Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
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| How to Navigate Parental Guilt | 29 Aug 2024 | 00:16:53 | |
What if the key to being a better parent isn't being perfect but embracing our imperfections? It's time to get real about the rollercoaster journey of parenting, which is filled with mistakes, learning, and growth. Today, I will talk candidly about the misconceptions around "parenting experts" and our own expectations as parents. I’ll share my experiences, exploring how moments of stress, like a recent family vacation, can shed light on our triggers and mistakes and how we can transform these mistakes into valuable lessons for ourselves and our children. In This Episode:
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| Case Study: What to Do When Your Child Says "No" to Everything | 27 Aug 2024 | 00:15:28 | |
What do you do when a nine-year-old flat-out refuses to take a shower? How might giving your child more autonomy reduce daily power struggles? In today's episode, we dive into these nuanced dynamics of connected parenting. Joining me today is Jade, a dedicated mother juggling a blended family and her journey into connected parenting. Jade shares her struggle with her strong-willed nine-year-old daughter who challenges the status quo by simply saying, "No." Together, we explore the beauty of natural consequences, the search for autonomy in adolescence, and the importance of connection over control. In This Episode:
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| Maintaining Connection During the Teenage Years | 25 Jul 2024 | 00:12:53 | |
Have you ever felt like you're losing your little one as they grow into a teen? Imagine the mix of pride and heartbreak as your child starts to pull away, seeking independence while you long for those cozy, close moments. How do we navigate this bittersweet transition? Today, I explore the emotional rollercoaster of transitioning from parenting young children to guiding adolescents. It's a journey filled with unexpected challenges and poignant moments of letting go. As our children grow and seek more independence, we often feel a deep sense of loss, coupled with the fear of not being needed anymore. But this phase, while challenging, is also a crucial period of growth for both parents and children. I’ll share with you my own struggles and realizations during my daughter Esme's transition into adolescence. From feeling like the center of her world to navigating the painful moments of rejection and the need for autonomy, I want you to understand how important it is to reframe these experiences. By leaning into connection, understanding our children's need for independence, and finding new ways to bond, we can maintain a strong, supportive relationship. In This Episode
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| Manifesting the Relationship You Want | 14 Sep 2023 | 00:13:33 | |
As a parent, I have come to understand the significance of positivity and self-belief. In today's world of parenting, it is crucial to reshape our relationships with our children. Instead of labeling them as "difficult," we should view their behaviors as a sign of struggle and support them accordingly. By fostering strong connection with our kids, we can bring a positive change in family dynamics and have a profound impact on our children's lives. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Why I Don’t Correct My Kids | 12 Sep 2023 | 00:17:25 | |
Today I want to challenge some long-standing parenting beliefs, specifically the idea of correction and why the conventional methods of correcting our kids might not be as effective as we think. Children already know when they've made a mistake and our role as parents should be to connect and empathize rather than correct. I encourage you to try a ten-day challenge where you put aside correction and focus on nurturing your parent-child relationships through empathy, play, and affection. I truly believe it’s a journey worth exploring. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Unpunished: Understanding Your Parenting Instincts | 07 Sep 2023 | 00:11:15 | |
As parents, we often encounter difficulties when our children bring up unresolved emotions and behaviors from our own upbringing. It is essential to be aware of these emotions and reprogram our natural parenting instincts so that we can respond with love, kindness, and understanding instead of anger and punishment. Today, I would like to share an excerpt from my book, "Unpunished," along with some useful journaling prompts that can help us explore our own history and emotions as parents. By doing so, we can gain a deeper understanding of our reactions to our children's behavior and improve our parenting skills. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Understanding Your Child's Temperament | 05 Sep 2023 | 00:13:35 | |
As parents, we often encounter kids with two distinct temperaments. The first type values their authenticity and won't betray themselves, even if it means risking their relationship with their guardian. The second type of child remains loyal to their caretaker and will do anything to comply with their wishes, often leading to a lack of personal growth. Rather than resorting to control to bring these kids to a middle ground, we can help them find balance by using connection and unconditional love. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Mother Wounds | 31 Aug 2023 | 00:12:01 | |
I was deeply hurt by two mothers when I was young, my biological mother who left when I was twelve, and my stepmother who came into the picture shortly after. Both of these mother wounds shaped the way I began my parenting journey and set me on a path that would have been similar for my children. But it was this that led me to find connected parenting and I was able to change the way I parent and in turn, limit the mother wounds for my kids. If we want to prevent these mother wounds then we have to do the deep transformative work in our parenting. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Sibling Rivalry: Why What You’re Doing Is Making It Worse | 29 Aug 2023 | 00:10:20 | |
Today, I'm digging into sibling dynamics. From my own struggles with my sister growing up to parenting my two daughters, it's been a journey. When I became a parent of two girls I immediately started overcorrecting their fights, because I didn't want their relationship to be like mine was growing up. But that only fueled the fire. It took me a while to realize my actions were rooted in my past triggers. Here's the deal: connection is everything. Sibling relationships thrive when individual bonds are strong. Check out today’s episode and the replay of my masterclass on Sibling Rivalry, it could be a game-changer for you. Check out my masterclass Sibling Rivalry: Why What You’re Doing Is Making It Worse Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Case Study: I Didn’t Want to Spank | 24 Aug 2023 | 00:24:48 | |
As a parent, Casey faced immense pressure to resort to spanking her children. However, upon discovering my podcast, she felt a strong connection to my approach towards parenting. By joining the Connected Parent Mastermind, she was able to eliminate the use of threats and punishments altogether. Through this, she was able to foster a deeper connection with her children. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Case Study: The Most Helpful Tools | 22 Aug 2023 | 00:17:54 | |
Today, I have Sharon, one of my Connected Parent Mastermind students who joined the program after having significant clashes with her autistic son. Sharon shares some helpful tools from the mastermind that allowed her to parent both of her kids with more connection and reduce the clashes. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Interested in private parenting sessions: https://courses.peaceandparenting.org/private-sessions Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Case Study: How We React to Tantrums | 17 Aug 2023 | 00:18:20 | |
Today, I have a conversation with Danielle, who is one of my students in the connected parent mastermind group. We discussed the significance of connection and how providing our children with emotional support during intense moments can have a positive impact on future interactions. During our conversation, Danielle shared a story about an incident that occurred while camping with her son. Her son had a tantrum and even went as far as pointing a fake gun at her. However, what surprised her was how both of them handled the situation. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Case Study: Minimizing the Yelling | 15 Aug 2023 | 00:23:01 | |
Today, we are joined by Cass and Kathryn from Morrow Marriage, a couple dedicated to helping other couples save their marriages. The Morrows recently became private clients of mine after a heated argument with her daughter resulted in a moment Kathryn was not proud of. During our collaboration, Cass and Kathryn noticed a significant improvement in their children's behavior. Yelling became less frequent, tantrums were shorter, and they observed more displays of affection and kindness. It's evident that the techniques we implemented had a positive impact on their family. Want to connect with Cass & Kathryn find them here: https://morrowmarriage.com/ Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Case Study: How to Handle Sibling Conflict without Taking Sides | 23 Jul 2024 | 00:19:56 | |
Are you struggling with sibling rivalry or managing multiple kids' needs? Imagine a morning when you’re pulled in every direction, resolving online meeting issues for one child while another is desperate for your attention. How do you manage these conflicting demands without losing your cool or compromising the peace in your home? Today I’m joined by Stephanie, a dedicated stay-at-home mom from Virginia. With four children aged between 6 and 14, Stephanie faces the daily challenges of balancing her kids' needs while maintaining boundaries with empathy. Through our discussion, we uncover some practical solutions for managing sibling rivalry and ensuring each child feels connected and valued. In This Episode
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| How Can We Be More Empathetic with Our Kids | 10 Aug 2023 | 00:11:41 | |
I understand that learning empathy can be a challenging journey, especially if it's not something that was modeled for us in our own upbringing. However, I've learned that empathy is a crucial component of creating a strong connection with our children. That means being present with them, especially during times of big emotions, listening with an open heart, and truly hearing what they have to say. If we can do that, we have the power to turn those moments into opportunities for connection, and that can make all the difference. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Punishing Aggressive Behavior Doesn’t Work | 08 Aug 2023 | 00:13:56 | |
When a child starts hitting, kicking, or becoming aggressive, our initial reaction is often to punish them. However, punishing a child by sending them to time out, taking away their favorite activity, or grounding them for a weekend, does not effectively teach them right from wrong. I believe that no punishment can teach them because they already know what they did was wrong. What’s going on in these circumstances is that their prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for reasoning, is not fully developed yet, making it difficult for them to make sound decisions, which happens as adults too. Today I’ll share with you what you can do when aggressive behavior shows up in your kids. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Are You Battling with a Strong-Willed Child | 03 Aug 2023 | 00:10:46 | |
Raising strong-willed kids can be hard. They can be stubborn and difficult to handle. They are often very sensitive and take criticism personally, which can make them fearful and angry. To help them, we need to connect with them. By building a strong relationship, we can help them feel safer, more secure, and more supported. Listen in today for some techniques that may help them to become more cooperative, resilient, and confident. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Things Are Good Now | 01 Aug 2023 | 00:14:34 | |
Today, I am feeling particularly grateful for the relationship I have with my children and wanted to share my experience with you in the hopes that it may offer some hope and inspiration. At one point in my journey as a connected parent, I felt so overwhelmed that I considered giving up and resorting to punishments. However, I am so glad that I persevered because it has made all the difference in the world. It hasn't always been an easy road, but the benefits of connected parenting have been well worth the effort. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Case Study: My Son Has Behavioral Issues | 27 Jul 2023 | 00:17:40 | |
Araminta was struggling with her child's behavioral issues when she discovered Peace and Parenting, which proved to be a lifesaver for her. After signing up for personal coaching the most important lesson she gained was that her son understood the difference between right and wrong, but lacked the ability to regulate his emotions. With this knowledge, Araminta is now better prepared to deal with her son's tantrums and intense feelings without becoming upset herself. She has discovered a method for remaining calm and collected in difficult circumstances. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Parenting Is Relationship Building Not Behavior Control | 25 Jul 2023 | 00:11:34 | |
As parents, it's natural for us to want our child's bad behavior to stop. But we must remember that kids will act in childish ways because that's just what they are – kids. We need to let go of the idea that we need to find a parenting technique that will miraculously stop bad behavior and instead, shift our mindset to cultivating a long-lasting relationship with our kids. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Are You Quick to Anger with Your Kids? | 20 Jul 2023 | 00:11:56 | |
Early on in my parenting journey, I snapped at my daughter and yelled so loudly that I scared her. I needed her to listen to me and respect me, but I was actually trying to fulfill an unmet need I had experienced when I was a child. I wanted to be a parent so badly, and I wanted to do it better than my parents. I was trying to be Super Mom, and when my daughter didn't recognize my efforts, I got pissed. If you find yourself easily getting angry and snapping at your children, today's episode could help you examine your inner self and understand what triggers that behavior. Download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| My Child Prefers the Other Parent | 18 Jul 2023 | 00:11:43 | |
It's completely normal for young children to exhibit a preference for one parent over the other. This doesn't necessarily reflect on your parenting skills. It's simply a common phase that many kids go through. If your child is going through this phase, it's important not to take it personally. However, it's crucial to bear a few things in mind during this phase. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| It’s Not Too Late | 13 Jul 2023 | 00:11:29 | |
In this episode, I share a personal experience that made me rethink my parenting approach and discover the power of connected parenting. I truly believe that it's never too late to mend relationships with your children, regardless of their age. It's also never too late for parents to make positive changes, and I want you to know that you're not alone in your journey. I used to struggle with being a threatening, yelling, and controlling parent, but I was able to make changes and I have faith that you can too. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Meet Martha One of Our New Connected Parent Mastermind Teachers | 11 Jul 2023 | 00:20:12 | |
Martha faced challenges in deciding how to parent her children, struggling to choose between using punishment and rewards or being permissive. However, after discovering this podcast and going through my coaching she discovered the benefits of connective parenting, which allowed her to empathize with her kids and drastically improve their relationship. And now, Martha is leading one of my Connected Parent Mastermind groups. Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration. Space is limited, so be sure to sign up now if you're interested. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Challenging Conventional Parenting Wisdom | 18 Jul 2024 | 00:13:59 | |
Ever wondered if punishing your child for bad behavior might actually be counterproductive? Picture this: your child hits their sibling. Instead of a timeout, what if you offered a hug and some empathy? How might that change the dynamic? I want to challenge some deeply rooted beliefs in traditional parenting that may benefit from a new perspective, such as the notion that punishment is essential for teaching right from wrong. I believe our children naturally desire to do well and that their behaviors often indicate a need for connection rather than defiance. By understanding the underlying needs that drive your child’s actions, you can foster a stronger bond and guide them with empathy and respect. In This Episode
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| Schools Need to Prioritize Connection Not Curriculum | 06 Jul 2023 | 00:19:04 | |
The impact of standardized testing on the learning experience is quite significant. Teachers are under an immense amount of pressure to produce results since funding is often linked to test scores. This puts them in a difficult spot, as they strive to educate their students while also trying to achieve good grades on tests. Unfortunately, this emphasis on test scores and the curriculum has led to a disconnect between educators and their students. Our education system is mainly focused on performance, but this approach may not be the most effective way to promote learning. If we prioritize building relationships and fostering connections, we may be able to give our students a better chance at academic success. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Fighting in Front of Your Kids Is Healthy as Long as You Do It Right | 04 Jul 2023 | 00:11:03 | |
It's important to be mindful of how we handle disagreements in front of our kids. Engaging in arguments that involve belittlement, shaming, yelling, or even throwing things can cause anxiety and even aggression in our children. Moreover, they may mimic these behaviors in future arguments because that’s what they were modeled. On the other hand, by demonstrating how to remain calm and composed during an argument, we can teach our kids valuable life skills. Fighting in a healthy way can teach them valuable life skills and positive conflict resolution. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| How Connection Can Stop Kids Hitting, Kicking, and Biting | 29 Jun 2023 | 00:12:51 | |
In our society, there is a common belief that children who exhibit strong emotions, reactions, and aggressive behaviors are the ones who need to be punished and corrected. However, it's important to recognize that the child who is hitting, kicking, or biting is likely the one who is in pain and struggling, and until we can help them feel better and more connected, everyone around them is at risk of getting hurt. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| What to Do if Your Child Has a Friend or Significant Other That You Don’t Like | 27 Jun 2023 | 00:12:01 | |
Are you worried about your child's choice of friends or that new boy they’re spending so much time with? Today I want to provide you with some guidance on how to handle these situations. It's important to give your child space and support so they can come to their own realizations on how to handle this kind of worrying relationship. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Society’s Need to Diagnose | 22 Jun 2023 | 00:13:37 | |
Today I tackle a big question from one of my Instagram followers about the bent that society has to label or diagnose young kids with bad behavior, they tend to want to put these kids in a box but the problem here is that this box has been created using artificial parameters around rewards, punishments and threats. Today I share my thoughts on what needs to change because we want our children to be more than just obedient soldiers, which is what society seems to be trying to shape them into. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Morning Meltdown | 20 Jun 2023 | 00:12:29 | |
As parents, we all know how tough it can be to deal with tantrums when we're trying to leave the house. It's important to connect with our children in the morning and set a positive tone for the day. In this episode, I will offer you some helpful suggestions for avoiding these challenges and handling difficult situations with understanding and compassion. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| The Difference Between Cooperation and Compliance | 15 Jun 2023 | 00:13:12 | |
When we ask our kids to do something, like a household chore or lend a hand, it's important to approach it in a way that fosters cooperation rather than just demanding compliance. Nobody likes being forced to do something for someone else. Tune in today for some helpful tips on how to encourage cooperation from your kids. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| How to Get My Child to Sleep on Their Own | 13 Jun 2023 | 00:11:21 | |
In today's episode, I'll be answering a question from an Instagram follower who is seeking advice on how to help their 11-year-old child sleep without their presence. This is a common issue, so today I’ll share some helpful tips to assist in getting children of any age to sleep on their own. However, be prepared you may need to experience some big icky feelings. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Navigating Big Feelings In Public | 08 Jun 2023 | 00:13:21 | |
I often discuss the importance of allowing children to experience and express their emotions, however, what should we do when our children have these emotional outbursts in public places, like a tantrum at the mall, in line at the supermarket, or even worse, in the middle of a flight? Today, I would like to share how I handle these situations, and spoiler alert… much of it involves releasing any concern about the opinions of others. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| What to Do if My Child Doesn’t Do Well in School | 06 Jun 2023 | 00:13:17 | |
It can be challenging to decide on the best way to approach your child's grades because each child and situation is unique. However, I would like to share some ideas today on how to manage this situation in a way that prioritizes your relationship with your child and lessens the societal expectations that often come with “good grades”. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Case Study: Can Letting Kids Choose Their Bedtime Improve Your Relationship? | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:27:59 | |
Are you unknowingly falling into controlling patterns with your kids? Can relinquishing bedtime control to your kids transform your evenings and lead to a more harmonious family life? Today, we explore the delicate balance between control and connection in parenting. I am joined by Carolyn, a mother of three adorable girls, as we explore her journey of shedding control and embracing relational parenting. I dig deep into Carolyn's realization of mirroring her father's authoritarian style and discuss how to pivot towards more empathy-driven interactions. We discuss Carolyn's specific struggles with sibling rivalry, and I offer practical advice on handling these using natural consequences instead of punitive measures. I hope our conversation provides you with valuable insights and tools to reconsider your approach to parenting. Whether you're dealing with sibling rivalry, bedtime routines, or simply want to improve your family dynamics, this episode has something for you. In This Episode
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| Parenting Hacks to Make Life Easier | 01 Jun 2023 | 00:14:47 | |
As a fellow parent, I've gathered some quick and useful parenting tips over the years that can help you take a break or handle challenging situations more easily. These hacks are aimed at making your life as a parent a bit smoother. I hope you find them beneficial! Interested in Transcendental Mediation? Check out the link here: https://www.tm.org/ Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Connection With Teenagers (with Kirsten Cobabe) | 30 May 2023 | 00:24:42 | |
Many people have contacted me requesting more episodes on teenagers, so I have invited teen whisperer Kirsten Cobabe to join me today. We will be discussing the significant change that occurs when our children transition from wanting to do things with us to desiring independence. Our conversation will include curfews and how, despite appearing more like adults, teenagers still get dysregulated and still have big feelings. Check out Kirsten on Instagram: @kirstencobabe Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| How I Use Connection With Chores | 25 May 2023 | 00:14:23 | |
Let's face it, chores can be a real drag for everyone, even you! So don’t expect your kids to jump at the chance to do them whenever you ask. What we’re hoping for really, is just less protesting. In this episode, I’ll give you some tips about dealing with chores and share with you my story of how I used connection consistently, and sure enough over time got the results I was after. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| What Do You Do When the Principal Calls | 23 May 2023 | 00:11:15 | |
Episode Description: Have you received a call from the principal asking you to come into the school because your child has been involved in some sort of incident? If so it may have brought up feelings of concern and shame because we think it's a reflection on us. Today I want to give you some helpful tips on how to handle this situation with calmness and connection both with your child and with the teachers. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| How Do You Know if Connected Parenting Is Working | 18 May 2023 | 00:14:43 | |
If you're worried that connected parenting will never work, or that you might be stuck in these intense emotions forever, don't lose hope. Today, I would like to share with you a few small things to take notice of that can provide you with encouragement that your efforts are paying off. Just keep at it, and things will improve! Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Unpunished: Redefining Parenting Through Connection | 16 May 2023 | 00:09:55 | |
Today I want to read to you another excerpt from my new book Unpunished, it’s from the chapter entitled Redefining Parenting Through Connection and I share with you what happened when I shifted away from a desire to control to a desire for relationship with my kids. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Buy my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| A Little Pep Talk | 11 May 2023 | 00:13:26 | |
Today I want to give those who have started on this journey of connected parenting some much-needed encouragement. We can often get stuck in the muck what with all the refusals, fighting, poor choices, and big feelings. But bad moments don’t mean you are not progressing, and every day you need to look for those beautiful moments too. Listen in as I give you some indicators that you’re on the right track. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Parenting With a Partner | 09 May 2023 | 00:17:43 | |
Today I want to help parents trying to implement connected parenting with their partners. I’ll talk about the challenges of using different parenting styles and how to avoid shaming your partner. I also have some great tips for getting your partner on board if they haven’t already started the connected parenting journey yet. Because what kids need the most is a consistent and supportive parenting approach. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Showing Unconditional Love | 04 May 2023 | 00:11:11 | |
If I asked any parent if they love their kid unconditionally they are more than likely going to say yes, but how do we show our kids this? Because it's a very different feeling coming from the child's side of things. We can tell them this over and over with our words but kids make this assessment based on how we act and more importantly react to them. Today I want to help you with some thoughts about showing our kids unconditional love. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| How to Use Play in Parenting | 02 May 2023 | 00:12:06 | |
Today I want to explore how play can be a powerful tool to shift the mood of your family, salvage challenging interactions, and ultimately build connection with your kids. I’ll share with you the importance of timing and give you some practical tips for incorporating play into your parenting toolkit. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Tips for Enjoying Summer with Your Kids (Without Spending $$$) | 11 Jul 2024 | 00:12:56 | |
Are you dreading the summer chaos with kids at home all day? Imagine a summer where connection replaces stress and laughter fills your home. How can you create magical moments without the pressure of extravagant plans? Today, I want to offer some help to parents struggling with their kids at home during the summer. I want to help you make it enjoyable for both you and your kids. Summers can be challenging with the lack of routine and constant presence of children, but it’s also a perfect opportunity to lean into connections. In this episode, I'll share some practical tips and gentle reminders to help you stay calm and connected during the summer months. In This Episode
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| Are You the Default Parent | 27 Apr 2023 | 00:14:22 | |
Have you at any time thought to yourself what is wrong with my parenting? Why are my kids so good with other people but with me, they throw tantrums, yell, scream, and disobey? It’s not because you’re doing something wrong it’s because you’re doing something right. You are likely their default parent which means you’re their only safe place to go when they need to unload their big feelings, but of course, this can become overwhelming. Today I give you some great advice to help you if you find yourself as the default parent. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| I Don’t Discipline My Kids, Here’s What I Do Instead | 25 Apr 2023 | 00:13:50 | |
When I say discipline, most of us immediately go to a vision of punishing our kids when they do something wrong, like confiscating something or time outs. For some, it can even mean physical punishments like spanking. That’s because we have a very traditional sense of the word discipline. I don’t use any of these traditional forms of discipline on my kids, that's because they are watching every move I make and will inevitably do the same when I’m not around. We have to give our kids credit for knowing what’s right and wrong and instead, try to model the behavior which we want them to embody. Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. Follow Peace and Parenting: Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||
| Peace and Parenting Trailer | 20 Apr 2023 | 00:00:59 | |
Hey fellow parents, I’m Michelle Kenney, a former yeller, recovering perfectionist, and a reformed control freak. For the last 20 years, I have been helping parents find more calm and peace at home. I do this by helping them move away from yelling, threats, and bribes and into more connection with their kids. Every Tuesday & Thursday I release a new episode with practical tools, and evidence-based research to help parents navigate conflict, set boundaries and foster positive family dynamics. Find an episode topic that speaks to you and check it out, I would love to help you find more peace at home. Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy | |||