Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Leading 4 Life "Stories"
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| E123 - Themes: The Importance of Cultural Awareness | 07 Dec 2025 | 00:21:18 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/TTlGEKnM2kQ Having just returned from a week long work trip to Saudi Arabia, it felt entirely appropriate to produce a short thematic episode on the importance of cultural understanding to leaders. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E122 - Guests: Gary Deakin, Former Army Officer & Former MD of GardaWorld UK | 30 Nov 2025 | 01:30:15 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/ipkhmzY_oFM Gary Deakin had a highly successful career in the British Army, rising to the rank of Major General, before embarking on what has now become a diverse and equally successful portfolio career outside the military. Along the way, Gary has had a series of ups and downs, including a very challenging time whilst he was the MD of GardaWorld UK. He talks candidly about all these issues and has a lot of terrific thoughts about leadership that he shares in this episode. I really hope you enjoy what was a fascinating and fun conversation; it you do, please do all the usual things to highlight the episode more broadly and also send me some feedback. I really appreciate it when I receive feedback from listeners as it helps a lot to build and develop the podcast so please do let me know what you think. You can find Gary here: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gary-deakin/ Website: https://kingfisherconsulting.uk Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E113 - Guests: Peter Sorgenfrei, Inspirational Leadership Coach and Serial Entrepreneur | 28 Sep 2025 | 02:02:52 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/_7UEm53Q68Y I first met Peter Sorgenfrei through LinkedIn and rapidly realised that we had a lot in common and would have a great conversation. So it proved to be, and this episode is packed with leadership thoughts and advice that I think you will find extremely interesting and hopefully very useful. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E23 - Personal Stories: Life with the Luftwaffe | 07 Jan 2024 | 00:34:33 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message With this first episode of Season 2 of the podcast, I return to the personal stories and give an account of my time on an exchange posting flying the RF4E Phantom with the German Air Force, the Luftwaffe. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E22 - Review of 2023 | 31 Dec 2023 | 00:23:36 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message Given that I strongly suspect you will have better things to do than listen to me on New Year's Eve when this podcast becomes available, I have made it a reasonably short episode and focused on providing a review of 2023 and this first season of Leading 4 Life "Stories". Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E21 - Themes: Gratitude & Keeping In Touch | 24 Dec 2023 | 00:13:17 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message As this episode goes live on Christmas Eve 2023, I thought I would keep it very short and to the point. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E20 - Guests: General Sir Richard Barrons, Former Commander of UK Joint Forces Command | 17 Dec 2023 | 01:30:52 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This week's guest is General Sir Richard Barrons, the former Commander of Joint Forces Command (one of the 6 UK Chiefs of Staff) and now the Co-Chairman of Universal Defence & Security Solutions, alongside a portfolio of other private sector roles.
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| E19 - Themes: Work / Life Balance | 10 Dec 2023 | 00:31:57 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This might just be the most important episode of this podcast I have released to date because it tackles the vitally important topic of "work / life balance". In my experience this is something that is very regularly talked about, especially by very busy people but also much too often either ignored or given too little priority, often by those same very busy people. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E18 - Personal Stories: Reconnaissance | 03 Dec 2023 | 00:29:47 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message At the conclusion of a short first operational flying tour at RAF Brüggen in Germany, this episode discusses my move to RAF Laarbruch, another Germany base, and my transition to the reconnaissance role. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E17 - Guests: Komeil Alibai, Founder & CEO of MYKA Holdings | 26 Nov 2023 | 01:28:21 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest this week is Komeil Alibai, founder and CEO of MYKA Holdings, a private equity and venture capital business focusing on clients from a variety of industries.
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| E16 - Guests: Howard Wheeldon, Commentator, Broadcaster and Analyst | 19 Nov 2023 | 01:30:34 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest this week is Howard Wheeldon, who is best known as a political / defence commentator and analyst in recent years, but who had a fascinating and long career prior to moving into that realm. It was a really interesting and wide ranging discussion, which highlights Howards extremely impressive breadth and depth of business experience; I very much hope you enjoy it.
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| E15 - Guests: Baroness Dido Harding, Former Executive Chair of NHS Test & Trace, & Chief Executive of Talk Talk Telecom Group | 12 Nov 2023 | 01:41:02 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest this week is Baroness Dido Harding, who is probably best known for her role as the Executive Chair of NHS Test & Trace during the Covid-19 pandemic, and for her role as the CEO of Talk Talk when they went through a significant cyber attack.
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| E14 - Themes: Attention to Detail | 05 Nov 2023 | 00:29:39 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message I am conscious that in last week's episode I covered a lot of ground and didn't always provide a lot of detail. As such, in this episode I blend some personal flying stories with the theme of "Attention to Detail".
There are of course plenty of occasions when a leader still has to be all over the detail and I highlight those as well. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E112 - Personal Stories: Assistant Chief of Defence Staff (Operations) - Part 2 - The London 2012 Olympic Games | 21 Sep 2025 | 00:34:59 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/liwjPI9bdF8 One of my most enduring and vivid memories of my time in uniform was our participation in the London 2012 Olympic and Paralympic Games. The military were only ever expected to be in the background of this nationally important event, but the well publicised challenges faced by G4S over their ability to provide adequate venue security, meant that as the Games approached, the military's role grew enormously. I was fortunate enough to be right in the heart of this drama as it unfolded. I was the MOD member of the Home Office run "Olympic Security Board" and I and my team, were in the forefront of the planning and eventual delivery of the response. As is widely acknowledged, the military support to the Games was a spectacular success and in this short episode I attempt to capture some of the key aspects of the planning, the delivery, and the aftermath of this incredible period. I really hope you enjoy the episode and, as ever, I would be delighted to hear what you think if you have the time to provide me some feedback. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E13 - Personal Stories: The Front Line | 29 Oct 2023 | 00:31:29 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message With this episode I continue the personal story of my flying career and discuss the completion of my training on the Jaguar Operational Conversion Unit and the move to the RAF front-line on 17(F) and then 14 Squadron at RAF Brüggen in Germany. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E12 - Guests: Lord Mark Sedwill, Former Cabinet Secretary, Head of the UK Civil Service & National Security Advisor | 22 Oct 2023 | 01:27:19 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest this week is Lord Mark Sedwill, former Cabinet Secretary, Head of the UK Civil Service and National Security Advisor.
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| E11 - Guests: Rear Admiral James Morse, President & CEO of the Rabdan Academy, United Arab Emirates | 15 Oct 2023 | 01:23:24 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest for this episode is Rear Admiral James Morse RN(Retd), the President and CEO of the Rabdan Academy in the United Arab Emirates.
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| E10 - Guests: Jenna Littler, former Senior Vice President at Burberry | 08 Oct 2023 | 01:50:46 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest for this episode is Jenna Littler, former Senior Vice President at Burberry and now an independent consultant and advisor to the fashion, beauty and luxury goods industries.
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| E9 - Guests: Philipp Nattermann, Senior Partner & CFO at McKinsey & Company | 01 Oct 2023 | 01:08:38 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest for this episode is Philipp Nattermann, a Senior Partner and CFO at McKinsey & Company.
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| E8 - Themes: Personal Resilience & Self Care | 24 Sep 2023 | 00:25:40 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message With this episode I return to thematic issues and focus on personal resilience and self care.
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| E7 - Personal Stories: Flying Training | 17 Sep 2023 | 00:32:34 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of aircraft accidents and fatalities. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E6 - Guests: Phil Crossman, Former MD of Honda UK | 10 Sep 2023 | 01:05:44 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest for this episode is Phil Crossman, a friend of mine for nearly 20 years and the former Managing Director of Honda UK.
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| E5 - Guests: Susie Ballentyne - Co-Founder of Leading 4 Life | 03 Sep 2023 | 01:16:50 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode I am delighted to be able to introduce and interview Susie Ballentyne, my co-founder and partner within Leading 4 Life.
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| E4 - Guests: General David Petraeus US Army (Retd) | 27 Aug 2023 | 01:21:58 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode I was very privileged to be able to host General David Petraeus US Army (Retired) as my very first guest on the podcast. A graduate of the United States Military Academy at West Point in 1974, General Petraeus served for 37 years in the US Army, rising to 4* rank and completed 6 consecutive commands as a general officer, five of which were on combat operations, including command of the Surge in Iraq, command of US Central Command, and command of all coalition forces in Afghanistan. https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidpetraeus/ https://www.kkr.com/our-firm/leadership/david-h-petraeus
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| E111 - Guests: Captain Jeff Nielsen, former USAF pilot, former Delta Airlines Captain, and Host of The Airline Pilot Guy Show | 14 Sep 2025 | 01:54:19 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/UMB3ac2V2iE Jeff Nielsen has a fascinating aviation career history. A former United States Air Force C141 transport pilot, then an instructor pilot on the T37 trainer, Jeff subsequently had a 35 year career in Delta Airlines, rising to become one of their most senior captains. Alongside his flying career, Jeff also started podcasting more than 20 years ago, and has produced a huge number of episodes across multiple shows. He is currently the main host of The Airline Pilot Guy show, a weekly aviation podcast that covers a wide range of aviation topics and has a very broad and large audience across the globe. If you are interested in aviation, this is definitely a show to have a listen to and all the relevant links are below for easy access. In this episode we talk about lot about flying but also cover some aspects of Jeff's podcasting life as well as leadership of course. We definitely finished the discussion feeling that there was more to talk about, and so we will definitely have a Part 2 to this episode at some point in the future. It was a hugely enjoyable conversation and I really hope that you get a sense of that as you watch or listen to the episode. The best way to connect with Jeff is via The Airline Pilot Guy Show and you can find all the links to that below: Web: https://airlinepilotguy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/airlinepilotguy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/airlinepilotguy/ X: https://x.com/airlinepilotguy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@airlinepilotguy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/airlinepilotguy Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E3 - Themes: The Loneliness of Command | 20 Aug 2023 | 00:25:51 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message Trigger Warning: This episode contains emotional details about premature birth, neonatal death and serious illness. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E2 - Themes: Credibility, Self-Awareness, & Imposter Syndrome | 13 Aug 2023 | 00:27:39 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message In this, my second episode, I initially outline in more detail the 3 types of podcast episodes I will be creating. You will be able to see the specific type in the title; either Personal Stories, Themes or Guests and, each week, more detail will be provided here to give you an outline before you listen to the episode itself. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E1 - Personal Stories: Beginning | 06 Aug 2023 | 00:29:08 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message In this first episode of Leading 4 Life "Stories", I talk briefly about what I hope you will get from my podcast as future episodes roll out on a weekly basis, but the majority of this episode is very personal. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| Pre-Launch Trailer | 01 Aug 2023 | 00:01:25 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message A short trailer about Leading 4 Life "Stories", which is launching very soon. Hope you enjoy it! Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E110 - Themes: Authenticity & Leadership Traits | 07 Sep 2025 | 00:14:12 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/dSrc0y8GXZQ I've been intending to talk about leadership traits and authentic leadership in particular for some while now, but my work at Deloitte University this week provided a perfect catalyst for this episode. Authenticity in the workplace was a significant topic of discussion and I consequently thought it would be a perfect subject to cover in this week's thematic episode of the show. The episode is short but I hope you find it both interesting and valuable. Given that I have only recently started video podcasting, I would be particularly interested in your feedback on the visual format if you have used it. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E109 - Guests: Mark Cheshire, Former CEO of Lloyds UK Private Bank | 31 Aug 2025 | 00:57:59 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/NLGG5OAMCNo Mark Cheshire is a fantastic man with an amazing career track record behind him. Starting with a 30 year career in Lloyds Banking Group that saw him rise to be the CEO of the Lloyds UK Private Bank, in more recent times he has built a highly successful portfolio career with a particular emphasis on board advisory work and executive coaching. He has a lot of great tips and advice for leaders in senior roles and I'm sure you'll find this episode both interesting and enjoyable in equal measure. You can find Mark on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-cheshire-12252b3b/ Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E108 - Guests: Hetti Barkworth-Nanton, CEO of Ploughshare, Chair of Refuge UK, Co-Founder & Patron of The Joanna Simpson Foundation | 24 Aug 2025 | 01:37:02 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/Nx1yfjz0POU Hetti Barkworth-Nanton is a remarkable individual. She is the CEO of Ploughshare, Chair of Refuge UK, Co-Founder and Patron of The Joanna Simpson Foundation, but those are just the formal positions she holds. Listening to her story, it is clear that, in the margins of her mainstream roles, Hetti is supporting a range of other individuals as they deal with a variety of traumatic personal situations. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E107 - Guests: Air Marshal Greg Bagwell CB CBE & Air Vice-Marshal Sean Bell, Former RAF Fast-Jet Pilots & Hosts of The High Ground Podcast | 17 Aug 2025 | 01:36:57 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/7vYdDL4e1k0 Greg Bagwell and Sean Bell have been colleagues and friends of mine for many years now. Both are former fast-jet pilots but we all went down different aircraft paths at the end of flying training. Whilst I went to the Jaguar, Greg went to the Tornado, and Sean went to the Harrier, via an instructional tour on the Jet Provost as a "creamed off" Qualified Flying Instructor. We all climbed the career ladder to close to the top of the Royal Air Force, with Sean and I making 2* rank, whilst Greg went further and retired as a 3* Air Marshal. Unsurprisingly, given our similar backgrounds and long standing relationship, this episode is full of banter and flying stories, but there is also a plethora of great leadership advice and plenty of commentary on contemporary events from two guys who are very close to what is happening in the here and now. Both have portfolio careers, but Greg is the President of the Air & Space Power Association (https://airspacepower.com/), and Sean is a regular defence commentator on Sky News. They also come together as hosts of The High Ground Podcast, which focuses specifically on air & space power issues of the moment. I highly recommend their podcast if you are looking for some expert commentary on this crucial component of defence capability. You can find it either via a link on the Air Space Power Association website (main link above) or at the following: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1JQusc6SVDIpjmkUH6gPy6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AirSpacePowerAssociation You can also find Greg and Sean individually here: Greg: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gjbagwell/ Sean: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-bell-1998633a/ Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E106 - Personal Stories: Assistant Chief of Defence Staff (Operations) - Part 1 | 10 Aug 2025 | 00:24:04 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/BsCKsGCDXOg At the conclusion of my tour at the Chief of Defence Staff's Liaison Officer in The Pentagon, I was fortunate enough to be promoted once again, this time to be an Air Vice-Marshal, which was to be my final rank in the Royal Air Force. I returned to the UK Ministry of Defence, into the role of Assistant Chief of Defence Staff (Operations), a job that I never dreamed I would get so this was a big deal! The tour was fascinating on all sorts of levels and there is much to much to restrict it to a single episode of the show. Consequently, as with some of my other big roles, there will be several parts to this personal story, and I begin by setting the scene rather than getting into too many specifics. I really hope you enjoy the episode; please let me have your feedback as I always love to hear what you think. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E105 - Guests: Tom Tugendhat MP, Former UK Minister of State for Security | 03 Aug 2025 | 01:25:38 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/FnN6o5eSScI Having known him for almost 20 years, I was delighted that Tom Tugendhat agreed to join me as a guest on Leading 4 Life "Stories". Tom is the Conservative Member of Parliament for Tonbridge, a constituency in the South East of the UK. Although he is now a back bench MP on the opposition benches, for a period in the previous government, Tom was the Minister of State for Security, and was also the Chairman of the important Foreign Affairs Committee. He has also run twice, so far unsuccessfully, to be the leader of the Conservative & Unionist Party. Prior to his parliamentary life, Tom was initially a journalist and then an Army officer, and he talks about his journey extensively during the episode. With such an interesting and varied career, it is entirely unsurprising that Tom has a wealth of leadership experience and tips to share. It is relatively unusual to get sitting MPs to do long form interviews such as this, and I am extremely grateful to Tom for giving such a personal and candid account of his life and experience. As well as his personal story, we explore a lot of current issues in the wider geopolitical and UK political arena and, whatever your personal political preferences, I think you will find Tom's perspectives well considered and very interesting. This was an interview I have been hoping to secure for some time and it was absolutely all that I could have wished for. I really hope you enjoy listening to it as much as I enjoyed making it. If you do, please share it widely across your own networks. Should you wish to know more about him, you can find Tom here: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tom-tugendhat-138a531/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomtugendhat/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tomtugendhat Substack: https://tomtugendhat.substack.com/ Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E104 - Guests: Tabi Haller-Jorden, President & CEO of The Paradigm Forum GmbH | 27 Jul 2025 | 01:22:30 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/U7exNBCMO5M I have worked with Tabi Haller-Jorden a number of times whilst facilitating at Deloitte University, and I realised a while ago that she would be an outstanding guest to have on Leading 4 Life "Stories". Tabi has an amazing career background with a wide range of senior and very entrepreneurial roles. Her leadership knowledge and expertise is fantastic, and she has a ton of great tips for leaders at all levels that I'm sure you will find valuable. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E121 - Guests: Martin Shaw, Stage & Screen Actor | 23 Nov 2025 | 02:17:53 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/BLCPo2h6nCU It was a great privilege to host Martin Shaw for this week's episode of Leading 4 Life "Stories". Martin has had an incredible 60 year career in acting and, over that time, has featured in numerous, stage productions, television series, documentary programmes, and films. He is possibly best known for his television roles as Inspector George Gently and Judge John Deed but the list of credits goes way beyond those two and he really is something of a national treasure here in the UK. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E103 - Themes: Altruism, Politeness, & Good Behaviour | 20 Jul 2025 | 00:28:55 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/X6pWwKLn24s I won't attempt to disguise that this is something of a stream of consciousness and a personal rant, but I do think that poor behaviour, lack of common courtesy and selfishness is becoming an increasing problem in our society. As leaders, I don't think this is something we should just tolerate and / or ignore; we have a responsibility to do our best to develop our people to be the best they can be and to positively contribute to the work environment and to society in general. In this episode I do my best to set out some of my own thoughts and I provide a number of personal examples of where I have seen poor behaviour and my own approach to dealing with it. I would be really interested to hear whether you think I have simply "gone off on one" or whether you share my views; please let me know. There is no such thing as bad feedback in my view! Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E102 - Guests: Jonathan Bowman Perks - "Big Themes for Leaders" | 13 Jul 2025 | 01:25:16 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/jKA5vGqq6tE Jonathan Bowman-Perks was my guest way back on Episode 24 of Leading 4 Life "Stories" but, given we work in very similar fields and interview a lot of great leaders, we both felt that it would be great to do another episode where we discuss a range of big themes that are affecting leaders in all walks of life at the moment. Over the course of this conversation, we discuss:
It was a great discussion and, whilst we certainly don't profess to have all the answers, we hope that we stimulate your thinking and at least initiate a debate within your own leadership circle. Do let us know what you think as feedback is most definitely "the breakfast of champions"! You can find Jonathan here: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathanperks/ Website: https://jonathanperks.com/ Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E101 - Personal Stories: The Pentagon! | 06 Jul 2025 | 00:36:25 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message In the run up to January 2011, I had fought hard to avoid going to the USA as the Chief of Defence Staff's Liaison Officer to the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs based in The Pentagon in Washington DC. I hadn't fought because I didn't fancy the job; the role was a high profile one and clearly looked as though it would be rewarding and fun. The issue was that it was only just over 2 years since I had returned from Afghanistan, my wife and I had faced down a lot of personal dramas over that period and, to cap it all, we were right in the middle of building our new house in Sussex. Nonetheless, having made my points, I had accepted my lot and was now focused on doing the best job I could whilst I was in Washington. I had absolutely no idea at that point that it would turn out to be one of the most rewarding postings of my entire career, with masses of operational activity to contend with, as well as the absolute privilege of working with some of the very best in the US military at that point in time. The personal bill was high though; I spent a lot of time flying to and from the UK for 36 hour visits to help my wife with the house build and I wouldn't wish that on anyone but, on the positive side, the house got built and we still love it to this day! I very much hope you will pick up my enthusiasm and admiration for the US military that I worked with over this 9 month period - it was a truly amazing role and I absolutely loved it. Do please let me know what you think! Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E100 - Guests: Paul Beaver, Author, Historian and Broadcaster | 29 Jun 2025 | 01:16:55 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message I am delighted that for my 100th episode of Leading 4 Life "Stories" I am joined by my old friend Paul Beaver. Paul is a prolific author (his 80th book is about to be published!), an extremely knowledgeable historian and a seasoned broadcaster. He has a passion for the military, and has been on the ground in some serious conflict zones both as an Army reservist and as a journalist so, unsurprisingly, we chat a good deal about geopolitics and the current challenges the world faces. We also cover a great many leadership points, and Paul's incredibly multi-faceted career makes him ideal to provide some great thoughts on all aspects of leadership. It was a real joy to talk to Paul at length and I really hope you enjoy this milestone episode - please do let me know what you think! You can find Paul on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulbeaver/
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| E99 - Themes: Geopolitics & Resilience! | 22 Jun 2025 | 00:27:48 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message Way back in September 2023 (Episode 8), I published a thematic episode on personal resilience and self-care. The world feels very different since that episode was published and so I thought it was time that I put out some more thoughts on resilience, but this time I thought it more appropriate to focus on national and societal resilience, especially given the increasingly challenging geopolitical situation the world is currently facing. I always try to stay clear of political positions in my podcasts and this is no exception; however, I passionately believe that a much more robust debate on national security and national resilience is long overdue. Having cut my early career teeth in the last years of the Cold War, I am only too aware of the impact of the resultant "peace dividend" that affected many countries, particularly across Western Europe following the collapse of the Soviet Union. In this episode I also highlight another podcast that has recently been published by Sky News. Entitled "The War Game", it is outstanding and I highly recommend that you listen to it. Not only does it have startling relevance to recent events across the globe, it also features role play in the "game" by a wide range of senior UK political, civilian and military figures who have themselves had very prominent roles within the UK Government or wider national security structure. It is not comfortable to listen to, but it is certainly important to listen to! Our political leaders continue to "talk the talk" about national security but, understandably, they are also driven by the perceived priorities of their electorates and those same electorates (especially in the UK) are certainly not yet feeling any form of existential threat to their own borders and shores. I believe we need to change that narrative and that will require collective work from across the population. If you believe in the same priorities, I hope you will add your own voice to this critical issue. I hope you enjoy the episode; please do let me know what you think. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E98 - Personal Stories: Back to the MOD! | 15 Jun 2025 | 00:26:23 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message With my epic tour in command of Kandahar Airfield behind me, my next posting took me back to the Ministry of Defence in London to be the Head of Targeting and Information Operations. In many respects this was an amazing job and a great tour, albeit that much of it cannot be discussed on this podcast because the majority of the actual work was highly classified. However, it wasn't the work environment that defined this chapter of my life. It was the personal challenges that dominated and the handling of which I still reflect on to this day! In this episode I try to shed some light on those challenges and offer some advice and thoughts about how you might respond in similar circumstances. This is definitely one occasion when that advice is mostly focused on "don't do what I did" and I very much hope you find it useful. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E97 - Guests: Francis Tutor, Long Standing Defence Correspondent, and Editor of Defence Analysis | 08 Jun 2025 | 01:17:52 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message We live in exceptionally turbulent and risky geopolitical times and, in a slight break from my normal guest episodes, this week I am delighted to feature Francis Tusa. Francis is a long standing friend and we have also crossed paths professionally many times during my time in uniform. Francis has spent all his career as a defence analyst and is a very frequent contributor to both broadcast and print media on defence issues. He is also the founder and ongoing editor of Defence Analysis, a very widely read defence publication that has been running for almost 27 years. Given his CV, there are few better with whom to discuss the defence aspects of the current geopolitical position and, although we do a light touch on Francis' leadership and personal experiences, the majority of this episode is dedicated to a broader conversation about exactly that. The combination of my own near 35 year military career and Francis' similar time in defence analysis certainly gave us plenty to talk about, and I hope you find the discussion interesting, although I must warn you that it might not make you more relaxed about the risks we currently face both globally and in the UK! Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E96 - Personal Stories: 10 Years as a Civilian!! | 01 Jun 2025 | 00:26:46 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message I recorded this on 31 May 2025, a day which also marks the 10th anniversary of my final day in the Royal Air Force. Leaving after nearly 35 years was a huge moment in my life and so I took the opportunity to reflect back, not only on my departure from the RAF but also on some other major inflection points in my life. All too often I have not handled these significant life moments as well as I would like to have done, and so the prime focus of this episode is to pass on my own experience, together with some thoughts about how you might prepare better than I did, and hence avoid mismanaging your own major inflection points. I really hope you enjoy the thoughts - please do let me know what you think. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E95 - Themes: Transition! | 25 May 2025 | 00:33:44 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message Career transition is something that happens to almost everyone, sometimes multiple times through their working life. In my case, I faced a major transition out of the RAF after almost 35 years, and into Deloitte where I encountered a world full of brand new and very demanding challenges. In this episode I offer a range of tips and advice drawn heavily from my own experience. I have had many conversations with people over the past 10 years as they make their own career transitions, and I am in absolutely no doubt that preparing yourself well is key to making the change work quickly and effectively, so that you really do set yourself up for success in the best possible way. I hope there is something in here for you, regardless of what type of organisation or industry you are in, and if this whets your appetite for more information and help, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me directly. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E94 - Personal Stories: Afghanistan - Part 6 - Key Takeaways | 18 May 2025 | 00:35:15 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message In this final part of my Afghanistan stories, I highlight a range of the key leadership takeaways that really resonated with me at the conclusion of this hugely challenging tour. Although I was only there for 9 months, I packed in so much and had so many diverse experiences, it felt considerably longer in the context of my overall RAF career. The scale and scope of the role was like no other leadership challenge that I faced before or since that time. It was a tour of massive highs but also huge lows and I have tried to bring those to life over the previous parts in this series. Although the experience was an obviously military one, and some of the individual features and events are unlikely (hopefully!!) to ever be replicated in the civilian world, many of the leadership lessons translate directly, and are just as relevant to anyone in any senior leadership position. I really hope you enjoy the episode and please don't hesitate to give me feedback as to what you think! Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E120 - Personal Stories: Assistant Chief of Defence Staff (Operations) - Part 3 - Memories Are Made Of This! | 16 Nov 2025 | 00:28:59 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message This episode is also available as a video podcast on my YouTube Channel here: https://youtu.be/qfN8fkZujZs My tour as Assistant Chief of Defence Staff (Operations) was always incredibly busy but was also punctuated by some amazingly memorable events. The London 2012 Olympic & Paralympic Games, and working in the Government Emergency Rooms (COBRA) stand out as being particularly significant and I will cover them both separately. In this episode I focus on two specific things: my first experience of travelling to South America (not just once but twice), and two amazing opportunities to experience the breadth of the Royal Navy's Submarine Service's capability. Anyone can travel to South America if they have the means and the desire to make the trip, but experiencing what it is like to be underwater in a submarine is something that very few have the opportunity to do! I hope that I capture a little bit of the magic of both experiences here and that my story gives you some insights that you might not previously have had. As ever, please let me have your feedback and don't forget to follow, subscribe and share widely. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E93 - Guests: Amy Lane, Artistic Director of Copenhagen Opera Festival and a Freelance Opera & Musical Theatre Director | 11 May 2025 | 01:39:22 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message My guest this week is Amy Lane, the Artistic Director of Copenhagen Opera Festival and a Freelance Opera & Musical Theatre Director. Amy and I met by pure chance whilst sat next to each other on a flight from Copenhagen to London. We had a fantastic conversation and I knew immediately that she would be a perfect guest for the podcast. We talk extensively about opera and the great work that Amy is doing to make the art form more accessible to the general public, but of course we also cover her own leadership journey and the many things she has learned along the way. It was a really great discussion and I very much hope you enjoy it too! You can find Amy here: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-lane-7a023b23/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyoperagirl/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amy.lane.562 Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||
| E92 - Personal Stories: Afghanistan - Part 5 - The Longest Day! | 04 May 2025 | 00:28:12 | |
I'd love to hear from you; feel free to send me a Text Message Without a shadow of a doubt, losing people that work for you, and who die in the pursuit of the work you preside over, is the toughest thing for any leader to deal with. Whilst many commanders on operations have had a great many more casualties to deal with than me, the memory of the loss of the two airmen from 3 Squadron, Royal Air Force Regiment during my time in Afghanistan will stay with me for ever. This is an episode that I had to cover because it is such a key memory for me but I won't try to suggest that it is an easy listen or an upbeat story. 13 April 2008 was the longest and the hardest day in my RAF career and is one that I will certainly never forget. In this episode I do my best to tell the story of how we dealt with the loss of SAC Graham Livingstone and SAC Gary Thompson both in the immediate aftermath and over the ensuing days. Thank you for listening! If you value the content I produce, please consider supporting the show financially by becoming a member at https://www.patreon.com/leading4life/ or clicking the "Support the Show" link above. | |||