Intrinsically Ordered – Détails, épisodes et analyse

I sat down with Chris Dowling to hear his story of loosing his job after coming out, why he still stays religious, how he lives out of the fruits of the spirit, and his upcoming two-year anniversary of being married.

To connect with Chris and hear more of his work, make sure to follow him on Instagram and Facebook.

To support interviews like this, consider supporting my work on Patreon and gain early access to new episodes: patreon.com/gaytradspeaks. I have Simon Kent Fung (creator of Dear Alana), Justin ('EmptyChairsHome' on social media), and a number of other guests lined up to be on the podcast.

The goal of this podcast format is to to hear stories of people at the intersection of queer identity and religion. I've shared plenty about my story and my own thoughts on my main channel, but I wanted to create a second channel dedicated to hearing others' stories - remaining in the church, leaving the church, finding a more accepting denomination, etc. Hopefully these stories can give you more of a perspective and help you make decisions for your faith journey.

If you'd like to be on the podcast, feel free to reach out - contact info is on my channel, or send me a DM.

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The Catholic Church promises 'true peace' to all who follow Him, but what do you do when you don't? What if your existence and wellbeing run contrary to this path that contains the 'fullness of the truth?' Today, I had a longer discussion with my friend Colin (gay, raised FSSP) and Astronaut (gay, former cleric) about my last video 'The Catholic Church Doesn't Know What to Do With Gay People.'

The Intrinsically Ordered Podcast is available on all major podcast platforms and explores the intersection of queer identity and catholicism - sharing stories of those who've left, remained, and created their own journeys; providing commentary on the catholic church's harmful teachings; helping those who've been hurt.

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00:02:00 - Queer Identity and the Church's Structure
00:10:00 - Emotional Impact of Catholicism
00:33:27 - Gay Priests
00:44:12 - Intimacy & Sexuality
00:52:32 - Philosophical Dilemmas
01:02:35 - Navigating Logic Mazes in Theology
01:12:02 - Should You Stay Catholic

To be a guest on the show or to contact, email can be found in channel information

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I left the Catholic Church after spending years as a zealous apologist and having discerned the priesthood. I now live an openly gay life, have a wonderful boyfriend, and have never been happier. This is my story told in detail. I'll have a future video on my philosophical/theological reasons I left after pursuing a degree in theology.

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Chapters
00:00 - intro
02:00 - realizing I was gay at a young age
06:15 - coming out the first time
10:00 - becoming religious
16:50 - applying to be a monk
19:18 - going to a Catholic college
21:18 - deconstructing
24:29 - first date & leaving religion
28:45 - coming out the second time
30:33 - backlash for coming out
34:08 - how I’ve matured
37:00 - my coming out advice
41:20 - people’s reaction aren’t your responsibility
43:46 - this is a HUGE decision
46:48 - if you’re scared to leave

[This is the audio-only version of my existing YouTube video]

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I've left religion entirely, but Justin from  @EmptyChairsHome has found peace in reconciling his catholic faith and his sexuality.

I hope Justin's thoughts can help those of you who choose to stay in religion. You can find Justin on all social platforms as @emptychairshome and at https://empty-chairs.org.

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Chapters
0:00 - Justin's Background
1:02 - The Five Key Questions
1:54 - 1. Who Is God?
7:20 - 2. What Does the Church Say?
14:48 - 3. What’s the Life I Want to Give God?
20:01 - 4. What Does Psychology Say?
25:05 - 5. Jesus, Can I Do This?
28:00 - Advice for Those Struggling with Faith and Sexuality
31:39 - What’s Next for Justin and Empty Chairs?

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Colin is working on a video on spiritual warfare in conservative/traditional catholicism, so we sat down this morning to talk through what spiritual warfare is, how it control peoples, some psychological ideas of why it takes a hold on folks, how it's used to influence politics, some internal consistencies, and some other things.

Yes, this video is directly attacking church teaching and is quite condescending. Why? This teaching, more than almost any other, destroys peoples' lives and takes away peoples' rights. I'm a fan of people choosing religious beliefs that work for them, but this realm is perhaps one of the worst parts of catholicism. Hence, the forceful speaking out.

To support this work, get early access, and join my discord community, please consider supporting me on patreon: patreon.com/c/gayextrad

If you want to be on the show, send me an email! (available on my YT channel)

To join our discord community for $1 or to support my work/get early access to content, check out my patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/gayextrad

To be a guest on the episode, visit my YT channel and send me an email.

In this powerful and candid episode of The Intrinsically Ordered Podcast, we sit down with Andrew, a former Catholic with deep roots in the faith, now part of the Anglican Church. Andrew shares his story of growing up in a devout Catholic family, grappling with his identity as a queer man, and his transformative journey navigating homophobia within the Church.

0:00 Intro
1:45 Andrew’s Catholic Upbringing
7:30 Coming Out in a Religious Family
12:15 Navigating Homophobia in Youth Groups
18:40 Conversion Therapy and Its Impact
24:55 Seminary Life: Challenges and Lessons
32:10 Leaving Catholicism for Anglicanism
39:50 Reconciling Faith and Sexuality
46:35 Andrew’s Spiritual Practices Today
51:10 Advice for Others on Their Journey
55:00 Closing Reflections

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To join our discord community for $1 or to support my work/get early access to content, check out my patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/gayextrad

To be a guest on the episode, visit my YT channel and send me an email.

Trent Horn, a catholic apologist for Catholic Answers and host of the Counsel of Trent show, published a talk recently at Young Americans for Freedom called '7 Questions Liberals Can't Answer.'

I hopped on a call with Veronica from the Leave Laugh Love podcast and my two friends Ben & Colin to respond to some of Trent's questions on socialism, gay marriage, contraception, transgenderism, MAID, and abortion.

Myself and co-host in this episode are all ex-catholic is varying degrees. All opinions are each individual's own (including my own crazy takes).

To join the show on a future episode or submit content for us to react to, shoot me an email (available on my YT channel) or Patreon.

To support this work in fighting radical catholicism, get early access to episodes, and join my discord of ex/current catholics, consider supporting me on patreon: patreon.com/c/gayextrad

To join our discord community for $1 or to support my work/get early access to content, check out my patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/gayextrad

To be a guest on the episode, visit my YT channel and send me an email.

Therese was born into a FSSP parish. She has many good memories, but also many bad memories from her time: an overbearing mother, purity culture, being in the closet, and catholic dating. But now, Therese is living her best life after deconstructing - experiencing the world, practicing witchcraft, and falling in love.

Today, Colin and I sat down with Therese to hear her story and thoughts on life. It was an honor getting to hear her story.

To join our community of ex/current catholics, get early access to videos, and support this work, consider supporting me on patreon: patreon.com/c/gayextrad.

If you'd like to be on the show, please email me - contact info on my YT channel. I'd love to hear your story and thoughts on the world!

To join our discord community for $1 or to support my work/get early access to content, check out my patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/gayextrad

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This episode dives deep into the story of Father Jordan, a gay Catholic priest who recently celebrated his last mass before leaving the ministry. Through this personal and emotional account, we explore themes of faith, resilience, community, and the challenges of leaving a high-demand religious role. Joined by a supportive group of former clerics and laypeople, we reflect on the impact of religious trauma, authenticity, and the hope for new beginnings.

00:00 - Introduction
01:00 - Father Jordan’s Journey
07:00 - The Decision to Leave
14:00 - Supporting His Final Mass
20:00 - Reflections on Faith and Trauma
25:00 - A Message of Hope

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In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode of the Intrinsically Ordered Podcast, we’re joined by Kevin, who shares his journey of growing up in a strict Southern Baptist community while navigating his identity as a gay man. Kevin opens up about his struggles with faith, the emotional toll of reconciling religious teachings with his identity, and how he ultimately found peace and authenticity outside of organized religion. This is a story of courage, resilience, and the pursuit of truth.

To hear more from Keven, follow him on IG @kevenrafael__

00:00 - Welcome to the Intrinsically Ordered Podcast
00:12 - Meet Kevin: Southern Baptist Upbringing
00:25 - Childhood Faith and Religious Expectations
00:59 - Realizing Identity: Early Struggles
03:32 - Reconciling Faith with Sexuality
08:14 - Gradual Doubts and Intellectual Journey
16:00 - Deconstructing Religious Beliefs
28:00 - Finding Peace Outside of Faith

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