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Maria Franzoni is a former speaker bureau owner and author of The Bookability Formula. She shares a blunt, practical view of what makes a speaker bookable in the UK and European markets, and why “being good” is not the same as “getting hired”. This show is unmissable if you're serious about speaking.

1. Why “follow your passion” is often terrible business advice
2. The UK/Europe market reality vs the US speaking market
3. Why relevance to a paying market comes before polishing a keynote
4. What really builds credibility (and what screams “fake”)
5. The networking mistake almost everyone makes
6. Why speakers overrun and how it hurts the event (and other speakers)
7. The real reason top-paid speakers get booked
8. What makes organisers and bureaus reject someone instantly
9. Demo videos: why bad video is worse than no video
10. Whether your full keynote should be public or private
11. Plagiarism in the speaking industry and why it happens
12. Podcast guesting as visibility and as training for concise communication

1. Relevance is the filter. If the market doesn’t care, your passion won’t save you.
2. Proof beats claims. Testimonials, outcomes and case studies do the heavy lifting.
3. Bookability is business. Relationships, follow-up and sales habits matter more than most speakers want to admit.
4. Assets signal quality. A weak demo video can quietly kill deals before you’re even considered.
5. Great speakers are often not the highest paid. The most bookable speakers usually run the best business.

Maria Franzoni

1. LinkedIn: Maria Franzoni
2. Website: mariafranzoni.me
3. Book: The Bookability Formula (Great read)

1. Speaker bureau newsletters and topic forecasts (example: Chartwell)
2. The Dip (Seth Godin), referenced by John in the wider show context
3. Judy Carter (comedy writing advice mentioned), The New Comedy Bible, and see previous guest appearance.

00:00 The bookability...

Why do so many capable speakers never gain momentum or consistent bookings?

In this short solo episode, John Ball breaks down the single biggest block that stops speakers from becoming successful professionals. It is not talent, confidence, or credibility. It is the habit of overthinking and under-acting.

Drawing on years of coaching speakers and working inside the speaking industry, John explains how planning becomes a comfort zone, why “being ready” is often procrastination in disguise, and how real progress only starts when action meets reality. If you want to treat speaking like a business rather than a hobby, this episode will give you a sharp reset.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

02:09 The Main Obstacle for Speakers

03:05 The Importance of Taking Action

06:30 Navigating Challenges and Imperfections

11:30 Building a Speaking Business

17:54 Conclusion and Call to Action

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For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

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A hot market does not guarantee hot bookings. In this coaching session, John works with tech and emerging-tech speaker Cortney Harding to diagnose the real reasons her calendar is not matching her credibility. They unpack why prestige signals and “busy content” do not automatically create demand, how to position around an expensive problem, and why simplifying outreach beats “post and pray” when you want reliable bookings.

You will also hear a strong warning for speakers who chase whatever topic is trending. It looks strategic until you realise you are rebuilding your positioning every six months and still not becoming the obvious choice.

1. Why high-demand topics can still leave you with a cold inbox
2. The difference between credibility signals and buyer demand
3. How to turn a framework into a clear “we need this” message
4. Why your prospecting should start with a simple response-getting question
5. What to prioritise if you feel permanently stuck in launch mode
6. Why social media is often a nice-to-have, not the main lever for bookings
7. How to reframe sales as relationships so it stops feeling grim

Professional speakers who want more paid bookings, clearer positioning, and a simpler plan that does not rely on going viral.

00:00 Hot market, cold inbox

00:52 Why chasing hot topics is a terrible long-term strategy

01:35 What this coaching session will help you fix

01:57 Cortney’s goal: speaking as real revenue, not “biz dev”

03:05 Fee goals and gig targets

04:05 The “last mile” problem: credibility without a flywheel

05:00 The crowded hot-topic trap and the pivot to differentiation

07:00 The key diagnostic: what expensive problem do you solve?

07:30 Tech last, problem first: Cortney’s framework

09:05 Why this matters: wasted spend, weak ROI, failed projects

10:05 Sharpening the one-sentence positioning

12:55 Why the “how” matters less than the “what” at first

13:20 Content output vs conversion, and the danger of mimicry

14:10 Permanently in launch mode and “throwing Italy at the wall”

16:00 What is actually driving bookings right now?

16:25 Strategic pitching and why it is not converting

17:05 Simplifying outreach to one question that gets responses

18:00 Why conferences rarely pay non-celebrity speakers

19:05 The CRM follow-up game: not one-and-done

21:55 The numbers game and finding a different hunting niche

23:35 Calling people who respond: become a voice, not an email

24:55 Targeting the right company bracket and event reality

26:20 Book orders as a fee lever

27:15 The Power Hour strategy: prospecting over busywork

28:05 Do prestige names matter? Less than you think

29:05 Big idea vs problem solving and what buyers actually purchase

30:20 The Brene Brown example and becoming known for one thing

32:40 Networking and feedback loops to improve the “buzz”

37:05 Social media as a slower, less reliable path to bookings

38:05 The relief of simplification: one hour a day

39:10 Hope is not a business strategy

40:05 Sales is relationships

41:05 Spotify rating, free coaching application, and the audit quiz

42:00 Closing line

Mastering Virtual Presentations: Tips and Techniques

SUMMARY:

Virtual presentations are not going away. Job interviews, client meetings, and hybrid work all mean your first impression is increasingly happening through a webcam. In this episode, Jelmer Smits argues most organisations are still presenting like it’s 2020, stuck in survival mode with poor setups, flat delivery, and zero audience care. The result is not professionalism. It is the awkward middle ground where competence and warmth both collapse.

We unpack a simple charisma lens, competence plus warmth, and why virtual delivery often drains both. Jelmer explains why “Zoom fatigue” is frequently a boredom problem, not a platform problem, and how speakers can create energy and engagement without becoming an over-caffeinated game show host. The key is variation and audience comfort: helping people feel safe, heard, and understood, especially when they are joining from home and juggling distractions.

You will hear practical fixes that go beyond “be more engaging.” Jelmer shares how micro breaks reset attention, why you should ask more questions (including chat prompts, polls, and rhetorical questions), and how to baseline participation early so the session becomes interactive by default. We also talk about slide mistakes, including the difference between presentation slides and handout slides, and why “less slides, more face” usually wins online.

We get into the details most speakers ignore, camera angle, lighting, sound, and background choices, including why messy real backgrounds and glitchy fake ones both damage trust. Jelmer also makes the case for practising with feedback rather than alone, plus the underrated skill that saves you when tech fails: improv. Not “be funny” improv, but the ability to shift attention, buy time, and keep the session moving when something breaks.

Finally, Jelmer shares what he is building next, including a potential world championship for online presenting and a practice-based learning platform designed to give speakers real rehearsal time, not passive “course consumption.”

Links mentioned: Jelmer’s work at completepresenter.com, his LinkedIn and his offer of a virtual presenting cheat sheet for listeners and workbook. If you can't open the links, just message me (details below)

CHAPTERS:

00:00 The Evolution of Virtual Presentations

01:15 Engagement Strategies for Online Meetings

03:39 The Importance of First Impressions

06:31 Creating a Fun and Engaging Environment

09:08 Recognising Audience Comfort and Engagement

11:44 Practical Tips for Effective Online Presentations

14:46 The Role of Interaction in Presentations

17:22 Avoiding Common Presentation Pitfalls

20:18 The Impact of Visuals and Backgrounds

23:58 The Impact of Virtual Backgrounds

26:53 Engaging Your Audience in Webinars

29:17 The Importance of Energy in Presentations

34:37 The Role of Practice and Improvisation

42:03 Innovations in Online Public Speaking

48:16 Closing thoughts

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Most leaders avoid conflict. Not because they are weak, but because they want to be liked, respected and seen as reasonable.

In this episode of The Professional Speaking Show, John Ball and leadership expert Julie Holunga unpack how conflict aversion quietly erodes authority, credibility and influence — especially for leaders and professional speakers who rely on trust and presence to lead.

Julie introduces the idea of “lazy leadership” and explains why avoiding hard conversations feels easier in the moment, but costs leaders status, clarity and effectiveness over time. The conversation explores how language, tone and timing shape authority, and how leaders can address tension without becoming aggressive, performative or fake.

This episode is for leaders and professional speakers who want to lead with clarity, credibility and confidence — not just keep the peace.

Find out more about Julie's work at JulieHolunga.com or connect with her on LinkedIn

CHAPTERS

00:00 Lazy Leadership: A New Perspective

02:24 Empowering Women in Conflict Resolution

05:28 The Importance of Language and Tone

08:02 Navigating Male-Dominated Environments

10:48 Constructive Conflict: A Path Forward

13:43 The Spectrum of Conflict Engagement

16:19 Authenticity in Communication

19:07 The Three C's of Conflict Competence

21:54 Building Trust Through Effective Communication

24:48 Practical Applications in Everyday Life

42:11 Closing Thoughts

Key Takeaways

Credibility in leadership is crucial for effective communication.

Lazy leadership occurs when leaders avoid difficult conversations.

Effort and preparation are necessary for addressing conflict.

Language and tone significantly impact conflict resolution.

Women often face challenges in asserting themselves in male-dominated environments.

Constructive conflict can lead to better outcomes and relationships.

Clarity, choice, and communication are key components of conflict competence.

The Titanium Rule emphasises speaking to others as they need to be spoken to.

Authenticity in communication fosters trust and collaboration.

Being deliberate in our interactions can lead to more positive outcomes.

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

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Stand Out on LinkedIn: Strategies for Speakers and Coaches

SUMMARY

In this episode of the Professional Speaking Show, host John Ball engages with LinkedIn expert Michelle J Raymond to discuss the evolving landscape of LinkedIn and how speakers and coaches can navigate its complexities. They explore the challenges posed by AI-generated content, engagement pods, and the pressure to conform to viral trends, emphasising the importance of authenticity and genuine engagement. Michelle shares her insights on how to stand out in a crowded space by building real relationships and creating meaningful content that resonates with audiences. The conversation also touches on the necessity of maintaining an updated LinkedIn profile and the strategic use of various content formats to enhance visibility and engagement.

Connect with Michelle and sign up for her LinkedIn Newsletter here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellejraymond/ and check out Michelle's podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/social-media-for-b2b-growth-linkedin-strategy-for-b2b/id1603908569

TAKEAWAYS

LinkedIn is becoming noisier and harder to trust, but authenticity can help you stand out.

Building real relationships is more valuable than chasing viral trends.

Your LinkedIn profile should be treated like your homepage; keep it updated and engaging.

Engagement pods may provide short-term visibility but can undermine long-term credibility.

Consistency in posting and genuine interaction are key to leveraging LinkedIn effectively.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to LinkedIn Expertise

02:16 Current State of LinkedIn

05:29 Authenticity vs. Automation

09:40 The Impact of AI on Content

11:40 Standing Out in a Homogenised Space

15:37 The Importance of Building Relationships

19:04 The Temptation of Quick Fixes

24:25 Integrity in Online Presence

26:24 Building a Community on LinkedIn

27:29 The Challenge of Engagement Pods

29:39 Navigating LinkedIn's Algorithm Changes

31:12 The Importance of Reciprocity on LinkedIn

34:31 Strategic Commenting for Engagement

36:54 Creating Effective Content on LinkedIn

44:46 Maximising Your LinkedIn Profile

52:30 Final thoughts

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

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Secrets of Personal Branding

SUMMARY

In this episode of Present Influence, John is joined by branding expert and bestselling author Mark Schaefer to explore what it truly means to become known in a noisy, copy-and-paste marketing world.

They explore why most personal brands fail, how guru-led thinking is killing originality, and why authority is built through relevance, consistency, and usefulness rather than visibility or hype.

Mark shares practical insights from his books Known and Audacious, including how speakers and experts can clarify what they want to be known for, choose the right content strategy, and avoid the trap of chasing platforms instead of building trust.

This conversation is essential listening for speakers, coaches, and consultants who want to build real credibility, stand out without selling out, and turn visibility into lasting influence.

Find out more about Mark and his books at https://businessesgrow.com/

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to Mark Schaefer

02:44 Contrarian Views in Marketing

06:02 The Importance of Personal Branding

08:51 The Role of Speaking in Business

11:49 Advice for Aspiring Speakers

15:00 Finding Your Unique Voice

17:59 Leveraging Social Media for Branding

20:51 Creating Content that Resonates

23:53 Opportunities in the Speaking Industry

26:39 Navigating AI in Marketing

29:59 The Need vs. Nice to Have in Speaking

33:01 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned

35:52 Conclusion and Resources

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

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Welcome to Professional Speaking, the podcast for keynote speakers, subject matter experts, and coaches who are ready to stop being "well-kept secrets" and start building a scalable, high-impact career.

Most speaking advice is either too "soft" (focusing only on stage presence) or too "sleazy" (focusing on aggressive, outdated sales tactics). We believe there is a third way: The Path of Professional Influence.

Each week, we dive deep into the three pillars of a sustainable speaking career:

1. Master the Stage: Advanced communication, storytelling, and delivery techniques that ensure you leave a lasting legacy.
2. Book More Gigs: Strategic marketing, high-ticket sales frameworks, and the business systems required to fill your calendar without losing your soul.
3. Grow Your Impact with Integrity: How to increase your reach and revenue while staying true to your values and ethical standards.

Whether you are looking to pivot from breakout sessions to the mainstage, increase your keynote fees, or build a business that scales beyond your time on the lectern, this show provides the tactical roadmap to get you there.

Stop "giving talks" and start building a brand that commands attention.

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

SUMMARY

Many speakers, coaches, and consultants say they hate sales. In reality, what they hate is manipulative, impersonal, high-pressure selling that feels out of alignment with who they are.

In this episode of Present Influence, sales expert Katie Nelson dismantles the myth that selling high-ticket offers has to feel sleazy. We explore why sales is fundamentally human, not transactional, and why relationship, curiosity, and courage matter far more than funnels, scripts, or AI shortcuts.

We cover how speakers and coaches can sell premium services ethically, why relying solely on referrals is risky, how fear and rejection really work in sales, and why the founder must stay involved in selling longer than they think. Katie also challenges the overuse of “sales mindset” rhetoric and explains why action, not affirmation, is what actually builds confidence and cash flow.

If you sell your expertise, your voice, or your presence and want a sales process that feels honest, effective, and sustainable, this episode will change how you think about selling.

Find Katie on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/thesalescatalyst/ or go to SalesUprising.com

Here's the link for Katie's video series Feed The Fire: https://youtu.be/WfYrsNgSRoA?si=PaL5n0tRByqnJiOY

Takeaways

Sales is not a personality flaw; it's a human process.

Embracing sales leads to quicker business success.

Referrals should be seen as gifts, not strategies.

Sales is about people before it's about systems.

Mindset is important, but action is crucial in sales.

You can't outsource your courage as a business owner.

Sales is a service in both directions.

Understanding your target audience is key to sales success.

Fear and rejection are part of the sales journey; learn to overcome them.

Building relationships is essential for effective sales.

CHAPTERS

00:00 The Human Element in Sales

06:57 Reframing Sales: From Fear to Service

10:47 Sales as a Reflection of Humanity

17:27 Building Resilience in Sales

21:20 The Evolution of Sales Models

26:48 Simplifying Sales Funnels for Success

32:25 Sales Strategies for Speakers

35:17 The Power of Referrals in Business

40:04 Mindset vs. Action in Sales

43:54 Embracing Sales as a Business Owner

44:45 The Importance of Referrals and Stability in Sales

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

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The Strategic Speaking Business Audit

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SUMMARY

In this conversation, John Ball discusses the importance of treating speaking as a business rather than just a performance. He emphasises that many speakers struggle not due to a lack of skill but because they fail to position themselves effectively in the market. The discussion highlights the need for speakers to shift from hoping for opportunities to actively creating strategies that lead to sustainable careers. By focusing on serving specific audiences and building trust, speakers can enhance their impact and success in the industry.

You can connect with me using the links below.

CHAPTERS

00:00 The Business of Speaking

02:05 Shifting Mindsets for Success

04:05 Building Trust Over Attention

06:39 Close

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

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How to Beat Digital Distraction and Do Deep Work From Home

Summary

In this conversation, John Ball and Steven Puri explore the challenges of remote work, emphasising the importance of focus, intention, and managing distractions. They discuss how digital distractions are engineered to capture attention and the significance of establishing rituals and habits to enhance productivity. Puri shares insights on achieving a flow state for peak performance and the role of luck in success. The discussion also highlights practical strategies for overcoming procrastination and the power of prioritisation in achieving meaningful work.

Takeaways

Focus is about intention, not discipline.

Most of us are overwhelmed, not lazy.

Distraction is engineered to steal your attention.

You can do meaningful work without burning out.

Don't die with the great thing inside you.

You need to jealously guard your brain energy.

The difference is I hit play in your app?

Intention is key to moving your life forward.

You can achieve more by doing less.

Don't let distractions dictate your day.

Sound bites

"Most of us are overwhelmed, not lazy."

"Don't let distractions dictate your day."

"You can achieve more by doing less."

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Chapters

00:00 The Evolution of Remote Work

07:17 The Role of Luck in Career Paths

13:16 Distractions in the Digital Age

18:35 Active Procrastination and Focus Strategies

24:37 Weekly Planning and Daily Tasks

32:35 Personal Development and Productivity Mindset

39:36 Understanding Flow State for Enhanced Productivity

48:42 The Challenge of Focus in a Distracted World

49:11 The Importance of Intention and Environment

49:37 Finding Clarity and Direction in Work

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

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The Strategic Speaking Business Audit

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SUMMARY

In this episode, John addresses the challenges faced by speakers and coaches in gaining visibility and securing bookings. He emphasises the importance of marketing and the need for professionals in these fields to shift their identity from being just a performer to becoming a business owner. By focusing on marketing, networking, and consistent visibility, speakers and coaches can improve their chances of success. John also discusses the significance of setting clear goals and taking actionable steps to achieve them, urging listeners to treat their speaking or coaching endeavours as a business.

The LinkedIn Article: READ HERE

Key Takeaways

• Many talented speakers and coaches struggle to get bookings.
• Skill alone is not enough; marketing is crucial.
• Successful individuals take action before they feel ready.
• Recognition comes to those who actively seek it.
• Being known is more important than being the best.
• The best speakers often excel at running a business.
• Identity shift is foundational for success.
• Spend at least half your time on marketing activities.
• Set clear revenue goals and reverse engineer them.
• Treat your speaking or coaching as a business.

Sound bites

"Your identity shift is not optional."

"Prospecting should be a daily activity."

"Now's the time to start taking action."

CHAPTERS

00:00 The Pain Point of Speakers and Coaches

02:28 The Importance of Marketing in Speaking

05:05 Identity Shift: From Speaker to Business Owner

07:44 Setting Goals and Taking Action

10:13 Call to Action and Future Insights

11:41 Close

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

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The Strategic Speaking Business Audit

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Unlocking the Power of Stagecraft with Merit Khan: From Keynotes to Comedy

SUMMARY

In this episode of Present Influence, join John as he converses with Merit Khan, a dynamic speaker and performer, about the art of landing paid speaking engagements and refining your stagecraft. Merit shares insights from her journey, emphasising the importance of mastering sales skills to sell your talks before perfecting your stories. She discusses her diverse career, including keynoting for serious audiences, coaching sales professionals, and her one-woman show, 'Optimistic Personality Disorder.' Discover how improv, comedy, and understanding your audience can enhance your presentations and contribute to a thriving speaker ecosystem. Whether you are just starting out or looking to expand your existing speaking business, this episode offers practical strategies and inspirational stories to help you succeed.

Find out more about Merit at meritkahn.com or her one-woman show at opdshow.com

Here's the link to that article on why so many great speakers are broke: CLICK HERE TO READ IT

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:40 Meet Merit Khan: Sales and Comedy Expert

01:36 Contrarian Viewpoint: Sales Skills First

03:30 Building a Business Ecosystem

06:19 Adapting to Market Needs

09:44 Balancing Multiple Business Ventures

17:55 The Importance of Sales Experience

22:35 Creating a One-Woman Show

24:44 Unexpected Connections and Personal Growth

26:09 Diving into Standup Comedy

29:35 The Power of Humour in Speaking

32:13 The Art of Storytelling and Performance

36:39 Personal and Professional Growth in Speaking

42:24 Lessons from Standup and Knowing Your Audience

46:25 Podcasting and Future Projects

49:33 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

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Strategic Podcast Guesting: Boost Your Professional Impact

SUMMARY

In this episode, John delves into the nuanced value of podcast guesting for professional speakers and coaches. The discussion explores whether incorporating podcast guesting into your promotional strategies is worth it and emphasises the importance of strategic planning over mere volume. Key insights include the potential benefits of both audio and video formats, how podcast guesting can enhance authority and create long-term opportunities, and the importance of being well-prepared for interviews. The episode also highlights the pros and cons of using booking agencies, the significance of a clear call to action (CTA), and how to pitch and promote podcast appearances effectively. Finally, tips are shared on maintaining professional integrity and ensuring guest appearances align with your goals for maximum impact.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction: Is Podcast Guesting Worth It?

00:41 The Potential of Podcasting: Audio vs. Video

03:13 Strategic Podcast Guesting: Quality Over Quantity

05:40 Preparation and Performance Tips for Podcast Guests

12:36 The Role of Booking Agencies

15:29 Starting Out: Tips for New Podcast Guests

18:45 Maximising Your Podcast Guesting Experience

26:01 Conclusion: The Future of Podcast Guesting

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.

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The Strategic Speaking Business Audit

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Rejecting Overachievement: Embrace the Low-Pressure Success Method

SUMMARY

In this episode, John reflects on the pervasive culture of overachievement and hustle culture, discussing its detrimental effects on personal well-being and productivity. He shares his experiences and insights from coaching individuals who have faced burnout and highlights how this toxic mindset can lead to long-term damage. John advocates for a sustainable approach to success through the 'low-pressure success method,' emphasising consistency, patience, and maintaining one's health and relationships. He also encourages listeners to redefine success by focusing on presence over performance and taking deliberate, manageable steps toward their goals.

CHAPTERS

00:00 The Overachiever Myth

00:32 The Evolution of Hustle Culture

01:25 The Hidden Costs of Burnout

02:42 Redefining Success

05:21 The Low-Pressure Success Method

07:27 Final Thoughts and Resources

Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient.

For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence

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Finding Clarity: Narrowing Focus for Greater Success

SUMMARY

In this episode, the host talks about the importance of clarity and shares personal insights on overcoming mental fog and distractions. The host discusses the challenges of juggling multiple goals and projects, emphasising the need to focus on what truly matters. The episode highlights the decision to narrow focus on speaking engagements and corporate comedy, leaving other pursuits on hold. A more intimate, heart-to-heart discussion is presented, aiming to provide listeners with valuable takeaways on simplifying their professional endeavours. The host also invites listeners to reach out for support and clarity, sharing details about future podcast plans and upcoming interviews.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:32 Struggles with Mental Fog and Clarity

00:53 The Challenge of Chasing Too Many Goals

02:13 The Importance of Simplifying and Focusing

04:48 Decisions About the Podcast and Future Plans

06:02 Realisations from Performance and Speaking

09:35 The Need for Focus and Letting Go

11:50 Commitment to Stage Domination

19:29 Support and Encouragement

21:39 Conclusion and Upcoming Episodes

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Authenticity and Connection: Transforming Public Speaking with Marianne Hickman

SUMMARY

In this episode of Present Influence, host John welcomes Marianne Hickman to discuss the importance of authenticity, connection, and ethical speaking in public presentations. They explore issues such as trauma dumping, the power of telling stories from scars, and why confidence without competence can be detrimental. Marianne emphasises the sacredness of the microphone and shares insights on the 'Utah bro' archetype and the Dunning-Kruger effect. The conversation also delves into how humour, open mics, and even onstage mishaps can enhance teaching and engagement. They advocate for continuous learning and maintaining a 'white belt' mentality as they navigate public speaking and personal growth.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Cutting Through Stage Fakery: Real Influence You Can Trust

00:55 Welcome to Present Influence: Live with Marianne Hickman

02:13 The Sacredness of the Microphone: Stories from Scars, Not Wounds

04:46 The Utah Bro Archetype and the Dangers of Manipulation

10:20 The Power of Humour and Authenticity in Public Speaking

11:45 Embracing Comedy: Lessons from Mr Rogers and Robin Williams

20:39 The Yes, And Principle: Turning Mishaps into Moments

28:32 Taking the Pressure Off: Embracing Imperfection

29:55 Facing High-Stakes Situations with Confidence

32:48 Finding Your People: The Importance of Authenticity

38:26 The Role of Confidence in Influence

41:46 The Lifelong Student: Embracing Humility

49:14 The Power of Confidence: A Personal Story

52:16 Final Thoughts and How to Connect

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The Importance of Humour and My Journey into Stand-Up Comedy

SUMMARY

In this bonus episode, the host shares updates about the show and discusses the vital role of humour in professional speaking. He talks about his personal journey into stand-up comedy, highlighting the challenges and rewards of performing at open-mic nights. The episode includes a recording of one of his recent comedy sets, where he reminisces about school experiences, the challenges of PE, and the humour he found in those moments. Additionally, the host emphasises the need for mental resilience in the face of criticism and encourages the audience to pursue their comedic endeavours.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Bonus Episode

00:28 The Importance of Humour in Public Speaking

01:25 Overcoming the Fear of Open Mic Nights

02:32 My Experience with Open Mic Comedy

03:32 The Joy and Challenges of Making People Laugh

07:06 Dealing with Online Criticism

09:36 Transition to the Comedy Set

10:11 Stand-Up Comedy Performance

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Addressing the Trust Deficit in the Personal and Professional Development Industry

SUMMARY

In this episode, the host discusses the growing trust deficit within the speaking, coaching, and personal development industries. Highlighting issues such as overpromised transformation, shallow certifications, and unethical practices, the host shares thoughts on how to identify and avoid contributing to the problem. They offer practical steps for rebuilding trust, emphasising the importance of ethics, integrity, and realistic promises. The episode also serves as a precursor to an interview with Marianne Hickman, a fellow expert in communication skills, set to release later in the week.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction and Purpose

00:14 The Trust Deficit in Personal Development

02:01 Personal Scepticism and Industry Critique

04:05 The Problem with the Coaching Industry

06:16 Rebuilding Credibility and Ethical Practices

10:12 Guidelines for Ethical Coaching

12:03 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview

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Present Influence: A New Direction for Deeper, More Valuable Conversations

SUMMARY

In this pivotal episode, the host addresses long-time listeners and newcomers with a sincere update about the future of 'Present Influence.' Recognising that previous episodes had sometimes lacked depth and value, the host announces a shift towards higher-quality content. Moving forward, there will be fewer, but more substantial interviews, with a focus on deep, practical conversations. Additionally, the host aims to infuse solo episodes with valuable insights, coaching sessions, and even some comedy. This episode sets the stage for a leaner, more impactful 'Present Influence,' designed to enhance listeners' growth as communicators and people of influence.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction and Gratitude

00:22 Realisation and Reset

01:33 Challenges and Reflections

04:32 Decisions for Improvement

07:18 Future Plans and Engagement

08:50 Conclusion and Call to Action

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Navigating Fear and Anxiety: Practical Steps for Growth and Resilience

SUMMARY

There are many fears that can hold people back in their journey to becoming amazing speakers and communicators. In this episode, John and coaching colleague James discuss how fear can be used as useful feedback rather than a stop sign. They explore lingering pandemic-related anxieties, physical manifestations of stress, and common fears such as failure or societal pressures. Together, they offer practical techniques for reframing fear into usable energy and taking small, safe steps towards a supportive environment. Additionally, they emphasise the importance of action, even small ones, to overcome fear and progress in personal growth and self-actualisation. They also touch on the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive people and environments. Both coaches share their personal experiences and offer support for listeners dealing with similar fears, providing valuable insights into how to transform fear into a force for personal development and success.

You can reach out to John from the info below, and if you would like to connect with James, you can email him at jameskilgarriff@gmail.com

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction: Embracing Fear as Feedback

00:07 Navigating Pandemic-Induced Fears

01:53 Personal Experiences with Fear and Anxiety

05:46 The Evolutionary Perspective on Fear

11:57 Reframing Fear: From Nerves to Excitement

16:07 The Importance of Embracing Change

21:36 Overcoming the Fear of Failure

22:21 Overcoming Failure and Self-Doubt

23:50 The Importance of Feedback

26:18 Surrounding Yourself with Supportive People

30:52 Managing Fear and Stress

32:01 Taking Action to Overcome Fear

36:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Mastering Negotiation: From Hostage Tactics to Everyday Deals with Susan Ibitz

SUMMARY

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball interviews Susan Ibitz, an expert in international hostage negotiation, interrogation, and behavioural analysis, about applying real hostage negotiation strategies to everyday situations. Susan shares practical tactics for establishing instant rapport, navigating irrational behaviour, and negotiating without scripts. She discusses the balance of warmth and assertiveness in communication and the importance of understanding both your own and others' irrational behaviours. The episode also highlights the value of strategic negotiation in various contexts, from personal relationships to high-stakes business deals, and encourages listeners to embrace their authentic selves to find their true tribe.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to Hostage Negotiation Techniques

01:51 Meet Susan Ibitz: Hostage Negotiator and Behavioural Analyst

02:24 The Importance of Authenticity and Finding Your Tribe

03:25 Susan's Journey: From Personal Struggles to Professional Success

08:53 Communication Techniques for Building Rapport

13:21 Understanding and Managing Irrational Behaviour

32:46 Reflecting on Fashion Choices

34:01 The Challenges of Public Speaking

35:07 Introverts vs. Extroverts in Public Speaking

40:57 Finding Your Happy Place

42:46 The Importance of Negotiation

52:48 Overcoming Obstacles for Personal Growth

01:01:08 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Building Genuine Credibility: Avoiding the Pitfalls of Manufactured Status

SUMMARY

In this episode of 'Present Influence,' host John Ball discusses the difference between genuine credibility and manufactured status for speakers, coaches, and expert business owners. He warns against the allure of fake status symbols like rented Lamborghinis and pay-to-play magazine features, emphasising the importance of authenticity and ethical authority. John shares a three-point credibility test to help listeners audit their own credibility signals, ensuring they are earned, relevant, and verifiable. He also highlights the role of passion, honesty, and real-life testimonials in building sustainable influence. The episode ends with a challenge to audit and share a credibility marker you're proud of.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction: The Real Threat to Your Credibility

01:10 Understanding Credibility: Ethos and Authority

02:08 The Pitfalls of Manufactured Status

03:00 Ethics and Manipulation in Influence

06:19 The Power of Authentic Stories

08:26 The Three-Point Credibility Test

11:59 Building Genuine Credibility

17:56 Conclusion: Your Challenge for the Week

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Mastering Technical Talks: Joel Benge's Guide to Message Therapy

SUMMARY

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball speaks with Joel Benge, author of 'Be A Nerd that Talks Good,' and creator of the Message Therapy framework. Joel shares his technique for transforming technical presentations into memorable and impactful stories. Drawing from experiences at Nickelodeon, NASA, and the Department of Homeland Security, Joel discusses how to connect with any audience by striking a balance between logic, emotion, and credibility. Listeners will learn how to strip out jargon, build trust, and convey powerful messages, making even the most complex ideas stick. Joel also outlines his unique framework and tools like the Message Deck, which help speakers develop and structure their messages effectively. Tune in to discover how to make your technical talks unforgettable.

For Joel's prompt cards, book or more information, visit nerdthattalksgood.com

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction: Making Technical Talks Memorable

00:14 Meet Joel Benge: From Nickelodeon to NASA

01:45 Joel's Journey: From IT Geek to Communication Expert

03:55 The Power of Simplifying Technical Communication

05:47 Joel's Message Therapy: Helping Nerds Talk Good

15:58 The Framework: Head, Heart, and Gut

24:07 Building Connections: The Importance of Vulnerability

28:28 Crafting Effective Presentations: Objectives and Outcomes

35:35 Tools and Resources: Cards, Books, and More

41:16 Conclusion: The Impact of Clear Messaging

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Most speakers sabotage themselves before they even get on stage.

Some wing it. Others over-hype themselves. Many cling to lucky charms or last-minute cramming. The result? Nerves, shaky delivery, and lost connection with the audience.

In this solo episode, John shares a practical pre-game system you can actually use to get stage-ready without superstition or overthinking.

You’ll learn how to:

• Reset your mindset in two minutes with Stoic reframing, box breathing, and a simple nerves-to-excitement shift.
• Prepare your body and voice with easy warm-ups (that won’t make you look ridiculous backstage).
• Prime your message by locking in your opening, closing, and key beats — without cramming.
• Avoid common pre-game mistakes that drain your energy or ramp up nerves.

Whether you’re about to step on stage, record a podcast, or present to your team, these tools will help you show up calm, confident, and connected.

👉 Next time: John speaks with Joel Benge about Message Mastery and why tech leaders need to “talk good” (his words, not mine).

👉 Coming soon: A solo deep dive on the ethics of influence and the tricky line between genuine credibility and manufactured status.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Pre-Game Preparation

01:03 Personal Story: Overcoming Stage Fright

02:37 Mental Preparation Techniques

03:30 Breathing Exercises for Calmness

06:34 Vocal Warm-Ups and Physical Preparation

09:41 Effective Rehearsal Strategies

16:45 Common Pre-Game Mistakes to Avoid

21:05 Final Tips and Conclusion

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Most presenters polish slides and still feel the room slip away. In this conversation with Rebecca Williams, co-author of Presenting Presenting: The Art of Public Speaking and How to Do It Better, we delve into why performance blocks connection and how to address it quickly. You’ll learn Rebecca’s First Five Formula to open any talk, how to reframe nerves into excitement, and why you should build your talk off the laptop and on the wall before you ever touch slides.

We cover connecting with your audience first, storytelling that lands, and the mindset shift from “make me look good” to service. We also get practical for analytical presenters in tech, science, and blockchain who rely on data and jargon. If you speak at work, on stage, or on video, this will help you open stronger, deliver with heart, and be remembered.

What you’ll learn

• The First Five Formula to hook any audience in minutes
• How to lead with a question and read the room
• A repeatable prep process using paper, Sharpie, and structure
• Reframing nerves into excitement so delivery feels natural
• Why emotion drives persuasion and “robot talks” fail
• How to stop over-performing and start connecting
• Dressing and presence choices that support your message
• Fixing common corporate communication traps

About Rebecca

Rebecca Williams is a communication coach and co-author of Presenting: The Art of Public Speaking and How to Do It Better. She helps leaders and technical teams present with clarity, story, and genuine connection.

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Search Amazon for “ Presenting presenting the Art of Public Speaking and How to Do It Better. Rebecca Williams” or visit https://rebecca-williams.com/book/

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SUMMARY

Most of us spend our lives trying to blend in; at work, in friendships, even on stage. But the harder we chase acceptance, the more invisible we become.

In this episode, I share my own story of being pushed out of the very communities I once belonged to, and how that rejection became the catalyst for finding my voice. You’ll learn why “not fitting in” is often the beginning of true influence, how to turn outsider energy into credibility, and why your quirks might be your greatest professional asset.

🔥 What you’ll take away:

• The psychology behind belonging and exclusion
• Why hiding your truth erodes influence (and how to stop)
• How to reframe rejection as the start of credibility
• Practical steps to turn difference into magnetic presence

This isn’t about theory. It’s about lived experience, raw stories, and a roadmap for anyone who’s ever felt like they didn’t belong.

Do you want to hear the story that made me feel so vulnerable on stage? https://youtu.be/MRR9K9HvnRE

👉 Listen in and discover why not fitting in might just be your unfair advantage.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Outsider Advantage

01:02 Personal Story: The Pain of Not Fitting In

02:52 Questioning Beliefs: A Turning Point

04:49 The Power of Authenticity

08:31 Navigating Relationships and Acceptance

12:49 The Importance of Vulnerability

20:18 Conclusion: Your Uniqueness as Leverage

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Leaders don’t fail because they lack ideas — they fail because they can’t communicate them.

In this episode, I sit down with Lucille Ossai, award-winning communications trainer and author of Influence and Thrive. From Lagos Business School to global boardrooms, Lucille has helped leaders transform how they connect, persuade, and inspire.

We unpack her 3 rules of effective communication and why mastering writing is often the fastest way to expand your influence.

🔑 In this conversation:

• How Lucille stumbled into communication after starting as a stay-at-home mum
• The surprising power of writing in an AI-driven world
• The 3 rules that instantly make you clearer and more credible
• Why communication is the #1 skill that drives leadership impact

📖 Learn more about Lucille:

Book: Influence and Thrive → https://amzn.eu/d/5h8mZDO

Website: www.lucilleossai.com

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lucilleossaicommunicationspro

✨ If you’ve ever felt your voice isn’t being heard, this episode will give you the tools to change that.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to Powerful Communication

00:14 Lucille Ossai's Journey to Communication Expertise

01:29 The Importance of Communication Skills

03:19 Benefits of Effective Communication

05:19 Implementing Effective Communication

09:09 Three Rules of Effective Communication

12:56 Influence Through Communication

15:50 Overcoming Communication Challenges

24:50 The Power of Writing in Communication

26:22 A Nervous Start and Building Skills

26:45 The Importance of Writing in Business

27:57 Reading to Improve Writing

29:10 Blogging as a Tool for Improvement

30:46 The Role of AI in Writing

37:50 Effective Leadership Communication

41:56 Optimism for Future Business Leaders

45:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Overcoming the Feeling of Being Ignored: Real Stories and Practical Strategies

SUMMARY

In this episode, the host and his coaching friend James discuss the painful experience of feeling ignored, whether at work, online, or among friends. They share personal stories and explore the reasons why feeling ignored can hurt deeply. The conversation delves into strategies to combat this feeling, including setting boundaries, persistence, and reframing rejection. They emphasise the importance of self-awareness, the value of small successes, and not letting fear of judgment hold you back. With practical advice for speaking up and being heard, this episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling to make their voice matter.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction: Feeling Ignored

00:34 Personal Stories and Boundaries

01:59 The Pain of Being Ignored

03:54 Coping Mechanisms and Self-Reflection

06:22 Childhood Experiences and Fitting In

11:38 Professional Challenges and Gender Differences

16:04 Taking Action and Setting Boundaries

20:40 Online Presence and Open Mic Experiences

24:08 Overcoming Failure in Comedy

24:50 The Importance of Persistence

26:19 Choosing the Right Platform

30:19 Seeking Help and Building Networks

35:31 Embracing Imperfection

37:46 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Mastering Human Interaction: Insights from a Former US Secret Service Agent with Brad Beeler

SUMMARY

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball welcomes Brad Beeler, a former US Secret Service agent. Brad shares profound insights from his experiences in high-stakes environments to help decode human behaviour, build trust, and improve communication. Key topics discussed include the effectiveness and use of polygraph tests, the importance of congruent body language, effective first impressions, and the potent, often-overlooked influence tools like curiosity and respect. Brad also teases his upcoming book, 'Tell Me Everything,' which promises to delve deeper into these critical skills for anyone looking to enhance their influence and persuasion in personal and professional contexts.

Get the free PDF with the full rundown of everything Brad talked about on the show; you don't even need to submit an email: CLICK HERE

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to Present Influence

00:09 Meet Brad Beeler: From Secret Service to Polygraph Expert

00:56 The Role and Effectiveness of Polygraph Tests

01:55 Brad's Journey and Insights into Human Behaviour

05:59 The Science of Body Language and Communication

10:58 Practical Tips for Presenters and Speakers

21:53 The Importance of First Impressions

25:56 Context and First Impressions

27:52 The Role of Lies in Social Interactions

28:53 Detecting Deception: Techniques and Tips

33:35 The Power of Social Media and Personal Information

38:40 Influence Principles in Action

43:27 Respect and Curiosity in Communication

45:35 Conclusion and Upcoming Book

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Identifying and Overcoming Common Charisma Killers in Your Presentations

Summary

In this episode, presentation coach John discusses why some presentations fail to connect despite clear, confident, and sometimes even humorous delivery. He introduces three common 'charisma killers'—overexplaining, incongruent energy, and lack of curiosity.

John shares real client stories to illustrate these points and offers practical advice on how to rectify them. Additionally, he previews a live event called 'Charisma Killers,' where he will go over seven major charisma killers and techniques to address them. This event is scheduled to be free and will take place monthly on LinkedIn and YouTube.

Register for your place on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/events/thecharismakillers-what-ssilent7357846227289276416/theater/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Why Your Presentation Didn't Land

00:28 Charisma Killers Overview

01:16 Charisma Killer #1: Overexplaining

04:10 Charisma Killer #2: Incongruent Energy

06:14 Charisma Killer #3: Lack of Curiosity

08:10 Recap and Upcoming Live Event

10:03 Conclusion and Call to Action

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Unlocking the Secrets of Comedy with Joel Morris

Summary

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball delves into the intricacies of comedy with Joel Morris, the prolific comedy writer behind beloved characters like Paddington Bear and Philomena Cunk.

Joel discusses his book, 'Be Funny or Die,' shedding light on the rhythm of humour, the similarities between jokes and music, and the universal nature of comedy. They explore how jokes are constructed, the importance of setup and timing, and the challenges of creating comedy in today's diverse media landscape.

Whether you're a professional speaker or simply someone who loves a good laugh, this episode offers invaluable insights into the craft of comedy.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Joel Morris and His Comedy Craft

01:20 Discussing 'Be Funny or Die'

01:44 The Mechanics and Philosophy of Comedy

02:54 Comedy as a Universal Language

06:16 The Journey of a Comedy Writer

11:53 The Role of Persona in Comedy

17:16 Writing Process and Inspirations

23:02 Mocking Doc and Shakespeare

23:36 Philomena Cunk's Interviewing Skills

23:40 Favourite Person to Write For

25:33 Comedy at the BBC

32:14 The Craft of Comedy Writing

36:03 Advice for Adding Humour

40:44 Upcoming Projects and Final Thoughts

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Mastering Podcast Guesting: Strategies for Speakers, Coaches, and Experts

Summary

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball, an award-winning keynote and presentation skills coach, reveals the secrets of being a strategic podcast guest. He discusses the pitfalls of relying on agencies, the importance of finding the right shows, and the essential practices for turning podcast appearances into client leads. John also shares insights on how to be an engaging and prepared guest, how to leverage relationships with hosts, and the significance of having a media strategy. Packed with practical advice and tips, this episode is a comprehensive guide for speakers, coaches, and experts looking to grow their influence through podcast guesting.

Get the free podcast guesting strategy guide at presentinfluence.com/podcastguest

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Podcast Guesting

00:48 The Pitfalls of Podcast Agencies

06:32 Strategic Podcast Guesting

09:03 Preparing for Podcast Appearances

16:55 Finding the Right Podcasts

22:27 Building Relationships and Following Up

28:24 Conclusion and Resources

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Harnessing Unity for Impactful Public Speaking: Insights from Robert Cialdini

In this episode, the concept of 'unity' as an influential principle from Robert Cialdini's revised book 'Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion' is explored. The host discusses the emotional power of unity in connecting with audiences and emphasizes that unity is about finding shared values and experiences rather than pretending to be the same. Examples and stories are provided, including techniques for creating a sense of belonging and ethical connection in public speaking. The episode also considers the potential misuse of unity and advises speakers to use it as a means of fostering inclusive and meaningful connections.

00:00 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

00:20 Introducing Cialdini's Principle of Unity

00:43 Understanding Unity and Shared Identity

01:24 Creating Unity as a Speaker

02:30 Real-Life Examples of Unity

03:24 Ethical Use of Unity in Speaking

04:05 Practical Tips for Building Unity

05:59 The Power and Danger of Unity

07:01 Conclusion and Next Steps

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Mastering Email Marketing with Kennedy: Turn Followers into Clients & Cash

Summary:

In this episode of Present Influence, we're joined by Kennedy, a renowned name in the world of email marketing. If you're a coach, speaker, or entrepreneur tired of chasing social media trends and ready to build a high-converting email list, this conversation is for you.

Kennedy delves into the psychology behind buying behaviour, the importance of building trust through email, and why a small email list can still be hugely profitable. He also shares effective techniques for turning live audiences and social media followers into paying subscribers. Don't miss out on this masterclass in modern email marketing packed with actionable insights.

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Email Marketing with Kennedy

01:30 The Importance of Email Marketing

04:28 Building Trust and Credibility

06:51 Challenges and Benefits of Email Marketing

15:43 Transitioning to YouTube and Content Creation

22:13 The Power of a Small Email List

27:28 Challenges of Building an Email List from Social Media

28:00 Effective Techniques for Audience Engagement

29:03 Leveraging Events to Grow Your Email List

32:44 Using Secondary Lead Magnets

39:17 The Power of Frequent Emailing

43:40 Optimising Your Email Marketing Strategy

50:08 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Harnessing Commitment and Consistency: Ethical Influence for Speakers

Summary

This episode delves into the power of commitment and consistency from Dr. Robert Cialdini's Influence Framework, specifically for public speakers. The discussion covers how small 'yeses' can lead to bigger outcomes and why people stick to their decisions. The episode offers practical tips for speakers to ethically apply this principle to build trust, reinforce decisions, and boost conversions without using manipulative tactics. It emphasises the importance of congruence and reliability, both on and off-stage, and warns against unethical uses of commitment tactics. Key strategies include prompting small commitments, encouraging physical actions, and using inclusive language to foster alignment. The episode concludes with a summary of ethical influence, aiming to help speakers become trusted and consistent guides for their audiences.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Commitment and Consistency

00:32 Applying Commitment in Speaking

02:12 Creating Audience Engagement

04:11 Ethical Considerations in Influence

04:57 Consistency in Personal Branding

09:45 Avoiding Manipulative Tactics

16:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Unlocking Presentation Mastery with Mark Robinson: From Technical Expert to Influential Speaker

Summary

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball chats with speaking coach and presentation skills expert Mark Robinson about transforming technical experts into compelling speakers. Mark offers insights on avoiding detail overload, the power of storytelling, and the significance of stage presence. They discuss practical tips for confident communication, from structuring content and practicing effectively to using advanced techniques like 'star moments.' This conversation is essential for anyone looking to enhance their presentation skills and make their messages memorable.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Present Influence

00:05 Meet Mark Robinson: Transforming Technical Communication

01:50 The Importance of Clear Messaging for Technical Experts

05:04 Overcoming Stage Fright: Mark's Personal Journey

10:14 The Power of Practice and Preparation

16:08 Advanced Presentation Skills and Techniques

18:43 Using Hand Movements in Presentations

19:06 Controlling Unconscious Movements

22:20 The Power of Storytelling

24:59 Encouraging Personal Stories

32:31 Creating Memorable Presentations

35:09 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Go to presentinfluence.com to take the Speaker StrengthsFinder Quiz and discover your greatest strengths as a speaker as well as where to focus for growth. For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

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Mastering Reciprocity: Elevate Your Speaking Career Ethically

Summary

In this episode, the speaker delves into the psychology of reciprocity, one of Robert Cialdini's key principles of influence, and how it can be leveraged ethically by speakers to gain more gigs, referrals, and rebookings without rewriting presentations or begging for business. The discussion includes practical strategies like maintaining active communication with bookers, providing added value during and after talks, and avoiding manipulative tactics. Illustrative examples from Cialdini's book and real-life scenarios are shared to highlight both ethical and unethical applications of reciprocity. The episode concludes with tips on maintaining long-term relationships and ensuring that giving remains genuine and not purely transactional.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Reciprocity

02:06 Real World Example: Street Vendor Story

03:30 Practical Ways to Use Reciprocity as a Speaker

12:45 When Reciprocity Goes Wrong

15:47 Avoiding Manipulative Uses of Reciprocity

20:29 Give Because You Care, Not to Get

22:06 Cal l to Action and Wrap-up

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What does your outfit say about your authority before you even speak?

In this insightful and practical episode of Present Influence, I sit down with Kay Korsh, an international speaker and style advisor who helps professional speakers elevate their credibility, presence, and personal brand through their wardrobe choices.

Whether you're speaking in front of 5,000 or just hopping on a Zoom workshop, your style is part of your message. Kay explains how fit, colour, fabric, and even shoes can either reinforce your message or distract from it entirely.

We cover:

• Why your appearance impacts influence, likability, and bookings
• How to align your outfit with your brand and audience
• Common speaker wardrobe mistakes that sabotage credibility
• Why “looking current” helps you stay relevant (especially with age)
• How to build a small but powerful speaking wardrobe
• Why tailoring and digitising your closet might be game-changers

If you've ever wondered what to wear on stage—or felt unsure if you’re dressing the part—this episode is your backstage pass to speaker style success.

🎯 Connect with Kay Korsh on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kay-korsh/

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📸 Bonus: Learn how to digitise your wardrobe and avoid decision fatigue (in episode)

Chapters & Timecodes

00:00 – Introduction

01:19 – Meet Kay Korsh

01:51 – Why Style Matters for Speakers

03:48 – Kay’s Journey to Speaker Styling

06:11 – The Power of First Impressions

08:20 – Common Wardrobe Mistakes

13:16 – Building a Speaker Wardrobe

16:39 – Comfort, Audience, and Personal Branding

21:14 – Standing Out vs. Staying Authentic

23:34 – Dressing for Body Types

29:17 – Corporate vs. Personal Style

32:38 – How Many Looks Does a Speaker Need?

36:41 – Digitizing and Organizing Your Wardrobe

39:03 – Budgeting for Speaker Outfits

41:01 – The Importance of Tailoring

44:07 – Trends, Timelessness, and Staying Current

48:44 – Practical Style Tips & Do’s and Don’ts

54:11 – Working with Kay: Process & Programs

59:13 – How to Connect with Kay Korsh

1:01:20 – Closing Thoughts & Next Episode Preview

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Show Notes: The Power of Liking for Speakers

Welcome back! In this solo episode, John dives into one of Robert Cialdini’s most underrated principles of influence—liking. If you’ve ever wondered why some speakers seem to get booked again and again, or how you can turn your audience into true fans without changing a word of your keynote, this episode is for you.

Introduction: Why Liking Matters

John kicks things off by sharing why understanding the principle of liking is a game-changer for anyone who wants to get booked, rebooked, or simply make a bigger impact as a speaker. It’s not just about what you say on stage—it’s about how you connect with people, both on and off the mic.

The Science Behind Liking

Drawing on Cialdini’s research, John explains that we’re all more likely to say “yes” to people we genuinely like. He shares his own journey, from starting out with a small audience to building a platform and podcast, all by focusing on curiosity, generosity, and authentic relationships.

Real Connections vs. Transactional Interactions

John gets real about the difference between building genuine connections and falling into the trap of being transactional. He shares stories from his own experience—how being easy to work with and showing appreciation opened doors to new opportunities, referrals, and collaborations.

How to Be More Likeable (and Why It Matters)

This chapter is packed with practical advice. John talks about the importance of using audience-relevant language, sharing stories (especially the ones where things didn’t go perfectly), and being open about your own quirks and mistakes. He reminds us that being likeable isn’t about flattery or people-pleasing—it’s about being real, approachable, and easy to work with.

Likability Killers to Avoid

Not everything is sunshine and roses—John also covers the behaviours that can quickly destroy likability. From being overly self-focused or inauthentic, to lacking emotional presence or coming across as rigid, he explains why these habits can hold you back as a speaker.

Authenticity Over Perfection

One of the big takeaways from this episode is that you don’t need to win everyone over. In fact, trying to please everyone is a losing game. Instead, focus on showing up as someone who’s trustworthy, warm, and competent. Likability can’t make up for a bad talk, but it can turn a good one into something unforgettable.

Wrapping Up & What’s Next

John closes the episode by encouraging you to be the speaker people want to work with and invite back. If you found this valuable, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and check out the links in the show notes for free tools to help you build ethical influence. And stay tuned—the next episode will explore another of Cialdini’s heavy hitters: reciprocity.

Thanks for listening! Until next time, stay present, stay likeable, and stay influential.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Power of Liking

00:38 Exploring Cialdini's Principle of Liking

01:50 Personal Journey: Building Connections

04:13 Ethical Application of Liking

05:52 Practical Tips for Speakers

07:31 Common Pitfalls to Avoid

10:58 Conclusion: Elevate Your Speaking Game

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Debunking the 7% Communication Myth

In this episode, we debunk the widely spread myth that only 7% of communication is through words, while the remaining 93% is through tone and facial expressions. The host explains the origins of this misconception from Albert Mehrabian's research on emotional communication. The video clarifies that the 7% figure pertains to how we interpret emotions, not overall communication. Words remain crucial, comprising the majority of communication, while tone and expressions add depth and emotional context. Listeners are encouraged to challenge and help stop the propagation of this myth.

00:00 Debunking the 7% Communication Myth

00:52 Origins of the Myth: Albert Mehrabian's Study

01:43 Understanding Emotional Intent in Communication

02:21 The Role of Words, Tone, and Facial Expressions

03:29 Clarifying the Misconception

04:14 Final Thoughts: The Importance of Words

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Embracing the Nomadic Mindset: Presence and Connection on Stage

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball discusses the nomadic mindset with international speaker and author Kevin Cottam. They explore how ancient nomadic wisdom can enhance modern speakers' adaptability, presence, and connection with their audiences. Through stories from Mongolia to Morocco, Kevin shares insights on the importance of unity, flow, and curiosity for effective communication. This philosophical conversation encourages speakers to transcend traditional methods, fostering deeper and more meaningful engagement with their audiences.

What does a nomadic warrior know about stage presence that most speakers never learn?

In this powerful and philosophical episode, I’m joined by Kevin Cottam, international speaker, former world-class choreographer, and author of The Nomadic Mindset: Never Settle for Too Long.

Together, we explore how ancient nomadic wisdom, drawn from cultures in Mongolia, Kenya, Morocco, and Namibia, can help modern speakers develop deeper presence, authentic connection, and resonant leadership.

💡 Discover how presence is more than just performance; it’s unity with your space, your audience, and yourself.

🔍 Topics we explore:

• The surprising meaning of the word “nomad”

• How speakers can ground themselves through breath, silence, and space

• What stillness, curiosity, and adaptability have to do with your stagecraft

• Why sameness kills growth—and how to rediscover flow

Whether you're a keynote speaker, coach, or creative leader, this episode will challenge and inspire you to speak with more depth, awareness, and humanity.

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00:00 Introduction to Nomadic Mindset

00:15 Meet Kevin Cottam: From Choreographer to Speaker

01:34 Exploring Presence and Unity

02:06 Lessons from Nomadic Cultures

03:39 The Importance of Connection in Speaking

06:55 Adapting and Growing as a Speaker

17:01 Understanding the Nomadic Mindset

25:06 Applying Nomadic Principles to Life

28:39 Practical Steps to Embrace Nomadic Thinking

32:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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How to Use Social Proof to Boost Your Speaking Career (Without Faking It)

If you've ever felt invisible as a speaker, like you're great on stage but not getting the referrals, rebookings, or conversions you deserve, this episode is for you.

We're diving into Cialdini’s principle of social proof and how it applies specifically to public and professional speakers. You’ll learn how to use testimonials, case studies, audience reactions, and endorsements to build real trust and credibility—without hype or manipulation.

I also share a strange little story about the time I almost got off the wrong bus… even though I knew it wasn’t my stop. Why? Because everyone else did. It’s a perfect real-world example of how powerful social proof is, and how it influences our behaviour, even when we know better.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What social proof is and why it matters for speakers
• How to use testimonials and case studies inside your talks to seed future sales
• Why social proof is one of the most effective tools when selling from the stage
• The right (and ethical) way to ask for testimonials and case study permissions
• How to turn LinkedIn referrals and recommendations into your speaking growth engine
• What fake social proof looks like—and how it damages your credibility

Whether you're selling books, coaching, consulting, or just building your speaking brand, social proof can make or break your next opportunity. Let’s make sure it works for you—not against you.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Social Proof

00:32 Understanding Social Proof

00:49 A Personal Anecdote on Social Proof

02:00 Leveraging Testimonials and Case Studies

04:20 The Power of LinkedIn for Social Proof

05:11 Best Practices for Gathering Testimonials

06:03 The Importance of Third-Party Introductions

07:29 Incorporating Social Proof in Presentations

09:44 Conclusion and Upcoming Topics

Go to presentinfluence.com to take the Speaker StrengthsFinder Quiz and discover your greatest strengths as a speaker as well as where to focus for growth. For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

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As speakers, coaches, and entrepreneurs, we spend countless hours refining our message and perfecting our delivery—but how often do we invest in the vehicle that delivers it: our health?

In this powerful episode of Present Influence, host John Ball sits down with health and fitness coach Esther Avant to explore the overlooked connection between physical wellness and professional presence. If you've ever struggled with energy, confidence, or consistency, this conversation will show you why your fitness habits may be the missing piece in your performance strategy.

Esther shares nearly two decades of expertise helping busy professionals build sustainable health routines—even when travel, stage work, or jam-packed schedules get in the way.

🎯 Topics covered include:

• Why speakers and coaches must prioritise health (and how it affects first impressions)
• The 3 “Big Rocks” of health: the simplest, most effective habits for better results
• How to reduce friction and decision fatigue through pre-planning
• The mindset shift that makes self-care non-negotiable
• Real talk about sleep, recovery, consistency, and how to build a lifestyle that lasts
• The surprising mental benefits of fitness—including confidence, clarity, and resilience

John also shares his journey of improving his health, the mistakes he made, and the surprising performance benefits he's experienced since getting consistent with exercise, nutrition, and rest.

Whether you're an emerging speaker or a seasoned pro, this episode will challenge you to think differently about your habits—and empower you to upgrade not just your health, but your entire presence and performance.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Energy and Health

00:24 Meet Esther Avant: Building Real Energy and Confidence

01:33 The Busy Professional's Health Dilemma

02:34 Creating a Sustainable Healthy Lifestyle

05:07 The Power of Consistency and Self-Belief

12:13 Exercise and Nutrition: The Big Rocks

14:25 Rest and Recovery: Essential for Success

22:38 Planning Ahead: Overcoming Decision Fatigue

24:54 Overcoming Midweek Slumps

25:17 Prepping for Success

26:25 Queued Actions for Smooth Sailing

27:03 Connecting Present and Future Self

28:56 The Importance of Specific Goals

33:14 Behaviour Goals vs. Outcome Goals

33:58 Intermittent Fasting Insights

36:22 Personalising Your Diet

41:21 Tracking Progress Effectively

43:21 Motivation Through Self-Reflection

44:52 Conclusion and Resources

Go to presentinfluence.com to take the Speaker StrengthsFinder Quiz and discover your greatest strengths as a speaker as well as where to focus for growth. For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

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Mastering Authority: Leveraging Credibility as a Speaker

Summary

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball explores the principle of authority and how it can impact a speaker's credibility. John delves into Dr. Robert Cialdini's concept of authority and shares personal anecdotes and experiments that highlight its power. He provides actionable insights on how speakers can project authority through appearance, associations, and demonstrated expertise, while also discussing the dark side of authority and its unethical uses. The episode includes tips on building authentic authority and a call to embrace vulnerability for increased relatability. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the content and explore resources to improve their speaking strengths.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Power of Authority

00:45 Understanding Cialdini's Principle of Authority

02:06 The White Coat Experiment

03:32 Personal Anecdote: The Billionaires Club

05:16 Healthy Scepticism and Authority

06:49 Projecting Authority as a Speaker

10:14 The Dark Side of Authority

12:56 Building Ethical Authority

14:15 Conclusion and Next Steps

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Mastering the Art of Facilitation with Therese Miclot

Summary

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball welcomes expert facilitator and author Therese Miclot to discuss the crucial role of facilitation in meetings and presentations. Therese compares facilitation to the leavening agent in baking, emphasising its often overlooked but essential impact. They explore key elements such as mindset, content, and process, as well as practical skills like active listening and storytelling. Therese shares insights on managing disruptive participants, creating psychological safety, and crafting effective group agreements, offering valuable tips for anyone looking to enhance their facilitation skills.

Check out Therese's website for more information about leadership facilitation: https://www.thefacilitationadvantage.com/

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Effective Facilitation

01:18 Welcoming Therese Miclot

01:49 Defining Facilitation

04:14 Common Facilitation Challenges

06:43 The Importance of Mindset

11:28 Creating Psychological Safety

18:15 The Power of Storytelling

23:00 Adding Color to Your Stories

24:27 The Importance of Preparation in Storytelling

26:19 Handling Disruptors in Facilitation

31:38 Creating Effective Group Agreements

34:02 Dealing with Resistant Participants

36:19 The Power of Restating and Peer Feedback

39:30 Memorable Facilitation Experiences

41:06 The Facilitation Advantage Book

43:48 Upcoming Episodes and Series

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Mastering Scarcity: Unlocking Cialdini's Principles for Speakers

This episode dives into the psychology behind the principle of scarcity from Cialdini's persuasion techniques and its impact on audience behavior. The speaker highlights how scarcity can create urgency and increase value perception, sharing personal anecdotes and practical tips for speakers, coaches, and consultants to use this principle ethically. Emphasizing integrity, the episode provides strategies to encourage audience action without compromising trust. Subscribe to follow the series and learn about the next principle, authority.

00:00 Introduction to Persuasion for Speakers

00:11 Overview of Cialdini's Principles

00:45 Deep Dive into Scarcity

04:01 Applying Scarcity Ethically

05:39 Conclusion and Next Steps

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Unlocking Confidence Through Vocal Power with Voice Coach Jimmy Cannon

Summary

In this insightful episode of the Present Influence Podcast, John Ball interviews speaking coach and voice expert Jimmy Cannon. The discussion centres around how improving your voice and vocal style can significantly boost your confidence, enhancing your effectiveness as a professional communicator. Jimmy shares his journey from being a jazz singer to becoming a vocal coach specialising in helping people overcome anxiety and vocal blocks. The conversation delves into the importance of breath control, the physiological and psychological aspects of vocal performance, and practical tips for achieving vocal variety and presence. In addition, the episode touches on techniques to project confidence and authenticity through voice, making it an essential listen for anyone looking to improve their public speaking and presentation skills.

Find out more about Jimmy at https://www.jimmycannon.com/ and take his Voice Mastery Quiz

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Voice Confidence

00:31 Meet Voice Coach Jimmy Cannon

02:10 The Importance of Voice in Professional Settings

02:54 Understanding Vocal Challenges

09:27 The Role of Values in Building Confidence

20:25 Breathing Techniques for Better Voice Control

29:38 Mastering Patrick Stewart's Voice

30:14 Voice Resonance and Placement

31:19 Old School Voice Training

33:24 Understanding Vocal Presence

34:02 Exploring Vocal Circles

36:32 Voice and Social Perception

40:41 Voice Exercises for Range and Volume

44:23 The Importance of Vocal Variety

47:38 Jimmy Cannon's Singing Journey

50:05 Conclusion and Future Episodes

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The Hidden Cost of Professionalism: Embracing Authenticity as a Professional Speaker

Summary

In this episode of Present Influence, John Ball explores how some concepts of professionalism can hinder the effectiveness of professional speakers. He delves into the importance of authenticity and individuality, explaining how holding back personal stories and characteristics can limit one's impact. Drawing on recent experiences, including a storytelling event and interviews with guests like Judy Carter and Danny Brassell, John shares a personal revelation about embracing his identity and the importance of being unapologetic for who you are. He encourages listeners to step away from commonly accepted professional archetypes and engage more deeply and authentically with their audiences.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Pitfalls of Professionalism

00:56 Breaking the Mould: Embracing Individuality in Corporate Settings

02:48 Personal Revelations: The Power of Vulnerability

08:07 Owning Your Story: The Importance of Authenticity

18:17 Conclusion: Embrace Your Full Self

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Unlock the Power of Storytelling with Danny Brassell

Summary

In this episode of Present Influence, host John Ball welcomes storytelling expert and professional speaker Danny Brassell. Danny shares insights into the significance of storytelling as a tool for connecting with audiences and increasing sales. He discusses his journey from journalism to teaching and eventually becoming a highly successful speaker and coach. The episode explores how to craft compelling stories, integrating personal failures for deeper audience connection, and the importance of persistence and motivation. Danny also offers practical advice on developing engaging presentations, crafting a powerful call to action, and building strong rapport with diverse audiences. Tune in to learn actionable strategies to enhance your storytelling and communication skills.

Get Danny's free storytelling guide here:  http://freeSTORYguide.com

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Episode

01:23 Meet Danny Brassell: A Journey of Pivots

02:04 Building a Speaking Career

03:33 Coaching and Measuring Success

04:43 The Power of Storytelling

09:57 Motivation and Persistence

18:09 Crafting Effective Presentations

20:12 Using Reminders for Personal Growth

21:13 The Importance of Clarity in Presentations

21:58 Connecting with Your Audience

22:17 The RAP Framework: Relatability, Authority, Purpose

23:33 Crafting a Memorable Presentation

26:38 The Power of Positive Storytelling

28:49 The Art of Storytelling

29:05 Practical Tips for Storytelling

34:19 Avoiding Overused Stories

35:22 Creating Relatable Stories

37:48 Free Storytelling Blueprint

38:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Go to presentinfluence.com to take the Speaker Strengths Finder and discover your greatest strengths as a speaker as well as where to focus for growth. For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn

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