Journeys of Empowerment – Détails, épisodes et analyse

#49: Can happiness be rebuilt after everything falls apart?

In this episode, I connected with Nuthan Manohar, a happiness researcher, two-time TEDx speaker and founder of Me Met Me and The Happiness Tour.

Once a corporate strategist leading global projects across Asia Pacific, Nuthan’s world came undone through depression, anxiety and chronic insomnia. What emerged is a life devoted to helping others reconnect with joy and resilience through science-backed, sensory-rich experiences.

Deep dive talking points:

👉🏾 The anatomy of happiness: why joy is not a mood but a practice rooted in awareness and physiology;

👉🏾 Falling apart to awaken: how burnout and insomnia became Nuthan’s teachers;

👉🏾 Embodied science: the bridge between neuroscience, Ayurveda and lived experience;

👉🏾 Designing happiness: creating immersive experiences that transform well-being at work and in life;

👉🏾 Courage to be gentle: redefining strength through compassion and self-trust;

Nuggets of empowerment:

🙌🏾 True happiness is not found in intensity but in consistency;

🙌🏾 Gentleness can be the most radical form of strength;

🙌🏾 Healing begins the moment we stop performing wellness and start living it!

Nuthan’s empowering quote:

🙌🏾 “When your nervous system feels safe, happiness becomes your default state”

Books mentioned:

📚 The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor: exploring how positive psychology fuels performance and success;

📚 The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk: a foundational work on trauma and the wisdom of the body;

👉🏾 Nuthan’s story reminds us that happiness is not the absence of pain but the presence of safety. It asks each of us: what does your body need to finally feel at home!

Connect with Nuthan:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nuthanmanohar/ 

Company website: https://www.thehappinesstour.nl 

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#48: What if coming home means returning to where your story began?

In this episode, I connected with Hartini Kandari, a Dutch-Indonesian therapist, author and musician whose journey moves between loss and belonging. 

Born in Indonesia and adopted to the Netherlands at four months old, she lost her cultural identity overnight only to spend decades finding her way back. Today, as she prepares to remigrate to Bali, her story bridges healing, heritage and faith.

Deep dive talking points:

👉🏾 Adoption and identity: how language, smell and ancestry shape belonging beyond nationality;

👉🏾 The body remembers: early loss expressed through tension, skin and voice before words could catch up;

👉🏾 The therapy of music: violin as her first language of connection and resilience;

👉🏾 Writing through wounds: creating her book 𝗔𝗱𝗼𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗲 𝗜𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁 to help adoptees reflect, heal and feel seen;

👉🏾 Faith and homecoming: rediscovering God, roots and rest after decades of inner restlessness!

Nuggets of empowerment:

🙌🏾 Healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken it’s about remembering what’s whole;

🙌🏾 Sometimes our restlessness is a compass pointing us back to where our story began;

🙌🏾 Real connection starts when we stop performing and begin allowing ourselves to feel!

Hartini’s empowering quote:

🙌🏾 “With ACT therapy we don’t aim to heal what’s broken because we are not broken we learn psychological flexibility”

Books mentioned:

📚 Adoptie Impact: invites adoptees to pause, embrace both gratitude and grief, and gently reclaim their place by giving every feeling the space to exist!

📚 The Primal Wound by Nancy Verrier: a foundational work on the separation trauma experienced by adoptees.

👉🏾 Hartini’s path invites a question that lingers beyond adoption: 

What happens when we finally return physically emotionally spiritually to the place that once felt lost? Sometimes the journey home is less about geography and more about remembering who we’ve always been.

Connect with Hartini:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hartini-kandari-75105844/  

Company website: https://www.hartini.nl   

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✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 39

Angligène’s path to inner freedom & self-leadership

What if the truest version of leadership doesn’t come with a title but with the courage to be fully yourself?

I had the pleasure of speaking with Angligène Servania-Woods, founder of The Bridge and co-founder of The Lead In. Her journey of resilience, empowerment and transformation is a true testament to defying expectations and creating meaningful change. In our conversation, we explored key challenges, turning points and the moments that reshaped her path to success.

What we explored:

👉🏾 Letting go of titles: moving beyond the limits of identity defined by profession;

👉🏾 Mental emancipation: breaking free from systemic and societal expectations;

👉🏾 The power of presence: learning to hold space and connect without fixing;

👉🏾 Self-leadership: creating frameworks for deep, personal transformation;

👉🏾 Community & co-creation: building spaces that nurture authenticity and mutual growth;

Nuggets of empowerment:

🙌🏾 “Holding space for others begins by being truly present with yourself”

🙌🏾 “You’re not your profession, you’re the person beneath the title”

🙌🏾 “Sometimes freedom starts by giving yourself permission to change your story!”

Connect with Angligène:

• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angligène-servania-woods-b1383b31/ 
• Company website: http://thebridge.amsterdam 

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If no one were watching, who would you allow yourself to become?

✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 38

From pulpit to platform, Daan’s call to speak..again..

What if the story you’ve been living quietly is the one that could set others free?

I had a fascinating conversation with my friend Daan Schmidt, founder of StoryBrand Nederland and Buzzlytics. His journey from pastor to purpose-driven entrepreneur shows how transformation doesn’t erase your past...it gives it new meaning!

In our convo, we explored the defining moments, inner pivots and unshakable values that continue to shape how Daan leads, lives and now prepares to speak from the stage again!

What We Explored:

👉🏾 From pastor to entrepreneur: rewriting identity without losing soul;

👉🏾 Transparency in business: building trust through “They Ask You Answer”;

👉🏾 Living with purpose: how near-death clarity fuels present-day action;

👉🏾 Generosity and excellence: leading with heart in business and life;

👉🏾 Speaking again: why he’s returning to the stage with a deeper story!

Nuggets of Empowerment:

🙌🏾 Excellence isn’t perfection: "it’s presence and intention”

🙌🏾 Trust starts by answering the questions people are afraid to ask;

🙌🏾 Your calling is often hidden in what nearly broke you!

Connect with Daan:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dtschmidt/ 

Website Story Brand Nederland: https://storybrand.nl 

Website Buzzlytics: sthttps://buzzlytics.nl 

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What story have you been holding back, while the world might be waiting to hear it?

✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 37

Behind the Mask, Marie’s movement to humanise the workplace..

What if taking off your mask at work was the most radical leadership act of all?

I had the pleasure of speaking with Marie Chaproniere, founder of the Behind The Mask Community, an invaluable movement reimagining what it means to be authentic in professional spaces. Her path shows how personal adversity can be transformed into a platform for collective healing and workplace change!

In our deep dive aka learning XP on steroids (at least for me), we explored key challenges, turning points and the moments that redefined what success truly means!

What We Explored:

👉🏾 Authenticity at work: unmasking as a practice of courage and connection;

👉🏾 Burnout & boundaries: how misalignment led Marie to rediscover her voice;

👉🏾 Neurodiversity & ADHD: embracing different ways of being and processing;

👉🏾 Cultural identity: weaving her Spanish roots into personal empowerment;

👉🏾 Community & safe spaces: why transformation starts with shared vulnerability!

Nuggets of Empowerment:

🙌🏾 Unmasking is not weakness, but courage: "true leadership is rooted in truth";

🙌🏾 Resilience means knowing when to pause: "strength is also found in stillness";

🙌🏾 We don’t heal in isolation: "change happens through collective reflection!"

Connect with Marie:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariechaproniere/overlay/contact-info/ 

Website Behind The Mask: https://behindthemask.info 

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What part of yourself have you been taught to hide—when it might just be your greatest source of connection?

✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 36

From conflict to code, Khaled’s mission to rebuild through tech..

What if your refugee story became the blueprint for empowering an entire generation?

An open conversation with someone I deeply admire: Khaled Shaaban, Syrian refugee, social entrepreneur and founder of Subul Impact Outsourcing. His journey of resilience, empowerment and transformation is a true testament to defying expectations and creating meaningful systemic change. 

In our deep dive, we explored key challenges, turning points and the moments that reshaped his path to success!

What We Explored:

👉🏾 Subul’s mission: creating remote tech job pathways for youth and women in Syria and the Middle East;

👉🏾 Economic empowerment: measuring impact by how income changes communities;

👉🏾 Identity as power: turning refugee status into a badge of leadership and resilience;

👉🏾 Trauma & drive: channeling the pain of war into a force for rebuilding;

👉🏾 Funding for impact: raising €1M to match 10,000 talents with European tech roles!

Nuggets of Empowerment:

🙌🏾 This is a duty, not a choice: "when mission becomes bigger than self";

🙌🏾 Success is never self-made: "it takes a community to rise";

🙌🏾 We can solve one problem by solving another: "tech as a tool for systemic change!

Connect with Khaled:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/k-shaaban/   

Amazing video on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/k-shaaban_europe-syria-right-activity-7338471309531643904-GQwl  

Website Subul: https://subul.org 

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If purpose could rise from rubble, what could you build with the pieces of your own story?

✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 35

Lighting the Way, Kimberly’s Path from Grief to Growth

What if the most painful loss of your life became the spark that illuminated your purpose?

Feeling privileged to have had a deep dive with Kimberly Fuqua, Microsoft's EMEA Director CX, transformation lead, DEI advocate and founder of Luminous Leaders. Her journey of resilience, empowerment and transformation is a true testament to defying expectations and creating meaningful change. 

In our convo we explored the grief that shaped her, the mission that drives her, and the leadership philosophy rooted in empathy, courage and action!

What We Explored:

👉🏾 Restoring trust through empathy: rebuilding customer relationships with active listening and integrity;

👉🏾 From Microsoft to mission-driven: a career evolution from recruitment to transformation and now coaching;

👉🏾 Inclusion as daily practice: championing diversity, equity and neurodiversity across continents;

👉🏾 Healing through purpose: transforming the loss of her son into light and legacy;

👉🏾 Empowering the next generation: mentoring Gen Z to lead with authenticity and impact;

Nuggets of Empowerment:

🙌🏾 Empowerment starts within: "you don't give power to people; you help them unlock what they already carry";

🙌🏾 Grief is not the end: "loss can shape your leadership, your priorities and your purpose";

🙌🏾 Leadership is human: "vulnerability, presence and listening are more powerful than any title"!

Connect with Kimberly:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-fuqua-842381152/    

Website Kimberly: https://kimberlyfuqua.com    

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What would change if we treated leadership not as a destination, but as a practice of lighting the path...for ourselves and for others?

✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 34

Leading with kindness: Neil’s mission to humanize work and life

What if the most disruptive leadership tool of the future… is kindness?

I had the pleasure speaking with Neil Schambra Stevens, founder of Mercury Jam Coaching and former CMO for brands like Vans and Polaroid. His journey of resilience, empowerment and transformation is a true testament to defying expectations and creating meaningful change. 

In our conversation, we explored key challenges, turning points and the moments that reshaped his path to success!

What we explored:

👉🏾 Kindness as a leadership practice: moving from performance-driven to people-driven cultures;

👉🏾 Burnout & self-care: how personal loss and exhaustion led to a new philosophy of balance;

👉🏾 Corporate to coaching: why leaving global brands was the start of something more human;

👉🏾 The science of kindness: its link to innovation, retention, and psychological safety;

👉🏾 Technology with heart: building an AI-powered kindness & self-coaching app;

Nuggets of empowerment:

🙌🏾 “Kindness isn’t fluffy, it’s a strategic act of leadership”

🙌🏾 “You can’t pour from an empty cup...self-care is the foundation of service”

🙌🏾 “What we do with our 90,000 working hours matters. Let’s use them meaningfully”

Connect with Neil:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neil-schambra-stevens-mercuryjam/ 

Website Mercury Jam: https://www.mercuryjam.com  

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What’s one small, intentional act of kindness you can offer today, to someone else or to yourself?

✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 33

From drivenness to depth: Alisher’s mission to rethink hiring with purpose

Could a billion-euro business problem be solved by asking better questions of ourselves first?

I had the pleasure of speaking with Alisher Jafarov, founder and CEO of Avery, a B2B SaaS company revolutionizing how companies hire. His journey of resilience, empowerment and transformation is a true testament to defying expectations and creating meaningful change.

In our conversation, we explored key challenges, turning points and the moments that reshaped his path to success.

What we explored:

👉🏾 The talent crisis in europe: how misaligned hiring is costing companies more than they think;

👉🏾 AI for good: using technology to match people, purpose and performance;

👉🏾 From corporate to startup life: why leaving a successful career can be a leap toward deeper impact;

👉🏾 Drivenness vs. presence: the tension between ambition and being fully in the moment;

👉🏾 A vision beyond business: building an island for great minds to change the world!

Nuggets of empowerment:

🙌🏾 “Purpose isn’t a luxury...it’s a compass when everything feels uncertain”

🙌🏾 “Being driven is powerful, but not if you forget to stop and breathe”

🙌🏾 “The future of hiring isn’t just faster, it’s more human!!”

Connect with Alisher:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alisherjafarov/ 

Website Avery: https://www.getavery.ai 

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When’s the last time you paused not to plan the next move, but to truly acknowledge how far you’ve already come?

✨Journeys of Empowerment✨ - Episode 32

Procurement with Purpose: Peter’s Path to Inclusion & Authenticity

What if your professional role became a gateway to create systemic change in business and in society?

I had the honour of speaking with Peter Zerp, Inclusive procurement strategy expert at Accenture, ESDP board chair and NGO board member. His journey of resilience, empowerment and transformation is a true testament to defying expectations and creating meaningful change. In our conversation, we explored key challenges, turning points and the moments that reshaped his path to success.

What we explored:

👉🏾 Inclusive procurement: making supplier diversity a strategic priority in global business;

👉🏾 Authenticity at work: the courage to bring your whole self into professional spaces;

👉🏾 Overcoming bias: the daily effort it takes to unlearn assumptions and open doors;

👉🏾 Redefining success: moving from status and titles to meaning and fulfillment;

👉🏾 Personal reflection & growth: why looking inward might be the most radical act of all!

Nuggets of empowerment:

🙌🏾 “Diversity isn’t a ‘nice-to-have’...it’s a necessity for real progress”

🙌🏾 “Authenticity means being honest with yourself first and then with the world”

🙌🏾 “Everyone has something special. We just need to create space for it to be seen”

Connect with Peter:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterzerp/ 

Learn more about ESDP | Empowering ethnic minority businesses:

•  Website: https://esdp-org.eu 

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When was the last time you looked inward, not for flaws but for the quiet brilliance that makes you...you?