In this week’s episode of *Raising His Kids*, we’re giving you a special peek into exclusive content that didn’t make it into our main episodes. You’ll hear a compilation of never-before-heard moments from Episode 57, 62, and 63 — from our New Year's catch-up and Lauren’s surgery before Valentine’s Day, to candid talks about burnout, stepmom guilt, and everything in between.

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren & Toni dive deep into the world of triggers—those unexpected moments that can catch you off guard and leave you feeling overwhelmed. Whether it’s something your stepchild says, a comment from their biological parent, or just the pressures of a blended family, triggers can take a toll on your emotional well-being.

Join Toni and Lauren as they share personal stories of their own triggers, answer listener questions, and provide practical tips for managing and healing from these challenging moments. From setting boundaries to seeking professional support, we’ve got the advice you need to navigate your emotional landscape with confidence.

If you’re struggling to manage triggers in your stepparenting journey, this episode is packed with tools and insights to help you move forward with grace and resilience.

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Today, Lauren & Toni are bringing a bit of festive cheer to your summer (or summer planning) with a special episode all about planning your holiday schedule with your co-parent now.

It might seem a little early to be thinking about the holidays, but trust us, planning ahead can make a huge difference, especially in a blended family. The holidays can be magical but also stressful, so we’re here to help you get a head start on your co-parenting holiday schedule. 

In this episode, we share tips on navigating the tricky parts of holiday planning, from coordinating schedules with your partner and their ex to making sure the kids have a joyful and memorable time. We’ve got lots of great advice and some personal stories to share, so grab your coffee or your wine, get comfy, and let’s start planning for a stress-free, joyous holiday season!

We’ll cover:

- How to bring up holiday plans with your co-parent early

- The importance of getting plans in writing

- How to handle budget constraints while preparing for the holidays

- Setting firm boundaries and making necessary compromises

- Personal stories and listener questions to guide you through your planning

Plus, we have a special gift for you—a free holiday planning template, available via the link in our Instagram bio. We also share a heartfelt Stepmoms Anon story from one of our listeners that you won’t want to miss.

Tune in and let us help you make this holiday season the best one yet. Happy planning and bye for now!

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Toni and Lauren delve into different coparenting styles, with a spotlight on parallel parenting. This episode, a winner of our Patreon vote, is packed with valuable insights for those navigating high-conflict coparenting situations.

We'll cover the three main types of coparenting—cooperative, conflicted, and parallel—based on information from the familyassist.gov website. Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences and discuss how these styles manifest in their own blended families. Focusing on parallel parenting, they highlight essential elements for your parenting plan or court orders to ensure effective parallel parenting.

The hosts also address listener questions on topics such as the necessary shared information in parallel parenting, handling a non-cooperative coparent, transitioning from co-parenting to parallel parenting, and managing communication through court apps.

Tune in for a comprehensive discussion on parallel parenting and practical tips to make it work, all aimed at keeping the peace and prioritizing the well-being of your children.

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In this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the inspiring world of stepmum wins. We're revisiting this popular topic to share new stories and celebrate the successes of stepmums in our community.

We kick off the episode by following up on our last episode with a listener response that touches on the complexities of summer holiday plans and co-parenting dynamics. Hear how one stepmum navigates the challenges of a high-conflict bio mum and strives to create memorable summer experiences for her stepdaughter.

Then, we share a collection of incredible stepmum wins from our listeners. From small daily victories to significant milestones, these stories highlight the positive impact and love that stepmums bring to their blended families.

Grab your coffee or wine, get comfortable, and join us for an episode filled with stepmum successes and heartfelt stories. You're not alone on this rollercoaster—we're all in it together.

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Toni and Lauren dive into the seasonal breaks from school, exploring the unique challenges and rewards that come with having the kids home. With Toni in Australia just starting winter break and Lauren in the USA kicking off summer break, they discuss how custody schedules can change dramatically, sometimes even disappearing altogether during these long breaks.

They share personal experiences on how their families are handling these changes, including adjustments to custody schedules and the financial implications that come with school breaks. Lauren brings up the often-overlooked topic of additional payments expected during school breaks and whether these costs are accounted for in child support.

The episode also features listener questions, where Toni and Lauren address real-life scenarios sent in by their audience. From funky schedules and summer camp fees to co-parenting conflicts and unexpected changes in communication with the kids' other parents, they provide insights and advice on navigating these complex situations.

Tune in for a candid discussion filled with practical tips and heartfelt advice. Whether you're sipping coffee or wine, join Toni and Lauren as they tackle the nitty-gritty of school breaks in blended families. Remember, if you're struggling with school breaks, you're not alone.

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into one of the most challenging aspects of blended family life: transition days. These days can be tough on everyone, especially the kids, but with the right approach, they can be much smoother and less stressful.

Join Toni and Lauren as they share practical tips and tricks to help make transition days easier for your family. They also discuss the top four phrases to avoid saying to your child during these times to prevent emotional manipulation and ensure your child feels loved and supported.

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In this heartfelt episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni provide crucial advice for new stepmothers. Tune in as they address common concerns like expressing love to stepchildren, adjusting to custody schedules, navigating court proceedings, and building relationships with children influenced by negative perceptions.

You'll hear seasoned stepmoms share their wisdom, including tips on patience, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. This episode is packed with practical advice and supportive insights, making it a must-listen for both new and experienced stepmoms.

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In today’s special episode, we dive into the hilarious, frustrating, and sometimes baffling world of co-parenting mishaps—the black hole, or as some of us might call it, the abyss of Karen’s house. Whether you're a stepparent or a biological parent, you've likely dealt with the infuriating black hole where things disappear between homes. 

Inspired by a simple photo shared on our Instagram stories—where one of Toni’s stepsons keeps coming to their home wearing smaller socks than his four-year-old sister—we explore the baffling behaviour of dressing children in the wrong-sized clothing and the mysterious disappearance and reappearance of kids' clothes and other items in blended families.

Join Toni and Lauren as they share their own experiences and read out a treasure trove of listener responses. From forgotten coats on rainy days to the epic struggle over socks and school uniforms, this episode is packed with relatable stories that will make you laugh, nod in agreement, and maybe even feel a bit of solidarity in the shared struggles of stepmotherhood.

We also take a moment to wish a Happy Father's Day to all the amazing bio dads out there who celebrated American Father's Day this past weekend! Tune in for an episode full of emotions, community stories, and a reminder that you’re not alone on this rollercoaster.

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In this episode of "Raising His Kids," Lauren and Toni check in with each other and the community, reflecting on the past six months since their New Year's episode, "You Good Sis?" They dive into their personal updates, sharing their progress, challenges, and how they’ve been navigating 2024 so far.

Lauren and Toni discuss their New Year’s resolutions, the importance of self-care, and maintaining balance in their blended family lives. They also read listener responses, providing a snapshot of how their audience is doing halfway through the year, with experiences ranging from achieving goals to just treading water.

Join Lauren and Toni for an insightful conversation about the importance of regular check-ins, both with yourself and your loved ones. Whether you’re on track with your resolutions, facing unexpected challenges, or simply trying to keep up, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone in your journey.

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• Personal updates from Lauren and Toni
• Listener responses to the mid-year check-in
• Reflections on New Year’s resolutions and goals
• The importance of self and community check-ins

Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that underscores the complexities of blended family dynamics and offers a supportive community for those navigating similar paths. Reach out for support and share your experiences—Lauren and Toni are here to help each other through the ups and downs of blended family life.

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In this episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni and Lauren dive deep into the often challenging reality of being part of a blended family. Inspired by a popular Instagram reel, Toni revisits her top 10 frustrations, from being falsely labeled a homewrecker to dealing with toxic co-parents and the emotional rollercoaster of sharing children with another parent. 

Lauren shares her own top 5 struggles, including the dreaded "golden uterus syndrome" and the constant drama that comes with co-parenting. They also read and react to listener responses, revealing common grievances like lack of control, missed life events, and the ongoing tension with ex-spouses.

Join Toni and Lauren for an honest conversation about the trials and tribulations of blended family life, offering support, empathy, and a reminder that you are not alone in this journey. Whether you're dealing with high-conflict exes, transition days, or the struggle to maintain balance and peace, this episode is for you.

• Toni's Top 10 Things She Hates About Being in a Blended Family
• Lauren's Top 5 Frustrations
• Listener Responses on Blended Family Challenges

Tune in for a raw and real discussion that shines a light on the complexities of blended family dynamics and offers a community of support for those navigating similar paths.

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into a lively discussion about Mother's Day experiences and share their personal stories from the special day.

The main segment of this episode is all about how our spouses met Karen. Many of us feel intrigued about our partner’s relationship with their child's other parent. In many cases, there’s a lot of conflict, making us curious about what initially attracted them to Karen, given how different things seem now.You'll hear personal stories from Lauren & Toni about how their husbands met Karen as well as amusing, brutally honest listener responses on how their partners met their ex’s, from high school sweethearts to random hookups, and everything in between.

Plus, Lauren shares a thought-provoking Instagram post that she was eager to get Toni’s feedback on, particularly because of the complexities of being twice blended.

Join us for a fun and engaging episode that celebrates motherhood, stepmothers, and the unique stories that bring families together. 

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the importance of creating and blending traditions in your family. Whether you're starting from scratch or combining traditions from different backgrounds, it can be both challenging and rewarding. They also take a moment to recognize National Stepfamily Day on September 16th in the USA and share how it could be the perfect opportunity to start a new tradition with your blended family.

Tune in as they discuss personal stories, offer practical tips, and read listener submissions on the traditions that have helped strengthen family bonds. Whether it’s around holidays, birthdays, or everyday moments, you’ll find inspiration and guidance on making traditions work for your unique situation.

If you’ve been wondering how to navigate traditions in your blended family, this episode is for you!

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In this special episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni is out, but we're excited to have Georgina Warren join Lauren as a guest. Georgina has an intriguing story, having grown up with a stepmother and now writing a book that challenges the traditional narrative of stepmotherhood.

Georgina shares her journey, offering a glimpse into her book, "Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers," and the inspiration behind it. She discusses the importance of representing stepmothers in a positive light and how her own experiences have shaped her perspective on family and storytelling.

Tune in to hear Georgina's unique insights, her tribute to her stepmother, and what listeners can expect from her game-changing book. This episode is a must-listen for anyone involved in a blended family or interested in the evolving roles within them.

About Our Guest: Georgina Warren is a graduate of Christopher Newport University, where she majored in French, and recently received her Master of Library and Information Science degree from the Catholic University of America. She lives in Washington, D.C. and currently works at the Library of Congress. Homeschooled until she was fifteen, she later attended the British School of Washington and the Field School, where she first cultivated her profound love of the literary, visual, and performing arts, and pursued her vision to become a writer, artist, and actor. "Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers" is the first installment of what will eventually be a three-volume collection.

About the Book - Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers: "You already know how the 'wicked stepmother' has become enshrined in legend and folklore. But in this modern era, most of us who are stepmothers or have one ourselves have seen a different truth. Many stepmothers are loving, courageous, and innovative. In this collection of original tales, you will find many kinds of stepmothers—queens, scholars, warriors, travelers, and entrepreneurs. Turn the pages and see how these heroic parents and their children achieve greatness and overcome adversity together!"

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Join Toni and Lauren in this special episode as they shine a light on Stepmother’s Day, celebrated the Sunday after Mother's Day. This episode serves as a heartfelt tribute to all the incredible stepmothers who play pivotal roles in their families. Dive into discussions about the importance of recognizing the contributions and love that stepmothers bring to their blended families. Explore common challenges, such as feeling like an outsider, especially around Mother's Day, and discover ways families can make Stepmother's Day special for everyone involved. The episode features a listener's anonymous story about the heartache of not being able to celebrate Mother's Day with the child they raise year-round. Tune in to affirm that your role is essential and appreciated in an episode dedicated to acknowledging and embracing stepmoms everywhere.

In this episode, hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of celebrating Mother's Day as a stepmother, exploring how to navigate this emotionally charged day in blended families. As Lauren experiences her first Mother's Day as a biological mother, the duo discusses the importance of acknowledging both Mother's Day and Stepmother's Day, especially when traditional celebrations may not include stepchildren. They address listener questions that reveal the deep-seated challenges stepmoms face, from lack of recognition to the tricky dynamics with biological mothers and other family members. This episode offers guidance on communicating your needs, setting boundaries, and finding support to ensure that every mum feels valued and acknowledged. Tune in for heartfelt advice, community stories, and practical tips on making the most of Mother's Day, whatever your family situation. Join us to affirm that however you celebrate, your role and feelings are valid, and you're not alone on this roller coaster.

In this episode, Toni and Lauren continue to explore the foundational role of communication in blended family dynamics, this time focusing on communication with your spouse and stepkids. Whether you're bridging gaps with your spouse or fostering a nurturing relationship with your stepchildren, discover practical tips for maintaining open and honest dialogues. The hosts share insights from their own experiences and listener stories about dealing with defensiveness, expressing needs, and creating a safe space for all family members. Tune in to learn how to enhance your family's communication and ensure everyone feels heard and valued. Join us for heartfelt advice that’s sure to resonate with both new and seasoned step-parents alike. Don't miss our special segment on navigating communication challenges, including when children feel strong loyalty ties to their other biological parent.

In this episode of Raising His Kids, join Lauren and Toni as they delve into the complex world of communication between stepmothers and biological mothers. Drawing from real listener experiences, we explore the challenges and triumphs of interacting with a "Karen." Whether you're facing silence, conflict, or awkward exchanges, this episode offers insights into maintaining boundaries and promoting the well-being of the children involved. Plus, we share essential tips on how to keep communications respectful and focused, whether you're directly involved or supporting your partner. Don’t miss this blend of personal stories and advice aimed at helping you navigate these tricky waters with grace and resilience.

In this special behind-the-scenes episode of "Raising His Kids," join host Toni as she takes you on a journey through some of the hilarious, touching, and downright unforgettable moments that didn't quite make it into our regular episodes. With a blend of laughter, mishaps, and candid conversations, get ready to experience the raw and unfiltered side of our podcast.

From episode 26, hear the voices of Lauren, Madison, and Toni as they share their insights and experiences of having guests not quite show up on time to the behind the scene conversations they have had with disgruntled listeners all because we do not support the trend of online bio mum bashing. Then, tune in to episode 38 to catch Toni and Joslynn's dynamic pre-recording exchange as they catch up on life prior to recording the episode on parenting neurodivergent children.

But the fun doesn't stop there! Episode 40 & 41 brings you into the chaos as Toni and Lauren, accompanied by adorable interruptions from Miss A & Miss K, or listen closely for the moment where Toni just stumbles over her words. Plus, don't miss Toni's candid opinion on the Barbie movie & how her opinions got her into hot water in an online facebook mums group.

So whether you're a longtime listener or discovering "Raising His Kids" for the first time, this behind-the-scenes episode promises to entertain, enlighten, and remind you that the rollercoaster of blended family life is filled with both challenges and laughter. Grab your favorite coffee or your wine, settle in, and enjoy this special compilation episode!

In this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the post-Easter chaos, sharing their own holiday experiences and engaging with listeners' anecdotes. From missed transitions and family tensions to heartwarming moments and unexpected surprises, the Easter stories shared by their audience highlight the diverse realities of navigating blended family dynamics.

Additionally, the episode features a jaw-dropping submission to Stepmom's Anonymous, where a listener unveils shocking revelations about her partner's ex’s new boyfriend (aka the stepdad's) troubled past. Grab your coffee or your wine, and join Toni and Lauren as they react, discuss, and provide insights into the complexities of stepfamily life, all while offering support and solidarity to their listeners. Tune in for an episode filled with honesty, laughter, and eye-opening moments.

Happy Easter, everyone! We hope you had a great weekend celebrating with friends and family.

In this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the highs and lows of blended family Easter celebrations. From hilarious mishaps to heartwarming victories, they share personal and listener stories that reflect the joys and challenges of navigating holidays in blended families. Tune in to hear tales of Easter disasters, including accusations during egg dyeing sessions and tense exchanges over shoes, along with uplifting wins like setting boundaries with ex-partners and creating new traditions with extended family.

Join Toni and Lauren as they reflect on the love and laughter that make blended family life truly special, and discover how their own Easter weekends unfolded. Happy Easter, everyone!

In this special Easter bonus episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni and Lauren reunite after a much-needed mental health break following Toni's surgery. Join us as we catch up on the past three weeks and share our plans for Easter!

We're diving into our blended family Easter plans and traditions, as well as those from all of our listeners. From Easter egg hunts to special dinners, we're sharing how we make the holiday meaningful for our families. Thank you to everyone who contributed!

Whether you're celebrating with a big family gathering or enjoying a quiet weekend at home, we hope this episode brings you joy and inspiration for your Easter celebrations.

Grab your coffee or wine and join us for this special pre-Easter bonus episode of "Raising His Kids"!

Happy Easter from Toni and Lauren!

While Toni is absent recovering from surgery, join host Lauren for a captivating episode of Raising His Kids as she dives into the nuanced world of childfree/childless stepparenting. Drawing from her own experiences as a childless stepmom for six years prior to having an 'ours' baby last year, she delves into the challenges and triumphs of navigating this unique path. Accompanying her is our friend and the esteemed author of 'What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting', returning guest Jyl Barlow, who adds valuable insights to the conversation.

In this episode, Lauren and Jyl revisit the topic of childfree stepparenting, providing a supportive space for listeners who resonate with this journey. They address listener questions, offering empathetic advice on managing past relationships, setting boundaries with stepchildren, and blending families during significant events like weddings. Amidst the serious discussions, join Lauren and Jyl for lots of laughs as they infuse humor into the conversation.

Furthermore, the episode features an anonymous story shared by a stepmom grappling with the discomfort of her stepchildren's bio mom's use of location tracking technology. Together, Lauren and Jyl analyze the situation and provide guidance on navigating boundaries and communication in blended family dynamics.

Tune in as Lauren and Jyl provide a wealth of wisdom and support for those traversing the intricate landscape of childfree stepparenting, offering practical strategies and heartfelt encouragement along the way.

In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore the often complicated topic of blended family weddings. From figuring out how much to involve the kids to navigating relationships with biological parents, they share their own wedding experiences and offer practical advice for making your big day go smoothly.

They also answer listener questions on dealing with tricky wedding scenarios unique to blended families. Whether you're planning a large wedding or thinking about eloping, this episode offers insights into how to make your wedding day a celebration that reflects your unique family.

If you're in the middle of wedding planning in a blended family, this episode will give you the guidance you need to move forward with confidence.

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Welcome to a special unscripted and unfiltered Whinge & Bitch episode of "Raising His Kids," where Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the whirlwind of listener vents, whinges, and bitches. With no script or show notes, they take a spontaneous approach, reading out the unfiltered frustrations and challenges shared by their audience.

From typical struggles of a stepmother to co-parenting catastrophes, no topic is off-limits as Toni and Lauren provide a safe space for listeners to air their grievances and share their experiences. With humor, empathy, and a healthy dose of sarcasm, they navigate through the chaos of blended family life while offering support and understanding to their community.

So sit back, relax, and join Toni and Lauren for an unfiltered journey through the highs and lows of raising his kids. Whether you're nodding along in solidarity or shaking your head in disbelief, this episode is sure to leave you feeling understood and validated in the rollercoaster ride of blended family dynamics.

In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni delve into the intricate world of control within the realm of stepmotherhood. Join them as they navigate the complexities of finding balance and influence in blended family dynamics.

From the desire for authority to the struggle of relinquishing control, Lauren and Toni candidly share their experiences and insights, offering practical tips and strategies for navigating the challenges that arise when control feels elusive.

Listeners will gain valuable advice on communication, self-care, setting realistic expectations, and practicing patience and flexibility. The hosts also address common listener questions, providing empathetic guidance on dealing with high-conflict situations, managing emotions, transitioning between hands-on and nacho parenting styles, and coping with feelings of jealousy.

Tune in to discover how to make peace with the moments when control slips away and embrace a more mindful and empowered approach to stepmotherhood.

In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of blended family dynamics, with a focus on the intricate topic of house rules. They explore the implications of setting boundaries around body piercings and social media within blended family environments, acknowledging the unique challenges that arise in these situations.

Drawing from insights shared by renowned parenting experts like Australia's Justin Coulson, the hosts discuss the traditional perspectives on these issues, emphasising safety, self-esteem, and mental well-being as primary concerns. However, they go on to highlight the discrepancy between the advice tailored to nuclear families and the realities faced by blended families. Unlike the more straightforward dynamics of nuclear households, blended families often grapple with additional layers of complexity, such as navigating co-parenting dynamics, managing conflicting parenting styles, and mitigating the impact of parental disagreements on children.

Toni and Lauren share personal anecdotes and reflections, including their own experiences with disagreements over devices & social media usage, illustrating the challenges of maintaining consistency across households. They emphasise the importance of open communication, flexibility, and compromise in navigating these sensitive issues, offering practical co-parenting strategies to foster harmony and understanding.

Additionally, the hosts share responses from their listeners and blended family community, providing a glimpse into the diverse array of difficulties faced by families in similar situations. By offering advice and empathy, Toni and Lauren aim to create a supportive space for listeners to feel understood and empowered in their own blended family journey.

Tune in to gain valuable perspectives and practical tips for navigating house rules in blended families, and discover how prioritising the well-being of children can strengthen family bonds amidst challenging circumstances.

In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni tackle the often-overlooked topic of stepmom guilt. They delve into the complexities of this emotion, discussing common triggers such as feeling like an outsider in family events and societal stereotypes. The hosts explore the impact of stepmom guilt on relationships within the blended family and provide practical coping strategies, emphasizing self-compassion and setting realistic expectations. Drawing from listener responses & personal experience, they shed light on real-life experiences, including struggles with balancing personal and family obligations, feelings of resentment and burnout, and the challenges of building bonds with stepchildren. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder to stepmoms everywhere that they are not alone in their feelings of guilt and that seeking support and practicing self-care are essential in navigating this aspect of blended family life.

Love is in the air on this special Valentine's Day episode of Raising His Kids! Join Toni & Lauren as they celebrate love and relationships in blended families.

From the rollercoaster of complexities and joys to heartwarming anecdotes and practical tips for celebrating Valentine's Day as a stepmother or in a blended family setting, this episode is brimming with love, laughter, and plenty of heartwarming moments & traditions.

Plus, don't miss our Step-Mothers Anonymous segment, where a stepmother seeks advice on maintaining her poker face when her stepson mentions his mother.

So grab your coffee and wine, and tune in to this delightful Valentine's Day special of Raising His Kids. Let's celebrate the beauty of blended love and the magic of hallmark holidays together!

In this special episode of "Raising His Kids," join Toni for a rollercoaster behind the scenes as she compiles previously unpublished audio from Episodes 27, 28, 29, 30, and 36. Delve into unfiltered conversations, candid moments, and unexpected gems that didn't make it into the final cuts.

From heartfelt laughter to thought-provoking reflections, this compilation offers a raw and authentic look at all that goes into "Raising His Kids." Hear the unscripted banter, the shared experiences, and the genuine connections that define the essence of this podcast.

Don't miss this exclusive peek behind the curtain, where every unspoken word and every unrecorded laugh finds its place in the narrative of blended family life. You'll hear the voices of Toni herself, as well as Lauren, Kassandra, Bekks, and the unforgettable Madison.

So grab your coffee or your wine and tune in for a rollercoaster of emotions, a celebration of resilience, as we leave you with the reminder that even the moments left on the cutting room floor hold their own magic.

In this unscripted episode of "Raising His Kids," your host Toni takes the lead solo as Lauren recovers. Join Toni for a heartfelt conversation with Kassandra Martinez from We Are Familyish as they explore the intricate journey from being a stepmother to becoming the biological mother on the other side of a blended family.

The discussion delves into the challenges of navigating an ours baby pregnancy, overcoming the complexities of miscarriages, and the profound realisation of being in an abusive relationship – and ultimately finding the strength to break free.

This candid episode covers a spectrum of topics, including Kassandra's impactful book for stepfamilies, "Before You," and offers a sneak peek into her upcoming projects. Tune in for a genuine exploration of blended family dynamics, personal journeys, and the resilient path from one Bio Mum to another Bio Mom.

Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions and celebrations in this episode of "Raising His Kids." Join hosts Lauren and Toni as they dive into the controversy of the upcoming Australian national holiday Australia Day, the excitement surrounding Miss K's fourth birthday, and the mayhem that comes with the back-to-school season.

Toni shares her perspective on Australia Day, reflecting on the evolving nature of this national celebration. Meanwhile, excitement fills the air as the hosts delve into the birthday plans for Miss K, exploring the joy of having a national holiday coincide with a special family milestone.

As the conversation seamlessly transitions to the back-to-school season, Lauren opens up about her thoughts and preparations for sending the kids back to school. The hosts discuss the blend of emotions during this busy time, asking listeners if they're feeling prepared and organized or embracing the chaos with a "let's see how it goes" attitude.

In the midst of the chaos, Lauren and Toni emphasize the importance of traditions and rituals in blended families during significant moments like the back-to-school season. They share their own family rituals and invite listeners to join the conversation by revealing their unique traditions.

But that's not all! The episode also features listener responses received prior to recording, adding a community touch to the podcast. Tune in for a blend of celebrations, preparations, and chaotic yet heartwarming moments in this episode of "Raising His Kids."

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In this compelling episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren explore the theme of 'The Past Infecting the Present.' As stepmothers, they understand the challenges rooted in past experiences that can influence present relationships. Past relationships can impact us in the present more than we know it or even going as far back as childhood experiences can ooze trauma infecting our present day. The hosts also feature listener stories and questions, creating a space for the community to share and connect. Tune in for practical tips on consciously shaping present relationships without letting the past dictate every move. Join the conversation and discover valuable insights to navigate the complexities of blended family life.

Your favourite Stepmother podcast hosts are back with their first official recorded episode of the year. Technically it's the second episode of the year, but it is titled 'You Good Sis?' The hosts are catching up for the first time since before Christmas & they are diving into the aftermath of the holiday season, sharing not only their own experiences but also checking in with their listeners.

Pour yourself a cup of coffee or wine as Lauren and Toni reflect on their post-holiday feelings, recount their Christmas celebrations, spill the beans on their NYE celebrations, and share their experiences from New Year's Day & the week that followed.

In a special segment, they share a captivating story from a stepmom who wrote it after navigating a tricky Christmas situation, courtesy of unclear language in her husband's agreement with the BM. The narrative unfolds with a hint of pettiness, Christmas Eve gifts, and unexpected reactions from the other party.

As always, the hosts bring you the scoop on listener responses, ranging from the hilarious to the dramatic, detailing how their Christmases unfolded. So, the burning question remains: Are you good, sis? Tune in to discover the post-holiday vibes on this episode of Raising His Kids!

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the unique challenges and joys of being an every other weekend stepmother. They share personal experiences, offer tips on maximizing the limited time with the kids, and discuss how to navigate the complexities of this role. Whether you’re an every other weekend stepmother or looking to better understand these dynamics, this episode has something for everyone.

Plus, they answer listener questions, such as whether every other weekend is considered visitation or custody and how to handle having no say in decisions.

Join Toni and Lauren as they uncover the realities of every other weekend stepparenting. And don’t miss out on exciting updates happening on their Patreon starting September 1st!

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Kick off the New Year with Toni and Lauren in the first episode of 2024 as they embrace the spirit of the new year. The hosts kick off the episode by sharing their personal affirmations and resolutions, setting a positive tone for the discussions ahead. Listeners open up about their experiences, offering heartfelt affirmations and resolutions related to the challenges and joys of blended family life. Get ready for a dose of inspiration, support, and a renewed sense of community in the world of "Raising His Kids."

Merry Christmas, Stepmamas! 🎄 Join Lauren & Toni for this Christmas Day special, as we unwrap stories from our incredible stepmother community. From the joy of starting new traditions to the challenges of navigating custody during the festive season, our listeners share their successes and, yes, a few disasters too!

In this episode, we celebrate the resilience of blended families, highlighting the triumphs and lessons learned along the way. Discover how one family is finding balance this Christmas Day during their first Christmas with a newborn ‘ours baby’, or the journey of transforming strained relationships with in-laws into cooperative partnerships. And, of course, we dive into the real talk – standing up for your role as a parent and facing the complexities of high-conflict situations.

As we share these stories, we want you to feel the warmth and support in our stepmother community. From our hearts to yours, may this Christmas Day be filled with love, understanding, and beautiful moments. Keep raising his amazing kids, and we'll be back in the new year with more insights and shared experiences.

Wishing you a Very Merry Blended Christmas and a joyous holiday season from two stepmothers who are Raising his kids.

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Join hosts Lauren and Toni on a festive journey in this special episode of "Raising His Kids." Dive into the world of blended family celebrations during the magical holiday season with a sleigh-full of stories, tips, and festive laughs.

In this episode, Lauren and Toni tackle the challenges many stepfamilies face during the holidays, offering valuable insights on managing traditions, coordinating with co-parents, and ensuring the warmth of the season reaches every member of your blended family. From Elf on the Shelf antics to Christmas Eve and December 1st boxes, discover creative traditions that add magic to your celebrations.

Answering listener questions, addressing topics such as navigating gift-giving challenges, handling difficult in-laws, and managing high-conflict situations with bio-moms. Alongside these questions, Lauren and Toni share additional holiday tips, emphasizing flexibility, keeping the focus on the kids, and setting healthy boundaries.

The latter part of the episode explores coping mechanisms for overwhelmed stepmothers, including stepping away when needed, seeking support in stepmother communities, and avoiding unnecessary comparisons.

Happy holidays, everyone!

In this episode of "Raising His Kids"! Toni is joined by the incredible Jyl Barlow, an American writer and humorist, listen in for a fascinating conversation. Jyl is the author of the #1 New Release, "What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting," a hilarious memoir that debuted in early 2023.

Jyl Barlow's humor, is often lost on Americans but most of all on her mother-in-law, which shines through as she chronicles her journey as a stepparent. Navigating life as a (second) wife and (step)mom, Jyl shares insights with inappropriate laughter and near-perfect hindsight. Her debut book provides a humorous and relatable look into the challenges, unexpected moments, and triumphs of (step)motherhood & blended family life.

In this episode, Toni and Jyl discuss her book, exploring the unique challenges faced by stepmoms and the complexities of blended family dynamics. Jyl reflects on her belief that the transition into stepmotherhood would be simple, given her positive experiences with kids in general. However, she candidly shares that the realisation of the wounds carried by children of divorce, the complexities of being unwelcome in the extended-original family, and the challenges of building trust took years to unfold.

Join us for a laughter-filled and insightful conversation as we dive into Jyl's journey and the humorous lens through which she views the rollercoaster of blended family life. Find Jyl's on Instagram @jylbarlow and her book, "What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting," on Amazon.

Join Toni and Lauren in this special anniversary episode of "Raising His Kids" as they reflect on a year of laughter, tears, and shared experiences in the world of blended families. It's a celebration, and they're pulling back the curtain to answer your burning questions in a candid "Ask Us Anything" segment.

From navigating tricky co-parenting situations to personal insights about life outside of stepmotherhood, Toni and Lauren share their stories and wisdom with humor and authenticity. Get to know the hosts on a deeper level as they answer questions straight from you their listeners.

Pour yourself a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, and join the celebration with Toni and Lauren. Whether you're a stepmom, a parent, or someone navigating the complexities of family life, this episode is filled with relatable moments, laughter, and a few surprises.

Thank you for a fantastic year of support! Don't forget to leave a written review wherever you love to listen, and connect with us on your favorite social media platforms. Here's to another year of "Raising His Kids" together!

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Raising His Kids" with your compassionate hosts, Toni and Lauren! In this episode, we delve into a crucial topic that resonates with many stepmoms – the challenge of keeping your identity and not losing yourself in the intricate role of stepmotherhood.

Toni and Lauren courageously share their personal struggles, emphasizing the importance of preserving a sense of self amidst the complexities of court dates, custody schedules, and the unique hurdles of blended families. Join us as we explore the reasons why stepmoms may feel like they are losing a part of themselves, touching on topics such as shifting priorities and navigating imbalanced sacrifices.

But it's not just about sharing our experiences; we've also gathered thought-provoking listener questions that echo the challenges faced by many stepmoms. From the art of letting go of others' expectations to coping with comments that trigger the "second wife syndrome," we empathetically address your concerns and provide valuable insights.

As an extra treat, we showcase responses from our community, offering a glimpse into what fellow stepmoms do for themselves outside of their roles at home. It's a wake-up call for some and a wellspring of inspiration for others.

Remember, you're not alone in this roller coaster ride. Nurturing your identity is not just important; it's vital for your well-being.

Connect with us on Instagram @raisinghiskids and share your thoughts on maintaining your identity as a stepmom. So, whether you're sipping coffee or unwinding with a glass of wine, take a deep breath and acknowledge this: you're doing an amazing job navigating the complexities of stepfamily life. Stay strong, Stepmoms!

Join your hosts, Lauren and Toni, on the latest episode of "Raising His Kids," as they dive into the holiday spirit with a special Thanksgiving edition! With the festive season around the corner, the duo explores the challenges and joys of planning holidays in blended families.

While Thanksgiving might not be a tradition in Australia, Lauren and Toni offer valuable insights that resonate with listeners worldwide. Get ready for a delightful mix of advice, entertaining stories, and heartfelt discussions on navigating family dynamics during this special time of the year.

Grab your coffee or wine and settle in as Lauren and Toni tackle listener questions on Thanksgiving dilemmas. From handling family dynamics to surviving a six-hour drive for dinner, the hosts share relatable stories and offer practical advice. Tune in for a dose of humor as they read AITA Stepfamily Reddit stories that add a twist to the holiday madness.

Wishing you all a fantastic holiday filled with joy, turkey, and an extra slice of pie!

Stepmothers, get ready for diving into the world of documenting in this episode of "Raising his kids." Hosts Toni and Lauren share their expertise on what to document and when, covering critical aspects like preparing for court, keeping track of payments, and maintaining a record of agreements. As seasoned stepmoms, they understand the challenges and nuances of documenting, making this episode a valuable resource for listeners.

The hosts also announce the exciting launch of their Patreon membership, offering exclusive podcast episodes, voting capabilities, discounted coaching, and a unique stepmom group chat. Plus, there's a free Facebook group for engaging discussions on various stepmom topics.

Listener messages warm their hearts as they share an appreciative note from a fellow stepmom. It's a reminder that their podcast provides a sense of community and support to stepmothers navigating the intricate journey of blended families.

Join Toni and Lauren as they discuss essential aspects of documenting, including what to document and why. They offer their personal experiences and insights, giving listeners practical advice and solutions. In addition, the episode addresses listener questions, providing guidance on how to document when evidence is scarce, where to store records, and how to maintain your sanity while keeping thorough documentation.

Grab your coffee of wine & tune in to this episode of "Raising his kids" for a wealth of information and support, helping stepmoms on their unique journey through blended family life.

In this heartwarming episode of *Raising His Kids* podcast, co-hosts Lauren and Toni are joined by the fantastic Scarlett from "Enjoying Your Blended Family." Scarlett, a seasoned blended family Mama, shares her incredible journey of blending for 15 years. As a bio mom of 2, stepmom to 1, and a foster mom, Scarlett offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of modern family life.

Together, they explore the challenges of being both a biological mom and a stepmom, sharing insights on finding balance in these roles. Scarlett's own experience of facing the strains of having her three kids leave during their teenage years and the subsequent years of no contact with them forms a central part of the conversation. Learn how she and her husband creatively reconnected with their children, building strong and healthy relationships.

In the latter part of the episode, we dive into listener questions, covering topics like managing difficult conversations, addressing guilt, and maintaining open and honest communication with kids and a spouse in a blended family.

Scarlett's journey is truly inspiring, and her insights are invaluable for anyone navigating the unique challenges and rewards of blended family life. Don't miss this episode, and be sure to follow Scarlett on Instagram at @EnjoyingYourBlendedFamily for more wisdom and support.

Grab your coffee or wine & join us for an engaging and enriching conversation on blending families, building stronger relationships, and finding joy in the process.

In this enchanting Halloween special of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni invite you to join them on a journey through the world of stepmotherhood. But beware, this episode is not for the faint of heart, as they explore the age-old myth of the "wicked stepmother."

Are stepmothers truly wicked, or is it all a myth?

Dive into the captivating stories from our listeners, who've been labeled as "wicked" or "evil," and discover the truth behind these stereotypes.

Lauren and Toni add a touch of magic to the conversation, discussing their own experiences, all wrapped up in the Halloween spirit.

Whether you're a stepmother or simply curious about the dynamics of blended families, this episode will cast a spell on you.

The hosts also touch on how blended families navigate sharing this age-old American holiday and share their own opinions on whether it is a custody-order-worthy holiday.

Grab your coffee or wine, and dive straight in. Happy Halloween, you wicked stepmothers!

In this special bonus episode of Raising His Kids, we honour Australian Father’s Day, coming up on the 1st of September. Toni sits down with Mark, a dedicated bio dad who has full custody of his son. Mark shares his powerful journey of stepping into full-time parenting, overcoming challenges, and the deep love that drives him every day.

Before diving into Mark’s story, Toni discusses an important issue—men’s mental health, particularly around Father’s Day. With suicide rates among Australian men significantly higher than women, this episode sheds light on the pressures and struggles that many fathers face, especially during this time of year.

Mark also answers listener questions, offering insights on his experience in the court process, managing relationships, and how he navigates the complexities of full-time fatherhood. Whether you’re a dad, stepmum, or someone navigating blended family life, this episode offers support, encouragement, and a reminder that you’re not alone.

Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation as we celebrate the resilience and dedication of fathers everywhere.

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In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the intriguing world of social media stalking in co-parenting. Discover the motivations behind stepmothers and bio mothers checking each other's social media profiles, even when they're blocked. Join the conversation as we explore the impact on co-parenting relationships, children, and mental well-being. 

We share personal experiences, listener stories, and poll results, shedding light on a topic that hits close to home for many in blended families. Plus, we discuss the possible reasons behind this behavior, from curiosity to insecurity.

Join us as we unravel the mysteries of online stalking in blended families and provide valuable insights on how to navigate this delicate situation.

So make sure you grab your coffee or wine before you dive straight into this episode. Don't forget to connect with us on social media, join our Facebook group, and leave us a 5 star review if you enjoy the episode. Tune in and remember, you're not on this rollercoaster alone & you've got this!

In this installment, your hosts Lauren and Toni delve into a pivotal topic that's often overlooked but essential for blended families: "House Rules."

Navigating co-parenting can be complex, especially when different households have varying rules and expectations. Join us as we explore the challenges and solutions related to establishing and maintaining house rules in a blended family.

Lauren and Toni share personal experiences and practical advice on:

• Setting crystal-clear house rules, from chores to screen time and everything in between.
• Managing the difficulties that arise when different homes have different rules.
• Maintaining consistency in your own home, even when rules differ in the other household.
• Addressing questions and concerns about these differences with your children.
• Handling common issues such as "at my mom's house..." comments and more.

Plus, they answer listener questions and provide valuable advice to help you navigate the unique dynamics of blended family life.

Remember, patience and open communication are key to successfully managing house rules in a blended family. Whether you can collaborate with the other parent on rules or need to establish your own, there are strategies to ensure a harmonious and loving environment for your children.

So grab your coffee or wine and tune in to *Raising His Kids* for insights and inspiration on making your blended family journey smoother and more enjoyable.

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Cohost Lauren sat down with Alicia Krasko for a chat that'll hit home for many of us in blended families. They went deep into the world of self-reflection and owning up to our part in making our blended families work.

Both Alicia and Lauren found themselves in marriages where divorce wasn't even on the table... but they were struggling, so didn't know where to turn.

Instead, they discuss how they took a leap into the world of marriage counseling, hoping it would be the magic fix. But instead found out they were part of the problem.

This triggered a rollercoaster of self-discovery and personal growth that they share details about in the episode.

Alicia and Lauren offer tips and advice on how you can take those initial steps toward positive change in your marriage and blended family. We're all about giving you the tools to build stronger, happier family dynamics.

If you're looking for a relatable episode packed with information on how to take control of yourself and create a more peaceful blend, listen on in and enjoy!

In this episode of "Raising His Kids” hosts Toni and Lauren embark on a delightful journey through the heavy and sometimes humorous side of stepfamily life as they tackle the often underestimated mental load.

Join us as we dive deep into the world of carrying the mental load in stepfamilies. We'll explore the emotional rollercoaster, share relatable anecdotes, and reveal practical strategies for maintaining sanity and a sense of humor along the way.

In this episode, we:

• Define the mental load in the context of stepfamilies, from emotional rollercoasters to organizational juggling.
• Explore the unexpected emotional toll it can take, including anxiety and guilt.
• Discuss its impact on relationships with partners and stepchildren, with real-life stories that'll make you nod in recognition.
• Share practical strategies for managing the mental load effectively, including communication tips and self-care practices.
• Emphasize the importance of support networks and seeking help when needed.

Toni and Lauren's witty banter and heartfelt insights will leave you both informed and entertained. Whether you're a seasoned stepmum or just stepping into this exciting world, this episode promises valuable takeaways and a few laughs to brighten your day.

So, grab your headphones, a glass of wine or coffee & get comfy, join our community of stepmums on this joyful and enlightening ride.