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Ep. 297 - The Tiger Mom, Panda Mom and the Crane Mom with Alice Park
Most parents are trying to heal what they didn’t receive growing up, but in the process, many are wondering if we’ve lost some of the resilience previous generations had.
In this episode, I'm joined by writer and creative entrepreneur Alice Park for a thoughtful conversation about parenting, resilience, emotional connection, and what modern families are navigating today.
Together, we explored:
The difference between Tiger Mom parenting and gentle parenting
Why many parents are trying to find a healthier middle ground
Why modern parenting can feel emotionally exhausting
Overcommitment, burnout, and protecting your family’s peace
Raising kids who actually want a relationship with you later in life
Just because you're talking things through with your partner, doesn't guarantee you're going resolve things.
If you and your partner keep having the same conversations on repeat, this episode will help you understand why.
So many couples think the issue is that they “just need to communicate more.” But what often happens is this:
You try to talk. The conversation gets emotional. Someone feels criticized. Someone shuts down or gets defensive. You both get exhausted. And eventually… you stop talking about it.
Not because the issue is resolved. But because you’re emotionally drained.
In this episode, I break down why so many conversations never actually lead to resolution and what’s truly missing underneath repetitive conflict patterns.
Tune in to hear me share: • Why avoidance often comes from emotional exhaustion, not lack of care • The difference between expressing feelings and actually resolving conflict • How “me vs you” thinking keeps couples stuck in repetitive cycles • Why emotional safety matters during difficult conversations • The shift that helps couples move from surviving conversations to solving problems together • Questions to ask yourself before and during conflict to create more productive conversations
If your conversations with your partner feel heavy, repetitive, or emotionally draining, this episode will help you start approaching conflict differently so you can feel more connected, supported, and like a true team again.
The way you talk to your kids becomes the way they talk to themselves.
Most parents are trying their best to raise kind, confident, emotionally healthy kids and without realizing it, the words we use and how we say them can either build connection or create distance.
In this episode, I sit down with parenting expert Cara Tyrrell to unpack how everyday communication shapes your child’s identity, emotional safety, and willingness to open up to you. Not just now, but as they grow too.
This conversation will help you parent with more intention, more confidence, and more connection and all without feeling like you have to be perfect.
Inside this episode, we cover:
Why “not listening” is often misunderstood, how to build deep trust with your kids from an early age, and how small shifts in your language can completely change your relationship.
Why connection (not control) is the foundation of effective parenting
The Core 4 relationship builders every child needs
What’s really happening when your child acts out or shuts down
Why only 7% of communication is verbal — and what matters more
How subconscious speech patterns from your own childhood show up in parenting
Simple ways to regulate yourself before responding to your child
If you’ve ever thought: “I just want my kids to talk to me” “I don’t want to mess this up” “I want a better relationship than I had growing up”
If you're raising littles, you know exactly what it means to be touched out.
In this episode, I am joined by Molly Ryden from Mommy Needs Me Time and we discuss the concept of being 'touched out'—the physical and emotional exhaustion that parents, especially mothers, often experience.
Tune in to hear Molly discuss the causes and effects of being constantly touched by children and how it can impact your mental health and marriage and what you can do to support yourself whenever you reach that point so that it doesn't have to negatively impact your most important relationships anymore.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
We often hear how important communication is in marriage, but did you know there's something even more important than communication?
In this episode, I'm diving into why respect needs to be prioritized as the key ingredient. As marriage becomes more challenging after becoming parents, respect is often the first to go. We start to become more lax with how we communicate and take our stress out on our partners. So tune in to hear why respect needs to be reprioritized in your marriage and how to weave in respect so that your marriage can grow and become resilient against life's challenges.
Thank you for listening!
Ready to gain more clarity around what areas your marriage can improve in? Grab the Marriage 360 Assessment workbook!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Navigating Infertility and Maintaining Your Sense of Self
In this episode, I am joined by my new friend Rachel, an infertility coach, who shares her personal journey of overcoming infertility through surrogacy and adoption. Rachel discusses the complex emotional challenges associated with infertility and how it impacts daily life and relationships. In this conversation, Rachel provides practical advice for managing the emotional challenges of infertility and how to still experience joy while you're still going through something so trying.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
If you feel like the only way you can get more partnership in the home is by nagging, this episode is for you!
In this episode, I am addressing the all so relatable challenge of how to get more partnership without having to resort to nagging. Turns out, nagging is not at all effective and can actually cause more harm than good so tune in to hear me share practical strategies for initiating productive conversations, managing expectations, and creating a balanced household dynamic.
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Mother's Day is just around the corner, so I thought it would be fitting to share an episode about you and your wellbeing!
In this episode, I am joined by Tiffany Lewis to discuss the impact of self-care on all aspects of life, including motherhood and marriage. Tiffany shares her personal journey as a busy mom of three, entrepreneur, and founder of a stationary brand she created to help millennial women.
In this conversation, we talked about misconceptions about self-care and Tiffany's 3 non-negotiable habits that she does on a daily basis to help set her day up for success!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
In this episode, I'm diving into ways you can start seeing positive changes in your marriage without even involving your husband. The work we do on ourselves is just as important as the work we do with our partner, so if you want to try something new and start viewing self care in a different light - check out this episode!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
In this episode, I have Brigid Tebaldi, Birth Trauma Healing Coach, share what birth trauma is and how birth trauma can manifest in different ways and impact women's trust in their bodies and their overall well-being.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
How often do you experience conversations turning into fights because of a misunderstanding?
In this episode, I'm addressing the common issue many couples face: feeling unheard and misunderstood by a spouse during important conversations. Tune in to hear why simple discussions often escalate into fights and learn actionable strategies to break unhealthy communication patterns.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
In this episode, I welcome back transformational life coach Jennifer Delliquadri to talk about the challenges faced by women who were raised to be "good girls", the resulting burnout, and how to find fulfillment through making subtle changes in your life.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Those of us who are married with kids know how quickly responsibility replaces romance.
In this episode, I go into the decline in romance and connection often experienced in marriages after having children. The increase in responsibilities and exhaustion make maintaining the relationship challenging. Tune in to hear practical tips to keep the connection alive in your marriage even while you're knee deep in raising kids!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
You don’t feel disconnected in your marriage because something is wrong. You feel disconnected because you’ve stopped going deeper.
So many couples come to me saying they feel like roommates.
They’re handling life.
They love each other.
But something feels… off.
Flat. Predictable. Disconnected.
And what most people don’t realize is this:
You can know everything about your partner’s life… and still not know their inner world.
In this episode, I’m breaking down:
Why couples start to feel like strangers after kids
The difference between surface-level connection and true intimacy
Why most people avoid going deeper (and don’t even realize it)
How emotional awareness directly impacts connection
What it actually looks like to build depth in your relationship
How staying surface-level quietly creates resentment and disconnection
You’ll also hear a real client example of a couple who “never fought” but felt like roommates—and how everything shifted once they started sharing what was really going on beneath the surface.
If your conversations feel transactional, your connection feels stuck, or your marriage feels like it’s missing something… this episode will help you understand why.
Ready to deepen and strengthen your marriage? Book a clarity call today to learn what marriage coaching can do to help you!
Thanks for listening!
Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching
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In this juicy episode, I am joined by Sex Coach for Busy Parents, Sofia Ashley, to discuss the intricacies of talking about sex in your marriage - particularly if you are unhappy with sex in your marriage and you'd like things to improve. We talk about overcoming common obstacles to open dialogue about intimacy.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Let’s face it, marriage isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes, we fight. And while that’s totally normal, what you do after the argument matters even more than the argument itself. In this episode, we're talking all about the art of repair: how to move forward after conflict so you can reconnect, grow closer, and strengthen your marriage.
Want help getting started? Check out my conflict to connection guide to feel more confident initiating the conversation!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
In this episode, I welcome my new friend Lauren to discuss what most, if not all of us, can relate to and that's how much marriage gets impacted after having kids.
In this raw, open conversation, Lauren shares her personal journey into motherhood and how her marriage made a turn for the worst and what she and her husband have been doing since they hit rock bottom to revitalize their marriage while raising 3 kids. We talk about their path to seeking professional help, improving communication, prioritizing self-care, and connection. Listen in to hear Lauren share the importance of fighting for love and partnership, and the key steps she took to achieve a happier marriage. Tune in to hear valuable insights and tips that could help transform your relationship too.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Are you feeling frustrated in your marriage and putting all your energy into fixing it but not seeing the changes and progress you'd like? What if the real key to a stronger, more connected relationship is actually focusing on yourself?
In this episode, I dive into why prioritizing your own happiness, self-care, and personal fulfillment isn’t just good for you—it’s essential for a thriving marriage. When you rely solely on your spouse for emotional support, entertainment, and fulfillment, it can create pressure that strains your relationship. But when you nurture your own life—friendships, hobbies, passions—you bring fresh energy and perspective to your marriage.
When you feel fulfilled as an individual, your marriage benefits too. Take this as your permission slip to pour into yourself—you and your marriage deserve it!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
In this episode, I am joined by business and mindset coach, Jenna Rykiel to discuss the journey from corporate life to entrepreneurship. If you've been feeling the nudge to start your own business, this episode is for you. We dive into the challenges and solutions of building a business as a mom, covering vital topics including balancing family life, overcoming obstacles, and creating a solid exit plan from your corporate job. Jenna shares her expertise and personal experience, offering valuable insights into how moms can successfully transition to fulfilling and flexible careers. Whether you're worried about financial stability or how to get your spouse's support, this episode covers it all.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Tired of having the same fights over and over with your spouse? In this episode, I’ll show you how to shift from constant conflict to meaningful conversation. You’ll learn why most arguments happen, how to slow down emotional reactions, and practical ways to get on the same page with your partner. Whether you’re struggling with communication or just want to strengthen your marriage, these simple strategies will help you talk more and fight less.
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Are you feeling overwhelmed and disconnected in your marriage and motherhood journey? In this episode, I speak with Mandela Linder, a women's empowerment and sex coach, about how to feel more empowered, starting at home. We discuss the impact of mom guilt, body image issues, and unfulfilled needs in relationships, along with actionable steps to reconnect with your partner and yourself. Mandela shares her insights on creating a fulfilling sex life and the transformative power of self-love and community. Tune in to learn how prioritizing yourself can positively ripple through your entire family life.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Are you struggling with communication in your marriage despite all your efforts? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive into the common challenges couples face when working on their communication and share practical tips on how to track your progress effectively. Learn why change takes time, the right questions to gauge your progress, and the importance of debriefing after disagreements. Plus, discover coping strategies for when you feel hopeless and understand the power of celebrating small wins in your journey towards better communication.
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Work, Motherhood, and Marriage - is it possible for there to be balance with this?
In this episode, I am joined by Jennifer Gagnon, a Working Mom Coach, who shares invaluable tips on achieving a sustainable work-life balance. We dive into the challenges faced by working moms, including the pressures of corporate life and the evolving dynamics of parenting. Tune in for insights on how to curate your life with intention and reclaim your time amidst the demands of both work and family.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Unlocking Communication in Marriage: Practical Tips for Connecting with Your Partner
Is communication a challenge in your marriage? In this episode, I address a common issue many marriages face: improving communication when one partner is big on communication and the other isn't. I dive into understanding reasons for the hesitance and practical strategies on how to create a safe environment for that to change. Tune in to discover ways to build a stronger, more communicative relationship with your spouse.
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Motherhood can bring on a lot of anxiety. The sheer overwhelm of going from just taking care of yourself to taking care of people who don't always want to listen is nothing you can ever fully prepare for. Cue the second guessing and the shoulding.
If you've ever wondered why certain things feel harder for you than they “should” or if there's a better way to feel confident in your decision making, this conversation is going to give you a new lens.
In this episode, I got to chat about human design and nervous system regulation with my new friend MaKenzie Byram.
Inside this episode, we cover:
What human design is (in a simple, digestible way)
How nervous system regulation helps you actually live your design
Why you struggle with decision-making and how to change that
How to better understand your spouse and stop misinterpreting their behavior
Using human design to parent your kids in a way that actually works for them
How to stop “should-ing” your life and start living in alignment
The difference between logical decisions vs. aligned decisions
Practical ways to start using human design in your everyday life
This episode will help you move from confusion and self-doubt to clarity and confidence so you can show up as the partner and parent you want to be.
Motherhood has no shortage of challenges, but did you know that there's something you can do to help you handle it better?
In this episode, I am joined by Resilience Coach, Charlotte Haggie. Charlotte shares her expertise on handling stress effectively, emphasizing the need for building mental resilience rather than just lightening one's load.
Check out Charlotte's guide for 5 tips on how to build your resilience here!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Did you know that sleep deprivation makes us 60% more reactive? In this episode, I discuss the strong connection between sleep and our emotional well-being and how it impacts communication and conflict in your marriage. We've all experienced being on Team No Sleep when we become a mom and in this episode, I will share what you can do to keep your marriage thriving throughout the sleepless nights so that you can stop getting into preventable arguments with your husband.
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Are you struggling to navigate the cringey topic of sex education with your kids? I have known Kathleen for years and I am so excited I got to finally record an episode with her. Kathleen is a sex education advisor for parents and in this episode, she shared invaluable insights on making these tough conversations easier. From early discussions about body parts to addressing myths, masturbation, and even porn literacy, this episode covers it all. Kathleen debunks common misconceptions and provides a step-by-step guide to foster a healthy dialogue between parents and children, focusing on age-appropriate information. Tune in to learn the recommended age ranges for these essential talks and ways to empower your children with accurate knowledge.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
In this episode, I share a different perspective on navigating conflict in marriage. Conflict is inevitable, but arguing is optional is a saying that I stand by when it comes to having healthy communication. Learn how shifting your focus from winning arguments to solving problems can strengthen your partnership and deepen your connection. Discover practical strategies to navigate conflict to leverage conflict as opportunities for growth and connection with your partner.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
In this episode, I am joined by Iesha Madden to discuss the challenging transition of becoming a mother. Iesha shares her personal experiences, reflections, and strategies to navigate this life-changing journey, including her unique challenges as a pandemic mother. We delve into practical tips for handling mundane tasks, incorporating ADHD-friendly routines, and the importance of starting and ending your day with intention. This episode is packed with insights and support for mothers at any stage, aiming to help you take control of your motherhood journey. Tune in for an enriching conversation on building resilience and finding joy in the unpredictability of motherhood.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Is it time to get professional help for your marriage?
In this episode, I talk about how to know it's time to get help from a marriage professional. I discuss why marriage gets harder after having kids, the signs that indicate it's time to get help, and the different types of help available (marriage counselor/therapist & marriage coach).
Ready to change the future of your marriage? Schedule a free clarity call with me today!
As mentioned, here is the free master class on how to create your family vision to help you gain clarity on your marriage goals.
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
When you hear moms say how important self care is and your immediate response is that you don't have time, you must listen to this episode.
Ever heard of "time confetti"? In this episode, I am excited to welcome back Jill Wright, a Time Management Strategist. She shares how she has made the concept of "time confetti," a term popularized by Brigid Schulte and later studied by Ashley Whillans, work for busy moms like her and how she's been able to reclaim her time so that she's doing mom life, business life, AND still getting to make progress on her goals and take good care of herself.
Check out episode 140 to listen to our first episode together where we talked about energy management!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Do you find yourself often nagging your husband? If it's not been working for you, this episode is for you! In this episode, I discuss the reasons behind nagging, its triggers, and how it can negatively affect your relationship. Learn why nagging is common, especially after having kids, and learn simple, actionable strategies to shift away from nagging!
Here's a free guide to help with clarifying what you want to say instead!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
How do you and your spouse stay connected amidst the chaos of marriage and motherhood? In this episode, I am joined by Sarah Parise, Wellness Coach for Moms, and we dive deep into how couples can ensure they are growing in the same direction. Sarah, having recently celebrated her 10th wedding anniversary, shares her strategies for maintaining a strong and loving relationship with her husband.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
In this episode, I dive into the significance of maintaining fun and connection in your marriage, even during challenging times. In this episode, you'll learn strategies for incorporating fun into your relationship and why it's vital to continue having fun even when things feel strained in your marriage.
Create your vision for your marriage with this masterclass!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Doing more doesn’t make you a better partner. It makes you exhausted, resentful, and disconnected.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying the mental load, keeping everything running, and wondering why your partner isn’t stepping up… this episode is going to shift how you see it.
The truth is, this dynamic isn’t just happening to you. It’s being created inside the relationship pattern itself.
In this episode, we’re talking about:
Why overfunctioning leads to your partner underfunctioning
The difference between being supportive vs controlling
How “doing it all” quietly creates resentment and disconnection
Why silent expectations are setting your relationship up to fail
How to shift from manager mode into real partnership
Simple ways to start redistributing responsibility without chaos
The good news? You don’t need to do more. You need to create space for partnership.
Thanks for listening!
Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching
If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!
Avoid Valentine's Day Disappointment: Setting Expectations in Marriage
In this bonus episode of the Marriage and Motherhood Podcast, I share how to have the Valentine's Day you want, even if past celebrations with your husband have been disappointing. With Valentine's Day just around the corner, I dive into actionable steps to help you and your partner plan a Valentine's Day that meets both of your needs, ensuring connection and quality time together. Set your relationship up for success and avoid the Valentine's Day letdown by tuning in to this episode!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
In this episode of the Marriage and Motherhood podcast, I am joined by Mari Wuellner to discuss the issue of mom guilt. If you're a mom and you've experienced mom guilt, tune in to hear Mari and I share our personal experiences and tips on how to manage mom guilt and help us to live more intentionally and happily.
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Is arguing in marriage a sign of trouble—or can it actually be healthy? In this episode, we’re unpacking the difference between healthy and unhealthy conflict. If arguing simply means disagreeing, then no, it’s not bad! In fact, it’s a normal and necessary part of a strong relationship. But if your disagreements are filled with blame, criticism, and judgment—leading to more disconnection than resolution—then yes, arguing can be harmful.
Tune in to learn: ✅ The key differences between healthy and unhealthy arguing ✅ Signs your disagreements are strengthening or straining your marriage ✅ Simple shifts to make conflict more productive and less damaging
By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on disagreements and practical tips to navigate them in a way that brings you and your spouse closer together
Check out my Conflict To Connection Guide to start feeling more confident with how you approach conflict. Grab it here!
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
In this episode, I dive into the importance of setting realistic goals for your marriage, particularly regarding conflict and communication. I discuss why avoiding conflict is counterproductive and explain how healthy conflict can lead to growth and stronger relationships. Tune in to learn how to transform disagreements into opportunities for deepening your bond with your partner.
Thank you for listening!
If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Sustainable Growth and Avoiding Burnout in the New Year
Join me in this first solo episode of 2025 as I challenge the conventional January goal-setting mindset. Instead of pushing yourself to achieve new year resolutions and goals, let's discuss the importance of honoring the winter season as a time for rest, reflection, and self-nurturing. Discover how aligning with nature's rhythms can lead to sustainable growth and prevent burnout. I'll share how to set realistic, intentional goals and plan for a positive year ahead and practical tips. Tune in for a refreshing perspective on starting the year with mindfulness and deliberate self-care.
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Empower Your Financial Future: Money, Self-Care, and Mindfulness in 2025
It's 2025, and I'm dedicating January to setting you up for your best year ever. This episode dives into financial empowerment with certified financial planner and money coach Megan Dwyer. We discuss the importance of our relationship with money and how to take control of our finances to feel more empowered. Learn why our childhood experiences impact our money mindset, why self-care and money management go hand-in-hand, and how emotions drive our financial decisions. Tune in for practical tips to improve your financial literacy, understand your emotions, and make aligned decisions for a better future. Don't miss this insightful conversation!
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Whether you're ready for 2025 or not, it's coming and there is no better time to start thinking about how you want 2025 to be different and better than the years past.
In this episode, I walk you through how you can reflect on how the past has gone so that you can step into 2025 and your future feeling like you have more clarity and direction.
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Conflict in marriage is inevitable, but arguments don’t have to be. In this episode, I dive into how slowing down during moments of tension can completely transform the way you and your spouse communicate. Whether you’re navigating misunderstandings, emotional reactions, or recurring disagreements, this mindset shift can lead to better conversations, deeper connection, and a stronger relationship.
If you’ve ever wondered how to fight less and connect more or even how to navigate conflict in the quickest way possible, this episode is for you!
Here's what I talked about: - The importance of slowing down during moments of tension - Listening to understand, not just to respond - Practical tips for staying present and intentional during conflict
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If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Holiday-Proofing Your Marriage: Navigating Stress and Setting Boundaries
Are the holidays adding stress to your marriage? In this episode, I teamed up with my friend and fellow marriage coach, Nevart Willborn - the host of the Childproof Your Marriage Podast to discuss how the holiday season can affect your relationship and share practical tips for navigating this busy time of year. From setting boundaries with family to managing the mental load of gift-giving and activities, this conversation is packed with insights to help you maintain harmony with your spouse and peace of mind for yourself. Don't miss this episode if you're looking to holiday-proof your marriage and enjoy a joyful, less stress season.
Here's the breakdown of your conversation: - Holiday Hustle: Balancing Responsibilities - Navigating Holiday Events and Traditions - Managing Holiday Stress and Expectations - Delegating and Teamwork in Marriage - Setting Boundaries and Self-Care - Intentionality and Family Dynamics - Navigating Family Obligations During Holidays - Setting Boundaries with Family - Handling Holiday Invitations and Saying No
Connect with Nevart! IG: @nevartwillborncoaching Website: https://www.nevartwillborn.com/
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Your body isn’t broken. It just needs a different approach.
If you’ve hit your late 30s or 40s and suddenly feel like nothing is working anymore… you’re not imagining it.
The strategies that used to “just work” stop working — and most women are left feeling frustrated, confused, and honestly… a little betrayed by their bodies.
In this episode, I am joined by Health and Fitness Coach Emily Erb to talk about what’s actually happening in your body, why traditional dieting fails, and how to fuel yourself in a way that feels sustainable, supportive, and freeing.
We’re not talking about restriction. We’re not talking about cutting out your favorite foods. We’re talking about understanding your body — so you can finally work with it instead of against it.
Inside this episode, we cover: - Why your metabolism changes in your 30s and beyond - What “metabolic adaptation” is - The truth about calorie counting vs macro counting - Why restriction leads to binge cycles - How to eat dessert and still reach your goals - Why protein matters (and how to increase it realistically) - The real reason most women struggle with consistency - How to build trust with yourself around food - Why mindset and inner work matter more than you think
If you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or like your body is working against you… this episode will help you understand why — and what to do differently.
Empowering Our Daughters: Understanding Womanhood and Menstrual Cycles
How can we effectively prepare for our daughters for womanhood? In this special episode of the Marriage and Motherhood podcast, I am joined by Tori Milner, a women's empowerment coach, teen mentor and menstrual cycle guide. Together, we dive into the crucial yet often overlooked topic of the transition of a girl becoming a woman and menstrual cycles and how we as moms of teen daughters or future teen daughters can use this as a way to help them feel empowered about their journey as a female and how we can connect even deeper with them through this process.
In our conversation, we talked about: - Understanding our menstrual cycles - The importance of cycle syncing - Challenges faced by teenagers today - Ways we can support teenagers - Empowering our daughters - Honoring the transition to womanhood - Celebrating sexuality and motherhood - Embracing menopause as a rite of passage - Empowering teens with knowledge and support - Navigating womanhood together
Are you finding yourself in frequent arguments and wondering if your communication with your partner is improving? In this episode, I dive into signs of progress in communication to look for and how to recognize when it's time to seek professional help. Tune in to learn how to move past resentment, enjoy your relationship, and build a stronger partnership.
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If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
In this episode, I am joined by Hazel Walker, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and we explored how motherhood impacts marriages. Hazel shares her personal journey of navigating motherhood and how it led her to support other moms and couples through her therapy and coaching programs. If you're a mom and your marriage has taken a turn for the worst, you'll definitely want to listen to this!
Here's a peek into what we talked about: - Challenges of Motherhood and Mental Health - Impact of Motherhood on Marriage - Setting Up Marriages for Success - Prioritizing Yourself: A Non-Negotiable - Division of Labor at Home - Managing Household Standards - Family Dynamics and Expectations - Narrative Therapy in Relationships - Self-Awareness and Communication
This episode is chock full of insight and tips. Enjoy it and let us know what you loved most about it!