I’m joined by dating coach and author Sabrina Bendory to unpack the game-changing concept of detachment — a mindset that transformed her love life and coaching approach. We dive into the fear of ending up alone and how to move through it, what real confidence feels like, how to stop obsessing over texts or social media, break overthinking cycles, and advice for being the only single friend in your group.

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Fresh off a 20 mile run I reflect on how I finally feel like I’ve turned a corner in marathon training. Jake earned some serious credit in the Husband Duties department so I share why expressing gratitude for each other matters. We talk about what we wanted to be when we grew up compared to how many kids now want to be influencers and wrap with a new game called “Popstar or Ilana” where Jake has to guess if dramatic song lyrics are from real hit songs or pulled from my middle school notebooks.

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This week we’re recording from Jake’s childhood bedroom, which of course led us to wonder what 13-year-old Jake would think of his life now. We share our life updates, what we’re grateful for, how we started packing way too early, and how football season is going to affect when we see each other. Then we dive into fall date activities—everything from apple picking to haunted houses—and decide which ones we’d actually do and which we’re passing on.

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In this episode, a 30-year-old single veterinarian resident shares her challenges of dating while pursuing a demanding career in veterinary medicine. She discusses the complexities of maintaining relationships, setting boundaries, and the regional differences she observed in dating cultures as she's lived in three parts of the country throughout her medical journey. She also offers advice on moving frequently, forming new friendships, and maintaining old ones. Tune in to hear her candid insights and the valuable lessons she learned along the way.

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Today we're joined by Noam Raiter, a content creator, doctor, and host of You Are Not Too Busy podcast to discuss how she balances her demanding medical career with her relationship, friendships, and daily life. She shares her journey into medicine, the struggles of maintaining a social life, and how her relationship with her boyfriend Sam has thrived despite her busy schedule. Additionally, Noam offers insightful advice on solo traveling, maintaining personal independence in a relationship, and the importance of self-love and self-understanding in building successful relationships.

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So you're probably wondering why I'm in your feed today. I wanted to share my new favorite podcast, FML Talk. If you’ve been royally f%cked over in life, this is the place for you. Host Gabrielle Stone had the rug ripped out from underneath her not once, but twice, by the paws of shitty men. But instead of landing flat on her ass, she built a career out of it. Penning her best-selling tell-all, Eat, Pray, #FML was not enough; the fans demanded more tea, and thus, this very podcast was born. FML Talk has since become a safe place for you to commiserate, heal, have a (self-love) cocktail, and laugh your ass off, as Gabrielle welcomes incredible guests to share their perspective on love, sex, heartbreak, trauma, and getting the f%ck over it all. Your weekly dose of therapy — with f-bombs and no bullsh*t advice…you won’t want to miss a session!

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In this week's solo episode, I’m catching you up on my life and answering listener questions about navigating societal and family pressures. I share an exciting and intimidating update, reflect on embracing stillness after a busy season, and talk about the pressure to “keep up” with milestones like marriage, babies, and houses. Later, I offer advice to a listener feeling stuck in her late twenties and share tips for handling family holiday questions about being single and thriving during the holiday season.

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Ken Reid returns to 'Seeing Other People' to discuss various pieces of dating advice. Together with we delve into the pros and cons of popular dating tips and phrases, offering different perspectives on what might work, what doesn't, and why context is crucial. Topics include the validity of statements like 'if they wanted to, they would,' 'the best way to get over someone is by getting under someone else,' and many more.

00:00 - 02:34 Welcome Back, Ken!

02:34 - 03:59 Debunking Popular Dating Advice

03:59 - 10:29 High Value Partner Debate

10:29 - 17:39 If He Wanted To, He Would

17:39 - 23:58 Finding Love When You Least Expect It

23:58 - 25:12 The Healing Power of Meeting New People

25:12 - 27:47 The Importance of Indifference in Breakups

27:47 - 30:38 Navigating Avoidant and Narcissistic Exes

30:38 - 35:05 The Numbers Game in Dating

35:05 - 37:39 The Myth of Loving Yourself First

37:39 - 45:52 When You Know, You Know: Debunked

45:52 - 47:31 Finding Dating Advice That Works for You

Want more dating advice? Check out this playlist filled with episodes and guests covering the dating advice you need to hear.

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In this episode, Avi from California opens up about his experience with cheating and the profound self-reflection journey that followed. He delves into the initial stages of his relationship, the lead-up to his infidelity, and the addiction-like behaviors that ensued. Avi candidly discusses the aftermath, the steps he took to understand and change his behavior, and how therapy and vulnerability played crucial roles. He offers insights and advice for both cheaters and those who have been cheated on, emphasizing the importance of empathy, self-awareness, and open communication in relationships.

We won’t cheat you on episodes about cheating! Check out this playlist with all the cheating stories you want to hear.

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Jackie Shames, friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are. Jackie shares her experiences dating between Miami and New York, how the seasons have been impacting her dating life, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. We discuss the the New York influencer scene, friendship dynamics, and podcasting, and we live-text someone Jackie went on a date with.

00:00 - 09:30 Navigating Confidence and Dating

09:30 - 26:24 Unexpected Encounters

26:24 - 28:54 Reflecting on Closure and Moving On

28:54 - 29:49 The Importance of Detachment

29:49 - 31:25 Running Into an Ex-Fling

31:25 - 33:24 Finding Security in a New Relationship

33:24 - 36:26 Navigating Dating Patterns and Self-Sabotage

36:26 - 43:38 Balancing Personalities in Relationships

43:38 - 55:53 Influencer Culture and Personal Growth

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Bethany and Walter share their heartwarming real-life journey of meeting on an app and building a relationship over the past 1.5 years. They delve into their initial dating struggles, including catfishing and ghosting, and their eventual connection that sparked over a phone call and FaceTime. The couple discusses the importance of open communication, handling financial changes, how they support each other in tough times. Walter and Bethany explore their compatibility, different upbringings, and expectations in their relationship, and provide advice to singles ready to give up on dating."

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Felix Levine, entrepreneur and host of Unlike Me, joins the show to discuss his journey in podcasting, the dynamics of his relationship with Serena Kerrigan, and his personal growth. Felix and Ilana delve into why he started his podcast during a challenging time in college and the lessons learned from interviewing successful individuals. Felix shares insights on the importance of genuine connections, handling past relationship traumas, and the intricacies of dating someone significantly older. The episode also addresses listener questions on unique dating challenges and offers advice on maintaining relationships amidst personal anxieties.

01:35 - 03:40 Navigating College and Depression

03:40 - 04:32 Podcasting as a Career

04:32 - 06:10 The Realities of Podcasting

06:10 - 08:18 Maturity and Personal Growth

08:18 - 11:06 Friendships and Ambition

11:06 - 14:03 A Special Relationship

14:03 - 15:02 The Meet Cute and Beyond

15:02 - 25:15 Dating Advice and Personal Stories

25:15 - 27:58Confident Beginnings

27:58 - 30:59 Overcoming Past Trauma

30:59 - 34:46 Healing and Moving Forward

34:46 - 41:29 Navigating Age Gaps in Relationships

41:29 - 48:32 Listener Questions: Weird and Serious

48:32 - 51:10Best Dating Advice

51:10 - 53:29 Outro

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Harry returns to the show after two years to discuss his life journey, highlighting the lessons learned from navigating singlehood, personal growth, and embracing new passions like photography. Throughout the conversation, they explore Harry's experiences with dating, the societal pressures of relationships, and his journey to understand and accept his neurodiversity. The episode emphasizes making one's own rules in life, finding personal fulfillment through community, and the transformative power of genuine human connections.

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Trigger Warning: Abuse. This anonymous guest shares the story of being with her ex for over eight years, navigating betrayal, abuse, and heartbreak—including infidelity, a pregnancy, and the chaos of planning a wedding that never happened. She reveals how their relationship ended abroad just weeks before her wedding, the shocking ways her ex continued his betrayal, and the lessons she learned about boundaries, self-worth, and resilience.

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In this episode, Rebekah Lipsky, a therapist specializing in major life transitions, joins us to share her personal experience of calling off her engagement and wedding after a five-and-a-half-year relationship. She delves into the emotional challenges of such decisions, the importance of aligning one's values, and her journey of self-discovery post-breakup. The discussion includes insights on handling grief, the role of supportive friends, and her upcoming support group for women who have called off engagements. Rebecca also offers valuable advice for anyone facing similar life transitions.

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04:41 - 06:34 Life Transitions and Personal Struggles

06:34 - 09:45 Calling Off her Engagement

09:45 - 15:21 The Emotional Rollercoaster

15:21 - 27:48 Making the Tough Decision

27:48 - 28:24 Facing the Guilt of Canceling a Wedding

28:24 - 29:56 Support from Friends and Family

29:56 - 33:01 Layers of Grief in Breakups

33:01 - 38:14 Supporting Friends Through Breakups

38:14 - 45:10 Rediscovering Yourself After a Breakup

45:10 - 48:39 Navigating Relationship Decisions

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Adrian, a self-identified 27-year-old male nerd from Canberra, Australia, shares his experiences and insights on dating, offering a male perspective. He discusses his dating history, including early high school relationships and the impact of a serious breakup at age 18. Adrian explains his cautious approach to dating apps and reflects on the challenges of dating as an introvert. He emphasizes the importance of taking risks in dating, inspired by a quote from the movie 'We Bought a Zoo.' Adrian also addresses the common dating adage 'if he wanted to, he would' and shares his thoughts on modern dating pressures and misconceptions.

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The incredible Suzy Welch joins us today to discuss how uncovering your values can help you find and build lasting relationships. Suzy is a public speaker, author, and professor of NYU's infamous "Becoming You" course. Suzy shares her journey of self-discovery through her 'Becoming You' methodology along with her life-changing decision making method 10-10-10 (yes, you can apply it to making decisions in dating!)

We discuss the potential impacts of value misalignment in relationships, and how understanding of one's values can inform personal and professional life decisions, leading to greater fulfillment.

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03:34 - 03:34 The Concept of Values and Their Importance

03:54 - 07:12 Developing the 'Becoming You' Methodology

07:12 - 08:28 Values in Relationships and Personal Growth

08:28 - 14:15 The Values Bridge Tool and Its Applications

24:19 - 26:03 High Scope vs. Low Scope Values in Relationships

26:03 - 30:06 Work Centrism: Balancing Career and Family

30:06 - 37:28 The 10-10-10 Decision-Making Method

37:28 - 41:47 The Velvet Coffin: Avoiding Complacency

41:47 - 46:19 Whose Life Do You Want Anyway?

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Brandon shares his story of how his marriage to the love of his life ended in divorce. He opens up about his growth and healing journey post-divorce, and what it was like to reenter the dating world as a man in his early 30s who hadn’t dated someone new since 2010. Brandon shares how he has since moved halfway across the country and started a new job while navigating the complexities of modern dating. Tune in for a conversation where we explore relationship dynamics and discuss the importance of self-awareness and patience.

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In this episode Ilana chats with Gab Saper, a personal stylist who focuses on building confidence and body acceptance through fashion. They discuss the challenges millennials face due to past diet cultures and explore dressing for body types without aiming to look skinnier or taller. Gab shares her unique love story, beginning with a childhood camp romance that rekindled years later in New York, despite challenges like ghosting. She explains how eventually forgiving her now husband led to a deep relationship. Gab also talks about her journey into fashion styling, giving tips on dressing authentically, and how clothes are tied to self-expression and dating. They conclude with a discussion on the importance of wearing comfortable, authentic clothing and recognizing the significance of quality undergarments.

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01:07 Dressing for Your Body

03:30 Parallels Between Fashion and Dating

04:06 A Love Story: Meeting Her Husband

11:03 The Ghosting Incident

22:06 The Proposal

25:01 Wardrobe Styling Career

25:08 Early Fashion Memories

26:09 Turning Passion into a Business

27:53 Fashion and Dating

28:49 Breaking Fashion Myths

30:46 Finding Your Style

32:04 Dressing for Confidence

35:48 Comfort Over Trends

38:38 The Importance of Proper Fit

47:03 Advice for Men

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In this warm and engaging episode, Ilana welcomes her parents, Barbara and Chuck, to share their charming courtship story, personal insights on love and marriage, and how they met on a hot summer night at an Israeli bond fundraiser. Reflecting on their journey together, they discuss relationship dynamics, parenting, and the evolving landscape of dating from their pre-internet days to the present. They offer valuable advice on navigating the modern dating world, staying hopeful, and the importance of being true to oneself in love. The episode also touches upon Ilana's recent wedding planning experience and fond family memories, making it a heartfelt exploration of love across generations.

00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Parents

00:11 First Impressions and Initial Reactions

01:10 How They Met: A Love Story

05:53 Navigating Early Relationship Challenges

17:58 The Proposal and Engagement

21:45 Adapting to Life Changes and Parenthood

24:36 Balancing Personal Interests and Family Life

26:41 A Memorable Vegas Trip

28:33 Lost and Found Wallets

29:13 Listener Questions: Favorite Nephew

30:41 Advice for Single Women

33:45 Reflecting on Love and Relationships

39:18 Alana's Career Journey

47:41 Wedding Planning Insights

51:50 Final Thoughts and Advice

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In this insightful episode, relationship coach Lucy Price discusses navigating the emotional turbulence of breakups and finding empowerment. Lucy shares her journey from corporate marketing to becoming a breakup expert. The episode covers processing feelings, challenging self-blaming thoughts, and creating closure independently. Lucy offers practical advice for gaining emotional regulation and support during tough encounters, such as seeing an ex at social events. This conversation is essential listening for anyone looking to move forward and reclaim their power after a breakup.

00:00 - 00:37 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:37 - 04:56 Lucy's Journey to Relationship Coaching

04:56 - 09:14 The First 24 Hours After a Breakup

09:14 - 16:16 Understanding and Processing Breakups

16:16 - 24:46 Moving Forward and Self-Reflection

24:46 - 26:01 Navigating Post-Breakup Grief

26:01 - 28:37 Challenging Self-Blame After a Breakup

28:37 - 35:29 Finding Positives and Lessons in Past Relationships

35:29 - 40:45 Creating Closure and Acceptance

40:45 - 46:09 Preparing for Encounters with Your Ex

46:09 - 48:50 Best Relationship Advice and Conclusion

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Ilana catches you guys up on her travels, her personal wins, and what she took away from a recent experience. Then, Ilana and bff Carly Silverman dissect historical dating rules to see which stood the test of time. Then they go through more modern, viral dating rules they've heard of and debate where they stand on them. 33 minutes in, they share dating rules that they broke when they found love. 

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In today's episode, I'm thrilled to have Lindsey Schafer, a licensed couples and sex therapist, with us. Lindsey delves into the importance of normalizing conversations about intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. She shares her personal journey of overcoming her embarrassment about her unique initials to embracing her identity. We explore the dynamics of name changes after marriage, the stigma around sex and couples therapy, and practical advice for reigniting emotional intimacy in long-term relationships. Lindsey answers listener questions on managing differing sex drives and rebuilding trust after infidelity, offering insightful strategies to strengthen connection and communication.

Lindsey is accepting new clients! Reach out on lindseyschafer.com or follow Lindsey on Instagram!

01:30 Journey to Becoming a Therapist

06:14 Defining Intimacy

11:54 Common Relationship Issues

14:43 Approaching Therapy and Stigmas

22:40 The Importance of Relatable Education

24:29 Addressing Sexual Confidence and Intimacy

26:37 The Rewards of Being a Sex Therapist

28:37 Listener Questions: Navigating Relationship Challenges

38:39 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

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In this solo episode, answer listener questions covering the intricacies of dating, such as how to deal with texting anxieties, ending relationships respectfully, and managing the dynamics of dating someone within your friend group. I also dive into how to handle relationships when dealing with controlling in-laws and the importance of setting boundaries.

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I'm joined by my friend, fashion designer and founder of Maison Des Nus, Balim Tezel. We talk about what it’s like to build a life from scratch—moving to the U.S. for college, creating a chosen family in NYC, and launching the brand she dreamed of since childhood. Balim shares what dating for the first time in her twenties taught her about herself and what she was looking for, how she unexpectedly met her boyfriend Vinnie, and how his steady support helped her navigate the isolation of being far from home, especially during the four years she couldn’t leave the U.S. while waiting for her green card. Follow Maison Des Nus @maisondesnus on IG & @maisondesnus on TikTok Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠⁠ speakpipe.com/sop⁠

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Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities of avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, explaining their origins and how they manifest in adult relationships. He shares his personal journey and professional expertise, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the challenges of healing from developmental trauma. The episode offers practical advice for those struggling with attachment issues, emphasizing the value of therapy and the need for a supportive network.

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01:57 Personal Journey into Counseling

04:10 Experiences with Avoidant Partners

09:55 Attachment Styles Overview

19:08 Challenges in Relationships with Avoidant Partners

22:11 Communicating with Avoidant Partners

25:06 Doing the Inner Work

30:10 Understanding Avoidant Attachment

31:06 The Importance of an Accountability Team

33:01 Challenges in Therapy for Avoidant Attachments

34:22 Finding Problems with Partners

39:01 Attachment Styles and Adult Relationships

47:47 Self-Sabotage and Healing Attachment Wounds

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Ryan P. Hall joins the podcast to discuss his experiences dating and maintaining relationships as a busy 44-year-old single professional. He reflects on his 13-year relationship, and shares the challenges of balancing work and personal life. Ryan also touches on growing up with a single mother, the impact of his demanding career on his social and dating life, and offers his best piece of dating advice.

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04:04 Career and Personal Life Balance

06:20 Challenges of Maintaining Relationships

12:52 Current Dating Life and Career Demands

17:58 Lessons from a Single Mom

19:16 Balancing Work and Fun

20:15 Dating in Your 40s vs. 20s

24:47 Finding Joy in Life

31:40 The Importance of Listening

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Bradley Steven Perry, known for his roles on Disney Channel's 'Good Luck Charlie' and 'Mighty Med' and cohost of The Sit and Chat podcast joins us to discuss his journey as a child actor, his love for acting, and how he keeps himself creatively engaged. Bradley touches on the unpredictable nature of the acting industry and the importance of consistency in his life. He candidly shares his experiences with dating, relationships, and his current relationship with Natasha Bure. Bradley also delves into his biggest fears, his first kiss, dealing with heartbreak, and future aspirations.

01:16 Navigating the Acting Industry

03:43 Early Acting Experiences

04:55 College Life and Relationships

12:02 Meeting Natasha and Relationship Dynamics

21:05 Confidence and Overcoming Rejection

29:01 Moving to New York:

35:39 Bradley's crazy NYC story

40:36 First Kiss Memories

41:59 Fears and Future Aspirations

44:49 Celebrity Crushes and Industry Realities

47:01 Best Relationship Advice

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In this Unfiltered, our anonymous guest shares her journey through a confusing relationship that began as a friendship and turned toxic. Despite emotional attachment and unclear boundaries, the relationship was marked by lies, invalidated feelings, and constant back-and-forth. After years of trying to move on, a pivotal moment led her to finally break free and prioritize self-worth. Now thriving, she reflect on the importance of choosing yourself over toxic situations.

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In this episode, we welcome special guest Sabrina Zohar, a dating coach and host of The Sabrina Zohar Show. Sabrina shares her intriguing journey from a dissatisfied fashion professional to a dating maven and content creator. We discuss Sabrina's personal experiences with anxious attachment, the impact of her past relationships, and her transformative path through therapy and self-discovery. We touch on the importance of setting boundaries, dealing with rejection, and maintaining self-worth. This episode shares insights for managing dating anxiety, the significance of authentic self-presentation, and the value of continuous personal growth within relationships.

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00:57 Sabrina Zohar's Journey to Dating Coach

01:48 The Turning Point: Therapy and Self-Discovery

03:10 TikTok Success and Podcast Launch

03:41 Handling Trolls and Building a Community

05:42 Dealing with Rejection in Dating

14:28 Authenticity in Relationships

16:11 Personal Stories and Overcoming Challenges

22:19 Insights from Working at Hinge

27:01 Understanding Avoidant Behavior

31:05 Supporting a Friend with Anxious Attachment

33:16 Navigating Mixed Signals in Dating

43:48 Managing Anxiety in New Relationships

50:59 Best Dating Advice Ever Received

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On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Sam, a man who opens up about his experience recognizing and accepting his asexuality. He shares what his early experiences with sex and dating were like and how he came to realize that sex isn't something he needs to feel connected to somebody. He shares his journey of finding himself and finding the love of his life. Plus, we hear about his experience coming out to friends and family and trying to find his place in the LGBTQIA+ community.

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Aleeza Ben Shalom, Coach, Matchmaker, and Host of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking, joins us to talk about what goes into finding a love that will last. Aleeza opens up about how she and her husband met, and how assumptions almost ruined their chances at a relationship. She shares her expertise on what holds people back from finding love, why you should “date ‘em till you hate ‘em,” the benefits of not touching for five dates, and so much more. 

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Danielle Farage joins us to share her experience leaving both a toxic relationship and a toxic work environment. We hear how all-consuming these situations were, how they dimmed her light, and why she felt trapped in them for so long. She shares how she realized she wasn’t in healthy situations and how she came to terms with walking away from both. We discuss what to do if you feel like your friend is in a toxic situation, and how to approach having those conversations.

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I’m joined by Dating & Relationship Anxiety Hypnotherapist Danielle Hatton to dive into rewiring you brain to feel calm and confident instead of anxious and panicked. Danielle opens up about how her decision to call off her engagement led to healing her codependency, exploring her independence, and becoming the best version of herself. We bust myths about hypnotherapy and discuss how to build our self worth, why we obsess over people and how to stop, how to not let your anxiety sabotoge a great dating situation, and what to do when they’re not texting you back. 

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I’m joined by a 30-year-old who opens up about the pain she went through when she and the person she thought she was meant to be with learned they had different plans for their futures. She shares advice for long distance relationships along with what she’s learned about getting through heartbreak over the past year. Plus, we hear about how she crushes the IRL dating game and she gives us hot tips for approaching people in the wild.

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This week, we talk about the chaos of prepping for our move and how we’re handling all the changes together. We also get into Taylor's engagement, which reality TV shows we’d join (and why we’d be like if we were on The Bachelor), plus some marathon training updates.

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On this solo episode, I’m opening up about turning 30, figuring out what I want to do with my life, and a few exciting things that are happening in the next month weeks along with my never ending fears surrounding them. Later, I answer your questions about finding out someone’s political beliefs on a date, fearing that someone will not want to date you because of who you are, feeling judged about taking off from dating, keeping the momentum going when one of you goes away after a few dates, and more. Love you all – thanks for tuning in and supporting me always! 

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I'm joined by Maria, a 33 year old living in San Diego who opens up about ending her six year relationship and starting over at the age of 31. She shares how she and her ex grew apart over the years and how she ultimately decided the relationship was over. We hear how she navigated moving out, coparenting their dog, and how she processed the breakup. Maria walks us through what it was like to date as a newly single 31 year old while all of her friends were in relationships. She gifts us some hilarious dating stories and fails, and tells us how she met her now-partner. 

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Christina Ford, Author of, “In Search of Mr. Darcy” and writer of the popular blog A-Broad in London, joins us to share her life and thoughts as a divorced mother of two thriving later in her 50s. Christina walks us through two marriages and multiple proposals, saying “I do” when she knew she did not, and what it was like starting over and over and over again. We hear what advice she would give to her 25-year-old self about love, life, and how to find happiness within.

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TW: This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence or intimate partner abuse. I'm joined by Leor, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with victims of intimate partner abuse. Leor joins us for an immensely important conversation surrounding the early warning signs of emotional, physical, financial, sexual abuse, what to do if you think you're in an abusive relationship, and how to seek help. We discuss how to support someone in your life who may a victim, why it takes people so many attempts to leave, and how victims can best approach healing and rebuilding their lives after they do leave. Later, we lighten the conversation to discuss staying positive in dating, how to take the pressure off, going to events alone, anxious attachment, and more. 

Help is available 24/7 via the National Domestic Violence Hotline/ Visit thehotline.org or call 1800.799.SAFE (7233)

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Sydney Kapan, writer and content creator, joins the show to talk about her experiences coming back from rock bottom. 

We discuss how to find your own clarity amongst all of the contradicting dating advice out there, and how to surround yourself with a filled life that will keep you afloat, even in tough times. 

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I’m joined by Talia, a 30 year old living between Montreal and NYC, to hear the crazy dating experiences she’s encountered during her pursuit of love. Talia tells us how getting stood up on a date led to one of the most spontaneous and crazy nights of her life. We hear about her “dating olympics,” how she constantly meets people IRL, and how she unapologetically pursues dating and life in her own authentic way. 

Check out Talia's Youtube Channel Talia Dating Club

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Rabbi David Levy (mine and Jake's Rabbi!) joins me to discuss the most important conversations couples should be having before they get married. We discuss what conversation topics couples often avoid, the importance of learning how to fight well, and why you should go to bed angry. We hear what led him to become a Rabbi, what Judaism means to him, and how Jewish beliefs can help us live a more fulfilled life.

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I'm joined by Jessica Slice, author of Dateable: Swiping Right, Hooking Up, and Settling Down While Chronically Ill and Disabled. Diagnosed at 28, Jessica opens up about how her life and dating experiences transformed post-diagnosis. She shares the emotional differences before and after her diagnosis, offering a glimpse into her journey of self-discovery and acceptance.

Jessica delves into the complexities of disclosing her disability to potential partners, discussing when and how much to share. She reflects on how her diagnosis changed her self-view and the time it took to build a healthy relationship with her condition. We also explore how therapy helped her relationships, pushing through discomfort to find safety and understanding in them.

Join us as we discuss the nuances of dating with a chronic illness, the journey to self-acceptance, and finding love and confidence in who you are and what you have to offer.

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Piper Phillips is on the mic today to share the charming story of how she met her boyfriend, highlight the green flags she noticed early on in their relationship, and discuss how they manage dynamics with friends. We answer listener questions on feeling overwhelmed by app responses, dating after getting laid off, attending singles events alone, moving in together while maintaining independence, and whether or not to send a double text.

Tune in for practical dating tips and heartfelt advice from Piper on this episode!

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Anonymous from the episode, “The Classy Fckboy” returns two years later to share how she went from being the girl who got played by guys who weren’t looking for something serous, to finding her now-fiancé! She shares how she first met her fiancé (days after our last recording), red and green flags she saw along the way, what felt different in this relationship vs. previous ones, how she knew he was the one, and so much more. 

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I went from hating running to completing my first half marathon and signing up for the NYC Marathon. On this episode I share my full running journey—injuries, mental battles, and everything in between. I cover how to start running without feeling overwhelmed, essential gear, pacing, nutrition, and staying motivated. Plus, I dive into why I actually love running, the sense of accomplishment it brings, and how it’s helped me unplug and find community along the way. Shop my running favorites here https://shopmy.us/shop/ilana?Section_id=136776&tab=collections

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My fabulous makeup artist, Essie Cohen joins us for a fun and engaging conversation on her experiences with dating and relationships. She shares insights from her 9+ year relationship, becoming single at 31, and dating someone 10 years older. Essie talks about what it felt like to "start over" and where she began her journey. She also discusses her work with brides and how she has seen and heard of marriages not working out. Essie reflects on whether she could ever sense what a bride was feeling on her big day, and we have a meaningful discussion about how you never know what someone is going through.

Essie's blog: https://justagirltrying2be.wordpress.com/

Book Essie for makeup for your upcoming event at https://www.essiecohen.com/

Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. 

Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies!

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Jake and I got married on June 1, 2024 surrounded by our families and closest friends. I'm so excited to share mine and Jake's vows with our SOP family 🤍

PS: Have tissues nearby

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I'm joined by a 32-year-old woman who opens up about getting engaged, married, and divorced in less than a year when she was 29. We hear how their relationship unfolded and how things were when they got engaged, along with how she felt throughout the engagement. She shares what her wedding night was like and what happened after that led to the divorce. Finally, we hear about her healing process and what dating has been like as a young divorcee.

Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. 

Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies!

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