Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Raising Them Up
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| 66 - When Dad Decides Without Mom, Communicating Hurt to Your Husband, and Secular Math | 20 oct. 2026 | 00:30:50 | |
Is a mom entitled to be upset when dad makes a decision without her? How should she communicate her hurt without trying to control her husband? And is it okay to use secular curriculum when it seems more academically helpful? Israel and Brook tackle both of these questions on this week's episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 65 - Should Daughters Stay At Home Until Marriage? | 13 oct. 2026 | 00:32:01 | |
In this episode, Israel and Brook respond to the Botkin sisters' apology video about their book So Much More. Does the Bible require a young woman to live under her father's authority until she marries? Is an adult daughter obligated to obey her parents forever? What does 1 Corinthians 7 say about the unmarried woman's freedom to serve the Lord? Israel and Brook address this controversial topic on today's episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 64 - Adult Children Who Won't Leave, Clashing Homeschool Styles, and Parenting with an Unbelieving Partner | 06 oct. 2026 | 00:31:54 | |
When is it time to ask a grown child to move out, and how do you do it without pushing them away? How do you and your spouse blend two very different homeschool styles into one that works for your family? And what does biblical wisdom say to a mom raising her son with a father who doesn't share her faith? Israel and Brook work through all three on today's episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 63 - Moody Teens, a Reluctant Homeschool Dad, and AI in the Home | 29 sept. 2026 | 00:31:39 | |
Why does your once-easygoing teenager turn moody and short-tempered the moment life slows down? What do you do when your husband says he supports homeschooling but you can tell his heart isn't in it? And is it sinful or un-Christlike for a Christian family to use AI? Israel and Brook tackle these three questions on today's episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 62 - Breaking an iPad Addiction, Coed Sleepovers, and Bedtime Battles | 22 sept. 2026 | 00:28:45 | |
Cold turkey or a slow taper—what's the wisest way to break a 14-year-old's screen addiction? Is it ever okay for a 19-year-old to stay overnight with a coed friend group? And why won't bedtime ever go smoothly with young kids in the house? Israel and Brook answer all three on today's episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 61 - Biblical Worldview in Every Subject,Selective Forgetfulness, & Cohabiting Kids' Weddings | 15 sept. 2026 | 00:31:55 | |
Is a math textbook really neutral, or does every subject teach a worldview? What do you do when your tween "forgets" chores but never forgets anything he actually wants to do? And should you attend a child's wedding when you can't in good conscience support the marriage? Israel and Brook Wayne tackle these three questions in today's episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 60 - When Homeschool Feels Lonely, When Curriculum Isn't Working, and Spanking Without a Spoon | 08 sept. 2026 | 00:31:45 | |
What do you do when your only child longs for constant socialization? How do you know when a curriculum has stopped working, for you or for your child? And how do you discipline consistently when you're out and about without your usual tools? Israel and Brook answer these questions on this week's episode. | |||
| 59 - Constant Negotiating, Kids Who Want Public School, and Cultivating Gratitude | 01 sept. 2026 | 00:30:53 | |
How do you stop your eight-year-old negotiating over everything from chores to bedtime? What should you do when your child begs to leave homeschooling for public school? And how can a family cultivate real gratitude in the middle of hardship? Israel and Brook tackle three common parenting struggles with biblical wisdom. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 58 - Vacation Bible School, Kitchen Chore Rotations, Navigating Mixed-Values Friendships | 25 août 2026 | 00:31:38 | |
Should you send your kids to Vacation Bible School? What if it is hosted by a friend's church? How do you structure kitchen chores so they build responsibility instead of chaos and complaining? And where's the line between loving your neighbor and protecting your children from bad influences, even within your own church community? Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 57 - Homeschooling Through Chronic Illness and Choosing Curriculum That Actually Works | 18 août 2026 | 00:31:54 | |
What do you prioritize when chronic illness leaves you with little energy left for homeschool, and what's okay to let slide for a season? And with so many curriculum options on the market, how do you know if the one you're using is actually working? Israel and Brook Wayne answer these two listener questions with biblical wisdom and practical direction. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 56 - Toddler Bedtime Battles, Dating Outside the Faith, and Motivating Reluctant Learners | 11 août 2026 | 00:31:29 | |
What do you do with a toddler who fights bedtime every night? Should parents step in when an adult son is dating a nonbeliever? And how do you get an unmotivated teen to actually want to learn? Israel and Brook Wayne answer these three listener questions on this episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 55 - Dads Stepping In With Pre-Teen Sons and Moving Your Reader Beyond Phonics | 03 août 2026 | 00:31:49 | |
What happens when a homeschooling mom finds her pre-teen son starting to resist her authority? Should dad get involved? And how do you help a five-year-old make the leap from sounding out letters to actually reading books? Israel and Brook tackle these questions on this week's episode. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 54 - Civil Disobedience, Imaginary Friends, and Leading a Reluctant Husband | 28 juil. 2026 | 00:31:32 | |
What do you do when the law itself stands against biblical parenting? How much imaginative play is too much for a child who lives in a world of talking animals? And how can a wife encourage a reluctant husband to step into biblical leadership? Israel and Brook Wayne tackle these three questions this week. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 53 - Homeschool Burnout, Reluctant Writers, and Teen Curfews | 21 juil. 2026 | 00:31:51 | |
What do you do when homeschooling feels overwhelming and joyless? How can you inspire a child who has no interest in writing? And when your teenager keeps blowing past curfew, do you hold the line or ease up? Israel and Brook tackle these questions on today's podcast. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 52 - Who Handles the Money, a 3-Year-Old's Rage, and Kids Outside During School Hours | 14 juil. 2026 | 00:31:21 | |
Who should handle the finances in a Christian marriage—and what do you do when a husband uses biblical submission to justify overspending? What do you say to a three-year-old who declares she hates her sister and wants nothing to do with Jesus? And is it a bad testimony to let your homeschool kids play outside before 3 p.m.? Israel and Brook tackle each of these listener questions with biblical wisdom and practical direction. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 51 - Kicking Kids Out at 18, Chronic Lateness, and Mormon Curriculum in Christian Homes | 07 juil. 2026 | 00:31:34 | |
Is it wrong to let your child continue living in your home past the age of 18? How do you avoid being late to every single event when you have many children and things are always going wrong? Finally, are all Mormon resources bad? Tune in to hear Israel and Brook answer these three questions on this episode of Raising Them Up. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 50 - Secret Netflix, Foster Children, and a Husband Who Picks Fights | 30 juin 2026 | 00:30:37 | |
What do you do if your 17-year-old daughter opens a secret Netflix account? Or if your newly adopted foster teen's heart seems unreachable? Finally, how should a wife navigate a husband who provokes her son to anger and shows no fruit of faith? Listen to Israel and Brook answer these three questions. | |||
| 49 - Navigating Church as the Homeschool Family, & Setting Financial Boundaries with a Working Teen | 23 juin 2026 | 00:31:04 | |
What do you do when your family feels like the odd ones out at church? Or when you have different convictions than the other parents at the church? How do you teach a 17-year-old daughter to be financially responsible when she gets her first job? Tune in to listen to Israel and Brook address these questions on this week's episode. | |||
| 48 - Single Parenting a Rebellious Teen Son, and Marrying Someone With a Pornography Past | 16 juin 2026 | 00:31:46 | |
A single mom asks how to address her son's growing resistance to household responsibilities, and another parent wonders how to handle a daughter's suitor who has been honest about a pornography struggle. Israel and Brook offer biblical wisdom, drawing on Israel's own experience growing up without a father, and point listeners toward trusted counseling resources. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 47 - Barrenness, Wolves in the Co-op, and State Homeschool Organizations | 09 juin 2026 | 00:30:00 | |
What do you do when God doesn't open the womb, and you don't know why? Israel and Brook bring biblical wisdom and pastoral honesty to the pain of infertility. Then they turn to a question about a progressive family causing division in a Christian homeschool co-op, as well as advice for joining a state homeschool organization. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 46 - Choosing Companions Wisely, What Age to Stop Spanking Boys, and Should Christians Reform Public Schools? | 02 juin 2026 | 00:30:45 | |
Who should be the primary influencers on your children? At what age does spanking boys start to become counter-productive? And is it worth it for Christians to seek to reform the public school system by attending school board meetings and other events? Listen to Israel and Brook answer these three questions this week. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 45 - Defining a Biblical Marriage, and What to Do With Boys After School | 26 mai 2026 | 00:32:07 | |
What does the Bible actually say constitutes a marriage - and how should parents respond when their adult daughter is living with her boyfriend and claiming they consider themselves already married? And once homeschool wraps up for the day, how do you keep boys ages 8–13 productively engaged without handing them a screen? Israel and Brook tackle these two listener questions with biblical wisdom and practical direction. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 44 - Is Homeschooling a Calling, When Kids Ask "Why," and Getting to Know the Waynes! | 19 mai 2026 | 00:31:46 | |
Is homeschooling a calling for every parent? What do you do when your seven-year-old responds to every instruction with "why?" Israel and Brook share practical wisdom on training young children toward first-time obedience. Plus, get to know Israel and Brook a little better as they share about their family and background! Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 43 - Teen Romance, Angry Children, and Disrespectful Sons | 12 mai 2026 | 00:31:24 | |
What should parents do when a teenage boy wants to pursue a relationship? What do you do with a child whose anger lasts for hours? And how do you address a son who justifies his disrespect by pointing to his father? Israel and Brook answer real listener questions with practical, Bible-based guidance for parents navigating these challenging seasons. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 42 - Boys and War Interest, Managing Homeschool Disruptions, and Pride in a 12-Year-Old | 05 mai 2026 | 00:29:03 | |
How should parents think biblically about a son’s fascination with war and battle? What can a homeschooling mom do when discipline moments derail the entire school day? And how do you address pride and selfish patterns in a 12-year-old boy? Israel and Brook offer practical, Scripture-rooted guidance for each of these challenges. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 41 - Unrealistic Sports Dreams, Talking to Kids About Homosexuality, and Homeschool Doubt | 28 avr. 2026 | 00:31:24 | |
What do you do when your teen is set on an unrealistic sports career? When should you begin talking to your children about homosexuality—and how do you do it biblically? And what if other parents’ choices leave you doubting your ability to homeschool? Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 40 - Kitchen Chores for Kids, When to Teach Apologetics, and Burnout for Moms | 21 avr. 2026 | 00:31:51 | |
What’s the best way to organize kitchen cleanup with multiple children? Should apologetics training start earlier than we think? And how can weary moms stay faithful when the work never seems to end? Tune in to hear Israel and Brook answer these three questions. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 39 - Overwhelmed with Eight Kids, How Much Should Moms Serve at Church, and Teen Crushes | 14 avr. 2026 | 00:31:06 | |
What do you do when you have eight children, squabbles are erupting everywhere, and you're already mentally exhausted? How much should a homeschooling mom with young children — including one with autism — be serving at church before it becomes too much? And how do you help your teenager navigate a crush on someone when you believe romance should wait until marriage? Listen to Israel and Brook tackle these three listener questions. | |||
| 38 - Family Pushback on Parenting Choices, Biblical Finances for Kids, and Charging Adult Children Rent | 07 avr. 2026 | 00:31:46 | |
What do you do when your own family accuses you of sinning for your parenting decisions? How can you cultivate a heart of generosity in a child who is becoming consumed by money? And how much should you charge an adult child who is living at home? Tune in to hear Israel and Brook address these three questions. | |||
| 37 - Slow vs. Fast Learners, Modesty at Family Reunions, and Children Who Steal | 31 mars 2026 | 00:31:16 | |
What do you do when one child blazes through schoolwork while another takes three times as long? How do you prepare young children for immodesty they'll encounter at a family reunion without making them judgmental? And what does the Bible say about how to handle a child who steals (more than once)? Israel and Brook tackle these three listener questions with practical wisdom and biblical direction. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 36 - Passive Husbands, Strong-Willed Preschoolers & Digital Dangers at School | 24 mars 2026 | 00:31:38 | |
What do you do when your husband refuses to lead spiritually, your preschooler's tantrums are derailing your homeschool day, and your second grader is being exposed to inappropriate content on school tablets? Tune in to hear Israel and Brook address these three questions. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 35 - Eye Rolling, Overwhelmed Mom, and Morning Routines | 17 mars 2026 | 00:31:20 | |
What does God actually say about a child who rolls their eyes at their parents? Is it possible for any mom to truly stay on top of everything, or is that just a myth? And what does a calm, structured morning even look like with little ones at home? Tune in to hear Israel and Brook address these questions. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 34 - Discipling a Defiant Teen, Unrealistic Marriage Standards, and Sibling Rivalry at the Piano | 10 mars 2026 | 00:30:56 | |
What do you do when your 13-year-old son has shut down and won't obey? Is the homeschool community setting unrealistic standards for young men pursuing marriage? And how do you handle a younger sibling who takes over everything his older sister works hard to achieve? Listen in to hear Israel and Brook address these questions. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 33 - Raising Kids with an Unbelieving Spouse, Santa Conversations, and Teaching Children to Pray | 03 mars 2026 | 00:30:34 | |
How do you raise godly children when your spouse won’t lead spiritually? What should parents do when Santa conversations create tension with other families, and how can children be trained to develop meaningful personal prayer habits? Tune in to hear Israel and Brook address these three questions. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 32 - Dyslexia Help, Finding a Spouse in a Small Town, and Homeschooling Large Families | 24 févr. 2026 | 00:31:27 | |
How do you help a child who struggles with dyslexia? What can young adults do when they desire marriage but live in a small town? And how can parents homeschool a large family across many ages and learning levels? Listen for thoughtful guidance rooted in Scripture for families seeking wisdom and direction. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 31 - Reconciling with Bitter Adult Children and Correcting a Rude Five-Year-Old | 17 févr. 2026 | 00:31:26 | |
What do you do when your adult child seems to remember your family story very differently than you do? How should parents respond to accusations, grievances, and relational strain without burning the bridge? And how do you correct a rude, entitled five-year-old — especially when you’re not sure if it’s willfulness, immaturity, or something deeper? Israel and Brook address these questions in Episode 1 of Season 2 of Raising Them Up. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| Raising Them Up Season 2 Trailer | 12 févr. 2026 | 00:01:20 | |
Season 2 is dropping 2/17/26 | |||
| 30 - Discipline Without Anger, Forgetful Kids, and Holidays with a Gay Relative | 10 févr. 2026 | 00:31:29 | |
What should discipline look like when a child clearly knows better? Do you go straight to spanking? How do you handle kids who forget, ignore instructions, or require constant reminders? And how should Christian families think through holiday gatherings with a relative living in open sin? Listen to today's episode to hear Israel and Brook answer these questions. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 29 - Teen Defiance, Demanding Toddlers, and Homeschool Sheltering | 03 févr. 2026 | 00:29:59 | |
How should parents respond when teenagers refuse instruction or resist follow-through, even in spiritual matters? How can a mother care for a demanding toddler without shortchanging older children or losing joy in the process? And how should Christian families think biblically about socialization and life in the home? Israel and Brook tackle these questions on today's podcast. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 28 - Apprenticeship vs. Seminary, Faith in Learning, and Teaching Children Financial Wisdom | 27 janv. 2026 | 00:31:48 | |
What is the best way to prepare young men who feel called to ministry—through seminary or apprenticeship? How can parents teach children about God without turning faith into another disliked subject? And how should families guide children in spending, saving, and stewarding money wisely? Israel and Brook offer biblical perspective on leadership qualifications, discipleship in education, and practical financial training in the home. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 27 - Superheroes, Homeschool Records, and Talking to Kids About Transgender Claims | 20 janv. 2026 | 00:31:19 | |
What should Christian parents think about superheroes and the idea of heroism? How much homeschool work should be kept after graduation? And how can families respond with truth and compassion when children encounter transgender claims? Israel and Brook address these practical and cultural questions from a biblical worldview. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 26 - Big-Family Chores, Mean Girls in the Co-op, and Personal Time With God for Busy Moms | 13 janv. 2026 | 00:31:49 | |
How do you help kids follow through when chores are “forgotten” or done halfway? What should you do when bullying and social exclusion show up in a homeschool group and your child is crushed by it? And how can a mom build realistic, consistent time alone with the Lord in the middle of babies, interruptions, and busy weeks? The goal is not quick fixes, but patient, thoughtful parenting shaped by Scripture and carried out in love. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 25 - Codependency with Kids, An 8-Year-Old’s Anger and Fighting, and At-Home Speech Therapy | 06 janv. 2026 | 00:31:46 | |
What does “codependency” actually mean in a parent-child relationship, and when should a mom be concerned? How can a single parent help an 8-year-old who’s angry, getting into fights, and waking up with scary dreams? And is it wise to purchase materials and do speech therapy at home instead of relying on public-school services? Tune in for encouragement and actionable ideas you can apply this week. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 24 – Public School Sports, Stay-at-Home Homeschool Moms, and Teen Girls Texting Boys | 30 déc. 2025 | 00:31:42 | |
Should homeschooling families allow their child to join a public school sports team when their instincts say no? How should a mother think through stepping away from a career to stay home and homeschool when fears of resentment and sacrifice arise? And is it wise for a teenage girl to engage in one-on-one texting with boys, even when there is no stated romantic intent? Listen in for biblical clarity and thoughtful encouragement for navigating these common parenting challenges. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 23 - Teen Depression and Video Games, Music While Studying, and Ignoring Chore Instructions | 23 déc. 2025 | 00:31:35 | |
What steps should parents take when a 15-year-old shows signs of depression and is increasingly addicted to video games? Is listening to music while studying a helpful tool or a hidden distraction? And how can parents address a child who claims they “didn’t hear” instructions when chores aren’t done? Israel and Brook provide thoughtful guidance rooted in Scripture for shepherding children through emotional struggles, focus issues, and discipline challenges. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 22 - Destructive Toddlers, Teen Work Schedules, and the Power of Reading Aloud | 16 déc. 2025 | 00:31:49 | |
How should parents respond to a rough, destructive three-year-old boy without crushing his spirit? What boundaries should be set when a homeschooled teen starts his first job while juggling sports and youth group? And why does reading aloud remain one of the most powerful tools in Christian family discipleship? Israel and Brook offer biblical clarity and practical counsel for parenting toddlers, teens, and everyone in between. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 21 - When Spanking “Doesn’t Work,” Early Mornings, and Raising Self-Controlled Sons | 09 déc. 2025 | 00:31:37 | |
How do we discipline strong-willed kids biblically, cultivate early-morning rhythms, and train boys toward real self-control? Israel and Brook talk Scripture, stubborn hearts, grace-filled parenting, and the long road of discipleship. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 20 - Teen Mission Trips, Depressed Daughters, and Modesty in Church | 02 déc. 2025 | 00:31:24 | |
How do you discern whether a teen’s short-term missions trip is genuine service or just expensive adventure? How should parents respond when a 14-year-old daughter is sad, anxious, and wrestling with her identity? And what do you do when another family’s teenage girls are dressing immodestly at church week after week? Israel and Brook offer biblical categories, practical questions to ask, and wise next steps, helping parents walk by faith as they weigh risk, pursue heart-level discipleship, and engage their church leaders with humility and grace. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 19 - Mom's Calling Outside the Home, Homeschool Resistance, and CPS Fears | 25 nov. 2025 | 00:31:19 | |
How do you balance a mother’s gifts with her season of life, guide a 9–12-year-old who dreads their schoolwork, and prepare wisely for a CPS visit? Israel and Brook offer biblical clarity and steady encouragement for these difficult questions, equipping parents to lead with purpose, patience, and peace. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||
| 18 - Suitor Questions, Chronic Illness at Home, and Healing Favoritism | 18 nov. 2025 | 00:34:18 | |
How do you discern a godly match for your daughter, shepherd your family through chronic sickness, and repair a relationship scarred by favoritism? Israel and Brook open Scripture and share from experience—helping parents think clearly, lead gently, and cling to grace when family life gets complicated. Biblical parenting is hard—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. | |||