How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent?
After years of communication <3
After reading the room.
After working with your partner. 

What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we're just starting in the scene. 

Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time - we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be.  Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.

You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It's your body - your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time.  Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings. 

• Consent, pt. 1

• Consent, pt. 2

• Limits

• Blanket Consent

The GASP team has opened Pandora's box of spanking! 

Join us to hear about the Herculean task the GASP team and volunteers are pulling off this time. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you'll hear about here first!

Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more??

There's even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year!
Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don't, the spanking Bottoms sure hope you have the spanking skill set to deliver a sound and welcomed spanking. 

And of course, there will be plenty of bratting, mischief, antics and all the revelry GASP is known for. Who knows what the faces that launched a thousand ships may have up their sleeves. Rubber duckies? Sass? Insolence? Or something else? 

Join us at the spanking Elysian Fields for GASP 2026.

At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg.

We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible to the live recording at GASP. We hope you will enjoy the discussion.

If you have additional questions you would like us to address in the future, please send us a message at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/ and will will try our best to answer you in a future episode.

Join us as we finish our interview  Piper And -JC. 

We reiterate the importance of being an ethical brat, (please reference our Episode 0007 "The 3 "C's" of Bratting"), respect yourself and respect others and the importance of implement hygiene, especially during these times of COVID. 

How does one define a spanking clique? 

Well, real friendship and connection is required to be part of a clique - a real click and bonding needs to happen. It's not just the "cool kids," the cool kids are actually nice ;) - they're just people who enjoy each other's company and have fun hanging out with each other. So feel free to approach us at a party and we might just become friends, we are not exclusive. 

So… Come to a spanking party! Make new friends! 

Believe it or not, Piper and -JC raise some points we haven't covered before as to why you should attend a national spanking party. 

Universal health care and better wages for all!! Sunny kidnapped Piper's pig but has she suffered the consequences?? Join us as we interview Piper and JC. A chaotically fun and engaging interview filled with advice for all Spankos. So. Much. Spanking. Fun. Oh. My. God. You won't be able to contain your excitement.

Join us as we have Madame Samantha B share relationship AND life advice with the Spanko! Podcast spankoholics. 

Madame Samantha B helps us reiterate that communicating clearly is key to a wonderful scene; respect your boundaries, respect their boundaries. 

To Karina's smug delight Eric and Madame Samantha B reiterate - the bottom is always in control, always, no matter what the top says. 

Stay tuned until the end for a delightful Surprise!

"Stick that bottom out!"

Join us as we get to know Madame Samantha B.

Find out why she is the hostess with the mostest (and she really is!). Discover when her spanking fantasies began, and when she was able to act on them.

When and why did she decide to make the leap into being a professional spanker of naughty girls?

Listen to part 1 of our conversation with Madame Samantha B.

It's Ass-Bustin' Time! 

Your long awaited male bottoms' interview is here!! The Spanko Podcast had a chance to meet some amazing male bottoms while at Texas Lone Star, and boy do you want to join us and listen! 

We have confident men who are not afraid to be submissive, men who are still learning to use their words, men who have modeled in spanking videos, men who have served in the military, and men who dove head-first in for the whole spanking ride!  

Join us as we interview CheechNChong1, tiemeup219, and thevbb in this amazing all-male-bottoms interview.

Join us as we explore holiday traditions with characters that actually involve spankings!!! 

How would you feel about sitting on Krampus' lap and confessing you've been a naughty girl or naughty boy and asking for your spanking? 

Are you Team Krampus or Team Belsnickel?

Maybe we just need to come up with a new Stress Relief Spanking Holiday to counteract the stress of the holidays.

Our Spankoholics recap their experience at the Lone Star Spanking Party 2021. This episode was recorded from a Live event on our OnlyFans page where we took some of their questions, told stories of our experiences, and demonstrated some of our new implements Live and On Camera!  

Listen as we regale you with stories of all the excitement, the fun, and of course the spankings of our first national party (as a podcast, and for a few of us)!

Right after our episode about Lone Star 2021, we spent a little time getting to know Paul "Tubaman" Rogers and Ava Nyx

Where does the name "Tubaman" come from?
How did Paul and Ava get started in the scene?
What are their favorite types of scenes?
Paul does HOW MANY videos a week????

Get answers to these questions and many more and lots of laughs from our Spankoholics on this episode!

We hope that you can learn from our stories and keep yourselves safe when meeting with fellow spankos!

Join us for a very special episode of Spanko! Podcast:

For pride month this year, we wanted to gather with some friends and have a very important discussion about what it's like to be Trans in the Spanking Community. 

Returning guest, Avery, hosts this episode, as we gather at GASP this year with a group of extraordinary and wonderful spankos to discuss their journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and how their individual eggs cracked (the evolution of the self-exploration journey and rebirth as your true self). 

We cover a wide range of topics such as gender identity affecting your chosen role as Top, Bottom, or Switch, and finding acceptance both with yourself and in the community. We also dive into some deep and personal territory and bring a lot of emotions and vulnerability forward. The journey is not always an easy one, but what we all experienced in creating this episode was love, support, and acceptance in ways that moved some of us to tears. 

Whether you have trans friends, feel awkward about discussing trans issues, have questions about playing with a trans person, are on your own journey of self-discovery or acceptance, or if you have ever felt awkward about yourself in any capacity, please give this episode a listen. 

We hope we've captured and shared with you the beauty and love in the room that we all felt while recording this very special episode.

Are you scary or are you scared? Muah ha ha.

Make sure you listen to this terrifying episode where  our Podcaster, Lizzy makes her first appearance at a spanking party, MDSS Halloween Spanking Party!!! Yes, we love our Michigan people. Find out your podcasters' costume fantasies; fun and sexy, scary and terrifying, or simply spanking practical? 

Find out what happens to naughty girls who hide implements, err put away implements where they belong. Can you imagine receiving hundreds of swats for an innocent trick? 

The Lonestar Spanking Party is Back!

Join Paul "Tubaman" Rogers and Ava Nyx as they tell us all about
everything we can expect at Lonestar 2021.
Brats, Littles, Male Events, Spanko Celebrities, and so much more!

And this year, some of these Spankoholics will be there!

We hope to see you there! And for those who can't join us in person,
we have many other treats in store!

Join the Spanko! Podcast for our first ever collaboration! 

Veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from the long-running kinky podcast, 'Erotic Awakening,' share their experiences with content creation and of course, spanking!

Make sure to check out eroticawakening.com/podcast and hear Dan & Dawn turn the tables and interview the Spanko Podcast crew.  It gets spicy!

Is crying during a spanking an unattainable fantasy?
When the tears come do they flow endlessly?
Does water rolling down your cheeks count as crying?
Should producing tears always be the goal of a spanking?
Is there any truth to the meme that says "a spanking only starts when the tears do?"

In this episode, find out what makes the Spanko! Podcast brats cry, and if Eric relishes in the tears of naughty girls.

Have you ever heard the term "munch" but never knew what it meant?
That ends right this minute! 

What is a munch? 

Who goes to muches? 

Where are they? 

What do I wear? 

How do I act? 

What should I say? 

What should I expect? 

How do I even find one?

Don't worry. We've got you. Take a deep breath. All those questions and more are answered in this episode.

Looking forward to seeing you at a munch!

The gauntlet continues! Join our guests from MDSS: BetterOFFKinky, MotownCouple, and Bumism, as we continue our discussion of Topping in Spanking.

Find out our Tops' topping preferences (spoiler: it involves communication and trust). Find out our Tops' dislikes (it may surprise a few brats). And discover how these sadists allow themselves to be comfortable with making a bottom cry, whimper, and whine.

The episode you've been asking for has finally arrived!

Join your favorite Spankoholics and some of their friends from the Metro Detroit Spanking Society (MDSS) as they discuss, [insert trumpet fanfare] Topping.

Is Topping something you can learn? Are the best Tops born that way? What do new Tops need to know? What do Tops get out of spanking anyway? 

Answers to these questions and a lot more happen as our brats plan to "gauntlet" the Tops with a barrage of your questions in this two-part episode.

Are you ready to party?!??

Join us at Midwest Spanktoberfest 2021 for a great spanking time! 

Coming to Chicago, IL, October 14-18

Featuring:

• Spanking Suites
• Diamonds-and-Denim dress up night
• Halloween Costume night
• Spanking Court
• Consensual Spankings
• Your Favorite Podcasters ;)
• Tons and Tons of Fun

You'll even have access to a hotel shuttle to get around town!

So, be sure to register to have a most wonderful spanking time!

Lizzy hosts this third installment of SpankoPodcast2Go.  

The recent conduct of her siblings toward Eric makes Sky wonder about the role of nurture in the development of spanking interests.  She and Eric discuss the possible origins of this "ornery" behavior,  the uses of the word "spank," and "discuss" Sky's own bratting ;)

Do you identify as a Middle? Do you identify as a Little? How do you know?
What does ABDL even stand for? How much crossover is there between ageplay and spanking?

Lizzy James joins us to answer all these questions and more.

Coming to you from TASSP 2024, AssaultedPeanut and Nemo join us to discuss Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming in a spanking scene. Whether you have been in a Co-Topping or Co-Bottoming scene, or you hope to someday, this episode is one you won't want to miss.

What does it mean to play with multiple Tops or multiple Bottoms in a scene? What challenges come up? What makes it so fun? Our guests, and our hosts, who have had this kind of experience share what their experiences have been like and why it's fun to explore playing with more than one friend at the same time.  

Our exceptional guests regale us with poetic, and almost play-by-play, reminiscences of this type of "dance" and what makes it so "yummy." 

Do we really need to negotiate? How important is it that everyone in a scene is on the same page? Are there other ways to keep yourself safe at a party?

As parties begin opening up, we thought we'd take this opportunity to review some safety tips and offer a FREE CLASS on Negotiations.

Remember, if you don't feel safe… you're gonna have a bad time.

Not all secrets stay hidden all the time.

What happens when you accidentally "come out" to one of your oldest friends? 

Join Eric and Sky as they come to terms with this very personal, very real situation.

Celebrating the first year anniversary of SpankoPodcast!
Can you believe it's been a year already??

Did You Know: When you receive a spanking your bottom will feel as if it's on fire?? *eyeroll*

SpankoMail brings us BigGirlSpanker's very first Spanking experience as a bottom, some of Lizzy's Spanking journey and  Sunny gets on her soapbox. 

Grab a drink and come celebrate with us!!

We've enjoyed recording for this past year and are grateful for each and everyone of our listeners!

Author and quintessential disciplinarian, Lady Pandora, joins us for a discussion of all things Corporal Punishment (CP)! From her years of learning and exploring, to her teaching, her unique terminology, and specific disciplinary techniques, Lady Pandora shares her vast experience.

Join us for this exquisite and joyful conversation that transcends communities… and continents!

This our very first car recording! Join us as we drive back home from a small spanking party (Covid-safe, of course). We left with sore bottoms, but Sunny apparently wasn't sore enough!! 

We tend to experience DROP after a party, so we discussed how much more fun it  is to travel to parties with friends. What do you need to recover after a spanking party? What helps you get back to reality? Please let us know!

Just as Clarine Klein's (@SpankMeSilly on Twitter)  audio book "Stuck in Her Teens'' has been released. Join the Spankoholics as we interview Miss Klein.

She's fun for real for real, like even IRL, and not just her amazingly relatable characters. We love her! Can't wait to meet her in IRL. When it's safe for us to do so, obvs.

She's so cool, she's even made a digital counting paddle, which she's said we are welcome to try it out next time we see her at an event. *excited teenage girl scream*

Immerse yourself in her books and feel yourself taken back to the 90s. Neopets anyone?

What do you want to experience? 
What do you NOT want to experience? 
When is it ok to discuss these things with your partner? (Always)
When should you stop something you don't like? (again, Always)
How do you know your own limits?

Join your favorite Spankoholics as they discuss their personal limits, and how to determine your own.

The Spankoholics discuss a final handful of alternative punishments including the absolute waste of time that is line-writing. Though essays may be a comparable punishment,  the women in this crew don't believe it's as tedious as line writing. YUCK! They don't need to work on their penmanship, we are in an era that's far more advanced than the typewriter people! Get with the times.

We continue our discussion of Alternative Punishments. In this part we cover a variety of options from the classic corner time, kneeling, sitting on the "pokey mat," to the use of capzasin cream and... um... so much more! 

Traditional alternative punishments and some discussion of Sunny's un-spanked bottom.

Though,  brace yourselves, this particular episode focuses mostly on a single alternative punishment: Mouth Soaping. 

"Sooo bubbly and squeaky clean."
*wagging finger* "Fix your attitude, young lady!"
"Don't roll your eyes, young lady!"
"What did you just mumble, missy?"
"Watch that language!"
All phrases you've probably heard before getting a mouth soaping.

If you're anything like BigGirlSpanker and you enjoy the art of quality spanking implements, you may have wondered where you should store your items. 

Should I use a backpack (Eric has)?
Or a baseball bag (Eric does)?
Or a trash bag (hey, we all need to improvise at times)?
Or is there something better out there?

Wonder no more! 

Our friend, Matt and his company LuxxGear, have come to the rescue! He has invested and devoted himself to creating quality implement bags known as KinkBags. Join us for a tour of their product, and see if it will work for an implement hoarder… I mean "collector"... like Eric.  We bet it may work for you, too.

It's 2021! A New Year and a Fresh Start… 

Discipline spankings can help you keep your New Year's Resolutions…. right? 

Join our spankoholics as they continue to discuss their own resolutions for the new year and how accountability can help keep them.

Happy New Year!!

It's 2021! A New Year and a Fresh Start… well, ok, we're still under quarantine, so it's not all that fresh… it's time to set goals for the new year! Join our spankoholics as they discuss their own resolutions for the new year and how accountability can help keep them.

This discussion became pretty epic, so we've divided it for the podcast. Part 2 is coming soon!

Merry Spanko-Christmas, or Spankmas, if you will! (also Spanish for: spank more)

Join the spanko-podcasters as they open spanking-related presents, sent in from one of their Cheeky Classmates, Mish, and from Santa Lizzy.

Why are each of them on the naughty list?
Who will get spanked this episode?
And do you have what it takes to be the renown bus thrower of all the spankoholics?

Gather 'round to enjoy a very special Krampus poem, written by our very own BigGirlSpanker.

The spankoholics read your emails and answer your questions!

How does a brand new spanker start in the scene? 
How does one network within the spanking community and find parties? 
How does communication affect your spanking relationships? 

Join for another exciting episode of SpankoMail

The Spankoholics continue their conversation about spanking positions.  In Part 2 they discuss some of the more advanced and novelty positions including; Touching toes, Wheelbarrow, Legs-up and many more!  Learn about advanced techniques and the best way to use your furniture.  What is your favorite position and which is one you would love to try?

*Happy Spankings!*

Publish date of this Episode, "Positions Part 1" The ever so Ominous Friday the 13th!!

But what's scarier than this particular superstition?
Being told you'll get double if you get out of position! Or perhaps it's being told your swats start over if you dare get out of position.

Regardless, which position do *you* prefer? You should totally go Vote on the @SpankoPodcasts Poll on Twitter !

As for this episode you'll learn about some of the pros and cons of the following positions: OTK, laying down, over the lap, and some quarrel regarding the OTK fantasy. 

*Happy Spankings!*

Possibly the cutest and dorkiest Halloween podcast episode you'll ever hear. Join your fellow spankoholics as they discuss the importance of wearing pants, I think? Find out who wears the pants, who isn't wearing pants, and who never wears pants.

In this episode they share what the spankopodcast has up its sleeves. Maybe they'll wear some naughty outfits this Halloween or maybe they'll simply assimilate with the vanillas. Is that a thing? Is that even possible for these five?

Do you know what it takes to organize a National Spanking Party, work, be a mom, a daughter, and a wife?  A Super BROOKE!

In all seriousness, she's one of us: she absolutely loves to receive and give spankings, a true Spankoholic!

Join us and find out how Brooke dominates in all aspects of her life. 

Do you know what it takes to organize a National Spanking Party, work, be a mom, a daughter, and a wife?  A Super BROOKE!

In all seriousness, she's one of us: she absolutely loves to receive and give spankings,  a true Spankoholic!

Join us and find out how Brooke dominates in all aspects of her life. 

How does one approach their vanilla partner about their interest in spanking? Submitted by our listener @Ffhheather, join the Spanko crew and our guest WoodLover (on twitter as @WL3271) as they share their vanilla-spanking-relationship experiences. 

#TabithaIsReal

Five years!? The Spanko! Podcast has been releasing episodes every other week for the past five years! Join us as we share memorable moments and memorable episodes. *emotional tear* Feel free to share some of yours in the comments below.

Our friends, fans, and patrons join us as we record this episode LIVE (kinda) and share some of their own experiences of joining the scene AND how our little podcast has helped them along their journeys. 

Did you ever write in the Spanko Secrets notebook??? This completely anonymous notebook has been traveling with us since 2022. Join us as we open it for the first time and read some excerpts! *scandalous* 

As always, we advocate for safety and clearly spoken communication. Please be safe and consensual in your spanking play. 

Here is to another 5 years!

This week the spankoholics explore the pros and cons of different spanking implements. We take a deep dive into the art of hand spanking, offer some helpful tips for beginners learning new implements and reminisce over some fun stories about unusual "pervertables" we've experienced. Our resident implement hoarder, BigGirlSpanker, has some tips on where to find the best implements. This is just the tip of the tawse on the subject of implement choices.

You've likely seen Brie at a party having a blast or being, like, totally diligent at ‪@cheekyspankos. You may follow her on twitter @aregeebrie or ‬you may even have read her blog https://redbottomedharlot.home.blog/ However, you should absolutely get to know Are Gee Brie!! Her Heart is big, caring, and, like, totally full of love. She's fun, respectful, and, like, totally wants nothing but the best for Spankos in the scene.

You have left comments, asked questions, sent tweets, and now you'll have a chance to hear them discussed on our first SpankoMail episode!

To send us more SpankoMail, visit us at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/