What changes when you stop performing “good parenting” for others and focus on what works for your family? In this episode, Melissa and Esther talk with prolific content creator Shawna Lander about the messy, funny, and deeply human realities of becoming a mom. Get ready to unpack how becoming a mother transformed Shawna’s identity and career, leading her to write hilarious and honest skits about the real-life struggles no one prepares you for. Shawna Lander is the hilarious mind behind the “Shawnaverse,” where her sharp, heartfelt mom-skits help parents feel seen in all their messy glory. She’s an actor, writer, mom, and cancer survivor. What you’ll learn in this episode: (01:37) Why judgment shows up everywhere in parenting and how to recognize it without letting it define you. (06:47) How seeing your child as a whole human changes the way you handle tough moments. (09:20) Why your child’s “inconvenient” behavior might actually be healthy self-advocacy. (12:18) How understanding someone’s upbringing can completely shift how you interpret their parenting style. (15:45) Why encouraging autonomy in young kids sets them up for stronger self-identity later on. (18:12) How to parent through major life challenges. (27:09) What happens when parenting roles shift. (35:21) Why protecting kids from every hardship can backfire. Thank you to Shawna Lander for being on our show! Follow Shawna: https://www.instagram.com/shawnathemom and https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnathemom and https://www.youtube.com/@shawnathemom. Subscribe and follow the "We’re Doing Great" podcast by Melissa Cash, Esther Huybreghts, and the Pok Pok team: * Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1855989506 * Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ItWi8W0bYFS6yplP3tQii * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WereDoingGreatPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weredoinggreatpod/ * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@weredoinggreatpod We’re Doing Great is the parenting podcast that helps you navigate the hard stuff, savor the good stuff, and remember you’re not alone. Hosts and moms, Melissa Cash and Esther Huybreghts, team up with experts to share practical guidance on how to stay anchored when the waters get rough. Join us on the frontlines of modern parenting as we explore what it really means to be good at the hardest job on earth. Pok Pok is on a mission to help raise the next generation of creative thinkers through non-addictive, digital tools that help them think outside the box and learn through play. Learn more about Pok Pok: https://playpokpok.com. Follow Pok Pok on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@studiopokpok?sub_confirmation=1 This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/

As a parent, how can you build real in-person connections when you feel overwhelmed or isolated?  In this episode, you’ll dive into why raising kids today often feels so lonely—and what you as a parent can actually do to change that. Peanut CEO Michelle Kennedy joins Melissa and Esther to open up about the realities of modern parenthood and gives practical, compassionate steps for finding real connection again. Michelle is also the author of It Takes a Village, a book filled with real stories of modern motherhood. Peanut is kind of like Bumble for moms—a wildly popular social networking app helping millions of women navigating fertility, pregnancy, motherhood or menopause find connection and support.  What you’ll learn in this episode:  (01:25) Why today’s parents are the loneliest generation.  (03:06) How community spaces disappeared over time.  (06:54) Why resourcing your life like you would a business can help you navigate childcare and shared support. (08:20) How finding just one friend with aligned values can change your entire parenting experience. (19:00) Why getting uncomfortable is the first step to making meaningful mom friends. (20:25) How connection evolves as your kids grow.  (22:45) How to understand the difference between social media consumption and true, reciprocal community. (30:34) Why prioritizing yourself is essential.  Thank you to Michelle Kennedy for being on our show!  Learn more about Michelle: https://michellekennedy.co Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellekennedylon/ Follow Peanut to get connected with other mothers and find your village: https://www.instagram.com/peanut  Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellekennedy2/ Get Michelle’s new book, It Takes A Village, from Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0241709989  Or from Amazon UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0241709989  Subscribe and follow the "We’re Doing Great" podcast by Melissa Cash, Esther Huybreghts, and the Pok Pok team:  * Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1855989506 * Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ItWi8W0bYFS6yplP3tQii * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WereDoingGreatPodcast?sub_confirmation=1  * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weredoinggreatpod/  * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@weredoinggreatpod  We’re Doing Great is the parenting podcast that helps you navigate the hard stuff, savor the good stuff, and remember you’re not alone. Hosts and moms, Melissa Cash and Esther Huybreghts, team up with experts to share practical guidance on how to stay anchored when the waters get rough. Join us on the frontlines of modern parenting as we explore what it really means to be good at the hardest job on earth. Pok Pok is on a mission to help raise the next generation of creative thinkers through non-addictive, digital tools that help them think outside the box and learn through play. Learn more about Pok Pok: https://playpokpok.com. Follow Pok Pok on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@studiopokpok?sub_confirmation=1   This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/ 

What is Melissa and Esther’s mission behind creating a podcast that focuses on imperfect parenting?  In this first episode, you’ll meet Melissa and Esther as they share why they created a parenting podcast that lifts you up instead of overwhelming you. You’ll hear candid stories, real-life chaos, and a lot of laughter as they set the tone for honest, judgment-free parenting conversations.  What you’ll learn in this episode:  (01:38) How short, digestible episodes are designed to fit seamlessly into a busy parent’s day. (02:08) Why so much parenting content causes anxiety, and what this podcast aims to do differently. (02:44) How reminders of what’s working in your family can be more powerful than advice about what’s wrong. (05:23) How confronting your own fears (like bugs!) shapes what you teach your kids. (06:00) Why vulnerability between parents help build community and reduce self-judgment. (09:32) Where to follow the hosts and how joining early helps grow a supportive parenting community. Subscribe and follow the "We’re Doing Great" podcast by Melissa Cash, Esther Huybreghts, and the Pok Pok team:  * Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/es/podcast/were-doing-great-a-podcast-for-imperfect-parents-by-pok-pok/id1855989506 * Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ItWi8W0bYFS6yplP3tQii?si=uhYAT_KpSlKDXmFv14tDAQ * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@studiopokpok?sub_confirmation=1  * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weredoinggreatpod/  * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@weredoinggreatpod  We’re Doing Great is the parenting podcast that helps you navigate the hard stuff, savor the good stuff, and remember you’re not alone. Hosts and moms, Melissa Cash and Esther Huybreghts, team up with experts to share practical guidance on how to stay anchored when the waters get rough. Join us on the frontlines of modern parenting as we explore what it really means to be good at the hardest job on earth. Learn more about Pok Pok: https://playpokpok.com. We’re toymakers in a digital age. Our mission is to help raise the next generation of creative thinkers. And our design process is simple: kids are in charge. This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/

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How can you tell if your child’s struggles are normal or a sign of ADHD? And, how do you decide whether to pursue a formal ADHD diagnosis? In this episode, hosts Melissa Cash and Esther Huybreghts talk with psychologist Dr. Carrie Jackson to unpack the truth about ADHD in children. Together they explore early signs, gender differences, and how parents can support their kids without shame or stigma. Dr. Carrie Jackson is a licensed psychologist who specializes in ADHD in children—and she has ADHD herself, so she gets it. She’s on a mission to help parents understand their kids’ unique brains and build calmer, happier homes along the way. What you’ll learn in this episode: (03:50) How ADHD really shows up in kids—and why it’s not always what you think. (06:11) The key differences between ADHD in boys and girls, and why girls are often diagnosed later. (07:52) How outdated gender stereotypes and diagnostic criteria affect how ADHD is identified in children. (10:50) Why ADHD tends to run in families and what that means for parents with similar traits. (12:47) The first steps to take if you suspect your child might have ADHD. (14:38) Why typical parenting strategies don’t work for ADHD brains, and how to adapt your approach. (17:10) How to use visuals, structure, and environmental cues to help ADHD kids stay organized and calm. (24:11) How to reduce shame, build confidence, and help your child thrive with ADHD. Visit https://www.drcarriejackson.com to learn more about Dr. Carrie Jackson’s ADHD resources, expert advice, and supportive parenting tools. Be sure to connect with Dr. Carrie on social media to ask questions and learn more about ADHD in kids: * Dr. Carrie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carriejackson/ * Dr. Carrie’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarriejackson * ADHD Parenting Course: https://www.drcarriejackson.com/connectedandpracticalparenting * Free ADHD Parenting Guide: https://www.drcarriejackson.com/free-parent-guide * Dr. Carrie’s Private Practice: https://www.socalchildpsych.com/ Here’s the timer clock discussed in this episode: Yunbaoit Visual Timer: https://amzn.to/4ipWzj9 Subscribe and follow the "We’re Doing Great" podcast by Melissa Cash, Esther Huybreghts, and the Pok Pok team: * Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1855989506 * Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ItWi8W0bYFS6yplP3tQii * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WereDoingGreatPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weredoinggreatpod/ * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@weredoinggreatpod Here’s the timer clock discussed in this episode: Yunbaoit Visual Timer: https://amzn.to/4ipWzj9 We’re Doing Great is the parenting podcast that helps you navigate the hard stuff, savor the good stuff, and remember you’re not alone. Hosts and moms, Melissa Cash and Esther Huybreghts, team up with experts to share practical guidance on how to stay anchored when the waters get rough. Join us on the frontlines of modern parenting as we explore what it really means to be good at the hardest job on earth. Pok Pok is on a mission to help raise the next generation of creative thinkers through non-addictive, digital tools that help them think outside the box and learn through play. Learn more about Pok Pok: https://playpokpok.com. Follow Pok Pok on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@studiopokpok?sub_confirmation=1 This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/

Which hygiene routines actually matter for preventing illness in your home? In this episode, Melissa and Esther chat with beloved pediatrician Dr. Mona about what parents really need to know about kids getting sick. This conversation explores practical, pediatrician-approved strategies for hygiene, symptom monitoring, and knowing exactly when to seek extra help. Dr. Mona Amin is a board-certified pediatrician and the creator of PedsDocTalk, a global parenting education platform offering evidence-based guidance with zero guilt and tons of warmth. What you’ll learn in this episode: (05:17) Which hand-washing habits make a real difference. (08:42) Whether changing clothes after daycare or school is truly necessary. (13:48) How dirt, pets, and outdoor play help train a child’s immune system. (22:48) How to tell when your child’s symptoms need medical attention and how to trust your intuition. (33:22) The core pillars of creating a healthy household during sick season, including sleep, hydration, ventilation, and low stress. (37:06) Practical tools like saline spray, warm air, and outdoor time to help kids recover. (42:04) Dr. Mona’s philosophy of staying “hopeful, not naive” to reduce spiraling and raise emotionally resilient kids. Thank you to Dr. Mona Amin for being on our show! Learn more about Dr. Mona and PedsDocTalk: https://pedsdoctalk.com and https://www.instagram.com/pedsdoctalk/ Subscribe and follow the "We’re Doing Great" podcast by Melissa Cash, Esther Huybreghts, and the Pok Pok team: * Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1855989506 * Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ItWi8W0bYFS6yplP3tQii * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WereDoingGreatPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weredoinggreatpod/ * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@weredoinggreatpod We’re Doing Great is the parenting podcast that helps you navigate the hard stuff, savor the good stuff, and remember you’re not alone. Hosts and moms, Melissa Cash and Esther Huybreghts, team up with experts to share practical guidance on how to stay anchored when the waters get rough. Join us on the frontlines of modern parenting as we explore what it really means to be good at the hardest job on earth. Pok Pok is on a mission to help raise the next generation of creative thinkers through non-addictive, digital tools that help them think outside the box and learn through play. Learn more about Pok Pok: https://playpokpok.com. Follow Pok Pok on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@studiopokpok?sub_confirmation=1 This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/