Ever witnessed something so awkward, funny, or shocking that the person had no idea you were watching? In this episode, we ask the question: What’s something you saw someone do that they didn’t know you saw? From accidental confessions to moments that can never be unseen, we share stories that prove some things really do happen when no one thinks anyone’s looking.

Welcome back!In today’s episode, we’re diving into the opinions no one asked for, but everyone secretly wants to hear. From questionable life choices to pop-culture chaos, we’re serving up hot takes so spicy they might melt your screen. Grab a snack, buckle up, and prepare to disagree (or agree way too hard).🔥 Drop your own hot take in the comments!0:00 INTRO4:45 Riddle Me This8:53 Uruje’s hot take13:44 Bye bye wifi19:29 Wokeness24:42 Health40:09 SRK41:13 Nutella42:00 Pakistani desserts44:52 Kaala namak (black salt)45:18 Marriage49:00 Swifties53:44 Emotional boys

In this episode, we read postpartum stories submitted by you, our community. From moments of deep anxiety to unexplained feelings, loneliness, and emotional overwhelm, these are the real experiences of parents navigating life after birth.We also open up about our own journeys through postpartum, what surprised us, what scared us, and what we wish someone had told us.This isn’t about scaring anyone. It’s about honesty.

In this episode, Uruje and Hina bring back the topic of Toxic In-laws. They discuss some of the stories sent to them by their followers and go over common in-law issues that married women and men face. Instagram: @OKMomPodcast Tiktok: @okmompodcast Youtube: Ok, Mom Podcast

In this episode, Uruje & Hina bring on their first guest Taimour, who is Uruje's youngest sibling. They all discuss the differences of growing up in a Desi household for younger and older siblings, and other struggles.

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In this episode, Uruje & Hina discuss gifting in relationships and marriage. They also talk about whether a "push present" should be mandatory or not.

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In this episode, Uruje & Hina discuss the struggles they faced being second-generation immigrants. They do a deep dive into how the need to fit in was so strong, and yet there was always a feeling of not belonging anywhere.

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In this episode Uruje & Hina talk about the concept of "Log Kya Kahenge" which means "What will people say?" They do a deep dive into this phrase and how it has impacted them and so many other around them.

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In this episode Uruje and Hina talk about the transition into mom life and also the transition from one to two to three or more kids. The struggles you face, during that period and how to overcome the hard times.

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In this episode Uruje and Hina discuss what they would do when faced with making decisions for their kids. They discuss mom guilt and talk about bullying.

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In this episode Uruje and Hina discuss the elephant in the room when it comes to marriage. da. da da....IN-LAWS! They talk about some issues they have heard of and how they would handle toxic in law situations.

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In this episode Uruje & Hina go over the responses they received when they asked their followers on social media "what's the worst experience you've had with toxic aunties or uncles talking shit." They also share their own experiences of toxic desi culture.

In this episode Hina & Uruje test out the contraction machine on a very willing male candidate. They also talk about their experiences during labour and differences between a natural birth (no pain meds) versus one with an epidural.

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SURPRISE! We’re dropping a bonus episode because we just couldn’t wait to talk about the final chapters of A Court of Thorns and Roses . And let’s just say… it’s a ride. 😅In this episode, we break down all the twists, turns, and emotional moments of the ending, with plenty of wild theories, dramatic reenactments, and uncontrollable laughter along the way. If here for the fae chaos, this one’s for you.

In this episode we share some of our personal labor & delivery and post-partum horror stories. We also discuss some of our scariest moments as post-partum moms.

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In this episode we talk about Nazar or the evil eye. We also discussed sharing our children's pictures on socials and judgy moms.

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In this episode we talk about our parents generation, and all of their struggles as immigrants. We also talk about the impact that had on us being their kids, childhood trauma and how that has shaped us into who we are today.

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This is a collaborative episode with Ok Mom Podcast and Crumbl Cookies Canada. Hina and Uruje are reviewing Crumbl's menu of the week featuring six of their delicious cookies, and renaming them with mom names for all the moms out there. We are also hosting a Giveaway in this episode. Details below. GIVEAWAY DETAILS: 1. Share your Crumbl Cookie mom name on our IG Story (in the box provided) 2. Follow  @OKMomPodcast  on Instagram and Tiktok 3. Follow @crumblcookies.ca on Instagram and Tiktok **Giveaway is open to Canadian residents only. **Giveaway ends on November 9th, 2023 at midnight. **Winner to be announced on November 10th, 2023.

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n this episode we test different desi snacks, and rate them.

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In this episode we talk about our birth stories, and how traumatic postpartum life really is. We also discuss major new mom struggles, and how clueless we all were when we became parents.

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In this episode we give our thoughts on how we would react if we asked our parents a question and they responded with "do what you want" or in Urdu "Karlo jo karna hai." Don't forget to Like & Subscribe. Watch the full episode on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCasKruaCAric8sQuInKSK-Q Soundtrack c/o https://pixabay.com/music/trap-kathmandu-132034/

In this episode we talk about mom guilt, and how hard it is to do things for yourself. We also talk about how social media enhances those feelings.

In this episode we discuss our personal struggles with weight. We also talk about how difficult it is to "bounce back" after having kids and how that has impacted us in the present. Don't forget to Like & Subscribe. Watch the full episode on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCasKruaCAric8sQuInKSK-Q Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/okmompodcast/

In this episode we talk about the show Made in Heaven on Amazon Prime. We touch on issues in the show such as physically abusive relationships, and skin lightening in the Desi community. Don't forget to Like & Subscribe! Watch the full episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/GeqOfIiLMIA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/okmompodcast/ Soundtrack c/o https://pixabay.com/music/trap-kathmandu-132034/

In this episode, we're unpacking the double standards that run deep in Desi culture, especially when it comes to gender, family expectations, dating, marriage, and the pressure to live a life that pleases everyone but yourself. From the way boys and girls are raised, to the unspoken rules around reputation, sacrifice, and silence. We're naming the things that have long gone unchallenged.It's honest, it’s personal, and it’s probably going to hit close to home. Let’s get into it.

In this episode we talk about different levels of toxic behaviour in relationships. More specifically we discuss how there is a mid level of toxicity that is never spoken about because it's become a norm in many relationships. Watch the full episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/eBt8SJeUCfs Soundtrack c/o https://pixabay.com/music/trap-kathmandu-132034/

In this episode we talk about the similarities we have with our mothers. We also dive deeper into the struggles that moms face during the postpartum phase. It's no joke! Let's just be real here.

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In this episode we talk about the struggles of fitting in as children of immigrants. We also touch on change room talk and bullying, along with our personal experiences and fears we have for our kids.

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This week we talk about how hard it is to enter motherhood. All the things that no one warned us about, sleep deprivation, breastfeeding, mom struggles, and the inconveniences of leaving your own house.

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In this episode, we’re diving into the outrageous, uncomfortable, and straight-up WILD things people say during a divorce or separation. We're reading the jaw-dropping, and painfully relatable responses you sent in, and sharing a few of our own stories along the way. If you’ve been through it, you’ll definitely feel seen, and if not, you might just be shocked at what people think is okay to say. To everyone going through the divorce or separation journey, we wish you every happiness.

Some words lift us. Others leave scars. In this episode, we're talking about the things people said, good, bad, or downright brutal, that we never forgot.

From off-hand insults that haunted us for years, to unexpected praise that changed our path, we're exploring the power of words and why some stick with us long after they were spoken.

In this episode, we dive into your wildest, funniest, and most jaw-dropping stories about the WORST things teachers have said in class. From savage burns to totally inappropriate comments.💬 We read your responses, react to the craziest ones, and share a few stories of our own!🛎️ Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and hit the BELL so you never miss an episode!Got a story of your own? Drop it in the comments, we might read it in a future episode! 👇0:00 INTRO14:45 Phrases in Punjabi29:31 Only hope is arranged marriage30:17 Source of evil38:19 You’re a girl38:51 Pretty41:30 You won’t make it56:25 Eyebrows did57:42 Moved to Karachi

In this episode, we’re diving into the anonymous confessions sent in by you, our listeners, the kind of stories most people would never say out loud.

From quiet regrets to life-altering secrets, we’re reading through real submissions and reflecting on the experiences that make us all a little more human.

Some are funny, some are heavy, and some might hit closer to home than expected.This is a space for honesty, reflection, and a reminder that everyone has something they’re carrying.

🎧 Want to share your story? Submit anonymously for a future episode.Subscribe, comment your thoughts, and thank you for trusting us with your truths.

We always hear the wild stories from women, but what happens when the guys finally speak up? In this episode, we handed the mic to the men and asked: What’s the most disastrous rishta or dating experience you’ve had?Spoiler: it’s messy. From surprise auntie interrogations to being ghosted mid-meal, the stories are equal parts tragic, hilarious, and “bro, are you okay?” energy.Tune in for a behind-the-scenes look at the other side of the rishta game. And yes, some of these stories might make you feel better about your own love life.
0:00 INTRO1:47 Gen Z slang in Urdu12:29 Pay for my nails 16:55 Buy me a house27:19 Ghosting35:49 Not from Karachi37:06 The Custom home42:35 Rishta aunty45:02 Handshakes46:10 Rishta interrogation51:12 High maintenance

In today's episode, we're getting real about what actually happens after the wedding. From unmet expectations to emotional growing pains, we're diving into the tough truths many couples face once the honeymoon phase fades.

This is a raw, honest look at the moments no one warns you about, the internal shifts, the silent struggles, and the sometimes uncomfortable growth that happens when two lives fully merge. But it’s not all doom and gloom.

These realizations, while difficult, can also open the door to deeper love, understanding, and connection.

👇 Let’s keep the conversation goingHave you experienced any surprising realizations after marriage?

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We asked: What’s something you heard growing up that turned out to be a total lie?

And wow, y’all had some wild ones.In this episode, we're diving into the biggest lies, myths, and straight-up nonsense we all grew up believing.

From media misinformation to random stuff your friend's cousin swore was true, nothing is off-limits.Did you think gum stays in your stomach for 7 years? That you’d die if you turned the lights on in the car? That your hair would grow back thicker if you shaved it? Same.

We believed a lot of things that... just weren’t true.We read your submissions, share a few of our own, and try to figure out why these lies spread in the first place, and how many of us fell for the exact same ones.

Hit play, prepare to feel called out, and let us know in the comments: what’s a lie you believed growing up?

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In this episode, we dive into your most painful, hilarious, and downright unbelievable rejection stories. From the petty to the heartbreaking, to those that made us question humanity, we read through your submissions and react in real time.Expect:– Storytimes that will make you laugh, cringe, and scream “NO WAY.”– Our honest reactions and questionable commentary.– A reminder that if you’ve ever been rejected… you’re definitely not alone.Got a story you want us to read next time? Drop it in our inbox!Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share the chaos.0:00 INTRO2:15 The tiffin lady7:41 Wayward15:12 Our worst rejections 24:27 Bro led me on25:32 Dating in high school36:43 🤮38:42 Ghosting culture46:21 Hugs from the kids 49:38 She doesn’t laugh52:21 Bhai zoned

Why do we keep ignoring the obvious red flags? In this episode, we're diving into the signs, patterns, and behaviours that scream "run!" yet somehow, we convince ourselves to stay. Whether it's in dating, friendships, work, or even with ourselves, these red flags have a sneaky way of slipping past our radar.👀 From love bombing and mixed signals, to toxic positivity and chronic flakiness we’re breaking it all down:If you’ve ever said “I saw the red flags, but...” this one’s for you.👇 Drop a comment with the biggest red flag you ignored (we’ve all been there).Don't forget to like, subscribe, so you never miss a truth bomb. 💣0:00 INTRO2:47 Hot Takes8:18 The F boy look10:34 Love bombing16:41 Social drinking22:43 “Don’t look at my wife”28:40 Anger37:36 Nazar47:29 Narcisissts53:45 “My family is amazing”

In this episode of Ok Mom, we’re diving into the big choices, the bold, the beautiful, and the "what was I thinking?" ones. From impulsive moves to relationships we stayed in (or left), we're sharing the decisions that altered the course of our lives for better… or worse. Join us as we unpack the turning points that shaped who we are today, what we’ve learned along the way, and how hindsight really is 20/20. Whether you're at a crossroads or just curious how one moment can change everything, this one's for you.0:00 INTRO3:00 The Diddler12:31 Married and disowned26:18 Moving out alone30:12 Green flag men32:13 Accepting toxicity39:32 The postpartum betrayal47:22 Emotionally forced engagement52:17 Rushed and married the red flagIf you enjoy the episode, don’t forget to follow our socials and subscribe to Ok Mom Podcast so you never miss a moment of the chaos, laughter, and real talk.

Welcome to Car Confessions, the episode where the car becomes the confessional booth. Buckle up and ride along as we take the podcast on the road and spill some real talk straight from the front seats.From random rants and deep dives to unfiltered opinions and spontaneous laughs, this car vlog-style episode is as raw and real as it gets. No scripts, no filters, just the open road and open conversations.0:00 INTRO6:31 Bare Minimum or Princess Treatment (in-law edition)26:40 common law29:16 Dad had an affair32:48 SIL cut me out37:02 Hubby acting like the wife44:57 Threatened divorce49:25 My MIL, the fortune teller54:05 Forgive your abusive father?58:31 Acne66:39 School Loans71:21 MIL expects me to payHit that like button, subscribe, and drop your own car confessions in the comments below! 🚙

We asked: What’s something you’ve forgiven someone for… but deep down, you haven’t really forgiven them?And wow, y’all delivered.

In this episode, we dive into the messy, honest, and sometimes contradictory world of forgiveness.

From quiet resentment to unresolved betrayal, our guests and listeners share the moments where they said “it’s okay”… but it never really was.

This isn’t your typical feel-good forgiveness talk. It’s real. It’s raw. It’s what happens when the words “I forgive you” come out of your mouth, but your heart hasn’t caught up.

🧠 Let’s talk emotional honesty, closure (or the lack of it), and why some wounds don’t heal just because we said the right thing.

💬 Drop a comment:Have you ever forgiven someone, but not really? Let us know below, we might feature your story in a future episode.

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Welcoming a new brother-in-law or sister-in-law into the family should be all about celebration. Still, for many Desis, it’s also a minefield of unspoken expectations, awkward first impressions, and family politics. In this episode, we get real about the most challenging aspects of blending families through marriage in South Asian culture. From navigating boundaries with your sibling's spouse, to decoding “adjustment” culture, to the quiet pressure of being the “good” in-law, we talk about it all. Whether you're the new in-law, the sibling, or just trying to keep the peace, this episode is for you.0:00 INTRO7:08 Netflix and in-laws21:30 SIL & BIL relationship24:48 Disrespecting your parents35:15 Comparisons40:13 Moody SIL41:16 Adapting to them47:07 Differences51:01 Gifting54:21 Problematic behaviour56:42 The walking red flagJewellery by: @rangreza_accessories

In this honest and unfiltered episode, we’re talking about the real things we wish we could say to our parents and in-laws, without starting World War III. From unsolicited advice to boundary-blurring visits, we're diving deep into the emotional tug-of-war that can come with family relationships in adulthood, especially after becoming a parent yourself.Expect laughs, maybe a few therapeutic rants, and the kind of solidarity you only get from someone who gets it. If you've ever left a family gathering thinking, “Did that really just happen?” ...this one’s for you.💬 Let us know in the comments: What do you wish you could say to your family?Clothing by: hinamuzaffarofficial.com0:00 INTRO2:17 Bid Candy12:42 You know you’re old when…30:51 Too sensitive32:10 Snakes in the family34:00 Helicopter, Helicopter39:07 Adult children41:37 Fat shaming41:56 Cut the cord!42:34 Freedom43:41 Stand up FIL45:15 Trauma46:05 Take care of me47:18 Eldest daughter50:49 I like someone51:07 Western clothing52:10 You captured my son53:21 GrandkidsDon’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it. Because honestly? We're all just trying to figure it out.

We’re going there today.In this episode, we asked: What’s your worst "log kya kahenge" (what will people say) moment that seriously traumatized you? And wow… you delivered. From crushing shame to full-on public embarrassment, we’re unpacking those deep, cultural moments that left a mark.🎙️ In this episode:• The toxic pressure to be "perfect" in front of people who never asked• Why this phrase hits so hard, especially for women and moms• Listener-submitted moments that had us gasping, cringing, and relating way too muchThis one’s messy, honest, and might hit a nerve — but you’re not alone in it. If you’ve ever had a moment that made you want to disappear because of what people might say… this episode is for you.💬 Share your story with us on Instagram @okmompodcast. Your DMs are always anonymous and safe with us.0:00 INTRO4:58 In-laws demand a kid9:55 Broken engagement17:12 Marrying outside the culture 30:26 Physical abuse38:02 No dancing39:28 Therapy & mental health42:19 Marry thy cousin45:04 The MIL updates 55:08 Guys and girls can be friends?BUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH

In this episode, we delve into the sensitive topic of money and relationships, particularly within South Asian culture. 💬 From joint accounts to secret savings, wedding expenses to family expectations, we talk about how money influences romantic partnerships, power dynamics, and long-term planning.0:00 INTRO7:58 Poppi10:39 Finances in a relationship15:47 School loans21:33 Financial literacy for Desis23:50 In-laws and personal questions28:05 Independent woman vs passenger princess39:55 Man makes less41:10 Taking the domestic load46:44 Working together48:57 Security50:23 Asking for help56:41 In-laws control the money67:19 I’d never workBUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH

We asked our audience to send us their most unfiltered, anonymous secrets, and y’all did NOT disappoint 👀. From awkward crushes and sneaky habits to full-on "my mom can never know this happened" chaos, we’re sharing it ALL.Expect laughter, gasps, and a few “no way!” moments as we go through your confessions. No judgment.👇 Drop a comment and tell us which confession shocked you the most (or lowkey reminded you of something you’ve done 😏)And hey, want to confess something anonymously in the next episode? DM us on our IG or hit the link in our bio. Your secret’s safe with us.🎙️ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share Clothing by: Sofia Hasan Couture (@sofiahasancouture)Jewelry by: Zaraya (@zarayaco)0:00 INTRO7:43 Finish the lyric18:25 Nice guy22:35 Convinced them to marry young26:09 The backseat26:56 Political love story31:57 The scamming uncle34:04 Secret recordings38:13 Secret friends40:08 The Mil affairs43:56 Long distance lovers47:34 Imagination runs wild48:42 Secret bank account49:17 The co-worker50:49 Internet nannies56:19 Betrayed by my friend57:05 Hellish woman60:38 False alarms62:50 Buried truthsBUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH

💔 When the right person comes at the wrong time... or maybe was never right.In this emotional and brutally honest episode, we dive into real stories of love that almost made it. From soulmates who couldn’t quite align, to long-term relationships that fell apart just before the "forever" part, “Not The One” explores the heartbreak, healing, and hard truths behind the ones who almost stayed.🚪 Why do some people leave just when it gets real?🧠 How do we know if it was love… or just attachment?💬 Listeners share raw, personal moments of “what could’ve been.”Whether you're still healing from the one who got away, or trying to make sense of a relationship that nearly made it, this episode will hit you right in the feels—and maybe even help you let go.0:00 INTRO1:50 Brampton Laser7:04 Betrayal 16:47 Treat me better23:41 Apple lover29:19 He got engaged31:12 The Ex-fiance34:47 Only child37:02 Sister swap41:51 Colourism44:52 The corporate guy46:43 The break49:17 Istikhara51:36 Mamoo54:24 Aunty’s fake birthday56:15 50/50👉 Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations about love, heartbreak, and everything in between.💬 Comment below with your “almost forever” story. 📲 Share this with someone who needs to hear itBUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH

In this episode, we’re flipping the script on the usual dating chatter. Instead of obsessing over red flags, we’re shining a light on the underrated green flags, those subtle, often-overlooked behaviours that signal someone is emotionally mature, genuinely kind, and worth investing in.From the quiet confidence that shows up in small decisions, to the way someone handles discomfort, to the surprisingly rare art of being consistent without making a show of it, we’re breaking down the traits that actually build healthy, long-term connections.Join us as we explore what these green flags look like in real life, why they matter more than the flashy stuff, and how to spot them early. You might just rethink your entire “type.”

“You’re not allowed to do that - log kya kahenge?” Yeah… we heard it too. But guess what? We did it anyway.

👀In this episode, we’re diving deep into all the forbidden things Desi families told us not to do, from dyeing our hair and going to sleepovers to choosing an “unusual” career path.

Whether it was rebelling in silence or going full rogue, we’re unpacking the guilt, drama, and freedom of breaking the rules.

🎙️ Expect laughs, confessions, and many “same here!” moments.

✨ If you’ve ever heard “We don’t do that in this house” growing up… this episode is for you.

👇 Drop your “I did it anyway” moment in the comments, we want to hear your stories!

You know those dinner parties where everything should go smoothly… but somehow end in someone crying, a political debate, or the biryani catching fire? Yeah, we’re talking those stories.In this episode, we’re diving into the wildest, cringiest, and most laugh-out-loud dinner party disasters, from aunties oversharing rishta drama to uncles starting fights over chai. Whether it’s a wedding after-party gone rogue or a simple daawat that spiralled into chaos, we’ve got the tea for you.Settle in, let's get this party started.0:00 INTRO3:50 Gone to Goa8:03 The dying wish15:16 They eloped28:31 Rooftop marriage30:31 Forgive me, funerals38:03 The mean SIL43:00 The phone gallery47:44 Drunk Unc Epidemic53:37 My sister did me dirtyBUY YOUR OK MOM MERCHListen to the episode on Apple Podcast & Spotify