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Ep 504: Road Head Rage: After a party, Shayley and Paul are headed home. Both of their libidos can't wait, and their flirtations erupt into playful banter on the way to their truck. The steamy competitive race of edging each other to max heights is on as their hormones have them raging to get the other so hot they near explosion. Sexy fun, and a wedgie kink, on the road trip ensues and lands them in a prickly situation, but whew do they have a good time!
Erotic fiction story written and narrated by erotica author and podcast host Ruan Willow.
Enjoy this spicy erotic romance fiction short story audio erotica for entertainment and self care love purposes. Erotic fiction is a fabulous way to explore, expand, and enjoy your sexuality with stories of saucy hot intimate relationships. Exercise your sexuality health and fitness today!
Ep 503: Today, we dive deep into the world of erotic fantasy and Sci-Fi romance with the incredibly talented indie author, Megan Landon. She weaves intricate tales inspired by her Colombian and Dutch roots, linguistic training, and a touch of magic. With a PhD in linguistics and a passion for sexuality in storytelling, she crafts intelligent heroines, supportive heroes, and slightly off-center worlds that captivate and enthrall. Her erotic flash fiction has appeared in Bust Magazine.
In this episode, Megan shares her journey into writing erotica, starting from high school love letters to boyfriends to rediscovering the genre in the aughts. She discusses the evolution of erotic literature, the impact of indie writing and publishing, and how the genre has exploded with diverse voices. Megan also reads an excerpt from her series on Medium, "Grow Lights," giving us a taste of her captivating storytelling.
"Love Potion 69" Anthology featuring her "Botany and Brujería" short story (affiliate links, podcast may receive a commission on sales. Thanks for the support!) https://amzn.to/3XalUDc Of Broken Bots and Tempting Techs Audiobook https://amzn.to/4g4LHpc
01:38 What ticked your desire to start writing erotic literature 19:28 You include some bdsm in your stories 21:57 Where are your books 31:01 I think we should be celebrating sensuality and sexuality, not censoring it 34:03 What do you tend to start with when you're writing a story 37:57 Are you more of a pantser or a plotter 44:14 You've done several anthologies with erotica consortium 47:24 What was an early experience where you learned that language had power 51:17 Do you do research when writing about space or something like that 57:24 so what to you is the definition of being a success? 01:01:18 So what are you working on now that you can share with us
Quotes from Megan: "You can't turn your back on a passion, right?" "Human sexuality is kind of the essence of what it is to be a living, breathing person." "I think that success is being able to do what you love in a way that nourishes you and sustains and nourishes the people around you."
Ruan: "We are living in the most amazing time ever, because never in the history of the world have
Episode 494: Teasing Her Swollen Bean Erotic Fiction Short Story+Ruan Shares Secrets of Making Women Climax!
Josie and Mason, a heterosexual couple who just moved in together, both had a long day & planned a fuck sex session, but Josie fell asleep before Mason got upstairs. When she wakes early, she's tempted to wake him for sex, but opts for playing with her clit sucker toy next to him in bed instead--because he's sleeping so peacefully. When he wakes to her moans, the flirty teasing sexy fun erupts as he enjoys teasing her clit with the toy. Her arousal peaks as they continue to flirt in bed, and their passion ignites! Mason knows just how to get her hot with clit teasing, and it launches her, and him into the juiciest satisfying satiating, and wonderfully gratifying mutual big giant O's! Her in the multiple!
Then stay tuned in for after the story as Ruan shares how to make a woman climax, and how to make her cum using clit teasing! There are so many ways! Clit teasing is edging that intensifies female orgasms. These toys below are her favorites for such wonderful sexy times! Also learn why orgasming is your birthright! Ruan speaks out on sexuality, sexual health, & relationships!
Ep 405: Breaking Boundaries and Winning Hearts: An Intimate Chat with Gay Author PB Breckinridge Prepare to be enraptured as Ruan Willow welcomes the indomitably creative PB Breckinridge (she/her) back to the Oh F*ck Yeah podcast for a third scintillating session. PB, a maestro of gay erotic fiction, returns with a treasure trove of tantalizing tales and personal triumphs, including a prestigious nod as a finalist in the Golden Pigtails Awards for the novel "Size Kings III: Princess in Training." Click through to VOTE for PB Breckinridge (Size Kings III) and Ruan Willow (Dressing Room Domme) by 2/27/24: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2002-finals-5/
In this episode, Ruan and PB explore the intricate tapestry of sexuality and identity woven into PB's work, revealing the deeply personal connections that fuel her storytelling. From the seductive allure of historical New Orleans to the contemporary resonance of non-binary experiences, PB's narratives are a masterclass in erotic authenticity.
Listeners are treated to an evocative excerpt from "Size Kings III," where passion and power dynamics dance in a delicious tango of desire. The conversation also delves into the challenges and triumphs of writing about topics often shrouded in mystery and taboo, such as Mpreg (male pregnancy) and the historical roots of drag culture.
As PB shares her journey of self-discovery and the parallels between her life and her characters, you'll be inspired by her courage to infuse her work with personal history and heart. Plus, get a sneak peek at her upcoming projects, including the sequel to "Perfect Fit," where the dazzling world of 1920s vaudeville meets the raw emotion of love and loss.
Whether you're a die-hard fan of PB's work or new to the erotic renaissance she's pioneering, this episode is a must-listen. And don't forget to cast your vote for PB in the Golden Pigtails Awards – every click brings her closer to the crown!
Episode 404: Unleashing Fantasies: A Titillating Talk with the author at Studio Top Hat, Michael Dyer.
Dive into an intimate and titillating conversation with Ruan Willow and the prolific erotica author, Michael Dyer. In this episode, Ruan dons her Mardi Gras mask and Pod Nation TV shirt, ready to delve into the stimulating world of erotic storytelling. Michael, the mastermind behind Pink Top Hat Books and Studio Top Hat, shares his journey from a high school writer encouraged by his English teacher to an erotica author with a passion for spicing up relationships through his tales.
Get ready for an episode filled with candid discussions about sexual positions, the power of language, and the freedom of exploring one's sexuality through fantasy. Michael opens up about his writing process, his favorite characters, and the electrifying thrill of walking naked under the night sky – a personal fantasy turned into an erotic story, which he reads on the podcast.
Listeners are treated to the live reading of "The Midnight Walk," a story from Michael's anthology "Handcuffs and Other Erotic Stories," that will leave you craving for more. Plus, discover his upcoming works, including "Pegging Jonah" and "The Passion of Evangeline," which promise to tantalize and tease your imagination.
Whether you're an aspiring erotica writer or an enthusiast of the genre, this episode is a treasure trove of inspiration, encouragement, and a reminder to embrace the joy of erotic fiction. Don't forget to check out Michael's work at studiotophat.com, where you'll find his stories and a variety of other creative offerings, including smutty buttons that proclaim your love for all things erotic. Connect with Studio Top Hat: https://www.studiotophat.com/
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Episode 402: Boobs and Pizza Everywhere but not a Drop to Eat, A Modern-Day Tantalus Tale. For Louis. A Greek Mythology Tantalus erotic torturous fantasy in modern day. Ever heard of Tantalus? He's from Greek Mythology and is most famous for his punishment where he was made to stand in water beneath a fruit tree where the fruit was forever out of his grasp, and he could never drink the water because it would recede. He was aroused and teased by what he wanted but was repeatedly disappointed. NOW, let's make that sexual! Charles was seeking a lake that the Goddess Zeffra would grant wishes of a nude man with a pure heart who stood in her pear-shaped lake. Charles knew he was such a man and he fought long and hard on a trek under the sun to reach this lake. He wanted boobs as far as his eye could see, and not just boobs, but big boobs!
Ruan's book Dressing Room Domme has made it to the finals in the Golden Pigtails Awards! Please vote by February 29th at 7 p.m. ET to help Ruan win in the finals! Please and thank you! Here's the link: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2002-finals-5/
Ep 400!! Woohoo! Wife's First Threesome and his too: An All Virgin FMM Story Part 2 of 2, written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Coming soon also in the audiobook version with two male narrators reading the parts of Mike and Aaron alongside Ruan. Amanda and Mike have always wanted a threesome, it was just their luck that Mike chatted up Aaron, a poor sex-deprived but married neighbor, at a neighborhood bonfire about joining the couple secretly in a threesome. Amanda loves sex and sex games, but their playful relationship also involves sexy funishments, and Mike's geared up to deliver his tallied spanks Amanda has acquired for herself, but this time with Aaron's help. However, none of that happens before the luscious horny, and topless, Amanda gives the depraved Aaron his first BJ in ten years. She enjoys giving him this sexual gift just as Mike enjoys watching. But he's so ready for the next stage of their threesome fun! Enjoy this short fiction erotica, an erotic romance of entertainment arts. Make sure you take time for self care and nourish your sexuality!
Ruan's book Dressing Room Domme has made it to the finals in the Golden Pigtails Awards! Please vote by February 29th at 7 p.m. ET to help Ruan win in the finals! Please and thank you! Here's the link: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2002-finals-5/
Ep 399: Wife's First Threesome and his too: An All Virgin FMM Story Part 1 of 2 (Part 2 will air on Friday February 16, 2024). Amanda and Mike have always wanted a threesome, it was just their luck that Mike chatted up Aaron, a poor sex-deprived but married neighbor, at a neighborhood bonfire about joining the couple secretly in a threesome. Amanda loves sex and sex games, but their playful relationship also involves sexy funishments, and Mike's geared up to deliver his tallied spanks Amanda has acquired for herself, but this time with Aaron's help. However, none of that happens before the luscious horny, and topless, Amanda gives the depraved Aaron his first BJ in ten years. She enjoys giving him this sexual gift just as Mike enjoys watching. But he's so ready for the next stage of their threesome fun! Enjoy short fiction erotica erotic romance entertainment arts in part 1, and part 2 of 2 will come on Friday. ***Catch this story in an upcoming audiobook but with a male narrator for the male parts!*** Ruan wants you to have better sex and solo sex! Episode Sponsors: JOYMODE, a Natural Sexual Performance Booster, Get 20% off and FREE shipping with code ruan20 at https://usejoymode.com/ruan20
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Ep 398: Unveiling Non-monogamy: Insights from Marriage Therapist Paige Bond.
Embracing Your Authentic Self in Relationships:
In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the world of non-monogamy with licensed marriage and family therapist Paige Bond. From the thrills of polyamory to the challenges of jealousy, Paige unravels the complexities of open relationships and the journey towards embracing our authentic selves.
Join us as we explore the nuances between swinging and polyamory, confront the fears and insecurities that can arise, and discuss how to navigate the delicate balance of love and freedom. Whether you're curious about opening up, struggling with the idea, or simply seeking to understand the ever-evolving landscape of human connection, this episode offers a compassionate and insightful look at the various forms non-monogamy can take.
Discover the importance of communication, consent, and self-awareness in creating a fulfilling and ethical non-monogamous relationship. It's not just about physical actions; sometimes, the most exciting adventures happen in the realm of fantasy.
This might challenge your perceptions of love, commitment, and personal growth. And remember, whether it's through erotica, open dialogue, or seeking professional guidance, the path to your truest desires is worth exploring.
Ep 493: Unlocking the Secrets of Relationships to get more fulfilling ones with Todd Baratz. Ruan Willow welcomes the renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist Todd Baratz. Todd's innovative approach to mental health, sexual health, and relationships has made him a leading figure in his field. He joins the podcast to discuss his new book, "How to Love Somebody Without Losing Your Mind: Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real," which offers a nuanced portrait of relationships and love. (Get the book! affiliate book link, https://amzn.to/4fwLc7b commissions on sales through the link support this podcast, thank you!)
Todd and Ruan dive into the complexities of romantic relationships, communication challenges, and the unrealistic societal expectations that often surround love, intimacy, and sex. We need a more realistic approach to relationships than the one our culture feeds us. Ruan and Todd explore how to navigate these challenges, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, meaningful communication, and the willingness to work through discomfort for the sake of growth and connection.
Whether you're looking to improve your current relationship, understand the dynamics of love better, or simply enjoy a thought-provoking conversation, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice.
Guest Bio: Todd Baratz is a renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist whose innovative approach to mental health and relationships has established him as a leading figure in his field. In addition to his clinical practice, Baratz is a prolific writer and speaker. His insights are regularly featured in various media outlets, where he discusses topics ranging from romantic relationships to individual mental wellness. He lives in New York City and Los Angeles. Learn more on Instagram under his handle YourDiagnonsense.
Ep 395: Hooking Up with the Horny Gamer Next Door, an erotica story by Ruan Willow. Alexis lost her friends with benefits roommate and now is lonely and sexless. Her neighbor Aaron knocks on her door desperate for some batteries for his gaming remote, but she doesn't have any. He took a blue pill for the experience and now has a raging erection that refuses to calm down... Alexis offers to help him with his problem and the blissful pleasure skyrockets bouncing off the walls of her apartment. Mutual pleasure is mutual bliss! Read this story on Medium: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/hooking-up-with-the-horny-gamer-next-door-84bd3bd86db9 Enjoy this short story, an erotic romance fiction story about relationships--erotica and sexuality go hand in hand for good sexual health and fitness! Pay attention to your libido!
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Ep 394: Princess Latex Rubber Doll: From Fetishes to Freedom in Sexual Exploration. A Sensual Journey from Fetish Modeling to Sexuality Dominatrix.
In this tantalizing episode, Ruan Willow chats with the intriguing Princess, a figure who embodies the allure of latex fetish and BDSM. She shares her ascent into the world of kink, from her early fascination with latex to her evolution as a dominatrix and adult content creator. She divulges the joys of her craft, from the sensory delights of donning latex to the intimate power dynamics of Dom/sub relationships.
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Princess Latex Rubber Doll opens up about her journey as a transgender woman, her transition, and how embracing her true self has led to a fulfilling exploration of sexuality and kink. She discusses the nuances of her hormonal treatment and its impact on her sexual experiences, offering a unique perspective on the intersection of gender identity and sexual desires.
Listeners will be treated to a candid conversation about the complexities of fetish work, safety, the importance of consent, and the beauty of personal intimacy.
Ep 391: Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend for Secrets, an erotica fiction story. Janice is getting screwed by her ex Mitch. He's trying to hide money on her--money that belongs to her too. Lenny, Mitch's best friend has a secret that will give Janice leverage to force Mitch to cooperate, but she has to get it out of Lenny. She's lucky though, because Lenny loves her large breasts and has always been attracted to her. Even though she doesn't like Lenny very much, she's ready to use her feminine sexual magic power over Lenny to get him to help her. She's a devious one, but Lenny ain't no saint either! Listen to them tangle and wrangle out of each other what they both want in this second installment of the story of Janice and Lenny, relationships can get steamy and messy (part 1 is The Sex Loan: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/13837619 and also in the short story collection The Sugar Daddies: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesugardaddies and coming soon in audiobook).
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Enjoy this erotic romance fiction story for entertainment purposes. Nab yourself some self care and relax with an audio erotic story!
Valentine's Day Special: Food & Sex, Eat for Better Sex, Spicing Up Intimacy with Cuisine with Amy Reiley, America's leading aphrodisiac food authority. In this steamy Valentine's special, Ruan Willow is joined by the sensational Amy Reiley, an acclaimed authority on aphrodisiac foods, speaker, cookbook author, and wine aficionado. Amy's expertise spans from the sensual power of food to its direct impact on our sex lives. This episode delves into the tantalizing connection between what we eat and how we love, exploring how simple dietary tweaks can dramatically enhance intimacy and sexual pleasure.
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Amy shares her journey from a food and wine writer to becoming a gastronomy historian and an aphrodisiac foods expert. With her background in health and her passion for mythology, Amy has crafted a unique niche that marries the art of eating with the science of desire. She reveals surprising insights on how hydration, whole foods, and specific ingredients like dark chocolate, watermelon, and even wine can fuel our libido and improve sexual wellness.
Listeners will learn the truth behind common aphrodisiac myths, the importance of diet in sexual health for both men and women, and practical tips for crafting a romantic meal that won't leave you feeling sluggish. Amy's holistic approach is not just about better sex, but also about overall well-being and the joy of savoring life's pleasures.
From her first book, "Fork Me, Spoon Me: The Sensual Cookbook," to her latest, "Eat Cake Naked: Aphrodisiac Desserts to Heat Up Your Love Life," Amy's work is a treasure trove of delicious advice for anyone looking to spice up their love life with the help of good food. (Cookbook affiliate link: Podcast may receive a commission on purchases. Thank you for the support! Fork Me, Spoon Me https://amzn.to/3tV2Leb Romancing the Stove: https://amzn.to/3Ua5P0o Eat Cake Naked: Aphrodisiac Desserts to Heat Up Your Love Life https://amzn.to/47Kzn84
Pour a glass of water, grab a piece of dark chocolate, and let the Valentine's Day celebration begin with a true feast for the senses. Discover how you can spice up your culinary life and find her top ten foods for men's and women's sexual health at http://eatsomethingsexy.com/
Show notes created by https://headliner.app 📋 Episode Chapters (04:45) Food and wine can impact sex, but not many people think about it (08:50) The key to everything is water, which is also not sexy (10:51) What are some foods that harm your sexuality or improve it? (15:51) You might increase intimacy with your partner if you feel better, expert says (17:56) Pineapple & watermelon are particularly importan
Episode 387: Soothing Sounds by Ruan Enjoi A Sexy ASMR Guided Fun Ride to Orgasmic Euphoria. Enjoy Ruan's soothing sexy sultry voice, breathy gasps, moans, squeals, sexy erotic snippets, and excited exclamations as she guides you (works for males and females) through a steamy narrative to boost your ride up to a mental climax to a max peak and a satiated finish. What else happens is up to you!
Enjoy the steamy erotic fiction experience, and make sure you enjoy your body and come today! Pay attention to your self care, get some stress relief and relaxation, gain a yummy half hour healthy boost to your libido and use it so you don't loose it.
Enjoy the blurb at the end of the episode about Ruan's newest book out in prelaunch mode, coming soon in paperback: I Dare You, The Saturday Sex Challenge. Book Link (affiliate, podcast may receive a commission for purchases, thank you for the support): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge
Bundle of All 6 Novellas in The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play, an erotic romantic comedy, a spicy rom com that happens all in a single freezing cold winter day. It’s best to stay inside! But where’s the adventure in that?
Brad and Anna, the playful second marriage newlyweds, have a day of sexy fun planned. Brad loves to pamper, indulge, and pleasure his new wife so a day of erotic playtime is on his agenda. Their burgeoning life together is mirrored by their flirty dance that starts out in the kitchen, where teasing takes charge of the reigns in the special day’s foreplay. Anna’s drive to be the champion is only fueled by Brad’s triumphs, but neither is giving up that quick. They joyfully egg each other on in their frisky seduction of each other.
They challenge one another in each round of their sex games to reach their climaxes; they both want to win so the mischief escalates. The comedy abounds as they entice each other’s libidos in risky places like the grocery store. Nothing like an exhibitionistic trip to buy food for dinner to put a spicy lick on the day’s events!
On the way home, their fun-loving competitiveness continues when the car becomes their arena for their frisky hijinks. But their daring of each other doesn’t stop there. The day keeps delightfully surprising them as they look forward to each moment of the frigid Saturday.
Their relationship is spontaneous and inventive, and this gives Brad the liberties he loves to be the leader in the bedroom, to be the one in control of their experiences together. It’s new to Anna to grant this to a man, but a victory would be the most delicious way to end a day that celebrates their love and excitement at finally being able to live together.
Episode 386: Unleashing Your Sensual Self and Discovery: A Candid Chat with Sexologist J. Marie
In today's tantalizing episode, Ruan Willow sits down with the dynamic J. Marie, a certified sexologist, sex coach, and sex educator. J. Marie shares her expertise on embracing sexuality, overcoming sexual trauma, and enhancing intimacy, both solo and with partners. Whether you're struggling to find your sexual confidence, curious about exploring new pleasures, or seeking guidance after experiencing trauma, J. Marie offers insights and practical advice to help you navigate the complex world of sex and intimacy.
Delving into topics like the importance of slowing down to savor sexual experiences, the benefits of sex toys, and the impact of digital censorship on sex education, this conversation is both enlightening and empowering. J. Marie also spills the secrets on libido-boosting foods and the role of pelvic floor exercises in enhancing sexual wellness.
Listeners will learn how to approach sex with an open mind, the significance of understanding pleasure beyond penetration, and how to communicate desires and boundaries within relationships. J. Marie's holistic approach to sexual well-being, coupled with Ruan's engaging style, makes for an episode that's as informative as it is steamy.
For more of J. Marie's wisdom, follow her on Instagram @boobtionary or @theboobifulsexpert, and check out her website via linktr.ee/boobtionary. Don't forget to tune into her podcast, "Come As You Are," for more sex ed and hygiene tips.
Ready to embrace your sexual journey with confidence and curiosity? Listen in and let J. Marie guide you toward a more fulfilling and enjoyable sex life.
Episode 384: The Accidental Threesome, Roommates Who Finally Had Some Fun. A short erotic story on the podcast today! Asheley had been friend-zoned by her two male roommates. She was really horny and had hoped living with them in an apartment might mean occasional sex, but that had not happened, no matter how hard to tried to send signs. They'd watch adult films together, but she'd get too horny and zip off to her room to use toys to finish herself off. She was hopeless, sexless, and horny af. As she heard the two men enjoying a sexy video in living room, she snuck by, but Dan called to her to come watch with them. Conversation led to the accidental spilling of her horniness and the sexual energy of the room skyrocketed. They came together as horny friends and decided how they could finally all have some fun together, friends with benefits style!
Ruan's latest erotic ebook release: Sharing his Eager Hotwife: 2 Hotwife Erotica Shorts Written by Lacey Cross, narrated by Ruan Willow and InMyHandsAudio. Get the book on Amazon and Audible. This is book 3 in a series of 5 hotwife books. https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghiseagerhotwifeaudiobook
Ep 383: Madam Bella's Secrets: A Legal Brothel Experience, A Look Behind the Curtains of Bella's Hacienda Ranch. The Sensual Service Industry - A Candid Conversation with Madame Bella. In this eye-opening episode, Ruan Willow sits down with Madame Bella of Bella's Hacienda Ranch, a legal brothel in Wells, Nevada. With over 37 years of experience, Madame Bella shares her journey from bookkeeper to brothel owner, offering a rare glimpse into the complexities and triumphs of running a legal sensual service business. From reinventing the brothel during the construction of Interstate 80 to advocating for the term "courtesan" over "prostitute," Madame Bella's insights challenge societal taboos and highlight the importance of non-judgmental spaces for sexual exploration.
Dive into topics such as the evolution of the industry, the significance of touch and human connection, and the potential benefits of regulated, legalized brothels for public safety and taxation. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the intersection of sexuality, legality, and empowerment. Madame Bella's passion for female-led industries and her vision for a future where sensual services are recognized and respected as a legitimate profession will leave you contemplating the transformative power of acceptance and the human need for intimacy.
For more information on Bella's Hacienda Ranch and Madame Bella's mission, visit bellas.us and follow on Twitter @BellasHacienda. https://bellas.us/
This is an episode that not only educates but also empowers, as Ruan and Madame Bella tackle the stigmas surrounding the world's oldest profession with grace, intelligence, and a touch of humor. Don't miss this provocative and enlightening conversation that's sure to spark discussions and open minds.
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📋 Episode Chapters
(00:00) Madame Bella is of Bella's hacienda ranch in Nevada (01:05) Tell us how you got started doing this and what you enjoy about it (08:28) Do you find a lot of people are returning after legalization (15:45) Nevada adopted the nordic law to regulate sex work (21:39) Nevada has proven that brothels have helped rural communities tremendously (25:47) When we first started talking, you said you had to learn to be a madam (33:04) In my opinion, isolation may have started mentally (36:40) I have a question. How do you define a cortisan? (43:41) Sexual pleasure gets separated when pleasure of the genitals is completely separated from other pleasures (46:58) Bella says brothels need someplace that's regulated and legalized (50:45) Communication is key in any sexual experience, right? Absolutely. And it's messed up is the communication in many relationships (53:33) This has been such an amazing chat. Thank you for coming on (57:58) All the workers out there that just are beating a drum for decriminalization
Ep 381: Finger Licking Good Threesome Roommate Rendezvous Hookup. Sam and Mariana are dating, and Sam's roommate Jordan is prepping a dinner of grilled chicken wing with Mariana while Sam is at the gym. Jordan wants an opinion on his homemade sauce and he offers his sauce-coated finger for Mariana to taste. She is a horny girl and gets a little carried away and deepthroats his finger. The erotic aura burns out of their interaction and when Sam arrives home, things between the three of them heat up quick!
Ruan's latest erotic ebook release: Sharing his Eager Hotwife: 2 Hotwife Erotica Shorts Written by Lacey Cross, narrated by Ruan Willow and InMyHandsAudio. Get the book on Amazon and Audible. This is book 3 in a series of 5 hotwife books. https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghiseagerhotwifeaudiobook
Ep 380: Erotic Writing, Sex, and Femdom Work with Monday Jones. This episode features the charismatic Monday Jones. From her role as a professional mistress to her ventures in erotic writing, Monday opens up about the highs and lows of the sex work industry, offering listeners an unfiltered glimpse into a life rich with intimacy and creativity. This episode is an electrifying mix of candid conversation and laughter, perfect for anyone intrigued by the power of sexuality and storytelling.
Monday Jones returns to share her evocative journey through the realms of sex, BDSM, and writing. With her unique perspective as a professional mistress, life coach, healer, and writer, Monday engages in a thought-provoking dialogue with Ruan Willow, discussing the transformative nature of her work and the importance of living authentically. Tune in for discussion that challenges societal norms and celebrates the art of pleasure. She proudly lives a life she doesn't need to escape from.
Video version of the interview is on YouTube and Spotify.
Conversation topics: Erotica Writing, Professional Mistress, Intimacy Exploration, Healing Domination, Somatic Practitioner, Life Coaching, Alternative Lifestyles, Bdsm and flogging, Kinky Sex, Fetish Modeling, Sex Industry, Erotic Storytelling, Sexual Empowerment, Consensual Scenes, Sex-Positive Discussions, Creative Sexuality, Sexual Fantasies, Erotic Improvisation, Sexual Exploration, Relationships
Key Quotes: 🗣️ Quotes from Monday Jones
"I turned my lifestyle, living an alternative, unconventional lifestyle, I turned it into a career."
"Not all dicks deserve to be sucked."
🗣️ Quotes from Ruan Willow
"We were given these organs for a reason. All of these nerves in our genitals, we were meant to enjoy them, just as we were given taste buds to enjoy food."
"I don't even like reading books that don't have sex in it. Like you go through the whole entire fucking book and then they kiss in the end. Fuck that shit."
Ep 378: A Quickie at the Gym, Her Fantasy Fulfilled. Ever desire to fuck someone who you see regularly at the gym? This time of year, at the start of the new year, many people are newly interested in working out, so the gym fills up. But Alex has been coming to work out regularly and Melissa lusts over him every time from her perch at the front desk. Her libido is off the charts and she's really wanting a hookup with Alex, or even dates, if he's interested. She's slightly older than him, but that's just more of a turn on. She stalks him with her eyes for his entire workout, dreaming of fucking him. She gets bold and brazenly sneaks into the men's locker room in search of him. She's ready to do what it takes to get Alex to have sex with her.
Enjoy this erotica fiction entertainment arts episode!
Ep 376: I'm thrilled to welcome my guest, InMyHandsAudio, a renowned narrator of erotic audio content, to my podcast. The podcast is all about exploring sex and sexuality, and today we're diving deep with InMyHandsAudio. We've been connecting creating audiobooks together for a while now, but this is our first real conversation in person. It's an exciting moment for us all! InMyHandsAudio shares his journey into the world of erotic audio work after his music career ended. He found his unique voice and started posting on Literotica and Patreon. He's also launched a new podcast called the Daddy Dom podcast, exploring DS relationships. Enjoy the hotwife series audiobook excerpts at the end.
Summary We explore the intriguing world of the erotic audio industry, debunk common misconceptions about Daddy Dom relationships, and underscore the pivotal role of trust and communication in BDSM dynamics. InMyHandsAudio also introduces us to his latest venture, the Daddy Dom podcast, a platform dedicated to sharing his personal journey and enlightening listeners about the topic. Key Highlights -He embarked on his journey in the erotic audio industry in 2017, seeking a creative outlet post their music career. -His latest venture is the 'Daddy Dom podcast', a platform where he shares his experiences and offer insights into the Daddy Dom lifestyle. - He underscores the significance of trust and communication in BDSM dynamics, emphasizing that a sub consciously chooses their Dom, who in turn is responsible for creating a safe and trustworthy environment. - The podcast aims to debunk misconceptions about Daddy Dom relationships and serves as a platform for open discussion and education. Action Steps - Educate yourself about the Daddy Dom lifestyle and BDSM dynamics to better understand and support those who practice it. - Practice open and honest communication with your partner(s) about your desires, boundaries, and consent. - Explore your own sexuality and kinks in a safe and consensual manner.
Ep 491: Blow Job at the restaurant date night narrative, in second person. Immerse yourself in a sexy scenario where a BJ and an orgasm are on the menu! Nothing like orgasms as appetizers! Am I right? Sneaking beneath the tablecloth and getting half naked is not on the short order list, it's on the long agenda! Enjoy this saucy satisfying tale of a quickie oral sex treat, where orgasms abound for both! An erotic improv fictional narrative for self care and entertainment. Sexual health is important to mental health! Erotica straight from Ruan's brain in an impromptu on the spot free flowing narrative she created right off the top of her head!
Be sure to marinate in your sexuality everyday! You own it, it belongs to you!
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Episode 374: Threesome and Foursome Stories. Welcome to this sexy episode of erotic improv! This is a replay of three stories sandwiched together...get your sexy holiday triple decker whammo--hot erotic fiction story--entertainment served up! Bring on the multiples SEX! Give yourself the gift of enjoying your sexuality with hot erotica! 1. Orgy in Bed FFMM Post Party Night Sex 2. FFM 3some with the Hidden Roommate 3. FFM FWB Spontaneous hookup sex
Ep 373: A Candid Chat with Kink Veterans Pedro & Tink: Trust, Consent, and Dominance. Pedro & Tink are podcasters at The Kitchen Sink ENM & Kink Podcast, and both are also content creators.
Summary
In this riveting episode, I sit down with Pedro and Tink, the dynamic duo behind the Kitchen Sink ENM and Kink podcast. We delve into their decade-long journey through ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and BDSM, uncovering their favorite kinks and pleasures (without guilt or shame), the significance of communication and consent, and their pearls of wisdom for newcomers to the lifestyle. Pedro has lived in the lifestyle for over 20 years so his experience in this way of life is quite extensive and varied. They generously and openly share about their introduction to kink and their past and current experiences living this lifestyle. Of special note is their love, affection, and compersion for each other. Their love story is a beautiful and fascinating one!
Key Highlights
- Pedro and Tink bring a wealth of experience from nearly a decade in swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and BDSM.
- They share a passion for various kinks, including impact play, degradation, humiliation, knife play, and golden showers.
- Pedro identifies as a dominant, while Tink is versatile as a switch, navigating both dominant and submissive roles.
- They stress the importance of communication, consent, research, and vetting players as the bedrock of all alternative lifestyle practices.
More about the Guests
Pedro
Meet Pedro, a seasoned dominant in the BDSM scene with loads of experience. His expertise spans impact play, degradation, humiliation, and knife play, pleasure torture, and enriching the lifestyle with his knowledge.
Tink
Introducing Tink, a switch who relishes both dominant and submissive roles in BDSM. Her explorations include impact play, degradation, and pegging, adding depth to her lifestyle experiences.
Action Steps
- Educate yourself on the nuances of swinging, polyamory, or BDSM before diving in.
- Prioritize open communication and explicit consent in every relationship dynamic.
- Experiment with different kinks and toys to discover what resonates with your personal desires.
Embark on a personal journey to uncover your desires and limits. Engage in honest dialogue with your partner(s) and embrace new adventures that pique your curiosity.
Next Steps
Tune into the Kitchen Sink ENM and Kink podcast for insightful and personal conversations on the complexities and joys of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and BDSM.
Ep 371: Her Surrender to Daddy, Being Daddy's Good Girl, Sex After Work. Dana had a hard workday at the hospital. A patient had coded, a med mixup almost created a catastrophe, and she missed lunch. Finally at home, she let the dogs and stripped, ready to unwind. She was excited to spend the evening with her horny husband Cal. While in the bath, he texted her instructions to get ready for sex, and his domination. They'd been playing with power exchange in the bedroom, and it had heated up their already hot sex life. Dana missed a step in Cal's instructions, and repercussions were wielded. However, all is good as both of them snagged delicious orgasms. Their bad days diminished into the background for a fabulous session of sex, and promising evening of relaxing. Enjoy the mental arousal of an erotic romance short story, a short fiction piece, and indulge in the peak of their story! Get the entertainment and marinate in your sexuality! Listen as you exercise. Great for sexual health and fitness!
Ep 368: Waking to His Alarm Cock, A FFM Erotic Story. Zane, his high school sweetheart Maria, and Maria's friend Lissa fell into a threesome FWB relationship one night when the inebriated women kissed. That event launched them into a sexy triad and no one wanted it to end. In fact, they wanted it to strengthen. The problem was, they'd need to hide their relationship from their daughter and the elementary school because Lissa was a kindergarten teacher there. After a night of intense passion, they conk out, but wake up when Zane's morning wood announces that it's time to have sex again. Who needs an alarm clock when he's got an alarm cock? Lissa starts it off and the three fall into a lust-filled morning.
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Ep 368 The Sweet Spot: A Celebration Sex-Positive All-Black Burlesque Variety Show, An Interview with Ainsley Burrows (Founder/Performer) & Laurielle Noel (CEO/Accelerator/Performance Artist). The Sweet Spot is a traveling stage performance show that is a celebration of sex positivity, erotica, relationships, comedy, and erotic arts, including dance and poetry and fictional readings. The show is the longest, biggest running Black Burlesque Variety show in the US. After 17 years they are still growing strong and adding in new content for their audience. The creative and unique show is about sex, sexuality, erotic poetry, burlesque dance, and erotica fiction. The performers create and write their own content, and even design and make their own costumes. They topics they celebrate on the show include reclaiming sensuality/sexuality, navigating boundaries, and intimacy, empowerment through expression, and a candid conversation beyond the sheets. The also showcase different acts on the show including, but not limited to, Shibari rope tying, burlesque romance, erotic poetry, tease routines, comedy games, BDSM demos, edutainment, and of course, music is a big part of the show so there's a D.J.
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Bio: Meet Ainsley Burrows and Laurielle Noel, the dynamic duo behind The Sweet Spot Burlesque. Ainsley, the visionary founder, has revolutionized burlesque entertainment for 17 years producing mesmerizing shows and thought-provoking storytelling series. Celebrating sensuality, empowerment, and inclusivity - pushing artistic boundaries and inspiring authenticity. Laurielle, a first-generation Haitian-American and CEO of The Sweet Spot, accelerates the show's success, making it the largest Black burlesque production in the country. With her vibrant leadership, she creates empowering artistic experiences, captivating audiences in 30+ cities nationwide. A beacon of inspiration, she breaks free from societal constraints, offering safe spaces for sex-positive "edutainment."
While Ainsley and Laurielle are heterosexual, they are strong allies to the LGBTQIA community and make a conscious effort to create a space that is inclusive. The Sweet Spot has a notable LGBTQIA following due to the safe environment they work to create for all sexual orientations and identities. In addition, some of the cast members are part of the LGBTQIA community.
Ep 490: Erotic Literature Featuring Powerful Women with Author John Stone. John Stone, an author of erotic novels, joined the podcast to discuss his writing process, storytelling, and the exploration of themes like powerful women, BDSM, femdom, and cuckolding. He drew parallels between these themes and classic literature, appreciating Ruan Willow's podcast and publisher Fanny Press for supporting erotic authors. Stone shared his motivation for incorporating explicit sexual content, noting that erotica readers often desire higher intensity.
He discussed the process of getting his books published and distributed, emphasizing the importance of compelling stories centered on human relationships and conflicts. The conversation delved into Stone's foray into writing cuckold fiction, exploring the genre's appeal in its taboo and naughty nature. He discussed finding the right publisher for erotica and shared plans for upcoming projects, including a book featuring a couple exploring the cuckold lifestyle and a mystery novel about a retired detective investigating cuckold incidents.
Stone highlighted the appeal of writing and reading erotic fantasies, particularly those involving workplace or taboo scenarios, while acknowledging the importance of creating engaging storylines and character development. He also shared his approach to writing sex scenes, aiming to build sexual tension and mystery rather than being overly graphic, except where warranted. The discussion touched on the challenges and creative process of writing fiction, including non-linear timelines, unexpected plot developments, and the importance of humor and levity, even in risque subject matter like BDSM.
Key Lessons:
John Stone, an author of erotic novels, explores themes of powerful women, complex relationships, BDSM, femdom, cuckolding, erotica, erotica romance, and sexuality in his writing.
He notes that these themes have long been explored in classic literature, indicating that they are not as niche or taboo as they may seem.
He expressed his appreciation for Ruan Willow's podcast and the publisher Fanny Press, which has published his work, suggesting a growing acceptance and interest in this genre.
Ep 366: Christmas Special! It's a Christmas erotica story! Santa Gives 12 Orgasms of Christmas. It's a spoof, a parody, with comedy and hot sexiness, of the 12 days of Christmas--only it's orgasms! Jack has been traveling and he's coming home. He starts up a game of sexual instruction from the airport in Florida for the 12 orgasms of Christmas. There's sexy elf fun with explicit pics, naked baking with nipples coated in cookie dough, sans clothes decorating, even the mean Grinch plays in one round, and so much more sexy holiday erotic excitement! All the levels are steamy and fun, but the last round is the most explosive. Of course! We all come in the end;)Enjoy this holiday sexy & comedic fun fiction tale! Get the delicious entertainment! It's sexy holiday time with an erotic romance! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow.
Ep 365: The Porn Rap Star and Host of STO Podcast Bobbie Lucas. The Southern Champ! Listen in on my real to life chat with Bobbie as he shares about life in the business. After 15 years doing various things associated with the adult film industry, he learned and experienced many things, including seeing many changes. He shares his experience of how he got into doing films, and now that he's retired and podcasting, he still enjoys making a profit off of them. He ran a modeling group helping women get started and more exposure and did music prior to acting in films himself. He talked about how women dominate the industry because they are the stars and set the tone of the shots. He shared the differences between West Coast Hollywood sets and the east coast amateur/pro-am/independent creators. He also shared how things have changed where he used to burn films to DVDs, now things are digital and Only Fans has changed the entire landscape of the business. Now it's flooded and people sell their content for less or even free. He shared how he wanted things change and there became more content with BDSM, kinks, and interracial films. He talked about his experiences in the biz as a producer and as male talent. We discussed the difference between porn and erotica...where people must use their imagination, of maybe they GET TO use their imagination. We debated and brainstormed by more men are buyers over women for porn, but women tend to buy more erotica and audio erotic content. Maybe it's cultural? What do you think? Check out his podcast S.T.O. The Smoker's Lounge where porn stars come and give real smoke and get candid about the industry, life, and sex. https://open.spotify.com/show/71b0tnjrW8nFk1HGsUPAIp?si=aQ91uRwAQSe1di6RzscFBA
Some fave mentions: He's a freak by nature so he took to being in front of the camera. His family was okay with it because "you've got to feed your family". He said even if he became a preacher, he wouldn't take his content down. People in the industry are just regular people too. Women dominate the porn industry, like no other industry. Women get dick when they want it, men get pussy when it's available.
Ep 363: The Sex Challenge Erotica Excerpts, erotic romance fiction. Ruan narrates excerpts from two of the novellas in The Sex Challenge Series: The Limo Sex Challenge (book 5) and Taste of Victory (book 6 of 6). The books and audiobooks are available on Amazon: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesexchallengeseries
The Limo Sex Challenge: ebook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallengeaudiobook Book Blurb: In this spicy erotic rom-com, book 5 of 6, the day of play continues for our later in life couple Brad and Anna. It’s been a delicious Saturday the newlyweds will never forget, but it’s not even close to being done yet. Brad has always fantasized about fooling around in a limo with his woman. He brings his fantasy into this level of the sex challenges and surprises Anna with a sexy limo ride. Even though it’s cold and blustery outside, things heat up intensely inside the limousine. Brad and Anna pleasure each other as the vehicle zooms past the snowy countryside towards dessert, each tempting the other to reach their peak, but the limo driver takes a wrong turn that stunts their sweet ride. They don’t let that stop their sexual escapades though and they find new ways to entice each other to soar towards climax. Their fascination with exhibitionism grips them again as they delve into the juiciest ride home. Who needs dessert when you have your lover right next to you?
Taste of Victory: ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/tasteofvictory audiobook: coming in January 2024! Book Blurb: The last event of the day is the most delicious as Brad and Anna, the second marriage newlyweds, have enjoyed a full Saturday comprised of their sex challenges and games. Their journey to make each other reach climactic peaks throughout the day has brought them giggles, thrills, surprises, and pleasures. They started out in the kitchen, took a trip to the grocery store, enjoyed their car ride, ate dinner and played a sexy game at home, took a limo ride for dessert, then it's back home for the finale of their day of play.
Brad's dream of a day of edging, challenges, and successes along the way with his beautiful new bride comes to fruition as he pampers Anna with extreme indulgence before they consummate the day. They marinate in their sensuality and baste each other's sexuality with flirty fun and warm treats. The intensity is as rich as their satisfaction as the evening unfolds. He loves to take care of her, and she loves being taken care of. He cherishes her as he swells in his sexy dominant role as her pleasurer and leader, which in turn gifts him his own explosive satiation. In this installment, th
Ep 362: Learn to Use Your Sexual Energy with Tantric Specialist Leah Piper. In this enlightening episode, Leah Piper delves into her personal journey with tantra, highlighting its transformative power on sexuality and relationships. She stresses the critical role of communication and the cultivation of sexual energy to elevate pleasure and intimacy, while also offering practical tips for enhancing sexual experiences.
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- Leah recounts her transformative journey with tantra and how it reshaped her approach to sexuality.
- She underscores the pivotal role of open communication and the nurturing of sexual energy in deepening pleasure and intimacy in relationships.
- She explores the profound impact of breath on orgasmic experiences and discusses various orgasm types.
- She advocates for the exploration of fantasies and the use of erotica as tools for sexual growth and deeper connection.
- She emphasizes the importance of stillness and presence during sexual experiences to fully savor pleasure and intimacy.
Guests
Leah Piper
As a seasoned tantric yoga expert, speaker, coach, and mentor, she founded More Love Works and is a co-host of the Sex Reimagined podcast. With over two decades of experience, she is dedicated to guiding individuals and couples toward profound intimacy and assisting entrepreneurs in weaving passion into their life's work.
Action Steps
- Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your sexual desires and fantasies.
- Discover the variety of orgasms and learn to amplify pleasure through breath control.
- Dive into erotica and sensual experiences to enrich your connection and personal pleasure understanding.
- Embrace stillness and presence during sexual encounters to maximize pleasure and intimacy.
Leah Piper
Listener Challenge
I challenge you to embark on a journey of self-discovery regarding your sexual desires and fantasies. Document them, then engage in a candid and supportive dialogue with your partner. Experiment with techniques like breath control and embracing stillness to heighten your pleasure and bond.
Next Steps
Join me on the Sex Reimagined podcast for more empowering discussions on sex and sexuality. Stay connected with me for regular insights and tips on enriching pleasure and intimacy by following my Instagram and TikTok. Website: http://www.moreloveworks.com/ Podcast: http://www.sexreimagined.com/ FREE GIFT: https://www.sexreimagine
Ep 360: Servicing the Trash Man, My Filthy Hotwife Adventure erotica story. Laney lost her job. Her husband John agreed with Laney that they both decided they liked her as a housewife better. Staying home, Laney enjoyed learning to gourmet cook, work out like a gym rat, and make love to her husband on a daily basis. They had even ventured into the alternative lifestyle of a hotwife way of life and had found they loved it. Whether John arranged the dates, or Laney found her own conquests, they both were satiated by the secret taboo wife sharing acts, and especially the reclaiming of Laney by John after the sex-filled dates. Laney had been flirting with the trash man, Jaxon, for many weeks. She had chosen him to be her next willing sexual adventure. One Friday, at John's encouragement, she fully seduced Jaxon, their eager garbage man, in their garage. John wasn't far away, and in the end they all climaxed, but no one more than Laney, their mutual sex Goddess.
About the podcast host Ruan Willow: Ruan is an erotica/erotic romance author, voiceover artist for audiobooks, podcaster, and sex blogger. Find more of her content here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow
Ep 359: How Expanding Your Feminine Energy Will Improve Your Sex Life, Your Relationships, & Your Entire Life with Coach Rori Raye. Rori Raye is a relationship coach who has helped many women harness their feminine energy and have the relationships, and lives they want, and plus, she's been a trainer of coaches for ten years. She teaches women, and coaches, the power of their feminine energy.
What is feminine energy? Rori stated it's feelings, emotions, being in our bodies and out of our heads, it's paying attention to what we are feeling, savoring it, and expressing it. She teaches women that we can get everything we want from our feminine energy. Our society teaches us as women to devalue, downplay, and even flat out ignore our feminine energy giving it the disdain of not being important, frivolous, and not fruitful. One example is how the word 'pussy' has come to mean a man/male/person with a penis is weak, when it should be a compliment and we women should say "hell yes I'm a pussy and I'm full of power because of it". By buying into what is fed to us, we ignore our feminine energy and essentially destroy our lives, our uniqueness, our power, our lives, our relationships, and our sex lives. Our feminine energy is the opposite of what we've been conditioned to think, it's actually the key to our success, our relationships, our work, and our happiness--and even our orgasms! The key to our lives!
But how does it pertain to our sex lives? We need to live in the moment, focus on what we are feeling, the sensations we are feeling, and get connected with our bodies, ie. out of our heads. Sex has mechanics, of course, parts go places...but sex is not mechanical. But many women get trapped by thinking of sex just as mechanical only and then they are not in touch with what they are feelings, and therefore can't even communicate it properly to their partners. Everyone loses.
Women need to pay attention to their feminine energy in: *their relationships *daily life tasks *work *relationships *self-care time *SEX!
Rori gives many useful tips, wonderful pieces of advice, and even action plans for scenarios. Remember embracing feminine energy leads to empowerment and growth, and the betterment of your life, which will also better the lives of those around you.
Ep 357: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat plus Author Interview B.B. Pierce. Ruan narrates an excerpt from the erotica book Rich Older Men and Much Much Younger Women: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat. It's a sexually indulgent story of power exchange, but who's the one really in control? Enjoy the steamy age gap story of a rich man and a young college student who works as a waitress. His yacht and bank account make up for what he lacks... but Chrissie will enjoy herself no matter what! Get the full book on Amazon.
Ep 356: Healthy Sexual & Emotional Intimacy, How Embodiment and Nervous System Regulation are Important with Dr. Alison Ash. She is a sex & intimacy coach and educator/lecturer at Standford University, and online. Dr. Aly shared what embodiment means and how our US culture devalues the wisdom of our bodies, so we often disconnect from our bodies as a result, which causes us to run into problems in sex, relationships, pleasure, and quality of life. Not only does the US have poor sex ed, it basically has zero intimacy education (but things are getting better as some universities are starting to offer such courses). Practicing embodiment is to be very present living in the moment, which Dr, Aly explained is a form of meditation and mindfulness. We can engage in nourishing our intimacy. Our intimacy can be draining rather than fulfilling if it's lacking. She offers courses to help people with this and other issues (including sexual topics). She explained how the 'window of tolerance' and 'range of resiliency' impacts our lives and relationships, and how we can widen that window through self-care. She talked about examples of self-care, which our culture tends to minimize and devalue, such as taking a bath, gardening, journaling, or wrapping up in a soft blanket. She addressed how we need to self-soothe (self-regulate) and co-regulate (meaning engaging in a soothing connection with someone else...aka feel that click with them). Both are important for a healthy relationship. She stated intimacy comes from mutual vulnerablity and with our goal oriented culture, goal oriented sexual relations often occur and this takes us out of our bodies which leads to less enjoyable and fulfilling sex lives. She also stressed that as a culture, we need to stop labeling emotions as good or bad, they are all valuable and give us all information. We also touched on repairing ruptures in relationships, and the female sexual genitalia anatomy...do you know what the clitoris looks like? It is about six inches long and has lobes, legs, a shaft, and a head (somewhat analgous to the penis).
Ep 353: Hotwife Itty Bitty Vixen Erotic Novella Book Excerpt, Mini Erotic Scenes by Ruan, and an ASMR Sheer Scarf Erotic Scene Reading by Ruan. Enjoy this episode threefold with an erotic excerpt from a steamy campground story written by Lacey Cross, Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share Itty Bitty Vixen, narrated by Ruan Willow and InMyHandsAudio. Next enjoy several mini erotic scenes, and lastly savor an ASMR-rich narrative of an erotic Sheer Scarf scene.
Episode 352: Men--Are You Sabotaging Your Sex Life? Learn How to Stop with Tips from Men's Sex Coach and podcaster Sebastian Harris. Sebastian is known for helping men transform their sex lives through his coaching, but his tips will definitely help women too. So, this episode is definitely for women as well. We had such a fantastic chat...we hit on so many important topics to sexual and mental health, relationships, and ways for us all to improve our sex lives/libido. Hint: they are super fun!
Topics of discussion: *Men and Sexuality...women too! *Sexual health is a part of mental health *Common emotional, physical, and spiritual blocks for men & their sexuality *Guilt and shame and culturally created negative thoughts about sex (common in Americans and some other cultures) *How men can make women come better in bed *How cortisol levels impact sexuality *Women's sexuality and anatomy *Sex toy usage *The Magic Triangle: Ways Men can improve their testosterone *Aging and testosterone, how to maximize testosterone levels *Unconventional methods for couples to enflame their sex life *The most important aspects of making a woman squirt *How being judgmental hurts relationships and prevents you from living out your own fantasies with your partner *Why men should read erotica *Role plays *Why the American way of life is hurting our sexuality And so much more! We had an incredible chat! Connect with Sebastian Harris: Sexucation for Men Podcast with short episodes for quick tips and learning, quick re-referencing, and fast help: https://www.sexucationformen.com/sexgod https://www.sexucationformen.com/coaching
Season 3, Episode 350 of 350 in all: The Sex Wizards Halloween Party Orgy. Ready to get seduced, enchanted, and mesmerized by magical sexuality? Enjoy the mystical pleasure this Halloween with a Halloween themed short story to wrap yourself in juicy warm sensuality. Janna is horny and she just wants to hookup with someone at the party because it's been a long time since she had sex. Her friend Bonnie, the party host, has a surprise for her. But that surprise is nowhere as amazing as the surprise the sex wizards have for her...she will get the sex wish of her dreams on Halloween night, when their power is at its max level.
Ep 349: Sex IS Positively Pleasurable Get a Useful Important Education with Dr. Stephanie. We chatted about how sex is often still seen as somewhat taboo in American culture and society and how we need to rewire this viewpoint and view sex as a positive and important piece in the wholeness of our well-being. Our discussion focused on how sex negativity hurts us all, our relationships, our mental health, and our perceptions of the purpose of sex. We need to reframe sex for the entirety of our health. We talked about what shapes our sexuality and our sexual triggers is half nurture and half nature, but we can reframe any painful sexual experiences we may have had and turn them into something more positive and enjoyable. A therapist can help.
We discussed how BDSM has been around since the dawn of time, but it got negative attention in the late 60's. What most people don't understand is that it's the sub who is in full control always and it's consensual, not abusive.
We talked about how people, like the two of us, need to keep discussing sex openly and modeling openness to help those who are sexually and culturally sexually repressed. I brought up how I try and portray healthy sexuality and truth to sexual interactions in my books, and that includes particularly how women reach climax.
The clitoris has been largely ignored by medicine and society, only being first imaged in 2005, and the first model not appearing until 2010. Clitoral sexual pleasure has traditionally been downplayed, ignored, and disregarded in importance in modern times and our overall society has suffered because of that, not to mention our quality of life, our relationships, and our happiness/fulfillment.
We talked about double standards for the sexes, plus the not widely known fact that vulva genitalia do have erectile tissue and engorge just like a penis. It basically is an inside out penis. We discussed the anatomical differences and similarities of our genitalia.
We discussed the benefits of sex toys, clit mapping, and internal mapping of the sex organ for those with a vagina. We also touched on mismatched libidos and how this may just be that the person isn't having the sex they want to have. We also chatted about dark fantasies.
She's also an expert on alternative relationships. She expressed that it's "very normal" to live an alternative lifestyle, maybe common is the best word because 1 in 25 couples in the US engages in some sort of alternative lifestyle.
Ruan's other erotic fiction books and NSFW audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen)
Episode 488: ASMR Reverse Cowgirl Ride, a relaxing self care sexual meditation experience, arousing all your senses and igniting your pleasure. Marinate in your sensuality and play liberally with your sexuality, you own it, no one else does but you. Take it baby, it's yours.
Enjoy this mental exercise and entertainment for sexual health, mental health, and overall wellbeing because good sexual health is a part of good mental health. Paying attention to your own needs helps you then pay attention to your partner's needs. This enhances your relationships as well.
Ep 346: The Sex Loan Erotica Fiction Story written and narrated by Ruan Willow, podcast host. Enjoy this sexy story, written by fan request. It's a story of revenge, greediness, sexual satiation, and satisfaction--because her big boobs are just what he wants! She intends to seduce him and he desires to be seduced. In the end, they are a perfect pair! And not just talking about her tits!
More hot entertainment and fiction and audio arts: NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman’s journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets
Check out my latest audiobook releases! Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share: the birth of a hotwife while camping at a campground. All kinds of yummy sexy challenges in the wild usher this hot itty bitty vixen into the world of hotwife wife-sharing. He's in charge, she happily, and lustily follows. They both get so turned on:
Ep 345 total of 345, season 3: Why Boundaries Matter in Sex and Love with Heather Claus aka Nookie. She is a coach, author, and educator. She just released a book (Take No Shit) about how to create better relationships with others and yourself. And yup, it involves boundaries! We discussed sexual and emotional boundaries and the importance of knowing your personal boundaries to protect yourself (and this includes potentially protecting yourself from abuse). We talked about our sexuality and who owns it? Do you own your own sexuality? Or is another enforcing unwanted boundaries on you? Or is it the media, society, or culture that influences you rather than a person enforcing boundaries on you? We also talked about the shame and guilt that often surrounds sex in the United States (and other parts of the world too, of course). She pointed out that one of the best ways to manipulate people is to try inducing guilt and shame in them. She shared that she doesn't compromise herself in relationships, there might be negotiation, but she doesn't necessarily mean compromise, and how this created lots of backlash and anger when she declared it on social media one time, which is quite interesting. She created a website and app for Dating Kinky (for kink, love, sex, and those seeking alternative lifestyles) and curiouser.life (which is more mainstream).
Ep 343: Dirty Talk in the Shower, A Shower Sex Scene to enjoy. An interracial couple, Shannon and Freddy, have had a busy stressful week at work. They wake on Saturday and it's time to enjoy each other's bodies in the shower. Starting with a butt job in the closet, their play takes them to the shower where they engage in dirty talk as they enjoy each other intimately. Their fun in the heat of the shower gets them off in the juiciest ways as they savor the spray of the water against their naked bodies.
Marinate in your sexuality with this erotic scene and let your brain get exhilarated and refreshed as you journey through this erotica fiction improv story with me, Ruan Willow. Enjoy your body today! It's important to your mental health, because sexual health is an important part of your mental health, and your overall health and fitness. This is entertainment and exercise for your sexuality, and self care time to bask in the fiery glow of spicy relationship intimacy.
Monday Jones, A Dominant BDSM Shamanatrix, Sex Goddess & Worker, Holistic Somatic Practitoner, Coach, & the Culture of Sexuality, Sexual Health, & Society
Ep 342: Monday Jones, A Dominant BDSM Shamanatrix, Sex Goddess & Worker, Holistic Somatic Practitioner, Coach, Writer, & the Culture of Sexuality, Sexual Health, & Society. Today on the podcast, you will find an amazing, inspiring, enlightening, and intense discussion with the epic and alternative lifestyle living individual, Monday Jones. We chatted about politics and sex, religion, culture, sex, sexuality, gender, the history of/current environment of sexuality, and sexual health.
More than just a sex-worker; Ms. Monday Jones (aka Artemis Simon). This cheeky Mistress has openly lived a queer, kinky, taboo, unconventional lifestyle in the realm of BDSM and non-monogamy before having words for it. Monday has a lifetime of experience, knowledge and education in the world of holistic techniques that she has developed into her own style of somatic therapy. She blends bodywork, Reiki, Sexology, lifestyle coaching, plant medicine, tantric, holistic hip & pelvic care, talk therapy, fitness, psychic empathy and Female lead BDSM as a Somatic Practitioner & Shamanatrix.
Monday expresses her esoteric craft not only through her somatic practice but also in an artistic medium as an adult entertainer and producer. Owning her own production company; Hard Point has given an outlet to publicly share her photography, short films, written erotica, and host events as a public performer. Monday has willingly provided specialized counsel to the community with one to one and group settings, offering hands-on and virtual sessions and/or teachings as a professional for over the last 12 years.
Ms. Monday Jones is truly a modern day renaissance woman and talented light & shadow worker that does not ignore the element of sex and utilizes it as a tool for ultimate transformation.
We also chatted about her work in a brothel in Nevada, her dating blog, and how our prudish society not only shapes and harms us, but denies that sexual health is a part of mental health. She talked about how first experiences with sex impact and create triggers in our sexuality, then our culture teaches us to ignore it. But our body keeps the score, but also, our nervous systems can be rewired. She helps people do that rewiring as a coach. Website: https://www.MondayJones.com Members Only Site: www.HardPointsbyMonday.comwww.mondayjones.com/my-links
RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets NEW RELEASE AUDIOBOOK! Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen)
Episode 340: How Men Can Transform from an Average Guy to Being a Superhero in Bed with Adult Star Erik Everhard. Erik Everhard is an author, men’s coach, and former adult film star who specializes in teaching men to recognize and master the primary cues responsible for making 85 percent of women reach the holy grail of sexual interactions: orgasm. His teachings are grounded in practical knowledge, mental tactics, and strategic positions. Holding a master’s-level certification in neuro-linguistic programming and having more than 5000 real-world sexual interactions with women allows him a unique perspective which enables his clients to overcome their limiting beliefs and performance issues, and become masters in the bedroom.
Listen as Erik shares sex secrets and things he's learned in the bedroom about sexuality, health and fitness. He shares relationship tips and advice for men for the bedroom, what women want and need, and how to last. Make the most of your intimate times using his guidance. He also offers a course, books, and trainings for men. Master the bedroom! Check out The Everhard Academy for more education, guidance, sex secrets, and knowledge.
Catch my podcast on tv! The PodNation TV Network/Roku TV. My show is at 11 or 12 pm (ish) Eastern time zone on Sundays & Mondays (and sometimes other times, and on the app anytime for a limited time only though, it's changed weekly). https://player.frontlayer.com/live/fl427618
The podcast is also on the Full Swap Radio internet radio station and app Tuesdays at 6 pm and Wednesdays at 8 am CST.
Episode 339: MMF Threesome Her Body Worship and His Reclaim Erotic Scene, an erotic improv experience created for you by Ruan as she spun the story right off the top of her head as she recorded. Very little editing happened afterwards, this is basically raw right off the top of her head, spinning a tale, a sexy fantasy live as she recorded. This scene is about a married couple named Molly and Brad who want to expand their marriage to include a threesome, with their friend Greg. It's very planned out and they enjoy enacting out their plans, which involve body worshipping Molly and bringing her to multiple orgasms before they enjoy theirs, then Brad reclaims Molly in a scene of domination and submission they both agreed to beforehand. Who said planning isn't fun? They've never done this! They had a blast and allowed for spontaneity in the sexual foray into multiple partner sex. They are devoted as ever as they know that they are committed to one another, and one another's pleasure. Enjoy the spicy romance!
Catch my podcast on tv! The PodNation TV Network/Roku TV. My show is at 11 or 12 pm (ish) Eastern time zone on Sundays & Mondays (and sometimes other times, and on the app anytime for a limited time only though, it's changed weekly). https://player.frontlayer.com/live/fl427618
The podcast is also on the Full Swap Radio internet radio station and app Tuesdays at 6 pm and Wednesdays at 8 am CST.
Ep 337: Sex Tech: A Comfortable Cock Ring that Helps Men Have Better Erections, Sex, & Orgasms with Dr. Elliot Justin. Can you imagine a cock ring that will not only help you maintain an erection, but will feel comfortable, give you better orgasms, and collect helpful information about your erections so doctors can help you have better sexual health and better overall health? It's not a pipe dream! It's real! And it already exists! I chatted with the CEO & Founder of FirmTech, Dr. Elliot Justin, MD, FACEP, and found out the amazing product his company has created that will not only improve men's quality of life (by paying full attention to their sexual health and not disregarding it) but also has the potential to improve their overall health. How? Men have about three erections during the night. How would you know? You are asleep. You can't! Unless you wake up. But this product can measure it for you and tell you after the fact. Other than for curiosity, Why is that important? Because it can point to other health problems, could help a doctor titrate a dosage for the optimal level for sexual and physical health, plus, help a person learn about their body and how to make the most of the penis (& body) they've got. It can also assess erection health during sex, meanwhile also keeping more blood in the penis (comfortably, not like stiff cock rings), and therefore lead to not only longer lasting erections, but also more intense, and heightened orgasms. They are also developing a similar product for women to assess nighttime/& during sex clitoral erections and collect helpful guiding data for women to have better overall health & sexual health/orgasms. This is epic and brilliant! This is basically a sex toy that also collects beneficial data about your own body for better sex and better health. App too... search FirmTech.
Also, use it or lose it! Frequent masturbation & orgasms are essential for better sex and orgasms. I say this all the time on my podcast! Don't forget to come today!
Ep 487: Exploring Erotic Astrology with Stephanie Iris Weiss. Today, we have a special guest, Stephanie Iris Weiss, a certified clinical sexologist, sex coach, astrologer, book author, and writer. Stefanie's work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Elle, Allure, Marie Claire, Bustle, and many more. She joins us to discuss her upcoming book, 'Sex and Your Stars: A Sexologist's Guide to the Erotic Energy of the Zodiac', which dives into the intersection of astrology and sexuality.
In this episode, Stefanie shares insights into how astrology can reveal our deepest desires and sexual inclinations, helping us break through societal and cultural shame. She explains the concept of "erotic energy mapping" and how understanding our astrological charts can empower us to embrace our sexuality fully.
Ruan and Stephanie also delve into the political and cultural forces that seek to control and suppress our sexual freedoms and bodies. They discuss the importance of rejecting shame and reclaiming our sexual power, emphasizing that our bodies and desires are our own. We all need to grab our right to empowerment, and really live it. This is how we fight oppression.
Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that challenges the status quo and encourages you to explore and celebrate your sexuality in all its forms.
Breakdown: 00:01:32 The book explores how people experience shame based on their astrology sign 00:08:12 Podcasts like yours and people in our world, like, stop the people who want to erase... 00:09:41 How did you decide to write this book 00:14:54 The book combines sexology and astrology to help people understand the seasons 00:19:08 What do you wanna know about yourself as an Aries 00:22:13 Looking at the titles, the pleasure of rejecting shame 00:22:41 Black Moon Lilith is the first real feminist of the Zodiac 00:27:38 If someone's looking at your book and they feel intimidated, what would you say 00:29:12 So you do sexology stuff and astrology. What are some common questions people ask you 00:34:00 I talk about Pluto in Aquarius in the conclusion of the book 00:38:58 Both sexuality and astrology have been forced underground for centuries, right 00:45:12 Pluto returns to place where it was when America was born 00:47:34 You can preorder the new book on her website 00:49:03 Will you give people just a little spiel about wha