Narcissism At Work – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Welcome to the first trailer for Narcissism At Work, a brand-new podcast hosted by award-winning social impact entrepreneur Leyya Sattar and clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani. In this sneak peek, we introduce the toxic patterns and power plays that narcissists use to manipulate, control, and gaslight others in professional settings, from subtle digs to full-blown psychological warfare.

You’ll hear why this podcast matters now more than ever, and what inspired Leyya and Dr. Daksha to shine a light on the psychological games that often go unchecked at work. Whether you’re questioning a colleague’s behaviour or recovering from a toxic culture, this series will help you spot the signs, understand the dynamics, and start reclaiming your power.

This isn’t just a podcast. It’s a toolkit for self-protection and clarity in workplaces where narcissism thrives. Subscribe now so you can stay one step ahead and hear all the new episodes as soon as they're released.

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We're sharing the story of Aisha, a professional who entered a role at a start-up sold as inclusive and progressive, only to be met with manipulation, erratic behaviour, and emotional abuse by a narcissistic leader.

Aisha describes being gaslit, love-bombed, and constantly destabilised through inconsistent feedback, intrusive WhatsApp messages, and power plays tied to vulnerability. The episode touches on themes like the illusion of inclusion, weaponised empathy, and the erosion of confidence under narcissistic leadership, particularly when masked as ‘empowered’ startup culture. Dr. Daksha Hirani offers psychological insights on boundary-setting, journaling for self-validation, and how to move forward while honouring your values and worth.

Listener Letters are real stories submitted by the Other Box community, sharing lived experiences of navigating toxic workplaces and narcissistic dynamics.

Each letter is anonymised, read aloud, and followed by expert insight from clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani. Together, we unpack the behavioural patterns at play and share tools for clarity, validation, and recovery.

We hope these real-life accounts allow you to recognise the signs sooner and start focusing on how to reclaim your life. 

Connect with Other Box: otherbox.co/podcast for further resources | @otherbox

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Narcissism At Work is a co-production from Other Box and Breaking Atoms.

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How do you know when you're working for a narcissist? In this episode of Narcissism At Work, host Leyya and clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha unpack the subtle, and not-so-subtle, signs of narcissistic behaviour in professional settings. From love bombing to identity theft, we explore the mirroring tactics narcissists use to draw people in, disarm them, and gain their trust. We also dig into how these behaviours escalate over time, impacting your confidence, decision-making, and workplace wellbeing.

What we cover:

• How narcissists "mirror" your identity and values to create false trust
• Why early admiration can quickly turn into control
• What to look out for in narcissistic bosses, colleagues, or clients
• How gaslighting shows up at work 
• The psychological toll of long-term manipulation and confusion
• The emotional cost of staying silent or second-guessing your reality

Dr. Daksha explains:

• The impact of narcissistic behaviour on your nervous system
• How cognitive dissonance and denial keep people stuck
• Why many survivors experience trauma symptoms long after the narcissist is gone

Plus:

• Real-life scenarios of narcissistic dynamics at work
• Practical tips to spot the red flags and protect yourself
• A reminder that you’re not imagining it and you’re not alone

Connect with Other Box: otherbox.co/podcast for further resources | @otherbox

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Narcissism At Work is a co-production from Other Box and Breaking Atoms.

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In this bonus episode of Narcissism At Work, we hear from Anna, a high-performing professional stuck in a toxic workplace led by a manipulative, narcissistic boss. Her story explores the chronic fear, power imbalances, and emotional exhaustion that define narcissistic abuse at work, particularly for women and people of colour. Through cycles of love-bombing and devaluation, Anna begins to lose her sense of self, despite outward success. Dr. Daksha Hirani offers expert insight into the psychology of trauma bonding, intermittent validation, and how to rebuild boundaries. This episode is a vital reminder: you’re not imagining it, and you’re not alone.

Listener Letters are real stories submitted by the Other Box community, sharing lived experiences of navigating toxic workplaces and narcissistic dynamics.

Each letter is anonymised, read aloud, and followed by expert insight from clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani. Together, we unpack the behavioural patterns at play and share tools for clarity, validation, and recovery.

We hope these real-life accounts allow you to recognise the signs sooner and start focusing on how to reclaim your life. 

Connect with Other Box: otherbox.co/podcast for further resources | @otherbox

Subscribe to get new episodes as soon as they drop.

Narcissism At Work is a co-production from Other Box and Breaking Atoms.

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In our first episode, we unpack one of the most misused words in modern psychology: narcissism, and explain how it shows up in the workplace. While the term is often thrown around, we dig beneath the surface with expert insight from Clinical Psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani, who has 25+ years of experience supporting people impacted by narcissistic abuse.

We explore:

• What narcissism really means (and what it doesn’t)
• The difference between narcissistic traits and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
• Why workplaces, especially high-achieving or high-pressure ones, can become fertile ground for narcissistic behaviour
• The origins of the term "gaslighting" (and why it still matters today)
• Key research, including the Wolchyk and Antonella Somma studies
• How narcissistic abuse affects your mental health, including symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, and depression, as outlined by the World Health Organisation
• Examples of narcissistic dynamics at work
• Coping strategies like Grey Rocking and Yellow Rocking (and how they differ)
• How narcissists mirror and manipulate
• The long-term emotional and psychological toll of working under or alongside narcissistic individuals

Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic boss, co-founder, or colleague, this episode gives you language, clarity, and a starting point for healing.

Connect with Other Box: otherbox.co/podcast for further resources | @otherbox

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Narcissism At Work is a co-production from Other Box and Breaking Atoms.

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Welcome to the second trailer for Narcissism At Work, a podcast series created to break the silence around narcissistic abuse in professional settings. In this trailer, we introduce our bonus Listener Letters episodes. Real stories submitted by the Other Box community, sharing the lived experience of navigating toxic workplaces and narcissistic dynamics.

When you’re in the middle of narcissistic abuse, especially at work, it’s easy to doubt yourself. You minimise the experience. You gaslight yourself. You wonder: “Was it really that bad?” These stories are a powerful reminder that you’re not imagining it, and you’re not alone. Each letter is anonymised, read aloud and followed by clinical insight from psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani, who helps unpack the behaviours and patterns at play, offering clarity, validation, and tools for recovery.

We hope these real-life accounts allow you to recognise the signs sooner and start focusing on how to reclaim your life. 

Connect with Other Box: otherbox.co/podcast for further resources | @otherbox

Subscribe to get new episodes as soon as they drop.

Narcissism At Work is a co-production from Other Box and Breaking Atoms.

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In this bonus episode, Faisa writes in as a manager whose confidence was shattered by a direct report who consistently blurred the line between vulnerability and manipulation. From rejecting basic feedback and weaponising mental health language, to quietly shifting blame and undermining leadership through conflicting narratives, this experience explores what happens when managers, especially empathetic, conscientious ones, find themselves unable to do their job for fear of being seen as "cold," "mean," or "sabotaging."

This story is a must-listen for anyone navigating emotionally complex team dynamics, and a vital reminder that toxic dynamics aren’t exclusive to senior-level roles.

Expert Insight

Clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani offers compassionate, trauma-informed insight into:

• The concept of weaponised incompetence and how empathy can be used against you
• How to reclaim your voice, your confidence, and your authority as a manager
• When guilt is unjustified, and how to separate emotional manipulation from support needs
• Practical tips for documentation, boundary setting, and healing from leadership trauma

Key themes

• Weaponised Vulnerability: Using mental health language to deflect responsibility or silence accountability
• Gaslighting and Narrative Control: Contradicting stories to different people, making the manager seem unstable or unkind
• Guilt + Gendered Power Dynamics: The fear of being seen as "sabotaging" a junior woman's career, especially as a woman in a senior role
• Loss of Confidence in Leadership: Lingering anxiety, fear of managing again, and emotional burnout
• How to Reclaim Trust in Yourself: Practical tools to navigate manipulation while staying true to your values

Why this episode matters

Not all narcissistic dynamics look like shouting CEOs. Some are quiet, confusing, and disguised as wellness, vulnerability, or even friendship. Faisa’s story sheds light on the often invisible burnout that comes from managing someone who continually avoids accountability while presenting themselves as the victim. It’s a form of gaslighting that leaves empathetic leaders questioning their instincts, doubting their decisions, and, too often, abandoning leadership altogether.

Bonus episodes

Listener Letters are real stories submitted by the Other Box community, sharing lived experiences of navigating toxic workplaces and narcissistic dynamics. Each letter is anonymised, read aloud, and followed by expert insight from clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani. Together, we unpack the behavioural patterns at play and share tools for clarity, support and recovery. We hope these real-life accounts allow you to recognise the signs sooner and start focusing on how to reclaim your life. 

Support the Podcast

If this episode resonated with you:

• Subscribe and leave us a review
• Share with friends, family, or colleagues
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Narcissism At Work is a co-production from Other Box and Breaking Atoms. Subscribe to get new episodes as soon as they drop.

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Have you ever left a job feeling like a shell of yourself—anxious, exhausted, second-guessing everything, and unsure how it got so bad?

In this episode of Narcissism at Work, Leyya and Clinical Psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani explore the deep, often invisible toll that narcissistic abuse takes on the body and mind. From chronic stress and anxiety to adrenal fatigue and disconnection from self, this conversation unpacks the nuanced psychological and physical fallout of being in close proximity to narcissists.

You’ll hear why these symptoms often go unnoticed or are misdiagnosed, how survivors become stuck in fight, flight and freeze responses, and how trauma-informed tools like ACT therapy can help people reclaim their power and rebuild trust in their own bodies. The episode also offers practical first steps for anyone currently trapped in a toxic job or relationship dynamic

• WHO (World Health Organisation)
• Polyvagal Theory (Stephen Porges)
• ACT Therapy (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
• Internal Family Systems (IFS)
• EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) for trauma release
• The “STUF” Framework from ACT(Sensations, Thoughts, Urges, Feelings)

“They will feed your fears and position themselves as the only person who can help you get what you need.” – Dr. Daksha Hirani

“I’ve always seen myself as a strong, brave, competent person. I couldn’t understand how I let it get so bad. But now I realise it’s not about weakness, it’s about how expertly these people play on our C.R.A.P. and target people for their strengths, NOT weaknesses.” – Leyya Sattar

Why it matters:

Far too many people endure chronic stress and trauma at work without naming it for what it truly is: abuse. When the harm is coming from someone charismatic, successful, or in a position of power, it often gets minimised or normalised leaving targets anxious, burned out, and disconnected from their sense of reality and self.

This episode breaks that silence. It gives language, context, and validation to what many have wrongly dismissed as “just work stress.” It reframes healing not as a return to who you were, but as a reclamation of agency…one that starts in the body, rewires the nervous system, and reconnects you to your core values.

For anyone stuck in a toxic workplace, questioning their gut, or simply feeling “off,” this episode offers both clarity and direction. It’s a map back to yourself.

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In this Listener Letter, we hear from Hannah, a former employee who found herself working under the same narcissistic CEO twice, a decade apart.

At first, she returned believing things would be different. But what followed was an extreme environment of control, gaslighting, public humiliation, and 24/7 surveillance dressed up as “remote flexibility.”

From forced video calls all day long, to aggressive outbursts, retaliation for speaking up, and weaponising therapy-speak to silence disagreement, this story is a chilling reminder of how narcissistic leadership infects a company’s entire culture.

Expert Insight

Clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani offers deep, trauma-informed insight into:

• How narcissistic leaders use image management, fear and false morality to maintain power
• Why they target high performers, and punish anyone who exposes the truth
• The nervous system toll of long-term psychological abuse at work
• How to manage anxiety and emotional safety when you can’t just leave
• What to do when you’re dealing with someone who will never be accountable

Key themes

• Performative values and moral grandstanding by toxic leaders
• Psychological manipulation disguised as professional development
• Surveillance, control, and digital coercion in remote work
• Blame-shifting, retaliation, and long-term trauma

Why this episode matters

Hannah’s experience reveals that sometimes, it’s not just the outbursts or gaslighting that do the most damage; it’s the slow erosion of trust in yourself. The fear. The second-guessing. The quiet shrinking.

For anyone who’s ever frozen when a Slack message popped up, stayed silent in meetings to avoid punishment, or delayed updating LinkedIn out of fear, this episode offers solidarity, clarity, and a path forward.

Bonus episodes

Listener Letters are real stories submitted by the Other Box community, sharing lived experiences of navigating toxic workplaces and narcissistic dynamics. Each letter is anonymised, read aloud, and followed by expert insight from clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani. Together, we unpack the behavioural patterns at play and share tools for clarity, support and recovery.

We hope these real-life accounts allow you to recognise the signs sooner and start focusing on how to reclaim your life. 

Support the Podcast

If this episode resonated with you:

• Subscribe and leave us a review
• Share with friends, family, or colleagues
• Follow us on socials for more insights and behind-the-scenes content (@otherbox) 

You can connect with Other Box: otherbox.co/podcast for further resources. 

Narcissism At Work is a co-production from Other Box and Breaking Atoms. Subscribe to get new episodes as soon as they drop.

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Have you ever dealt with an HR team that protects toxic leaders and silences the people they hurt? In this episode of Narcissism at Work, we explore how narcissism can show up not just in individuals but in entire systems. From performative DEI to HR structures that enable abuse, we unpack how power and progressive language can be used as tools of control. While many HR teams do great work, we’re focusing on what happens when that’s not the case.

This week, I’m joined by Dr. Daksha Hirani and special guest Raakhi, Other Box’s HR consultant, to explore what happens when toxicity becomes institutionalised and what needs to change.

What we cover:

• Why harmful behaviours often go unchallenged, especially when "golden" employees bring in revenue or hold a high status.
• The myth of HR neutrality and how internalised fear can prevent necessary action.
• The role of NDAs and settlement agreements in silencing victims.
• How narcissists exploit race, gender, neurodivergence, and other identities for performative allyship.
• How to spot red flags in leaders and avoid becoming a “flying monkey.”
• The importance of documentation, pattern recognition, and building peer support.
• Tools like S.T.U.F. (Sensations, Thoughts, Urges, Feelings) to reconnect with your truth.

References and Frameworks Mentioned

• CRAP: (Criticism, Rejection, Abandonment, Punishment) core fears exploited in narcissistic abuse.
• FOG: (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) tactics used by narcissists to manipulate.
• S.T.U.F: (Sensations, Thoughts, Urges, Feelings) a self-awareness tool to ground yourself in reality.
• "Flying Monkeys": Narcissistic abuse term for bystanders who unknowingly enable the abuser.

Quote Highlights

• “Your workplace culture is your reputation.” Raakhi Tanvi
•  “You are not making this S.T.U.F up. You know what you know.” Dr. Daksha Hirani
•  “Even if you can’t name names, you can still speak your truth.” Leyya Sattar

Why it matters:

HR is often positioned as the safeguard of workplace wellbeing, yet too often, it becomes the buffer that protects toxic leaders and colleagues instead of the people they harm. When toxicity infiltrates HR, the very systems meant to ensure fairness, safety, and accountability can end up enabling abuse and silencing staff. By exploring this tension, we wanted to show how systemic narcissism hides in plain sight and what needs to shift to rebuild trust, integrity, and actual inclusion at work.

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If this episode resonated with you:

• Subscribe and leave us a review
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