Make Them Pay – Détails, épisodes et analyse

This week’s guest is one of my favourite sugar daddies, and he’s here to help me challenge the way people see the men who pay for companionship. Too often, society feeds us the idea that they’re creepy, disrespectful, or incapable of getting a woman without paying. He gives a very honest insight into why rich men opt for paid companionship over social dating sights,

By the end of this episode, I think you’ll agree with us that this is just another myth about the sex industry.

We dive into how we met, what our arrangement looks like, and why he first turned to sex workers during his marriage. He also shares what he would say if his daughter wanted to become a sex worker, and he gives an honest warning about a common trap women should look out for before entering the industry.

I’m so grateful he was willing to come on and be this open and honest! helping me push back against the shame and stigma that still surround this work and change the representation of the men

This week I’m joined by Jade Blair (@jadeblairxox) - a sex worker and advocate with 9 years in the industry. From working as a private escort and in brothels to building her career on OnlyFans, Jade has seen it all. She’s volunteered with sex worker advocacy groups across Australia and in 2025 won Best Industry Advocate at the Australian Adult Industry Awards.

We talk about why normalising sex work makes the industry safer, how autism effects her work, the way male clients are just as misrepresented as the sex workers, and the controversial TikTok money counts

Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long

Welcome to Episode One!

I’m sharing how I got into sugar babying, my 10-year relationship with “Texas,” and where it really led me.

This isn’t a glamorised story of fancy hotels and private jets (although they're in there) — it’s about financial freedom, exploring fantasy, and building a life on your own terms.

If you’ve ever been curious about sugar babying, or maybe you’re already in the game, then this episode is for you. I share my honest advice, hard lessons, and a few warnings I wish someone had given me.

Because yes, this industry can open doors — but there are some rooms you don't want to walk into.

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In this episode, I speak with Dallas Rayne, who has spent 16 years working across the sex industry in Australia. Dallas has done it all—strip clubs, private escort work, brothels, and even becoming one of Australia’s most famous porn stars before OnlyFans whipped out the porn industry. We dive into the taboos around sex work, how the industry has impacted her dating life and relationships, and what first inspired her to step into the world of sex work. We also touch on how she became the most awarded sex worker in Australia, holding titles such as Best Female Stripper, Best Private Escort, Best Milf, Hall of fame, Best Australian Porn Star & Alpha Female Industry Leader!

In 2025, a full time corperate job is still not enough to afford the lifestyle most desire. 'Barbie' was tired of being broke, and wanted to see what is would be like to work part time in a brothel. She's now worked in four of Melbournes brothels, so she knows a thing or ten about red-flag and green-flag establishments, and how to stay safe in this work and in your every day sex life

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10 years ago I was living a very different life, I moved back to America to be with Texas, but when I arrived, he was no where to be seen. This is when my stint as a call girl started....

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Have you heard of the Madonna-Whore complex?

This week, we dive into the juicy duality of being both a registered nurse and a stripper - and how society still struggles to accept women who choose both. Kate is a registered nurse, as well as a pole dancer for 20 years, co-owns a pole studio, and founded Haus of GAIA, where she mentors women to reclaim their sexuality and regulate their nervous systems - all grounded in her background in trauma nursing and resuscitation education.

We talk Madonna-Whore complex, sexual expression, breaking rules, and what it really looks like to be a woman who does it all - without apology

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This week I sit down with Erika White, a Youtuber turned OnlyFans creator. She's only been on the site a year now and is absolutely killing it. We talk about the pressures of being an online creator, weird requests, the loneliness of content creation, how to be smart with your money, and how she decided to go for it and build the life of her dreams.

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Ever wondered how to find a Sugar Daddy without getting scammed, ghosted or catfished? In this episode I'll tell you everything I've learnt the hard way from my 14 years on Seeking Arrangement. From how to build a profile that gets you the RIGHT man, setting your terms, knowing your worth and spotting red flags. I'm answering all your juicy questions, sharing my best and worst experiences and also some of yours! Whether you're new to the game or just want a sharper strategy, this episodes for you!

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Were back with Ellie Naughty for part 2!

Ellie has spent over a decade in the sex industry after starting at just 19. She opens up about the realities of working in porn vs. OnlyFans, the financial highs and lows, and the importance of a strong female support system that's helped her navigate the darker times in the strip club. 

Despite constant betrayals in her personal life and career, Ellie remains remarkably positive and grounded. She shares how she keeps going, what she's learned, and why community and resilience matter so much. Ellie has been incredibly kind and welcoming to me on my own journey, and I’m honoured to share this conversation with you

Music by Toby Young & Jacob Long