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What does good sex really feel like — emotionally, mentally, and physically? In this episode, we break down the difference between sex that’s just “okay” and the kind that leaves you glowing, grounded, and genuinely satisfied. From physical chemistry to emotional connection, we explore the ingredients of pleasure that go beyond just orgasms.

Whether you’re unsure if you’ve ever had good sex, or you’re learning to define it on your own terms, this conversation is for you. We’re sharing real experiences, hard truths, and personal insights to help you understand what you should be feeling in the bedroom—and why so many of us settle for less.

🔊 Tune in if you’ve ever asked:

• Is this really what sex is supposed to feel like?

• Why do I feel emotionally disconnected after?

• How do I know if it’s good sex or just good performance?

This is your sign to stop faking satisfaction and start studying what pleasure truly means.

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Thinking about attending your first play party? Curious but nervous? This episode is your ultimate beginner’s guide! We’re breaking down everything you need to know before you step into the room — from how parties are vetted, to first-timer etiquette, to common mistakes that can kill your vibe.

We’re also diving into the realities of consent, the role of alcohol, and how to handle your nerves if this world is brand new to you.

Whether you’re ready to RSVP or still lurking in curiosity — this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and ready to explore with confidence.

What we cover:
✅ How play parties really work today
✅ First-timer etiquette — what to do & what NOT to do
✅ Vetting processes & red flags to watch for
✅ How to manage nerves & set boundaries
✅ Consent & alcohol — the conversations you NEED to have
✅ Mistakes beginners make & how to avoid them

Tune in — because pleasure spaces need to be studied. 🎓✨

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Renay is back, and class is officially in session! After stepping away to grieve the loss of her father, she returns to share her healing journey and opens up about navigating grief while trying to keep it all together.

This week’s syllabus is loaded:
💸 How to ask a man for money without feeling broke or embarrassed
👄 Why some say oral cheating hits harder than sex
💔 Grief, healing, and showing up when your world falls apart

It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s still messy in all the best ways. Tap in and take notes — you don’t wanna miss this lesson.

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Welcome back to Needs to be Studied! In today’s lesson, I’m joined by the hilarious and insightful host of the Safe and Secure Podcast for a no-holds-barred convo that might just get us both detention. We’re talking Marriage vs. Dating—the pros, the cons, and the straight-up confusion.

From messy hall passes to getting expelled from situationships, we’re pulling out our old report cards and sharing wild dating stories from our younger, toxic years (yes, class, we had extra credit in chaos). Whether you’re applying for your marriage license or still getting played on the playground, this episode is full of laughs, lessons, and late-night confessions.

Grab your notebooks, take attendance, and get ready to study these relationship dynamics—because baby, this one needs to be studied! 🎒📚💋

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Ever wondered what really turns you on? Spoiler alert: You might be kinkier than you think! 👀🔥

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the world of kinks, desires, and sexual exploration with Sir Leezus, a kink advisor who helps people unlock their hidden pleasures. We’re breaking down how to discover your true kinks, the biggest misconceptions about exploring BDSM and polyamory, and why so many people are afraid to embrace their freaky side.

We also get hands-on with sensory play, take a deep dive into breath play, and discuss the importance of aftercare in kink dynamics. Whether you’re a total newbie or already deep in the lifestyle, this episode is packed with juicy insights that will expand your pleasure and boost your confidence in the bedroom.

Press play and find out:
 🔥 How to figure out what kinks you secretly enjoy
 🔥 The #1 myth about polyamory & BDSM
 🔥 What sensory play is and how to try it
 🔥 Breath play—why some love it & the risks involved
 🔥 The importance of aftercare & how to do it right

This is a judgment-free zone, so get comfy and let’s unlock some desires together. You just might surprise yourself!

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Follow Needs to be Studied: @billy.thebadguy | @needstobestudiedpod
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Billy is joined by Mistress Nita for a spicy crash course in sex party survival! 🌶️ In this sizzling episode, we reveal the steamy secrets of what goes down at a sex party, expose the hidden vetting process, and teach couples how to avoid rookie mistakes and master boundaries before getting hot and heavy. Plus, in our "Needs to Be Studied" segment, we show you how to find the perfect party that matches your vibe—how to spot red flags, ensure inclusivity, and keep it safe. Get ready to turn up the heat!

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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy is joined by Esh from the Esh Your Heart Out podcast for a deep dive into the complex dynamics between love, friendships, and personal growth. We explore why people often lose friends when entering a new relationship, backed by studied research and real-life experiences.

But that’s not all – we also dig into sex phobias, breaking down what they are, why they happen, and how they can be addressed. Plus, Esh and Billy discuss the benefits of embracing singlehood and how taking time for yourself can lead to personal empowerment and growth.

It’s all about finding balance between love, friendships, and self-love, so grab your notebooks and join us in class for this insightful, fun, and risqué conversation!

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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy’s kicking it with Esh from the Esh Your Heart Out podcast to talk about something we’ve all felt at some point – losing friends when you get into a new relationship. We’re breaking it down with the real research that shows why this happens and what’s really going on when your friendship circle starts shrinking.

But wait, we’re not stopping there. We also get into sex phobias – yup, they’re real, and we’re unpacking what they are, why they happen, and how you can work through ‘em. Plus, we’re diving into why being single isn’t a bad thing, and how owning your singlehood can level you up in ways you didn’t even know.

So grab your pens, class is in session – let’s talk about love, friendships, sex, and the power of doing your own damn thing.

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Is it chemistry or compatibility that really matters in love? 🤔 In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy and Wolf break down why we keep falling for the wrong ones and whether that instant spark is actually a red flag. 👀💔

We also get into:
🔥 Billy’s latest ghosting situation—was he wrong or justified? 👻
🔥 Spicy Valentine’s Day tips to make this year one for the books 😈💘
🔥 The difference between a "roster" according to Billy vs. Wolf—who’s got it right? 👀

This one is messy, unfiltered, and guaranteed to make you rethink your dating strategy. Tap in! 🎧

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Are you constantly dating the wrong people? Do you struggle with trust issues or feel like you’re always the one putting in all the effort? 🫠 In this episode, I sit down with Mac the Therapist, a relationship expert who’s breaking down attachment styles, insecurities, and why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners.

🎙️ We’re covering:
✅ The real reason you have trust issues (it’s deeper than you think!)
✅ Are you anxious, avoidant, or secure? Understanding your attachment style
✅ Why you keep falling for emotionally unavailable people
✅ How to build trust and stop sabotaging your relationships
✅ Practical tips to feel secure in love again

If you’re tired of toxic cycles, trust issues, and ghosting, this episode will change how you approach love forever. 💡

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Class is officially in session, and today we’re diving deep into the world of foreplay, exploring your sexuality, and building sexual compatibility! Joining us is the incredible Jody, a certified sexologist and host of the podcast Her Nut Matters. Jody brings her expert knowledge and no-holds-barred approach to teach us everything we didn’t learn in Sex Ed.

We’re breaking down why foreplay is more than just an “extra credit” activity, how to explore your desires while single, and the signs that you and your partner are sexually compatible. From real-life examples to practical tips, this episode is the ultimate study guide for improving your sex life and embracing your sexuality.

Tune in for a fun, risqué, and insightful conversation that’ll have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about intimacy. Don’t miss this chance to level up your “sex education”!

Homework Assignment: Listen, take notes, and figure out what’s missing from your sexual curriculum!

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