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How To Feel Your Feelings (So They Stop Controlling You)08 May 202500:31:54

What if feeling your feelings didn’t mean falling apart — but actually gave you more control, not less? If white knuckling or pushing through is the best way you know how to feel your feelings. You’re not alone.Discover the hidden mistake keeping perfectionists stuck feeling on edge, why you can never outthink your feelings and the right way to feel your feelings.

Want to bring rewiring into your reality? Where being confident, certain and playful is just how you roll? Perfectionist Solutions 1-1 coaching is your next step.

Mentioned In Episode 254:

Other helpful podcast episodes in this series on How Your Brain Actually Works:

  1. Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 248
  2. Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 249
  3. Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 250
  4. Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 251
  5. Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 252
  6. Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 253

Timestamps:

00:00-Your thoughts create your feelings LIE #1
01:53-Can't Feel Your Feelings Without This
04:14-Knowing how your brain actually works
05:24-"What is Wrong With Me?" Explained
06:37-Feelings Are Psychological LIE #2
07:16-Feelings are Emotions LIE #3
08:56-Where Feelings Actually Come From
10:08-How Depersonalizing Feelings = Freedom
12:46-Turning Mom Meltdown Moments Around (Manon's Story)
14:35-How To Control Your Feelings
16:01-Rational Thinking + Decisions LIE #4
17:32-Striving For Excellence Without Pushing Through
18:29-What Your Person Account Has To Do With Feelings
19:41-How To Identify Your Feelings Fast
21:12-How To Feel Your Feelings Visual Tool
22:33-Why Meditation + Deep Breaths Don’t Always Work
23:58-Thoughts Drive Your Feelings LIES #5
25:57-Perspectacles How Feelings Shape Your Perceptions
28:37-Turning Your Mood into Useful Fuel
30:07-Where Sense Data Fits Into The Equation

How To Feel Your Feelings Q&A

Q: Why does “changing my thoughts” never changes my feelings—especially as a perfectionist?
A: This episode breaks down the myth that thoughts drive feelings (hint: it’s the other way around!). Discover why “thought work” is a torture device for perfectionidtic people and how the “CTFAR Model” does not actually work for any human with a brain

Q: What’s really going on when I’m overwhelmed by emotions even if everything looks fine on the outside?
A: You’ll learn the neuroscientific difference between feelings and emotions, plus why this distinction puts an to the cycle of overthinking feelings and asking “what is wrong with me”

Q: What's the biggest misconception high-achievers have about feelings?
A: Most of us have a totally backward understanding of where feelings come from (and it’s not just psychological!). Courtney reveals the real, science-backed answer.

Q: How can I feel my feelings without getting “lost” in them or falling apart?
A: Tune in for a client success story and discover a practical tool—the “mood meter”—to help you regain control and function, even on tough days.

Q: Does thinking rationally mean I can escape feelings?
A: Logic and rationality can’t bypass feelings. Find out why every decision (yes, even the “rational” ones!) are shaped by your mood — and how to use this...

Access Your Abilities in a Way Burnt Out You Could Never Compete With08 Apr 202500:18:36

You’re doing everything right. You’re ambitious, successful + driven. So why is it your energy is nonexistent, patience is razor-thin + your mind can't stop overthinking? If your days are starting with dread and ending in exhaustion — this episode is your wake-up call. 

On paper, you’ve got it together— isn’t it time you felt like it? Whether it's stop playing out worst case scenarios in your head or accessing your abilities in a way burnt out you could never compete with, Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/rewire

 In this Episode You’ll Learn:
  • How pushing through dewires your brain into survival mode
  • What caffeine, people pleasing + Top Ramen have in common
  • 16 surprising signs your brain is starving
  • Why ruminating and indecisiveness are symptoms—not problems to solve
  • How a healthy Person Account™ allows you to access your abilities in a way burnt out you could never compete with

 Resources Mentioned In Episode 253:
  TIMESTAMPS:

02:09-Why Perfectionists Need More Fuel for Our Brains
04:10-MYTH: You Have to Stop Being a Perfectionist
06:24-Clues You’re on the Path to Chronic Stress
09:32-Burn Out is Not the Price of Ambition
10:25-Case Study: How Stacey found Clarity, Energy, Peace
12:43-I Ruminate Over Decisions bc I Need to Make the Right Decision
14:05-Why You’re Choosing Instant Relief (and Paying Later)
16:11-A Healthy Person Account™ = Liberation
17:32-How to Always Know How Your Person Account™ is Doing

  Citations/Sources:
  1. Barrett, L. F. (2017). How emotions are made: The secret life of the brain. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.
  2. Barrett, L. F., Quigley, K. S., & Hamilton, P. (2016). An active inference theory of allostasis and interoception in depression. *Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences*, *371*(1708), 20160011. https://doi.org/10.1098/rstb.2016.0011
  3. Bobba-Alves, N., Juster, R.-P., & Picard, M. (2022). The energetic cost of allostasis and allostatic load. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 146, 105951. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psyneuen.2022.105951
  4. Dwyer, P. (2022). The Neurodiversity Approach(es): What Are They and What Do They Mean for Researchers? Human Development, 66(2), 73–92.
Overexplaining27 Oct 202400:23:41

Tired of getting tangled in your own words? Overcomplicating it? Asking "Does that make sense?" at the end of every sentence? Discover why you can't stop talking (even though you REALLY want to), the science behind overexplaining for perfectionists, how overexplaining is harmful to your health mentally, emotionally and physically, and why its a coping skill you want to retire ASAP.

On paper, you’ve got it together— isn’t it time you felt like it? Whether it's becoming much more DECISIVE in everything you do, stop playing out worst case scenarios in your head or becoming JOYFULLY PRESENT AMBITIOUS again, Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized

 TIMESTAMPS:

00:00-Understanding the Science Behind Overexplaining
02:24-Why Perfectionists Are More Likely To Overexplain
05:18-Control Tactics and Overexplaining
08:46-Self Worth vs. Self Esteem
12:32-The Emotional Charge Behind Overexplaining
14:02-Toll of Overexplaining on Mental + Physical Health
16:18-How Interoception Kills The Need To Overexplain
20:39-TRUTH BOOTH What Overexplaining Really Is
22:33-Steps to Resilience and Reducing Overexplaining

 Resources Mentioned In Episode 244:
 Citations/Sources:

Barrett, L. F., & Simmons, W. K. (2015). Interoceptive predictions in the brain. Nature Reviews. Neuroscience, 16(7), 419–429. https://doi.org/10.1038/nrn3950

‌Price, C. J., & Hooven, C. (2018). Interoceptive Awareness Skills for Emotion Regulation: Theory and Approach of Mindful Awareness in Body-Oriented Therapy (MABT). Frontiers in Psychology, 9. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.00798

Ventura-Bort, C., Wendt, J., & Mathias Weymar. (2021). The Role of Interoceptive Sensibility and Emotional Conceptualization for the Experience of Emotions. Frontiers in Psychology, 12. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2021.712418

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Pretending To Have It All Together? Harmful Perfectionism Psychology You Need To Know15 Sep 202300:14:23

As perfectionists, we're  expected to have all the answers, to be strong, in control and the one everyone we love can depend on. But what about when we have out own doubts, fears or frustrations? We often resort to wearing a mask pretending to have it all figured out to meet others' expectations. Explore the impact of pretending to have it all together and the POWER waiting for you when you unmask your true, secure, whole, perfect self. 

If you're ready to equip yourself with the best tools possible for rewiring your perfectionistic habits, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The Accelerator

Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Inside This Episode You'll Discover:

00:00:00-Introduction

00:03:18-Unspoken Pressures and Expectations on Perfectionists 

00:04:19-Sedation and Avoidance of Connection 

00:05:44-Desire for More and Judgment of Classic Perfectionists

00:06:14-Consequences of Dismissing Signs of Perfectionism

00:07:26-Importance of Having Perfectionistic Support

00:08:57-Decisions reflection of fear vs your true, secure, whole, perfect self

00:09:33-Connection as a Choice (Mamba Mentality)

00:10:34-High Cost of Not Getting Perfectionistic Support

00:11:04-Difference Between Challenge and Struggle for Parisian Perfectionists

00:12:34-Value of Proper Coping Mechanisms for Perfectionists

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

The 1 Thing That Actually WORKS To REWIRE Perfectionism14 Sep 202300:13:19

Ever decided to start working out everyday, do it for a week or two and then when life gets super busy, you're back to sloth status?  Or expected yourself to be relaxed just as soon as you finish power planning your week? Those are signs that your perfectionism is setting you up to fail.

Consider this your WARNING: you'll be tempted by productivity culture to think perfectionism hacks like "how to stop being a perfectionist" and "overcoming perfectionism" work. That's bullshit. We eventually run out of steam fighting against ourselves and need a "break" (and that break = going back to old perfectionistic habits).

I show Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator clients what ACTUALLY optimizes perfectionism...Tiny & Mighty Moves. Today I'm teaching you ALL about it on the Perfectionism Rewired podcast. Listen now!

If you're ready to  reset and take control of the end of your year, I highly recommend joining my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The Accelerator

You'll hit the ground running with  concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, all designed to fast track your own real, resilient, relevant RESULTS.

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Why 'Doing Your Best' Might Be Destroying Your Progress13 Sep 202300:07:41

If there’s 1 thing perfectionists love doing, it’s our best! It’s an outdated way to avoid failure but also the surest way to stay stuck. Giving your best doesn’t lead to success! Discover BETTER approach than doing your best and why Perfectionists who ditch doing their best accelerate faster. 

In This Episode You’ll Learn:

  • How to tell whether you’re using doing your best as an excuse
  • Why doing your best is NOT a smart strategy
  • What to do if you’re always doing your best and never feel like you're falling short
  • Why we’ve got the doing your best equation backwards. 

If you're ready to BE your best, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The Accelerator

Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. 

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How To Stop Letting People Push Your Buttons12 Sep 202300:12:10

Do other people push your buttons? Then you spin out in frustration? Learn how most perfectionists serve up their buttons on a silver platter, how to revoke other people's access to pushing yours and the Power Buttons you need to be in complete control. 

In This Episode You'll Learn:

  • Why Perfectionists are so prone to having their buttons pushed
  • How buttons become exposed
  • Practical strategies for resilience to button-pushers
  • Where to find your Proud Of Myself button
  • What trying to overcome your perfectionism results in

If you're ready to play with your perfectionism and win, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, get leverage over your whole life and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. 

Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Are You Sacrificing Too Much? Discover How to Truly Have it All!11 Sep 202300:06:18

Feel like if you're winning in your career you're failing in your relationships? The perfectionist's dilemma: success in one area comes at the cost of another. Don't settle for less when you can have it all. Listen to learn how.

If you enjoy this podcast, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, play with pressure and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. 

Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Thriving Under Pressure: Proven Ways You Can Leverage Pressure to Your Advantage10 Sep 202300:07:44

Feel like you're floundering undercurrent of stress and pressure? That's a sign pressure is choosing you, instead of YOU choosing pressure. Explore the benefits of playing with pressure, turning it into a catalyst for achievement and how you can gauge pressure across 4 key pillars of your life: Person (Body), Peace (Spirituality), Presence (Relationships) & Prosperity (Career + Growth). 

If you want to control your pressure, leverage it for peak performance and achieve with ease, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, play with pressure and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. 

Apply to The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Are You Leaking Energy? Managing Your Energy NOT Your Time09 Sep 202300:14:20

Feeling drained all the time? You might have hidden energy leaks. There are 4 areas of energy: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Each one build on top of each other. Find out where you're leaking energy and how to prosperously invest your energy for the highest returns. 

If you want to be immune to burnout,  get more done in less time and have oodles of sustainable yummy energy, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, create time for what YOU WANT to do and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

The Hidden Truth About Arrival Fallacy04 Sep 202300:17:29

Do your achievements feel hollow? Success not as satisfying as it used to be? You've worked tirelessly to achieve your goals, convinced that reaching them would bring you happiness. But once you get there...the joy is fleeting and you're left wondering "Is this it?" Welcome to the world of arrival fallacy, a perfectionism trap that convinces us overachievers to tie our self-worth to external milestones and go on a miserable never-ending chase of enough. Inside this episode is the solution: Uncovering what's motivating you and that satisfaction is not a box to be checked off.

If you want to feel as excellent as your life looks, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists, The Accelerator

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Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.

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Inside This Episode You'll Discover:
00:00:00-Introduction and The Perfectionist's Guide
00:01:10-The Growth of Change vs. Allowing
00:01:59-CLG's Journey 
00:03:20-The Fear Factor
00:04:05-The Danger Zone
00:05:09- Phantom Promise of Moving the Goalposts
00:06:34-The Unconscious Motivation
00:08:01-Arrival Fallacy Examples
00:09:10-The Power of Awareness
00:10:11-Perfectionism Trap
00:11:22-Cracking the Code To Perfectionism
00:12:19-The Change of Allowing
00:14:09-Self Awareness
00:15:01-Why You Deserve Better Professional Fulfillment

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How To Reinvent Yourself29 Aug 202300:16:47

How to reinvent yourself everyday. Reinventing yourself happens minute by minute and using your self-concept as a guide, makes it so much simpler. I'm taking you step-by-step through how to reinvent your life creatively. And why reinventing yourself can happen at any age, place or time. 

Ready to reinvent your whole life? You CAN have it ALL: presence, peace, prosperity while being a high integrity person. Choose to prioritize YOU today and join    https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

INSIDE THIS EPISODE ON HOW TO REINVENT YOURSELF:

00:00 - Introduction

01:17 - The Fragility of Self-Concept

02:25 - The Power of Internal View

03:03 - Knowing Your Current and Future Self-Concept

04:06 - The Importance of Reinventing Yourself + Self-Concept

05:18-How To Reinvent Yourself in 15 mins a Day 

06:11-Mental Plane and Physical Actions

07:22-Being vs Doing in Reinventing Your Life

08:10-Building Self-Concept Like a Muscle

09:02-Fighting Mind Games When You Reinvent Yourself

10:06-Creative Ways to Embody Your Self-Concept

11:20-External Cues and Anchors

12:13-Costumes and Role-Playing Future Self

13:08-Avoiding Dependencies When You Reinvent Yourself

14:08-Real-Life Example: The Realtor's Self-Concept

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How to stop being controlling27 Aug 202300:13:44

Where control IS trust IS NOT. Discover how to spot your controlling behaviors before they cause trouble and how to stop being controlling at work, in relationships and with yourself.

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Needing to Be 100% Certain + Uncertainty Avoidance09 Oct 202400:08:08

Craving Certainty? Need to be absolutely 100% sure before making a move? You’re not alone. In this episode, I unravel why the struggle of dealing with uncertainty holds high performance perfectionists back, how to recognize uncertainty avoidance in your own life and tools to take control of the fear, uncertainty and doubt (so it stops controlling you!). Discover practical strategies to break free from the cage of high uncertainty avoidance and gain the confidence to move forward, before every detail is known.

Ready to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to create? Waiting for the right time won't get you there. Uncover how to joyfully play in the arena of your life by rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies inside  Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching, designed exclusively for perfectionists and gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized

 TIMESTAMPS:

00:00-High Uncertainty Avoidance

00:40-What Perfectionists ARE Secretly in Control Of

01:36-Why Perfectionists Crave Certainty

02:21-Examples of Uncertainty

03:39-The Myth of Ironclad Certainty

04:47-Uncertainty Tolerance is a Learnable Skill

05:34-Making Good Decisions

06:50-Moving Forward Even When You Don't Know The Outcome

07:27-Rewiring Perfectionism from the Inside Out

Resources Mentioned In Episode 243:

Citations/Sources:

  • Anderson, E. C., R. Nicholas Carleton, Diefenbach, M., & Paul. (2019). The Relationship Between Uncertainty and Affect. Frontiers in Psychology, 10. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.02504
  • Reis-Dennis, S., Gerrity, M. S., & Geller, G. (2021). Tolerance for Uncertainty and Professional Development: a Normative Analysis. Journal of General Internal Medicine, 36(8), 2408–2413. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11606-020-06538-y
  • Seif, M. N., & Winston, S. M. (2019). Needing to Know For Sure: A CBT-Based Guide to Overcoming Compulsive Checking and Reassurance Seeking . New Harbinger Publications.

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

True Cost of Perfectionism in Your Career26 Aug 202300:17:57

How much is perfectionism costing you in your career? Uncover the *real price* you're paying as an average perfectionist with 15 real-life examples of how perfectionism manifests at work and key insights on recognizing it within yourself. CLG also addresses the pain and frustration perfectionists feel being misunderstood and dismissed by others. Tune in to learn how to navigate the challenges of being a perfectionist and create a fulfilling  + prolific career without compromising who you are. 
 

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

If you're wondering if you're a Maladaptive Perfectionist...take the perfectionism test21 Aug 202300:03:21

I created a highly effective perfectionist test for you to gain valuable insights into your own tendencies. This concise assessment consists of 11 straightforward statements for you to accurately rate your perfectionism traits. By taking this quiz, you'll confidently develop a profound understanding of your own behaviors and be fully prepared to excel at the Perfectionism Game in upcoming episodes

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

The Perfectionism Secret You're Not Supposed To Know21 Aug 202300:11:43

Revealing the perfectionism secrets you're not supposed to know, how mushrooms are just like perfectionists (and how to make sure you're a truffle and not a poisonous fungus), what parenting and perfectionism has in common, what Disney's She-Hulk teaches us about leveraging perfectionism and the No. 1 way perfectionists continue to be burnout trying to rely on sheer willpower, “grinding 24/7”, doing it alone (and how to snap out of it). 

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Perfectionistic Patterns: Reinventing Resistance to Change19 Jul 202300:22:17

Perfectionists: Are you tired of your rinse and repeat life? You’ve got no complains except... it’s not thrilling. You can feel there’s a new version of you that wants to come out.

If this sounds familiar, I’m opening up my toolbox + inviting you to do something extraordinary with me. I've developed a framework to help you meticulously identify precisely where you're resistant to change 🎯

In this episode, I share what reinvention is for perfectionists, what it’s not and two new *exclusive to podcast listeners*  ways you can dissolve your resistance to change and reinvent yourself from the ground up.

This isn’t about status quo improving yourself. It’s better than that.

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Introducing Perfectionism Rewired18 Jul 202300:01:04

I was tired of searching for an empowering podcast made for perfectionists who reject victim mentality and want to own their perfectionism. So I made one! Ditch perfectionist recovery and revolutionize with Perfectionism Rewired. The podcast that makes unlearning exhausting perfectionistic habits -as thrilling as an African safari (but without all the shots + mosquito nets). 

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How To Let Go Of Perfectionism10 Jun 202300:21:02

Perfectionists tend to get trapped in the confines of impossible standards, burdened by the weight of unrealistic expectations. This maladaptive perfectionism takes a toll on our mental health, leaving us overwhelmed with anxiety even when we successfully achieve our goals. Listen in on a very candid conversation with my client KB as she shares her personal journey of taking the courageous first step towards rewiring her perfectionistic tendencies. 
 

This could be YOUR epic story of rewiring. Ready to rise? Go to https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator 

Through KB's inspiring story, you'll discover stress-free ways to overcome perfectionism with grace, openness and allow yourself to embrace growth and learn from every experience (yes even making mistakes). Gain valuable insights into your own  perfectionist tendencies, learn new practical personal growth tools  you can start using today and how to cultivate a calm, more fulfilling life, while being true to yourself. 

Inside this episode on letting go of perfectionism:

  • Allowing yourself to look at unrealistic expectations sans shame
  • Making mistakes (and being okay)
  • First step to letting impossible standards go
  • unLearning your unique perfectionist tendencies
  • Ways to prioritize your mental health

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

The Complete Perfectionist's Guide To Victim Mentality + How to deal with people who play the victim31 May 202300:23:35

Smart, ambitious, driven perfectionistic people don't want to be a victims, yet 99% of high achievers (unknowingly) are. Discover all the ways victim mentality seeps into your identity and creeps into how you show up at work, in your relationship, parenting, etc. I'm showing you step-by-step exactly how to raise your 

If you're serious about shredding every speck of victim mentality and rewiring to an elevated, empowered Mamba Mentality then you belong inside Perfectionism Optimized. Get your stress-free start today over at  at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized

Listen to the FULL episode to learn:

  • Are you playing the victim?
  • Importance of playful curiosity and proactive problem-solving
  • Are you making commitments Out of Love or Obligation
  • How to deal with people who play the victim
  • Perception Point for Leaders vs Perception Points for Victims

 Episode 143 Timestamps

00:00-Playing the Victim

06:15-Discovering the Gold: Ownership Mindset Guide

07:43-How To Stop Being A Victim At Work

10:49-How to deal with someone who plays the victim

14:41-Shift Your Mindset: Embracing Growth Through Challenges

17:12- How Leaders Break Free from Victim Mentality

21:54- Building Resilience Daily and finding diamonds in the mud

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Victim Mentality: Power of Paradox09 May 202300:24:23

Are you ready to break free from victim mentality? Join CLG as we delve into the power of Transcendent Function,  a technique popularized by Carl Jung, and discover how it can reshape your perspective on the insidious nature of victim mentality. 

Ready to be Victorious instead of Victim? Step inside the Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator and in 6 weeks we'll squeeze every drop of victim mentality out of your system, permanently. go to  https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

YOU'LL DiSCOVER:

  • Transcendent Function: Understand the power of holding paradoxes and how it can liberate your mind.
  • Victim Consciousness: Recognize the insidious nature of victim vibes and how they manifest in our daily lives.
  • The Power of Truth: Embrace the importance of being brutally honest with oneself to foster growth and transformation.Play with the power of paradox
  • Detect subtle victim mentality in your own communications and other people's
  • Cultivate refreshing self-honesty to cancel victimhood + build inner strength
  • Discover the value (+ necessity) of a guide when rewiring
  • Realize the significance of a 1% reduction in victim vibes in healing generational trauma

Key moments in this episode are:

00:02:32 - Using Victim Language As Currency

00:03:21 - Transcendent Function Applied To Victim Mentality IRL

00:06:57 - Beauty Occurs When You Stop Fighting Your Unconscious 

00:08:15 - I Don't Know Is a Lie When It Comes To Yourself

00:10:17 - Ways to Stop Being A Victim in your Life

00:12:36 - CLG Facing Her Own Victim Mentality When Client Ghosted Their Bill

00:15:11 - Recognizing and Owning Entitlement

00:16:29 - Replacing Wishbones with Backbones

00:19:00 - Microscopic Truthfulness and Expansion

00:21:08 - The Danger of DIY

00:22:09 - Reducing Victim Mentality

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Going From Good To Great + Great to Excellence29 Apr 202300:14:35

Gay Hendricks calls this your "upper limit" your internal barometer for how much joy, success and satisfaction you allow yourself to experience as an overachiever. Discover the 7 signs that you're not allowing yourself to fully experience life's pleasures and blocking yourself from truly enjoying your life to the fullest.

If want to go from great to UNSTOPPABLE ferocity, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for overachievers The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, leverage your strengths and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.

Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator


Inside This Episode You'll Learn:

00:00:00-Introduction and "The Perfectionist Guide" newsletter.

00:01:32-UnderstandingYour Upper Limit and Havingness level

00:03:15-How to reset and increase your Havingness level

00:04:16-Underearning and overworking.

00:05:05-Clutter and disorganization.

00:05:48-Being overly critical of yourself and others.

00:07:16-Starting but not finishing projects.

00:09:29-Overconsumption without enjoyment.

00:10:09-Intimacy issues.

00:10:59-Discomfort with compliments.
 

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How To Rewire Any Limiting Belief17 Apr 202300:12:21

Ever feel like your brain is betraying you? Here's your roadmap to rewiring any limiting belief and nurturing intricate relationship between your mind + change. 

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator  is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

In Episode 141 You'll Learn:

  • The pitfalls of blindly following thoughts and perceptions.
  • Escapism and its role in drowning out inner voices.
  • The tug-of-war between conscious resistance and limiting beliefs.
  • Your A-HA Moment: realizing your mind's incessant chatter isn't the ultimate decision-maker.
  • The dangers of returning to old patterns and how the universe sends wake-up calls.

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Waiting For the Right Time08 Oct 202400:08:45

Are You Waiting for the Right Time? It’s time to stop waiting for the perfect time. Feeling 100% ready (or whatever ideal set of conditions you’ve been waiting for) is an illusion that keeps you from taking charge of your life right now. Learn how to recognize if you’re giving your power over to ideal circumstances and how to take control. 

Ready to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to create? Waiting for the right time won't get you there. Uncover how to joyfully play in the arena of your life by rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies inside  Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching that gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized

 Resources Mentioned In Episode 241:

Citations/Sources:


Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

The Sneaky High Performance Habit Holding You Back16 Mar 202300:16:35

If you’re constantly listening to podcasts,  reading books, signing up for courses, watching YouTube videos and researching how to fix your problem du jour -- I'm revealing 5 ways your thirst for knowledge is unknowingly sabotaging your efforts when it comes to strengthening YOU. If you're always seeking ONE more piece to make it all make sense or to fix you, this episode is for YOU.

Tired of waiting for “things to calm down” so you can FEEL better? Whether it's becoming much more DECISIVE in everything you do, the ability to fall asleep without obsessing over your to do list or PRESENCE with your family (no more catastrophizing) When you join Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator you get customized 1-1 coaching + the EPIC SKILLS that LIBERATE you from intrusive thoughts, self-sabotage and put you back in command. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Inside Episode 140 You'll Discover:

  • Why more information isn’t always better
  • The real reason high performers become information addiction
  • How Knowledge Keeps You Powerless against actual change
  • Potent practice to FINALLY let go of compulsive tendencies to learn more
  • THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION YOU'LL EVER ASK YOURSELF

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Human Design LIES to Stop Telling Yourself Immediately12 Mar 202300:11:21

Don't get duped by these insidious Human Design lies that rob you of your own experience. If you've ever felt like you're just another cog in the wheel, this episode is your wake-up call that will show you how to break free from stereotypes and status quo.

If want to go from great to freaking amazing, you  gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for overachievers The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, leverage your strengths and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.

Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator


Inside The Episode On Human Design Lies You'll Learn:

00:00:00-Introduction to Human Design
00:01:06-Why Human Design is NOT a one-size-fits-all approach 
00:02:29-Debunking Human Design Myths
00:05:17-Crafting Your Decision Doctrine
00:08:16-The ripple effect
00:09:50-How Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator will help you

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Why am I self-sabotaging03 Mar 202300:11:40

What's your self-sabotage showing you?  That you fear success? Lingering limiting beliefs? Listen to discover how to get out of your own way and change the perfectionistic patterns creating your self-sabotaging behaviors. 

If you want to make self-sabotaging extinct in your world  I highly recommend checking out my 1-1 coaching for Type-A perfectionists The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you relieve the pressure, use your perfectionism to your advantage and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.

Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

In this episode on stop sabotaging yourself you'll learn

  • How to stop success-threatening self sabotage in your subconscious... before it surfaces.
  • 13 lies all intelligent perfectionists always tell their inner critic (and how to stop).
  • A scientifically proven way (discovered by Carl Jung) to permanently stop sabotaging yourself (Regardless of your cognitive dissonance or limiting beliefs now)
  • Being aware you’re self sabotaging means you’ll stop doing it. Right? Wrong!
     

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Self-Compassion even when You're the WORST27 Feb 202300:16:12

Fierce self compassion is possible, even when you're the worst. Listen to find out how. 

If you want to go from great to extraordinary and do the big BOLD things that’ve been on your ❤️ + mind for years, your next step is getting inside The Accelerator. Apply here today https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Underrated Human Design Element That’s Secretly Running Your Energy20 Feb 202300:12:43

The part of your Human Design that's influencing ALL of your RELATIONSHIPS + how quick you are on the update REVEALED + made delicously simple with awesome analogies. HD devotees and I-just-got-my-bodygraph-5-minutes-ago will benefit from this tiny + mighty episode. Press play + enjoy!

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

7 Signs Your Root Chakra Needs to Calm The F Down15 Feb 202300:13:43

Is your root rotten😂? Find out if your Root Center (in Human Design speak) aka Root Chakra is hemorrhaging your precious life force energy. This is an Equal Energetic Opportunity episode: Defined Roots, Undefined Roots, Open Roots, unsure wtf kind of root you have-- listening will profoundly help you get to the root of your time, money, control, survival issues AND increase your ability to be grounded and gathered.

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Elevating Your Perception On Problems11 Feb 202300:11:24

Uncover exactly why your approach to problem solving is actually creating way more problems + how to stop having the same problems show up. This episode will shows you how to elevate your perception point.

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Taking Charge Even When Life Throws You Curve Balls24 Jan 202300:25:17

When life throws you curve balls (like C-PTSD for me), you get to take charge and author your own story. This episode is your playbook on how.

If you want to go from great to fucking amazing and do the big BOLD things that’ve been on your ❤️ + mind for years, I highly recommend checking out The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you beat procrastination, optimize perfectionism and become time affluent - it includes on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

You’ll have the option to learn everything on the go with easy mobile access. Plus with judgement-free support + fire 1-1 coaching you’ll never have to feel alone again.

Join The Accelerator 1 to 1 coaching program today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

YOU'LL DISCOVER IN THIS EPISODE:

00:00-Introduction & The Perfectionist Guide
00:23-The Audacity to Rewrite Your Narrative
01:35-When Rewriting Isn't Enough: Real-Life Challenges
02:57-The Power of Authoring Your Narrative
03:49-Understanding Complex PTSD
06:11-The Impact of 
08:31-Resistance and Growth
10:48-The Metamorphosis of Courtney Love Gavin
11:35-Labels and Empowerment
14:35-The Choice to Heal or Not
16:08-Disempowered vs Empowered Stories
18:48-The Gangster Within: Embracing Challenges
20:59-Leveraging Your Weaknesses as a Perfectionist 
22:42-The Safe Zone: You Are the Authority
24:14-Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator

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Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How You Can Take Control of Your Challenges19 Jan 202300:24:02

When you’re not leveraging your perfectionism properly, the stories you tell about your life are wildly inaccurate and often crippling. You are the AUTHORity of your life. Conduct yourself accordingly. This episode is putting the POWER back into your own hands so you can tell stories about yourself you actually WANT TO BE LIVING. Plus find out the neuro linguistic programming science of why being wrong feels so right. 

If you want to stop telling yourself sh!tty stories and be the AUTHORity of your life, I highly recommend checking out The Accelerator

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you beat procrastination, optimize perfectionism and become time affluent - it includes on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

You’ll have the option to learn everything on the go with easy mobile access. Plus with judgement-free support + fire 1-1 coaching you’ll never feel alone again.

Join The Accelerator 1 to 1 coaching program today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator
 

Inside This Episode You'll Discover:

00:00-Introduction & Perfectionist's Guide

01:35-The Power of Stories in Your Life

03:35-The Role of Dopamine in Storytelling

05:29-How to Change Your Story When You're A Perfectionist

07:12-The Paradigms You Live In

09:05-The Vibrational Charge of Words

11:20-Tools for Realigning Your Stories

13:15-Breaking Free from Genetic Programming

16:01-A Real-Life Example: The Pharmacy Story

18:12-The Choice to Believe

20:07-A Potent Practice for You

22:22- How The Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator Changes Your Story

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

LINE 1 - 1ST LINE - Human Design & Gene Keys 1/3 - 1/4 - 4/1 - 5/1 profiles10 Jan 202300:08:06

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for LINE 1 - 1ST LINE Human Design & Gene Keys 1/3 - 1/4 - 4/1 - 5/1 profiles. Now is the time for you to anchor into your gifts and be a beacon shining out with your creative genius. Your groundedness, your ability to dig deep as a First Line, that stability you embody helps puts everyone in your orbit at ease. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 1st lines! 

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How to Get More Confidence (Instead of Waiting For It)06 Oct 202400:10:17

Ever wish you had more confidence?  Too many driven perfectionists wait for more confidence before making bold moves, mistaking insecurity for preparation. But waiting is killing your confidence slowly. 'm clearing up all the  confusion around getting more confidence so you can stop waiting for it to show up and giving you the exact formula  to get more confidence today!

Ready to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to create? Waiting for more confidence on the sidelines won't get you there. Uncover how to joyfully play in the arena of your life by rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies inside  Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching that gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized

 Resources Mentioned In Episode 241:

Citations/Sources:

  • Bandura, A. (1977). Self-efficacy: Toward a unifying theory of behavioral change. Psychological Review, 84(2), 191–215. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-295X.84.2.191
  • Katie Stringer Lucero, & Chen, P. (2020). What Do Reinforcement and Confidence Have to Do with It? A Systematic Pathway Analysis of Knowledge, Competence, Confidence, and Intention to Change. Journal of European CME, 9(1), 1834759–1834759. https://doi.org/10.1080/21614083.2020.1834759

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

LINE 2 2nd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 2/4 - 2/5 - 5/2 - 6/2 profiles10 Jan 202300:07:21

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for LINE 2 2nd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 2/4 - 2/5 - 5/2 - 6/2 profiles. Your passion sparks passion in others. It electrifies, initiates, excites and enriches everyone in your orbit. Focus on the gifts that come most naturally to you and #truthbooth you likely won't see them on your own. This is why it is paramount for you to have someone in your life to reflect back your gifts and so you can really see where your blind spots are. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 2nd lines! 

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

LINE 3 - 3rd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 3/5 1/3 - 6/3 - 3/6 Profiles10 Jan 202300:08:00

This is a channeled attunement for LINE 3 - 3rd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 3/5  1/3 - 6/3 - 3/6 Profiles. The bigger you play, the more daring you are, and the more lightness, fun + levity you inject yourself and your creations with-- the more piles of success you are going to have to play with. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 3rd lines! 

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

LINE 4 - 4th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 4/6 - 4/1 - 1/4 - 2/4 Profiles10 Jan 202300:08:23

This is a channeled attunement for LINE 4 - 4th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 4/6 - 4/1 - 1/4 - 2/4 Profiles. Nuturers by Nature! You're designed to show up to your relationships with a full cup,  overflowing with love + generosity. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 4th lines! 

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

LINE 5 - 5th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 5/1 - 5/2 - 2/5 - 3/5 Profiles10 Jan 202300:07:40

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for LINE 5 - 5th Line Human Design & Gene Keys 5/1 - 5/2 - 2/5 - 3/5 Profiles-- NOW is a very, very exciting time for a 5th line to be alive because it's the moment for smashing old paradigms and luminous leading, innovating an entirely new structure and language that can maximize this amazing creative genius that is inherent in all humanity. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 5th lines! 

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

LINE 6- 6th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 6/2 - 6/3 - 3/6 - 4/6 Profiles10 Jan 202300:09:14

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for line 6 6th Line Human Design & Gene Keys 6/2 - 6/3 - 3/6 - 4/6 Profiles. You see the truth behind it all. You're here to play the long game and you hold outrageously elephant size, powerful codes for humanity. There can be a lot of angst. Because you have this knowing inside of you that there's something in the future that that's coming for you, whatever phase you are at in your six line journey.  Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 6th lines!

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Languaging Secrets to Rewire Your Subconscious Mind!10 Jan 202300:06:35

Leap into your audaciousness with these neuro-linguistic programming audios personalized for your individual energetics to  reprogram your subconscious. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Redefining Perfectionism: How Gene Keys and Human Design Hold the Key08 Jan 202300:19:11

Straight up science about Neutrinos. SuperNova 1987A. Avoiding Human Design thirst traps. Cherry picking the best of HD + Gene Keys to illuminate the expansion that's available to you -- right now. PLUS wtf difference btwn Astrology, Human Design and Gene Keys-- ANSWERED.  Listen to learn how both systems can help you stay in alignment. 

If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator
 

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

From Burnout to Brilliance: How Individualized Energetics Can Transform Your Life04 Jan 202300:19:37

Tired of chasing external validation? Find out how tools that use your Individualized Energetic like Gene Keys can help you to embrace self-compassion and thrive. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support, The Accelerator is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Key Highlights of the Episode
  • Moving from hierarchal structures to synarchy aka joint sovereignty
  • How freedom to be our own authority can subconsciously lead us to buying into personal development programs/coaches that put someone other than YOU as the expert
  • Why us believing in our own unique individual energetics dissolves the insidious hierarchal "buy my high frequency formula" plague
  • Making purchasing decisions from Trust, Sufficiency and Delight (instead of FOMO, not enough and validation)
  • Why following someone else's blueprint will never work as good as your own
  • Empowering each person with their unique energetics = permanent proven method that's not bound to a one size fits all approach
  • Going through a transition? When there's a time your identity can feel like it's lost or you're not sure who you are, this brings you back to the core of, oh this is who I've always been"

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Healthy Habits For A New Year01 Jan 202300:34:34

Exactly how to surface your exponential growth and create a new year full of healthy habits. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support, The Accelerator is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Key Highlights of the Episode

  • Being radically reverent of yourself and making THAT your baseline for heading into the New Year.
  • "This is your life, not a shopping trip to Costco"- Top 3 ways you are sabotaging your future + how to stop it right now
  • Why zipping past your celebrations always delays what you want
  • It's not a fucking fluke-- going from random beneficiary  to Powerful Creator
  • How to create your future from your Future instead of a Default Future

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Time Efficient (The Only 2 Perception Points You Need)19 Dec 202200:25:46

Learn how to be productive, super time efficient and make the most of the time you have, no matter how busy you are. 

Ready to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to create? Uncover how to joyfully play in the arena of your life by rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies inside Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching where you gain the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized
 

Key Highlights of the Episode
  • Parkinson's Law + how to be productive
  • Time affluence + how you can relax, pursue pleasurable activities and nurture relationships
  • Why your words can depreciate your time (and what to say instead)
  • Two perception points you need to be time efficient
  • Your number one time management skill (hint: it's not your watch or calendar)
     

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

What Happens When Perfectionists STOP WAITING FOR More Information06 Oct 202400:16:33

 Lifelong learner but not taking bold action? I used to wait for more time, more confidence, more certainty, more information, more money and more support. Then I’d get MORE of what I was waiting for….and still find excuses to keep waiting. Until one day I quit waiting for more. Find out why perfectionists love to wait for more, precisely how this keeps you stuck and what happens IRL when perfectionists stop waiting for more information. 

Ready to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to create? Waiting for more on the sidelines won't get you there. Uncover how to joyfully play in the arena of your life by rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies inside  Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching that gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized

 Resources Mentioned In Episode 240:

Perfectionism Optimized 1-1 Private Coaching

Fixed Mindset Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 234

Unlearning Learned Helplessness Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 202

6 Self-Sabotaging Patterns Perfectionists Unknowingly Nurture Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 215

The Sneaky High Performance Habit Holding You Back Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 140

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

How To Control Your Time: The Guilt-Free Guide to Creating A Spacious Schedule10 Dec 202200:21:02

Feel like you never have enough time? I’m diving into 7 reasons you never have enough time and precisely what to do to reclaim your time so you can use it in a more intentional and meaningful way. If you want to be in 100% control of your time and always have time to do everything YOU WANT to do,  I highly recommend checking out The Accelerator.

When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you relieve the pressure, optimize perfectionism and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair- with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more! 

Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you will never feel alone in your pursuit of relentless excellence. 

Join The Accelerator 1 to 1 coaching program today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

In This Episode You'll Learn:
  • Why prioritizing yourself makes you more present, productive and successful, not less
  • One question that reveals if you  actually have a time management issue
  • Genius ways to minimize distractions (sounds weird but they WORK)
  • Why prioritizing yourself makes you more present, productive and successful, not less
  • The ways fear of judgement holds you back.
  • Gain a deep understanding of how people-pleasing manifests in your schedule

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

ADHD Procrastination (why traditional plans fail)07 Dec 202200:10:12

The allure of planning lies in the illusion of control it offers. Making us  ADHD perfectionists believe we've achieved something monumental. But life, with its unpredictable twists and turns, often has other plans. And when reality doesn't align with our meticulously laid out plans, the fallout can be harsh. We berate ourselves, question our worth, and waste precious energy trying to stick to a plan that's no longer relevant.

Feeling trapped in a monotonous cycle of chasing success without savoring the journey? The Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator might just be the answer. You CAN change. You can start TODAY. Go apply for the Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator while there’s still time here: https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator 

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Resting Feels Risky? How To Learn To Relax02 Dec 202200:10:49

Why can't I just relax? Why does resting make me MORE anxious? How come I can't take naps unless I'm beyond exhausted?Resting when you genuinely love to work can feel like a punishment, especially if no one taught you how to relax, it's a skill and for us perfectionists, resting must include two vital ingredients.  Find out how you can design your rest in a way that builds up your energetic capitol instead of feeling like you're doing nothing. 

If you want to rest without guilt and accomplish more while actually ENJOYING your life, you've got to check out The Accelerator

When you're inside the The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you relieve the pressure, use your perfectionism to your advantage and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!

Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.

Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

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