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Be Present During Sex (Quickie)13 Nov 202400:02:34

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with four ways to be fully present during sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Best Holiday Sex Tips for Playfulness05 Nov 202400:30:06

When it comes to making time for sexual intimacy during the holiday rush, it can be wonderfully stressful or wonderfully playful or anything in between. We discuss how to navigate the busy-ness and stress of the holidays so that you can create a time of playfulness with your spouse and give you some ideas to build playfulness in your relationship and sex life.

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From the Bible

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6–7

Resources


Donate to Our Ministry HERE

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

What Women Ask Us (In Person)30 Oct 202400:37:09

What do women want to know about sex when we're face to faced with them? While we have regular listener question episodes, we wanted to address FAQs we get when speaking to a group or working with individuals or small groups. So get ready for six common questions and our answers.

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From the Bible

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
1 Corinthians 6:9–11

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!
2 Corinthians 5:17

For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
    so great is his love for those who fear him;
as far as the east is from the west,
    so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
Psalm 103:11–12

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8 (not Acts 2:38 or John 3:16...though those are great too!)

But that is not the way you learned Christ!— assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:20–24

You turned my wailing into dancing;
    you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,
that my heart may sing your praises and not be silent.
    Lord my God, I will praise you forever.
Psalm 30:11–12

Resources

Our Speaking, Coaching & Communities

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Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Sex Drive Conversation (Quickie)22 Oct 202400:02:17

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about how to have a conversation about mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Mismatched Drives #1 (Quickie)16 Oct 202400:02:24

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about things to consider when you and your spouse have mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Sex Post-Vasectomy, Competing with His Phone, Plus-Size Lovemaking & Lube Tips (Listener Questions)10 Oct 202400:23:26

Chris and J answer listener questions about sex after a vasectomy, competing with his phone for attention, plus-sized lovemaking, and how to use lube without losing the mood.

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From the Bible

Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance. Proverbs 1:5 (ESV)

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Have Sex (Quickie)02 Oct 202400:01:39

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of prioritizing sexual intimacy in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Talking to Kids About Sex, with Karissa Curtis24 Sep 202400:43:52

We welcome Christian sex therapist Karissa Curtis to discuss talking to kids—our own and others in our church—about sex.

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From the Bible

I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. John 17:14–18

So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:5–9

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Autumn Fun (Quickie)18 Sep 202400:01:00

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about adding fun to your marriage using items commonly found in autumn. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Explaining Women's Sexual Response10 Sep 202400:28:20

We discuss how a wife's sexual response differs from her husband's, and how she can explain her female sexuality to him.

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From the Bible

You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
  and knit me together in my mother’s womb.
Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!
  Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it.
Psalm 139:13–14 (NLT)

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Creative Timing (Quickie)04 Sep 202400:01:32

This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Making the Most of Your Five Senses28 Aug 202400:29:25

Let's talk about the five senses—touch, sight, hearing, smell, and taste—and how to make the most of them to increase your sexual interest and enhance your lovemaking experience.

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From the Bible

For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.
Psalm 139:13–14

My dove in the clefts of the rock,
    in the hiding places on the mountainside,
show me your face,
    let me hear your voice;
for your voice is sweet,
    and your face is lovely.
Song of Songs 2:14

Resources

Donate to the Ministry by clicking HERE.

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Making Sexual Changes (Quickie)20 Aug 202400:01:59

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to remember when making sexual changes. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It?16 Aug 202400:39:33

What is sexual betrayal? Have you experienced it? Today, we address the sensitive topic of sexual betrayal with honesty and compassion, relying quite a bit on our in-house expert, Bonny Burns. 

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From the Bible

"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28

“For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16 (NASB)

I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries. Jeremiah 3:8a

John’s disciples came and took his body and buried it. Then they went and told Jesus. When Jesus heard what had happened, he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. Matthew 14:12-13a

Resources

Bonny's Heading to Australia & New Zealand!

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

The Power of Words (Quickie)06 Aug 202400:02:54

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the power of words to foster friendship and overflow into your bedroom. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Myth-busting What You’ve Heard about Sex, with Gaye Christmus!31 Jul 202400:31:38

The gang's all together again! Gaye Christmus joins us to talk about myths about sex, where they come from, and what truths wives need to embrace instead.

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From the Bible

I slept but my heart was awake.
    Listen! My beloved is knocking:
“Open to me, my sister, my darling,
    my dove, my flawless one.
My head is drenched with dew,
    my hair with the dampness of the night.”
I have taken off my robe—
    must I put it on again?
I have washed my feet—
    must I soil them again?
Song of Songs 5:2–3

My beloved thrust his hand through the latch-opening;
    my heart began to pound for him.
I arose to open for my beloved,
    and my hands dripped with myrrh,
my fingers with flowing myrrh,
    on the handles of the bolt.
I opened for my beloved,
    but my beloved had left; he was gone.
    My heart sank at his departure.
I looked for him but did not find him.
    I called him but he did not answer.
Song of Songs 5:4–6

For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
    so great is his love for those who fear him;
as far as the east is from the west,
    so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
Psalm 103:11-12

Then He said, “Go out, and stand on the mountain before the Lord.” And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
1 Kings 19:11-12 (NKJV)

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Practice! (Quickie)23 Jul 202400:02:21

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor and is specifically for wives who have been sexually reluctant and are ready to work on improving their sexual engagement with their husbands.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Feeling Confident in the Bedroom, Finding a Therapist & Viewing Oral Sex Differently (Listener Questions)16 Jul 202400:24:00

In this episode, we tackle listener questions—specifically how to feel more confident in the bedroom by choosing something positive to wear, how to find a therapist in your area or online, and how to mentally shift from seeing oral sex as “dirty” to something married couples can (if they both want) do.

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From the Bible

Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Song of Songs 2:3

Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits. Song of Songs 4:16

Resources

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Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Speak Up! (Quickie)09 Jul 202400:02:03

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of speaking up about what you need to experience sexual pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Women's Freedom from Porn, with Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka02 Jul 202400:44:08

Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka join us today for a candid conversation about women and their struggle with porn. If you struggle, this episode will help. But if you don't, listen anyway so that you can be there to support fellow women trying to break free. And be sure to check out the new resource, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out Of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, cowritten by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka

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From the Bible

It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5:1

I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. They will be my people, and I will be their God. Ezekiel 11:19–20

The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me,
    because the Lord has anointed me
    to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
    to proclaim freedom for the captives
    and release from darkness for the prisoners,
to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor
    and the day of vengeance of our God,
to comfort all who mourn,
    and provide for those who grieve in Zion—
to bestow on them a crown of beauty
    instead of ashes,
the oil of joy
    instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise
    instead of a spirit of despair.
They will be called oaks of righteousness,
    a planting of the Lord
    for the display of his splendor.
Isaiah 61:1–3

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker 

The Power of a Shower (Quickie)25 Jun 202400:01:43

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, guest Julie Sibert talks about the benefits of showering. Yes, showering! Stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage.

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What Does God Have to Do with Our Sex Life?18 Jun 202400:22:44

For many Christians, it can be difficult to think about God and sex at the same time. How present is God in our bedrooms? And how does knowing that He knows make us feel? We dive deep into what God has to do with our sex lives and how to think about and embrace His involvement.

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And be sure to check out J's upcoming cruise!

From the Bible

So God created mankind in his own image,
    in the image of God he created them;
    male and female he created them.
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.
Genesis 1:27, 31

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17

I belong to my beloved,
    and his desire is for me.
Song of Songs 7:10

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie)12 Jun 202400:02:11

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Bonny Burns talks about praying for your sex life. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Your Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol Tanksley05 Jun 202400:30:55

We welcome guest Dr. Carol Tanksley, who is an author, speaker, podcaster, licensed OB-Gyn, and a trained and ordained minister. She joins us to talk about how your sexual story shaped you and how to pursue sexual wholeness as God intended.

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From the Bible

John 4:1-42 (Jesus and the Samaritan Woman at the Well)

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Bad Messages About Sex (Quickie)28 May 202400:02:01

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, J Parker talks about the bad messages we hear about sex.

Light Hearts & Lingerie21 May 202400:24:47

Many of us face obstacles to playfulness around sexuality and sexual experience. Today, we discuss ways to foster light hearts on a sometimes serious subject.

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From the Bible

Song of Songs - the whole book!

A cheerful heart is good medicine,
    but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs 17:22

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Self Touch (Quickie)14 May 202400:02:02

This week's sex tip quickie comes from Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage: self touch.

Addressing Sexual Pain09 May 202400:38:07

Did you know that 3 out of 4 women at some point experience pain during intercourse? Today, we're joined by Debby Wade, a licensed therapist and expert in the area of women's sexual pain.

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From the Bible

Lord my God, I called to you for help, and you healed me. Psalm 30:2

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Euphemisms for Sex (Quickie)30 Apr 202400:02:12

J explains why it's a great idea to have a euphemism for sex.

Seasoned Wives' Wisdom for Young Wives24 Apr 202400:19:34

Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives.

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From the Bible

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

Resources

Donate to the ministry HERE.

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Dealing with Your Gag Reflex (Quickie)16 Apr 202400:02:04

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.

Fostering Sexual Attraction09 Apr 202400:30:30

When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation."

We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how we can keep attraction going or revive it if it's been lost.

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From the Bible

My beloved is radiant and ruddy,
    distinguished among ten thousand.
Song of Songs 5:10

But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.
2 Peter 3:18

Resources

Donate to the Ministry HERE.

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Learn About His Body (Quickie)02 Apr 202400:01:45

This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.

What's So Great About Sex?26 Mar 202400:23:05

You've probably heard that sex is good for your husband or good for your marriage, but what about you? We share our thoughts on what's so great about sex for WIVES. Listen in!

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From the Bible

So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun. Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NKJV)

So God created mankind in his own image,
    in the image of God he created them;
    male and female he created them.
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.
Genesis 1:27, 31

“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

Resources

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Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Undress for Your Husband (Quickie)19 Mar 202400:01:02

In this week's sex tip, Chris talks about undressing for your husband as a sort of foreplay that helps both of you.

Sex Drive & Genetics, Erectile Problems, and Missing Sleep for Sex (Listener Questions)14 Mar 202400:26:48

Today, we tackle listener questions about whether low sex drive might be genetic, as well as how to address lack of desire; dealing with a husband's erectile problems; and what to do about a husband who disrupts a wife's sleep for sex.

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From the Bible

Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of Songs 2:7, 3:5, 8:4

Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. Colossians 3:19

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Learn About Your Body (Quickie)05 Mar 202400:01:58

This week's Sex Chat Quickie is about learning about your own body.

Prioritizing Sex01 Mar 202400:27:06

What does it mean to prioritize sex? What does that look like in a real-life marriage, especially in a real-life marriage and when there are obstacles to sexual intimacy?

From the Bible

Do not deprive one another—except when you agree for a time, to devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again; otherwise, Satan may tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:5 (CSB)

Let us go early to the vineyards
    to see if the vines have budded,
if their blossoms have opened,
    and if the pomegranates are in bloom—
    there I will give you my love.
Song of Songs 7:12

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Ask Your Spouse (Quickie)20 Feb 202400:01:23

We're launching a new feature of the Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast—Sex Chat Quickies! On the weeks between our full-length episodes, one of our hosts will bring you a quick sex tip.

This week's tip is what to ask your husband.

7 Years, Lessons Learned, and a Big Change13 Feb 202400:20:21

It's hard to believe that we started this podcast seven years ago! Today, we're giving updates about our endeavors, talking about lessons learned, and announcing a few changes, including one big announcement.

From the Bible

Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice. Proverbs 27:9

Resources

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Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

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Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and Healthy Life Toolbox.com - Gaye Christmus
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Sharing Some Sad News30 Nov 202300:05:11

Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We are mindful of this promise as we share sad news about the unexpected death of Chris Taylor's husband. Please listen and consider how you can help.

Support

Any amount is appreciated. Thank you!

Fundraiser for Christel Taylor: Grateful for Doug Taylor (gofundme.com)

To send a check directly:

Chris Taylor
c/o Cullom UMC
103 E. Van Alstyne 
PO Box 264
Cullom, Illinois

And if you want to know more about Doug Taylor, aka Big Guy, here are a couple of relevant posts from Chris’s first blog:

Apologies for the poor audio quality in some places. We were not in our usual recording setup but felt it important to go ahead and get this news out.

Stocking Stuffers for Married Couples22 Nov 202300:26:43

We carry on our annual tradition of sharing Christmas season gift ideas with stocking stuffers that are sweet, surprising, sensual, and sexy! Happy holidays, everyone.

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    What About Sex Toys?27 Sep 202300:24:26

    One of our earliest episodes addressed sex toys, but we haven’t talked about it in a while. And yet, it’s one of the most often asked questions. Are they okay? How to use them? How not to use them? We cover that ground and more.

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    From the Bible

    “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive. No one should seek their own good, but the good of others. 1 Corinthians 10:23–24

    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23

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    Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
    Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
    Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus)
    Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

    Listener Questions - Depriving, the Mess, and When It Can't Happen14 Sep 202300:28:18

    Once again, we're answering your questions! Today, we'll cover three topics: what does "deprivation" really mean (1 Corinthians 7:3-5), dealing with the messiness of sex, and when sex cannot happen.

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    From the Bible

    The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5

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    Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
    Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
    Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus)
    Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

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    Fact or Fiction: Sex Edition30 Aug 202300:24:27

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    Recorded while still on our retreat in Nashville, Tennessee, we're playing a game and invite you to play along! Inspired by a board game in the Airbnb where we stayed, Chris and J present trivia questions about sex and test how much we "sexperts" really know. 

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    From the Bible

    For you created my inmost being;
        you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
    Psalm 139:13

    My dove in the clefts of the rock,
        in the hiding places on the mountainside,
    show me your face,
        let me hear your voice;
    for your voice is sweet,
        and your face is lovely.
    Song of Songs 2:14

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    Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
    Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
    Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus)
    Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

    Things Not to Do During Sex16 Aug 202300:22:50

    We have often shared tips of things you can do to enjoy sex more, but today we're going to talk about things not to do. In this episode, we address 6 things not to do during sex.

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    From the Bible

    My dove in the clefts of the rock,
        in the hiding places on the mountainside,
    show me your face,
        let me hear your voice;
    for your voice is sweet,
        and your face is lovely.
    Song of Songs 2:14

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    Love Languages & Sexual Intimacy01 Aug 202300:31:29

    You’ve probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven’t. But when minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated love past one another, he realized that we express love in different ways. So, he proposed that there are five love languages—and his book of the same name became a bestseller and perennial favorite. Today, we’ll talk about those languages and what they mean when it comes to our favorite topic: sex.

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    From the Bible

    Gifts: Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. Song of Songs 7:12

    Quality Time:
    My beloved is mine and I am his;
        he browses among the lilies.
    Until the day breaks
        and the shadows flee,
    turn, my beloved,
        and be like a gazelle
    or like a young stag
        on the rugged hills.
    Song of Songs 2:17

    Physical Touch: His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me. Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3

    Acts of Service:
    I would lead you
        and bring you to my mother’s house—
        she who has taught me.
    I would give you spiced wine to drink,
        the nectar of my pomegranates.
    Song of Songs 8:2

    Words of Affirmation:

    HE
    How beautiful you are, my darling!
        Oh, how beautiful!
        Your eyes are doves.

    SHE
    How handsome you are, my beloved!
        Oh, how charming!
        And our bed is verdant.

    (Many other passages in Song of Solomon demonstrate Words of Affirmation!)

    Resources

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    Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
    Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
    Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas)
    Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

    Emotional Labor and How it Affects Sexual Interest18 Jul 202300:40:24

    The term “emotional labor” has come to mean the emotional cost of outwardly acting with composure when inwardly we are feeling something different. Rose Hackman, an expert on emotional labor describes is at the editing work of emotions that someone would do in order to have an effects on the emotions of someone else. Today, we want to talk about emotional labor and how it can negatively affect sexual interest.

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    From the Bible

    Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load. Galatians 6:2–5

    If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Romans 12:18

    Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. Ephesians 4:9

    A wife of noble character who can find?
        She is worth far more than rubies.
    Her husband has full confidence in her
        and lacks nothing of value.
    She brings him good, not harm,
        all the days of her life.
    She selects wool and flax
        and works with eager hands.
    She is like the merchant ships,
        bringing her food from afar.
    She gets up while it is still night;
        she provides food for her family
        and portions for her female servants.
    She considers a field and buys it;
        out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
    She sets about her work vigorously;
        her arms are strong for her tasks.
    She sees that her trading is profitable,
        and her lamp does not go out at night.
    Proverbs 31:10–18

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    Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
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    Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

    Creating Fireworks in the Bedroom04 Jul 202300:27:57

    We’re recording before the American Independence Day, but this episode will air on July 4th—a time when fireworks displays can be found all over the country. But what about the explosive power of lovemaking? How can you create fireworks in the bedroom?

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    From the Bible

    The mandrakes send out their fragrance,
     and at our door is every delicacy,
    both new and old,
     that I have stored up for you, my beloved.
    Song of Songs 7:13

    Resources

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    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

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    Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
    Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas)
    Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

    What's Up with the Penis?21 Jun 202300:25:50

    About this episode

    Today we're talking about the penis. What exactly is it? How does your husband feel about it? How do you feel about it? And how can you get comfortable and have fun with it?

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    From the Bible

    So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

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