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Friends of the Bridegroom w/ Fr. John Burns and Sr. Miriam James Heidland14 Aug 202400:58:55

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Fr. John Burns and Sr. Miriam James Heidland to talk about their ministry called Friends of the Bridegroom. Their ministry seeks to renew the Church through the healing, renewal, and expansion of women’s religious life in America. They also discuss the nuptial meaning of every vocation, the unique beauty women bring to the Church, and how in every state of life, we are all called to live for another.

 

Key Points:

  • Priests and religious play a vital and unique role in the health and healing of the Church
  • A Church without religious sisters is like a family without a mother
  • No matter our state of life, we are not meant to be living for ourselves. Our hearts are made to be lived for another 
  • Friends of the Bridegroom seeks to bring God’s glory forth by awakening a movement in the Church for the restoration of the Bride. When the Bride radiates, everyone understands their place within it. 
  • Prayer, fasting, and almsgiving are three ways we can offer a penitential sacrifice for the renewal of the Church.

 

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Spiritual Parenting w/ Lance and Nicole Rodriguez31 Jul 202401:05:18

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Lance and Nicole Rodriguez to discuss spiritual parenting and the profound impact it has had on their lives. Lance and Nichole share their story of loss and restoration from learning they could not have biological children, to experiencing spiritual parenting, and from there, recognizing how God created an opportunity within this sorrow to cultivate a spiritual family. They touch on the challenges that arise in spiritual parenting, the importance of receiving love before offering it to others, but most of all, the fruits that have grown out of this place of surrender.

 

Key Points:

  • Receiving love and healing is essential before offering it to others as a spiritual parent.
  • Loss and suffering can lead to unexpected blessings.
  • Spiritual parenting can be messy and challenging, but is also transformational and fulfilling.
  • Building a spiritual family requires openness, vulnerability, and a willingness to enter into the pain and joy of others. It also means creating a safe and loving space for young people to grow and discover their identity in Christ.
  • Spiritual parenting is a ministry that evolves and requires ongoing prayer, discernment, and reliance on God's grace.

 

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Parts Work (Part 3) w/ Bishop Andrew Miller27 Mar 202400:56:50

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Bishop Andrew Miller, the founder of HeartSync Ministries and a priest in the Orthodox Evangelical Episcopal Church to conclude their series on Parts Work. Bishop Andrew discusses the four core parts of HeartSync, the importance of placing God in the center of our hearts, and his process for helping others heal from brokenheartedness. He also discusses the ultimate goal of healing as bringing the whole heart into a loving relationship with God and how giving thanks to God can help bring us into deeper relationship and healing. For more information about HeartSync or Bishop Andrew, visit his website here. 

 

Key Points:

  • Heart Sync is a therapeutic approach that focuses on healing brokenheartedness and integrating the core components of the heart.
  • The four core components of the heart are function, guardian, emotion, and true self.
  • Many people have parts of their heart that are not in relationship with God, and healing involves bringing these parts into communion with Him.
  • Healing also involves making relational connections with God through memories and experiences as well as expressing thanksgiving to deepen the bond with God.
  • It is important to recognize union with God as the ultimate goal of inner healing and deliverance.

 

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Faith or Fear: Part 219 Aug 202000:32:20

Bob and Jake continue the series on faith or fear and discuss seven deadly wounds and their impact on our lives. We have dynamics in our hearts that are below the surface and, although they are unseen, impact our peace, love, and joy.

Faith or Fear: Part 105 Aug 202000:35:13

Bob and Jake start a new series about faith and fear. Understanding our heart’s reaction to life and why we become afraid leads us to name our fear before God and invite Him to love us, heal us, and set us free.

Theology of the Body & Healing: Part 6 (Healing Our Shame)22 Jul 202000:40:32

Bob and Jake finish their series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on God’s design for humans to be unashamed. We were designed to bear God’s image, see as He sees, and love as He loves. Our healing journey requires us to bring the depths of our shame into the light and love of God so we can live our lives to the full.

Theology of the Body & Healing: Part 5 (Union of Man and Woman)08 Jul 202000:42:04

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on the idea of “original unity” and how the relationship between men and women was intended, how it’s wounded, and how it’s restored.  

Theology of the Body & Healing: Part 4 (Female)24 Jun 202000:36:52

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on how females uniquely reveal God's glory, how they are wounded, and how they are healed.

Theology of the Body & Healing: Part 3 (Male)10 Jun 202000:36:58

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on how males uniquely reveal God's glory, how they are wounded, and how they are healed.

Theology of the Body & Healing: Part 2 (Identity)27 May 202000:28:38

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body and healing by talking about how our identity is found in God. God gives us our identity but it’s possible we have a skewed image of God that affects our identity and peace. It’s important that we are aware of where we are bringing the deep questions of our hearts because if we lose God’s identity, we lose our identity.

Theology of the Body & Healing: Part 1 (Introduction)13 May 202000:35:49

Bob and Jake start a series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) by sharing stories of how the TOB has brought healing into people’s lives. They discuss various aspects that are essential to the healing process and ground TOB as an essential background for healing.

Our Background29 Apr 202000:29:28

Bob and Jake discuss how their (and our) life story is the critical backdrop to our healing journey.

Our Story13 Apr 202000:29:55

Bob and Jake share some stories about their personal restoration and how important honest and openness are in the healing journey.

Parts Work (Part 2) w/ Brya Hanan13 Mar 202400:57:17

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Brya Hanan, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to continue their series on parts work. Brya shares her personal story from trauma to healing and how it has influenced her work as a therapist. She introduces her model of parts work, discusses the five A’s of parts work therapy, and shares a practical meditation you can use to begin your healing journey. For more information, check out Brya’s book Befriending Your Inner Child. 

 

Key Points:

  • Understanding and integrating the different parts of ourselves is essential for healing and wholeness.
  • Embodiment and the awareness of the body's sensations and needs can be the first step in one’s healing process.
  • The relational aspect of parts work, including self-compassion and love, is vital for healing and integration.
  • The five A's of Internal Family Systems therapy are Anchor, Acknowledge, Attune, Ask, and Act.
  • Incorporating Jesus into the therapy process can deepen the healing and anchoring experience.

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Introduction to Restore The Glory Podcast30 Mar 202000:02:51

We are two Catholic therapists with over 50 years combined experience who now lead healing ministries. We are excited to share what we've learned and experienced to help you have greater freedom.

Parts Work (Part 1) w/ Gerry Crete28 Feb 202401:07:43

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Gerry Crete, a marriage and family counselor to discuss his work on internal family systems, or parts work. Parts work is a therapeutic approach that involves exploring and understanding the different “parts” of our personality and how they can influence the decisions we make in life. Jake, Bob, and Gerry explore the transformative applications of parts work in therapy, distinguish the differences between desires and wounds, and discuss the role of love and compassion in the healing journey. For more information check out Gerry’s book Litanies of the Heart.

 

Key Points:

  • Parts work, or internal family systems, can lead to remarkable breakthroughs in therapy by helping individuals connect with and understand their different parts.
  • Harmony and unity within oneself can be achieved through the integration of different parts, allowing for a more balanced and authentic experience of self.
  • Understanding the distinction between desires and parts can help individuals navigate conflicting motivations and make choices that align with their true selves.
  • Practical applications of parts work include using analogies and visualization techniques to help individuals relate to and understand their parts.
  • It is important to recognize and distinguish parts from the true self, which is characterized by compassion and love.

 

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Divorce (Part 3) w/ Bob's Mother14 Feb 202400:42:37

This week, a special guest joins the podcast - Bob’s mother, Peggy. Bob has shared the story of his absent father and the healing that took place over years of prayer. Now, Peggy shares her testimony of tender love, hardship, and forgiveness. She opens up about the beautiful relationship she had with her husband, the pain experienced in the divorce, and her self-sacrifice as she raised her 7 children. 

Key Points

  • The impact divorce has on childhood & those previously in the marriage.

  • The process of forgiveness and the role it plays in daily life. 

  • The power of prayer and the impact conversion has. 

  • What it takes to get through a divorce. 

  • The reason why many men struggle in marriage.  

 

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Divorce (Part 2) w/ Nicole Rodriguez31 Jan 202400:52:25

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Nicole Rodriguez as they continue their series on divorce. Nicole’s parents divorced when she was 11 years old & the trauma she experienced affected her through childhood and into her marriage. In the episode, she shares how her marriage suffered because of these wounds as well as the healing she has received through her relationship with the Lord, her spiritual parents & her husband’s willingness to walk alongside her.

Key Points

  • The impact divorce has on childhood & marriage.

  • Children have a deep need for their parents. 

  • How to process the pain of divorce. 

  • The role spiritual parents have for children of divorce. 

  • Bring divorce wounds to Jesus in adoration. 

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Divorce (Part 1) w/ Joey Pontarelli17 Jan 202401:09:37

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Joey Pontarelli, the founder and president of the ministry “Restored”. After finding a lack of help after his parents’ divorce, Joey decided to begin ministry with “Restored” to offer practical guidance and support for teens and young adults from broken families. Jake, Bob, and Joey discuss the wounds that come from divorce, their personal experiences, and practical advice on how to respond to this woundedness. 

Key Points

  • If there isn’t any transformation in the wounds, then the sins we fall into, as a remedy, make sense. They don’t work, but they make sense. 

  • We often don’t want to face these wounds, so we try to outrun them. But we can’t outrun our wounds. We’re made for more than that.

  • The Lord understands why you struggle with each particular sin. It doesn’t surprise or scandalize Him. And He loves you where you are. 

  • Divorce is a wound of broken love. So the medicine can only work when you reach the wound. Love is what heals. 

  • Relationship with God is the primary healing element and agent. Give God your attention, quality time, and trust Him. 

  • Consume great content that involves trauma and healing. Seek out coaching - a therapist, spiritual director, or mentor. Have a good community and deep relationships.

  • For a healthy marriage - spend time with a couple who has a healthy marriage. 

  • The temptation in marriage is to harden your heart and to close yourself off. But instead, we are called to tenderness and vulnerability.

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Questions & Answers : Love, Healing & Maturation03 Jan 202400:45:20

Happy New Year! Jake & Bob kick off the year by answering YOUR questions. They field listener submitted questions on topics including parenting, loneliness, anxiety, scrupulosity & maturity.

Key Points

  • Cultivating an environment of unconditional love as parents

  • Our kids are observing and modeling our behavior more than we realize

  • How to handle loneliness when it pops up in our lives

  • Dealing with anxiety & scrupulosity 

  • The similarities & differences between healing & maturing

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Healing & Christmas20 Dec 202301:05:35

Merry Christmas from Jake & Bob! This week, they discuss the healing power of Jesus' infancy narrative. They recognize that this time of year can be difficult for many people and offer some solutions. Jake shares some of his triggers & wounds around the Christmas season so Bob leads him through a deep prayer and meditation. It’s a beautiful insight into the work that they both do. We hope you all have a very blessed Christmas. 

Key Points

  • The healing power of the Christmas story & Jesus’ infancy narrative

  • Dealing with difficult feelings and triggers during the holidays

  • Bob leads Jake (and us) in a prayer through the difficult parts of the Christmas season.

  • The role animals can play in our attachment healing

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Adoption (Part 4) w/ Sr. Miriam James Heidland06 Dec 202301:01:51

Sr. Miriam James Heidland shares her experience of being adopted. Jake, Bob & Sister have worked together for years and start the conversation off by discussing her impactful ministry, finding identity in Christ & her healing journey. She then shares about finding out she was adopted & the struggles & graces experienced along the way. 

Key Points

  • Getting to a place where you are secure in your own identity that people’s reaction to you doesn’t affect you.

  • A discussion exploring why Sr. Miriam’s ministry connects so well with people. 

  • “The man who loves to walk will go further than the man who loves the destination.”

  • We are all adopted sons & daughters of God.

  • What it means to truly belong.

  • Sister shares her experience of finding out that she was adopted.

  • Experiencing the kindness of the Lord that doesn’t pull away or act harshly.

  • Sister shares the struggles and graces during her healing process.

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Adoption (Part 3)22 Nov 202301:08:30

Chris & Michelle Benzinger share their story of adopting two children from Haiti after a hurricane devastated the country. They share with Jake & Bob how they weren’t planning to adopt until the Lord put it on their heart. They discuss how they navigated integrating these children into their family & how there was joint restoration for everyone involved. Michelle also talks about her experience with Safe & Sound protocol & it’s role in her healing journey.

Key Points

  • Before adoption, the call from the Lord was “Will you welcome them into your heart?”

  • How Chris & Michelle’s community helped to welcome their new children.

  • The disorientation of the kids coming to a new place, with new people and they don’t understand the language.

  • Joint restoration for everyone involved. Healing of attachment wounds for Chris & Michelle as well as their kids.

  • The importance of listening to your body in healing & a discussion of somatic methods.

  • Our minds and body are so connected that healing in one helps the other.

  • Safe & Sound Protocol explanation & it’s usefulness in our own healing and especially in our parenting.

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Parenting w/ Duane and Carrie Daunt17 Jul 202401:29:19

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Duane and Carrie Daunt to discuss what living out our identity of father or mother can look like as a biological parent. Duane and Carrie share the challenges and joys of parenting a large family and the role sacrifice plays in creating a strong and loving home. They also talk about how their own woundedness has impacted their parenting journey, the role of community, and what to do when spouses disagree.

 

Key Points:

  • Duane’s sacrifice and willingness to put the needs of his family above his own is an essential aspect of creating a loving home.
  • Community and mentorship play a crucial role in raising children and passing on the faith.
  • Parenting a large family comes with unique challenges but also brings great joy and fulfillment.
  • Our own woundedness and past experiences can impact our parenting journeys. It is important to seek healing and restoration in those areas.
  • We are human and will make mistakes. Seeking to reconcile with your children afterwards is important for healing and repair.

 

The Pillars of Duane and Carrie’s Parenting Style:

  • Be conscious of the parenting you received growing up and how that has affected you
  • The husband sacrificing creates the foundation of a loving home
  • Both spouses should have vision and alignment
  • Support from the community is necessary
  • The Catholic faith is the centerpiece of life
  • Do what it takes to be involved in your children’s lives
  • You may never see the fruit of your parenting efforts, but that doesn’t matter
  • Be open to feedback
  • Be Holy Spirit led
  • The messages your kids are hearing explicitly and implicitly matter and be attentive to them
  • Pray for the Holy Spirit to fill your inadequacies as a parent
  • Always attempt to repair 
  • Root your kids in the truth

 

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Adoption (Part 2)08 Nov 202301:19:31

This may be the most special episode of the podcast yet! Jake & Bob are joined by Bob’s sister, her husband and his 48 year old nephew Brian that Bob just met for the first time this year! They gave up their son for adoption after a teenage pregnancy and the wounds were still there for everybody after over 40 years. Then, by nothing short of a miracle, the family was reconnected! It’s a beautiful story of grace, healing, reconciliation and God’s abundant love.

Key Points

  • Nick & Kathy the experience of giving up their son for adoption after a teenage pregnancy.

  • Brian shares his story of finding out he was adopted and his experiences with both families.

  • “In my deepest wound, I saw Your glory and it dazzled me.”  -St. Augustine

  • The beauty of the reunion of the family after many years apart.

  • Offering support and encouragement to other parents who gave babies up for adoption.

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Adoption (Part 1)25 Oct 202300:42:07

Jake & Bob kick off a new series on adoption. We have all been impacted by adoption, whether through family situations or spiritually since we are all adopted as sons and daughters of God. Jake & Bob tackle heart dynamics of adoption, separation anxiety & ruptures of primary relationships along with defining dissociation & attachment trauma. This series will have something for everyone!

Key Points

  • We have all been impacted by adoption, whether through family situations or spiritually. We are all adopted as sons and daughters of God.

  • The heart dynamics of adoption, separation anxiety & ruptures of primary relationships.

  • Attachment & attachment trauma is a popular topic in pop psychology. 

  • Healthy attachments are formed between the mother and child in the womb.

  • An explanation of the different types of memory.

  • Nothing is beyond the scope & capacity of God to heal.

  • Dissociation is a God-given dynamic where we self-protect but it’s not meant to be permanent.

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Barriers to Trust11 Oct 202300:56:21

Trust is vitally important to the healing process. Jake & Bob discuss broken trust, healing relationships where trust has been broken and the barriers we put up that prevent us from building trust in our relationships. They share about how trust issues can affect our relationship with God,  those closest to us & how we can rebuild that trust.

Key Points

  • Trust is vitally important to the healing process

  • Gen 3:10 “I was afraid because I was naked so I hid.” This verse is foundational to the human experience and a barrier in our relationship with God and others

  • Wrestling with trust issues in marriage

  • The first attack the enemy made in the garden was against trust

  • Jesus still had wounds after His resurrection, but they were healed and became signs of glory as opposed to wounds of death

  • Working through beliefs and vows that affect our ability to trust

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Immanuel Approach with Dr Karl Lehman27 Sep 202301:38:49

Dr. Karl Lehman joins Jake & Bob to discuss his Immanuel Approach to healing. He shares from his years of training and extensive therapy work on how to use this approach to bring people to deeper healing. Dr. Karl has been a leader in the field for decades and we are overjoyed to share this conversation with you.

Key Points

  • Dr. Karl explains the Immanuel Approach to therapy. He shares from his years of training and extensive work with people on how to use this approach to bring people to a place of healing.

  • Encountering Jesus in both positive and negative memories. 

  • Dr. Karl shares how he has trained other professionals and volunteers to use this approach and the results it has gotten in people finding healing, particularly in 3rd world countries.

  • Dr. Karl shares his personal experience with healing ministry and common blockages in people’s minds and spirits.

  • Finding healing in the the presence of the Eucharist

  • How to know when we are truly encountering Jesus

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What is Healing?13 Sep 202300:45:09

We’re back! Jake & Bob return after a summer break tan & ready to dive deep into the topic of what healing really is. They also share insight into the problem of suffering, how to shift mindsets when it seems like healing isn’t coming & a consistent reminder that God is always up to something good.

Key Points

  • Healing is an essential part of the Church’s mission as our mission is Jesus’ mission & healing was an important part of His ministry.

  • Healing is more than just physical. 

  • Suffering is an essential dimension of redemption

  • “Healing is the restoration of our God-given glory” -Jake Khym

  • God is always up to something good, even it we can’t see it at the moment

  • Healing is bringing about a greater good from whatever is experienced

  • The dangers of disassociation 

  • Suffering is the door into healing, not the absence of healing 

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Emotions (Part 3) Movements of the Heart21 Jun 202300:56:57

This week, Jake and Bob talk about what it means to “process your emotions” and give ways to practically do that. They share that the steps to regulate emotions include awareness, feeling the emotion, naming the emotion, and relationships. They create a scenario where they navigate someone through a lot of intense emotion and bring it back to a wound. Through this scenario, they share the importance of uncovering a wound in order to bring about healing.

Key Points

  • The steps to regulating your emotions include: Awareness, feeling the emotion, naming the emotion, & relationship.

  • How parents respond to their emotions affect their children’s emotions & how to be aware of this as adults.

  • They walk through a counseling scenario to recognize the root wound behind specific emotions.

  • They discuss praying against, breaking, renouncing, & discovering any lies surrounding a vow.

  • What “bodily anchor” means & how the nervous system has feeling sensors across the body that can be labeled as a specific emotion

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Emotions (Part 2) Movements of the Heart07 Jun 202300:50:11

This week, Jake and Bob dive deeper into their series on emotions. They discuss how the Church often seems to deemphasize our emotions and the culture overemphasizes them which can leave us confused about the role emotions play in our lives. They discuss how having emotions is natural and good and how we can best integrate them into a holy lifestyle. They also make the important distinction between an emotion, a wound, and a spirit.

Key Points

  • What is an emotion and why is it there?

  • Holiness does not mean getting rid of emotion

  • Jesus as the model for how to have emotions

  • Understanding the emotion of anger

  • Distinction between an emotion, a wound, and a spirit

  • How to process our emotions in a healthy way

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Emotions (Part 1) Movements of the Heart24 May 202300:40:11

Bob and Jake introduce a new series on emotions. Bob shares some personal exciting news to kick off the conversation & then he and Jake discuss what emotions are, where they come from & how we regulate them.

Key Points

  • What are emotions, where do they come from & how do we regulate them?

  • Some exciting personal news for Bob!

  • How to deal with your feelings maturely

  • How emotions have caused the breakdown of many families

  • Social Media battling for your attention & its impact on your emotions

  • St. Thomas Aquinas on dealing with emotions/passions

  • Lessons from negative emotions & where they stem from

  • How emotions & love are connected

  • The distinction between emotions & feelings

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Questions & Answers10 May 202300:49:35

Jake and Bob answer questions submitted from the audience. They take time to diligently answer questions about spirituality & healing that Jake and Bob are able to answer based on experiences within their extensive careers in psychology. The questions range from what type of media we should be consuming, dealing with intrusive thoughts, working through vows & finding a spiritual director. 

Key Points

  • How to discern whether or not you should watch movies with sinful actions in them. Art vs. Morality

  • Dealing with intrusive thoughts. Should we focus on them or let them pass?

  • Working through unhealthy vows

  • Discussion of the future series topic, transgenderism

  • Finding a spiritual director

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The Three Essential Relationships (Part 4: Others)26 Apr 202300:59:03

This is the final installment in our series on "Healing Our Primary Relationships." Jake & Bob close this series by discussing how we can love others better. They open up about areas of struggle that can arise in relationships and the various avenues available for coming towards solutions with your spouse, friends & coworkers. Jake and Bob also pull important lessons from the teachings and lives of prominent Catholic role models like St. Mother Teresa and Pope St. John Paul II.

Key Points

  • Living out the greatest commandment

  • We can better share the love of God with others when we have received His love first

  • The importance of maturity in relationships, especially marriage 

  • An explanation of the “art” of loving: caring, respecting, responding & knowing

  • Understanding the intentions of your partner & the importance of listening in loving

  • Practical tips on how to love others more fully

  • Stepping into love and vulnerability & sharing growth areas

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The Four Identities (Father/Mother) w/ Heather Khym03 Jul 202401:04:02

This week, Jake and Bob are once again joined by Heather Khym to conclude their four part  series on the four identities of a human. In this episode, they focus on the identity of father/mother, discuss maturation versus healing, and explore how unresolved wounds in the other three identities surface in the identity of mother/father. They also discuss the unique yet complementary qualities of a good mother or father and how they represent different traits of God’s character. Whether you have biological or spiritual children, remember the key to experiencing the fullness of our role as mother/father is becoming little and allowing God to love and heal us.

 

Key Points:

  • Mothers and fathers have unique giftings that can bless their children in different ways.
  • Mothers and fathers cannot be replaced by each other and represent different aspects of God's character.
  • Corresponding words and deeds are important in embodying the roles of mother and father. 
  • Becoming little and allowing God to love and heal us is key to experiencing the fullness of our roles as mothers and fathers.

 

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The Three Essential Relationships (Part 3: Myself) Reflections & Comments on Episode 7912 Apr 202301:00:27

Jake and Bob break open the conversation they had in the previous episode with Dr. Peter Malinoski and dive deeper into the key points from that episode. This leads to a discussion where Jake and Bob talk about their own struggles with feelings of rejection and how to process that. The guys also talk about forgiving and loving our past selves, dealing with anxiety & the dangers of self-reliance.

Key Points

  • Were there “parts” before the fall? 

  • A deeper discussion into how “parts” play a role in our personal lives.

  • Inviting Jesus into tough situations.

  • Forgiving and loving our past selves. 

  • Confession is approaching a merciful God who loves us, not just temporarily removing his hatred towards us.

  • How to deal with anxiety.

  • The dangers of self-reliance. We can’t fight pride with more pride.

  • Examining the areas of self-hatred in our lives. Ask the Father how He sees you there.

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The Three Essential Relationships (Part 2: Myself) with Dr. Peter Malinowski29 Mar 202301:08:46

Jake and Bob bring on fellow podcast host & Catholic psychology leader, Dr. Peter Malinoski. Dr. Malinoski is a clinical psychologist and the president and co-founder of Souls and Hearts. In this episode, Dr. Malinoski talks about the different “parts” of ourselves and the process of getting those parts into a more perfect unity. This process will help us to live the Greatest Commandment more fully because when we love ourselves, we can love our neighbor more fully.

Key Points

  • In order to fulfill the greatest commandment, we must also love ourselves

  • We have many different “parts” of ourselves that we need to try to bring in to more perfect unity

  • Sin fragments us

  • The role of a therapist in helping us become more unified

  • Turning to love in the face of challenges

  • The process of integrating a “part” of ourselves  into the whole

  • Building a better relationship with our self

  • Working through self-hatred 

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The Three Essential Relationships (Part 1: God)15 Mar 202300:53:10

Following up on their series about healing and deliverance, Jake & Bob move into a conversation about healing our primary relationships with God, ourselves and with others. This stems from a recent talk that Bob gave with the assistance of his new book “Do You Want to be Healed.” Bob shares his own story of healing and how some key stories in the Gospels aided in his journey.

Key Points

  • Theology and anthropology go hand in hand for healing

  • Dealing with anger without shifting to timidity

  • How to understand the balance between the justice of God and the mercy of God

  • Bob shares from his own personal experience about finding healing from trauma through the compassion of another person.

  • How Jesus interacted with broken people in the Gospels like the woman at the well.

  • The idols that we put in front of our relationship with God.

  • “Jesus' desire for us precedes our desire for Him.” -Bob

  • Jesus changes the woman at the well’s relationship with Him, herself and her community.

  • “Worshiping the true God is the only integrating factor in our life.” -Bob paraphrasing the Catechism

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Spiritual Discernment & Deliverance (Part 5) Wrap-up01 Mar 202300:54:06

In this episode, Bob and Jake reflect on all of the great conversations that have happened with their guests through the course of the season. They share their favorite insights that they gleaned from their guests and share their own final thoughts on discernment & deliverance.

Key Points

  • The Spiritual & Human components of our nature

  • Renouncement of the lies of the enemy

  • The different doorways we create that can allow the enemy to come into our lives

  • Why deliverance ministry matters

  • A review of the 5 Keys

  • Closing thoughts on the discernment of spirits

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Spiritual Discernment & Deliverance (Part 4) with Fr. Boniface Hicks15 Feb 202301:00:19

In this episode, Jake and Bob sit down with Fr. Boniface Hicks, the director of The Institute for Ministry Formation at St Vincent Seminary in Latrobe, Pennsylvania. They discuss the role that spirituality plays in the healing of trauma and the numerous ways that opportunities for healing reveal themselves. There are several instances in this episode in which the hosts discuss the ways that Father Boniface's advice has led to healing within their own lives.

Key Points

  • Ways to distinguish between our own inner voice and God's voice

  • How a soul may find change

  • A discussion about some of the things that may bring about transformation

  • How the formation of our thoughts and feelings are linked

  • How a spiritual director's duty includes helping relationships grow

  • Why spiritual direction is different than counseling

  • Attunement and why it is necessary for healing

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Spiritual Discernment & Deliverance (Part 3) with Neal & Matt Lozano01 Feb 202301:34:21

Jake & Bob are joined by their friends from Unbound Ministry, Neal and Matt Lozano. The conversation takes us through the journey of lifelong faith and how to spot the tactics used by the enemy in attempts to shake our foundations set in Christ. Neal and Matt share experiences from their relationships with Christ and their interpersonal relationships. They also share their system called the 5 Keys to Freedom, that helps to re-aim our sights back to the Father in times of trauma which leads to deeper healing.

Key Points
  • Discussion on the tactics used by the enemy & how evil spirits work primarily with deception.
  • Acts of faith, such as renouncement, take away the weight of thoughts brought on by the enemy because of our inherent identity in Christ.
  • Being able to identify the schemes of the devil are an essential part in implementing the 5 Keys to Freedom.
  • The explanation of what it means to obtain deliverance.
  • Working through the 5 Keys help to release you from the bondage in your life and to more fully see how Jesus is at work in you.
  • Discussing how to seek God for revelation instead of blaming God for trauma and how that simple adjustment can contribute a great deal towards healing.
  • The power that resentment has to control someone's life and how to break that connection through forgiveness.
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Spiritual Discernment & Deliverance (Part 2) with Fr. Justin Brady18 Jan 202301:26:01

Jake & Bob are joined by Fr. Justin Brady who leads the Office of Healing, Deliverance and Exorcism in the Diocese of Boise and has a long history of connection to our hosts. They continue the conversation on discernment and deliverance that began last week with Fr. Tim Gallagher. Fr. Justin shares insights from his work in deliverance ministry on how we can be brought back into right relationship with God, ourselves and our neighbors. 

Key Points
  • Fr. Justin shares his conversion story and how he got involved in his faith and his current work as a priest.
  • Embracing the fullness of Catholicism but uniting the tradition of the faith with movements of the Holy Spirit today through things like the charismatic renewal.
  • Exorcisms are reunifying a person into right relationship with themselves and with God.
  • True Religion is living charity: loving God and our neighbor as ourselves.
  • “God desires your healing” -Fr. Justin
  • The power of combining spiritual work like deliverance prayer with professional counseling.
  • A walk through of healing/deliverance prayer and an idea of how exorcisms work.
  • A lie is a lie that needs to be healed, no matter whether the lie comes from myself or a demon.
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Spiritual Discernment & Deliverance (Part 1) with Fr. Timothy Gallagher04 Jan 202301:08:01

Jake & Bob are joined by Fr. Timothy Gallagher for a discussion on how discernment and healing go hand in hand. Fr. Tim is the author of the incredible book “The Discernment of Spirits” that teaches us how to utilize St. Ignatius’ rules of discernment. He shares the process of discernment while Jake & Bob combine his knowledge with their expertise on healing. The process of healing and discerning God’s will for us work beautifully together.

Key Points
  • Discerning what is from the voice of the Holy Spirit and what is from the voice of the evil one.
  • The rules of St. Ignatius are an invitation to hope.
  • “The more healing that can happen on both the physical and psychological levels, the harder the enemy’s task becomes.” -Fr. Tim 
  • The first step in discernment is to notice any movements, thoughts or stirrings of the heart. Identify whether it is from the good spirit or the bad spirit and then take the appropriate action. If it is from the good spirit, take it in and be guided by it. If it is from the enemy, reject it.
  • The discernment process happens repeatedly throughout the healing process. It is continual and helps you know how to move forward.
  • Our parents/guardians are the first representatives of God to us. We may often hear God’s voice as our parent’s voices which can either be positive or negative. If we believe lies about ourselves from our parents, we need to work through those so that we don’t hear those lies coming from God’s voice in our hearts. We need to invite Jesus’ to speak His truth in our hearts.
  • In times of desolation, never make a change.
  • Renouncement prayer is a way to practically renounce lies and accept the opposing truths.
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Hope and Hopelessness (Part 2)21 Dec 202200:50:05

Jake and Bob continue their series on working through hopelessness to find hope. When we feel hopeless, we often avoid God because we feel ashamed, guilty or unloved. In these times we only see God as a judge, pointing out our failings. But God is also our Savior who loves us even in the places we feel unloveable. We can try to find hope through things or people but this will let us down. God is the only one who can provide us with the hope we desire. Our hosts walk us through how to find hope again through an Encounter with the God who loves us.

Key Points
  • Hopelessness closes our hearts to the Encounter with God.
  • When the sickness of our lives becomes evident to us, we often only see God as Judge and not as Savior.
  • Jesus loves us in the places we feel unloveable. 
  • Healing is a real encounter that brings us into wholeness, truth and communion.
  • If you lose sight of the Savior, Christianity is meaningless.
  • When we put hope in things or people that aren’t God, they become idols, and idols will always disappoint us.
Resources

Spe Salve by Pope Benedict XVI (Encyclical)

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Hope and Hopelessness (Part 1)14 Dec 202200:49:54

The season of Advent is a time of hope and waiting: preparing for the birth of Christ and welcoming Him into our hearts in a new way. But a season focused on hope can often reveal the places in our hearts that are hopeless. Jake and Bob kick off a new series on how to move from hopelessness to hope. They discuss how a lack of hope can often stem from a lack of trust, patience and intimacy with the Lord. Listen as they share some helpful shifts in mindset to grow in the virtue of hope this Advent season.

Key Quote

“The person who loves intimacy with Jesus will get farther in the healing journey than the person who just wants to be healed.” -Jake Khym

Key Points

  • How the holidays and the Advent focus on hope can often reveal where we feel hopeless

  • We need to desire relationship with Jesus even more than the healing He can give us. He wants to give us good gifts but desires our hearts more than all.

  • A lack of hope can often come from a lack of intimacy and trust.

  • Trust is the currency in the economy of relationship.

  • “Gratitude is an antidote to hopelessness.” -Bob Schuchts

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The Four Identities (Bride/Bridgroom) w/ Heather Khym19 Jun 202400:56:36

This week, Jake and Bob are once again joined by Heather Khym to continue with part three of their four part series on the four identities of a human. In this episode, they focus on the identity of bride/bridegroom and delve into the interconnectedness of each identity and why healing is essential to living them out fully. They discuss self-giving vs. self-seeking love, the role of bride/bridegroom in every vocation, and how learning to love others well is an important aspect of our healing journeys. 

 

Key Points:

  • The four identities of a person (son/daughter, brother/sister, bride/bridegroom, mother/father) are interconnected and require healing and integration to be lived out fully.
  • The healing process involves both receiving love and learning to love well through practice and maturation.
  • The sacraments play a crucial role in the restoration of relationships and offer a framework for understanding love and healing within various vocations and states of life.
  • The bride/bridegroom identity points towards our universal call to love within different states of life (single, married, and religious life).

 

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Healing and the Holy Family with Sr. Miriam James07 Dec 202201:09:28

The seasons of Advent and Christmas can bring up difficult family dynamics in our hearts, as well as a deep desire for a more whole and holy family. In today’s episode, Jake and Dr. Bob welcome Sr. Miriam James Heidland onto the podcast to talk about her new Advent devotional, “Behold” which touches on these dynamics through relationship with the Holy Family. The Holy Family provides a healing lens for us to discover new depths and completeness in our understanding of motherhood, fatherhood, childhood and our own family life. Links to the Behold weekly videos can be found in the resources section below. 

Key Quote:

The hidden life at Nazareth allows everyone to enter into fellowship with Jesus by the most ordinary events of daily life - CCC 533

Key Points:

  • Why Sister loves speaking about healing
  • Family dynamics around Advent and the Christmas season
  • Sister’s new Advent book and how it draws us into relationship with the Holy Family and our own family relationships
  • Reflections on Mary’s motherhood
  • Ideas on how to tangibly connect with the Holy Family
  • The analogy of radio waves and how we can tune into the Lord’s kindness and tenderness
  • Jake, Bob and Sister share about sculpting the Holy Family and the safety that it creates
  • The importance of receiving our identity in different stages of life (ie. husband, wife, parent) before giving from it
  • The difference between someone who is simply giving to give, and someone who is giving in order to receive
  • How can we embody the Holy Family for one another?

Practical Application/ Reflection Questions:

  1. Which member of the Holy Family are you most drawn to? 
  2. Allow yourself to be loved by the Holy Family this Advent, especially inviting Mary to mother you and St. Joseph to father you.
  3. Pray about how you can embody the Holy Family for others in your family this coming Christmas season.

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Forgiveness (Part 2)23 Nov 202201:14:32

Episode 69: Forgiveness (Part 2)

 

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Show Notes:

 

In this incredibly practical and reflective episode, Jake and Bob walk listeners through a thirteen step process of forgiveness, offering guiding insights along the way. You may wish to find a quiet, prayerful place to listen to this episode in order to apply the exercises. We are praying for you!

 

Key Quote:

 

For with the judgment you make you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. - Matthew 7:2

Key Points:

  • Surrender as part of the Christian approach to forgiveness
  • Thirteen steps to forgiveness:
    • Step 1: Ask the Holy Spirit to show you who you need to forgive.
    • Step 2: Picture the person in front of you and pay attention to how you feel.
    • Step 3: Make an account of the debt they owe you.
    • Step 4: Imagine yourself telling them what they did to hurt you and how it has affected you. If you can, notice that this is not the person they were designed to be. Separate their dignity from the evil they have done.  
    • Step 5: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you what you believe about yourself based on that incident.
    • Step 6: Renounce the identity lies.
    • Step 7: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal the judgements towards the person who hurt you.
    • Step 8: Renounce those judgements.
    • Step 9: Ask Jesus to forgive the person. Invite the person to stand at the cross with you.
    • Step 10: Forgive the person.
    • Step 11: Pray a prayer of blessing over that person, ask God to bless them in the opposite way they hurt you.
    • Step 12: Ask Jesus to seal his forgiveness and heal the wounds.
    • Step 13: Thank God for his healing. 

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Forgiveness (Part 1)09 Nov 202200:43:39

Forgiveness is not an easy topic. It’s intimately connected to our hurts and areas that need healing. But forgiveness is also misunderstood. Building off the previous series on right judgment, mercy and healing, Jake and Dr. Bob begin a two-part series on forgiveness, diving into the etymology of the word, addressing our misinterpretations, and challenging us to look at how Jesus models forgiveness. They look at how forgiveness is the perfect marriage between right judgment and mercy, and go deep into the Catechism to unpack the spiritual and human reality of this virtue. Be prepared to pause, rewind and listen to this episode again and again. 

Key Quote:

It is there, in fact, "in the depths of the heart," that everything is bound and loosed. It is not in our power not to feel or to forget an offense; but the heart that offers itself to the Holy Spirit turns injury into compassion and purifies the memory in transforming the hurt into intercession. - CCC 2843

Key Points:

  • How right judgment and mercy combined equal true forgiveness
  • Why dividing right judgment and mercy creates an awful reality 
  • The etymology of the word ‘forgive’
  • Why we hold on to unforgiveness 
  • Misinterpretations of what forgiveness is
  • Reconciliation and restitution
  • The pain and shame on both sides of hurt that can become identity lies 
  • Two powerful paragraphs from Catechism of the Catholic Church on forgiveness
  • Forgiveness will not always be followed by restoration of the relationship
  • The places we’re not willing to forgive may be places where we’ve created idols in our lives
  • Forgiveness and the connection with trust and surrender to God
  • How forgiveness didn’t diminish Jesus’s dignity
  • Applying what’s been discussed to the sex abuse crisis in the Church 

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Judgement, Mercy & Healing (Part 2) - Mercy26 Oct 202200:41:15

When we understand and exercise right judgement then we can offer and receive mercy, which leads to healing. Jake and Bob break down the role of mercy with helpful analogies and discussion to draw a more complete picture of healing. They also take a look at what happens when we get judgement wrong.

Key Quote:

Without the presence of the merciful Father, we are delivered up to our faults, without any possible remedy.  There would be no forgiveness of error or sin.  No place for weakness, frailty, or failure, all of which are nonetheless a part of our lives. - Fr. Jacques Philippe, Priestly Fatherhood

Key Points:

  • Bob illustrates with examples how mercy cannot exist without right judgement 
  • The opposite of wrong judgement leads to false or cheap mercy
  • Mercy is the what leads to healing
  • A sound anthropology is needed for real healing
  • Mercy is a combination of truth and love
  • Hesed = an Old Testament word for God’s mercy and love toward his people, an undeserved kindness and generosity
  • Misericordia = a heart for our misery
  • Jake and Bob share personal experiences of experiencing hesed and misericordia
  • The importance of remembering our encounters with God’s mercy
  • Notice what captivates you, and notice what challenges you

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