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After an extended break, the hosts are officially back in the studio, refreshed, opinionated, and ready to unpack the messiest corners of modern queer life and intimacy.

The comeback kicks off with a high-speed round of Kink, Phase, or Cry for Help? The hosts put controversial habits under the microscope—from hate-hookups and intense pre-sex screening processes to post-breakup roster expansions—deciding whether these behaviors are legitimate desires, temporary trends, or a direct plea for therapy.

Next, order is called in The Queer Etiquette Court. Acting as the ultimate judges of modern dating and nightlife, the hosts lay down the law on unwritten community rules. Scenarios put on trial include unprompted inbox drops, the grace period for sleeping with a friend’s ex, club dancefloor backpack offenders, and the infamous 18-hour first date that escalates out of control.

Finally, the episode wraps up with an explicit, unfiltered deep dive into Bedroom Crime Scene: The Aftermath Audit. The hosts strip away the fantasy of sex to talk about the physical realities that happen when things don't go according to plan—from prep betrayals and poppers spills to equipment malfunctions and the post-sex towel negotiation.

Special guest Admire Dorsey is in the house this week, bringing the vibes, the content, and zero filter!

The episode kicks off with Admire introducing himself, dropping insight into his journey as a creator, and giving the hosts the full breakdown on his content. From there, the group slides right into a hilarious round of "What Do You Do When You See A...?" where everyone reveals their raw, unfiltered initial reactions when spotting different types of people out in the wild.

Next, it's time for the signature Guest from Hell segment, but with an nightlife twist. The hosts and Admire break down the absolute all types of club goers and how to navigate the nightclub chaos from all perspectives.

Finally, the group tackles a fascinating social phenomenon: Why Are Straight Men Flirting with Masc Lesbians? The hosts and Admire dissect the bizarre psychology, the confusion, and the sheer audacity of straight guys shooting their shot where it's clearly not wanted.

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From workplace horrors to bedroom masterclasses, this week’s episode jumps straight into the deep end of personal safety, bizarre encounters, and ultimate pleasure.

The hosts kick off the show with another round of Hotel Guests from Hell, exposing the disturbing, absurd, and downright frightening job duties that hotel staff are forced to handle behind closed doors. From biohazards to terrifying injuries, they break down what really goes on behind the front desk.

Shifting gears to life on the road, the hosts lay out essential Tips for Traveling Alone. They share practical safety hacks, boundary-setting strategies, and how to actually enjoy your own company, doing what you want to do.

Finally, the episode wraps up with a frank deep dive into Tight Pussies & Anal Sex. The hosts dismantle common myths around tightness, and deliver step-by-step questionable guides of support.

Life updates, digital cruising, and unhinged inboxes—this week’s episode covers the full spectrum of modern queer chaos.

The show kicks off with the hosts catching up on the absolute nightmare of moving, again, and the progression of replacement coping skills

From there, the conversation dives headfirst into the evolution of digital hookup culture with a look at Sniffies. The hosts break down how the map-based cruising platform compares to classic apps, followed by a hilarious scroll through the most Wild Grindr Bios & Messages, from the wildly specific kinks to the completely unprompted opening lines.  

Finally, the episode wraps up with a raw, unfiltered unpack of queer terminology: "Am I a Pig?" The hosts dissect what the label actually means in the community, where the line sits between everyday kink and total sexual freedom, and where they personally fall on the spectrum.

Pride recovery is in full swing, and this week’s episode is stripping away the filters to look at what happens when the party ends and real-life logistics take over.

The show kicks off with Locked Door Dialogues, focusing on the heavy, intensely private conversations that only happen behind closed doors. The hosts dive deep into the major things they have personally given up recently—from vapes and drinking to sex—discussing the immediate mental shifts, the physical withdrawals, and the raw personal impacts of stepping away from their go-to habits.

Next, it's time for a relationship sanity check with a breakdown of Red and Green Flags. The hosts debate the subtle, everyday behaviors that prove someone is high-value partner material versus the stealth warning signs that mean it is time to pack up and walk away.

Finally, the episode wraps up with a wild, unfiltered dissection of the ultimate Guest from Hell: Bonnie Blue. Moving past basic boundaries, the hosts focus entirely on the chaotic execution of the visit and the literal, desperate need for a professional cleaning crew to reclaim the space after the juices have dried up.

Pride month is an absolute minefield of social chaos, and this week’s episode is all about surviving the fallout.

First up, the hosts dive into a pile of Incident Reports. Reading real, high-stakes emergency situations from individuals who found themselves in the middle of a true Pride disaster, they provide raw, unfiltered, immediate advice on how to navigate the next 24 hours. From the devastation of a "Roster Merge" to surviving a "Shared Uber Pool from Hell" or receiving the dreaded "Venmo Request of Death," no emergency goes unaddressed.

Then, things shift to an international fashion crisis with a game of Is It Gay or European? In America, items like mesh shirts, pearl necklaces, carabiners, and oversized suits serve as massive queer flags—but across the pond, that's just a baseline grocery store run. The hosts debate exactly where the line is and look at the highly specific style archetypes that completely trick your internal radar.

Finally, they close it out by spilling the tea on Celebrities You Didn’t Know Swing Both Ways, breaking down the surprising histories of famous names you might not realize belong on the roster.

The Pride madness continues, and this week Kenzie and Deshaun are diving straight into performance, passion, and reading the room.

First up, the hosts tackle the art of the stage: What Makes a Drag Performer Good vs. Bad? Deshaun brings his definitive checklist to break down exactly what elevates a performance and what holds a entertainer back from truly capturing the room.

Then, things get explicitly real as they reveal their ultimate Queer Go-To's for Sex. From the baseline necessities like lube, douches, and PH wash, to the fun stuff like pocket pussies, strap harnesses, whips, and... bussy perfume? Nothing is off-limits as they break down what actually belongs in a modern queer sex drawer.

Finally, they close things out with The Gay-DAR Calibration Test. In smaller markets, the local dating pool during Pride gets incredibly messy because everyone is out, dressed up, and fluid. Kenzie and Deshaun read highly specific behavioral breakdowns of people spotted at the bar to debate the ultimate local dilemma: Are they an active candidate for the roster, are they just being friendly, or are they completely straight and just deeply confused by the attention?

Pride month is in full swing, and the chaos is officially off the charts. This week, Kenzie and Deshaun are diving headfirst into the social minefields of the season.

First, they kick things off with a brand-new game: Chaotic Ally or Underground Icon? Pride brings out the absolute wildest behavior from straight people entering queer spaces, and the hosts are deciding who adds to the vibe and who needs their privileges revoked. Next, because local festivals crowd the entire community into the same three blocks, hosts play Ex on the Beach: Pride Edition. Run-ins are guaranteed, and the hosts debate the most toxic, graceful, or unhinged ways to handle high-friction standoffs. Finally, they close it out with Don’t Cancel Me (Gay Edition). Deshaun and Kenzie bring their own personal, unfiltered hot takes on modern queer culture.

This week, Kenzie and Deshaun are pulling back the curtain, keeping it raw, and breaking down what it actually means to live life completely unfiltered.

First, the hosts Talk Dirty and Think Deeper by taking a trip down memory lane to revisit their "first times." Deshaun recounts a wild encounter in an adult theater, while Kenzie opens up about the exact moment she crossed the threshold for her first time with a woman.

Then, hosts get into the chaotic ranking of Pride Side Quests. From navigating the ultimate "Hostage Situation" after-party to the financial ruin of a "Financial Kamikaze" weekend, they rank the most unhinged scenarios you can find yourself in during Pride—including the "Harness Airport Walk of Shame" and surviving a "Small Town Surveillance Operation."

Finally, they debut: Young Ho, Run Free. What exactly makes someone wild, young, and liberated? Deshaun and Kenzie bring their own separate, definitive lists to the table, offering up their best, unfiltered advice on how to let your inner ho run completely free without any shame.

The hosts kick off this week’s episode with a masterclass in modern romance—or lack thereof—in a new segment of ‘Lock Door Dialogues.’ The conversation zeroes in on the terrifying art of shooting your shot and the delicate logistics of being on the receiving end. From bad jokes to not-so-playful banter, the hosts debate exactly how they prefer to be picked up. Is blatant honesty the ultimate turn-on? No matter the strategy, the consensus remains: read the room, or prepare to find the nearest exit.

Next, the energy pivots from the bar to the multiverse with a deep-dive Rick and Morty inquiry. The hosts leave reality behind to answer the ultimate question: if you could jump through a portal to an alternate dimension, what would your perfect universe actually look like? Whether it’s a clothesless paradise, or just a place where the chaos makes a little more sense, the segment proves that the hosts might actually be too unhinged for this timeline anyway.

To wrap things up, the episode goes from hypothetical worlds to real-world social disasters. Diving into a recent magazine expose on the "worst wedding guests and how to deal with them," the hosts expand the list to cover the absolute worst things you can possibly do at a wedding or a funeral. From main-character syndrome at the altar to completely inappropriate behavior at a wake, they map out the ultimate etiquette guide for the socially lawless. It’s a breakdown of pure, unadulterated bad manners that proves some people should just stay home.

The episode kicks off with a high-stakes creative challenge as both hosts unveil their personalized "Talk Dirty, Think Deeper" soundtracks. They each present five curated song titles that serve as a roadmap to their most guarded secrets, past traumas, and unhinged sexual fantasies. The segment moves beyond the surface-level shock value of the titles to explore the raw stories behind them, dissecting everything from childhood rumors and Sexual fantasies. It’s an unfiltered exchange that forces both hosts to reconcile with their "main character" moments and the darker, more "toxic" phases that shaped who they are today.

After the heavy lifting of the soundtrack reveals, the energy shifts to the court as the hosts dive into the world of WNBA power couples. They break down the league's most famous pairing, sparking a broader debate on the complexities of working alongside a romantic partner. The conversation navigates the tricky terrain of professional ambition versus personal intimacy, questioning whether sharing a workspace—especially one as high-pressure as professional sports—is a bonding experience or a logistical nightmare for a relationship.

To wrap things up, the hosts transition into a lifestyle debate that is as petty as it is passionate: the definitive timing of the "perfect" cigarette. Moving away from the professional and the profound, they rank the best moments to light up, weighing the nostalgic vibes of a post-sex smoke against the frantic relief of a mid-crisis break. It’s a classic Passport to Poor Judgment finish, landing on the specific moments where a bad habit feels like a necessary ritual in an otherwise chaotic world.

This week, we’re blowing out the candles and entering the wild. We kick things off with Locked Door Dialogues, reflecting on the chaotic spectrum of birthdays—celebrating the peak of turning 21, mourning the "best" and "worst" parties we’ve survived, and navigating the weird social shifts that happen every year after. Then, we’re heading to the airport for Passport to Poor Judgment to unpack the latest Noah Beck’s family drama and why it’s giving us a one-way ticket down a deep, dark rabbit hole. Finally, we dive into a massive breakdown of queer terminology, focusing on how the gay male lexicon has essentially become a high-stakes trip to the zoo. From "Gold Stars" and "U-Hauls" to the specific taxonomy of Bears, Pups, and everything in between, we’re decoding the labels, the "Celesbians," and the "Pillow Princesses" that make the community so colorful. Whether you’re a "Baby Gay" or just trying to figure out which animal kingdom you belong to, this episode is your field guide to the party.

This week, we’re peeling back the layers on everything from "green-out" paranoia to the cutthroat world of podcasting. We’re moving from deep internal thoughts to high-speed external drama.

Inside the Episode:

Talk Dirty, Think Deeper: We open the show with a vulnerable look at our first (and worst) experiences with edibles. We discuss the transition from "this isn't working" to "I can feel everything." The Recovery Room: Before the chaos, we talk survival. We’re breaking down hangover cures—ranking what actually works versus the old wives' tales we tell ourselves at 3:00 AM. Passport to Poor Judgment: The tea is officially spilled. This week’s segment focuses on the messy, behind-the-scenes drama of podcast host. We talk about the ego clashes, the industry secrets, and the moments where professional boundaries went out the window. We wrap up the episode by taking it back to high school. We’re discussing our experiences with the "Mean Girls" and "Mean Boys" of our youth, how those social hierarchies shaped us, and why some of those high school scars still itch today.

In Episode 2 of RM 213, Kenzie and DeShaun shift gears from the wild stories of their premiere to find some much-needed clarity behind the "locked door." This installment perfectly balances heavy-hitting self-reflection with a comedic take on high-stakes drama, starting with the debut of Locked Door Dialogues. Moving past surface-level gossip, the hosts dive into a therapy-style "Emotional Audit" where they each unpack a high-emotion event from their personal lives to navigate the complexities of adulthood, boundaries, and the ongoing journey of self-reflection. To lighten the mood, the show introduces Guest from Hell, a recurring segment where internet chaos is treated with corporate precision. Watch as the hosts transform ridiculous viral stories and cringe-worthy Reddit reviews into formal hotel security reports—complete with a "Damage Caused" assessment—proving that you can do the hard work of personal growth while still laughing at the mess.

In the series premiere of Room 213, hosts Kenzie and DeShaun pull back the curtain on the inspirations and aspirations behind their new podcast. The duo kicks things off with a personal dive into their "current obsessions" and aspirations.

The episode features two signature segments:

Talk Dirty; Think Deeper: DeShaun shares the pivotal hotel incident that gave the show its name, while Kenzie recounts her most hilarious and cringeworthy sexual encounter in a hotel. Together, they explore how these messy moments led to profound life lessons.

Passport to Poor Judgement: A look at the wilder side of pop culture, where the hosts break down recent celebrity scandals and viral "bad calls," including Britney Spears’ latest headlines and some truly bizarre aquatic animal mishaps.

Join us for an honest, unfiltered introduction to the room where nothing is off-limits.