Old Ladies Know Stuff with Rhonda Stoppe & Friends – Détails, épisodes et analyse

What would you grab if you had sixty seconds to leave your home forever?

It's a question most of us have never had to answer. We did during the California Wildfires. And Lot's wife did too. And her answer — told not in words but in one devastating backward glance — cost her everything.

Lot's wife had a home. A life. Possessions. A community she had built in Sodom. And when God said go — she couldn't resist one last look at everything she was leaving behind.

And in that one moment of looking back, she was gone.

Now before we shake our heads at Lot's wife — Rhonda wants us to look in the mirror first.

Because if we're honest?

We do it too.

We look back at the comfort we've lost. The life we planned. Things we thought we deserved. Stuff we accumulated can quietly become more important than our obedience to God.

And Rhonda's phrase for this episode will stay with you long after it's over —

"People over possessions."

IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL DISCOVER:

• The sobering story of Lot's wife and the one backward glance that changed everything
• Why God's command to not look back was about so much more than direction — it was about the condition of her heart
• The powerful phrase Rhonda returns to again and again: "People over possessions"
• How our attachment to comfort, stuff, and security quietly competes with our obedience to God
• The liberating truth that when we choose people over possessions — we gain something no stuff could ever give us

KEY SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:

• Genesis 19 — The story of Lot's wife
• Luke 17:32 — "Remember Lot's wife" 
• Matthew 6:19-21 — "Store up treasures in heaven"
• Luke 12:15 — "Life does not consist in an abundance of possessions"

RHONDA'S KEY PHRASE FOR THIS EPISODE: "People over possessions."

Write it on a sticky note. Let it be the filter through which you make decisions this week and always.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

📚 Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful — Rhonda Stoppe Available at NoRegretsWoman.com and wherever books are sold

🎙️ Watch all Moms of the Bible chapter teachings FREE on Rhonda's YouTube Channel Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman (Watch This episode Here)

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SHARE THIS EPISODE with the mom in your life who needs permission to let go — of the stuff, the plans, the backward glance — and run forward into everything God has for her.

Because the life God is calling you toward is always better than the one you're looking back at.

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EPISODE DESCRIPTION:

Pull Up a Chair: The Conversation Every Mom Needs to Hear —Rhonda Stoppe &

Deb Weakly Get Real_A Podcast Takeover You Don't Want to Miss

What happens when two women who have spent decades pouring into moms, marriages, and families sit down together and just talk?

You get this episode.

Rhonda Stoppe of Old Ladies Know Stuff and Deb Weakly of Help Club for Moms are taking over each other's podcasts — and the wisdom they serve up in this conversation is the kind you only get from women who have lived it, prayed through it, failed at it, repented of it, and come out the other side still standing — and still deeply in love with Jesus.

In this warm, honest, laugh-out-loud and occasionally tear-jerking conversation, Rhonda and Deb tackle the real stuff — the things moms and wives are thinking about at 2am when they can't sleep:

You'll hear Deb share the single piece of parenting advice that stopped her cold — one look at her daughter's tiny hands that changed everything about how she showed up as a mom.

And you'll both laugh and nod along as these two women remind you that the gray hairs are earned, the lessons are hard-won, and the best is absolutely still ahead.

Because here's what Rhonda and Deb both know to be true:

God chose you — in this moment in history — to raise this generation. And He will not leave you to figure it out alone.

This episode covers the best marriage advice nobody tells you, the danger of making your children your best friend, what Eve's "just a little bit more" moment has to do with your scrolling habits, why stepmoms matter more than they know, the power of Scripture memory at 2am when anxiety won't let you sleep, and why linking arms with other women isn't optional — it's obedience.

Come for the wisdom. Stay for the friendship. Share it with every mom and wife you know.

Because old ladies really do know stuff — and they want to share it with you.

FIND RHONDA: NoRegretsWoman.com | Moms of the Bible | Podcast: Old Ladies Know Stuff FIND DEB:HelpClubForMoms.com | Podcast: Help Club for Moms

Deb Weakly | Co-Founder | Executive Director | Content Creator | Mothering Kit Mentor

Deb Weakly is a co-founder of Help Club for Moms, a ministry that encourages women in their faith and offers practical resources to help them thrive. She is a contributing writer to the book of the same name, The Help Club for Moms: Inspirational and Practical Help for You, Your Home, and Your Family, and to its companion series of books titled The Wise Woman. Deb and her husband, Randy, have two grown children and one grandchild.

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

In this powerful finale to our "Moms of the Bible" series, author Rhonda Stoppe tackles one of motherhood's greatest paradoxes: pouring your heart into raising children who will one day live without you—often without others ever knowing your name.

Drawing from the unnamed mothers in Scripture, including David's mom and the mothers of Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, Rhonda reveals how the most influential cultural changers often come from quiet, faithful homes where moms prioritized biblical truth over public recognition.

Discover why helicopter parenting might be robbing your children of the very courage they need to face their giants, and learn how to raise kids who can fail and recover under your watchful eye before they face the world alone. Rhonda challenges moms to reject apathy, embrace urgency, and understand that your ministry isn't about earning applause—it's about equipping the next generation to stand strong when everyone else bows to cultural pressure.

Whether you're a fearless mom, a flawed mom, or a faithful mom still finding your way, this episode will ignite fresh passion for your God-ordained calling in this generation. Your name may never make headlines, but your influence will echo through eternity.

TO WATCH Rhonda presenting this content on her YouTube Channel click HERE.

Join the conversation at @RhondaStoppe and share in the comments how you're raising world-changers in your own home!

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The New Loneliness: Finding Connection in an Isolated World

In this heartfelt conversation, Rhonda Stoppe welcomes her dear friend and mentor, award-winning author Cindi McMenamin, to discuss her timely new book The New Loneliness: Nurturing Meaningful Connections When You Feel Isolated.

Whether you're a pastor's wife feeling the unique isolation of ministry, someone navigating a failed friendship, or simply wondering why you feel so alone in our hyper-connected world, this episode offers profound hope and practical wisdom.

Cindi and Rhonda explore:

• The loneliness epidemic and how post-COVID habits have isolated us without our realizing it
• Why technology makes us feel more connected but leaves us lonelier than ever
• How to heal from betrayed or failed friendships with biblical grace
• Walking through health scares, diagnoses, and unanswered prayers while trusting God
• The power of Titus 2 relationships and finding "your people"
• Practical steps to sense God's presence when you feel He's far away
• Why choosing faces over screens can transform your relationships

With vulnerability and authenticity, Cindi shares her own journey through a cancer scare, friendship struggles, and seasons of profound loneliness—revealing how God draws us closer in our most isolated moments. This conversation will minister to your heart whether you're in a difficult season right now or want to help someone who is.

Perfect for: Women in ministry, those feeling isolated, anyone recovering from broken relationships, or those seeking to build meaningful community in a distracted world.

Resources mentioned: "The New Loneliness" book and devotional by Cindi McMenamin, available on Amazon and wherever books are sold. Connect with Cindi at StrengthForTheSoul.com.

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Finding Your Way Back to Christ

Have you ever felt distant from God after a season of closeness? In this powerful episode, Rhonda shares seven practical steps to reignite your intimate relationship with Jesus. Drawing from the Apostle Peter's journey—from his bold declarations to his devastating denial and ultimate restoration—Rhonda reminds us that even our failures can humble us and prepare us for greater service.

Discover how to:

• Seek God intentionally through daily prayer
• Read Scripture with fresh eyes, focusing on God's character
• Write and meditate on the Psalms
• Learn the names of God and what they reveal about Him
• Draw inspiration from biographies of faithful believers
• Ask God for help without hesitation
• Press on without giving up

Whether you're coming back from a season of wandering or simply longing to deepen your walk with Christ, this episode offers hope and practical guidance. Rhonda vulnerably shares her own struggles with falling short and reminds us that God's grace meets us in our humility.

As Peter discovered after his restoration, our greatest ministry often flows from the seasons where we've been broken and rebuilt by God's love.

Article Mentioned: Finding Your Way Back to Christ

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

On today’s Guest Cast episode we honor the memory of the late Dr. James Dobson. Please join Dr. Dobson's edition of Family Talk, with guest: Rhonda Stoppe, author of Moms Raising Sons to Be Men, where Rhonda offers help and hope for women to build a no regrets life. Listen as Rhonda shares practical and hope-filled encouragement for anyone who feels stuck in regret. 

Mother's of adolescent sons, Rhonda warns “it is possible for a mother to deny a boy his manhood as he grows up.” And if she does, Stoppe says he’ll become a mama’s boy, and will still be sitting on the couch when he’s 40 years old. Especially as a boy enters puberty, he needs to answer to his father, or, if a dad is not in the picture, then a godly man who will affirm him in his masculinity.

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The Hero's Journey of Motherhood: Embracing Imperfection with Rhonda Stoppe and Mandy Arioto

Join us for an incredibly honest and refreshing conversation with parenting expert Rhonda Stoppe and MomCo's Mandy Arioto as they tackle one of motherhood's biggest myths: the need to be perfect.

In this vulnerable discussion, both moms share raw, real stories from their own parenting journeys—from postpartum meltdowns on freeways to forgotten baked beans that became family legends. You'll discover why 93% of moms feel pressure to be perfect, and more importantly, why our kids don't actually need perfect mothers.

What You'll Learn:

• Why authenticity beats perfection in motherhood every time
• How to model healthy apologies and humility for your children
• The transformative power of viewing motherhood as a "hero's journey"
• How God uses the everyday chaos of parenting to shape us into better people
• Why your worst parenting moments might become your family's favorite stories

This episode will leave you feeling encouraged, understood, and ready to embrace the beautiful mess of real motherhood. Perfect for any mom who's ever felt like she's failing—spoiler alert: you're not.

Duration: 39 Minutes / Suitable for: Parents, especially mothers

As the host of Bloodline & Backbone and The Mandy Show, Mandy offers powerful insights and candid conversations that resonate with today’s moms, helping them navigate their unique journeys.

Under Mandy’s leadership, MomCo (formerly MOPS) expanded its reach to over 10 million people annually, making a profound impact on moms globally. Mandy is known for her deep empathy and practical solutions that empower women to grow in their roles as mothers and in their personal and spiritual lives.

When she’s not speaking on stages across the globe or writing books that challenge the status quo, you’ll find Mandy, her husband Joe, and their three kids scaling mountains and seeking

wild adventures in Denver, Colorado. Learn more about Mandy at www.mandyarioto.co.

WATCH this LIVE Stream interview on Rhonda's YouTube Channel: 

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ABOUT THE MOM CO

MomCo is a non-profit organization that encourages and equips moms of young children to realize their potential as mothers, women and leaders, in relationship with Jesus and in partnership with the local church. MomCo — then, simply known as MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers)—was founded in 1973 when seven women in Colorado invited moms to meet regularly to grow together as women, parents, and leaders, with the ultimate goal of reaching women with the hope of Jesus. Today, the small gathering they called MOPS now extends to

101+ countries, 25 languages, 72,000+ meetings a year and influences over a million moms annually.

For more information about Bloodline & Backbone and available Mother’s Day resources, visit themom.co. Follow The MomCo on

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How Divorce Effects Children & What You Can Do to Help 

Welcome to "Old Ladies Know Stuff," where wisdom meets real-life challenges. I’m your host, Rhonda Stoppe, and today we’re diving into a topic that’s close to many hearts: how divorce affects children and what you can do to help. There’s a common belief that kids will be happier if parents are happy—even if that means splitting up—but decades of research, and years of personal experience as a pastor’s wife and youth minister, show us the real impact divorce can have on young lives.

In this episode, we’ll unpack both the short-term and long-term effects of divorce on children, exploring feelings of insecurity, rejection, resentment, and even financial stress. We’ll talk about practical steps parents can take to support their kids, ways mentors and community can make a difference, and the spiritual implications that often go overlooked. Whether you’re already divorced, considering it, or searching for hope and healing for your family, this is a safe space to find encouragement, resources, and honest conversation—no shame, no judgment. Just heartfelt advice from someone who’s walked alongside countless families on this journey.

Let’s come together to learn, support one another, and discover how, even amid brokenness, there’s hope for joy, restoration, and a brighter future for our children.

This is a popular article Rhonda wrote for Crosswalk.com  

Be encouraged as she reads the article with insights you may not have considered  

Read the article here: https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/divorce-and-remarriage/what-are-the-negative-effects-of-divorce-on-children.html

The Powerful Effect Divorce Has Upon Children by Rhonda Stoppe 

Keywords: divorce effects on children, emotional impact of divorce, long term effects of divorce, short term effects of divorce, child insecurity after divorce, feelings of rejection in children, blended families, fatherlessness, children’s mental health, poverty after divorce, behavioral problems in children, parental conflict, ministry to divorced families, Christian perspective on divorce, remarriage effects on children, child resentment, coping with divorce, child responsibility for divorce, healing after divorce, spiritual implications of divorce, family structure impact, academic well-being of children, church support for divorced families, role models for children, financial difficulties after divorce, youth ministry and divorce, motherless children, counseling for divorce, support for custodial parents, grief and loss in children, hope after divorce

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

In this incredibly uplifting and informative conversation, UnTriggered author Amber Lia shares encouragement for every mom longing for freedom from anger and the self-condemnation that often accompanies it. This sixty-day devotional touches on heart issues like releasing comparison with other moms, becoming a results-free mom, resisting comparison of children, gaining confidence in listening to the Holy Spirit, embracing the gift of motherhood, and more. Packed with spiritual encouragement, UnTriggered also includes easy "put it into practice" steps.

Quote: 

There is so much opportunity for hope to move forward. I mean, my kids, they I don't think they remember those early days at all when I was so triggered. You know, they don't remember who that mom even is. And I know that for some of us, our kids are older, but but first we have to allow God to forgive us. He is so gracious. He says in Psalm one zero three, he talks about how he remembers that we are but dust.

And he looks he looks at us with compassion as a loving father, that our sins are as far as the east is from the west, he says. And so receiving that grace from the Lord and then being so full of that that it overflows for ourselves. The enemy's gonna want you to replay all of that. And that's when we just have to take those thoughts captive and say, nope. I'm clean. I'm forgiven. And all I can do now is the next right thing with my kids. I can make progress with them.

I can bring healing, and I can pray through that and trust the Lord. But don't give up on it. It's never too late. There's never too much damage. There's nothing beyond God's healing hand. So do not despair.Find Untriggered Book and all of 

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Young Women_What I Wish I Knew Then_a message with Rhonda Stoppe. 

Due to laryngitis I had to cancel my interview scheduled to air today. But I think this timely message will be a great substitute as I share from my heart all the insights to help young women step into adulthood with their eyes fixed on Jesus. 

Quote: "May His Word stir in your heart a passion to become all that He has planned for you to be from before the foundations of this world!"

Rhonda taught this message at an intimate outdoor young women's tea party for her home church's young adult ladies. 

Note: You'll hear a rooster crowing in the distance (repeatedly). But I feel like the rooster's crow only adds to the quaintness and intimacy of this event. 

Books Mentioned: Real Life Romance by Rhonda Stoppe (Harvest House Publishers). 

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