MetaMoms: A Polyfamory Podcast – Détails, épisodes et analyse

In this episode, we dive into the conversation that led us to growing our family, from initial resistance to the unexpected two vasectomy reversals that made it possible. We open up about what shifted out hearts, how we defined what "family really means to use and the contract that was proposed about having children together. It's a story about choices, change, and the unique path that brought us from 2 kids, to 5.

This week we’re digging into the receipts—literally. We share a painfully cringy old text where someone finally admitted their feelings (spoiler: secondhand embarrassment is real). From there, we get honest about how we broke down hierarchy in our relationship, what it was like to tell our kids about polyamory, and the messy ripple effects—estranged relationships, fallouts, and all.

It’s emotional, it’s vulnerable, and yes, we still manage to laugh at ourselves along the way. Because if you can’t roast your own awkward text history, what are you even doing?

Buckle up, because this one’s for the grown-ups. In this episode, we straight up overshare about how we found ourselves in the swinging scene,  a few spicy stories, and all the dirty details about the night our quad first met. How we realized that we weren’t just “fun friends” and we get real about coming out, cringe-worthy “rules” we tried (and broke), the jealousy/insecurity rollercoaster, and how we accidentally stumbled into polyamory before we even knew the word. 
Spoiler: it’s equal parts hilarious and humbling.

In this episode we’re talking all about life before the quad—meeting our spouses, falling in love, getting engaged, getting married, and we spill a little tea along the way. You didn’t come here for neat and tidy, right? Between 5 kids, 4 adults, 3 dogs, 3 cats, 3 horses, 2 chickens, a rabbit, and a TV show, we’re basically a farm, a circus, and a rom-com at the same time. This has been so much fun to record so far and we're so thankful for your love and support.

In this episode, we share how we landed our parental names, we rewind to the wild world of giving birth during Covid times, where masks, visitor limits, and FaceTime introductions were just the beginning. Plus the chaos of scheduling doctors appointments with four parents in the mix and how naming the kids became a group project with veto power (and wasn't afraid to use it).

A little proof that parenting in plural can be just as joyful as it is complicated.

This episode is a little different. Tyler and I are finally, sitting down together to unpack the ending of our PolyFamily season on TLC—an ending that left everyone (including us) with more questions than answers. We talk candidly about the re-enacted, on-camera disagreement that became a major turning point: my decision to date outside the quad. What viewers saw was only a fraction of what had really happened beneath the surface. We open up about how we navigated a major shift in our relationship dynamic, the immense fear that comes with redefining boundaries in real time, and what it feels like when the relationship structure you thought was solid suddenly starts evolving. There were growing pains. There were moments of doubt. And there were hard truths we had to face—both individually and together.This episode is about how our views on love, partnership, and commitment have changed, what we’ve learned since filming wrapped, and how we’re continuing to grow through discomfort instead of running from it.If you were left hanging by the finale…If you’ve ever questioned the “rules” of relationships…If you’ve ever had to choose growth even when it felt terrifying…This conversation is for you.No scripts. No producers. Just honesty, reflection, and the messy reality of evolving love.

It’s never too late to celebrate the people we love, so we’re finally surprising Alysia with your birthday voicemails! (Spoiler alert: she cries.)From there, we rewind a bit to share how we planned an over-the-top birthday surprise while Alysia and Tyler were in California… and how, despite our best intentions, it didn’t quite go according to plan. Because honestly? That tracks.Then we pivot from the past to the present and into a conversation we know many families avoid. We finally finished our will and trust, and we’re sharing what the process was like for us as a polyamorous family. What worked, what surprised us, what we wish we’d known going in, and why being prepared is one of the most loving things you can do for the people you care about.We walk through our experience, our recommendations, and our learning curve — with transparency, humor, and a reminder that preparation doesn’t have to be scary.⚠️ Disclaimer: We are not lawyers, and nothing in this episode is legal advice. We’re simply sharing our personal experience in hopes that it helps others start their own conversations.If you’re curious about the platform we used, you can explore it here:

👉https://trustandwill.com/?utm_source=amt&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=&utm_content=Q22025

Love shows up in many forms.. sometimes it sounds like birthday voicemails, and sometimes it looks like signing paperwork you’ve been putting off. This episode has a little bit of both.

This is technically a Holiday Special but not the kind you might be used to.We kick things off with a game, sharing classic family holiday traditions and unpacking which ones we keep, which ones we’ve let go of, and how they look in our non-traditional family. We reflect honestly on how the holidays actually went for us this year and the why behind some of the choices we make for our family.We talk about flexibility around traditions, extending grace when things shift, and releasing the pressure to do holidays “the right way.” We also share how we approach Christmas gifts as a quad—how we plan ahead, stay organized, and keep things meaningful without breaking the bank.We share about the recent passing of Tyler’s father and our plans to attend the funeral, holding space for grief in the midst of a season that often expects joy. And because life is never just one thing, we end on a happy note with an exciting Doug update! Apologies about the audio in advance, out WiFi was a bit unstable so we worked with it as best that we could! See you all next time ;)

In this episode of MetaMoms, we’re cozied up in our Christmas jammies talking about how to navigate polyamory while mentally unwell (festive, we know)! This week, we get hilariously honest about jealousy, dysregulation, therapy mishaps, and the questionable coping skills that got us through but definitely didn’t get us any awards.

We open up about what it’s been like to love inside a polyamorous quad during chaos and grief, and how we’ve learned to play to each partner’s strengths—because sometimes the real romance is knowing who’s best equipped to deal with your emotional tornado on any given day. We also share the resources that helped (shoutout to our quad book club), the ones that absolutely flopped, and the internal pep talks we give our brains when they’re acting like spicy toddlers.

It’s warm, honest, and messy as always. The pajamas were cozy, but trust: the tea stayed piping hot.

Thanks for being here with us through it all.

In this impromptu episode, we finally got the guys to join us for a little Q&A! We kicked things off with a round of “Most Likely To”, plenty of laughs, a little chaos, and maybe a few surprising answers. Then we dove into some of your most frequently asked questions.This was our first time recording with all four of us, and of course, the second mic decided not to cooperate — so the audio isn’t perfect (we’re learning as we go!). Thank you for rolling with it and supporting us through all the growing pains — it truly means so much. 💛Also, a quick update! We’re moving our episode drops to Wednesdays so I can fully enjoy family time on Sundays (and maybe get a little extra rest too). Thanks for being here and growing with us every step of the way.