🔥 Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? 🔥

Hey there, fabulous therapists! 

If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably poured your heart and soul into building your therapy private practice. And let’s face it, managing the business side of things isn’t exactly why we got into this field. But what if I told you that the very tool you rely on for efficient practice management might actually be working against you?

The Shocking Discovery

It all started with a seemingly innocent email from a colleague. “Hey Lisa, have you checked out the new terms of service for our mental health EHR system?” they asked. Intrigued and a little concerned, I decided to dive in. What I found left me absolutely gobsmacked.

I spent hours wading through 97 pages of legal jargon, and what I discovered was alarming.

I recorded a podcast on what happened next and released this in July, BUT since the first version was released I've gained visibility into some new information... and some new developments have unfolded. I am in the process of updating this podcast and video, and will be re-releasing it soon. 

Chapters:- 

00:00 The Shocking Discovery 

01:39 Terms of Service Panic

02:39 Deep Dive into the Agreement

04:47 Exploitation Uncovered

11:43 The Fake Client Test

15:15 The Migration Nightmare

16:20 Legal Battles and New Beginnings

18:32 Sharing the Experience

22:23 Collective Power of Therapists

27:13 Resources and Final Thoughts

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Your partner in outrage ✊

Lisa Marie Bobby

 

 

Could your next therapy client be a mystery shopper on a secret spy mission? Yes, it’s a real thing—surprise! 🤯

When I found out someone was secretly in therapy to review my practice for an article, I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or check if I’d entered an episode of Black Mirror. But here’s the deal: therapy mystery shoppers are real, and it’s something every therapist needs to know about.

In this podcast, I’m sharing the full story—what happened to me, why it matters to your practice, and, most importantly, how you can protect yourself and your clients. We’ll talk ethics, trust, and practical strategies so you can handle anything with professionalism and confidence. 💪

Chapters:

00:00 Hook: What if your client is secretly reviewing you?
02:55 When it happened to me: The full story
05:03 The trust shake-up: Why this feels so unsettling
06:39 Why every therapist should care (even if it hasn’t happened to you yet)
15:42 Red flags: How to spot a mystery shopper
18:47 Protect your practice: Actionable strategies
22:02 Growth mindset: Turning surprises into opportunities
24:51 Wrap-up: Keeping your practice strong and confident

Weird stuff happens—trust me, I’ve faced it all. From therapy mystery shoppers to scams targeting therapists, if you want to protect your practice, I’ve got you covered. When you sign up for my 8 Scams Targeting Therapists email series, I’ll share my personal experiences with you and lay out clear, actionable steps you can implement today to keep your practice safe. You don’t have to figure this out on your own.

If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button for more tips to protect, grow, and thrive in your practice. And please share this podcast with your professional community—because the best way we protect ourselves is by looking out for each other.

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.growingself.com

P.S. Let’s connect! Join our amazing therapist community over on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear your thoughts, stories, and questions!

Ever feel like something’s “off” in your therapeutic relationships but can’t quite put your finger on it? The answer might lie in hidden power dynamics that could be impacting your clients in ways you didn’t realize.

In today’s episode, *The Hidden Power Dynamics in Therapy*, I’m diving into the subtle, often unnoticed imbalances that naturally occur between therapist and client—and more importantly, what you can do to manage them effectively so that they don't sabotage the work.

I’ll walk you through practical strategies to create more equitable relationships, promote client autonomy, and avoid the common pitfalls of disempowerment and dependency.

With over 50 therapists under my supervision, I’ve seen firsthand how even well-meaning professionals can fall into these traps. I’ll also be sharing personal insights and tools you can start using in your next session.

Join me for this vital conversation and let’s work together to ensure we’re empowering our clients in every way possible AND avoiding the pitfalls that can ruin therapy (and even get you in hot water as a therapist).

 

What You’ll Learn:

 

03:24:Why Power Differentials Are Unavoidable

11:21: The Consequences of Unmanaged Power Dynamics

22:26: Strategies for Reducing Imbalances in Your Sessions

25:00: How to Collaborate and Be Transparent with Clients 

32:11: Final Thoughts & Free Resources for Therapists 

I can’t wait for you to tune in!

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

And don’t forget! I have a *FREE* 2-part training just for therapists, where I’ll show you how to get clear about your professional trajectory, and integrate coaching techniques into your practice for even more effective results. You can access it at growingself.com/coaching

 

 

 

Do you talk about yourself too much in therapy??

Therapists, we’ve all been there. You want to connect with your client, show empathy, and maybe even share a bit of your own story to create that bond. But could your personal anecdotes be doing more harm than good? In today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving into the delicate balance of self-disclosure in therapy. How much is too much, and how do we ensure our personal shares are actually helping, not hurting, our clients' progress?

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering where to draw the line between therapeutic empathy and oversharing, this episode is for you. We'll explore real-life examples where well-meaning therapists let their personal stories take center stage—leading to client disengagement, boundary issues, and even professional consequences.

In this episode, I’ll guide you through:

00:53: The ‘Let’s Talk About Me’ Scenario
When a therapist’s own grief overshadows their client’s healing process—where the session turns from support to storytelling.

02:51: The Fitness Enthusiast's Misstep
How a seemingly helpful share about personal fitness goals left a client feeling inadequate, anxious, and ultimately disconnected.

04:31: Validation Gone Wrong
The dangers of seeking client approval—when a therapist inadvertently puts the focus on their own choices rather than the client’s growth.

05:59: Family Drama in Therapy
What happens when a therapist's overshare about their own relationship problems creates discomfort and confusion for the client.

07:40: The Rise of Life Coaches and Boundaries
How the 'tell-all' culture in amateur coaching differs from the professional standards we as therapists must adhere to.

08:22: Boundaries and Ethical Guidelines: Keeping It Professional
A look at the strict ethical codes (APA, ACA) governing self-disclosure and how to use them to maintain your integrity in practice.

11:37: Potential Pitfalls and Client Retention
Wondering why clients are ghosting or disengaging? It could be your oversharing. Learn how to spot red flags in your own practice.

17:08: Best Practices for Therapists
From seeking consultation to structuring sessions for client feedback, I’ll share actionable steps to ensure your self-disclosure is always in service of the client.

Whether you’re a seasoned therapist or just starting out, maintaining clear, professional boundaries is essential for both client outcomes and your own career longevity. Let’s make sure we’re always showing up in the most helpful, effective way for the people who trust us with their growth.

Want more? Head over to GrowingSelf.com/therapists for articles, podcasts, and resources to keep you at the top of your game. And hey, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast to get notified when there's a new episode chock full of perspective and tips to support your personal and professional wellbeing as a therapist. 

xo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. Have we connected yet on Linkedin? If not, join the conversation! https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/

Something that we are all vulnerable to as therapists can be moving too fast with our clients, or in some cases, moving too slow. 

We want to help our therapy clients experience results: healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, more success in their careers, and more contentment in their lives. But when we push them into the deep end of the personal growth pool before they're ready, their progress stalls. 

So how can you know if you're moving too fast with a client? And, what are some signs that your client is ready for more of a challenge? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.

I hope it helps you set the pace that's just right for you and your clients. That's when the magic happens! 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — In this episode we talked about how using evidence-based coaching psychology techniques can help you find that sweet spot. If you want to learn more about coaching certification for therapists, take this totally FREE two part training to find out what it is, how it works, and whether or not it's for you: https://www.growingself.com/coach

"Is Your Practice a Legal Time Bomb?"

As ethical, caring therapists with the best of intentions, we never set out to cross boundaries or make missteps in our practice. But the truth is, even the most well-meaning therapists can stumble into dangerous territory and even serious ethical violations—often for things we never thought would be an issue… until it’s too late.

We both know you’re a fantastic therapist, but I’d love for you to take a moment and reflect: could there be something in your current process that has the potential to get you in trouble down the road?

In the latest Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists podcast, I’m breaking down the ethical landmines that blow up in therapists’ faces all the time. You may think you’re covering your bases, but these hidden aspects could be the ones that catch you off guard.

👇 Here’s what you think you know—but with a twist 👇

• You know you shouldn’t abandon clients… but are you unintentionally doing it in ways you’ve never considered?

• You know your caseload needs managing… but what hidden oversights in documentation could cause a massive issue?

• You know about boundaries… but what about the subtle boundary crossings that might not seem like a big deal—until they are?

• You know dual relationships are a no-no… but do you know the sneaky ways these can happen without even realizing it?

• You’re confident in your scope of competence… but how can you be sure you’re not accidentally stepping out of it without knowing?

💡 Why this matters: No one plans on being grieved or losing their license, but the smallest oversights can create the biggest problems. This episode is about uncovering those hidden risks and making sure you’re truly protected.

If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast so you never miss out on more tips for growing your practice and protecting your career. And hey, if you know other therapists who could use some help dodging those ethical landmines, share this episode with them!

Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. Let’s keep this conversation going! Connect with me on LinkedIn here to connect with me and be part of an amazing community of like-minded professionals.

Therapists aren't psychics, but they can seem that way. Why? The best of the best never stop assessing!

Think you truly know your long-term clients? What if I told you there’s a key you’re missing to unlock their next breakthrough? Staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back—let’s change that.

As therapists, we love building deep, meaningful relationships with our clients over time—but staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back. Complacency in therapy is more common than you think, and the biggest mistake seasoned therapists make is getting too comfortable. Here’s how to avoid it and keep your clients growing.

In today’s episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into why ongoing assessment is the key to unlocking deeper growth for your clients—and, more importantly, for you. If you’ve stopped assessing your long-term clients, you’re missing the hidden layers of growth that could transform their journey.

In this episode, we’ll cover:

• [00:00] The power of long-term client relationships—and the hidden risks they carry.

• [00:56] Why continuous assessment is crucial for staying in tune with your clients' evolving needs.

• [02:17] Strategies to avoid getting complacent and stay connected to your clients’ goals.

• [06:15] The ethical responsibility we have as therapists to assess whether we’re still truly helping our clients.

• [18:16] How to spot—and address—client dependency before it becomes unhealthy.

• [21:01] Monitoring shifts in your clients' identity, values, and goals so you can keep the work relevant and effective.

• [23:02] The critical importance of addressing addictive behaviors that may surface over time.

This episode is packed with actionable insights that will help you stay sharp, ethical, and deeply connected to your clients as they grow and change. Discover how continuous assessment keeps your clients (and you) thriving. If you want to continue being the transformative guide your clients need, hit play now.

This isn’t just about helping them—it’s about making sure you continue to love, enjoy, and grow in your work too.

Let’s dive in!

Warmly,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. Are we connected yet on Linkedin? Join the conversation!

Unfortunatly, feeling like a fraud sometimes is part of the experience of being a therapist. Even a good, competent, highly effective therapist! 

If that anxious whisper of “Am I even helping anyone?” has floated through your mind, 1) you're not alone and 2) I'm so glad you're here today for this conversation!

 In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist imposter syndrome—that sneaky self-doubt that makes you question your competence and wonder if you're doing enough for your clients.

Here’s the thing: Imposter syndrome isn’t a reflection of your abilities; it’s a sign of how much you care about your work. And guess what? If you felt completely confident all the time, you’d stop growing, and your clients might not get the best version of you.

In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: where imposter syndrome comes from, why it's so common in our profession, and—most importantly—how you can manage it and use it as a tool for your own professional evolution. I’m sharing actionable strategies that help turn imposter syndrome into an engine for growth, so you can show up for your clients with renewed confidence and authenticity.

🔑 Here’s what we’ll cover:

• Why every thoughtful therapist experiences imposter syndrome

• How to reframe those self-doubts into something positive

• Building a growth mindset that keeps you evolving as a therapist

• The importance of community, mentorship, and reflection in managing imposter syndrome

• Practical tips you can start using right now to manage those nagging thoughts

Don’t let imposter syndrome paralyze you—let it push you to grow. Tune in to learn how to navigate this common struggle, find your confidence, and keep showing up for your clients in the best possible way.

👉 For more therapist resources and tips, visit growingself.com/therapists and let’s definitely connect on LinkedIn!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

#TherapistLife #ImposterSyndrome #MentalHealthProfessionals #TherapistGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #TherapyCareer

 

Did you know that our healthy, appropriate therapeutic boundaries have the potential to cause hurt feelings, emotional barriers, and even ruptures in our relationships with clients? 😬 It’s true! Even though these boundaries are vital for ethical practice, they can leave clients feeling hurt, frustrated, or confused if we’re not handling them with care and intention.

In this episode, I’m diving deep into how therapeutic boundaries for therapists—from declining social media requests to maintaining client autonomy—can unintentionally create emotional distance if we’re not communicating about them properly. I’m sharing strategies to prevent these ruptures by being proactive and transparent about why we set boundaries and how they protect both us and our clients. 💡

By addressing these moments head-on, you can turn potential ruptures into opportunities for connection, trust, and growth. 🙌

👇 Timestamps 👇
00:00 Understanding Client Perceptions
01:02 Introduction to Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
02:12 Common Therapist Boundaries
02:40 Navigating Social Media and Public Encounters
03:45 Proactive Communication and Transparency
07:14 The Role of Silence in Therapy
08:24 Dual Relationships and Boundaries
10:36 The Importance of Not Giving Direct Advice
12:32 Coaching vs. Therapy
17:14 Respecting Client Autonomy
17:56 Addressing Potential Ruptures
20:35 Final Thoughts and Resources

 

This episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you handle therapeutic boundaries for therapists intentionally, ensuring they don’t become the source of misunderstandings or ruptures. You’ll learn how to maintain strong, trusting relationships with your clients while holding firm to ethical practices.

Let’s talk about how to turn these “weird” moments into opportunities for growth and connection. Listen now! 🔥

Xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

PS: Let’s stick together and be friends on Linkedin!

PPS: Have you FOLLOWED Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists on your podcast player yet? Do it now so you don't miss an episode! 

Ever found yourself feeling personally triggered by your clients, or silently (perhaps guiltily) feeling judgmental about their values or life choices? Perhaps your client is having an affair, or engaged in criminal activity, or is behaving in ways that are destructive to others. It's normal to have feelings about this!

You're not alone—and this episode will change the way you handle it.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapist, we’re diving into a topic that’s so essential to our work: how to remain non-judgmental when your clients’ values conflict with your own. I know it can feel challenging sometimes—believe me, we’ve all been there! But here’s the thing: when you really dig into this work, it not only makes you a better therapist, but it also helps you grow emotionally and personally in ways you didn’t expect. 🌱

The magic of practicing unconditional positive regard is that it stretches you. It makes you more tolerant, more accepting, and honestly, more compassionate in your personal relationships, too. This episode is all about leaning into that discomfort, embracing your clients’ unique journeys, and using it as a tool for your own growth.

Let’s explore together how mastering non-judgmental support can foster deeper empathy and help you build stronger relationships in both your professional and personal life. Ready to level up? Let’s dive in!

Timestamps: 

00:00 – How Values Conflicts Impact Therapists AND Clients

05:05 - Therapists Are Human!

12:30 - The First Step: Self Awareness

14:55 - Authentic Curiosity

18:15 - Working Within Cognitive Dissonance

23:18 - Professional Path Choices

33:03 – Practical Tips for Counselors

33:14 – Supporting Clients on Their Journey

33:26 – Embracing Non-Judgmental Support

33:54 – Personal Growth Through Professional Practice

34:28 – Fostering Tolerance and Perspective

Hit play, get comfy, and let's grow together! 🌟 #TherapistLife #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PersonalGrowth #Empathy #TherapyJourney

Xo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

PS: We therapists need to stick together. Let’s be friends on Linkedin!

Hey there, fabulous therapists! Are you tired of feeling overworked and underpaid? If you're ready to finally break free from financial stress and build the prosperous career you deserve, you’re in the right place. Today, I'm diving into powerful, actionable tips to help you boost your income and achieve financial success as a therapist — starting right now.

I’ll walk you through the best-paying therapy jobs and specializations, explore different employment options, and show you how to thrive in private practice. Whether you're considering advanced degrees, curious about high-paying roles like neuropsychology or industrial/organizational psychology, or simply wanting to explore new avenues, I’ve got you covered.

And if you’re thinking about starting your own private practice? Yes, it’s challenging, but it's also one of the most rewarding paths you can take—both financially and personally. I’ll share what you need to know about the business side of things, from choosing a niche to building your online presence and growing a referral network.

Plus, I'll reveal additional revenue streams that can complement your practice, so you can create a career that not only aligns with your values but also brings you joy and financial peace of mind.

Let’s dig deep, get inspired, and start creating the prosperous, fulfilling career you’ve always dreamed of. Remember, your financial well-being is just as important as the amazing work you do for others. Stick with me, and let’s make this happen together!

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction and Why This Matters

1:32 - The Best-Paying Therapy Jobs and Specializations

4:15 - Exploring Different Employment Options

7:48 - Thriving in Private Practice: What You Need to Know

11:02 - Advanced Degrees: Are They Worth It?

13:35 - Building Your Private Practice: Niche, Marketing, and More

16:20 - Additional Revenue Streams for Therapists

19:55 - Balancing Career Success with Personal Values

22:18 - Free Resources to Support Your Journey

All for you! 

 

Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

 

PS. Here’s the link to that free resource I shared with you today: https://www.growingself.com/coach. I hope it helps you get clarity about your career path, and your financial prosperity as a therapist. 

 

What shocked me the most about starting a private practice? My success had NOTHING to do with therapy. It had to do with understanding marketing basics and knowing how to run a business! I was TOTALLY unprepared.

🎉 Are you struggling to fill your therapy practice? Do you want to get more therapy clients, but feeling overwhelmed by the daunting task of attracting more clients? 🌟

Well. my friend, this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists!” is for you!! 🚀 In this power-packed session, we're unveiling the ultimate secrets to transforming your private practice and ensuring your caseload is overflowing with eager clients. 🏆

🔥 Here's what you'll uncover:

• 00:00 Introduction: The Ultimate Guide to Attracting More Therapy Clients

• 01:41 Game-Changing Marketing Strategies for Therapists

• 03:51 Elevate Your Digital Footprint: Building a Magnetic Online Presence

• 06:32 Networking Secrets: Building a Referral Powerhouse

• 09:31 Ethical Mastery: Navigating Client Referrals with Integrity

• 11:20 Client Retention Magic: Keep Your Caseload Overflowing

• 16:55 Finding Your Niche: The Power of Specialization

• 24:21 Smart Strategies: Financial and Practical Tips for Success

• 28:40 Wrapping Up: Essential Resources and Next Steps

💡 This isn't just another marketing talk—this is your ticket to a thriving, successful practice. Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just starting, these tips will revolutionize how you attract and retain clients.

📢 Don't miss out! Hit play now and embark on your journey to practice success. If you find this episode helpful, share it with a colleague, subscribe to our channel, and leave your questions in the comments. Let's keep the conversation going and support each other in achieving love, happiness, and success! 🌈

🔗 Stay connected:

• Subscribe to Love Happiness and Success For Therapists on your podcast app

• Subscribe to my channel on YouTube

• Connect with me on Linkedin

• Leave a comment with your thoughts and questions on the blog: https://www.growingself.com/get-more-therapy-clients

Let's make your therapy practice the talk of the town! 🌟✨

Xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

 

P.S. I shared a BUNCH of free resources with you in this episode. Access them all, right here: https://www.growingself.com/therapists

 

 

Are you currently making some of the biggest therapist mistakes right now, without even realizing it? 

Chances are that you might be making common therapy mistakes that could harm your practice—or your clients, and that’s why we need to talk about this!  Trust me, I’ve been there, and as a clinical supervisor, I’ve seen it all. In this podcast, we’ll cover the most common therapist missteps (that you might not even realize you’re making!) and actionable strategies to avoid them.  

From building a solid therapeutic alliance to mastering boundaries and practicing self-care, I’m sharing the real talk, personal insights, and free resources you need to thrive in your career. Whether you're just starting out or a seasoned pro, this podcast is packed with value you don’t want to miss. 

Timestamps  

00:00 - Introduction: The surprising challenges therapists face  

00:57 - Missing signs of a ruptured therapeutic alliance  

02:06 - How to ask clients for feedback  

05:12 - Boundaries that are too loose—or too rigid  

11:53 - Why therapists must prioritize their own wellness  

18:13 - Avoid these private practice pitfalls  

26:16 - Actionable takeaways and free resources  

If any of these mistakes hit home, know this: you’re not alone, and you’re not doomed! Awareness is the first step to change. If you’d like to know where you stand in your practice, take my Banishing Burnout Assessment to discover whether you’re on a path to professional success and satisfaction or heading toward burnout. Let’s ensure you’re flourishing, not just surviving.

Don’t forget to subscribe to this channel for weekly insights, and if you found this helpful, share it with your professional community—we’re all in this together.  

Xoxo

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

growingself.com

P.S. Let’s connect on LinkedIn! Join our amazing community of therapists and professionals: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby.

🔥 Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? 🔥

Hey there, fabulous therapists! 

If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably poured your heart and soul into building your therapy private practice. And let’s face it, managing the business side of things isn’t exactly why we got into this field. But what if I told you that the very tool you rely on for efficient practice management might actually be working against you?

The Shocking Discovery

It all started with a seemingly innocent email from a colleague. “Hey Lisa, have you checked out the new terms of service for our mental health EHR system?” they asked. Intrigued and a little concerned, I decided to dive in. What I found left me absolutely gobsmacked.

I spent hours wading through 97 pages of legal jargon, and what I discovered was alarming.

I recorded a podcast on what happened next and released this in July, BUT since the first version was released I've gained visibility into some new information... and some new developments have unfolded. I am in the process of updating this podcast and video, and will be re-releasing it soon. 

Stay connected with me so I can let you know that this has been posted. Join my weekly newsletter for therapists to get notified about new podcasts that will support you, and help you flourish and thrive in our shared profession. 👇

Join Newsletter to Get Notified

Your partner in outrage ✊

Lisa Marie Bobby

 

What Kind Of Therapist are YOU? 🚀

In this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists," we're diving DEEP into the secrets of finding your niche as a therapist! 🎯 Are you tired of being a generalist, doing a little bit of everything and struggling to stand out in a competitive market? Say NO MORE! I’m Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and I’m here to guide you through the FIVE POWERFUL STEPS to clarify your niche, become a true authority, and a trustworthy guide to the clients for whom you can do the most GOOD. 💖

🔥 What We’re Discussing 🔥

00:00 - Why You MUST Specialize as a Therapist
02:45 - Why Being a Generalist Hurts Your Practice
07:30 - The Journey to Specialization as a Therapist
13:20 - Step 1: Self-Assessment and Reflection
19:45 - Step 2: Gaining Experience
24:10 - Step 3: Continuing Education
30:35 - Step 4: Marketing Your Niche
36:50 - The Ongoing Journey and Regular Self-Evaluation
42:15 - FREE Two-Part Training on Coaching Certification for Therapists

This episode is PACKED with valuable insights, personal stories, and actionable tips that will transform your professional life. If you’re ready to step into your power, create a fulfilling career, and become the go-to expert in your field, you CAN’T afford to miss this!

✨ CALL TO ACTION ✨

Are you curious about coaching certification for therapists? Do you want to create a career that not only meets your professional goals but also brings you joy and satisfaction? 🌟 I’ve created the ULTIMATE GUIDE just for you – a FREE two-part training on coaching certification for therapists! This guide will help you gain clarity on your long-term professional goals, explore the world of coaching, and create an action plan to achieve your dreams.

🔗 CLICK HERE to take the free two-part training and get your hands on the ultimate guide to coaching certification for therapists: growingself.com/coach 🔗

Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more life-changing insights and professional tips. Let's create a career and life you LOVE! 🌈

#TherapistLife #FindYourNiche #CoachingCertification #ProfessionalGrowth #LoveHappinessSuccess

 

Ever wondered if your therapy is truly helping your clients? Not gonna lie: I've had those moments myself!

I believe that all excellent therapists, more than anything, want to help people. That's why, in this episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s near and dear to all of our hearts: how to know if our therapy is actually making a difference in the lives of our clients.

Join me as we explore essential strategies to measure therapy effectiveness and ensure our clients’ progress. I’ll be sharing tips on setting clear goals, conducting regular check-ins, observing behavioral changes, and knowing when our clients are ready to graduate from therapy. Plus, we’ll discuss how integrating coaching psychology can enhance your practice and make you an even more effective therapist.

Ready to transform your therapy practice and make a bigger impact? Tune in and let’s get started!

 

00:00 Introduction: Is Therapy Really Helping?

00:38 Understanding Therapy's Ambiguity

02:03 Tips for Effective Therapy

03:17 Goal Setting and Progress Tracking

04:29 Regular Check-ins and Feedback

05:27 Behavioral Changes as Progress Indicators

08:02 Graduation from Therapy

09:15 Coaching Psychology for Therapists

12:37 Free Resources and Conclusion

 

💡 Don't miss this episode— it's only by doing our OWN work that we will truly help our clients thrive! 💡

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

GrowingSelf.com

P.S. For more resources and FREE training opportunities, visit growingself.com/therapist

 

 

 

Are you a “very online” therapist? Or are you thinking about becoming one, in order to support your therapy private practice? Well, my friend, there is much to discuss!

In today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success For Therapists, we explore the dynamic and sometimes controversial world of therapists on social media. With platforms like TikTok and YouTube becoming popular avenues for mental health advice, how do we therapists navigate these waters while maintaining our ethical standards and professional boundaries?

• Is it ethical for therapists to share their clients’ stories on social media?

• What are the benefits and drawbacks of therapists offering mental health advice on TikTok and YouTube?

• How can therapists maintain professional boundaries while being active on social media?

• What ethical considerations should therapists keep in mind when creating online content?

• How do social media influencers impact the work of licensed therapists?

• What are the risks and liabilities for therapists engaging with clients in public online forums?

Tune in for a comprehensive discussion that will help you understand the landscape and make informed decisions about your online presence, as a therapist.

For more insightful episodes, or to connect with me, visit Growing Self - Therapists.

All the best,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

 

PS: Considering expanding your skill set by becoming a certified coach? Take advantage of my free two-part training series to get clear on your professional trajectory and discover if becoming a certified coach is right for you, AND get a free, step by step guide to learn exactly how to do it. All 100% FREE, and for YOU, so I hope you take advantage of it. Access this free training at GrowingSelf.com/coach

 

 

Are you a therapist who's interested in coaching? If so, this episode is for you! We're talking about how learning how to coach can boost your career as a therapist, make your work more fun, and ultimately, make you a better therapist. 

Therapists who know how to apply coaching psychology are in high demand, and for good reason. They not only help their clients clarify their goals and obstacles, they help them create real results in their lives. But many therapists haven't learned about the power of evidence-based coaching and how it dovetails perfectly with their skillset. By learning how to coach, you can expand your client base, increase your income, and build a caseload that's truly enjoyable. 

Tune in to learn: 

01:26 The Power of Coaching Psychology 02:12 Incorporating Coaching into Therapy 05:01 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching 13:54 The Importance of Coaching Certification for Therapists 26:59 Where to Get Certified to Coach   And more! I hope you'll join me, and that this episode inspires you to embrace the coach within!   xoxo,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can stay tuned for updates about the coaching certification at Growing Self here: https://www.growingself.com/coaching-certification-preview/ 

No one becomes a therapist because they love case notes... but it is an important part of the job. And if you don't have a solid strategy, it can feel like the bane of your exsitence. So let's talk about how to make this not-so-fun task a little bit easier! 

On today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we're talking about how you can streamline your documentation process, find a note-taking system that works for you, and spend more time doing the work you actually love.

Documentation can be boring, but it's not all drudgery. I'm sharing some tips that will make case notes genuinely helpful, and — dare I say — FUN. There's really nothing like the feeling of having it all together at work. Good notes help you clarify your thoughts, keep your clients straight, and provide you with a clear map of the best path forward.  

Plus, good note taking habits can significantly cut down on your admin time, and allow you to spend less of your free time thinking about work. It truly has so many benefits!

Tune in to learn: 

• 03:22 The Importance of Case Notes and Documentation
• 04:16 Strategy 1: Concurrent Note Taking and Treatment Planning
• 10:10 Strategy 2: Time Blocking
• 12:39 Strategy 3: Short Break Method
• 15:23 Deepening the Case Notes Experience
• 25:13 Exploring Your Options

And more! I hope you'll join me. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out! https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

As therapists, we know how to put our stuff aside and focus on what our client needs to heal and grow. But how are you supposed to do that when your client is struggling with something that hits too close to home for you? 

As a longtime therapist myself, and a clinical supervisor, I know this happens all the time. Therapists are human too. Just like our clients, we also have breakups, and miscarriages, and conflict with loved ones. And we sometimes find ourselves in the strange position of counseling someone who is going through something we're going through ourselves.  

It can be emotionally triggering! And the best way to proceed isn't always clear. Sometimes we can practice healthy boundaries and compartmentalize our feelings well enough to remain effective. And sometimes, we're too rattled to continue working with the client ethically. 

The next time this happens to you, I want you to feel confident in your ability to handle it. That's why I created this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. 

Tune in to learn about: 

• 05:31 Navigating Personal Challenges as a Therapist
• 11:39 The Importance of a Strong Support System
• 19:01 Empathy vs. Impairment
• 27:48 Self-Monitoring and Boundaries
• 31:16 Knowing When to Refer
• 33:17 The Courage of Referring

And more. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

Therapists: Could you be replaced by a robot? It's not the plot of a science fiction novel. It's happening now, and the technology is getting better every day. So what will therapy look like in the age of Artificial Intelligence, and more importantly, how can YOU future-proof your career as a therapist in this brave new world? That's what we're talking about on today's episode!

AI "therapists" can already provide the passive talk therapy experience that so many clinicians offer. It's time to adapt... and the sooner, the better. If you to take this opportunity to differentiate yourself and build upon your skillset, I believe you'll have everything you need to thrive as a therapist in in the age of AI. 

Tune into this episode to learn about: 

• 00:00 The Future of Therapy 
• 04:10 The Impact of AI on Traditional Therapy
• 08:26 The Shift in Non-Directive Talk Therapy
• 10:13 Changes in Clinical Mental Health Treatment
• 13:04 The Role of Coaching in the Future of Therapy
• 18:26 The Advantages of Coaching 
• 24:22 The Future of Therapy: Building on High Ground

And so much more. I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

Are you a therapist who wants to raise your rates, but the prospect of discussing it with new and existing clients makes you think twice? Talking about money with therapy clients can be awkward — but it's a necessary skill that all therapists need to develop, and this episode will show you the way. 

Why is money such a fraught topic, especially in the therapeutic relationship? Because we genuinely care about our clients. And sometimes, pushing for more money can feel unkind, or like it cheapens the relationship somehow. In reality, money is the boundary that our professional relationships require to remain healthy and balanced. 

If you dread "The Money Talk," changing your mindset about money and its role in your career is step one. This episode will help! Tune in to learn: 

• 01:04 Why talking about money can feel so difficult
• 04:18 The root causes of discomfort around money
• 06:13 Challenges for therapists transitioning into private practice
• 09:31 Legitimate concerns about filling a private practice
• 10:58 Imposter syndrome and your finances
• 16:02 Conflict avoidance and peacemaking tendencies
• 21:40 Cultural and family influences on money
• 25:31 Strategies for talking about money with confidence

You are a highly educated, skilled professional whose work literally changes the trajectory of people's lives. You deserve to make a good living. I hope this episode inspires you to make it happen!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out:  https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

One of the most difficult things about being a therapist is the sense of helpless we can feel about helping our clients create positive change. It's true that our clients are the experts on themselves and we can't do the work of growth for them — but I believe we have more opportunities to lead than we realize. 

When you embrace your expertise and your role as a leader in therapy, new avenues open up to you. It's the doorway not only to feeling more satisfied with your work, but also to helping your clients in the way they really want to be helped. 

On today's episode, we're talking about how you can become a leader in the therapy room, guiding your clients in a positive direction rather than feeling like you have to take a backseat to their process. 

Tune in to learn: 

• 00:00 The Impact of Embracing Leadership in Therapy
• 03:18 The Controversy of Therapists as Leaders
• 07:56 The Role of Therapists in Providing Guidance
• 10:54 Different Theoretical Orientations and Leadership
• 17:23 Striking a Balance Between Autonomy and Guidance
• 20:16 The Therapist's Role in Facilitating Growth
• 23:38 Leadership Questions for Therapists
• 29:19 Developing an Ethical and Positive Leadership Stance
• 32:34 Staying Connected to Your Why
• 35:48 The Intersection of Coaching and Therapy

And more. I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: 

https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

Therapists, Are You Coaching Without Certification? You NEED to listen to this! 🚨  

Lots of therapists out there are adding “coach” to their title, but without going through any coach training first. They say, "Coaching seems simple, I can just add that to my title, right?" Hold up. You could… but should you? 

In this episode, I’m diving into why calling yourself a coach without proper certification is like jumping into a helicopter with only a driver’s license—it’s risky, dangerous, and could seriously hurt your career, your reputation, and your clients. 💥  

I’ll break down the real differences between therapy and coaching (hint: they’re NOT the same thing) and share the key steps to safely and successfully incorporate coaching into your practice—ethically and professionally. 🌟  

Time Stamps:

01:55 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences

05:34 – Why Certification Matters  

07:53 – Blending Coaching with Therapy

09:35 – Choosing the Best Coaching Credential  

13:37 – How to Protect Yourself and Your Clients  

26:50 – Free Resources to Get Started 

If you’re feeling inspired, I’ve got something to help you take the next step. My 2-Part Video Training: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching is a free resource that breaks everything down into actionable steps. You’ll get detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach as well as education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs. 

🔔  If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network. Let’s help each other grow!

💌  P.S. I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of your professional journey. Let’s build something amazing together.

Ending therapy sessions on time... it's something that all therapists have to master. And it can be harder than it sounds! When your client is getting into something important, the last thing you want to do is cut them off. 

But drawing that boundary around your time is about more than just running a tight ship around your practice (although that's important, too). It's about creating a safe container in the therapy session and keeping the dynamics of the relationship professional. 

So how can you get better at ending your sessions on time, without making your clients feel rushed out? This episode will show you the way! Tune in to learn: 

• 00:00 Why Ending Therapy Sessions on Time Matters
• 04:26 The Challenges of Ending Sessions on Time
• 07:16 How Money Factors Into It
• 09:35 The 'Doorknob Moment' and Managing Time
• 13:28 Building Trust and Maintaining Professional Boundaries
• 15:25 Preventing Burnout and Practicing Self-Care
• 18:41 Managing Administrative Tasks and Minimizing Stress
• 23:41 Strategies for Ending Sessions on Time
• 26:26 Developing a Closing Routine
• 27:25 Exploring Emotions and Seeking Support

And more! I hope you'll join me and that you'll take some valuable tips from the conversation. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

Therapist friends, I have some advice — if you are primarily focused on the diagnosis and treatment of mental health conditions, the future of your career as a therapist is at risk. Moving away from the medical model is the best way to future-proof your career while building a thriving practice. On today's episode, I'm going to tell you why that is and how you can take action. 

There are already AI programs that can do much of what we were taught to do in counseling school when it comes to recognizing mental health symptoms and devising treatment plans. And if your business model relies on insurance billing, you should know that insurance companies are already finding ways to avoid paying therapists to do this work. 

What does that mean for you? It means it's time to broaden your skillset and your practice to focus on concerns that the medical model was never designed to address: Personal growth, healthy relationships, life satisfaction, goal attainment and career success. Taking this opportunity to move beyond the medical model will help you connect with a wider range of clients, prosper in private practice, and prepare for our new technological reality. 

Tune in to learn how. We'll be exploring: 

• 00:00 The Rise of AI in Therapy
• 03:24 The Impact on Therapists
• 07:38 The Role of Insurance Companies
• 09:53 The Power of New Technologies
• 14:00 The Ethical Dilemma of Insurance Billing
• 16:23 Pivoting Away from the Medical Model
• 18:14 The Advantages of Coaching
• 22:53 The Future of Coaching

And more. I hope you'll join me! 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

All therapists have blindspots, and learning to recognize them is deep personal and professional growth work. It will make you more empathetic, more insightful, and more insightful, not only as a therapist, but also as a human.  

But the thing about blindspots is... we can't see them! Uncovering your blind spots to become a more culturally competent therapist is a process of self-exploration that will unearth perspectives and conditioning that you're not even aware of yet. It requires openness and courage, and it strengthens your capacity for self-reflection and connection to others. 

That exploratory process is what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. My guest is Dr. Diane Estrada, a veteran of the craft and my long-time mentor. Diane brings so much heart and wisdom to her practice, as well as to her work helping others become the best therapists they can be. She's a treasure, and I'm so excited that I get to share her with you!

Tune in to learn: 

• 02:10 The Impact of Cultural and Identity Biases in Therapy
• 04:01 How to Develop Self-Awareness as a Therapist
• 12:08 Recognizing the Influence of Eurocentric Models
• 23:33 Reckoning with Feelings of Anger and Resentment
• 28:01 Seeing the Presence of Culture and Belief Systems
• 35:52 Practices for Growth and Development
• 39:52 The Importance of Checks and Balances
• 40:59 The Challenge of Engaging in Difficult Conversations
• 42:07 Understanding Your Clients' Context
• 43:30 Creating Courageous Space
• 44:18 Balancing Emotional Safety and Growth
• 45:08 Overcoming the Discomfort of Addressing Race

  And more!   I hope you'll join us, and that you'll find our conversation as insightful and helpful as I did.    With love,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish  

This week on Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, we are spotlighting an organization that is making a positive difference in the lives of current and former foster care children: A Home Within. 

A Home Within is a collective of volunteer therapists who offer no-cost therapy to current and former foster care children, for as long as they need it. This is the kind of transformative, meaningful work that we all want to be a part of, and I'm so honored to have the opportunity to shine a light on this fantastic organization. 

My guest is Candice Simonds, chief program officer and a volunteer with A Home Within. Candice is sharing tips on working with people impacted by foster care, helping clients overcome a difficult childhood, and how you can use your therapist superpowers to become a beacon of hope for disadvantaged kids in your community. 

Tune in to hear: 

• 08:19 The Importance of This Work
• 15:42 Supporting Clinicians and Clients
• 25:26 Community Experience for Home Within Volunteers
• 26:41 Therapist Choice and Caseloads
• 28:20 Long-Term Trajectories and Outcomes
• 29:20 Research and Client Needs
• 32:10 Positive Impact of Therapy
• 33:06 Building Safety and Engagement
• 39:33 Creating an Environment of Healing and Joy
• 40:57 Resilience and Hope
• 42:21 The Power of Love
• 44:37 Being Part of the Solution
• 47:28 How to Get Involved

And more! I hope you'll join us for this enlightening conversation, and consider joining this amazing group of therapists.    xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

When therapy clients refer their friends, it's flattering! It means they value the work you're doing together so much that they want the people they care about to benefit from it too. Could their be a better compliment? 

But, when you accept a friend referral from an existing client, things can get weird, fast. This actually happened to me once, and I'm sharing that experience and more on this week's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. It will open your eyes to potential pitfalls and ethical grey areas so you don't have to find yourself in the same awkward situation.

On this episode, I'm breaking down why you should think twice before accepting a friend referral from a client, and how to navigate these sticky situations when they arise in a way that leaves both you and your client feeling cared for.

Tune in to learn about: 

• 00:00 The ethical grey area of friend referrals 
• 03:49 Handling Referrals from Clients 
• 07:29 Redirecting Personal Referrals 
• 15:15 Handling Unexpected Client Connections 
• 19:00 Practicing Ethical Boundaries 
• 20:41 Gray Areas and Subtle Ethical Dilemmas

And so much more. I hope you'll join me! 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  

Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out how to avoid burnout and build a thriving, sustainable career as a therapist: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

Vicarious trauma: It's an occupational hazard for us as therapists. It's also something that we're all exposed to sooner or later. 

We sit with our clients' most difficult life experiences every single day. We care so much... and sometimes our empathetic hearts lead us to take on the emotional residue of the stories we hear. 

But there are things you can do to avoid becoming vicariously traumatized, and to cope with vicarious trauma once it's already set in. That's what we're talking about on today's episode. 

My guest is Dr. Lisa Corbin, a therapist, educator, and thought leader on preventing and managing vicarious trauma. Dr. Lisa C. is sharing some sage advice that will keep you happy, healthy and effective, throughout your career. You won't want to miss it!

You'll learn: 

• 00:00 What Is Vicarious Trauma? 
• 10:06 Dr. Lisa Corbin's Personal Experience with Vicarious Trauma
• 19:04 Recognizing and Addressing Vicarious Trauma
• 25:08 What to Do About Traumatized Colleagues
• 39:36 Acceptance and Self-Care
• 40:51 Physical Rituals and Grounding Exercises
• 42:21 Supporting Each Other as Therapists
• 43:15 Infusing Trauma Discussions into Supervision
• 44:23 Spirituality and Religion as Coping Mechanisms
• 45:48 Invoking Higher Power to Help
• 46:43 Sharing Traumatic Experiences with Colleagues
• 50:28 Increasing Awareness and Seeking Support

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

Being a therapist is incredibly rewarding, especially when you get to do what you do best: Help people grow. And the best way to help your clients break through barriers and achieve the next step in their evolution is by learning how to coach. Why? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!

Tune in to learn about:

• 02:26 The Need for Coaching in Therapy 
• 05:04 How to Incorporate Coaching into Therapy
• 08:20 Differences Between Therapy and Coaching
• 11:08 Coaching for Growth and Positive Change
• 13:25 The Effectiveness of Coaching
• 16:15 How to Get Started

And so much more!

I hope this episode inspires you to take the next step in YOUR professional growth by adding a coaching credential to your skill set. I know you'll be glad you did — and so will your clients when they experience the real-world results that you can help them create.  

xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

Burnout is an occupational hazard for us as therapists. Our caring hearts make us great at what we do... but when you combine high levels of empathy with complex cases, overwhelming workloads, and unsupportive environments, you have a recipe for burnout and exhaustion. 

Unfortunately, many therapists leave the profession after a bad experience with burnout. But it doesn't have to be this way. There are skills and strategies that protect therapists from burnout and allow you to build a thriving career with your wellbeing at the center. And that's what we're talking about on today's episode! 

We're discussing: 

• Why therapists are uniquely vulnerable to burnout. 
• Strategies to prevent burnout before it starts. 
• How to know if you're in an environment where your wellbeing is not supported. 
• How to manage the symptoms of therapist burnout once it has set in. 
• How to build a balanced, sustainable career as a therapist. 

All of that and more for you on today's show, dear listener. I hope you'll tune in. 

And, if you want to know about YOUR unique risk factors for burnout, I've created a free quiz for you! You can take it here: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

As therapists, we are laser-focused on helping our clients achieve personal growth. But we can't neglect our own never-ending growth journeys.

Continuing to invest in our growth keeps us engaged, healthy, and sharp. It helps us help our clients, and it leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling career for us.

So how can we embrace our own growth, while continuing to nurture growth in others? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

Ever think about starting your own private therapy practice? It's an exciting fork in the road — but there are many important issues to think through first!

When I started my own private therapy practice, I had no idea how much work would actually be involved. That's part of why I founded Growing Self Counseling and Coaching — I wanted to create an alternative for therapists who wanted the advantages of private practice, without the common pitfalls, such as: 

• Trouble building and maintaining a caseload
• Administrative work
• Billing & Insurance claims
• Isolation
• Marketing
• And more...

But of course, private practice offers many advantages as well. And, there are some alternatives that offer the best of both worlds.

So how can you decide which route is right for you? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. 

Join me!

xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

 

 

Ever left a session feeling like you’ve just run an emotional marathon? High-intensity clients are inspiring, but they can also be overwhelming, especially if you're an empathic therapist. 

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into practical tools to manage the emotional demands of high-intensity clients while protecting your energy and keeping burnout at bay. Trust me, if you've ever found yourself exhausted after a session, this is the episode for you!

Together, we’ll explore the strategies to help you thrive as a therapist, including ways to balance your caseload, set boundaries, and manage emotional intensity. From my own journey as a therapist and clinical supervisor, I’ll share actionable steps and resources to help you create a sustainable, fulfilling career.

Chapters:

00:39: Understanding High-Intensity Clients

00:58: Challenges for Empathic Therapists

02:49: Strategies for Managing Emotional Intensity

05:39: Finding Your Niche and Career Path

17:11: The Importance of Boundaries

19:39: Building a Support System

23:36: Balancing Your Caseload

26:45 Resources for Longevity

You give so much to others—it’s time to give yourself a moment of care. I created the Banishing Burnout Assessment to help you pause, reflect, and take charge of your professional and personal wellness. Click the link, and in a few quick questions, you’ll have the insights and tools you need to flourish in your practice. I hope it helps on your journey toward thriving.

If this episode resonates with you, make sure to subscribe to the channel for more info on growing in your therapy practice. And share it with your professional community — we’re in this together!P.S. Want to stay connected? Let’s connect on LinkedIn and keep building this amazing community. Join me on LinkedIn here!

Have you ever fallen into the trap of feeling like you're working harder than your therapy clients?

I think all clinicians experience this at some point in our careers! It's natural for us to want to see our clients grow, and even to push them along sometimes at a pace they're not quite ready for. But this always backfires. You can't do the work for your therapy clients, you can only support them as they navigate their own obstacles. 

So how can you stop working harder than your therapy clients and start placing the responsibility back where it belongs? That's what we're talking about on the latest episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.

I hope you'll tune in!

xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Take my "are you at risk of therapist burnout" quiz and get free tools and strategies to support your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

When your clients get stuck, it's so frustrating, for you AND for them. You are there to be their guide, leading them toward growth, healing, and positive change. They are in real need, and looking to you to help them feel better and achieve their goals. So when your sessions feel like they're sputtering out, or even going in reverse, it can feel like you're just as stuck as they are. 

So how can you figure out why exactly your therapy client is getting stuck so you can both start moving forward again? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!

You'll learn about the most common culprits that get clients stuck, how to figure out what's going on with your client, how to talk to them about their progress, when you might not be the right therapist for the job, and so much more. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — How are YOU doing? Take my "Are You At Risk of Burnout" quiz and get tools and resources to support your wellbeing. 

Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted. 

You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you'll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future? 

If you've been here before, then this episode is for you! We're talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you headed for therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and get a personalized action plan for supporting your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

As therapists, we know that healthy boundaries are essential... but when it comes to setting our own boundaries — with clients, with our work, and with ourselves — we can struggle just as much as the people we seek to serve. 

Why is setting boundaries as a therapist so hard? First, we put our hearts and souls into what we do for a living! We can't just shut that off when the clock strikes five, and so we continue to feel emotionally engaged with our work outside of our working hours. Depending on our situation, you may even be putting in non-billable hours when you're supposed to be off the clock. 

Second, the relationship between therapist and client is an usual blend of personal and professional, which means that maintaining appropriate boundaries requires a lot of thought and intention, more so than in other relationships. 

And finally, many of us find ourselves in work environments where healthy boundaries are not encouraged or supported, and going against the grain requires a lot of courage, when it's possible at all. 

Despite the challenge, we have to fight for our boundaries. We deserve to have balance, safety, and space to decompress — without that, we're of no use to anyone! 

So, how can you create healthy boundaries in your therapy practice? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of "Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!" I hope you find these ideas helpful, and that they make you feel seen and supported. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — I'm sure you're well aware that burnout is a major occupational hazard for us therapists, and having healthy boundaries is a protective factor. But, there are others! Are you heading towards burnout, in other domains? Take this quiz and find out: https://su.vc/flourish

How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can't fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it's important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage. 

But sometimes it's not so straight forward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you're the right person to help them, and when you're not? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists. 

Join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Learn how to flourish and thrive as a therapist with my free quiz: https://su.vc/flourish

Ever feel like you can't stop thinking about your therapy clients? So many clinicians struggle with this! It's really a testament to how much we care about the people we serve. Even when we're not in session with them, we're mentally working over their problems and looking for solutions to help them move forward. 

But unfortunately, this is not good for us! We need to shut off, mentally decompress, and focus on our own lives when we're not working with clients. This is not only what you deserve, it's how you recharge so that you can do your best work in session. So how can you learn to stop thinking about your therapy clients outside of work? 

This episode will show you the way! I'm discussing the skills and strategies that have helped me, as well as the talented clinicians on my team at Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. I hope they'll help you too. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish

No matter how much you care about your clients or your craft, being a therapist can be a struggle! Between isolation, burnout, financial stressors, and being exposed to other people's trauma day after day, it's no wonder so many clinicians leave the profession. But when you have healthy boundaries, a balanced workload, and most of all, a supportive community, being a therapist can be a joy — which is exactly what it should be. 

Introducing Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, a fellow therapist and the founder and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. As therapists, we know how to create a space for growth and connection for others. Now it's time we created one for ourselves!

Every week, I'm bringing you episodes on topics that matter to YOU — like how to prosper financially as a therapist while maintaining work-life balance, how to deal when clients ghost, and why your clients are getting stuck (and what you should do about it). This podcast is dedicated to your growth and empowerment. Being a therapist can be a struggle, but it does not have to be. So let's explore our opportunities, overcome our obstacles, and build something better, together. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish

Therapists: Ever wonder how to best support therapy clients when the legal system gets involved? If your clients are going through custody disputes, or if you’re a marriage and family therapist working on custody evaluations, understanding the role of a Child and Family Investigator (CFI) is essential. 

It’s also essential for you to know about the dark side of child and family investigations: Not all CFI’s are qualified, or ethical. And, their recommendations can have a huge impact on the trajectory of your client’s lives… for better or for worse. 

In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Randall, an experienced family law attorney and CFI, to give you the inside scoop on how CFIs work, their impact on custody cases, and how therapists can be true advocates for their clients. Get ready to learn the tips and insights that will help you guide clients through one of the most challenging processes they may ever face. 

Chapters: 

00:31 Understanding the Role of Child and Family Investigators

01:43 Introducing Stephanie Randall: Expert Insights

03:23 The CFI Process Explained

11:26 Therapists' Role in Legal Proceedings

18:10 Challenges and Ethical Considerations for Therapists

24:06 Concerns About Untrustworthy CFIs

34:45 Understanding Investigation Requirements

34:56 Challenges in Reporting and Public Awareness

35:44 The Role and Impact of CFIs

39:22 Therapists as Allies in the System

41:03 Empowering Clients and Addressing Safety

44:31 Navigating Co-Parenting and Legal Systems

45:49 Recognizing and Reporting Abuse

56:03 Advocacy and Systemic Change

Be sure to subscribe to this channel for more insights like these, and share this episode with your professional community to spread the knowledge!  P.S. I'd love to stay connected with you! Join me on LinkedIn, where we can share ideas, support each other, and keep growing together. Let’s build an amazing community—one connection at a time!

Therapists, did you know that there are 8 scams specifically targeting YOU?

In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I share eye-opening stories from my practice and reveal the top scams aimed at therapists—things I never imagined would happen until they started affecting people in my own practice. 

From "police officers" threatening your license to fake clients requesting sessions, scammers have found shockingly creative ways to target mental health professionals. Check out the 

Timestamps:

- 00:00 Introduction: Scams Targeting Therapists

- 00:33 The Scary Police Officer Scam

- 03:32 The Fake Client Scam

- 04:38 The Fake Insurance Rep Scam

- 05:42 The Fake Tech Scam

- 08:26 The Fake Collaboration Scam

- 09:35 The Fake Training Scam

- 10:35 The Fake Credentialing Scam

- 12:35 The Simple Practice Con

- 15:57 Staying Safe: Tips and Final Thoughts

I have so much more information to share about these including real stories about when each of these happened in my practice, and the playbook I developed for my organization in response. Get the WHOLE story and my personal "private practice protection" strategies right here.

Make sure to subscribe for more resources like this and share with your network to keep others informed! Let’s look out for each other. 

P.S. I’d love to connect on LinkedIn to continue this conversation. Come be a part of an amazing community of growth-minded professionals! I’d love to hear from you.

 

 

Therapists, this one’s for you. We’re living in intense times, and it’s no secret that showing up for others can feel especially hard when our own emotional reserves are running low. How do we stay present, compassionate, and fully engaged with our clients when we’re also grappling with our own fears, frustrations, or even grief?

And then there’s this: What happens when our job is to hold unconditionally positive regard for people whose perspectives or values may be wildly different from our own? It’s tough. It can feel like an impossible balancing act. But it’s also an invitation—a doorway, if you will. A chance for reflection, recalibration, and maybe even a professional pivot.

In today’s episode, we’ll explore what it means to take care of ourselves as therapists so we can keep caring for others. We’ll talk about practical strategies for emotional resilience and self-care, sure. But we’ll also dive deeper—into the tension between our personal values and professional roles, and how navigating this can actually help us grow, both personally and professionally.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

1:07 – The Therapist's Struggle: How do we stay professionally present when we’re personally stretched thin?

5:28 – Self-Care Strategies for Therapists: Small, powerful practices to protect your emotional bandwidth.

9:53 – Boundaries and Tough Decisions: Why safeguarding your energy isn’t selfish—it’s essential.

12:41 – Navigating Differences: How to hold space for clients with vastly different views, and what this work can teach us.

16:05 – Aligning Work with Your Values: When is it time to consider a professional pivot?

21:47 – Growth Through Challenge: Using this moment as a catalyst for deeper empathy and professional evolution.

You’re doing hard, meaningful work, and it’s okay—necessary, even—to acknowledge your limits. Let’s talk about how we can support ourselves, and each other, to stay strong and keep growing.

I hope this episode offers you some comfort, clarity, and the tools to keep thriving as a therapist. You can check out the full article on my website along with other resources for supporting therapists.

If you found this helpful, please share it with your colleagues and subscribe for more supportive content like this. 💪

P.S. Let’s stay connected! Join our professional community on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/

 

Ever wonder how to truly help your clients build more secure attachment styles?

This episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists is for you! I’m sitting down with the brilliant Dr. Daniel Siegel—one of the world’s leading experts in attachment science and childhood development. Together, we’re unpacking the latest research and ideas you can take straight into your practice.

Dr. Siegel’s approach goes beyond the basics of attachment theory, blending personality, temperament, and attachment into a powerful framework that creates truly personalized client experiences. This episode is full of actionable insights that’ll not only expand your therapeutic toolkit but also inspire new ways of thinking about the work you do.

✨ Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover:

00:00 — Why Attachment Styles Matter More Than Ever
00:24 — Meet Dr. Siegel: The Mind Behind the Research
03:15 — Moving Beyond Theory: Practical Tools for Attachment and Development
04:30 — Yes, We’re Talking Enneagram in Therapy!
06:43 — Integrating Enneagram & Neurobiology—It’s a Thing
09:39 — Research-Backed Applications You Can Use Today
11:08 — How Personality & Temperament Shape Attachment Styles
15:54 — Real-World Strategies to Transform Your Practice

If you’re ready to unlock new therapeutic strategies and create real breakthroughs with your clients, this is an episode you can’t miss. Hit subscribe now so you never miss a beat—and share this episode with other therapists who’d love these insights too.

And let’s stay connected on LinkedIn! Join me here to keep the conversation going and be part of an amazing network of therapists.

🛑 Therapists, can we have a moment? Be honest — are you actually supporting yourself the way you guide your clients to? Or are you skating by with “I should know this already” vibes? If you’ve ever felt like your own personal growth is falling to the bottom of the priority list (even while telling clients to “put themselves first” 🤦‍♀️), this one’s for you.

In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving deep into why therapists need their own therapy, personal growth, and coaching. Because let's face it: helping others thrive takes a lot out of you. Without the right support system? Hello, burnout. 💥

Chapters:
🌀 The "Why" Behind Therapist Burnout – Discover the real reasons therapists hit a wall (spoiler: it’s not just about bubble baths).

🧠 Triggers, Vicarious Trauma, and Emotional Overload – Learn how ignoring your own emotions can sneakily affect your client work.

📉 Signs You're Headed for Burnout – Are you feeling disengaged, annoyed, or emotionally distant? Let’s unpack what that means for you.

🎒 What "Doing the Work" Looks Like – Therapy, coaching, retreats, mentorship – we explore what might actually help you feel balanced.

🤝 Therapists Coaching Therapists? Yes, Please. – Why the coaching model might just be the missing piece in your professional and personal growth.

✨ Whether you're already doing the work or need a nudge to get started, this episode offers insights, humor, and some tough-love reminders that it’s okay to not have it all together.

Stay connected with me on LinkedIn — let’s build a community that lifts each other up. 🌱 Click here to connect.

🎧 Don’t miss this deep-dive into self-care, personal growth, and walking the walk as a helping professional. Hit play now – because your well-being is just as important as your clients’.

xo, 

Dr. Lisa