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| The Next Great Tech Leader Won’t Be a Technologist | Patrick Adesso | 22 sept. 2026 | 00:49:10 | |
In this episode of the Leadership Language Podcast, I’m joined by CIO and technology leader Patrick Adesso for a conversation about what AI is changing — not just in software development, but in technology leadership itself. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ Patrick believes the next great technology leader may not be the strongest traditional technologist. They may be the person who can communicate, create, exercise judgment, understand the business, and orchestrate people and AI toward a clear outcome. We talk about Patrick’s journey from aviation and software development to technology leadership, why he still writes and ships software himself, and why staying close to the work has helped him build trust with his teams and connect technology to real business outcomes. Patrick also shares how AI changed the conversation inside his organization. Instead of trying to convince skeptical executives with presentations, he began showing them working prototypes and measurable business results — including a use case that produced significant savings. We also get into one of the biggest shifts facing developers and technology leaders today: AI can dramatically accelerate coding, but that makes architecture, security, design, communication, creativity, and judgment even more important. In this conversation, we cover:
If you are a CIO, CTO, VP, director, technology leader, software leader, or technical professional thinking about what AI means for your career and leadership, this conversation will give you a very different way to think about what comes next. | |||
| IT Keeps Promoting Unprepared Leaders | Tony Qualls | 08 sept. 2026 | 00:45:08 | |
In this episode of the Leadership Language Podcast, I’m joined by Tony Qualls, Regional CIO for AdventHealth’s Great Lakes region, for a conversation about what it really takes to grow from a strong technical contributor into a trusted technology executive. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ Tony shares why IT often promotes highly capable engineers, technicians, and technical experts into leadership roles without giving them the same development, coaching, and business leadership preparation that other executives receive. We talk about the shift from being seen as an IT leader to becoming a true business leader — someone who can build relationships, influence across the organization, communicate value, and develop the next generation of leaders. Tony also shares lessons from his own leadership journey, including stepping into management in 1999, learning how to lead former peers, building trust through servant leadership, and discovering the importance of business language, budgeting, and relationship-building. We also explore why human leadership skills matter even more in the AI era. As AI takes on more technical and operational work, technology leaders will need stronger communication, curiosity, emotional intelligence, influence, and executive presence. In this conversation, we cover:
If you are a technology leader, IT director, VP, CIO, CTO, or technical expert preparing for the next level, this conversation will help you rethink leadership, influence, and the human skills that make executives successful. Timestamps: 00:00 — Vulnerability and learning as a leader | |||
| Executive Presence Isn’t a Personality Trait | 21 juil. 2026 | 00:07:40 | |
Every time you hear the words “you need more executive presence,” it can feel like someone is saying there’s something wrong with you. In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the most vague and frustrating pieces of leadership feedback: executive presence. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ Most people treat executive presence like a personality trait — something you either have or you don’t. But that’s not true. Executive presence is not charisma. It is not volume. It is not pretending to be someone else. Executive presence is a set of observable behaviors you can practice and build. I’ll share the story of a CIO candidate who had a strong track record, respected leadership, and consistent results — but was told by the board that he did not have the presence for the role yet. Then I’ll show you the four behaviors we worked on that changed how he was perceived in executive rooms. In this episode, I’ll cover:
If you’re a technology leader, CIO candidate, senior director, VP, or executive-track leader who has been told you need more executive presence, this episode gives you a concrete way to work on it. You don’t need to become a different person. You need to build the behaviors that help people trust you in bigger rooms. Subscribe for more leadership strategy, executive presence, and career growth advice for technology leaders. Timestamps 00:00 — Executive presence is not a personality trait | |||
| You’re Pulling the Wrong Career Lever | 21 juil. 2026 | 00:06:44 | |
Every time you feel stuck, you work harder. And that instinct may be the exact thing holding you back. In this episode, I’m talking about one of the most common traps I see with technology leaders: responding to being overlooked by doubling down on execution. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ You stay later. You take on another project. You go deeper into the technical details. You become the person leadership calls when something breaks. It feels responsible. It feels like proof. But more output does not always answer the doubt that keeps you stuck. In many cases, it reinforces the same story leadership already has about you: strong operator, keep them where they are. The next level does not require less effort. It requires different effort. I’ll show you why hard work can become a hiding place, why execution feels safe, and how to redirect your energy toward the things that actually change promotion outcomes: visibility, business language, relationships, and sponsorship. In this episode, I’ll cover:
If you’re a technology leader who keeps delivering, grinding, and proving yourself but still feels overlooked, this episode will help you see the real shift. You’re not stuck because you’re not working hard enough. You’re stuck because work is the only lever you’ve been pulling. Subscribe for more leadership strategy, executive presence, and career growth advice for technology leaders. Timestamps 00:00 — Working harder may be holding you back | |||
| Office Politics Is Killing Your Career | 21 juil. 2026 | 00:07:11 | |
Many leaders look at office politics and think, “I don’t want to become that person.” So they stay out of it — and it quietly kills their career. In this episode, I’m reframing what office politics actually means for technology leaders. Politics does not have to mean lying, posturing, taking credit, or manipulating people. That is toxic politics — and you should stay far away from it. But healthy politics is different. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ Healthy politics is relationships and trust applied at scale. It is understanding what people care about, making your work visible, building trust before you need something, finding sponsors, and giving credit loudly and often. I’ll share the story of a director who had strong results, real integrity, and one of the most reliable teams in the company — but kept watching people he considered more political and less capable move ahead of him. The breakthrough came when he realized he did not need to become someone else. He needed to become visible on his own terms. In this episode, I’ll show you:
If you’re a technology leader who delivers results but feels uncomfortable with politics, this episode will help you stop sitting on the sidelines and start building influence the right way. You don’t have to become someone you’re not to be seen. But you do have to be seen. Subscribe for more leadership strategy, executive presence, and career growth advice for technology leaders. Timestamps 00:00 — “You’re valuable” may be the reason you’re stuck | |||
| Your Boss Says You’re Valuable. That’s the Trap | 20 juil. 2026 | 00:04:28 | |
Your boss keeps telling you how valuable you are. That may not be a compliment — it may be the reason you’re stuck. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ In this episode, I’m talking about one of the most common traps I see with technology leaders: becoming so indispensable in your current role that the organization cannot imagine moving you. You become the person who knows the systems, solves the hardest problems, handles the fires, and keeps the business running. Leadership praises you for it. They give you more scope, more responsibility, and more critical work. But when the next role opens, they say: “Not yet. We need you where you are.” That is the indispensable trap. I’ll explain why being irreplaceable can become a cage, why executives don’t promote the person holding up the building, and why the real path to the next level is proving the building can stand without you. In this episode, I’ll show you:
If you’re a technology leader who feels trusted, relied on, and still stuck, this episode will help you understand the shift you need to make. You don’t get promoted for being needed where you are. You get promoted for proving you’re ready to be needed somewhere bigger. Subscribe for more leadership strategy, executive presence, and career growth advice for technology leaders. Timestamps 00:00 — “You’re valuable” may be the reason you’re stuck | |||
| Executives Don’t Fund Technology | 20 juil. 2026 | 00:05:15 | |
You asked for budget to fix real technical debt and got a no. Then another department asked for the same money with softer numbers and got a yes. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ In this episode, I’m explaining why that happens — and why it is not random. After years as a CIO and now coaching CIOs, VPs, and technology leaders, I’ve seen this pattern again and again: strong technical cases lose to weaker business cases because they are framed in the wrong language. Executives do not fund technology. They fund revenue protection, risk reduction, and efficiency gains. If you walk into a budget meeting talking about architecture, uptime, system stability, or technical debt, you may be telling the truth — but you are not speaking the language of the people who sign the checks. I’ll show you how to reframe a technical request so it lands with the CFO, CEO, and board. In this episode, I’ll cover:
If you’re a technology leader trying to get budget approved, stop pitching technical debt. Start showing what the investment protects, prevents, or produces. That is the language that moves money. Subscribe for more leadership strategy, executive presence, and career growth advice for technology leaders. | |||
| What “Be More Strategic” Actually Means | 20 juil. 2026 | 00:10:26 | |
If you’ve ever been told to “be more strategic” and walked away wondering what that actually means, this episode is for you. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ In this episode, I’ll show you:
If you’re a technology leader, senior director, VP, or technical executive who wants to be seen as more strategic, this episode gives you a concrete way to start. Stop telling executives what you did. Start telling them what it was worth. Timestamps 00:00 — The vague feedback: “Be more strategic” | |||
| Your Promotion Is Being Decided Without You | 27 juin 2026 | 00:09:44 | |
Your next promotion may already be getting decided in a meeting you were not invited to. Most IT leaders who get passed over are not short on effort. They deliver, they lead, they put in the work. The harder truth: the skills that made you the best operator are the same ones keeping you out of the executive seat. The business sees a technologist, not a leader. And no one ever explains how to change that. That is the work I do. I help IT Directors and VPs make the jump to the executive level. It starts with a short private diagnostic. It shows you which of the things holding you back is costing you the most, and where you stand against the leaders who already made the jump. For the right fit, it opens into the Executive Leap Session:
45 minutes with a former CIO, normally something leaders pay for. Take the diagnostic and find out where you stand. Take the diagnostic → https://www.tingleleadership.com/ In this episode, I’m talking about one of the most important career shifts for technology leaders: the difference between having a mentor and having a sponsor. A mentor talks to you. That distinction matters because promotion decisions, talent reviews, succession planning, and executive conversations often happen behind closed doors. And when your name comes up, the question is not just whether you’re talented. The question is whether someone in that room knows you well enough to put their credibility behind you. I’ll share the story of Jane, a Director of Technology who had strong results, strong respect, and real readiness for a VP role — but still kept getting passed over because the right senior leaders didn’t know her beyond her immediate manager. Then I’ll show you how she built a real sponsor by becoming useful to the right executive, aligning her work with business priorities, and earning trust before the opportunity appeared. In this episode, I’ll show you:
If you’re a technology leader who keeps delivering results but still feels unseen, this episode will help you understand who needs to know you, who needs to trust you, and who needs to be willing to say your name when you are not in the room. Timestamps 00:00 — Your promotion is being decided without you | |||
| Doing Great Work Won’t Get You Promoted | 19 juin 2026 | 00:07:20 | |
Your work does not speak for itself. It never has. In this episode, I talk about one of the biggest career myths holding technology leaders back: the belief that if you keep your head down, do excellent work, and deliver results, the right people will automatically notice. That belief cost Sarah the CIO role. Sarah had the track record. She had delivered major system migrations on time, under budget, and without major incidents. But when the promotion decision was made, Marcus got the role — not because he was louder, but because he was more visible in the right rooms, with the right people, having the right conversations. I’ll explain why promotions are not just performance reviews. They are trust decisions. And trust is built before the role opens. In this episode, I’ll show you:
If you’re a technology leader with a strong track record but you’re still wondering why your results aren’t turning into bigger opportunities, this episode will show you what needs to change. Subscribe for more leadership strategy, executive presence, and career growth advice for technology leaders. 00:00 — Sarah lost the role before the decision was made | |||
| Why Technical Experts Don’t Get Promoted | 19 juin 2026 | 00:06:19 | |
Being the best technical expert in the room may be the exact reason you’re not getting promoted. In this episode, I share the story of James, a senior technology leader with deep technical knowledge, a strong track record, and years of credibility — who was still passed over for a VP role. Why? Because he had become load-bearing. He was the person everyone depended on when systems broke, deployments failed, or the architecture needed saving. But senior leaders didn’t see moving him as a promotion opportunity. They saw it as a risk. I’ll explain why technical credibility gets you here, but won’t always get you there — and why the real shift is moving from operator to orchestrator. In this episode, I’ll show you:
If you’re a technical leader who feels stuck, overlooked, or invisible despite delivering strong results, this episode will help you understand the game you’re actually playing — and how to start playing it differently. Subscribe for more leadership strategy, executive presence, and career growth advice for technology leaders. Chapters 00:00 The hard truth about technical promotions | |||