Join host Pete Hunt as he delves into all the challenges of education with Will Turner, headmaster at Ryde School on the Isle of Wight (Pete's home Island). Pete and Will cover:

• The dangers of social media and smartphone use for young people.
• The future of education in the age of AI and technological advancements.
• Proposed changes to the curriculum and assessment processes.
• The evolution of boarding school environments and student well-being.
• The importance of empathy and counseling in supporting students emotionally.

Will Turner brings a wealth of experience in education and school leadership. His academic journey began at a boarding school in Cambridge at the age of 15, followed by university studies in French and Italian. Will's passion for teaching emerged in his final university year, kickstarting his career at the renowned Sherborne School in Dorset.

His professional path saw him taking pivotal roles at prestigious institutions such as Harrow School, St John's School, and UWC Adriatic in Italy. His international experience includes working with students on full and partial scholarships, offering him diverse insights into varying educational environments.

Since joining Ryde School two years ago, Will has championed significant changes, including policies on smartphone use and advocating for a "dumb phone" alternative for younger students to encourage face-to-face interactions. An advocate for modernising the curriculum, he aims to integrate AI and diagnostic programs to enhance learning experiences, focusing on developing skills relevant to the workplace.

00:00 Introduction

00:53 Career experience/background

05:33 Will’s parents separation during GCSE year

09:04 Wished for counseling during university for support

13:26 Modern boarding schools

15:14 Boarding school experiences in mixed environments

18:39 Changes in safeguarding practices

21:07 Safe age for children to start boarding

24:47 Increased parental involvement in boarding

29:26 DVDs replacing videos

31:38 School recommending “dumb phone” for students

33:40 Lack of awareness about online dangers

38:26 Adolescence - Insecurities and embarrassing moments

41:55 AI in schools

46:23 Potential impact of VAT on school fees

49:23 Universities shifting to open book assessments

53:13 Preference for International Baccalaureate over A-levels

54:38 Call for comprehensive curriculum review for all ages

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Sir Steve Redgrave is widely considered one of the greatest Olympians of all time, having collected 5 OLYMPIC GOLD MEDALS over 5 different Olympic Games. You would expect that this kind of achievement would bring nothing but fame and glory. You can imagine my surprise to learn otherwise.

In this episode we talk about:

- Who Steve Redgrave really is.

- What motivated him.

- Why ending his Olympic career made him clinically depressed.

- What he did about it.

Curious to learn more? Find out by listening in.

You may know that Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast is also the Founder of Monumental, a personal development platform for male business owners and leaders.

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Timestamps

00:00:00 Trailer

00:01:03 Intro

00:01:25 Favorite Race

00:05:42 Biggest Rivals

00:08:27 Team Mates

00:15:09 Biggest setbacks

00:17:33 Understanding the Determination

00:23:28 Growing up

00:30:37 Other influences

00:33:32 Life after Rowing

00:38:58 Earnings as an Olympic Athlete

00:40:57 Suicide and depression after sports

00:47:35 Ageing after sports

00:49:44 Helping others as a celebrity

00:52:57 The power of community

00:57:20 Is being famous Isolating?

01:05:11 How would you like to remembered?

Welcome to episode 11 of The Privileged Man podcast with Dr Joy Schaverien. Joy is a Jungian psychoanalyst, psychotherapist and supervisor. 

In 2015 Joy authored the book “Boarding School Syndrome” where she describes common symptoms suffered by those affected by early boarding after extensive research with ex-boarders, in psychotherapy and in semi-structured interviews. 

Since the release of the book Joy has been invited on Channel 4 News and LBC Radio and her book has been reviewed favourably in the Daily Mail, The Daily Telegraph and The Sunday Times to name a few. 

Spending time with Joy was an enlightening experience and I am extremely grateful for her time and passion around a subject not often talked about and as such, widely misunderstood.

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Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

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Welcome to episode 10 of The Privileged Man podcast with Sir Andrew Strauss. Straussy was a legendary England Cricket Captain becoming one of only three Englishmen to win the ashes both in England and Australia. 

I start off the podcast getting in as much cricket trivia as possible before settling into a deeper conversation on how Andrew dealt with the tragically early death of his beloved wife Ruth and the legacy it ultimately and stunningly created through the Ruth Strauss Foundation. 

Andrew’s openness and vulnerability to talk about his grief is remarkably courageous and I’m hugely grateful too him for coming on the podcast and modelling this type of leadership. 

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Welcome to another special episode of The Privileged Man podcast with Damian Hopley MBE, a former rugby union star for London Wasps and England.

Damian or Hoppers as he’s widely known excelled in rugby from a young age, representing his schools of St Benedict and Harrow before moving onto St Andrews and Cambridge where he studied Theology, hence later on being nicknamed in the press as “the vicar of rugby”. 

A versatile player, Damian's career was on the rise until injuries forced an early retirement at just 26. But his impact on the sport didn't end there.

In 1998, he founded the Rugby Players' Association, advocating for the welfare of professional rugby players in England, a contribution that earned him an MBE.

Damian’s intimate view on the world of rugby today is fascinating but much more than that I found Damian’s honesty about his own experiences vulnerable and courageous and a brilliant example for all men to follow as you will particularly find towards the end of this podcast. 

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I am delighted to be in conversation with Dr Dan Poulter who has been the MP for Central Suffolk and North Ipswich since May 2010. Dan is also a psychiatrist.

Between 2012 and 2015 he was a Government health minister with responsibilities including maternity, child health, veteran’s health, NHS procurement, NHS estates, and the NHS workforce. He is currently Co-Chair of the All Party Parliamentary Group (APPG) on Global Health and a member of the Energy and Net Zero House of Commons Select Committee.   

Dan has extensive knowledge and public policy expertise in health & social care, energy & climate change, agriculture, international development, public sector procurement, and drugs laws.  

He still works as an NHS doctor in the field of mental health, liaison psychiatry and addictions on a part-time basis.   

I really enjoyed speaking with Dan, I found him remarkably authentic and real as a Member of Parliament, and an extremely knowledgeable psychiatrist.

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Welcome to this special episode of The Privileged Man Podcast, where we delve into the groundbreaking work of Nick Duffell, a renowned expert in the psychological impact of boarding schools. 

With professional qualifications spanning systemic Family Therapy, Psychosynthesis, Psychoanalysis and Somatic Therapy, Nick has emerged as the trailblazer psychotherapist in understanding the experiences of numerous boarding school pupils.

He has authored several influential books, such as "The Making of Them" (which was endorsed by the British Medical Journal) and "Wounded Leaders,". Both these books challenge societal norms and perceptions surrounding the boarding school experience. 

Of course, for this alternative view, Nick is widely challenged and criticised. 

His work is based on his findings from numerous Boarding School attendees and so I ask that, however confronting you may find Nick’s viewpoint, you look at it with an open mind.

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Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

And we have a lot of fun doing it.

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In episode 6 of The Privileged Man Podcast we welcome Dr Phil Hopley. Phil is a Medical Doctor, Consultant Psychiatrist and is a globally recognised expert in mental health and performance. To top that off, he also walked the walk playing premiership rugby player for Wasps. 

He currently holds advisory roles with a number of the UK’s leading professional service firms and the McLaren Formula 1 Race Team and has worked with countless top level sportsmen, clubs, Politicians and businessmen. 

Phil’s 20 years as a medicolegal expert enables him to effectively support leaders coping with the intense media-exposed demands of high profile events including: Commons Select Committee hearings, the US Senate Committee hearings, contentious Employment Tribunals and Civil Court cases. 

It’s fair to say that by the end of this podcast I was feeling that much smarter for listening too and knowing I was in the presence of one of the world’s most sort after psychiatrists. 

If you enjoy this episode please do support us by giving it a 5* review. Thank you so much.

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Today we welcome Patrick Foster, a former professional cricketer, insurance broker, and independent schoolteacher. His story, however, is not one of seamless victories. Behind the facade of an idyllic upbringing and early accomplishments, Patrick grappled with a pathological gambling addiction that began during his university days. The challenges he faced in transitioning from the world of sport into the harsh realities of everyday life fuelled a dependency that would see him bet an astounding £4 million over 12 years.

Patrick's addiction monopolised his existence, pushing him to the very edge and bringing him to the precipice of taking his own life in March 2018. This rock-bottom moment served as a catalyst for change, triggering a profound awakening within him.

Driven by an inner need to turn his hardship into a beacon of hope for others, Patrick has committed himself to share his journey since 2018 with the world. 

This episode is a narrative of a privileged education, happiness, despair, understanding, and eventually recovery to understand what it means to be a truly privileged man. Welcome to another eye-opening episode of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Today I welcome a woman who has been a guiding star in my own journey of self-discovery, Janet Hogan. 

After discovering The Privileged Man in The Sunday Times, I started to work with Janet who helped me uncover a belief (which I will reveal in this podcast) that held me back for over 30 years.

This is not unique to me. We all have a core be-LIE-f that we are telling ourselves that is responsible for the vast majority of our behaviour.

Janet's narrative is not just compelling, but deeply inspirational. At the height of her commercial success story, Janet found herself in possession of everything but the one thing she’d been chasing her entire life: inner peace. 

This elusive peace wasn't found in an expected epiphany but emerged from a near-death experience, casting her life into sharp, transformative focus.

From the brink of the unknown, she heard a voice that said, “Janet, you’ve let everyone down.” and in that startling moment, she realized that what she had believed to be selfless sacrifices were actually a form of denial and She’d been unknowingly withholding her greatest gift from the world – her incredible ability to teach and guide.

After this revelation, Janet dedicated the next decade to the study of Personal Development. However, it was her two-decade tenure in advertising, studying human motivation, combined with her frustration with traditional therapies and transformational modalities that drove her to create her unique programs.

Now, Janet devotes her energy to helping others find their true path and go on their own inner journeys. 

Welcome to a truly enlightening episode 4 of the Privileged Man Podcast.

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Today, we have another incredible guest, Benjamin Fry.

An Eton and Oxford graduate, Benjamin started out his career after film school with work that was distributed by giants HBO and Paramount, he was also a nightlife entrepreneur, and a BBC television presenter. This list of eclectic experiences eventually led him to train as a psychotherapist and author his first book of three.

But with all this success, Benji's story took a significant turn when he personally grappled with a breakdown as he neared 40, an experience that gave him a unique perspective on the state of mental health support, particularly for men. 

Using his business acumen, media skills, and clinical training, he founded Khiron Clinics, one of the only residential trauma-treatment centres globally.

Whilst stepping back from the day to day of Khiron, Benjamin now offers therapy to couples, helping them heal their relationships with the knowledge and tools gained from his own experiences and professional training.

If you want to hear a raw and unfiltered story of a man who society would see as having everything but felt like he had nothing and his path back, then this is the episode for you.  

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Today I am joined by none other than Alistair Elliott, renowned for his term as the Senior Partner and Group Chairman of Knight Frank, the world's largest privately owned property advisory company.

During his tenure, Knight Frank broke record after record financially but also modernised as a company, committing, for example, to be net zero by 2027.

Alistair’s success story continues to go from strength to strength after his Knight Frank retirement in 2021, expanding into the realms of social change and mental health. As the Chairman of Learn2Live, he's passionately engages in assisting teenagers to surmount mental health challenges.

In the world of real estate, he continues to wield his wisdom with senior roles at Grosvenor, and the ’s estates.

I loved spending this time with Alistair and downloading his wisdom to share with you. We cover everything from family, to alcohol, to learning difficulties, to letting people go, to the 4F’s but enough from me…

I hope you enjoy the episode.

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Richard Tice, Chairman of Reform UK, who are set to have a huge say in shaping British Politics for the next 5 years, joins us on the Podcast.

Who is Richard Tice?

What motivates him?

And can the right really be caring?

Find out by listening in....

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Today, we have a very special guest, Max Dickins. A man who has traversed the landscape of media and art, leaving a mark on each and every platform he graces, from print to stage, from radio waves to the small screen BUT today he’s here with us in London to discuss something profoundly personal and universally impactful.

He's the acclaimed author of 'Billy No Mates: How I Realised Men Have a Friendship Problem', a book that has made a global impact and has been translated into numerous languages. This is not just a piece of literature; it's an exploration of male friendships, an issue often buried under layers of machismo and societal expectations.

His insightful and hilarious writing has also been featured in prominent publications such as The Observer, Sunday Times, Daily Mail, and GQ highlighting his unique blend of candor and wit.

A Sony Award nominee for his radio show on Absolute Radio, a playwright with a nationally toured, critically acclaimed play 'Man on the Moor', and a familiar face on BBC One’s Michael McIntyre’s Big Show - he is a man of many talents indeed.

But today, we focus on the issue at the heart of his book 'Billy No Mates', an issue that resonates with so many men the often-unspoken problem of forming and maintaining male friendships.

It is my great pleasure to introduce our esteemed guest, the multitalented and insightful, Mr. Max Dickins.

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In this profound episode, Alex Renton, an investigative journalist, unravels what he describes as the disturbing truths hidden within Britain's elite boarding school system. 

Sharing his personal journey and cover-ups he uncovered, Alex sheds light on what he sees as the darker aspects of these prestigious institutions. He discusses the crucial need for early disclosure and intervention to mitigate the lasting scars of abuse.

Throughout the conversation, Alex explores how in his view boarding schools not only perpetuate class apartheid and British exceptionalism but also widen the chasm between the elite and the broader society. 

And how this divide fosters a culture of denial and disconnection from the harsh realities faced by most people. 

The discussion also critiques the wider failures of the British education system and the urgent need for substantial reforms.

Tune in to hear Alex Renton's compelling insights on overcoming the shadows of the past and advocating for a future where education uplifts rather than oppresses.

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Henmania has arrived on The Privileged Man Podcast!

I am delighted to dive deep into an exclusive interview with Tim Henman, the iconic former British tennis sensation.

Brace yourself for an exhilarating ride through Tim's journey, from his privileged upbringing to the exhilarating highs of his illustrious tennis career.

Discover the Tim's secrets to success and the indispensable role of a robust support system.

With riveting revelations about his experiences at Wimbledon and the transformative impact of family and mentors, Tim offers a masterclass in determination and perseverance.

But the journey doesn't end there!

Explore Tim’s experience of boarding schools, the challenges of fame, and the profound significance of community in shaping one's destiny.

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Join Pete Hunt on "The Privileged Man Podcast" for a compelling episode with Ruari Fairbairns, the innovator of the "One Year No Beer" challenge. 

In this enlightening session, Ruari recounts his own journey from an alcohol-laden lifestyle to spearheading a movement that challenges our national relationship with the bottle.

With frankness and insight, Ruari addresses the significant toll alcohol takes on both personal health and societal well-being. He sheds light on the habitual cycle of alcohol use, where brief solace quickly gives way to increased stress and complicates life’s challenges. The dialogue explores the underlying traumas that fuel compulsive behaviours and the crucial need to address these deep-rooted issues.

Discussing the damage caused by suppressed emotions and the catharsis of emotional release, Ruari champions the vital role of equipping children with the skills to process their emotions constructively. 

His thoughts on self-regulation and achieving balance are punctuated by a personal anecdote of his inspiring encounter with Richard Branson, highlighting the transformative potential of a balanced life.

This episode goes beyond mere abstinence from alcohol; it's a clarion call to revolutionise our engagements with it. Emphasising community, connection, and regaining control, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone questioning their drinking habits or seeking camaraderie on a sober journey. 

Tune in for a trove of personal revelations and societal insights with Ruari Fairbairns on "The Privileged Man Podcast."

Takeaways

• Alcohol is a toxic substance that has significant negative effects on health and society.
• There is a growing shift in attitudes towards alcohol, with an increasing demand for alcohol-free alternatives.
• Alcohol use often starts as a way to have fun and socialise, but it can quickly become a compulsion and negatively impact various areas of life.
• Trauma plays a significant role in driving compulsive behaviour and should be addressed in alcohol recovery. Unfelt emotions from childhood can become toxic if not addressed, leading to compulsive behaviour and various health issues.
• Releasing past emotions and understanding patterns can be transformative in changing our relationship with alcohol.
• Helping children feel their emotions is crucial for creating a healthier society.
• Control is a complex journey, and it is important to find a balance that works for each individual.

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In this riveting episode of the podcast, we delve into the extraordinary life of Kent Bray, a man who's known the thrill of international rugby and the high stakes world of trading with Citi. For the first time, Kent opens up about his remarkable journey, offering listeners an unprecedented glimpse into the highs and lows that have defined his path.

From the adrenaline of rugby fields across the globe to the buzzing trading floors, Kent's story is one of remarkable transition and transformation. However, amidst these achievements, he faced a formidable opponent off the field and outside the trading room: cocaine addiction. With raw honesty and striking transparency, Kent discusses the shadowy grip of substance abuse and the profound impact it had on his life and career.

Yet, at the heart of Kent's narrative is a message of hope and resilience. He shares the pivotal role of Narcotics Anonymous in his recovery journey, highlighting the power of vulnerability, the strength found in community, and the importance of open dialogue, especially with the younger generation. Kent's story is a testament to the transformative power of honesty and the support of a compassionate community in navigating the road to recovery.

Now, as a mentor and counsellor, Kent dedicates his life to guiding others through their struggles, illuminating paths to recovery and self-discovery. The episode culminates with an inspiring discussion about the Monumental Men's Group, underscoring its significant impact on fostering men's mental health and building a support network that champions honesty, transparency, and collective healing.

Join us for an unforgettable conversation with Kent Bray, whose journey reminds us that even in our darkest moments, there is hope, and a new chapter awaits those brave enough to seek it.

Takeaways

• Community and support are crucial in the recovery process.
• Seeking help early can prevent further damage and pain.
• Friendship and connection are essential for personal growth and healing.
• The Monumental Men's Group provides a safe space for men to share their challenges and find support.

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Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

And we have a lot of fun doing it.

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Dan Priestley is regarded as one of the world's top professional speakers on business, personal branding and entrepreneurship. He is also a best-selling author of the books such as Key Person of Influence, Entrepreneur Revolution and Oversubscribed to name a few. Dan has also written for Forbes and Entrepreneur Magazines as well as being featured in multiple national and international publications.

Dan’s knowledge of Artificial Intelligence is vast and today he gives a stark warning of what it means for you, your job and your lifestyle whilst also giving you ways of getting ahead of the curve and harnessing it to your benefit.  

We’re about to dive into a world where geographical boundaries are ever more blurred and the digital landscape is the new frontier for success. So, whether you're a budding entrepreneur, a seasoned professional, or just curious about the future of work, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss. 

If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe, give us 5*, leave a review and share episodes on your social channels. The more the podcast is listened too, the bigger the impact. There are men out there who have listened to these podcasts as a first, inspiring point to taking huge steps of growth in their lives - so a big thank you for listening and supporting. 

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Dr Erica Komisar is a clinical social worker, psychoanalyst, parent coach, and author with 30 years of experience. Erica is also a sought-after psychological consultant, bringing her expertise to clinics, schools, and corporations like Goldman Sachs.

Erica has written two highly influential books on parenting and is a media mainstay, appearing on CBS, ABC, FOX, and contributing to top publications like the Wall Street Journal and Washington Post. She's also a Contributing Editor at the Institute for Family Studies.

I asked Erica on because I was enamoured by her points of view on parenting. They seemed to stem from a place of common sense in what can be a confusing picture in the modern day. 

So - it is fair to say that speaking with Erica was a special experience, she doesn’t hold back and I’m grateful for her plain speaking. 

If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe, give us 5*, leave a review and share episodes on your social channels. The more the podcast is listened too, the bigger the impact. There are men out there who have listened to these podcasts as a first, inspiring point to taking huge steps of growth in their lives - so a big thank you for listening and supporting. 

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Now..onto the main event.

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Welcome to episode 12 of "The Privileged Man Podcast," In this episode, we're privileged to have with us Richard Reeves. Richard, a Brit-American, studied at Oxford University and Warwick University, laying a solid foundation for his serving as director of strategy to the UK’s Deputy Prime Minister, Nick Clegg.

After a this experience Richard moved to the Brookings Institution in Washington, DC, where he still serves as a non-resident senior fellow.

Richard's 2022 book, "Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It," was described as a “landmark” by The New York Times and named a book of the year by both The Economist and The New Yorker.

In short - it delves deeply into the challenges facing modern males.

In 2023, Richard founded the American Institute for Boys and Men and serves as its president. The institute stands as a beacon for raising awareness and finding effective solutions to the issues plaguing boys and men in society.

Speaking to the oracle of boys and men data was a mind blowing experience and I am sure you will find listening to Richard fascinating.

If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe, give us 5*, leave a review and share episodes on your social channels. The more the podcast is listened too, the bigger the impact. There are men out there who have listened to these podcasts as a first, inspiring point to taking huge steps of growth in their lives - so a big thank you for listening and supporting.

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Kevin Ellis is the former Chairman and Senior Partner of PwC UK & Middle East.

In this conversation, Kevin reflects on his journey at PWC spanning nearly four decades.

Kevin shares insights on navigating economic uncertainty and embracing failure as a pathway to growth.

Expect to learn:

• How Kevin prioritised mental health and work-life balance.
• Kevin’s approach to building trust and culture in times of crisis, like the Pandemic.
• And the lessons he drew from his family and career about resilience and leadership.

Kevin also discusses his transition into retirement, his newfound passions, and the legacy he hopes to leave, both personally and professionally.

This episode offers a rare glimpse into the mind of a leader of a Top 4 Accountancy Firm. 

00:00 Reflections on Leadership and Change

02:59 Navigating the Pathway to Employment

06:01 Integrity and Decision-Making in Leadership

09:11 Building Trust During Crisis

11:59 The Importance of Support Systems

15:07 Balancing Work and Family Life

17:53 Health and Well-being in Leadership

21:03 Life After Retirement: New Beginnings

23:58 Legacy and Future Aspirations

You may know that Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast is also the Founder of Monumental, a personal development platform for male business owners and leaders.

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Bob Skinstad is a former Springbok captain, entrepreneur, and advocate for community-driven change. In this episode, Bob reflects on his extraordinary rugby career, which includes leading South Africa to victory in the 2007 Rugby World Cup and overcoming personal challenges like imposter syndrome.

Expect to learn:

• Bob's most memorable rugby moments and toughest defeats.
• How Bob tackled the pressure of leadership and anxiety early in his career.
• His insights on building a sense of belonging and fostering resilience in teams.

Bob also discusses the role of sport as a unifying force in South Africa, his thoughts on privilege, and the lessons he hopes to pass on to the next generation. This is a captivating conversation with one of rugby’s most insightful leaders.

00:00 Introduction to Rugby and Personal Struggles

06:49 Memorable Moments in Rugby

11:45 The Internal Battle of Belonging

17:58 Understanding Privilege and Its Impact

24:08 Reflections on Family and Financial Legacy

30:38 Leadership and Governance Challenges

33:46 Cultural Reflections: South Africa vs. the UK

36:20 The Legacy of Apartheid and Its Impact

39:40 Celebrating Progress and Good Governance

42:31 Navigating Privilege and Responsibility

46:17 The Role of Sports in Unifying Society

48:50 The Impact of Technology on Youth

52:43 Mental Health and Community Support

57:29 Vision for a Better Future

You may know that Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast is also the Founder of Monumental, a personal development platform for male business owners and leaders.

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Join host Pete Hunt as he sits down with Freddie Carr, a six-time America's Cup competitor and winner of the Louis Vuitton Cup in 20224. Freddie opens up about his incredible career, the transition from elite-level sport to life beyond the Cup, and the invaluable lessons he’s learned along the way.

Pete and Freddie discuss:

• Navigating life after high-performance sport – the challenges of stepping away from an elite team environment.
• The mental and physical toll of competitive sailing – from extreme training regimens to the exhaustion that follows.
• The evolution of the America's Cup – how the sport has transitioned from traditional sailing to high-speed, high-tech foiling machines.
• The role of leadership and team culture – the importance of communication, camaraderie, and “checking the ropes” with teammates.
• The impact of loss in high-risk sports – reflecting on the tragic passing of Andrew ‘Bart’ Simpson and its lasting effect on the sailing community.
• What’s next for Freddie – from exploring opportunities in business to rediscovering his love for traditional sailing.

This episode is packed with insights on resilience, leadership, and the mental side of elite competition. Tune in for an honest and engaging conversation that goes beyond the racecourse.

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The Monumental Network - The Private Network For Growth Focused Leaders

Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

And we have a lot of fun doing it.

For more information, please click on this link. https://monumental.global/

Join host Pete Hunt as he sits down with seasoned Everest guide Kenton Cool, whose record of 18 summits and elite experience in the death zone speaks for itself, for a candid conversation about leadership, vulnerability, and the hard-won lessons from life at extreme altitude.

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In this episode, Pete and Kenton discuss:

• Navigating the Death Zone: Leading clients in Everest's death zone requires unwavering confidence, rigorous prep, and full accountability.
• Building and Sustaining Confidence: Kenton shows how facing repeated challenges—from early setbacks to high-altitude feats—builds real confidence.
• From “I” to “We”: Transitioning from a solo, thrill-seeking lifestyle to embracing collective responsibility for team and family.
• Leadership: Power vs. Presence: Exploring decision-making on Everest, from collaborative planning to assertive, genuine leadership.
• Confronting Mortality on the Mountain: Reflecting on Everest's harsh realities, the emotional impact of fallen climbers, and human vulnerability.
• Balancing Extremes and Vulnerability: Discussing how extreme challenges and social media spark an inner dialogue on self-worth and the need for safe spaces.

Kenton Cool shatters limits with 18 Everest summits and 45+ expeditions, including the first British ski descent of an 8,000-m peak and the Everest Triple Crown. Overcoming a near-fatal injury, his guiding career embodies raw resilience and calculated risk. Join Pete as he uncovers the hard-won wisdom of extreme adventure.

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The Monumental Network - The Private Network For Growth Focused Leaders

Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

And we have a lot of fun doing it.

For more information, please click on this link. https://monumental.global/

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Join host Pete Hunt on The Privileged Man Podcast as he sits down with esteemed society photographer Sam Pelly for an open and deeply reflective conversation about identity, self-expression, and the journey to emotional and creative freedom.

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In this episode, Pete and Sam discuss:

• The power of storytelling through photography and how capturing the essence of his subjects has shaped Sam’s career.
• The challenges of identity and self-worth, growing up as the eldest of three brothers and navigating life in the shadow of a well-known sibling.
• The impact of early boarding school experiences and the deep emotional imprint they leave on men.
• The importance of emotional awareness and self-inquiry in relationships, fatherhood, and personal growth.
• The courage to embrace truth and transformation through life’s major transitions, including divorce and redefining success.
• The healing journey of men’s work, nature, and creative exploration, and how Sam now helps others step into deeper authenticity.

Renowned for his work with Vogue, Tatler, The Telegraph, and institutions such as the National Portrait Gallery, Sam Pelly has built an extraordinary career capturing everything from fashion campaigns to Royal weddings. His lens has taken him across the world, working alongside legendary photographers including Peter Lindbergh, Paolo Roversi, Patrick Lichfield, and Mirella Ricciardi.

But beyond the camera, Sam’s personal journey has been just as remarkable. From an idyllic yet complex childhood to finding his own creative and emotional voice, he shares how his search for belonging and truth has shaped both his art and his life.

A self-described “scribe of imagery, a storyteller of soul and wonder”, Sam reflects on how photography has reframed his world—helping him see beauty everywhere and connect with the infinite mystery of life.

Join Pete and Sam as they explore the courage to feel, the power of authenticity, and the privilege of being truly alive.

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The Monumental Network - The Private Network For Growth Focused Leaders

Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

And we have a lot of fun doing it.

For more information, please click on this link. https://monumental.global/

Erica Komisar – The Inconvenient Truth about Parenting in 2025

In this thought-provoking episode, Pete Hunt welcomes back psychoanalyst and bestselling author Erica Komisar, following a year of exponential growth in her reach and message — including a recent appearance on The Diary of a CEO. Known for challenging modern parenting ideals, Erica confronts the uncomfortable truths about early attachment, the myth of “having it all,” and why parental presence in a child’s early years is non-negotiable.

Whether you’re a father, partner, or simply someone reflecting on how you were parented — this conversation offers both a reality check and a powerful invitation to rethink what children really need.

Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction

01:29 – Why Erica’s message is seen as controversial

04:03 – The cost of early childcare trade-offs

09:20 – Narcissism and unmet emotional needs

13:00 – The impact of different attachment styles

18:04 – Boarding school and emotional detachment

23:30 – The social media narrative vs. real parenting

27:00 – Why guilt shouldn’t be ignored

32:16 – “Second chances” and late-stage fatherhood

36:45 – Teenagers, tech, and the void of play

41:00 – Starting deeper conversations with your kids

47:00 – Reframing parenting as teamwork

52:30 – Careers, control, and the realities of modern motherhood

1:03:00 – The long-term impact of early disconnection

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In this powerful episode of The Privileged Man Podcast, Pete Hunt sits down with Nick Duffell, psychotherapist, author, and pioneer of work around boarding school trauma. They explore why so many high-achieving men with these privileged backgrounds feel emotionally stuck, the hidden impact of early survival strategies, and how intimacy becomes one of life’s greatest challenges. A raw and essential listen for men navigating midlife, relationships, and identity.

Timestamps 

 00:00 – Introduction

01:29 – Why relationships are so hard for men

04:46 – Boarding school and emotional shutdown

07:52 – The missing emotional training

11:15 – Listening as a lost skill

15:08 – Survivor roles and disconnection

22:04 – The gift of emotional energy

24:06 – The mother wound

32:00 – The child self in adult relationships

36:10 – Institutional life vs. intimacy

43:00 – The missing father figure

47:02 – Mentorship and male role models

50:00 – The impact of porn and overstimulation

53:40 – Power through vulnerability

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In a special departure from the usual one-on-one format, host Pete Hunt of The Privileged Man Podcast, who also Founded "Monumental", welcomes George, Mike, Oli, Sam, and Ben, a group of Monumental members, for a candid conversation about what really goes on inside Monumental.

Together, they discuss how meaningful support, honest dialogue, and putting down the “mask” can transform men’s relationships, careers, and overall sense of fulfilment.

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Why do so many men lose friendships in midlife? And what does science say about the impact of social isolation on male health and well-being?

In this episode of The Privileged Man Podcast, host Pete Hunt sits down with renowned evolutionary psychologist Robin Dunbar to explore the biological and social foundations of male friendship. Dunbar, a leading expert in human relationships, explains why men are wired for structured social networks—and why losing them can have serious consequences.

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In this episode, Pete and Robin discuss:

• The Male Friendship Crisis – Why friendships decline for men in their 40s and 50s, and how work and family pressures play a role.
• The Social Brain Hypothesis – How our brains evolved to manage complex social groups, and why maintaining friendships is essential for survival.
• Male vs. Female Friendships – Why men bond through activities rather than emotional sharing, and how this affects the longevity of their relationships.
• The Midlife Danger Zone – How loneliness impacts men’s mental and physical health, and why social isolation is as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
• The Power of Tribe – How structured networks like Monumental can help men rebuild friendships, strengthen social ties, and rediscover a sense of belonging.
• Redesigning Male Friendships – What the future of male community looks like and how men can take action to strengthen their relationships.

Robin Dunbar’s research sheds light on one of the biggest but least talked-about issues facing modern men: the quiet disappearance of close friendships. In this conversation, he shares powerful insights into how men can reconnect, why tribal bonds matter, and what every man needs to know about maintaining deep, meaningful relationships.

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The Monumental Network - The Private Network For Growth Focused Leaders

Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

And we have a lot of fun doing it.

For more information, please click on this link. https://monumental.global/

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