practice right away. Whether you’re a business leader, aspiring speaker, or someone who just wants to feel more at ease communicating when it counts, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and the reassurance that failing is not the end—it's part of the path to becoming a powerful, confident communicator. Thanks for joining us on Speaking With Confidence. Remember, your voice has the power to change the world! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why some leaders inspire trust and action while others leave their audience confused or disengaged? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig into a hard-earned lesson from early in my own teaching journey: the dangers of overcomplicating communication. Back when I started out as a teacher, my eagerness to impress led me to present high-level material to high school freshmen and sophomores only to realize that complexity wasn’t a sign of intelligence but a barrier to understanding. That moment of frustration, both for me and my students, revealed something powerful: people can’t appreciate your knowledge if you can’t explain it in a way they can grasp. In this episode, I walk you through transforming the way you communicate, whether you're presenting to a boardroom, pitching a client, or simply leading a team. I draw on insights from leadership expert John Maxwell to introduce the law of simplicity, clarity, brevity, and focus on three mandates that can take your influence to the next level. Here’s what you’ll hear in today’s episode: Why complexity pushes people away and can be a career killer How trying to “sound smart” with jargon or convoluted terminology signals insecurity, not expertise What actually builds trust and gets you noticed in leadership roles The 8th grader test: why your message must be clear enough for a middle schooler to understand John Maxwell’s three mandates for powerful communication clarity, brevity, and focus and how to apply them to all your messages Simple steps you can use to audit and improve your own communication before any meeting or presentation The real mindset shift: moving from ego-driven to audience-first How these principles not only change how others perceive you, but directly impact your career progress By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped with a practical framework to strip away confusion, communicate with true confidence, and make sure your message always lands. Remember, leadership starts with the ability to make the complex clear. I hope you enjoy the episode and start putting these mandates into practice right away because your voice really does have the power to change you. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever listened to a recording of your own voice and thought, “Who is that?” If you’ve ever cringed at the sound of your voice on tape, you’re not alone. In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into why our own voice sounds so strange to us on a recording—and more importantly, what you can do about it. I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today’s episode is all about bridging the gap between the voice you think you have and the one the world actually hears. I’ll show you why you don’t need to “fix” your voice, but understand what’s happening behind the scenes—both physically and psychologically—so you can finally build confidence in how you sound for your presentations, meetings, and important conversations. There’s no guest this week; it's just me, sharing techniques and insights straight from my own coaching experience. If you’ve ever felt hesitant to speak up because you’re self-conscious about your voice, or you want to project more authority and command in your professional life, this episode is for you. Here’s what I cover: Why your voice sounds so different—and often “worse”—when you hear it recorded, thanks to the physics of bone conduction versus air conduction. The phenomenon I call “imposter voice syndrome” and why it fuels self-doubt and anxiety. How exposure therapy can help you get comfortable with the sound of your recorded voice and shift from self-judgment to self-acceptance. Practical, immediately actionable techniques to power up your voice, including diaphragmatic breathing for resonance and steadiness, finding your optimal pitch with safe and easy exercises, and the strategic use of pauses to add authority and presence. Tips for using volume and articulation to ensure your message lands—so you never mumble or fade out at a crucial moment. How the way you use your voice transforms your leadership presence and credibility. Tactics for handling high-pressure situations, reading the room, and dynamically adjusting your delivery for maximum impact. Developing a simple, five-minute pre-speaking vocal warmup routine to make confidence a habit instead of a hope. The mindset shift from self-consciousness to audience focus so you stop apologizing for your sound and start using your voice as a strategic communication asset. By the end of the episode, you’ll realize that your voice is not something to hide or “fix”—it’s your unique communication signature. With some deliberate practice and self-kindness, you’ll be on your way to speaking with authentic confidence, no matter the situation. If you take away only one thing today, let it be this: your voice has the power to change the world, starting with how you think and feel about it. For more resources, remember to grab your free eBook and check out the Formula for Public Speaking rules at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Until next time, embrace your voice and keep building that confidence! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how your written communication—resumes, LinkedIn profiles, career documents—can truly reflect who you are and ensure you're projecting the same confidence and authenticity in person as you do on paper? If you’ve found yourself stuck, unsure how to craft your professional story, or if you want your talents and personality to leap off the page and into your interviews, this episode is for you. Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence! Today, I dive into the art and science of translating your professional story onto paper, a skill just as essential as public speaking. I’m joined by Amy Adler, a nationally recognized career strategist and founder of Five Strengths Career Transition Experts. Amy is an expert in coaching executives and professionals to tell their stories in amazing, impactful ways—helping them shine in written formats and feel truly confident when meeting hiring teams. Here’s what we covered in this episode: How life experiences and regional culture shape communication, both written and spoken Why adapting your style to meet people where they are (“The Platinum Rule”) builds trust and connection Listening as a superpower for introverts—and transforming introversion into powerful coaching and storytelling Building confidence by reframing your career journey as a forward-thinking, impactful story Techniques for career transition: defining strategy, setting attainable goals, and building momentum The power of authenticity and congruence between your written documents and your real self in interviews Advice for young professionals and higher education: letting students tell their whole story, not just check boxes Breaking through fear and vulnerability in the job search by seeking expert help—and why it’s a sign of strength, not weakness How collaborative coaching and resume writing can transform personal narratives, boost self-belief, and elevate career outcomes If you’re ready to bridge the gap between your resume and your real, confident self—and learn strategies that make your written communication truly impactful—give this episode a listen. Huge thanks to Amy Adler for sharing her wisdom and experience with such empathy and clarity. And thank you for tuning in to Speaking with Confidence! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever felt that sinking feeling during a meeting or conversation when you realize you’re losing the room—people are checking their phones, yawning, or just looking right through you? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly that challenge: how to read the room and respond in real time so you stay connected, engaged, and in control whenever you speak. As someone who transitioned from being a college professor to a communication coach, I’ve seen firsthand how common these scenarios are—and I know how disheartening it can be when you feel your message isn’t landing. But here’s the good news: reading a room and understanding the invisible feedback loop in every group interaction isn’t an innate superpower. It’s a practical set of observation skills that anyone can learn and refine. Here’s what we covered in this episode: Why reading the room is about observation, not mind-reading—and why anyone can learn it The big myth about social intelligence—and how being a better observer is the real secret The four universal behavioral cues that signal audience engagement (phone checking, yawning, fidgeting, blank stares) Real-world examples: what these cues mean in meetings, networking events, and interviews The importance of interpreting cues in context (and the dangers of knee-jerk misinterpretations) Easy, low-pressure ways to scan a room and spot behavioral patterns How to respond when you see signs of disengagement—without making it awkward or calling people out Techniques to shift energy, boost engagement, and reset the group dynamic Transitioning from self-consciousness to others-awareness to become a more intentional and confident communicator A simple exercise to practice observation skills in your next meeting By the end of this episode, you’ll have a set of repeatable techniques to help you read any room and respond with confidence—no matter the situation. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection, and every conversation is a chance to build this skill. If you want to dive deeper, head over to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com to grab your free eBook on overcoming the top public speaking challenges, and check out the format for the Public Speaking course. Your voice is powerful, and it’s time to use it to change your world. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered if charisma is something you’re born with, or if it can be built—and more importantly, how it impacts your confidence and effectiveness as a communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with John Ball, a keynote and presentation coach who’s spent years helping speakers, coaches, and leaders boost their influence from competent to captivating. Today, we dig into the journey of finding your authentic voice as a speaker, the joys and challenges of adding humor to presentations, and the real value of showing up with warmth and confidence, wherever you are in the world. John Ball brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table—not only as the host of The Present Influence Podcast and co-host of the Coaching Clinic podcast, but also as a professional speaker on topics like personal mastery and leadership communication. His global perspective as someone who’s lived in both the UK and Spain and spent years as a flight attendant puts him in a unique position to discuss connecting with different cultures, and how traveling has shaped his approach to communication and coaching. In this episode, we cover: How traveling and working abroad expands your communication skills and comfort zones Using humor and warmth as universal connectors across cultures Why every speaker should try stand-up comedy at least once The difference between charisma and charm—and how to spot “fake” charisma Techniques to build genuine charisma (even if you’re not naturally extroverted) The process of testing and refining stories for presentations Emotional leadership and the responsibility you hold as a speaker Why presence and vulnerability matter more than perfection How to avoid charisma killers like overthinking and ego The importance of living with intention and making positive choices in how you show up Stage time as the single most effective way to improve your communication Storytelling tips: focusing on transformation, emotional flow, and audience engagement If you’re ready to take your communication from competent to captivating—and want to put more humor, warmth, and charisma into every conversation that counts—this episode is packed with stories, strategies, and encouragement to get you started. Ready to step up, lighten up, and speak with more confidence than ever before? Listen now, and let’s grow together. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Do you ever feel like you're doing all the “right” things at networking events, but somehow you still walk away with a stack of business cards—yet none of those connections turn into genuine relationships or career opportunities? If so, this episode is for you. I'm Tim Newman, host of Speaking with Confidence, and in today’s solo episode, I dig deep into the art (and science) of networking—and why most traditional approaches are holding you back. You’ll hear why so many professionals get stuck in a transactional mindset, treating networking as a numbers game rather than a process of real relationship-building. If you’ve ever wondered why your networking feels hollow (or downright fake), we uncover the gap between “collecting contacts” and creating meaningful professional relationships that truly advance your career. We start with the classic post-event scenario: you’ve met loads of people, exchanged business cards, but later realize you can barely remember anyone and end up tossing those cards into that infamous desk drawer where connections go to die. I call this “fake networking,” and it’s not just ineffective—it’s potentially damaging to your professional reputation. Here’s what we cover in this episode: Why collecting business cards isn’t the same as building real professional relationships The damaging effects of transactional, numbers-based networking mindsets The two most common forms of fake networking: “self-serving connections” and “ghost follow-ups” The long-term reputational risks of fake networking tactics How leadership and influence (not just connections) determine your career potential A two-part strategy to shift to authentic, value-driven networking How to discover and articulate your unique value before every interaction The importance of research and matching your value to others’ real needs Why reliable follow-through is the ultimate networking credibility builder How to become the kind of connection others seek out—so opportunities come to you If you want to break out of the cycle of shallow networking and start making connections that truly count, this episode will give you both the insight and the practical steps you need. Remember, your next professional interaction is an opportunity to show up differently, lead with value, and nurture a network that lifts you higher. Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, The Top 20 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and find details on our Formula for Public Speaking course. Your voice has the power to change it—see you next time! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered what it really takes to speak confidently in front of any audience—whether it’s a crowded boardroom, a theatre-stage packed with anticipation, or a busy hair salon at age twelve? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I welcome back the incredible Rachael Edmondson-Clarke for her second appearance—a rare privilege on this show! Rachael’s journey from sweeping floors in her mom’s beauty salon to leading professional speakers across the UK and Ireland is more than inspirational—it’s a masterclass in authentic communication, building trust, and continuous growth. In this episode, we dive deep into how early experiences shape our ability to read nonverbal cues, remain genuine, and adapt our energy to truly connect with others. Rachael shares the story of working reception in her mom’s salon—juggling two telephones, a crowd of clients, and a team of stylists—all before she was sixteen! She reflects on how tuning into body language transformed not only her customer service skills but also her capacity to lead and build trust, skills that have served her throughout her career. Rachael takes us on a whirlwind tour of her professional journey: from impactful presenting workshops, to drama stages, to corporate boardrooms, and finally to becoming vice president of the Professional Speaking Association UK & Ireland. She shares candid lessons from competing in the Speaker Factor competition, including her “banana and dark chocolate” ritual, and how even a tough performance can be the launchpad for real growth when you have the right community supporting you. We talk about the crucial importance of congruence—making sure your words, body language, and tone all align to build trust and credibility. Rachael’s anecdotes highlight that storytelling isn’t just about big, heroic moments; it’s also about the everyday stories (including her infamous toothbrush battery saga!) that make you relatable and memorable to any audience. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize how practice, resilience, and vulnerability are key to developing as a speaker. Whether it’s learning from an uncomfortable video replay or dusting off your presentation after setbacks, the journey to confident communication is ongoing—and full of opportunities to embrace humor, share truth, and connect authentically. Here’s what we cover in this episode: How reading body language and energy can elevate your communication—starting at the salon reception desk Why being congruent (aligning words and actions) builds trust with any audience Rachael’s transition from corporate marketing roles to leading professional speakers—and what she learned along the way The value of continuous learning and putting your skills into practice (even if it means watching yourself on video!) Behind-the-scenes secrets of the Speaker Factor competition (including performance rituals, nerves, and bouncing back from setbacks) The pivotal role of storytelling—why everyday moments matter as much as big, dramatic stories Using humor (self-deprecating or otherwise) as a powerful connector and communicator Practical advice for anyone looking to build confidence: find your own style, practice, and seek feedback from a supportive community Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why those first few seconds of a presentation seem to matter so much—and what you can do to make an unforgettable first impression? That’s exactly what we’re diving into in today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence. As your host, I’m Tim Newman—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—here to help you transform how you show up in critical professional moments. In this solo episode, I dig deep into the pivotal opening seconds of any conversation or presentation, explaining just how quickly our audiences form judgments about us, often before we’ve even said a word. If you’ve ever stumbled over your opening line, tossed out a nervous “um,” or rushed an apology, you’re not alone. But research shows those tiny signals have an outsized impact on how credible and confident we come across. We kick off this episode looking at the science behind first impressions and what’s actually happening in your audience’s mind before you’ve begun to speak. I break down how nonverbal cues—like body language, eye contact, and breath—are unconsciously evaluated, leading listeners to decide, in milliseconds, whether you’re someone worth tuning into. Whether you’re entering a boardroom or joining a casual conversation, those early moments count more than we often realize. Here’s the game changer: I introduce a simple, research-backed technique called the “silent transformation.” At its heart, this approach asks you to pause—intentionally—for a few seconds before you speak. What feels awkward from the speaker’s side actually signals steadiness and control to everyone watching. I walk you through why this pause lowers your anxiety, helps focus your thoughts, and sets the stage for a much stronger connection with your audience. Of course, how you follow that pause is just as important as the pause itself. I share the elements of crafting a memorable first line, offering examples of surprising statistics, bold questions, and vivid short stories that instantly generate curiosity and relevance. You'll hear practical routines to make silence feel natural, concise strategies to build anticipation, and methods to ensure your opening words have real impact. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, actionable plan for your next presentation: The psychological evidence behind snap judgments in opening seconds How nervous habits derail your credibility, and what to do instead The silent transformation technique: why a deliberate pause works wonders How to practice silence so it feels empowering, not awkward The three reliable ways to open with impact (statistic, question, or story) Connecting your opener to your audience for immediate relevance Why concise, rehearsed beginnings make you appear more confident and thoughtful A challenge for your next presentation, and a routine for daily practice This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to move beyond shaky introductions and truly command attention from the moment they step into the room. If you’re ready to transform your presence and make every word count, start with these tools—and don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and resources to keep building your skills. Let’s keep progressing together. Your voice Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why working hard and being excellent isn't always enough to get noticed at work, especially if you're aiming for a leadership role? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we explore why self-advocacy is the secret ingredient to career advancement—and how not speaking up can leave you overlooked, no matter your achievements. In today's show, I’m joined by Rosie Zilinskas, a certified high performance coach, Colby consultant, and former Fortune 500 executive vice president. Rosie’s own journey through the corporate ranks brought her face to face with the reality so many mid-career women encounter: results and dedication alone don’t guarantee recognition or promotion. After enduring a difficult divorce and becoming the sole provider for her young children, Rosie doubled down on her work ethic—only to watch others move ahead while she waited to be noticed. The breakthrough came when a senior executive told her, “You never said anything,” and this sparked a powerful realization about the importance of communicating your ambitions. This episode is packed with insights and stories about: Why excellence alone isn’t enough for career advancement The necessity of vocalizing your ambitions and goals at work Key strategies to self-advocate and communicate your value How generational and gender differences affect workplace perceptions Handling feedback: turning criticism into growth fuel The four main barriers women face when seeking promotion (worthiness, popularity, skills, visibility) Actionable preparation tips for meetings, interviews, and networking events Overcoming emotional inhibitors and reframing limiting beliefs The role of self-awareness in building confidence and driving your career forward Rosie delivers practical advice for anyone wanting to take ownership of their professional development, push past self-imposed obstacles, and show up confidently—no matter where you are in your journey. If you’re ready to stop waiting to be chosen and start actively building a career you love, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts you need. Tune in now and discover how speaking up for yourself truly changes your journey. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text What would you do if you were asked to give a speech on the spot—with zero time to prepare? That’s the question we’re tackling in today’s episode, and if you’ve ever felt your heart drop when called on unexpectedly, this one’s for you. Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence—I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, we’re diving into the “emergency kit” that pros use when they have to speak without warning. If you’ve ever found yourself in a meeting, tasked to cover for a colleague who didn’t show up, or asked for a project update out of the blue, you know the stress of thinking on your feet. While nothing replaces thoughtful preparation, everyone needs a go-to strategy for those moments when life throws curveballs. In this episode, you’ll hear: How to use the PREP method for instant structure The power and practicality of the Rule of Three The “ten second trick” for gaining time and composure Why stories and examples beat theories every time Real-life scripts for handling pressure in meetings and presentations How to combine these techniques for a clear, confident 5-minute presentation—even when you’re put on the spot Thanks for tuning in to Speaking with Confidence. Until next time—keep practicing, keep growing, and keep letting your voice be heard. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why empathy is often considered a “soft skill,” and whether it truly has a place in driving real results within leadership, organizations, and communication? On this week’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle this question head-on with my guest, Dr. Melissa Robinson-Winemiller, an expert in empathy, emotional intelligence, and visionary leadership. I’m Tim Newman, your host–a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Every week, I help listeners build the skills and confidence they need to show up powerfully in every conversation. Today, I’m thrilled to welcome Dr. Winemiller, whose mission is to help leaders become future visionaries by making empathy skills-based, data-driven, and results-oriented. Melissa brings a rich background as both a world-traveling musician and a former academic who has dedicated her life to understanding and teaching empathy for profit, productivity, and innovation. Our conversation kicks off with Melissa’s fascinating backstory: how a lifelong passion for music took her across the globe, on tours and prestigious stages, and even saw her playing French horn alongside legends like Ray Charles and conversing with David Ogden Steers (MAS*H’s Winchester). As Melissa shares, her journey from the world of performance to academia—and ultimately to empathy research—was shaped by witnessing both the highs of artistic connection and the lows of broken, unempathetic systems. Here's what we covered: Melissa’s journey from international touring musician to empathy expert and academic Life and communication lessons from the world of music performance The vulnerability of public speaking versus musical performance Teaching and connecting with students through listening and individualized communication The real impact of empathy (and lack thereof) in education and business Why empathy is undervalued—and how research supports its ROI Strategies for leaders to foster trust, engagement, and innovation through empathy The Johari Window model for communication and self-awareness The difference between kindness and niceness in leadership and business Practical ways to build empathy in teams and organizations (plus when real change requires a leadership overhaul) The case for embedding empathy in educational systems from an early age Real world examples from Melissa’s book about the financial and human costs of broken organizations Where to find Melissa’s book, connect online, and catch her TEDx talk (soon to be released!) Melissa’s insights go far beyond theory—they’re deeply rooted in lived experience, rigorous research, and a powerful vision for future-forward leadership. Don’t miss this episode if you want to learn how to use empathy not just to “feel good,” but to drive lasting, meaningful results in your work and life. Thanks for joining me—Tim Newman—on this journey to speaking with confidence. Be sure to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and stay tuned for our next episode! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text What separates a good communicator from a truly exceptional one and how can you ensure you’re not holding yourself back from the career you want? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re diving into the core of leadership communication, self-awareness, and the ever-changing landscape of workplace communication especially as technology like AI becomes more prominent. I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m joined by leadership consultant, seasoned executive educator, and author, Michael de Lisser. With over 25 years of experience creating customized leadership development programs, coaching 500+ executives, and shaping the next generation of leaders at the University of Utah, Michael de Lisser brings wisdom, practical insights, and real stories to every answer. Here’s what we cover in this jam-packed episode: The pivotal reasons leaders get fired and how communication is often at the root Michael de Lisser’s go-to method for transforming communication habits, from videofeedback to new behaviors The power of self-awareness and catching your “blind spots” early Recording yourself: why it's uncomfortable, but vital for growth Filler words, over-explaining, and other common bad habits and how to fix them Why trying to be “perfect” or someone else sabotages both your executive presence and credibility The unique challenges (and strengths) of younger generations in communication How AI is reshaping workplace communication, and why delivery still matters most The case for always customizing your message to your audience (with real boardroom examples) Building relationships to increase your influence and message “stickiness” Developing a pre-presentation ritual to manage nerves and “get in the zone” What executive presence really means and why authenticity wins over style every time How to use your strengths and shore up weaknesses to captivate any room Tips for practicing under pressure, bouncing back from mistakes, and celebrating wins on your communication journey By the end of this episode, you'll have a toolkit of actionable steps to raise your self-awareness, break through old communication patterns, and show up with confidence no matter the audience or setting. If you’re ready to take your communication skills from good to great (and beyond), this one’s packed with insights you’ll want to revisit again and again. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever walked out of an interview thinking you nailed it, only to get that dreaded rejection email? If you’ve ever wondered why your answers weren’t as memorable as you hoped, you’re definitely not alone—and this episode of Speaking with Confidence is for you. I’m Tim Newman, your host and communication coach, and today we’re diving deep into a question that can make all the difference between being passed over and landing the job: How do you turn routine interview answers into momentum-packed stories that recruiters remember? In this solo episode, we explore the power of storytelling in interviews—specifically, how moving away from bland job description recaps and instead zeroing in on moments when you made a real difference can set you apart from the crowd. We’ll unpack the biggest mistake most candidates make: defaulting to flat, activity-based responses that tell interviewers what you did, but not how you moved the needle. You’ll hear why showing measurable progress is so powerful, both for impressing human hiring managers and even AI-driven applicant tracking systems. We’ll dig into the neuroscience behind why stories that highlight change and results are 22 times more memorable than plain lists of tasks. Most importantly, I’ll arm you with my Momentum Story Blueprint—a repeatable, actionable formula based on the STAR method that will help you frame your contributions in ways that recruiters will notice (and remember). In today’s episode, we cover: The real reason so many candidates blend together in interviews—and how you can stand out How to move beyond listing job duties and instead showcase your impact, growth, and results The science behind why outcome-focused stories stick with interviewers How John Maxwell’s Momentum Principle applies to interviews (and why “the law of the big Mo” is your secret weapon) Why skill-based hiring trends and even AI screening tools favor momentum-driven answers A step-by-step breakdown of the Momentum Story Blueprint: how to define the situation, detail actions, and cement your results with metrics Real-life examples that show you how to transform your raw experiences into compelling evidence of future potential Practical tips for sharpening your stories, practicing them for video or audio interviews, and ensuring every answer packs a punch By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to show—clearly and confidently—not just what you’ve done, but the visible difference you can make. Whether you’re preparing for your next big interview or just want to get better at communicating your value, this episode gives you the tools to prove you’re the candidate who brings momentum wherever you go. Ready to move your career story forward? Hit play and let’s get started. And don’t forget—after you listen, head over to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more resources to help you become a memorable, confident communicator. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered what it really takes to lead with clarity, courage, and impact, without burning out or losing yourself in the process? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into that question and explore the real-life challenges and mindset shifts required to build a fulfilling, sustainable leadership journey. I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m joined by an inspiring guest: Rachael Edmondson-Clarke. Rachael brings an extraordinary wealth of experience from her years as a senior corporate leader to her current role running Elevar, her own leadership consultancy. Over the past decade, she's helped countless high-performing leaders and teams show up bravely, with clarity and authenticity, even in challenging environments. Rachael is also a former regional Vice President and President of the Professional Speaking Association in the UK and Ireland, and a sought-after speaker, coach, and consultant. She’s the perfect person to help us unpack the realities of leadership, personal growth, and balance in a fast-paced world. In our conversation, Rachael opens up about what it was like climbing the corporate ladder before facing a sudden, life-changing wake-up call—a moment that forced her to reevaluate everything she thought she wanted. She describes the intense pressure of trying to “push through,” the toll it took on her health and relationships, and how it ultimately led to her collapsing in her office. Most importantly, she shares how she rebuilt her life and career from that moment of crisis, moving from survival mode to creating a business that aligns with her values, energy, and mission. Other highlights include: The hidden costs of always being “on” and why biology can’t be outsmarted by mindset alone Practical approaches for restoring your energy and avoiding the traps of toxic productivity culture How organizational culture and unaddressed emotional needs impact team engagement, trust, and retention Tips for effective boundary-setting, especially in meeting-heavy, high-pressure environments The importance of honest, direct feedback from mentors and creating an inner circle that pushes you to grow—and how “fierce empathy” is the balance between tough love and real support A free tool from Rachael (The Pause) to cut through overwhelm and help you lead from truth, not fear Why the real value of personal development isn’t just your own growth, but how you show up as the leader the world needs If you’re ready to step out of survival mode and into leadership that’s both impactful and sustainable—whether in your organization, your community, or your own household—this episode is packed with insights you’ll want to put into action right away. As always, you can find resources and Rachael’s free download in the show notes. And don’t forget to grab your free copy of my Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers, or check out our public speaking course at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Remember, your voice has power. Use it well, and you can change the world. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever left a meeting feeling like you spent the whole time talking about yourself—or maybe stuck listening to someone else do it? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m diving into a challenge that creeps into nearly every workplace: dealing with the “me monster” and transforming conversations to actually build connection, trust, and meaningful collaboration. I’m Tim Newman, your host, communication coach, and former college professor. This week, I’m tackling the tricky question: How do you handle difficult coworkers or even notice when you might be the “difficult one” yourself? In this episode, you won’t have to guess—I’ll show you simple ways to spot the habits that undermine teamwork and share a repeatable blueprint for having conversations that truly make a difference. We start by recognizing an all-too-common office scenario: a team frantically working on a crashed server, while one coworker (let’s call her Sarah) dominates the conversation with off-topic stories about her weekend. While Sarah isn’t a villain—just another busy teammate slipping into autopilot—her “me monster” tendencies chip away at team cohesion and productivity. I’ll walk you through how science explains this instinct and why our brains so easily  Here’s what you’ll walk away with: An honest look at what drives the “me monster” and how to recognize it in yourself and others Three red flags that signal you’re derailing conversations John Maxwell’s five-step Law of Connection—how to set your agenda aside, ask great questions, lean in, recall meaningful details, and follow-up Practical ways to apply a collaboration mindset, even with the toughest coworkers, and scripts you can start using today Awareness of how small communication changes can build trust, psychological safety, and unlock creative solutions on any team A micro-experiment for your next meeting to shift from “me-first” to shared success Thanks for joining me on Speaking with Confidence. Remember, your voice has the power to change the dynamic of any team and every conversation. Keep practicing, keep connecting, and I’ll see you next time! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Welcome back to “Speaking with Confidence.” I’m Tim Newman, your host and recovering college professor turned communication coach. In this episode, I dive into how radical responsibility shapes not only the way we communicate but the core of how we relate to ourselves and others. We look beyond typical “confidence” and get to the heart of conviction—the mindset shift that changes how we show up in our lives. Joining me is Clay Moffat, a Navy veteran and performance strategist with a truly remarkable journey. Clay has been on top, coaching billionaires and building a seven-figure business—only to lose it all in a high-stakes startup crash. He faced the frightening possibility of permanent blindness while rebuilding his life, and from those experiences, Clay created the concept of the "trust trap"—the focus of his new book. Clay’s work helps people break free from the nervous system patterns and mental habits that keep us stuck in self-doubt, blame, and unproductive cycles, teaching not just confidence, but conviction rooted in personal power. Our conversation starts with the central idea: what does it mean to take “radical responsibility” for our lives? Clay explains that it’s not about blaming yourself, but about owning even that “1%” of any situation that you can control or influence. As Clay puts it, reclaiming any sort of personal power, freedom, and forward motion in life begins with this kind of self-honesty. We talk about why the question “Why is this happening to me?” traps us in victimhood, and how reframing it to “How did I create this?” can shift us from powerlessness to agency. Through everyday stories—from missed vacations to major financial decisions—Clay shares how this mindset applies whether the stakes are small or life-changing. Here’s what we covered in this episode: What is radical responsibility and how does it differ from blame or self-criticism? The difference between “confidence” and “conviction,” and why conviction matters for real communication and presence. How to spot when you’re stuck in victim thinking, and the questions to ask yourself to regain personal power. Practical strategies for transforming negative self-talk, including a four-step process to create a more supportive inner dialogue. The hidden ways family patterns and early conditioning shape our self-image and choices—often beneath conscious awareness. Why we ignore red flags and how our brains’ desire for shortcuts can create unhelpful mental “brackets” about people and situations. Real-life stories from Clay about high-stakes decision making, resilience, and bouncing back from major setbacks. How to own your story, communicate more authentically, and set a new standard for leadership, parenting, and self-trust. The power of mindset—the small language shifts that can open new pathways for growth, resilience, and effective action. Insights from “Trust Trap” on reclaiming authority over your life—even when circumstances and the world try to pull your power away. Listen in to learn how taking radical responsibility can revolutionize how you see yourself, how you show up in the world, and the trust you create with others and yourself. Don’t forget, you can connect with Clay Moffat on X (formerly Twitter) @MoffatClay o Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered if miscommunication might actually help you become a more engaging and memorable communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I explore a surprising twist on a familiar idea: sometimes, leaving a little room for confusion or ambiguity can actually boost curiosity, spark discussion, and fuel unforgettable moments—on stage, online, and even in negotiation. I'm Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—and I’ve spent over 80 episodes talking about the power of clear communication. But today, I flip the script and dive into why miscommunication isn’t always the enemy it’s made out to be. From viral memes and comedy to business leadership and marketing, I share the latest research and real-world examples of how a bit of strategic ambiguity can capture attention, create energy, and invite others to actively engage with your message. No guest joins me for this episode, but I take you on a journey through some fascinating insights from communication scholars, comedians, media analysts, and strategists. I unpack how, across a variety of settings, purposeful ambiguity can spark engagement, inspire creativity, and keep people talking long after the conversation ends. Here’s what I cover in this episode: Why the gap between what’s said and what’s meant is the secret behind viral memes, comedy punchlines, and successful negotiations. Research showing that a little uncertainty or open-endedness can actually draw people in and hold their attention—sometimes much more than a perfectly explained message. How memes like “Distracted Boyfriend” and “Woman Yelling at Cat” harness ambiguity to invite endless audience participation and creativity. The role of strategic ambiguity in business, leadership, and marketing—for example, how broad or aspirational language attracts more candidates and participants by letting them see themselves in the picture. How comedians turn miscommunication into laughs by intentionally leading audiences down the “wrong path” before delivering the twist. The importance of timing, empathy, and precision when using ambiguity—whether you’re crafting a brand campaign, negotiating, or writing a killer joke. The line between clever ambiguity and harmful confusion—where to draw boundaries to make sure your message is effective and respectful. Practical tips to experiment with curiosity gaps and partial premises in your own speaking and writing, while always putting your audience first. If you want to make your communication more engaging and memorable—or just want to understand why the most viral moments are often the least perfectly polished—this episode offers a new perspective on why “less clarity” might, at times, be more powerful. Be sure to grab your free eBook, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking groups. And remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Catch you next time! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text What does it really take to become a powerful speaker, even if you’re terrified of public speaking? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m taking you deep into the strategies, stories, and mindset shifts that will help you overcome your fears and truly connect with any audience. I’m your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and today, I’m joined by a truly inspiring guest: Terry L. Fossum. Terry isn’t just a survival reality show winner; he's a Wall Street Journal, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble best-selling author, a keynote speaker, and his TEDx talk has been recognized as one of the top 30 talks in the country. He’s also raised millions for charity and taught at the MBA level. Most importantly for our listeners, Terry knows a thing or two about turning nerves into powerful moments on stage, and he’s passionate about helping others do the same. In our conversation, we dove into why real, honest, and clear communication is at the heart of succeeding under pressure, both in survival situations and in everyday life. Terry shares how being on a survival reality show, partnered with someone totally opposite from him, forced him to communicate at a whole new level. He also reveals how his experiences as a scoutmaster and military officer taught him the value of finding the good in people from all backgrounds and leading with purpose. Here’s what we talk about in this episode: How survival skills and communication go hand-in-hand (with plenty of hilarious and moving stories from Terry’s reality show days) What to do when team conflict and stress threaten to derail your message or working relationships The power of owning your mistakes, giving others grace, and building credibility through authenticity Why emotion, not facts, drives action and how to leverage that in any speech or presentation The “position of power” technique to conquer nerves and step on stage with confidence every time The critical first five seconds: hooking your audience and making the talk about them Why being vulnerable and sharing your failures is actually your superpower as a communicator An intro to the SIMPLE framework for public speaking, and how to build talks that get standing ovations (and results!) Tips for landing, crafting, and performing a TEDx talk that really stands out By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable inspiration and tools to step into your own power as a speaker, no matter where you’re starting from. And always remember: your voice can change the world. Don’t forget to check out Terry’s book, his podcast “The Comeback Chronicles”, and all of the resources we mention, including the free IdeaScore AI tool to score your TEDx ideas. Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Subscribe to never miss an episode and visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for additional tips and free resources to support your journey to becoming a confident and impactful speaker. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever thought, “I don’t have any stories to tell,” or wondered where people get those everyday stories that connect so powerfully with their audience? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive headfirst into that question and show you exactly how to spot and share the remarkable stories already hiding in your daily life. I’m Tim Newman, your host, and as a recovering college professor turned communication coach, I know first-hand how easy it is to believe your life doesn’t serve up “epic” stories worth sharing. But the truth I’ve learned through both experience and science is that your best stories are simpler, closer, and more relatable than you ever imagined. Today, we’re flipping the script on storytelling by focusing on the small, ordinary moments that hold hidden magic when you know how to uncover and frame them. This episode is just me no guest because I wanted to dig deep into my favorite topic: the practical art of everyday storytelling. I share personal experiences (including my own mishaps and embarrassments), research findings, and creative exercises you can use right away. Here’s what we tackle together: Why chasing after “epic” stories is a waste of energy, and how your camera roll, junk drawer, and overheard conversations are loaded with potential story material. The science behind why small, vulnerable stories are more memorable and create stronger audience connection than polished, fact-based presentations. My three-step rule for quickly turning small disasters (like burning your grilled cheese or missing the bus) into engaging stories anyone can relate to. How to turn random objects (think broken watches or lone hairpins) into compelling story seeds using a practical three-step exercise. Techniques for mining everyday dialogue like coffee shop chatter for real, emotional narrative arcs, and how to practice capturing those authentic moments. Why sharing imperfect, unpolished stories is so powerful (spoiler: it helps your listeners remember and see themselves in your story). A practical challenge for you: pick five ordinary things over the next week and use the three-step micro story method to discover just how many stories your “ordinary” life truly holds. If you’ve ever felt stuck when someone told you to “just tell a story,” by the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools and most importantly, the mindset to pull stories from even the most unremarkable corners of your day. Remember, your daily life is full of story prompts just waiting to be told, and those stories are your greatest assets as a communicator and connector. Don’t forget to grab your free ebook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking course. Thanks for joining me, your voice truly has the power to change the world. See you next time! Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to stand out, move up quickly in your career, and speak confidently, especially when you’re just starting out? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into the real skills that make the difference between simply doing the work and truly excelling–skills that aren’t always on the job description, but that employers look for and reward. I’m Tim Newman, your host and a former college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping people build the soft skills that lead to real results, whether in storytelling, public speaking, or just showing up with more confidence. This week, I’m thrilled to speak with Brianne Rush, the founder of The Independence Lab. Brianne is a powerhouse when it comes to helping Gen Z women make the leap from college to career. She rose through the ranks incredibly quickly from intern to managing editor in a year, and employee to VP in four years by learning to decode workplace dynamics, advocate for herself, and, most importantly, overcome her fear of public speaking. We kick off the conversation with Brianne’s story—how she knew from the age of eight that she wanted to move to New York to be a journalist, and what it felt like to finally live that dream. Brianne shares what inspired her to choose New York, how her experiences in dance and performance influenced her, and why total immersion in a city full of energy was essential to her identity and early career. She explains the lessons she learned—not just about working hard and climbing the ranks, but about truly living in the moment and building genuine connections, both professional and personal. Here’s what we cover in this episode: Brianne’s journey from dreaming of journalism in New York to landing and advancing in her dream role The importance of immersion, living in the moment, and building meaningful experiences early in your career Lessons about working hard, networking, and creating opportunities for yourself—even when you start at the bottom What employers are really looking for in hiring today: the power of soft skills like passion, curiosity, proactivity, and communication How to stand out authentically in interviews—using storytelling, personalized cover letters, and honest conversation instead of relying only on AI Practical strategies to display confidence, curiosity, and proactivity in every step of your job search Brianne’s advice on career advancement: emotional intelligence skills, self-awareness, handling setbacks, and the value of progress over perfection Navigating boundaries, learning to say no, and prioritizing projects that advance your career (with a special focus on women in the workplace) Gen Z’s growing focus on self-knowledge, life transitions, and ditching outdated hustle culture for a healthier approach The mission behind The Independence Lab and actionable resources for building emotional intelligence If you’re looking for real advice on how to marry soft skills and confidence with actionable career moves, this episode is for you—whether you’re early in your career, managing the next big transition, or helping others find their way. Be sure to check out Brianne’s free resources and connect with us to keep leveling up your communicat Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a text What does it really take to transform your nerves into confidence when speaking in front of an audience—no matter how big or small? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I take you behind the scenes of my own speaking journey, sharing raw stories, practical takeaways, and the coaching that helped me grow in unexpected ways. This week, I pull back the curtain on my experience as part of the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team. After years of preaching the importance of lifelong learning, I put myself on the line—joining the team, earning advanced presenter certifications, and even making a run at standing on stage at the International Maxwell Conference. Today, I want to show you what growth looks like up close, and how vital it is to seek feedback, embrace vulnerability, and focus on progress over perfection. To help me along this journey, I worked closely with Roddy Galbraith, none other than John Maxwell’s own speaking coach. If you’ve ever wondered whether even the best need coaching, this episode is for you. Roddy pushed me to look deeper at my message, delivery, and what I genuinely wanted my audience to walk away with. Together, we honed a simple three-minute story—one I’d performed more than a hundred times—transforming it from a personal anecdote into a powerful teaching tool. In this episode, you'll hear: My own public speaking horror story—the first time I had to speak in college and what happened when anxiety got the best of me How that one embarrassing moment became the foundation for my growth as a speaker and coach The grueling, but rewarding, process of preparing for the Maxwell International Conference, and what it felt like to just miss the finals by two seconds A step-by-step look at the evolution of my speech—from the initial draft, through Roddy’s constructive feedback, to the final live version The importance of coaching and why even experienced speakers need fresh outside perspectives Strategies to shift your mindset from fearing the worst to aiming for the best every time you get up to speak Why perfection isn’t relatable, but vulnerability, honesty, and even a little messiness are How to take that next step in your own speaking journey—with tools and encouragement for breaking through nerves and building unshakable confidence If you’re ever wondered how to face your speaking fears, connect more authentically, or grow past setbacks, you'll find tools and inspiration in this episode. Remember, your voice truly does have the power to change your world—but only if you choose to use it. Thank you, as always, for supporting Speaking with Confidence. If you’re looking to keep leveling up, don’t forget to grab the free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and sign up for my Formula for Public Speaking course. Progress, not perfection—that’s our north star. Tune in and let’s keep moving forward, together. Support the show Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatchSpeaking With ConfidenceFormula for Public SpeakingFacebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices